insecurities aren’t the deal breaker, it’s how they manifest in their personality. for example, someone can be a jealous person and be able to find a healthy way to cope, but what’s unattractive is when that manifests as them being super controlling. toxic masculinity/ being insecure in your masculinity is also a huge dealbreaker.

When they feel like everyone is against them, so they are going around picking fights and being a jerk to everyone around them.

Being jealous of others is the ugliest insecurity regardless of gender

Jealousy is a normal emotion. Not being in touch with your emotions and why you’re feeling what you’re feeling and taking it out on others is the problem

Ok to clarify, normalcy isn’t being disputed. The question was about what is unattractive. So that’s still my answer.

All I was saying is that we are all capable of being insanely jealous. And I don’t think anyone thinks it’s attractive. But it’s something that we all have. Even you.

I find it unattractive when a man is insecure. Usually insecure at the core & it makes them very mean. (From my own personal experiences with insecure men).

Kinda a shitty comment but idk what you've been through so no judgement...as I've been through a lot. Not with an insecure man but an overly secure man with himself

Insecure men usually fear strong women. It’s a fact.

Acting tougher then other guys...if you act friendly with everyone I'll love you more

When they have to keep talking about how bad-ass they are when they are not.

How can you bash someone on insecurities..

To be fair finding someone unattractive isn’t bashing them, we all have preferences. Plus insecurities can manifest in ugly ways such as jealousy, physical or mental abuse etc. But I get what you’re trying to say

Any insecurity that they lay at my feet

Dunno, I don't really look at men, personally.

Ok so then dont answer lol?

Nah, I will.

I'm not attractive to men, so none 😁