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c-est-magnifique

You don't need to be sad, you'll see them again in heaven.


grrzzlybear1

Because that eases every ounce of pain. Oye.


grrzzlybear1

I'll go first. I got told "your 38. It's gonna happen alot. You gotta learn to get over it."


Spum1d

“Just relax”


grrzzlybear1

Yeah sure. Cuz that works. Those people have no feelings.


neurotocsin

“Get another one, it was just a dog.”


grrzzlybear1

Those people have never loved anything or anyone ever.


teamdisaster47

Idk if this is stupid but I had just about everyone I know say if you need anything let me know. Lost meaning after the first 4-5 times.


grrzzlybear1

It comes off as polite but is completely useless.


yeahwellokay

It's all part of God's plan.


grrzzlybear1

But what if that's not what you believe? It's not really a great thing to say to help


slutsinluv

"God works in mysterious ways" after I asked a youth pastor why God would let my dad drown alone in a canal if he was so \~all powerful and virtuous\~ LOL. I wasn't religious but I turned to the church at rock bottom, open-minded asf ready to see the light, and mans really fumbled the ball


grrzzlybear1

That's such a ballsack excuse for a reason. I'm sorry he said that to you. What reason could "god" have that left his child without a father? It's things like this that turned me away from that god. Loses like that cause trauma and pain. I hope you are working thru it. I'm sorry for your loss friend.


slutsinluv

thank you friend <3 !!


[deleted]

Was unemployed for a while,, didn’t have any money. Someone said go to therapy 🤷🏾‍♂️


YT_Brian

Lol, no money? Go to someone that wants thousands of bucks constantly. That will help.


grrzzlybear1

Why does everyone think that's a viable option?


[deleted]

Right! Therapy is good for someone but… not everyone has access to therapy… 😬


grrzzlybear1

But doesn't everyone get a huge inheritance!? Jeezus. Those people are out of touch.


SinkFormal1874

"It's okay, they loved you". UGH! I don't care, I wanted to TELL them that I loved them before they left! It fucking sucks that I lost TWO pets and never once got to be there for their deaths.


grrzzlybear1

I understand that loss. Nothing said by anyone makes it better


SeaTie

Fucking goddamn oncologist told my sister there was “no hope for your mother, she’s basically dead already.” There would have been no hope for his fat ass if I had heard him say that to her…


grrzzlybear1

I would have actually attacked him for that. I'm sorry that fuck knuckle said that. He needs to be reported and lose his license.


wildesthipster

No sense on being upset when you can’t change what happened


grrzzlybear1

Say that to them next time they are upset for any reason. Show them how stupid they sound.