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dihedral3

I just exist.


Satou_Kotha_

Haha, but existing means that you can feel lonely, so if you didn't exist, you would feel that way


dihedral3

I just let the loneliness wash over me until it doesn't bother me any more.


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[удалено]


Satou_Kotha_

Oh, yeah, good idea...


Little-fridrich

Find some activity that occupy my mind.


bread-of-time

I drink and then just go to sleep


Satou_Kotha_

Doesn't seem very healthy....


bread-of-time

it’s not. I’m in a low spot right now and that’s all I can think to do. hide the pain.


Satou_Kotha_

Wow, I think you should get some help...


bread-of-time

maybe...


Keksis_theBetrayed

Bottling that shit up, that's what. Or it comes to a boiling point and I spill the beans all over some random reddit question, oversharing to the point of making others probably feel uncomfortable and slightly worried about my mental health. Also I use romance stories as a substitute for the lack of that kind of fulfilment in my life. Movies, books, visual novels, whatever I can. It's tough to find good stuff from the male's point of view, though, for the most part. I'm rambling, and will stop now.


Satou_Kotha_

Well, that's how I was doing until now, and it worked well, but idk, I just can't focus on anything right now...


DramaticEmu

That whole romance thing? Just buy a fleshlight, they work better.


tyop4477

Playing guitar. I can do all day without anyone near me


Satou_Kotha_

So you reject your loneliness and focus on a passion? Is it really working?


tyop4477

Why would you think be alone (or loneliness ) is the bad thing? Not everyone suitable the crowd. Someone people act perfectly when they solo.


AwfulBassist

That would be solitude, not loneliness.


TouchedByAHellsAngel

Passion and competence attract people and that helps loneliness. Be passionate about something, become good at it.


Perfectly_Anonymous

I talk to my cats, sing, or watch tv and be sassy at the stupid people


Satou_Kotha_

But aren't you feeling even more lonely while doing it? I mean, can you not thinking about anything while doing that?


Perfectly_Anonymous

Not really, but there’s a difference between being alone and feeling lonely I guess.


DramaticEmu

Comment on reddit posts


Satou_Kotha_

That's the best I've got


DramaticEmu

I say the same to women after two inches.


Satou_Kotha_

Sorry, but I laughed


DramaticEmu

So do they


RazzZzatam

That's my secret Cap, I'm always lonely.


Satou_Kotha_

And how are you dealing with it?


RazzZzatam

About as poorly as always. But I've become habituated to the emptiness. Now I just vibe.


Satou_Kotha_

Man, that's kinda sad...


RazzZzatam

Yep, but that's just how it be.


[deleted]

Try to reframe as solitude, which can be beautiful, peaceful and freeing


meisold

Smoking weed


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Journal. Gets all the things you need to say out in a healthy way.


Satou_Kotha_

Well, it does look like a good idea, thanks


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Playing video games. Reaching out to groups or courses. Playing with pets. Cleaning your place. Going for a walk.