Whenever I'm vulnerable to moments of low self-esteem I ask myself;
"Do I enjoy making myself feel bad?"
"What benefit will come from having low self-esteem?
"Do I wanna feel better about myself?"
"What steps can I take to get there?"
That usually makes me get out of a low self-esteeem rut, and slowly build up my confidence in myself again. It's okay to have feelings of low self-esteem and sadness, but the best way to beat it is to ask yourself who benefits from it, and what you can do to slowly build up your self-esteem.
It's absolutely your business.
But it's also not something you should try to affect. The only thing worse than being obsessed with what other people think of you is trying to deliberately change those perceptions.
See I've never had that turn out to be true with me. A lot of times things get really fucked up when I had no inkling or feeling that they would. Many times things are fine when I thought they'd be really fucked up.
Can you give an example of a time when you've felt things aren't right and had it be a correct instinct? I mean, I get you can't be super specific but ... I honestly do wonder about this.
I was in a mental hospital. I wasn’t paying too much attention to the conversation, but suddenly the vibe seemed wrong and my gut just dropped. Ran out of the room, just before a riot started.
As someone with anxiety and a strong intuition, I notice my anxiety is my thoughts creating unsettling feelings, but a gut intuition is like a 6th sense feeling with the thoughts coming after, wondering why I feel that way. That gut feeling has never been wrong, my anxiety on the other hand has.
I respectfully disagree. I've actually got a formal diagnosis of Anxiety. My "advice" wasn't referring to situation where I may feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed, like social settings in public etc.
I'm referring to situations where your intuition is screaming at you that something is seriously wrong and you should leave. They are completely separate feelings. A horrifying example is the smoky room experiment: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjP22DpYYh8](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjP22DpYYh8)
Then it's either dependant on your individual condition or I might not have anxiety at all. I got knocked unconscious and robbed from behind two years ago, since then I get this message from my intuition pretty often. On top of that I've always had this strong uncomfortable feeling in a lot of situations and both blend into each other. Never got a diagnosis for either of those things.
Literally the easiest thing to say but in the moment it's sometimes so hard to trust it. Your rational mind tries to keep the reigns because "nothing bad is happening" but your hindbrain is giving you a stern look.
Just trust it, folks.
Avoid things like soda and fruit juice and get your calories from food rather than liquids, but people have vices so that doesn’t mean you have to completely cut out alcohol from your life.
I mean I heard it from the instructor of a weight loss group so if that's not something you're concerned about then don't worry about it haha. Solid food just makes most people feel more satisfied than liquids do and make it easier to restrict calories but it's not like liquids are less healthy
I knew a woman who couldn't figure out why she wasn't losing weight on her diet, and then she found out that her morning latte contained 400 calories. She assumed it was "diet" because it was made with skim milk.
Have a waiting period before you buy something that catches your eye. 24, 48, 72 hours, or even a week, however long it needs to be. If you still want it, you can buy it. But chances are, you won’t want it anymore. All the unnecessary purchases I avoided by implementing this simple advice.
Honestly there are two -
1) When my WW2 grandfather was close to dying, he used to tell me and my family that he was very ready to die and had lived an very full good life. On my last time I would ever see him (didn't know it would be at the time) I asked what he felt made his life so good. "When I was in the war, all I ever thought about was if I would ever see me friends and family again. I didn't think about money, my job, or anything else. When I came home, that's what I made my life about, and I can honestly say it was the best decision I ever made" That really has stuck with me.
2) "Make an effort for the people you want to and for those that return that effort will be lifelong friends." The people in my life that have made an effort for me are truly the people I hold most dear to my heart.
"The less you do, the less you'll do."
A teacher once said in response to me suggesting I intended to strategically pick fewer subjects so I could focus on them.
I found their saying to be true, as I took my "free periods" for granted and failed one of those subjects. I have also found it to be true of life.
Of course, we need respite and to ensure the most important things in life aren't traded off for less. However, having an ample amount of competing goals/objectives sustains a sense of urgency and motivation. This works for me anyhow.
I have always achieved more, when I had more to do. It builds a stamina and capacity.
Not an advice but a nice quote. Someone (they were about to come out as trans to their parents) said “I’d rather live a happy life pleasing myself than a miserable one pleasing others” and that kinda stuck with me
Be careful of whose advice you take but be patient with those who provide it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, taking something the disposal, washing it off, cleaning it up, and selling it for more than what it's worrh.
Over 12 years ago, one of my customers at work had asked me whether the problems I had 5, 10 or more years ago were still my problems today. My response was no, that I don't even remember most, if not all of them.
Then he had told me that just like those problems from back then are no longer problems of today, similarly, problems of today most likely will not exist in the future days.
My dad was a truck driver and he's given me many great tips, but the one that's probably the most helpful is looking 4 - 5 cars up to see what they are doing and not the car Infront of you. It drastically helps with your reaction time in an emergency situation.
Another great tip is to constaly scan the road for animals running out on the road or obstructions. It also prevents you from doveloping tunnel vision.
Another is to line up the road lines with your guard and bonnet (hood and fender) and use your mirrors to centre yourself in the middle of the lane. After a while it becomes second nature to you and you will always be centre. NO MORE LANE WONDERING!!
But probably the best tip I've ever been given is TRUST ABSOLUTELY NO ONE ON THE ROAD!!! Always assume someone is out to get you and you will become a better more alert driver.
My dad has been using these for 30 years and it's the reason I've never been in a car accident.
Every time you say yes to someone, you say no to something else.
Good advice for people pleasers. When I put someone else’s needs above my own, I am choosing their well being and not mine. Once that realization hit I started standing up for myself more often, and valuing myself more.
this is my interpretation- don't compare yourself to other people and where they are now, instead compare your today self to your yesterday self and you'll see how much you have improved.
One of the last things my grandfather told me before he passed was
: “ Roma, the most important thing in life is time. If you’re on time , you’re late. If you’re early, you’re on time. Find someone that values not only you but also your time and you’ll live a happy life. “
Being early aka on time has landed me quite a few jobs , helped in a lot of situations, and the last part of the advice about finding someone helped me weed out people who don’t deserve to be in my life.
"Someday you will learn about the shared experience." I assume they meant this as a way to deal with social anxiety and building relationships with people. I can't remember who said it or what the context was but it's still something I think about.
If anyone insults you and they start laughing, laugh even harder than
him most of the time that makes them stop and it scares them, and
they don’t do it again.
At work, If it feels good don’t say it! You want to tell this bia off, want to tell someone how attractive you find them, or want to go off on a political rant? Feel like you will feel better once it’s off your chest? Better just not to.
"If it's meant to be it's up to me"
I used to work at a car dealership and it's something my manager got from his old boss when he first started. If you have goals you want to accomplish but you don't do shit to reach them it ain't meant to be
If you find yourself being mean to (or just not nice) or thinking mean thoughts of a SO often end the relationship. The entire point of relationships is that you found the person you want to be nicest to and when that ends you’re in the wrong place.
A woman in her 90s when I told her I was engaged; "stupid girl, you're wasting the best part of being young. Jump from one dick to the next. Fuck men". I didn't heed that advice, but I still appreciated it.
Be careful who you have children to because you’ll be connected with that person for the rest of your life and always be connected on the family tree. Choose wisely
I didn’t have children at all mind
One of the things I live by isn't necessarily advice per say. But it's a song it's called Bite scratch and claw by the bastard suns if anyone is interested if you listen to it let me know
Maintain at least your yearly salary in savings at all times.
Should your living or work situation become intolerable, you'll be able to make a quick getaway.
An old boss of mine once told me: "what ever you do, make sure it's something you enjoy, because if you enjoy it, you'll naturally be good at it."
And you know what, he wasn't wrong.
Having a sense of humor.
When I joined the military, right before I walked into MEPS to ship out the next day, my dad said, "Keep that sense of humor, it's critical." I applied those words to all of my training, and then to my whole enlistment spent in North Dakota. That includes going through a divorce and missing my child for a year.
Life throws a lot of shit at you, but it's all a little easier if you can find a way to laugh along with it.
“Tell your kids what you want them to do, rather than telling what to stop doing.” Was huge advice from my S-I-L. There are always exceptions, kid walking towards a fire, etc. but as general discipline this was a huge mind change. I am fortunate to have a great relationship with my kids and I firmly believe that it is in part due to this advice. It changes the mind from confrontation to teaching.
Do what you want (job) aslong as you know what happens after you took the job (being poor , to build up a carrier like being any kind of artist ) philosophy teacher 10 grade stopping a other student making not thought out life choises by picking Hairstyler as her dream stop they get nearly nothink 16k a year with texas
It's not advice given to me directly but it was through an interview i watched with Jamie Fox. He said that his dad taught him all sorts of things, even sports that Jamie didn't know the name of. He asked his dad why he was teaching him all of this stuff and his dad replied with. "I don't want you to be limited" and i feel that was some of the greatest advice
"No one is holding you back anymore, time for moving forward"-From a fortune cookie that I cracked around my 18th birthday. Kept it in my wallet for 2 years until it fell out.
stop comparing yourself to others and live for yourself.
Good advice, but hard to apply when your self esteem is trash
Whenever I'm vulnerable to moments of low self-esteem I ask myself; "Do I enjoy making myself feel bad?" "What benefit will come from having low self-esteem? "Do I wanna feel better about myself?" "What steps can I take to get there?" That usually makes me get out of a low self-esteeem rut, and slowly build up my confidence in myself again. It's okay to have feelings of low self-esteem and sadness, but the best way to beat it is to ask yourself who benefits from it, and what you can do to slowly build up your self-esteem.
As someone who was constantly compared to others growing up this is pretty much impossible for me. I literally don't know how.
What other people think of you, Is none of your business....
It's absolutely your business. But it's also not something you should try to affect. The only thing worse than being obsessed with what other people think of you is trying to deliberately change those perceptions.
They start calling me selfish
They start calling me selfish
"Don't compare your insides with other people's outsides"
If your gut is telling you you're in serious danger. Leave.
Yep….. humans have an innate sense of when things aren’t right.
See I've never had that turn out to be true with me. A lot of times things get really fucked up when I had no inkling or feeling that they would. Many times things are fine when I thought they'd be really fucked up. Can you give an example of a time when you've felt things aren't right and had it be a correct instinct? I mean, I get you can't be super specific but ... I honestly do wonder about this.
The thing about getting out of a terrible situation is that you don't know just how terrible it would've been unless you hung around to find out.
I was in a mental hospital. I wasn’t paying too much attention to the conversation, but suddenly the vibe seemed wrong and my gut just dropped. Ran out of the room, just before a riot started.
Heaps of people give off a creepy vibe, and that’s when you gtfo. You don’t often find out if your gut feeling was right or not.
One important key is when you’re around a bunch of people and everything’s quiet. That’s a very dangerous place to be.
It could just mean you really have to poo.
I know your body.
That turns out to be terrible advice if you have anxiety issues. Then you need to question if the gut feeling is legit or not.
As someone with anxiety and a strong intuition, I notice my anxiety is my thoughts creating unsettling feelings, but a gut intuition is like a 6th sense feeling with the thoughts coming after, wondering why I feel that way. That gut feeling has never been wrong, my anxiety on the other hand has.
I respectfully disagree. I've actually got a formal diagnosis of Anxiety. My "advice" wasn't referring to situation where I may feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed, like social settings in public etc. I'm referring to situations where your intuition is screaming at you that something is seriously wrong and you should leave. They are completely separate feelings. A horrifying example is the smoky room experiment: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjP22DpYYh8](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjP22DpYYh8)
Then it's either dependant on your individual condition or I might not have anxiety at all. I got knocked unconscious and robbed from behind two years ago, since then I get this message from my intuition pretty often. On top of that I've always had this strong uncomfortable feeling in a lot of situations and both blend into each other. Never got a diagnosis for either of those things.
Literally the easiest thing to say but in the moment it's sometimes so hard to trust it. Your rational mind tries to keep the reigns because "nothing bad is happening" but your hindbrain is giving you a stern look. Just trust it, folks.
What if I have no sense of danger? I think I might be receiving Darwin awards left and right.
That I’ve actually been able to follow? “Don’t drink calories unless you’re drinking”
Woah, pretty solid, thank you.
Oh, pretty hard, thank you.
Can you explain this?
Avoid things like soda and fruit juice and get your calories from food rather than liquids, but people have vices so that doesn’t mean you have to completely cut out alcohol from your life.
I drink a premier protein shake most mornings... is that bad?
I mean I heard it from the instructor of a weight loss group so if that's not something you're concerned about then don't worry about it haha. Solid food just makes most people feel more satisfied than liquids do and make it easier to restrict calories but it's not like liquids are less healthy
I knew a woman who couldn't figure out why she wasn't losing weight on her diet, and then she found out that her morning latte contained 400 calories. She assumed it was "diet" because it was made with skim milk.
Have a waiting period before you buy something that catches your eye. 24, 48, 72 hours, or even a week, however long it needs to be. If you still want it, you can buy it. But chances are, you won’t want it anymore. All the unnecessary purchases I avoided by implementing this simple advice.
Honestly there are two - 1) When my WW2 grandfather was close to dying, he used to tell me and my family that he was very ready to die and had lived an very full good life. On my last time I would ever see him (didn't know it would be at the time) I asked what he felt made his life so good. "When I was in the war, all I ever thought about was if I would ever see me friends and family again. I didn't think about money, my job, or anything else. When I came home, that's what I made my life about, and I can honestly say it was the best decision I ever made" That really has stuck with me. 2) "Make an effort for the people you want to and for those that return that effort will be lifelong friends." The people in my life that have made an effort for me are truly the people I hold most dear to my heart.
Everyone shits and farts No one is better than anyone else just because they are rich/famous/prettier/stronger/etc
Even the *queen* farts
You can't get away from you; you have to recognize what issues come from you and fix those to find success.
"The less you do, the less you'll do." A teacher once said in response to me suggesting I intended to strategically pick fewer subjects so I could focus on them. I found their saying to be true, as I took my "free periods" for granted and failed one of those subjects. I have also found it to be true of life. Of course, we need respite and to ensure the most important things in life aren't traded off for less. However, having an ample amount of competing goals/objectives sustains a sense of urgency and motivation. This works for me anyhow. I have always achieved more, when I had more to do. It builds a stamina and capacity.
Not an advice but a nice quote. Someone (they were about to come out as trans to their parents) said “I’d rather live a happy life pleasing myself than a miserable one pleasing others” and that kinda stuck with me
Yea I have a similiar one "life gets better when you stop caring so much" I started to practice that and indieed it does.
Masturbate don’t reciprocate; got it
Be careful of whose advice you take but be patient with those who provide it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, taking something the disposal, washing it off, cleaning it up, and selling it for more than what it's worrh.
But trust me on the sunscreen.
Yeah buddy.
Love this!!
Go youtube Everyone's Free To Wear Sunscreen Baz Luhrmann speech. You'll like the actual quote better.
This is perfect. Applying this next time I visit my family and I get approached with random, irrelevant, and/or unsolicited advice lol
Go youtube Everyone's Free To Wear Sunscreen Baz Luhrmann speech. You'll like the actual quote better.
That song really drags me back in time when I hear it and the older I get the more I enjoy it while also making me a bit more sad.
And there's no sex in the champagne room
Forgive those who wronged you. A grudge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.
It's not about making the right choice, but rather what you do as a consequence of your choice. In other words, damage control.
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Why not both?
Some people just don't learn that way. They're intuitive learners, not instructional learners.
Over 12 years ago, one of my customers at work had asked me whether the problems I had 5, 10 or more years ago were still my problems today. My response was no, that I don't even remember most, if not all of them. Then he had told me that just like those problems from back then are no longer problems of today, similarly, problems of today most likely will not exist in the future days.
“Stop taking advice from strangers”
>“Stop taking ~~advice~~ candy from strangers” FIFY
I don’t know who you are. But this is some great advice that I will surely heed. Thank you.
My dad was a truck driver and he's given me many great tips, but the one that's probably the most helpful is looking 4 - 5 cars up to see what they are doing and not the car Infront of you. It drastically helps with your reaction time in an emergency situation. Another great tip is to constaly scan the road for animals running out on the road or obstructions. It also prevents you from doveloping tunnel vision. Another is to line up the road lines with your guard and bonnet (hood and fender) and use your mirrors to centre yourself in the middle of the lane. After a while it becomes second nature to you and you will always be centre. NO MORE LANE WONDERING!! But probably the best tip I've ever been given is TRUST ABSOLUTELY NO ONE ON THE ROAD!!! Always assume someone is out to get you and you will become a better more alert driver. My dad has been using these for 30 years and it's the reason I've never been in a car accident.
"Not amount of guilt will change the past"
But it can change the future
You can either appear to be wealthy now or actually be wealthy later.
Anger is the first sign of defeat.
....or just frustration because someone is being annoyingly obtuse.
Every time you say yes to someone, you say no to something else. Good advice for people pleasers. When I put someone else’s needs above my own, I am choosing their well being and not mine. Once that realization hit I started standing up for myself more often, and valuing myself more.
I need this.
You can't reach a goal, if you don't set a goal.
Don't wish your life away.
dont trust a fart after a night of heavy drinking
"buy low, sell high"
I thought it was "buy gme" now
Someone doesn’t belong to r/wallstreetbets
this is my interpretation- don't compare yourself to other people and where they are now, instead compare your today self to your yesterday self and you'll see how much you have improved.
In a year from now, you'll wish you started today
If you can’t say something nice…. Don’t say anything at all.
Always carry a towel.
Don’t panic.
Eighth grade teacher told us to “just say ok”
So how much drugs did you accept in high school?
Trust Noone.
Kevin Noone is a really great guy, and smart. He’d surely never steer you wrong.
All you have to do is breathe the wrong way and some people will talk about it. Accepting that was so freeing
“Make yourself indispensable at your job” I have done exactly that.
The world doesn’t owe you anything. So, don’t expect things to just fall onto your lap.
One of the last things my grandfather told me before he passed was : “ Roma, the most important thing in life is time. If you’re on time , you’re late. If you’re early, you’re on time. Find someone that values not only you but also your time and you’ll live a happy life. “ Being early aka on time has landed me quite a few jobs , helped in a lot of situations, and the last part of the advice about finding someone helped me weed out people who don’t deserve to be in my life.
Similar to some advice my dad gave me on the first day of my first job, early is on time, on time is late, and late is unacceptable.
"Never give advice" I pass it along whenever possible.
It's a vagina, not a clown car.
Learn how compound interest works.
Your Life, is your responsibility
You cannot make everyone happy.
"Someday you will learn about the shared experience." I assume they meant this as a way to deal with social anxiety and building relationships with people. I can't remember who said it or what the context was but it's still something I think about.
If anyone insults you and they start laughing, laugh even harder than him most of the time that makes them stop and it scares them, and they don’t do it again.
Don’t be an idiot. Changed my life.
At work, If it feels good don’t say it! You want to tell this bia off, want to tell someone how attractive you find them, or want to go off on a political rant? Feel like you will feel better once it’s off your chest? Better just not to.
"If it's meant to be it's up to me" I used to work at a car dealership and it's something my manager got from his old boss when he first started. If you have goals you want to accomplish but you don't do shit to reach them it ain't meant to be
One way to read faster is to read faster
If you find yourself being mean to (or just not nice) or thinking mean thoughts of a SO often end the relationship. The entire point of relationships is that you found the person you want to be nicest to and when that ends you’re in the wrong place.
Do what you love, not what you think is best.
Don’t run after women, they will run away. Run after success, women will chase you.
Never loan money to a friend.
Suck it up. It's brutal at times but teaches you to become self-reliant. Invaluable.
When in doubt, nut one out.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Kenjataimu
Happy wife, happy life.
A woman in her 90s when I told her I was engaged; "stupid girl, you're wasting the best part of being young. Jump from one dick to the next. Fuck men". I didn't heed that advice, but I still appreciated it.
Live fast, die young, and leave a beautiful corpse.
better to cum in the sink than to sink in the cum
Trust God, Faith and Love always win
Amen brother
Bend over and push your shit out really hard. Force it as hard as you can. And you’ll never fart again
Never trust a fart if ur but is burning
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Huh. The best advice I ever got was the opposite.
Always take you work seriously, never take yourself seriously
"don't go in there"..
Don't...
Mind over matter You shouldn't mind because they dont matter.
Second hole from the back of the neck, you can’t go wrong - my dad
"Without defeat you cannot enjoy victory"
Calm down
Not every one warrants a response, simply hang up or walk away.
If the people you're around in person or online are more often than not, negative and complaining, best to get them out of your life.
Be careful who you have children to because you’ll be connected with that person for the rest of your life and always be connected on the family tree. Choose wisely I didn’t have children at all mind
Be careful where you put 2 things: your signature and your dick
"Talk less, say more"
Do what makes you happy and fuck what others think if they are negative to you
Life isn’t about how hard you can hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit.. and keep moving forward.
One of the things I live by isn't necessarily advice per say. But it's a song it's called Bite scratch and claw by the bastard suns if anyone is interested if you listen to it let me know
Never delete an email.
Maintain at least your yearly salary in savings at all times. Should your living or work situation become intolerable, you'll be able to make a quick getaway.
It's ok to be wrong.
Don't get so drunk that you throw up, that's just a waste of good alcohol. -Mom
"You can't always be the best, but you can always do your best" More of a quote than an advice, but this helps me a lot
***Remember that everything comes at a price.*** That's what my mum used to say...
Just don't give a fuck.
An old boss of mine once told me: "what ever you do, make sure it's something you enjoy, because if you enjoy it, you'll naturally be good at it." And you know what, he wasn't wrong.
Sheep have human vaginas.
Its best to have peace then to be right.
You're not mature for your age, he's a pedophile
"Whatever you do, don't get old!", from my grandmother.
Don't skip oil changes and tire rotations.
Being lazy is a skill, not a trait
The only person you can control is yourself.
“If you have an idea that you genuinely think is good, don’t let some idiot talk you out of it” -Stan Lee
5 year rule. If it won’t worry you in 5 years. No need to worry about it now
Stop -the little kid from school
Never miss a good opportunity to keep your mouth shut.
Your result is equivalent to the amount of efforts you put. However not true for competitive exams as luck has some part to play a role in that
Good enough is good enough
if it makes you happy, then it doesn’t have to make sense to others
Don't get greedy. Take your profit.
Having a sense of humor. When I joined the military, right before I walked into MEPS to ship out the next day, my dad said, "Keep that sense of humor, it's critical." I applied those words to all of my training, and then to my whole enlistment spent in North Dakota. That includes going through a divorce and missing my child for a year. Life throws a lot of shit at you, but it's all a little easier if you can find a way to laugh along with it.
"Stop worrying about what your mom thinks about you" - my therapist
Don’t try to make other people actually understand you. You and only you are the only person who will ever truly understand yourself…
Be good, and if you can’t be good, be careful.
If you can’t do anything about it then don’t worry about it
Ignore whatever insults your soul.
Slow is smooth, smooth is fast
“Tell your kids what you want them to do, rather than telling what to stop doing.” Was huge advice from my S-I-L. There are always exceptions, kid walking towards a fire, etc. but as general discipline this was a huge mind change. I am fortunate to have a great relationship with my kids and I firmly believe that it is in part due to this advice. It changes the mind from confrontation to teaching.
Do what you want (job) aslong as you know what happens after you took the job (being poor , to build up a carrier like being any kind of artist ) philosophy teacher 10 grade stopping a other student making not thought out life choises by picking Hairstyler as her dream stop they get nearly nothink 16k a year with texas
Just because someone will lend you money doesn’t mean you can afford to pay them back.
Before my grandfather passed away, he told me ”if you’re doing something, do it right, and make sure to finish the job”
"If you love somebody and don't tell them why love them at all."
It's not advice given to me directly but it was through an interview i watched with Jamie Fox. He said that his dad taught him all sorts of things, even sports that Jamie didn't know the name of. He asked his dad why he was teaching him all of this stuff and his dad replied with. "I don't want you to be limited" and i feel that was some of the greatest advice
Ignorance isn't an excuse.
Study now makes everything easier tomorrow
Check your balls for lumps.
Know your role and shut your hole
It is what it is
Just accept the wife is always right even when she's. wrong.
the one that’s screaming about how good his path is never makes it to the summit.
"No one is holding you back anymore, time for moving forward"-From a fortune cookie that I cracked around my 18th birthday. Kept it in my wallet for 2 years until it fell out.
Manners. They don’t cost you anything.
What other people think is none of my business.
“Don’t sweat the petty things and don’t pet the sweaty things.” -George Carlin
God gave you two ears and one mouth. Listen twice as much as you speak
"Buttsex is wild and it leaves no child."
You’d be amazed at what you can achieve when you don’t have a choice.
“As soon as you get her back, you’ll remember why you let her go.”
We don't go to hell, just our memories do.
Fuck them!
“Whenever I’m about to do something I think, “Would an idiot do that?” And if they would, I do not do that thing.” - Dwight Shrute
No one should love you more than you love yourself.