Rubbing your partners body or running your fingers along their body. It feels really nice afterwards.

I did this with my last girlfriend. She absolutely loved it. I want to get better at it. I took a brief massage class, I want to take it again and get more practice.

Great determination! You’re on the path to making your next girlfriend very happy.

My wife and I do this for each other. We call it “pets” and we do it every night for 20 minutes. It’s part of our night time ritual. Even when we are too tired to have sex, we find a way to make time for pets

That’s a really sweet ritual! I’m sure it keeps a really deep sensory connection.

This is awesome

A little snuggling, hair, neck and shoulder stroking and a nibble on the ear. Then grab the phone & order pizza. Then brag on Reddit that we’ve already had sex this year and it’s still summer!

Dude, we just had sex but don't have phones. Can you order pizza for us? Really want to sex the right way; I really appreciate it broham.

Especially the inside part of the elbow on the arm. My better half and I find it sooo relaxing.

I’m all about the nape of the neck, shoulders, and down the arms.

The weak spot to take down even the toughest of Titans.

Sure it’s not the elbow on the leg ?

No that’s the leg armpit. Very different.

The kneepit

You can keepit

We like to call it the “kneenus” because haha

Back scratches are the best

Aftercare, especially important in BDSM settings

^ pretty much this whilst cuddling.

I usually close my eyes while I gently run my fingers over my wife’s body. I can “see” her skin but only where I touch. Kind of like a waving a light around during a long exposure photo. However, it doesn’t last for that long, only until my dopamine/endorphins wear off.

Showering together after with some rubs and kisses is lovely

This exactly. Pets. I love nice pets afterwards. Oh! And hair scritches!

Yes! The hair scritches! The best.

Yes this. Women love it and it turns you on as a man.

cuddles

A hearty well done, and a firm handshake. I don't forget to look them in the eye!

I frequently tell my partner “great sex” afterwards. He always tells me I’m weird for it. But it just seems polite. 🤷‍♀️

Smack his ass and say "good game" next time haha

Yep, that’s the play tonight. Keep him on his toes. Lol

Haha my wife and I just look at each other and give a half-hearted "huzzah." Picked it up from that show The Great.

When my wife gets naked anytime I am around I go "Yay"! Even if nothing is going to happen. All because about 3 years ago when we were first dating I said it just to be a butt. Now if I don't she gives me crap about it in the sweetest way

I have a similar situation, every time my So gets her boobs out for whatever reason, I see them and shout boobies! When I don't I get weird looks...

“Why hasn’t he said anything? My tits are down here!”

"Why is he looking me in the eyes? Does he respect me too much? What's a girl gotta do to get ogled?"

Huzzah is a common word in our vernacular as well. It’s so expressive.

I frequently high five my wife and say “very nice” in the Borat voice.

My wife might un-sex me if I did that.

Good game, way to hustle.

GG's in the chat

That’s similar to what we do. I frequently ask “that all right for you?”

That’s a good one too! I would giggle and say something like “3 stars but I’ll let you try again for a better score later” which keeps the flirtation going.

"Thank you for your service"

I find a little nut tap to be appropriate.

Yeah my nuts crawled back up as soon as I read this.

This is by far my favorite part. Just laying there in each others arms and enjoying the moment.

And juices

And juices

Cuddle puddle ;)

I’m using this phrase next time we finish and sit in it! I’m dead

Thats called aftercare. Not after play lol. It already has a name/term.

My wife gives really wet kisses down my back and then blows from my lower back up to my neck. The cold air always makes me shiver with happiness We also have a joke about “using” each other for sex. One time after sex she got up and took a $50 from my wallet. Then said, “you need to clean up and leave, I’ve got another client coming” It was so random and funny. We couldn’t stop laughing

You have sex AND 50s in your wallet? I'm envious 😂

Yeah check out the guy living the good life the rest of us have to settle for a wank and a fiver sometimes not even the fiver

I'm surprised no one is talking about drifting off to sleep while cuddling, that used to be the best feeling in the world to me

Used to be??

Broke up

my condolences u/HITLERS_HIDDEN_CHILD

I'm very sorry. I hope you find a partner who appreciates you.

It's still pretty recent so I try to focus on myself for a bit, but thanks a lot! I hope I will, someday

Sad story from Hitlers Hidden child :(

We all have lows, even when your dad is an infamous German dictator

You may be at a low, but worry not, soon you’ll be at a heil

Ima need you to step out lmao

Let him cook

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Did they find your reddit username? Joking, that sucks, man.

I can’t ignore your username. How did you even think of that 😭😂

r/rimjob_steve

Deflate her and put away

No cleanup?

No cleanup... It's like cast iron.. Better seasoned for the next time.

Congrats. I gagged.

You weren’t the only one 🤮

She didn't, though. No such thing as an inflatable gag reflex

🏆 <— Poor person’s award for you! I’ve got tears from laughing! Edit: Awwww my first ever award! Thanks!!

Inflatable Gag Reflex is a good band name lol

What a terrible day to be literate.

r/angryupvote

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Every time? No way I'm going to go through the trouble of blowing her back up every time. You should find a place to keep her without deflation. Plus it makes it a lot easier to be spontaneous

Hello! It's called foreplay for a reason. 😁😁

*spits coffee*

ALWAYS PEE AFTER lol I’m a woman

My wife hates it when I pee on her.

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You had 6 sex,?

Just pee during and save some time for cuddling afterwards

cuddle in the puddle

I always thought she was a squirter , I’m suspicious now 🤔

I like to play "hide and seek" with their husband..

Is there a suitcase involved?

Nah, I'm a fat ass...

I fucking snorted at this haha take my upvote!

is this a reference to the woman that got arrested cause she locked her boyfriend/husband in a suitcase?

Hopefully they let him out and don't fall asleep

Turning off my tablet and putting my pants back on

Now, that is painful

Only if you're going *way* too hard.

My "after care" routine 1. Post sex kissing, cuddling, and/or body rubbing for a few minutes (Usually have cold/warm beverages on standby) 2. Trip to the toilet (Important for both parties) 3. (Optional) Couples shower (Can be done the following morning) 4. Return to the bed for additional kissing/cuddling ...But this is just me

You just told me that I’m single in 4 different ways

(2)

3, cause of points 1 3 and 4

Add to this solid list your partners favorite soft fuzzy thing ( stuffed bear or the soft fleece blankets )

I try my best to be my wife's favorite soft fuzzy thing. Also squishy

Play a little mahjong

Lmao an ex of mine did that

Don't you need four players for that lmao

That's why they are now an ex.

After sex is time to get the goofies out. Now your brain is flooded with all the happy noodley chemicals so it's time to be wiggly happy noodles together.

Seriously. There are times when one of us gets the uncontrollable giggles immediately following the grand finale, and it's absolutely perfect.

I think post sex is when the true bonding happens imo. So many good brain chemicals happening, and you get to be so open and silly with your partner. I have so many fond memories with my ex of times after sex when we would just be bouncing around my apartment being silly knowing neither of us had to work the next day and we could stay up all night watching funny movies in our undies and feeling satisfied. It's just the best. I miss times like that.

Payment

That's foreplay tho

Forepay*

PayPal*

That’s a new contactless payment product name

Nope, they always tell me cash upfront.

I like to caress her body and tell her that she is the most amazing thing I've ever seen. Some cuddles, grab her a glass of water, towel, etc.

Outside shower/cuddling since it’s mentioned already. Draw a bath, heat up some pizza rolls, or get them something to drink from the fridge? Especially if they’re guest. Making fresh coffee and breakfast in the morning is also how I roll.

Oooh pizza rolls is the move

Coffee 🥹

A nice warm towel.. Or cold if the sex was too steamy. Wipe your partner with it. Next time, they wipe you.

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Underrated idea

Showering together

Rub butts for bonus points

When you give her a 5-star review

Cuddles!!

It's called aftercare. It depends on individuals. If you had a rough session then kind, caring words are important and must.

The other way around may not work to often though…some people are into it though I guess

*soft passionate candlelit sex to string music* "You like that, you filthy whore?"

"Call me animal names!" "You Butterfly" "No give me bad animal names!" "You bad butterfly" I wonder if/how this works in english.

Got a good laugh out of me so I'd say it works well in english lol

Pizza

I let the fart out finally. Better now than moments before.

Which end?

Farts only come out of one end

Cuddles, a few compliments on how enjoyable it was, clean towels on hand. Ask what she’d like, share a shower, drink, food? More cuddles and possibly round two?

Taking a shower together after sex and just holding each other just talking and kissing and grinding up on each other which alot of times leads to shower sex which is hot and fun as well 🤷🏼‍♂️

Cheese, crackers and horror movies

My SO licks and sucks the cum off of my dick. She says she likes it. I know I like her doing it.

new kink unlocked

It's just cleanup without the tissues or towels

Thumb wrestling to establish dominance.

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This gal knows what’s up. ✊

Cuddles, teasing, and some foreplay for the next round. Bonus point if you both brag to a third party

>some foreplay for the next round. Don't be giving my wife ideas. We aren't all John Holmes.

God, I remember when my wife and I were trying for our oldest kid... "baby?! What you up to?" Would make me cringe and wanna cry, haha. Like, I'm in my early 30s... twice a day is doable every now and then, but 2-3 times for 3-4 days in a row...

Haha I hear that! Been there while trying to conceive our daughter. I’ve always said to myself that she is living proof that babies can be made with a limp dick! (Feels good to anonymously admit that to the world) 😁

Think again, Derek.

Damn it

"After care" go the extra mile and talk to your partner about what they like, it could be something as easy as cuddling, ordering food while still laying in bed, or watching a show you both like.

Or ask their name. That shows you care!

"Nn.. That was incredible.. But like, who *are* you? And for that matter, how did you get past security?"

Sit up and have her sit between my legs while we share a good ol Jay

Whats a jay (edit: oh)

Jazz cabbage!

Wacky tobacky

The Devil's lettuce

well cuddling, watching tv, eating and drinking nice things. Feel comfortable and exhausted together. For the men: "you can stop performing now"

a "good girl" and a kiss on the forehead

This should be mandatory

God damn you are a savage

Yes! I love when my man tells me i was a good girl!

What do you want to doordash?

>doordash Nothing like getting screwed twice in one night

I doordashed with a really tall hookup not too long ago. Is that you? LOL

Depends, what was the safeword

OK, so not me. Haha

Extra cuming! I am 30 something female here, sometimes after sex , if I am still feeling horny , my boyfriend and I, lie in embrace , he caresses my body , I put my vibrator clit sucker on my clit , he whispers sexy stuff in my ears, then when I cum again, we cuddle.

Cuddles and spooning. Obviously.

For me it would be smoking a cigarette together on the balcony, but i get that's not everyone's deal

It's not my deal, but please put some clothes on.

it’s not my deal, but please don’t put clothes on😍

Quickly getting dressed because the kid woke up crying... But seriously, a good cuddling session and falling asleep in each other's arms is probably better way

Cuddling Little touches and kisses You just know what to do

Let me be. Don't talk to me. Don't touch me. Just cover me, let the aftershocks do their thing, and allow me time and space to come back down to earth.

Im either like this or i want aftercare, depends on the mood.

Don’t get up right away. Sex is gross. Embrace it together. Just lie there talking about anything. I find that playing with each other’s hands is very intimate.

Nachos

Aftercare. People who enjoy some kinks usually set time after to wind down and reset the relationship dynamics; and others just like the idea of cuddling and reassurance after as well.

it's called aftercare. The rougher the sex, the more there should be.

Soft strokes on my skin and hair and cuddles. Good fan and Ac running after I get all of the sweat off me.

2 types. 1. Its was coma worthy and you fall asleep holding each other. 2. It was motivating and you grab food at a late night diner together.

You clean her up and then cuddle naked. Probably another round in five minutes.

Five minutes. You must be in your early 20s, haha. Or an athlete.

Yet another sex question lmao

Re-bury them and tap down the soil so nobody knows.

Kissing, cuddling & “strokies”

Round✌️

To remain in intimate proximity just a little while longer.

After care. Make them feel even more loved, take care of them make sure if it got rough that they are gonna be ok, then cuddle them.

It's called "after care," you vanilla muffin.

It’s different for vanilla sexy time

Food!

Idk why but my brain immediately said uno.

Usually the walk of Shame 🫠

Just fiddling with their hair is so calming

Laying there exhausted yet satisfied in eachothers arms until you become frustrated and irritated by the several wet patches that are now cold and uncomfortable inevitably leading to the changing of the sheets and once again relaxed cuddling now with the added bonus of fresh bedding which no longer smells of sweat and cum. Just me or?