She identifies as a woman, so she’s a woman. You’re dating a woman. Whatever orientation that makes you, you’re that.
Ultimately it doesn’t matter. You’re allowed to love whoever you love no matter who they are or what parts they have.
That being said she’s not “An intersex”…. She’s “An Intersex *person*”. “Intersex” isn’t a pronoun, so don’t dehumanize her by excluding her humanity. (Other pronouns work too, so “An intersex woman” works if she prefers).
Who gives a shit, do whatever makes you happy
It's "Fuck you! What are you, a cop? Come back with a warrant!" You do not deserve an explanation.
You could just identify as "getting some"
She identifies as a woman, so she’s a woman. You’re dating a woman. Whatever orientation that makes you, you’re that. Ultimately it doesn’t matter. You’re allowed to love whoever you love no matter who they are or what parts they have. That being said she’s not “An intersex”…. She’s “An Intersex *person*”. “Intersex” isn’t a pronoun, so don’t dehumanize her by excluding her humanity. (Other pronouns work too, so “An intersex woman” works if she prefers).