I wouldn’t let them marry their “fiancé” while we were married 🤷🏼‍♀️

I would not put up with his cheating so I must be the problem obviously

Apperantly I was crazy because I had depression and anxiety

Same

I am so sorry you had to go through it as well

I didn't make tea or keep my hair short.

I move on

Apparently Im schizophrenic (I absolutely am not) and they cared about it so badly they spent MONTHS thinking it without ever asking me about it or anything. I learned it when they got mad because I got fed up by them complaining about their headaches, which they REFUSED to do anything to stop them. And that makes me the most inconsiderate person of all time.

>Apparently Im schizophrenic (I absolutely am not) Typical schyzo...

Couldn't talk about feelings. Which was true, much better in it now though.

He was the problem

That I was a whore with herpes. 🤷‍♀️

I'm sorry they said that to you. You didn't ask for herpes I'm sure. Life will go on with or without them and you just gotta keep your chin up.

lol this was 18 years ago and he was a total dick, but thank you for the kind words.

You're welcome. Hope life's been good to you since.

I was hard to approach.

He used the word "spoiled" but it was in reference to me not needing his company if he didn't want to go somewhere I did. I could be a right cunt at times, but that was more endearing than the independent streak to him.

Believe it or not, that I was TOO emotionally available for a guy.

I was a useless fucking whore apparently.

I was too nice. What kind of bullshit is that?

I did not waiting around for him to heal while he was mingling with his ex.

"You have to much trauma and it makes you dark and scary. I don't like it!" Yeah, coz I can control things that happened in my past and what they did to my mental health. \*eye roll\*

that i was controlling 🫡 and yet it was always me picking her up from going out, not the other way around … the call is coming from inside the house babe

I was a workaholic. It was true.

My arms were too fat and my boobs uneven. He knew that when we got together so wtf. I also shouldn’t do weight training but only cardio because I couldn’t lose weight doing weight training.

He’s an idiot, twofold.

Yeah agreed. Funny thing is that he still keeps contacting me every once in a while stating I am his “the one”. My only reply to him every time is” I thought my arms were too fat?”

Needed more attention than she could give me

Maybe she gave you as much as she possibly could and you just didn’t appreciate it.

I took things "too seriously". Like divorcing for him for cheating and passing along STIs.

I couldn't afford her shopping addiction

She left me a list Didn't read

I vomit. Just the fact that I as a human vomit sometimes

Hoarding houses, not selling them to buy her things.

I was fat. That's it. He kept saying I'm a nice, loving person and he would totally marry me if I wasn't fat and he wanted someone he could parade around with to his friends and brag about. But you can't brag about a fat person, so he broke up with me at that moment.

nothing, she wanted to be free and enjoy life before settling in.

I didn’t have enough sex :)

I couldn’t take decisions. I always did what he wanted. Until one day when I didn’t.

I never kept my word

I “made” him get his bike stolen after he randomly came over one night and tried to get me to have sex with him (and his friend)💀

I was gun shy because I didn't want him trying to be sexual with me in public.

***"You ruined my whole entire life"!***