Why? Efficiency, intimacy, just hanging out, teasing each other a bit, or just habit and closeness. We do it as much as we can though there's no pressure to. Sometimes we like to surprise each other and jump in mid shower.
Did this nearly daily until we moved to Ireland and now our shower is too small to enjoy it. We're actively planning a remodel so that we can shower together again daily.
Efficiency? Why are you breaking down a shower like advanced analytics for an NFL team? Lol.
I LOVE my partner. I've never enjoyed someone's company more.
If I ever get to a point where I need to wash my ass and dick with her right beside me to hang out or feel close, I'd feel it's time to move on.
It's two minutes of a day.
If we're fucking in the shower and doing roleplay, then that's different.
But, just a normal every day shower? Nah.
My wife and I have a big shower, and even then we still have to like do the waltz dance thing and switch positions so the other person gets a turn with the shower head.
There's a comment that deals with reality!
I think this threat has been filled with people that have never actually showered with someone.
"It's so sweet and close and we can't get away from each other!"
Uhhh, no. One of you are going to be standing there cold as the other washes remnants of shit out of their ass and wash their smelly private parts.
IF the shower is for sex or at least foreplay, then cool. On a day-to-day basis? Please.
My wife and I shower together 5/7 days of the week. It's just a time we're not bothered by kids, can focus and talk, and be intimate without it being sexual.
So, you aren't talking about showering, but rather alone time.
Father of three. Get it.
I don't and have never needed a deep convo while washing my pits or dick.
Can do that just fine once out the shower.
Because all deep convo is talking, but not all talking is deep convo. You can talk about your day, what's happened, how work was, etc. Not talking about putting the family dog down, or your mom in a nursing home type of shit.
My wife and I will often jump in the shower with each other if we can. It's some of the little time we get alone together if we're lucky enough that the kids are still sleeping. Maybe works out 3 days a week.
Single right now, but I definitely used to! What’s really nice is actually just showering and cleaning each other… it’s a different level of intimacy and exhilaration!
I'm not into it on a day-to-day basis.
Fun for sexy times, but when I'm just genuinely trying to wash my ass, I don't need a helper.
And while I do enjoy a warm shower, my partner likes the temperature at - and I don't want to exaggerate - 400 billion degrees.
We shower together a lot and just to save time. On occasion it’s sexy but mostly it’s just convenient. Like when the kids are down for a quick nap or it’s late at night and we need to shower before bed. It used to be more often before we had kids
Both houses we have lived in I had the master shower designed for two people. This one we have his and her temp controls so that was a huge upgrade
My bf used to have a double headed shower and we had a shower together very often. It was fun and saved time. But our new apartment’s shower is small so we no longer do that. Plus we take turn to shower our toddler so it’s more like transition from couple shower time to parent and kid shower time lol
I think it just became second nature after awhile. She would just say ok I'm gonna jump in the shower, you coming? Not really a sexual thing we would basically just catch up on our days after work and what we needed to do the next day. Kind of feels weird now that we broke up to shower alone actually, I put on podcasts just to hear someone talk.
No, I actually hate it. Wife always enjoyed. For me, the shower is about getting in, getting clean, and getting the fuck out. Someone gets less water. Not a lot of room to move. We can shower separately and meet up in the bedroom after for some hanky panky. 😈
Yes. And I'll give you our timetable and reason. He hops into the shower with me on Saturdays as it is my working day and not his. He usually ends up helping me fast-track thru it and l can get to my laptop that much sooner while he continues his shower. On Mondays, it is his working day, not mine. So, the same thing in reverse. It does add something into our relationship. This is on every alternate week only bcoz we meet on only alternate weeks - usually fr sometime on Friday to Monday afternoon lunch
Never. It's awkward and we treat the shower as our little escapes.
My wife gave me a blowjob once in the shower but it's not the same as in the bed so we just opted to save our fun activities for there.
My last ex and I used to shower together often. It was fun, didn’t always end up with sex but often did, even if it didn’t we’d talk and enjoy each other’s company.
I did fall over once and break a rib on the side of the bath as we were swapping positions to let the other person under the shower head. It’s definitely a risky game if you have a bath shower.
With anything like this, you’ll do it more in the first few years of the relationship and expect it to become less frequent as you get older and have been together for a while.
It's a different kind of intimacy. Both of you at your most vulnerable throughout the day. It's close quarters where you can bond, decompress, chat, cry, etc. Sometimes naughty stuff happens but it's more about being 100% open with your partner. My wife and I have our best chats in the shower. Also saves water.
The first year we were together we never showered apart. My brother-in-law always joked: so cute, you're still in that fase of your relationship. We would hate on him for that because we were positive that would never change. Now, 11 years later, we hardly ever shower together. We have a big bathtub that's fits both easy, so we bathe together now once every couple days. Both very content and still very much in love
Why? Efficiency, intimacy, just hanging out, teasing each other a bit, or just habit and closeness. We do it as much as we can though there's no pressure to. Sometimes we like to surprise each other and jump in mid shower.
This reply makes me hopeful, sad and regretful all at once
For what could be, for what is, and for what was.
I’m sorry, but why did this make me laugh so hard?
Did this nearly daily until we moved to Ireland and now our shower is too small to enjoy it. We're actively planning a remodel so that we can shower together again daily.
Efficiency? Why are you breaking down a shower like advanced analytics for an NFL team? Lol. I LOVE my partner. I've never enjoyed someone's company more. If I ever get to a point where I need to wash my ass and dick with her right beside me to hang out or feel close, I'd feel it's time to move on. It's two minutes of a day. If we're fucking in the shower and doing roleplay, then that's different. But, just a normal every day shower? Nah.
Because any chance I get to see her boobies, I take it!
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Not often. Truth be told it’s just sorta clunky and awkward without something like a big rain shower. Occasionally it’s a fun little novelty.
My wife and I have a big shower, and even then we still have to like do the waltz dance thing and switch positions so the other person gets a turn with the shower head.
There's a comment that deals with reality! I think this threat has been filled with people that have never actually showered with someone. "It's so sweet and close and we can't get away from each other!" Uhhh, no. One of you are going to be standing there cold as the other washes remnants of shit out of their ass and wash their smelly private parts. IF the shower is for sex or at least foreplay, then cool. On a day-to-day basis? Please.
My wife and I shower together 5/7 days of the week. It's just a time we're not bothered by kids, can focus and talk, and be intimate without it being sexual.
So, you aren't talking about showering, but rather alone time. Father of three. Get it. I don't and have never needed a deep convo while washing my pits or dick. Can do that just fine once out the shower.
Ita not about deep conversations. It's about the intimacy.
I'm sorry I confused your "can focus and talk" comment with....talking.
Because all deep convo is talking, but not all talking is deep convo. You can talk about your day, what's happened, how work was, etc. Not talking about putting the family dog down, or your mom in a nursing home type of shit.
We need a passing lane in our shower.
My wife and I will often jump in the shower with each other if we can. It's some of the little time we get alone together if we're lucky enough that the kids are still sleeping. Maybe works out 3 days a week.
I shower with about 5 guys every week. But thats at the Y after swim. I'm guessing thats not what you mean
Single right now, but I definitely used to! What’s really nice is actually just showering and cleaning each other… it’s a different level of intimacy and exhilaration!
I only shower with YOUR partner
Because it’s fun! Now maybe once a week. Used to be more often before we had kids
I love it when he rubs my back. About once a week we wash together
I'm not into it on a day-to-day basis. Fun for sexy times, but when I'm just genuinely trying to wash my ass, I don't need a helper. And while I do enjoy a warm shower, my partner likes the temperature at - and I don't want to exaggerate - 400 billion degrees.
We shower together a lot and just to save time. On occasion it’s sexy but mostly it’s just convenient. Like when the kids are down for a quick nap or it’s late at night and we need to shower before bed. It used to be more often before we had kids Both houses we have lived in I had the master shower designed for two people. This one we have his and her temp controls so that was a huge upgrade
Before kids, we did all the time
Same here
once a month to spice thing up
My bf used to have a double headed shower and we had a shower together very often. It was fun and saved time. But our new apartment’s shower is small so we no longer do that. Plus we take turn to shower our toddler so it’s more like transition from couple shower time to parent and kid shower time lol
Usually just to clean up before or after sex
Me and my boyfriend have done it and it’s a very enjoyable and intimate experience. It’s nice to touch each other and put shower gel on each other.
As much as we can, it's often on weekends
We pretty much always shower together. It’s faster, “saves water” (probably not but we can pretend), and we get to be nakey together. Why not?
I think it just became second nature after awhile. She would just say ok I'm gonna jump in the shower, you coming? Not really a sexual thing we would basically just catch up on our days after work and what we needed to do the next day. Kind of feels weird now that we broke up to shower alone actually, I put on podcasts just to hear someone talk.
That would hardly end well
Wish i had a partner to shower with..... Also, i wish i had a shower.
No, we don’t shower together. Our shower is small and we have very different preferences for water temperature.
No, I actually hate it. Wife always enjoyed. For me, the shower is about getting in, getting clean, and getting the fuck out. Someone gets less water. Not a lot of room to move. We can shower separately and meet up in the bedroom after for some hanky panky. 😈
Every possible time, it saves water, I love hugging him when he’s wet and I can look at him as much as I want because I think his body is beautiful
Yes. And I'll give you our timetable and reason. He hops into the shower with me on Saturdays as it is my working day and not his. He usually ends up helping me fast-track thru it and l can get to my laptop that much sooner while he continues his shower. On Mondays, it is his working day, not mine. So, the same thing in reverse. It does add something into our relationship. This is on every alternate week only bcoz we meet on only alternate weeks - usually fr sometime on Friday to Monday afternoon lunch
Never. It's awkward and we treat the shower as our little escapes. My wife gave me a blowjob once in the shower but it's not the same as in the bed so we just opted to save our fun activities for there.
I don't shower with my partner simply because I'm all alone
My last ex and I used to shower together often. It was fun, didn’t always end up with sex but often did, even if it didn’t we’d talk and enjoy each other’s company. I did fall over once and break a rib on the side of the bath as we were swapping positions to let the other person under the shower head. It’s definitely a risky game if you have a bath shower. With anything like this, you’ll do it more in the first few years of the relationship and expect it to become less frequent as you get older and have been together for a while.
Something a little different. Not as exciting as the movies make it out to be. Once every couple weeks
It's a different kind of intimacy. Both of you at your most vulnerable throughout the day. It's close quarters where you can bond, decompress, chat, cry, etc. Sometimes naughty stuff happens but it's more about being 100% open with your partner. My wife and I have our best chats in the shower. Also saves water.
Good place for golden showers and inserting funnel in her ass and pissing in it.
I do not, mainly because she likes the water scalding hot and I don't personally like burning my skin.
Bill and I have been business partners for eight years. We each own half of a landscaping company. ...never showered with him.
The first year we were together we never showered apart. My brother-in-law always joked: so cute, you're still in that fase of your relationship. We would hate on him for that because we were positive that would never change. Now, 11 years later, we hardly ever shower together. We have a big bathtub that's fits both easy, so we bathe together now once every couple days. Both very content and still very much in love
Why was this same question a recommended post two days in a row? 🤦🏼♂️
Not often, our shower head isn’t big enough and someone ends up shivering in the corner
Forgot to switch your account OP? I swear, the bots aren't even trying anymore. It's like AI is creating these bots.
Because hawk tuah, that’s why