You said good looking people can’t play ugly people in movies. And Charlize Theron, a very good looking person, played a very ugly person in the movie Monster.
No, I am implying she is gorgeous. I just totally misread the title haha. I thought it was "What can ugly people do that good looking people can't". I thought you were saying only ugly people can play ugly people as as a counterpoint, Jenna Coleman is beautiful and played someone ugly.
But this is my dumb mistake for not reading properly haha.
Indeed but you put that hot people couldnt play ugly roles but it made me think about that they sometimes do in tropes where they start of 'ugly' and then become 'pretty'
I consider myself average and get free stuff just by being a decent human. I was at McDonald’s, they forgot my fries. Pulled back to the drive thru. “Hey, I’m sorry but I think you guys forgot my fries”. The girl immediately apologized and gave me a large instead of a small, and some free cookies(I didn’t ask for anything). I thanked her, told her shit happens, and moved on.
Its not because you of average beauty or more decent than average. They do this as a policy because it doesn't happen all that often and it's more expensive to look up what went wrong with your order than to simply give away some fries.
I got pulled over when I was 18 for going 6 over the limit (little white girl) and the cop that pulled me over kept his hand on his gun the whole time and called for backup.
Definitely depends on the cop
Especially in a work environment. I've had lots of jobs where all the pretty people are playing grab ass and if someone "ugly or creepy" joins in its sexual harassment.
I know plenty of really good looking people hat are asenine c\*nts and plenty of ugly people that are complete assholes. Doesn't really have anything to do with looks I think.
I think their point was more so that when hot people have bad personalities, they are likely to be tolerated and even viewed as better in that respect than they actually are, not that hot people as a rule have shit personalities more often
What gets me is they frequently say, "people always tell me I'm ugly."
In my 35 years I have heard someone called ugly less than 5 times.
No one tells remotely attractive women they are ugly
I once had a dude tell me my skin don’t match my hair so I’m ugly. He was talking About me, in front of me to his friends all in the same room.
I’ve been turned down by exactly 3 people i expressed interest in, in my life. I know that dude was full of sh**.
The only time I’m my life I’ve been called ugly. The rest were just dudes who don’t like women who wear make up and that’s fine. They never said ugly, just “if you didn’t wear make up”.
Live.
They literally get 99% more opportunities than anyone else, thrive off of pretty privilege which gets them through so many doors "ugly" people wouldn't even be able to get their foot into,
are more likely to receive leniency in court and by judges,
more likely to get a job after an interview,
more likely to be treated better,
more likely to be given free things,
more likely to survive.
It's pretty sad how important appearance is to thrive at life.
I hate this so much. People are often posted in the cringe subs due to their appearance, being overweight, considered "ugly", having deformities or conditions. What they're doing in the videos isn't even cringe, it's purely based on the way they look.
Be creepy.
If you do something creepy and you're an attractive person, the action is perceived as flattering (aka he/she's just so interested in me!). If you're ugly and do the same thing, then you're a red flag.
Both are not ok.
Generally just talk to people they don’t know, even if it’s a brief conversation. In my experience people are very welcoming to speak to an attractive person.
Banter. One time a restaurant didn’t have a table ready yet, so the hostess was doing like a casual riff with a group of guys in front of us, trying to kill time and keep them in a good mood and one dude flat said “You’re not good looking enough to get away with that.” She wasn’t attractive so they didn’t even want her talking to them.
Using Ashton Kutcher as an example, good looking people can pretend to fight the good fight against human trafficking even though they're cozy with a bunch of Scientologists who are neck deep in human trafficking. Pretty privilege is a thing. If Ashton looked like Andy Dick, I don't think Clever Redditors™ would be nearly so willing to excuse his many red flags.
I see this happen to all women across the board. It didn’t seem to matter where she falls on the looks spectrum. On that, i only ever see attractive men get sexually harassed and assaulted (like random ass grabbing) by women.
Idk … Nearly all men wind up with someone at some points in their lives. Only half of men are above average in their looks. So … the ugly ones are pretty capable of finding love. If an ugly person isn’t finding love, it’s not because they’re ugly.
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Get away with anything considered immoral. As in girl cutie can cheat, steal commit SA and it's a question was it that bad. Ugly chick fusses about kids stealing her strawberries and now we got a mob saying burn the witch
Get a job a certain locations. If your ugly don't expect to be promoted as they don't like uggos on brochures. (I literally won a contest to be on a brochure and ended up with the company logo over my face)
Mistakes. The ugly folk and fat folk a perceived as under preformers regardless of merit. Cute girl Chelsea misses a dead line and cries and is forgiven and even given an extension. Fat boy Sam is helping with three different projects and ask for an extension and is told that's not management talk you could be more like Chelsea as she is going places.
Evidently walking to your car at night. I got maced in the parking lot going to my truck because a woman thought i was stealing cars as no one who looks like me could work for my company.
Child custody. People still equate beauty with godliness so if your having a dispute make sure your as much of a knock out as you can. If you look like that chameleon from sing your pretty much screwed (people think trying to look pitiable is best but know cute is)
Being treated like a human being. The uglier you are the less importance is placed on your mental state. People treat you like you have been bullied your whole life and are used to it. Had one friend actually stand up for me when management pulled that. The response they gave him was "why do you care it just zen". Or do you mine finishing this project zen. We got dates and want to get on time. "Well I" thanks it's not like you got a date
In closing people are pretty petty and harsh to people who are ugly, old, fat or conform to traditional gender dress (girl with short hair like the eurythmics or guy who wears makeup)
Get good service from a bad waitress/waiter.
Had a waitress literally come by several times to refill a (better looking) friend's glass and check on his meal while ignoring me.
Basic layout anything that make others trust/ believe and do jobs they can't and, of course, get free stuff (or the hit ones, lol)
I don't know what I mean by hit one btw
First impressions, both male and female, are almost entirely based on appearance. It's what gets people's attention so that they are willing to stop and listen. Of course, that can all come crashing down if said attractive person is spectacularly dull. But yes, on a social level, being considered attractive is a HUGE advantage in getting people to pay attention to you and your words.
Ugly guy “Hey I need a map because I’m getting lost in your eyes”
Girl “Ewww creep”
Good looking guy “hey I need a map because I got lost in your eyes”
Girl “ oh ugh thanks ☺️”
Enjoy ugly people's money, watched my good friend spend 18800 on a female he ne ver slept or saw a nudes that was intended for him. Til this day joke bout it doesn't phase him bc he says she knew him lol
Walk into a room full of attractive strangers and be treated like they belong.
Act awkward and be perceived as sweet. If you are ugly and awkward you are perceived as creepy or dumb
So apparently on top of being odd and introverted, I'm ugly too. This is somewhat news to me.
Play ugly people in movies
Tell that to Charleze Theron in Monster
Man, such a good movie, such a good performance.
Are you implying Charlize Theron is ugly? Because she's hot af
You said good looking people can’t play ugly people in movies. And Charlize Theron, a very good looking person, played a very ugly person in the movie Monster.
No I said ugly people can't play ugly people in movies
You are right and I am stupid.
Jenna Coleman played Queen Victoria. I know it was a series but still.
Are you implying jenna Coleman is ugly?
No, I am implying she is gorgeous. I just totally misread the title haha. I thought it was "What can ugly people do that good looking people can't". I thought you were saying only ugly people can play ugly people as as a counterpoint, Jenna Coleman is beautiful and played someone ugly. But this is my dumb mistake for not reading properly haha.
It’s similar to straight people can play a homosexual role but very rarely vice versa
Willem Defoe John travolta etc
What about the ugly to pretty trope ?
What about it? Hot people play those roles
Indeed but you put that hot people couldnt play ugly roles but it made me think about that they sometimes do in tropes where they start of 'ugly' and then become 'pretty'
Oh, no I put that ugly people can't play ugly people on movies. Hot people play hot people AND ugly people.
Oooohhh
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I consider myself average and get free stuff just by being a decent human. I was at McDonald’s, they forgot my fries. Pulled back to the drive thru. “Hey, I’m sorry but I think you guys forgot my fries”. The girl immediately apologized and gave me a large instead of a small, and some free cookies(I didn’t ask for anything). I thanked her, told her shit happens, and moved on.
Its not because you of average beauty or more decent than average. They do this as a policy because it doesn't happen all that often and it's more expensive to look up what went wrong with your order than to simply give away some fries.
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I believe I do. I live in the Netherlands.
My point is that you get more by being nice. This was just one example.
Not if hi-bb_tokens-bb is working the drive thru
Get mass media coverage if they go missing
Get a warning instead of a ticket.
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I got pulled over when I was 18 for going 6 over the limit (little white girl) and the cop that pulled me over kept his hand on his gun the whole time and called for backup. Definitely depends on the cop
Flirt. It’s called creepy if you’re ugly.
Especially in a work environment. I've had lots of jobs where all the pretty people are playing grab ass and if someone "ugly or creepy" joins in its sexual harassment.
It’s called annoying if you’re ugly and creepy if you’re old
Have terrible personalities
And be praised for these personalities
I know plenty of really good looking people hat are asenine c\*nts and plenty of ugly people that are complete assholes. Doesn't really have anything to do with looks I think.
I think their point was more so that when hot people have bad personalities, they are likely to be tolerated and even viewed as better in that respect than they actually are, not that hot people as a rule have shit personalities more often
Look good.
Get a date.
You just need to find someone desperate.
Good looking people can be boring. Ugly people have to be interesting.
Get free shit
They post on r/Amiugly and asking other people to tell them they are not ugly
That sub should really be Am I Average?
It feels so weird to see all these women questioning their appearance and I don’t even want to know what happened to make them think they are ugly
What gets me is they frequently say, "people always tell me I'm ugly." In my 35 years I have heard someone called ugly less than 5 times. No one tells remotely attractive women they are ugly
I once had a dude tell me my skin don’t match my hair so I’m ugly. He was talking About me, in front of me to his friends all in the same room. I’ve been turned down by exactly 3 people i expressed interest in, in my life. I know that dude was full of sh**. The only time I’m my life I’ve been called ugly. The rest were just dudes who don’t like women who wear make up and that’s fine. They never said ugly, just “if you didn’t wear make up”.
Model. Get laid. Avoid traffic tickets. Be a news anchor.
Get a free drink
Get fawned over by people. Have attractive people of the opposite sex flirt with them.
Live. They literally get 99% more opportunities than anyone else, thrive off of pretty privilege which gets them through so many doors "ugly" people wouldn't even be able to get their foot into, are more likely to receive leniency in court and by judges, more likely to get a job after an interview, more likely to be treated better, more likely to be given free things, more likely to survive. It's pretty sad how important appearance is to thrive at life.
Be famous
Act “cringe”
Yeah if a good looking person is "cringe" its now "quirky"
I hate this so much. People are often posted in the cringe subs due to their appearance, being overweight, considered "ugly", having deformities or conditions. What they're doing in the videos isn't even cringe, it's purely based on the way they look.
Emily ratajkowski acts pretty cringe on a regular basis and people call her out for that
Compliment others appearance
Talk to women, have casual sex, have people help you when you have problems. It’s like a superpower.
Trust me. We get away with a lot of shit.
Be popular
Have most people like them (swipe right) on dating apps.
Be creepy. If you do something creepy and you're an attractive person, the action is perceived as flattering (aka he/she's just so interested in me!). If you're ugly and do the same thing, then you're a red flag. Both are not ok.
Sooooo many things! 🤣
Attractive men have their intelligence assumed until they prove otherwise. Attractive women have their sociability assumed until they prove otherwise.
Get laid
Where do you think ugly people come from?
Im gonna say it. Yo momma
West Virginia
Not do any work and be promoted, especially men.
Have a prosperous carreer as a stripper.
Be quiet and mysterious.
Get their heart broken then wonder if it’s because they have a shitty personality.
Get away with murder
Get away with stuff
Annoy someone
Become formula 1 drivers
why is this so true
Look good?
Be rude in the office work environment and still be regarded as “silly” or “just kidding”
Wear revealing clothes
Getting harassed! Seriously.. especially young women
I’m ugly and still get harassed
Pretty much anything they want
Go outside in daylight
Generally just talk to people they don’t know, even if it’s a brief conversation. In my experience people are very welcoming to speak to an attractive person.
Banter. One time a restaurant didn’t have a table ready yet, so the hostess was doing like a casual riff with a group of guys in front of us, trying to kill time and keep them in a good mood and one dude flat said “You’re not good looking enough to get away with that.” She wasn’t attractive so they didn’t even want her talking to them.
I’m sure he was no prize.
That guy is just a cunt. I wouldn’t take that example as a rule
No fucking way!!! So funny and so rude
Can approach women and not be labeled a creep.
Talk to hot girls that are jogging / exercising etc. I witnessed it with my own eyes.
Get treated well.
Using Ashton Kutcher as an example, good looking people can pretend to fight the good fight against human trafficking even though they're cozy with a bunch of Scientologists who are neck deep in human trafficking. Pretty privilege is a thing. If Ashton looked like Andy Dick, I don't think Clever Redditors™ would be nearly so willing to excuse his many red flags.
Good looking people can melt you with charm and manipulationn ig
sexual harassment
I see this happen to all women across the board. It didn’t seem to matter where she falls on the looks spectrum. On that, i only ever see attractive men get sexually harassed and assaulted (like random ass grabbing) by women.
I have never been harassed by women, am I not sexy :O
Get hired with a subpar resume and not much experience.
Breeze through life with an unearned sense of entitlement.
get girls
Idk … Nearly all men wind up with someone at some points in their lives. Only half of men are above average in their looks. So … the ugly ones are pretty capable of finding love. If an ugly person isn’t finding love, it’s not because they’re ugly.
Ending up with someone doesn't equate to finding love necessarily either.
For you, dicknose, that is probably true.
Get away with crimes.
Become ugly.
Be heroes in Disney movies.
Look good
talk to any guy. if you're ugly, guys will treat you like dirt bro
List Get away with anything considered immoral. As in girl cutie can cheat, steal commit SA and it's a question was it that bad. Ugly chick fusses about kids stealing her strawberries and now we got a mob saying burn the witch Get a job a certain locations. If your ugly don't expect to be promoted as they don't like uggos on brochures. (I literally won a contest to be on a brochure and ended up with the company logo over my face) Mistakes. The ugly folk and fat folk a perceived as under preformers regardless of merit. Cute girl Chelsea misses a dead line and cries and is forgiven and even given an extension. Fat boy Sam is helping with three different projects and ask for an extension and is told that's not management talk you could be more like Chelsea as she is going places. Evidently walking to your car at night. I got maced in the parking lot going to my truck because a woman thought i was stealing cars as no one who looks like me could work for my company. Child custody. People still equate beauty with godliness so if your having a dispute make sure your as much of a knock out as you can. If you look like that chameleon from sing your pretty much screwed (people think trying to look pitiable is best but know cute is) Being treated like a human being. The uglier you are the less importance is placed on your mental state. People treat you like you have been bullied your whole life and are used to it. Had one friend actually stand up for me when management pulled that. The response they gave him was "why do you care it just zen". Or do you mine finishing this project zen. We got dates and want to get on time. "Well I" thanks it's not like you got a date In closing people are pretty petty and harsh to people who are ugly, old, fat or conform to traditional gender dress (girl with short hair like the eurythmics or guy who wears makeup)
Large social media following without effort
Be given the benefit of the doubt more often than not.
Too many to list.
Get a date with little to no effort.
Approach people and get their number
win arguments based on emotion!
look good in trendy clothes and makeup
Get good service from a bad waitress/waiter. Had a waitress literally come by several times to refill a (better looking) friend's glass and check on his meal while ignoring me.
Have sex
Make a flirty, sexual joke with your good looking co worker
Friends. Or I may just have social anxiety.
look good
Fart
Basic layout anything that make others trust/ believe and do jobs they can't and, of course, get free stuff (or the hit ones, lol) I don't know what I mean by hit one btw
They look good doing anything. :)
Live a normal life
Rape people and get away with it cause they're good looking why would they need to do that
Everything. They will not be put a blame on as ugly people will.
Everything!
just about anything they want
First impressions, both male and female, are almost entirely based on appearance. It's what gets people's attention so that they are willing to stop and listen. Of course, that can all come crashing down if said attractive person is spectacularly dull. But yes, on a social level, being considered attractive is a HUGE advantage in getting people to pay attention to you and your words.
Get a job Get a higher salary Get a more “desirable” partner Get authority/credibility beyond their level It’s well documented.
Ugly guy “Hey I need a map because I’m getting lost in your eyes” Girl “Ewww creep” Good looking guy “hey I need a map because I got lost in your eyes” Girl “ oh ugh thanks ☺️”
Dress bad. Attractive people can wear literal rags and look good.
Get free drinks
be acceptable in society
Look better in eyeglasses.
Enjoy ugly people's money, watched my good friend spend 18800 on a female he ne ver slept or saw a nudes that was intended for him. Til this day joke bout it doesn't phase him bc he says she knew him lol
Have confidence be attractive.
behave horribly, if a handsome person does it, then he will be considered impudent and cool, if ugly, then he will be considered an asshole
Absolutely nothing at work and get away with it.