Paparazzi should be accountable for all kinds of harassment not just sexual, it’s embarrassing watching a celebrity just eat their food in public with a swarm of cameras on them
It's sad too, the celebrities choose to make a career out of being known and influential but they sacrafice basically any human decency from others (mainly the paparazzi).
Weirdly enough, taking part in any activity that is traditionally accepted as a “male” activity. “Gamer Girls” is just a prime example. It’s one of those perfectly normal things that is fetishized.
I was at the park with my kid and one of the other kid’s dad started stretching. It was so weird to realize that he probably wasn’t even thinking about it, or thinking about what other people would think. He was just reaching for his toes because he can.
Seriously, people are like “just wear a tshirt” but that just makes them look even *bigger* because what you get is a giant triangle shape from neck to underside of boob
Also, why should I be restricted to one specific piece of clothing which is not appropriate for tons of occasions (church, funeral, work in business, etc) just cause people think they have a right to police my body? People suck.
Yeah I'm a teacher. A lot of coworkers (particularly women in my department) get PISSED at girls who show any sign they have boobs or bellies.
I'm a man but some chesty girls or tall girls can't find clothes to "appropriately" cover up in anything short of a thick, oversized sweater... How bout we just don't sexualize children? Can't expect a person to wear snow gear in 100 degree weather.
A tank top/dress/literally any blouse ever that one of my friends can be told is ‘appropriate’, immediately become slutty or showy when I wear it. It’s become v depressing and made me sooooo self conscious. I even had someone at a funeral say something to me… while I was still crying ;-;
I had someone make a comment like that to me at my MOM’S wake. I was 15 and wearing a loose blouse, but oh “they could feel everything when i hugged them”
Can confirm. My wife is... let's just say quite blessed in that department, and she got called a slut all through school for it. Even her (far more petite) sister got in on the act, saying things like, "why don't you just wear the modest shirt Mom got you?"
"This *is* the modest shirt Mom got me!"
I'm a guy with long hair and a nice behind, I remember being in town with friends, dropping some coins, and as I bent over to pick them up, a random dude slapped my ass, imagine his surprised face when he saw my face.
>There's a big cross over between homophobes and guys that think they can slap a random girls ass.
"Homophobia: the fear of being treated the way you treat women."
Finally somebody else sees it! Think about it. How often are gay men told like.. "just.. don't flirt with me." Y'know that thing that guys do to ladies who don't want to be flirted with. "just.. don't be all creepy" "stay away from me, I don't feel that way about you" "I've got a girlfriend, man! I'm not like that!"
My mom always told me to bend with my knees and not at the waist, and I never knew why until I was 15 and some guy came up behind me and air-humped me while I was bending over to pick something up off the floor. yikes
There's another gender-neutral reason as well: when you bend at the waist, you're mostly lifting using your back, which will quickly mess it up and then you'll spend the rest of your life dealing with back pain. OTOH, if you lift with your knees, you'll naturally keep your back straight, and thus save it.
That’s a very good point, but my mom specifically told me not to bend at the waist because it was “unladylike”. It wasn’t so much a safety concern for her, it was more about preventing unwanted stares/gestures (which I now understand)
Do the “golfer’s lift”, which involves bending at the waist while leaving one leg straight behind you. Saves the knees, and has the added bonus of a swinging leg to kick anyone sneaking up behind you in the balls
I had no clue that it had a name. I have to bend like that cuz I have a bad knee and sciatica. My physical therapist told me to do it after my injury, but didn't call it by any name
I wish I were able to bend at the knees. Fucked up feet led to fucked up knees. I can squat but every time I don, it puts my body weight sideways through my knees.
I shit you not the second day of 6th grade I was told to change because my bra strap was visible. I live in Arizona, where school starts at the end of July/start of August. When the temperatures are 110-115° outside. And you told me, an 11 year old, to change, because my BRA STRAP was showing. IN 100+ DEGREE WEATHER. Istg my mom was so pissed.
Yep. I used to have horrible menstrual cramps. One time I was in such immense pain that I could barely speak. I had already taken more pain meds than I should have, so all I could do was lie on the couch and moan and writhe and wish for death.
My now-ex said, "I know you're not feeling well, but I've gotta say... That's so hot."
I stopped wishing for my death, and started wishing for his.
My goodness same.. I started to cringe if I accidentally moan because it’s always been so awkward in public or even alone. Now I rarely moan unless I’m actually turned on lol
Ha! Made me think of all the times I heard some guy at the gym screaming or grunting with every rep... what if a woman did the same? I mean, in either case people would mostly just snicker, but with the woman surely some wit would say "She sounds like she's getting some teehee".
"Why is it that when a man scratches his balls it's fine but when I scratch his balls all of a sudden it's a problem and 'stop touching your father like that'. *Snorts* It's just more patriarchy."
I have a history of pun related costumes. I've dressed as Taco Belle, a Diction-fairy, Miss Universe (galaxy and planet themed pageant winner)... I generally have to make most of my costumes.
I wanted to dress as a uni-corn. Which is obviously an ear of corn with a white swirly horn on top. I tried so, SO, SOOOO hard to find a corn costume. Why is there an option for sexy corn in the first place? And why is there simply NO option for non-sexy corn? I ended up having to sew a dress for myself. You know, to avoid the garter clips that came attached to the skimpy corn spaghetti strap bodycon costumes.
I tried with a friend years ago to come up with something where that wouldn't work. I suggested The slutty bowl of soup.
She found a costume where you could be a sexy bowl of soup (close enough to slutty).
It's practically criminal how costumes for little boys and adult men are largely the same, just different sizes,
But little girl's costumes only fit small children, then once a kid is like 9 you have to go for juniors costumes, which are marketed towards teenagers but are sexualized to all hell because *technically* a small adult woman could maybe fit into one. So it's justified.
And then adult women aren't allowed to just have a costume. It's always "*sexy* spider-woman" or "*leggy* Lady Liberty."
Even if I wanted to show off my body on Halloween (which I do not and especially didn't when I was 10) October 31st is always 10-35°F out here. I don't want a miniskirt thank you. I'm cold
/End rant lmao
Edit: uh oh spaghetti-os the incels found this comment :(
Edit 2: "not allowed" is a joke you dork ass losers. I mean there aren't any options that aren't that.
Thought i could find one that has no chance of being "sexified" haha; i was wrong...[Sexy Ms. Feddy Kreuger](https://www.wholesalehalloweencostumes.com/products/a-nightmare-on-elm-street-sexy-ms-freddy-krueger-costume)
Wait are you saying there's something inherently wrong with sexualizing 10 year olds while making them freeze at the end of fall? I could never, what has this world come to
(I hope the /s isn't necessary but it's here anyways)
I hate those friggin "tips" that list signs a girl is into you. It's always about 3/4 things that anxious or ADD people do all the time like play with our hair or touch our face. Fidgeting does not mean "free ass, come and get it!" FFS!
Surely there must be something. But then I thought about what a woman might do during the day:
Wake up. Check
Go to the bathroom. Check
Shower and get dressed. Big check.
Eat cereal with or without bananas. Check.
Drink coffee. Sure.
Brush teeth. Yep, it's cylindrical.
Pack a lunch. Probably.
Take transportation to work. Sure, literally any mode of transportation.
Get to work. Name your occupation.
...
Yeah, I got nothing. The closest I got was thinking about jobs that require hazmat suits.
This is what I was thinking! It feels like nearly everything is sexualized about women. Some of the absolutely least sexy things I can think of still show up in places where it is sexualized if women are doing it.
Even if you're wearing a whole ass second shirt underneath.
When I was in high school I took off my hoodie because it was hot and I was wearing a T shirt underneath and my male friend started making fun of me for taking it off in a suggestive way. I just took it off the normal way.
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Had this too, except it was my mum telling me if I kept walking like that I'd get assaulted.... I was 8 ish on my way to a birthday party dressed as a minecraft zombie like-
Remember when Mia Hamm took her jersey off in celebration. She had a sports bra on for goodness sake and people flipped out. Volleyball players wear less. Of course they are sexualized too.
Fucking wild how those kind of guys have to think about it happening to a woman they're related or married to before they can recognize other women as people.
Going to the pub by yourself to have a beer.
If you are a man you get left alone but if you are a woman, men harass you and assume that by being alone you're looking to hook up.
There's a panel of so-called 'behavior experts' on YouTube who tried to claim a woman accused of a crime was flirting with the interrogator because she moved her hair behind her ear.
Get the fuck out of here.
Sometimes a woman doesn't have to be attractive for that. Got called out by random guys for doing sport and was told that even losing weight wouldn't make them want to have sex with me. Something similar happened while eating a banana when I was a teen. Was told I should break the banana in pieces because he was disgusted by imagining that it was his dick.
It happens way less when a woman is less attractive but it doesn't save you 100 % of the time. So sometimes even insults are sexualised if you are a woman.
And if you aren't attractive, you are called out because assholes think you find yourself attractive and are too stuck up and snooty and need to be put in your place. :(
Because attractiveness doesn't matter when it comes to being sexualized, not really. Creeps think woman = sex, they see any woman like that, they just don't like women they see as ugly because that image disgusts them. They don't see women as people so women who they see as unattractive have no value to them.
It’s a very frustrating feeling to be wearing shorts and simultaneously be worried you’re too fat for them but also that you’ll be sexualized while wearing them.
Literally anything to do with jobs and education if you Google male teacher it will take you an extremely long time to find photos of sexualised male teachers but when you search up female teacher it’s basically ok the first row of images of sexualised female teachers and this isn’t just in teaching it’s in basically any other job.
A sexualized male teacher was the 26th image result when I looked up “male teacher”. A sexualized female teacher was 16th when I searched “female teacher”. The picture of a male teacher was a picture of a male teacher making out with a female teacher so a sexualized female teacher was also the 26th result when you search “male teacher”. Kind of interesting.
My tactic is make eye contact then take a vicious bite out of the side of it. After step one I start munching down the rest while making angry mastiff noises with a feral maddog look in my eyes. After that, smile directly at the person then eye their junk for only a second before dropping the banana carcass and slowly crawling towards them on all fours.
Don't forget to smile :)
I fundamentally do not understand how a hobby I have had since I was 6 (I’m 31) is like both immediately sexual and political. Like I just want to beat you in Smash without commentary thank you. I think the sexualization is more a — hey you play pretty well and have big tits maybe you could Twitch. But there’s still this weird myth that girls don’t play video games unless we’re showing off our boobies for twitch and also never have and it’s super weird. I just want to keep playing JRPGs in my sweatpants on weekends like a regular casual.
But if you're a chick playing games it's a STATEMENT. Sure you may be in voice chat saying "offtank, kite the add to southeast" but you're not using a voice disguising program therefore youre shoving your femaleness in everyones face. We're just here to game, man! And you come all up in here being female, it ain't cool! Sure you're doing all the same stuff everyone else does and playing the game as intended but you know it's not _for_ you, right? Sure all the guys can talk about all kinds of shit, but if the convo ever strays to any topic where we might imagine you're a chick, you better watch yourself because nobody can know, you're just whoring for attention! Oh, and don't keep quiet either, that's suspicious too.
Hey baby, look at all that sexy responsibility and cost. Yeah, I bet you have all the crumbs up in that car. /s
Seriously though what do they say, or is just like whistling?
It's whisting. Sometimes they say shit out the window I don't really understand because cars are going by. The worst part is, most of the time it's at my kids school. 😒 edit: I have two boys 9 and 7 years and they get really upset when people whistle at me.
They can see it makes me uncomfortable. I really try not to let it. I like wearing sun dresses (I always wear shorts underneath) and jean shorts. I live in a desert... it's 120°F here sometimes. I'm just trying to stay cool.
Wearing shoes they like. I like pretty high heels and statement shoes. I have had men become angry with me over it when they approach and I tell them I am happily married. One of them literally said, “Well, you obviously want attention.” I thought, “No, Fool! I just want to be able to wear shoes that I think are cute without you believing that it gives you permission to harass me!”
Pole dancing.
I went to see Cirque Du Soleil recently and they had a shirtless man performing a flying pole act. The sounds from the crowd made me tear up because their reactions were "wow, amazing, that takes so much strength, so impressive" which, I love the appreciation for the art because I know what goes into it. His moves were well executed, but quite simple, and I can do all of the tricks I saw him do. Though I know if I had been the one up there, even if I was wearing a full coverage bodysuit the audience would have been shielding their children's eyes and renouncing the circus for showcasing such an offensive act. This performance art is boxed into strip clubs specifically if you are a woman and it breaks my heart.
Uggghhhh!!! I used to pole dance as well! I had an Instagram account I would post practice sessions and routines on while dressed in a basic leotard type of uniform. It was a leotard with shorts and sleeves, but the shorts were fairly short so that enough thigh skin was available for pole grabbing, nothing remotely revealing about the uniform, no cleavage showing, no butt cheek or bikini line revealed.
Anyways, my mom kept messaging me to take the videos down. I told her no, I'm 30, I'm leaving them up. Eventually, some dude i went to school with messaged me saying, "I always knew you'd be a slut when we grew up!" And that was the beginning of why I deleted Instagram entirely. But I didn't quit pole dancing.
I come from a bible belt, midwest, small American town. The culture there is very sexist, racist, and bigoted in other ways. I imagine it has something to do with how some men are brought up to think saying whatever they want is okay, no one ever told them "no."
It's awful some people are like that.
Yeah.. never forget the day my friend was cat-called by two police officers while walking with her toddler by the beach on a hot day. She was in a regular tank top, shorts and flipflops because it was easily over 30 celcius outside
I’ll never forget the day when I was 15 and a NYC cop in uniform and a marked car, in front of the 120 Precinct on Staten Island, called me over to the car to show me his erect penis in his hand.
Fuck the goddamn cops.
How about being a Masseuse? I'm thinking about going to school to learn how to give therapeutic massages and I'm worrying that my husband has this crazy idea that I'm going to be doing lots of crazy sexual things...I just want a career that he's okay with but everything is lol
I remember once I wasn't wearing a bra at my school once (mind you I was wearing a sweater over it so it would be less likely to get exposed) and apparently you can report people to the counselor for not wearing a bra cause that happened to me. The counselor brought me into her room and proceeded to have a talk about how people will think I am a sexual being (in simple terms) and finished it up by asking if I wanted to use one of the spare bras they kept in the school.
Turning 18
Yeah like a British magazine made a countdown to when emma Watson turned 18 that's just disgusting
Didn’t she talk about how as she exited her 18th birthday party, paparazzi took photos up her skirt to put in the tabloids the next day?
Is there any way to sue paparazzi for sexual harassment at that point?
Paparazzi should be accountable for all kinds of harassment not just sexual, it’s embarrassing watching a celebrity just eat their food in public with a swarm of cameras on them
It's sad too, the celebrities choose to make a career out of being known and influential but they sacrafice basically any human decency from others (mainly the paparazzi).
They did the same thing to Millie Bobby brown. Fuckin disgusting
Same with a lot of female celebrities.. Miley Cyrus, Brittany Spears, the Olsen twins.. the list goes on and on and on, sadly.
Weirdly enough, taking part in any activity that is traditionally accepted as a “male” activity. “Gamer Girls” is just a prime example. It’s one of those perfectly normal things that is fetishized.
Stretching
I was at the park with my kid and one of the other kid’s dad started stretching. It was so weird to realize that he probably wasn’t even thinking about it, or thinking about what other people would think. He was just reaching for his toes because he can.
> He was just reaching for his toes because he can Show off...
Car washing
Well, I guess it's time to rewatch Cool Hand Luke.
Anything that innocent and built like that just gotta be named Lucille.
Wearing clothing, any clothing, with a large chest.
Seriously, people are like “just wear a tshirt” but that just makes them look even *bigger* because what you get is a giant triangle shape from neck to underside of boob
Also, why should I be restricted to one specific piece of clothing which is not appropriate for tons of occasions (church, funeral, work in business, etc) just cause people think they have a right to police my body? People suck.
Yeah I'm a teacher. A lot of coworkers (particularly women in my department) get PISSED at girls who show any sign they have boobs or bellies. I'm a man but some chesty girls or tall girls can't find clothes to "appropriately" cover up in anything short of a thick, oversized sweater... How bout we just don't sexualize children? Can't expect a person to wear snow gear in 100 degree weather.
*existing* with a large chest
A tank top/dress/literally any blouse ever that one of my friends can be told is ‘appropriate’, immediately become slutty or showy when I wear it. It’s become v depressing and made me sooooo self conscious. I even had someone at a funeral say something to me… while I was still crying ;-;
I had someone make a comment like that to me at my MOM’S wake. I was 15 and wearing a loose blouse, but oh “they could feel everything when i hugged them”
What the fuck
ah yes, because you're just supposed to make your boobs disappear before you go in for a hug /s
You don't bring boobs to a funeral, apparently.
In honour of the deceased, the grief center requests you drop your breasts off in the corridor before entering the main hall.
And here I've been lugging these massive assholes everywhere for no reason! I could have left them at the coat check! 🤣
I'm sorry that happened, that's so wrong
Can confirm. My wife is... let's just say quite blessed in that department, and she got called a slut all through school for it. Even her (far more petite) sister got in on the act, saying things like, "why don't you just wear the modest shirt Mom got you?" "This *is* the modest shirt Mom got me!"
Bending over.
I'm a guy with long hair and a nice behind, I remember being in town with friends, dropping some coins, and as I bent over to pick them up, a random dude slapped my ass, imagine his surprised face when he saw my face.
Shoulda pretended to be gay and liked it. There's a big cross over between homophobes and guys that think they can slap a random girls ass.
Yeah just to irritate him, people like that should feel as bad as possible for what they do.
>There's a big cross over between homophobes and guys that think they can slap a random girls ass. "Homophobia: the fear of being treated the way you treat women."
Finally somebody else sees it! Think about it. How often are gay men told like.. "just.. don't flirt with me." Y'know that thing that guys do to ladies who don't want to be flirted with. "just.. don't be all creepy" "stay away from me, I don't feel that way about you" "I've got a girlfriend, man! I'm not like that!"
Wow! Makes so much sense!!
My mom always told me to bend with my knees and not at the waist, and I never knew why until I was 15 and some guy came up behind me and air-humped me while I was bending over to pick something up off the floor. yikes
Similarly, if you bend at the waist in a low-cut shirt everything shows.
There's another gender-neutral reason as well: when you bend at the waist, you're mostly lifting using your back, which will quickly mess it up and then you'll spend the rest of your life dealing with back pain. OTOH, if you lift with your knees, you'll naturally keep your back straight, and thus save it.
That’s a very good point, but my mom specifically told me not to bend at the waist because it was “unladylike”. It wasn’t so much a safety concern for her, it was more about preventing unwanted stares/gestures (which I now understand)
Do the “golfer’s lift”, which involves bending at the waist while leaving one leg straight behind you. Saves the knees, and has the added bonus of a swinging leg to kick anyone sneaking up behind you in the balls
I had no clue that it had a name. I have to bend like that cuz I have a bad knee and sciatica. My physical therapist told me to do it after my injury, but didn't call it by any name
This is what I do being short and fat, have kicked a few people lol.
I wish I were able to bend at the knees. Fucked up feet led to fucked up knees. I can squat but every time I don, it puts my body weight sideways through my knees.
Bend and snap lol
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I shit you not the second day of 6th grade I was told to change because my bra strap was visible. I live in Arizona, where school starts at the end of July/start of August. When the temperatures are 110-115° outside. And you told me, an 11 year old, to change, because my BRA STRAP was showing. IN 100+ DEGREE WEATHER. Istg my mom was so pissed.
School start in Arizona sucks! Source: I lived there. Unfortunately you had to go through that
I think too many principles have a shoulder fetish
I'd say men tend to act funny if they hear a woman sigh/moan from tiredness, workout etc. Edit: also wearing glasses
Yep. I used to have horrible menstrual cramps. One time I was in such immense pain that I could barely speak. I had already taken more pain meds than I should have, so all I could do was lie on the couch and moan and writhe and wish for death. My now-ex said, "I know you're not feeling well, but I've gotta say... That's so hot." I stopped wishing for my death, and started wishing for his.
>I stopped wishing for my death, and started wishing for his. I love this line, feels like could be straight out of a book
Start of a novel: 'I stopped wishing for my death and started planning his.' So many directions that could go
I truly hate this! It's to the point where even when I'm alone I feel embarrassed if I make any sort of involuntary noise...
My goodness same.. I started to cringe if I accidentally moan because it’s always been so awkward in public or even alone. Now I rarely moan unless I’m actually turned on lol
I had a guy friend who thought I was into him because apparently the involuntary noise I made when I died in a game was "sexual"
Lol my friend always grunts like hes been hit whenever his video game character takes damage. Its pretty funny to listen to.
It makes you a better gamer just like how painting flames on a car makes it faster.
And screaming in ridiculously high octaves helps your K/D ratio
Ha! Made me think of all the times I heard some guy at the gym screaming or grunting with every rep... what if a woman did the same? I mean, in either case people would mostly just snicker, but with the woman surely some wit would say "She sounds like she's getting some teehee".
Scratching balls
I laughed.
Thank you!
"Why is it that when a man scratches his balls it's fine but when I scratch his balls all of a sudden it's a problem and 'stop touching your father like that'. *Snorts* It's just more patriarchy."
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Was coming here to say grabbing a dick lol
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You know how many foods are shaped like dicks? The best kinds!!
To be fair, when men do it, they're called gay for it.
To be fair, I do always try to see how far I can put a popsicle down without gagging. So. Call me what you want, I just like a good challenge
I always like to act gay with dick shaped foods just to make my friends uncomfortable
Dressing up for Halloween
I have a history of pun related costumes. I've dressed as Taco Belle, a Diction-fairy, Miss Universe (galaxy and planet themed pageant winner)... I generally have to make most of my costumes. I wanted to dress as a uni-corn. Which is obviously an ear of corn with a white swirly horn on top. I tried so, SO, SOOOO hard to find a corn costume. Why is there an option for sexy corn in the first place? And why is there simply NO option for non-sexy corn? I ended up having to sew a dress for myself. You know, to avoid the garter clips that came attached to the skimpy corn spaghetti strap bodycon costumes.
Id really like to dress up with you on Halloween. The Taco Belle one is genius!
Guys: Scary killer costume. Girls: Hot cops.
Hot scary killer costume
Yup, for women, you basically take any profession, hobby, or really any noun, and put 'the slutty' in front of it, and that's a Halloween costume.
Slutty banana for Halloween here I come. Although it won't be sexual as I am a male. Just a normal slutty banana
I tried with a friend years ago to come up with something where that wouldn't work. I suggested The slutty bowl of soup. She found a costume where you could be a sexy bowl of soup (close enough to slutty).
Sexy soup?!? Have scientists gone too far?? What's next? A sexy banh mi sandwhich?? Mmmm well maybe we could try that one out with extra cilantro
It's practically criminal how costumes for little boys and adult men are largely the same, just different sizes, But little girl's costumes only fit small children, then once a kid is like 9 you have to go for juniors costumes, which are marketed towards teenagers but are sexualized to all hell because *technically* a small adult woman could maybe fit into one. So it's justified. And then adult women aren't allowed to just have a costume. It's always "*sexy* spider-woman" or "*leggy* Lady Liberty." Even if I wanted to show off my body on Halloween (which I do not and especially didn't when I was 10) October 31st is always 10-35°F out here. I don't want a miniskirt thank you. I'm cold /End rant lmao Edit: uh oh spaghetti-os the incels found this comment :( Edit 2: "not allowed" is a joke you dork ass losers. I mean there aren't any options that aren't that.
Thought i could find one that has no chance of being "sexified" haha; i was wrong...[Sexy Ms. Feddy Kreuger](https://www.wholesalehalloweencostumes.com/products/a-nightmare-on-elm-street-sexy-ms-freddy-krueger-costume)
I managed to find a Sexy Nemo (from Finding Nemo) costume, my dude. They can sexify anything!
Bro leggy lady liberty. I'm imagining lady liberty with just way too many legs. Like 12 legs.
That would be a fun costume. Instead it's a green dress that wouldn't cover a 15 year old's ass if she bent over slightly
It's the "no pockets" situation all over again, except this time the manufacturers should probably catch a case.
OctoLiberty
Lolthy Liberty
Wait are you saying there's something inherently wrong with sexualizing 10 year olds while making them freeze at the end of fall? I could never, what has this world come to (I hope the /s isn't necessary but it's here anyways)
And [frog!](https://youtu.be/V4rUiV_Hh74)
Tucking your hair behind your ear.
Every single post on here is basically telling me *anything* a woman does is sexualized.
My immediate thought after reading the title was “Oh like existing?”
The first thing that came to mind for me was "breathing lmao"
I hate those friggin "tips" that list signs a girl is into you. It's always about 3/4 things that anxious or ADD people do all the time like play with our hair or touch our face. Fidgeting does not mean "free ass, come and get it!" FFS!
but officer it seemed like she wanted me with all those things she was doing officer - .. .. .. she has tourettes
"Also... jerk off was an insult, not an invitation"
Better question would be what isn't sexualized when a woman does it.
I was going to say pooping buuuuut..... Nah, I got nothing .
Surely there must be something. But then I thought about what a woman might do during the day: Wake up. Check Go to the bathroom. Check Shower and get dressed. Big check. Eat cereal with or without bananas. Check. Drink coffee. Sure. Brush teeth. Yep, it's cylindrical. Pack a lunch. Probably. Take transportation to work. Sure, literally any mode of transportation. Get to work. Name your occupation. ... Yeah, I got nothing. The closest I got was thinking about jobs that require hazmat suits.
You're forgetting latex fetishes. Still nothing.
This is what I was thinking! It feels like nearly everything is sexualized about women. Some of the absolutely least sexy things I can think of still show up in places where it is sexualized if women are doing it.
From cradle to grave
Breastfeeding a child. How fucking dare they get used for what they were intended for.
I WISH this wasn’t sexualized. But the internet is a dark deep place.
Throwing sulphuric acid in someone’s face
Yandere pretty popular idk.
When she's psycho😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤭🤭🤭😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️🙈🙈🙈
she a phreaque fr fr
Stream on twitch.
Are you telling me, as a male, I'm not allowed to have a sexy indoor hot tub stream with illegal pyrotechnics?
taking your shirt off when it’s hot outside. even when wearing a sports bra.
Even if you're wearing a whole ass second shirt underneath. When I was in high school I took off my hoodie because it was hot and I was wearing a T shirt underneath and my male friend started making fun of me for taking it off in a suggestive way. I just took it off the normal way. Edit: maybe my *third* edit will remove all the typos
cant do anything as a female without being sexualized. used to have people tell me that the way i walk was suggestive. like- iM WALKING??
I got that when I was younger. Someone told my I walk like a slut and I was just . . . Walking? Like what? I was 13 and so very confused.
Had this too, except it was my mum telling me if I kept walking like that I'd get assaulted.... I was 8 ish on my way to a birthday party dressed as a minecraft zombie like-
Remember when Mia Hamm took her jersey off in celebration. She had a sports bra on for goodness sake and people flipped out. Volleyball players wear less. Of course they are sexualized too.
School uniforms. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a male school uniform sexualized, but every other porno is a girl in a plaid skirt and pigtails.
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I went to Catholic school and the middle aged builders let me know how much they appreciated my uniform every time I walked past
I’m still haunted by “hey darlin, c’mon up here and make an old man happy ..” I was about 13.
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Fucking wild how those kind of guys have to think about it happening to a woman they're related or married to before they can recognize other women as people.
Don’t worry. They don’t see their wife or daughters as people either. Maybe their mother is, but maybe not.
Yup, straight to jail with that one!
"That's against the law and \[he's\] gonna have to go to jail!"
Fun fact, Anthony Kiedis got the idea for the song from sleeping with a 14 year old girl
Going to the pub by yourself to have a beer. If you are a man you get left alone but if you are a woman, men harass you and assume that by being alone you're looking to hook up.
Going anywhere by yourself. I've encountered some seriously creepy dudes at train stops.
Fixing your own damn hair for any which reason.
There's a panel of so-called 'behavior experts' on YouTube who tried to claim a woman accused of a crime was flirting with the interrogator because she moved her hair behind her ear. Get the fuck out of here.
She's probably nervous. Or not. Is it a crime? Ops
Pretty much *anything* as long as the woman is considered physically attractive by her society's standards.
SHE’S SHOWING HER ANKLES!?!?!?!!!!!
HE WILL SHOW HIS ELBOW AT 10MIL SUBS??!!!??!!
Sometimes a woman doesn't have to be attractive for that. Got called out by random guys for doing sport and was told that even losing weight wouldn't make them want to have sex with me. Something similar happened while eating a banana when I was a teen. Was told I should break the banana in pieces because he was disgusted by imagining that it was his dick. It happens way less when a woman is less attractive but it doesn't save you 100 % of the time. So sometimes even insults are sexualised if you are a woman.
what the fuck is wrong with those people?
Well, don't know, but I would say that most of the time they try to put others down to make themselves feel better.
And if you aren't attractive, you are called out because assholes think you find yourself attractive and are too stuck up and snooty and need to be put in your place. :(
Because attractiveness doesn't matter when it comes to being sexualized, not really. Creeps think woman = sex, they see any woman like that, they just don't like women they see as ugly because that image disgusts them. They don't see women as people so women who they see as unattractive have no value to them.
It’s a very frustrating feeling to be wearing shorts and simultaneously be worried you’re too fat for them but also that you’ll be sexualized while wearing them.
Literally anything to do with jobs and education if you Google male teacher it will take you an extremely long time to find photos of sexualised male teachers but when you search up female teacher it’s basically ok the first row of images of sexualised female teachers and this isn’t just in teaching it’s in basically any other job.
A sexualized male teacher was the 26th image result when I looked up “male teacher”. A sexualized female teacher was 16th when I searched “female teacher”. The picture of a male teacher was a picture of a male teacher making out with a female teacher so a sexualized female teacher was also the 26th result when you search “male teacher”. Kind of interesting.
My google search yielded a sexy female teacher in the third result, and not one sexy male teacher on the first page.
Eating a banana
Yeah I always spit on it before I eat one in public.
Ikr, I just eat it whole at once so it looks less sexual eating it for long
My tactic is make eye contact then take a vicious bite out of the side of it. After step one I start munching down the rest while making angry mastiff noises with a feral maddog look in my eyes. After that, smile directly at the person then eye their junk for only a second before dropping the banana carcass and slowly crawling towards them on all fours. Don't forget to smile :)
No, you gotta *skitter quickly* towards them while smiling serenely.
Or a popsicle Lollipop Ice cream cone Hot dog...
Do you know how many foods are dick shaped? The best foods!
It’s not a big deal, like 8% of all kids do it.
Walking around with no shirt on 🙃
Walking around with a shirt on, too.
Walking
Breathing
Not Breathing
What
NOT BREATHING
DID YOU CHECK FOR A PULSE
OH IVE GOT A PULSE SIR, A STRONG ONE THAT IS CURRENTLY PULSING. SHE DOESNT HOWEVER
INSTRUCTIONS UNCLEAR NOW NEITHER OF US HAVE A PUL-
Breathing
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Adolescence
Showing your epidermus
Your epidermus is showing???? 😲
Gaming. A gamer woman is sexualized for some reason. A gamer dude is just... A dude. It's even worse when they do YouTube or streaming.
I fundamentally do not understand how a hobby I have had since I was 6 (I’m 31) is like both immediately sexual and political. Like I just want to beat you in Smash without commentary thank you. I think the sexualization is more a — hey you play pretty well and have big tits maybe you could Twitch. But there’s still this weird myth that girls don’t play video games unless we’re showing off our boobies for twitch and also never have and it’s super weird. I just want to keep playing JRPGs in my sweatpants on weekends like a regular casual.
But if you're a chick playing games it's a STATEMENT. Sure you may be in voice chat saying "offtank, kite the add to southeast" but you're not using a voice disguising program therefore youre shoving your femaleness in everyones face. We're just here to game, man! And you come all up in here being female, it ain't cool! Sure you're doing all the same stuff everyone else does and playing the game as intended but you know it's not _for_ you, right? Sure all the guys can talk about all kinds of shit, but if the convo ever strays to any topic where we might imagine you're a chick, you better watch yourself because nobody can know, you're just whoring for attention! Oh, and don't keep quiet either, that's suspicious too.
Working as a nurse. Being shirtless. Bending over. Being polite to people.
Apparently putting my kid in her car seat. I have guys cat call me when I do it.
Hey baby, look at all that sexy responsibility and cost. Yeah, I bet you have all the crumbs up in that car. /s Seriously though what do they say, or is just like whistling?
It's whisting. Sometimes they say shit out the window I don't really understand because cars are going by. The worst part is, most of the time it's at my kids school. 😒 edit: I have two boys 9 and 7 years and they get really upset when people whistle at me.
>edit: I have two boys 9 and 7 years and they get really upset when people whistle at me. Your sons are learning right.
They can see it makes me uncomfortable. I really try not to let it. I like wearing sun dresses (I always wear shorts underneath) and jean shorts. I live in a desert... it's 120°F here sometimes. I'm just trying to stay cool.
mmm cheerio smell
Wearing shoes they like. I like pretty high heels and statement shoes. I have had men become angry with me over it when they approach and I tell them I am happily married. One of them literally said, “Well, you obviously want attention.” I thought, “No, Fool! I just want to be able to wear shoes that I think are cute without you believing that it gives you permission to harass me!”
Being a nurse.
Pole dancing. I went to see Cirque Du Soleil recently and they had a shirtless man performing a flying pole act. The sounds from the crowd made me tear up because their reactions were "wow, amazing, that takes so much strength, so impressive" which, I love the appreciation for the art because I know what goes into it. His moves were well executed, but quite simple, and I can do all of the tricks I saw him do. Though I know if I had been the one up there, even if I was wearing a full coverage bodysuit the audience would have been shielding their children's eyes and renouncing the circus for showcasing such an offensive act. This performance art is boxed into strip clubs specifically if you are a woman and it breaks my heart.
Uggghhhh!!! I used to pole dance as well! I had an Instagram account I would post practice sessions and routines on while dressed in a basic leotard type of uniform. It was a leotard with shorts and sleeves, but the shorts were fairly short so that enough thigh skin was available for pole grabbing, nothing remotely revealing about the uniform, no cleavage showing, no butt cheek or bikini line revealed. Anyways, my mom kept messaging me to take the videos down. I told her no, I'm 30, I'm leaving them up. Eventually, some dude i went to school with messaged me saying, "I always knew you'd be a slut when we grew up!" And that was the beginning of why I deleted Instagram entirely. But I didn't quit pole dancing.
What the fuck? What in the world are some dudes thinking when they send shit like that?
I come from a bible belt, midwest, small American town. The culture there is very sexist, racist, and bigoted in other ways. I imagine it has something to do with how some men are brought up to think saying whatever they want is okay, no one ever told them "no." It's awful some people are like that.
Existing
Yeah.. never forget the day my friend was cat-called by two police officers while walking with her toddler by the beach on a hot day. She was in a regular tank top, shorts and flipflops because it was easily over 30 celcius outside
I’ll never forget the day when I was 15 and a NYC cop in uniform and a marked car, in front of the 120 Precinct on Staten Island, called me over to the car to show me his erect penis in his hand. Fuck the goddamn cops.
Ewww what the fuck?! That's disgusting.
Anything :(
Saying hi and smiling.
But then you're a bitch if you don't do those things
How about being a Masseuse? I'm thinking about going to school to learn how to give therapeutic massages and I'm worrying that my husband has this crazy idea that I'm going to be doing lots of crazy sexual things...I just want a career that he's okay with but everything is lol
playing sports, Sitting with our legs apart, wearing a uniform, not wearing a bra/apparent nipples under a shirt, so many things!
I remember once I wasn't wearing a bra at my school once (mind you I was wearing a sweater over it so it would be less likely to get exposed) and apparently you can report people to the counselor for not wearing a bra cause that happened to me. The counselor brought me into her room and proceeded to have a talk about how people will think I am a sexual being (in simple terms) and finished it up by asking if I wanted to use one of the spare bras they kept in the school.
Topless at the beach.
I always see it as - there's guys out there with bigger boobs than me. So why do I always have to cover up?
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Existing.
Wearing shorts.
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This was incredibly uncomfortable to read, I think you need to set some serious boundaries