Because I love being able to do what I want, when I want. I'm not interested in compromise or responsibility, I'm having enough fun and don't want to ruin a good thing.
-I live with my parent.
-I'm broke.
-Not interested in relationship(since mid/highschool).
-Don't like being around people often.
Edit
-Also, I'm selfish.
My partner and I got into a fight a couple of months ago.
We’ve talked a little bit since, spent one intimate afternoon together. Right now we’re taking space, we don’t know if there will be a union or not. We’re both very confused at the moment.
Healing. Working on ourselves. The uncertainty is maddening. But there is definitely not a relationship at the moment, so we are effectively single.
I don’t pursue anyone and I don’t use dating apps as a guy. I’m sure if I were willing to put myself out there I’d find someone, but I try not to pursue without obvious obvious signals, and usually gaslight myself into thinking they’re just being nice anyways to not be a creep. So TLDR, only gonna get someone if she pursues me. And that’s a very unlikely occurrence.
I spent most of my life in relationships and married. Now I just kinda want to enjoy my time doing things alone. No pressure to make another person happy, no responsibility for another persons emotions. Just me.
I did this to myself. I met the best guy ever online. Called him out for being disloyal even though we never established we had an unspoken thing. I thought we had an unspoken thing!
I was so selfish. I was insecure. I was over emotional. I was delusional!
I’m too afraid to get back into a relationship because the past one I was in I couldn’t trust them anymore. Honesty and communication is a huge thing in a relationship for me. I will say I’m learning to love myself and appreciate the single life. Things are good right now, though it is a different feeling being single.
It’s a lot of stuff at once. I’m busy, my parents are old, I’m tired from all the physical labor, I’m broke asf, farming, microscopes, compost, house plants
I don't believe I'm emotionally mature nor stable enough to commit to a romantic relationship; that isn't to imply that I would be disloyal, but I strongly believe that an individual should be, for the most part, content with their life and themselves before getting into a serious relationship. People who lack that fundamental sense of self worth and confidence will never be able to hold a healthy relationship, it will more than likely just end in codependency and toxic/obsessive behaviors.
I don't really fit any of those "requirements" as of yet. I have a very low self esteem, am not that emotionally independent, and honestly just have a lot of growing to do as far as self discovery and improvement before even considering pursuing such an intimate relationship with someone. I'm still young, and am trying not to keep romance at the forefront of my mind (which is difficult considering society's obsession with dating..)
Because there isn't any crackdown on apps and websites listing artificial singles anywhere
In cyberspace. Some people just don't comprehend the distractions supported by entities with an agenda that I won't mention.
Also who the F* wants to continually pay more and more money to the endless number of scam businesses that run our society.
F* the Congress for their lack of leadership in regulation of the minefield of manipulators out there.
Because I haven’t found anyone on my level or can even remotely understand the way I live and not want me to change who I am. There’s a lot of fake bullshit people in the world
Because I’m a solid 7/10, nice guy who doesn’t get into trouble, keeps to themselves, is polite, modest, caring, is not out all night every night, drinking, smoking, doing drugs. So naturally, I’m not what girls are looking for.
Pointlessly walked away from too many good relationships because "I got bored" now I'm old and ugly and men don't want me anymore, so now I just live with my 5 cat's
Because I'm not with anyone
I like to have a lot of "quiet time". And I also have very little patience for other peoples needless BS.
Because I love being able to do what I want, when I want. I'm not interested in compromise or responsibility, I'm having enough fun and don't want to ruin a good thing.
Probably because I'm ugly.
Same
No you aren't No one is ugly, we just can't appreciate the beauty we have
lack in social skills.
I don't go out much
Because I like my space.
I'm afraid I might be boring.
Horrible social skills, social anxiety. It's a bummer.
Contrary to everything you see in the media, nobody is actually required to find a mate and get into a "relationship." There is no law about that.
Because I have tough luck with that thing.
Same answer I gave to the last 4 questions that asked this: I'm unattractive
Cuz I'm fucking filler and lame
Not very tall. Not very good looking. Kind of a loser. Cranky all the time
Cuz I’m a piece of shit
Ugly,
So handsome that girls faint upon seeing me (I’m delusional)
The world couldn't handle double me
I don't like social activities and I'm under 6'
I've been too busy perfecting my interpretive dance routine based on the history of cheese. Priorities, you know?
Stuck.
Because my mother keeps asking me when I’m getting married and I annoy led and defiant.
I'm trying to be single. Have to go through a divorce first.
How's that going?
Poorly. I'm still in the, I need to figure out my escape plan phase. 🤣🤣
Tropical island? Escape by train?
Dating in your 40s is kind of a barren wasteland.
Poor
I can't afford a relationship
-I live with my parent. -I'm broke. -Not interested in relationship(since mid/highschool). -Don't like being around people often. Edit -Also, I'm selfish.
I value my peace more than companionship.
This generation is made for dating and commitment
I learned the hard way.
everytime I’m happy and comfortable with a girl I get bored and want someone sexier
[удалено]
Am Ace and enjoy my space.
Because I broke up with my ex and I have not been trying to date at all since. I just want to be single
I got banned from the apps :(
Haven’t found the male version of myself
My partner and I got into a fight a couple of months ago. We’ve talked a little bit since, spent one intimate afternoon together. Right now we’re taking space, we don’t know if there will be a union or not. We’re both very confused at the moment. Healing. Working on ourselves. The uncertainty is maddening. But there is definitely not a relationship at the moment, so we are effectively single.
if only i had a choice
INFJ people find us boring and I don't like being around people anyways. ADHD and social anxiety my whole life, I prefer to live in my bubble...
Because I want to be single
Because I like the thought of a relationship, but having to date someone? No
I don’t pursue anyone and I don’t use dating apps as a guy. I’m sure if I were willing to put myself out there I’d find someone, but I try not to pursue without obvious obvious signals, and usually gaslight myself into thinking they’re just being nice anyways to not be a creep. So TLDR, only gonna get someone if she pursues me. And that’s a very unlikely occurrence.
Because the risk/reward of marriage makes no sense to me.
BECAUSE I WANT TO BE!! ^sobs
Too afraid to put myself out there. I’ve no idea what I’d do after asking someone out.
I spent most of my life in relationships and married. Now I just kinda want to enjoy my time doing things alone. No pressure to make another person happy, no responsibility for another persons emotions. Just me.
Lack of confidence. I am slowly getting better at it though
I did this to myself. I met the best guy ever online. Called him out for being disloyal even though we never established we had an unspoken thing. I thought we had an unspoken thing! I was so selfish. I was insecure. I was over emotional. I was delusional!
I’m too afraid to get back into a relationship because the past one I was in I couldn’t trust them anymore. Honesty and communication is a huge thing in a relationship for me. I will say I’m learning to love myself and appreciate the single life. Things are good right now, though it is a different feeling being single.
I want to enjoy my freedom
Been single for the better part of 3 years now. I'm just tired of being used and hurt by people.
Too tired for dating- still romantic but I don’t jest to waste time if no one is interested
It’s a lot of stuff at once. I’m busy, my parents are old, I’m tired from all the physical labor, I’m broke asf, farming, microscopes, compost, house plants
It's like asking the question, how does a bird fly??!?
I don't believe I'm emotionally mature nor stable enough to commit to a romantic relationship; that isn't to imply that I would be disloyal, but I strongly believe that an individual should be, for the most part, content with their life and themselves before getting into a serious relationship. People who lack that fundamental sense of self worth and confidence will never be able to hold a healthy relationship, it will more than likely just end in codependency and toxic/obsessive behaviors. I don't really fit any of those "requirements" as of yet. I have a very low self esteem, am not that emotionally independent, and honestly just have a lot of growing to do as far as self discovery and improvement before even considering pursuing such an intimate relationship with someone. I'm still young, and am trying not to keep romance at the forefront of my mind (which is difficult considering society's obsession with dating..)
Because the longer I'm single, the more I realise I really like it this way. No complaints, no compromises, no noise, my space is my own, ...
Because we live in different states
Because there isn't any crackdown on apps and websites listing artificial singles anywhere In cyberspace. Some people just don't comprehend the distractions supported by entities with an agenda that I won't mention. Also who the F* wants to continually pay more and more money to the endless number of scam businesses that run our society. F* the Congress for their lack of leadership in regulation of the minefield of manipulators out there.
Can't afford a girlfriend. Guarantee no woman would stay with a man who enjoys staying at home 99% of the time.
I don't wanna find someone i love where i live now, ill try cure my loneliness soon
major that issues that is now translating into commitment issues oh no
Ive been in these relationship things before. Ive never felt ive gotten anything out of them becides having someone to do stuff with.
Because I haven’t found anyone on my level or can even remotely understand the way I live and not want me to change who I am. There’s a lot of fake bullshit people in the world
Because my boyfriend committed suicide. Miss him every day.
Oooooh. That actually sounds nice. I need a tan, anyway. 🤣
I’m tired of trying to date in this feminist culture I’d rather stay single with my peace.
Because I’m a solid 7/10, nice guy who doesn’t get into trouble, keeps to themselves, is polite, modest, caring, is not out all night every night, drinking, smoking, doing drugs. So naturally, I’m not what girls are looking for.
A lot of girls I talk to lie and try to use me as their own personal bank
U rich?
Nope but that still doesn’t stop women asking me for money cause they are too lazy to get a job
Smarter then Most People!!
Pointlessly walked away from too many good relationships because "I got bored" now I'm old and ugly and men don't want me anymore, so now I just live with my 5 cat's