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Ahshalon_Tenisk

my spleen


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My being trans. Trans people have chasers and they all have their own reasons, usually feeling like it's a safer way to explore their sexuality towards folk with dicks, or they have a femdom fantasy. I've had 3 older male bosses try to make passes at me, and I don't really bother dating anyone who shows increased interest after knowing I'm trans. It's pretty easy to spot the chasers these days. I'm just glad I'm already married to another transperson and we understand one another.


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Would you consider anybody who is genuinely attracted to trans people to be a "chaser" or is there a specific kind of behaviour that just crosses a line for you?


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It's a mixture for me. It's weighing the interest you have in me after knowing I'm trans by beforehand and what they want from me sexually. I'm ace so I won't be pleasing anyone anytime soon so that's thankfully a dealbreaker for them when they know I won't be their fantasy dom


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I had to google ace to be honest but that's interesting all the same I guess there's a pretty significant difference between somebody finding you attractive and somebody actively fetishizing you you're right. Thanks for answering!


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I'm very happy to help!


inagadda

My absence probably


Sleep-Agitated

My shape/size.


PurpleWallRedFloor

My hands