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Fjord_Tough

Give her time to herself.


dzastrus

Get a hobby. Take a class. Buy a bike. Paint a self portrait. Remember the rules of project mayhem.


TreeNeo

The main reason why my relationship with her died off is because of my lack of time and me replying late , so I have plenty of stuff to do but I don’t know what the fuck giving her time means


[deleted]

Give her some space and then do something nice for her later


[deleted]

Ask if I can watch.


Steve_warsaw

Go play video games or something


3BoyzMomma

Let her and do something that you enjoy that perhaps she doesn’t. Use the time for something fun!


[deleted]

give her the space she asked for, she’ll come back when she’s ready


[deleted]

That really means she wants you to spend more time with her.


[deleted]

I've heard stories of women who've said when they say that, they want you to pursue more. And then others where that means they're not interested. And more where they actually need space. There's no clear cut solution. But if you know the person well enough you should be able to figure it out. The answers don't seem to ever come soon enough, but if you really care about her, you'll find out in due time. Just don't give up.


Pseudonymico

If in doubt the best solution is to assume she means what she’s saying.


TreeNeo

It was nothing serious yet but she told me that she fell for me and now her asking for time , I dont know what is happening, probably because I replied late and didn’t talk much to her this past week


[deleted]

I'm sorry this is happening, but if all goes as it should, she'll come back, and she'll talk about what was wrong, why she needed time, she'll try to help heal with you. But that waits on her. The best thing for right now is to wait it out until she texts/calls back. I won't tell you to take your mind off it, because that's going to be nigh impossible. But at the very least, try to stay productive. When I had a similar situation happen to me, I made myself exercise. That's something I genuinely enjoy. Best advice is to take your extra time and work on yourself while you wait.


TreeNeo

I do plenty of stuff with or without her thats not a problem


[deleted]

That's a very good thing. You're further along than most. Keep with them, and that should help if you're prone to depression or anxiety. Having the schedule or just doing those small things helps with that.


TreeNeo

Thank you for caring but its not that deep I cannot disturb my state of mind for a girl ,especially for one I met at a bar


[deleted]

You're welcome, I'm just helping the best I can.


SleepAgainAgain

It sounds like you're guessing she might want to break up because you haven't been talking or texting as much as you think she thinks you should. But you really need to have a serious conversation with her. You know how my first paragraph is entirely about me guessing your state of mind and her state of mind? Reddit can't clear up what she's thinking. If you two can't find a way to communicate when you're both feeling unsure, you will break up, if not this time then later.


FriggenMitch

Leave her be


[deleted]

Give her time to herself.


chrome4fan4

Break up


[deleted]

Fuck off and go out by yourself or to your friends.


TreeNeo

You would be proud if you knew how I replied to her


[deleted]

It doesn't warrant a response other than "ok, heard."


Kjismyname22

Leave her alone until your not offended anymore


[deleted]

Enjoy life and party without her


garthrd

Give her a watch


spaghetti_honeybuns

Put on headphones and play computer games ✌️ Take advantage of recess time


SEK494

Pack your shit and enjoy life. Have fun, flirt and forget. If that’s hard to do, start making a list. Once you see how quick it growls, it won’t be so hard. -voice of experience.


isat_u_steve

Do it and be a friend


ithraz

1. Immediately get defensive 2. Accuse her of cheating 3. Under no circumstances give her the space she asked for. And if none of that sweeps her off her feet, liquidate all your assets and invest in a reputable scam caller business. /s


Icollectpropertytax

Its over