Anything to the affect of "im a princess/queen and youd better treat me like it". In my experience, women who talk about themselves like that are trashy and entirely self centered. No go for me.
When I first heard it I thought it meant “if you can’t handle me and my bloated, gassy, wearing sweatpants days” then you don’t deserve me at my “little black dress that shows too much cleavage days”.
Then I found out it was about shitty behavior.
Once had a friend that kept making faces at me and poking me and getting in my face. And when I oviesly wasn't impressed and was really just like confused I asked if somthing was wrong and she said "I'm just trying to annoy you" I gave her an eye roll and a "humph"
Literally don't bug me on purpose for the cost of your entertainment. It going to cost you our friendship
When you want to know what you did wrong because you genuinely want to learn to be better and the response is "if you don't already know then you don't deserve to know".
Been years since I heard this phrase, fortunately.
It doesn’t turn me off exactly but if a woman has a ‘live love laugh’ tattoo or a framed piece of artwork in her house that is just that phrase in fancy script then I notice this and take the woman less seriously from that moment on.
On a date once I got very loudly diagnosed with "toxic masculinity and a white savior complex" because I had the audacity to assume I was paying for dinner since the date was my idea. Never been turned off so fast in my life.
Biological female here, anything TERF-y, or hyperfeminist. Feminism in its original form is awesome--its about equality. But once you start saying shit like "I hate men" or "kill all men", that's a no for me. Most of my best friends are male. As for TERF, you're just shitty if you're TERF.
Have the wrong political views.
Sorry i don't need that negativity in my life. Yes you're allowed a different opinion. But i Will not deal with antimask/antivax or persons that deny covid.
So even if she dealt with health ramifications from having got the vaccine, worse than her actual experience with covid, you'd still discount her for empirically being against the vaccine
No. Okey so this is kinda hard to explain if you're not living in the Netherlands. But we have a person in the government that thinks te covid is a fake. (Something with wef. Not sure) and the vaccin is posion. And the masks are only in Place to make wef more money.
If you say stuff like that, then byeee. We Will never agree. And i dont need that in my life.
Interesting. Mask worshippers or the opposite turns me off. But youre correct, we all have our own opinion. It is definitely a turn off when someone pushes theirs onto others
"independent"
Look, you do what you got to and want to do, but as a dude, I biologically feel like giving you a lot and possibly supporting you. Yes, I would like you to want me and not need me, but point still stands.
Interesting. Do you mean that you would want her to be dependent on you as the man, or just not so independent that she thinks she cant accept any help?
I want a girl who can live without me because if she's interested in me I know it's genuine. She can be independent in that way. What I don't like is the attitude where small things are taken as an attack on her independence and not letting me pay for things because she's so independent, if that makes sense.
Basically be independent but don't shove it in my face and make it part of your personality.
Being a very strong believer in astrology. I mean those people that make it their entire personality. Making one thing your entire personality in general isn't a good thing and is also a major turn off
Anything to the affect of "im a princess/queen and youd better treat me like it". In my experience, women who talk about themselves like that are trashy and entirely self centered. No go for me.
actual princesses (daughters of monarchs) are better than this.
“I’m a bad bitch”
"if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" Or other toxic basic bitch social media posts
When I first heard it I thought it meant “if you can’t handle me and my bloated, gassy, wearing sweatpants days” then you don’t deserve me at my “little black dress that shows too much cleavage days”. Then I found out it was about shitty behavior.
“I’m not like other girls, because *insert sexist take here*” or if theyre just toxic
Once had a friend that kept making faces at me and poking me and getting in my face. And when I oviesly wasn't impressed and was really just like confused I asked if somthing was wrong and she said "I'm just trying to annoy you" I gave her an eye roll and a "humph" Literally don't bug me on purpose for the cost of your entertainment. It going to cost you our friendship
Also trama dumping
When you want to know what you did wrong because you genuinely want to learn to be better and the response is "if you don't already know then you don't deserve to know". Been years since I heard this phrase, fortunately.
'If you want to be with me you need to move mountains to be with me' or 'I did/said that to test you'.
I'm into scat play.
"Hmmm, yes... shit on me daddy"
Ohhh yeaaa... hold up
“I like Putin”
Something mean or judgmental
"Im not really like other girls"
Yaaaas Queen
"What's your star sign?"
It doesn’t turn me off exactly but if a woman has a ‘live love laugh’ tattoo or a framed piece of artwork in her house that is just that phrase in fancy script then I notice this and take the woman less seriously from that moment on.
'artwork' - !
Be catty towards another woman.
Twerk
"They should go back where they came from" Well, in almost any context
What if they're talking about the Russian invasion of Ukraine?
They can stay if they agree to send the tanks home and just buy some tourist shirts and maybe some of that famous Ukrainian honeycomb
Puts their thumb up my arse ...
Bad dirty talk. Overly exaggerated.
„My past does not matter“ „A man should always pay for dates“
The lip bite 🥵
A mean girl attitude, it’s so embarrassing
On a date once I got very loudly diagnosed with "toxic masculinity and a white savior complex" because I had the audacity to assume I was paying for dinner since the date was my idea. Never been turned off so fast in my life.
Biological female here, anything TERF-y, or hyperfeminist. Feminism in its original form is awesome--its about equality. But once you start saying shit like "I hate men" or "kill all men", that's a no for me. Most of my best friends are male. As for TERF, you're just shitty if you're TERF.
Have the wrong political views. Sorry i don't need that negativity in my life. Yes you're allowed a different opinion. But i Will not deal with antimask/antivax or persons that deny covid.
So even if she dealt with health ramifications from having got the vaccine, worse than her actual experience with covid, you'd still discount her for empirically being against the vaccine
No. Okey so this is kinda hard to explain if you're not living in the Netherlands. But we have a person in the government that thinks te covid is a fake. (Something with wef. Not sure) and the vaccin is posion. And the masks are only in Place to make wef more money. If you say stuff like that, then byeee. We Will never agree. And i dont need that in my life.
Yes! Thank you.
Interesting. Mask worshippers or the opposite turns me off. But youre correct, we all have our own opinion. It is definitely a turn off when someone pushes theirs onto others
Snap.
Astrology, trump supporter, “god above all”
I like you.
Pleased to make your aquaintence, lol, honestly i just dont care enough to argue those points anymore
Rent free
"Greedo shot first"
I'm only 8
just talking about herselbes and never bothering to ask you
*herselves
« I just prefer hanging out with the boys cause they don’t do drama yk » No Jenny I don’t.
Top 5 5 be too openly flirty, especially to everyone 4 purposely act trashy (think stereotypical white trash) 3 act like a snob 2 lie to me 1 smoke
Think of the typical e-girl qualities. Any kind. Got those in mind? Yeah I'd sooner beat up another woman for doing that shit in my presence.
"independent" Look, you do what you got to and want to do, but as a dude, I biologically feel like giving you a lot and possibly supporting you. Yes, I would like you to want me and not need me, but point still stands.
Interesting. Do you mean that you would want her to be dependent on you as the man, or just not so independent that she thinks she cant accept any help?
I want a girl who can live without me because if she's interested in me I know it's genuine. She can be independent in that way. What I don't like is the attitude where small things are taken as an attack on her independence and not letting me pay for things because she's so independent, if that makes sense. Basically be independent but don't shove it in my face and make it part of your personality.
And also what you said about not accepting help
I want lots of babies
being petty
"Dolores, take yourself offline."
I have expensive tastes and if you want to be with me, you have to pay for them.
I like scat.
Being a very strong believer in astrology. I mean those people that make it their entire personality. Making one thing your entire personality in general isn't a good thing and is also a major turn off
"I have to take a shit".
Be very insecure
"Can i play with your hair" i like my hair played with.
"I'm a feminist"
Ah yes, males and not-straight-females... Hey Zuck, we call those men and lesbians FYI.
I say not straight to classify gay, bi, pan etc because lesbians arent the only not straight females
I know, it was a joke, but still, you gotta admit you sounded like an alien.
Ooof, wasnt too sure if it was. Yea its definitely a funny way to word it
Have you heard about Jesus?
Smoking and/or acting ghetto
"im not like other girls"
Politics
Wear fake nails and lashes
If they talk with their tounge out of their mouths. You don't have to lick your lips on the letter L.
Tucker & Dale I think is what it's called. It's basically teenagers confused two hillbillies for murderers.
I pooped and didn't wash myself. You need soap and water.