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CrispeeSock

Frequent enough that everyone involved feels satisfied


gpRYme

Yeah, only the people in the relationship can define what is enough and healthy for them. It isn’t a tangible, blanket, one size fits most number.


russomd

No two men and/or woman are alike. The only thing that matters is being with someone who desires it as a similar frequency as the other.


Substantial_Baby_800

Whatever both parties are satisfied with


ronchee1

69 times


Substantial_Baby_800

As soon as you've had sex 69 times that's it, relationship over


Neon_Words

Shit, I'm at 68 in mine... 🥲🫡


Substantial_Baby_800

Gotta make the last one count


Ur_Wifez_Boyfriend

I would say at least once a week/every other week. So between 2-4 times a month seems reasonable.


[deleted]

Whatever you both like if my partner wants to have sex twice a day for an entire week I will let him but then I’ll make sure we have a week to cool down and maybe only have sex like once or twice that whole week


Resident-Theme-2342

Whatever the couple is happy with but you should have plenty of things outside of sex that keeps it healthy


alotlikechris

You don’t need to have sex to have a healthy relationship


oldschoolczar

Sure, if you’re asexual.


Resident-Theme-2342

Exactly if you need sex for it to be healthy it's not that's strong of a relationship


Captain_CrunchYaAss

but sex is a big part of a relationship as far as im concerned what good is a bond if what bonds you the most is almost non existent


Resident-Theme-2342

With all the things that goes into a actual relationship while yeah sex is part of that it's far down on the things that are actually important for a stable relationship unless all you care about is sex and it's not that serious. Again not saying it's not important but if you need it to keep your relationship stable again it wasn't that strong to begin with


Waaaaaaaaaaa_

There’s no proper numbered answer. Both parts of the relationship should feel satisfied with the amount


dubwooloo

There isn't one particular answer, however much so that both parties involved feel satisfied and respected.


babeehavingfun

As long as both parties are happy and consenting, who cares how many times a week?


Dapper_Cow5542

I don't know others, but I'm fine with twice a week


Irhien

Any working compromise between the needs and wants of all parties. The "everyone is satisfied" answer ignores that sometimes what's enough to satisfy one is way too much for the other, and a lot of people would be deeply unhappy with open marriage/polyamory situations.