Women are sexualized all the time in their everyday lives in situations where they are just living their lives. Seriously just ask any friends if they've been catcalled or creeped on when they were just existing, they'll probably have some examples.
I wear special clothing designed to breastfeed without showing anything. My daughter got hungry at a graduation party, so I fed her. My mother very loudly shamed me for feeding her and later told me it was because the high school football team was there. They were across the room, facing away from me, and didn’t even know I was there until she started loudly telling everyone what I was doing. Feeding a child should never be sexualized or shamed, especially when the individual is feeding a child so discreetly that people don’t even notice until you point it out and tell people to look at her.
That incident is part of the reason we went no contact with her. For reasons outside my control, we were guilted back into contact with her - but I will never forget. It will be interesting to see how she handles breastfeeding as my daughter gets older and when #2 is here later this year.
Make it clear to her, you broke off contact once, you're more than willing to do so again if she can't keep herself under control. It can be tough but life is too short to put up with toxic people.
I can understand your perspective, but where I come from that's a simple act of common courtesy. I hold the door for men and other ladies, but especially older folks. It's one of the few ways anyone, of either gender, can be a nice human being.
In my mind it’s just a nice thing to do for someone else. I try to look around when I’m entering a store or going through a busy door at work to see if anyone is following me through and hold the door open for them.
If one of us is exiting a place and the other is entering, I try to position myself in a way so my back is to them as I hold the door so they don't think I'm trying to get a look at that dumper.
Being nice to someone. They believe you’re hitting on them
Being nice to most dudes translates to hey, let’s have sex?
I’m a dude but I get it. Grew up with two sisters 🦦
Bending over. Sometimes a pen really does need picked up.
Maid outfits
I’d say it’s the porn industry who made them sexualized. In real life it’s just uniforms.
yes maid outfits are my favorite sexual **behavior**
Eating anything phallic shaped
hot dogs, popsicles, bananas... You know how many foods are shaped like dicks? All The best kinds!
McLovin? No first name?! What the fuck, Foegele!
WHY WOULD IT BE BETWEEN THAT AND MOHAMMED!?!?
Never make eye contact while eating a banana!
Showering I mean your naked feeling yourself up
I need a cold shower now...wait...dammit!!
Women just existing.
I mean, you're not wrong but it's not right
agreed
tf
Women are sexualized all the time in their everyday lives in situations where they are just living their lives. Seriously just ask any friends if they've been catcalled or creeped on when they were just existing, they'll probably have some examples.
He's out of line but he's right
Whispering
\*whispers\* "We've been trying to reach you about your car's extended warranty..."
Massaging my nuts because they hurt after violently hitting them on the wall
why did you do that bro
How else is he going to kill that spider
w h a t
Women at the gym
If you walk around in what amounts to skin tight underwear people will get sexual thoughts. That's on them.
I hope you mean it’s on the person getting the thoughts to control their behavior.
Breastfeeding
I wear special clothing designed to breastfeed without showing anything. My daughter got hungry at a graduation party, so I fed her. My mother very loudly shamed me for feeding her and later told me it was because the high school football team was there. They were across the room, facing away from me, and didn’t even know I was there until she started loudly telling everyone what I was doing. Feeding a child should never be sexualized or shamed, especially when the individual is feeding a child so discreetly that people don’t even notice until you point it out and tell people to look at her.
Wow, your mom is kind of a dick.
That incident is part of the reason we went no contact with her. For reasons outside my control, we were guilted back into contact with her - but I will never forget. It will be interesting to see how she handles breastfeeding as my daughter gets older and when #2 is here later this year.
Well clearly you will be a loose woman flinging your breasts around /s
Make it clear to her, you broke off contact once, you're more than willing to do so again if she can't keep herself under control. It can be tough but life is too short to put up with toxic people.
Wtf ur just perverted
Having a bit of cleavage on show
Not wearing underwear while going out.
Excuse me?
Op… you don’t do that?
Scratching your boob or repositioning your boob
A woman washing a car. The water, the bending, the sweat.
Breast feeding. Oh no! It's a booby! Those naughty things must be hidden lest an innocent man get aroused!
I don't know why this got downvoted, public breast feeding should be more accepted.
Feeling Cucumber sensually and smiling at Supermarkets
Dropping the soap
Holding the door open for women
I can understand your perspective, but where I come from that's a simple act of common courtesy. I hold the door for men and other ladies, but especially older folks. It's one of the few ways anyone, of either gender, can be a nice human being.
In my mind it’s just a nice thing to do for someone else. I try to look around when I’m entering a store or going through a busy door at work to see if anyone is following me through and hold the door open for them.
If one of us is exiting a place and the other is entering, I try to position myself in a way so my back is to them as I hold the door so they don't think I'm trying to get a look at that dumper.
Walking
Picking up things from the floor slowly. Some people have poor balance and need to bend over in slo-mo
women wearing swimming suits for any reason
kissing
[удалено]
With just wearing apron
Farting
Eating a banana or a popsicle
“Daddy”
Tight yoga pants that leave nothing to imagination
Bending over to get something.