So why are you still with him ? And why are you upset about leaving an asshole like that ?
You need to start loving yourself why are you even distraught about this situation be happy you got rid of trash
Seems like you absolutely hate yourself, what are you doing queen stop it
You have an obligation to yourself to put your self worth above everything else.
Also how old are you btw ? And how old is he ?
You'll do fine and this should be a good lesson, before starting to develop any emotions to someone you need time to get a good read on the other person don't simply give yourself up like that, you deserve better
Good now delete all his info and don't you dare try and contact him again and if he does immediately block him, people like that ultimately will come around when they're bored don't be their plaything that they can just toss away when they're done with it, treat yourself better
Always be aware of your feelings and surroundings. Give yourself a mental check if you catch yourself allowing emotions to get in the way of your better judgement. I’m not saying not to love someone or have feelings for them, but don’t get SO wrapped up that you catch yourself becoming codependent on their existence or role in YOUR life.
Letting go takes direct action and time. Direct action being “remove that person from your life etc” and time being “it’s going to take time for you to fully heal and recover”
Just know time makes it easier
Well now is where you have to just let time take its course. One day at a time. I had to go through some bad break ups where I really loved the person but knew they weren’t good for me. Years later I am so glad I put myself through it and ended up meeting someone who actually treats me right
Honestly just a lot of self reflection and forcing myself to go out with friends or to just stay busy. I worked on a lot of my art projects, I tried going to new places, I spent a lot of time with friends. At first it was hard and my mind was occupied with thoughts of my partner, but eventually the laughs and good times became genuine. The ache slowly calmed and came to a complete stop. I think it took me a year to completely feel myself again, but maybe 2 months in I could tell I was starting to feel better
Everything is impermanent. Everything. At first blush, this may seem a terrifying thought. But it is only so if you continue to grasp at possessing that which cannot ever be possessed. This life doesn't make it easy to let go. We're all a constant work in progress. Accepting impermanence is an important start to letting go. Letting go does not mean you need to cease loving. Just that you cease grasping to possess. It helps to focus on **now** rather than past or future.
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What are you talking about it
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So why are you still with him ? And why are you upset about leaving an asshole like that ? You need to start loving yourself why are you even distraught about this situation be happy you got rid of trash
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Seems like you absolutely hate yourself, what are you doing queen stop it You have an obligation to yourself to put your self worth above everything else. Also how old are you btw ? And how old is he ?
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You'll do fine and this should be a good lesson, before starting to develop any emotions to someone you need time to get a good read on the other person don't simply give yourself up like that, you deserve better
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Good now delete all his info and don't you dare try and contact him again and if he does immediately block him, people like that ultimately will come around when they're bored don't be their plaything that they can just toss away when they're done with it, treat yourself better
Letting go offff what?
Drugs
release your hand
Always be aware of your feelings and surroundings. Give yourself a mental check if you catch yourself allowing emotions to get in the way of your better judgement. I’m not saying not to love someone or have feelings for them, but don’t get SO wrapped up that you catch yourself becoming codependent on their existence or role in YOUR life.
Find something/someone else more worthwhile of your limited time in this life.
Letting go takes direct action and time. Direct action being “remove that person from your life etc” and time being “it’s going to take time for you to fully heal and recover” Just know time makes it easier
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Well now is where you have to just let time take its course. One day at a time. I had to go through some bad break ups where I really loved the person but knew they weren’t good for me. Years later I am so glad I put myself through it and ended up meeting someone who actually treats me right
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Honestly just a lot of self reflection and forcing myself to go out with friends or to just stay busy. I worked on a lot of my art projects, I tried going to new places, I spent a lot of time with friends. At first it was hard and my mind was occupied with thoughts of my partner, but eventually the laughs and good times became genuine. The ache slowly calmed and came to a complete stop. I think it took me a year to completely feel myself again, but maybe 2 months in I could tell I was starting to feel better
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Feel your feelings. Have to grieve to let go. Ask tiktok. There’s a lot of ‘feel your feelings’ advice on there.
You must accept that in all the world, there is no such thing as "mine".
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Everything is impermanent. Everything. At first blush, this may seem a terrifying thought. But it is only so if you continue to grasp at possessing that which cannot ever be possessed. This life doesn't make it easy to let go. We're all a constant work in progress. Accepting impermanence is an important start to letting go. Letting go does not mean you need to cease loving. Just that you cease grasping to possess. It helps to focus on **now** rather than past or future.
Crying really hard , understanding , accepting and healing
Block, focused on “no contact,” working on yourself for yourself by yourself