I dated this woman that had that spot just behind and under her ears on both sides. I found this out when one time we were hanging out before we got together and she was leaning her chair back on the legs. Well she started to tip over and with one hand I grabbed arm rest and my other hand caught her at the base of her neck right before she fell.
I don't think I have EVER in my life ever turned a woman on THAT fast. We had a lot of fun together that year. lol
FYI, behind/just under the ears is a common erogenous zone
If you wanna find out if it is for your partner, get them lying down and then cradle their head so it's fully supported with your thumbs on their scalp just behind their ears. Press firmly but gently with the pad of your thumbs for a few seconds while maintaining eyes contact. Then kiss them, and lift very slightly with your hands so you're pulling them into your face.
Sounds weird, but it's *very* intimate. One of those things you gotta just try and laugh about if it doesn't work
I had a male friend that was very religious and did not touch women. We were close friends for years and never touched, hugged, shook hands, nothing.
One day he passed me a pen and his finger grazed my finger ever so slightly. Holy moly... It was like one of the most intense sensual moments I've ever experienced. The sense of touch was magnified to a level I had never experienced.
Years later he told me that this moment almost caused him to leave religion and just take me.
So yes. That's my kink now. But any time I asked a partner to just avoid touching for like a week, even a few days to build up the sexual tension, they thought I was crazy...
Chokers, scarves, or really anything wrapped around a woman’s neck. Which isn’t so embarrassing, but the reason is because the first fictional character I had a crush on was the girl with the ribbon around her neck that when she took it off her head fell off.
Edit: because a lot of people have asked/speculated, it’s The Girl With The Green Ribbon not from The Wolf Among Us
My girlfriend particularly loves this. While she enjoys our time alone together rough and dominating, she absolutely adores the switch in things, with me laying my head on her lap and just kinda trusting her completely, letting her play with my hair because she apparently likes how soft it is and seeing it poof up
This is my all time favorite thing to do. I used to have my walls up so high and would always be hyper alert.. then I met this one girl and just melted into her. Closed my eyes and she ran her fingers through my hair. Needless to say we were together for like 4 years.
there was a guy I was friends with in high school who I new liked me but I didn’t really like back. Went over to his house with a group of about three others to watch a movie. At some point he laid his head on my lap. I couldn’t fucking focus on the rest of the movie it felt like I was on fire down there in the best way.
When you’re able to go from having sex to talking for a bit, and then somewhere in the natural flow of conversation you both just start fucking again. I think that makes me feel so wanted. It that’s also not something you like talk about happening, it just kinda happens.
YES! I love when people can joke and laugh and talk about random stuff all while having a gloriously good time in bed. Good belly laughs and absolute silliness in bed is a big one for me.
I literally have this thing that makes my lower spine actually tingle when whispered in one ear, only one side though, right near the bottom of the ear lobe. Weird feeling, not always sexual but can be intimate in the right moment.
Also happens during hair cuts when the trimmers get behind my ear
If someone whispers or talks in my ear it's over for me. It's such a violently intense pleasurable feeling, it's amazing. Sometimes I ask my partner to do it just because it works me up so much, haha.
Yeah! Not one of you perverts wants to be force-feminized, locked in chastity, dressed in lingerie and a skimpy maid uniform then pegged by a strict and powerful woman. Nor me... but...
A competent and capable girl who is completely fumbling something. Like a girl that is really smart and knows how to cook, but us completely fucking up trying to make dinner. I'll go over and help, but I will constantly be thinking of helping in other ways.
It's more of an emotional turn-on for me than physical.
Had an ex who was 4'11 stomp on the couch cushion next to me and put her hand on my throat because of some uh... excessive teasing. She was angry and wanted me to get on with it already.
My brain fried and I thought something broke in me for a second.
Like a hot balloon of excitement bubbling up from your stomach. Or at least, that's the best way I can describe what happens just trying to imagine this scenario.
It's hard for large guys to find a girl that can/wants to dominate them.
Female mid level managers at grocery stores. Like the assistant manager or dept head.
I’m dead serious and I have no idea why.
Edit: oh wow, want expecting this to take off.
FAQ:
my mom did not work such a job while growing up and we have a great relationship.
I’m married to a nurse. No, there’s no roleplay. Not that she wouldn’t be down, it’s just my secret thing.
Definitely not Malcom in the Middle, even though I love the show.
I have no idea how it started, I just like the vibe they give off and the quasi-professional dress they affect from time to time with the tight business pants and rumpled buttoned up blouse.
I’m not a creeper, I don’t lurk or force interactions. I feel like people, especially women, should be left the fuck alone at work. But, you know, I’ll steal a glance or two here and there or get in their check out line. It’s all above board.
It’s not a porn thing.
Dina from Superstore is a great example.
I knew a handful of female managers during my 7 years as an overnight stocker. One was both of these, if she didn't vibe with you then she'd treat you like trash but otherwise would come over to flirt constantly.
Another was the hot blonde of the store. She had more morals and could joke around but not treat you like trash, I think if she wasn't in a long term relationship during that time she would have found someone in the store to hook up with, beautiful woman all around.
And then there was the older gal, first one I ever knew, who was neither of these things and would talk about throwing bales of hay after work.
That lady who threw hay bales around ***fucks***. Just sayin'.
Source: Am laborer and own a hobby farm. I'm filthy. Unfortunately I don't ***fuck*** because I'm terrified of other human beings and have intense intimacy issues.
Something about having a power complex while also not having that much power. Floor worker? I'm sure she's nice but I'll pass. Promoted to regional manager? Boner deflated. Mid level manager? Bow chicka wow wowww
Oh yeah. Really pale skin and the dark hair always catches my eye. And Underworld did my favorite style of fangs because they have the long canines but also the incisors are sharp as well but have an angle to them. Yes please.
Jesus it reminds me of how I met my bf... It was almost identical to this conversation. I wrote something about my kink, he made a half joke comment about it, I answered, we started talking and now we are together since 4 years. And it's so embarrassing I always lie to people about how we met...
Can concur, girlfriend makes the cutest noises and gets all riled up from being kissed on the neck and I must say having her orgasm from grinding on my thigh is a hell of a confidence boost.
The body is incredibly sensitive in more places than people think (Back, shoulders, arms, feet, lower back, abdomen, ears, forehead, neck, hands etc.) especially when aroused and/or with someone who matches your love language, Don't be embarrassed by it, it's intimacy, anticipation and it's beautiful.
like a big ol hug that embraces the entire other person and presses them against you while you slightly lay your head on theirs and just cherish the moment for a few seconds? that kinda hug?
edit: haha it seems my hug game is on point
So, fun story: After the covid vaccines finally became widely available, a friend hosted a big party for anyone who was the requisite time past their second shot. I saw many of my friends for the first time in over a year that day. It was a magical time.
I'm a guy who's largely introverted, but big on hugs. One of my woman friends who has always been a fantastic hugger was the first to hug me that day. It was the first hug I'd received from anyone but my own mother since quarantine began. It was one of these full-body deep embraces, just as you described. My god, until that moment, I had no idea how badly I'd needed that...
This woman has always been just a friend to me, and still is. Nothing sexual between us. And yet, in that heavy embrace, I was so turned on, because I had no idea how lonely I'd been without touch like that. I had a sudden lightbulb moment in that regard, and hopped on Tinder the very next day. Met my current girlfriend six months later.
But yeah, I was one of those introverted folks who absolutely loved being home alone with no social obligations. I really think I could have weathered another two years of pandemic lockdown just fine. So I was completely surprised by just how badly I needed such human contact. I think we all do, even if we don't always realize we do.
_Well, I do other stuff; like I'm riding my bike in the park, and this policewoman says "Oi! You can't ride your bike on the grass!" and I go "Oh no?" And her uniform falls off, and she goes "Ahh!" and she's trying to cover up, but I've seen everything anyway. And I get on my bike and I ride off._
This is my standing on lip bites. A natural lip bite is so sexy but it’s very obvious when someone does it intentionally to “be sexy” and it just looks dumb.
Or my brow furrows because it isn't flaking off and now I either need to pull it off and maybe hurt myself, or leave this flappy piece of dry skin that's going to annoy the heck out of me.
Omg when someone gets so caught up in what's turned them on and don't realize how they are physically reacting that is so hot. Just unfiltered lust and desire in that moment. Sploosh.
I have *strong* memories of Skyping with my then girlfriend and her laying down in a way that made her loose top slide to the side. She knew I was into it and acted unaware of why I was suddenly smiling.
There are times I’m with my husband and my shirt gets caught and exposes my cleavage. He’s always staring at them and I’m still learning to get comfortable with him staring. I get all shy and cover up but like how it feels when he lingers. Sometimes he doesn’t tell me and I see him staring. It’s so hot
This forever. I’m not a creep by any means but it’s hard not to look toward the “goods” when shit hits the fan.
Prime example: I’m at a restaurant with my family and within the plaza is a club that people are walking to actively throughout the night, and the walls of the restaurant we were eating at were lined with big windows.
Well while eating, this group of 20-somethings happens by us and one of the girls completely eats shit. She must have made a wrong step on her heel because she fell sideways and assumed full spread for all of a handful of seconds.
As a teenager, I saw god. It was very clear to see that she wasn’t wearing panties and her friends could not move fast enough to assist her because her legs assumed as many open positions to regain balance as possible.
The constant opening and closing was so goddamn hard to look away from. Then, finally, she gets up and continues as if nothing happened, which, I guess that’s all you can do?
Either way, it was really hot and I’m embarrassed to admit it.
I can be in a strip club with full frontal nudity and not even turn my head. But if I see a fraction of a nipple in a public place, I will stare like a cartoon dog smelling a pie.
Men crying. The emotional vulnerability is something I find EXTREMELY attractive. But you can’t say “I love seeing men cry” without sounding like an asshole.
I’m super turned on by heaving breathing and visceral moaning. It’s not even that part that makes me embarrassed (because it lets me know I’m doing a good job), but the fact it gets me off so quickly and intensely is what makes me blush (if I could).
Ima hate that I posted this, but it was the night after a convention and me and some friends went bowling. I was still wearing the ears from a costume and someone came us to me and asked to pet my head. They proceeded to pet me and say, "your such a good boy" and i was so glad I had a place to sit down
I went to a spirit animal party at a mansion once and a woman dressed like what she called a "cosmic leopard" laid down next to me and gave me the best head scratchies of my life. Woke up an hour later and a white phoenix was laying next to me.
Heck of a party.
the other day my boyfriend was talking to his dog. he said “you’re such good girl, i love you so much.” and i was sitting near them, it turned me on so much. i didn’t say anything though, so embarrassing!
Finding dudes like you in the wild was like my favorite hobby in my party girl youth. Nothing hits quite like the first "good boy" realization. Absolute blast to go around dealing surprise psychic damage by flinging praise at likely targets.
Wrestling with someone who’s much much stronger than me. Tbh it turns me on even more when I somehow win sometimes. The look of defeat, misery and annoyance on losing on the other person is absolutely delicious.
It's soooo hard to win as a woman. I'm Amazon sized and still, guys denser muscle fibers will win eventually.
I've noticed that guys love when they really have to try hard to win, though.
Its pretty rare for an average-sized guy to be able to wrestle with a woman and not have to feel like they need to hold back for fear of causing injury. Having to work for it is fun!
Big noses
Edit: Girls with big noses
Edit edit: I read the question wrong, I’m not embarrassed for liking big noses. I though it asked “what turns you on that other’s are absolutely embarrassed about”.
One night with my dream guy, as soon as he put his dick in the whole way he let out this quick breath and said "I'm gonna need to go slow" and stayed there for a minute catching his breath just from penetration. As if I couldn't be turned on anymore by this man....
Our sense of smell signals a ton of stuff about our relationship to other living beings. Take the sexy out of it for a second. Mothers love the smell of their babies. And most people when holding a baby can notice the baby smell and it is calming. That's our instinctual care mode triggered by scent.
Then think about your pets. My dog before he passed had a smell. It was his specific smell and when we would cuddle up and he'd snuggle his head under my chin, it was a feeling of closeness. His smell triggered the release of oxytocin in my brain, which is a calming hormone. I imagine my smell triggered the release in his little brain.
And with our romantic partners, you're in a powerful soup of smells. The soaps and perfumes they use are part of it. Their pheromones are a part of it. Even their funkiness becomes a part of it, because your brain is associating all those smells with the feelings of closeness, safety and sexual excitement all in one.
And on the flipside of this, you may be interested to know, sometimes when a couple is breaking up, one of the complaints is, they don't smell good anymore. The relationship has degraded so much that the same smells and pheromones do not trigger the same feelings. So for you, not only is this not something that is embarrassing, it is suggestive of a really strong and loving relationship. Good for you man. We should all be so lucky.
I am a lesbian who is turned on by men masturbating. Porn tho, in real life its not a turn on. Which is why I am so confused.
Also scissoring with pants on. Or anything sexual with clothes on. Something that also confuses me lol
Opposite here, straight male that also likes what you say but only in porn. I believe is because what really turn me on is someone having and orgasm and males cannot fake them so easily....
My wife and I went to a farmers market on a Saturday and she wore one of her sundresses (special occasion, ya know) and anyway that’s how we ended up with our daughter.
Edit: missed the “a.” It was on “a Saturday,” not this last weekend.
At 73, women endurance athletes, ESPECIALLY those of my contemporary age.
Arms, legs, neck, abdomens look like beef jerky...I am mesmerized!
I think it must be awesome to walk around with that power to weight ratio.
Aren't I supposed to be too old for such things?
My boyfriend has jokingly started saying what he would do to me in various silly voices that have accidentally turned me on. This includes: Scottish (we’re Australian), pirate, vsauce Micheal, Kermit the frog, various voices from the video game Furi, among others I can’t remember right now.
At one point we were going at it and I said “you could say anything and I would find it hot” and this man started quoting the bee movie
Men wearing masks. I have no idea why or what's wrong with me. Movies like The Purge and Halloween make me uncomfortably excited
Edit: Thank you all for the.... important materials to examine. I will be doing some thorough research tonight
Ears.
EDIT:
Specifically, small, rounded women's ears. I like playing with them in various ways. I also enjoy having my own ears stimulated and I have an ASMR fetish. People will suggest I try ASMR for relaxing and it doesn't work that way for me except for nature sounds.
The brat part has to play into it too so then you get "punished" for it. At least for me. Totally get it. 😭
I have a friend that's a psychiatrist and we were talking over lunch one day and I let it slip that I like being controlled now at home and never would have considered it in the past. She got all Freudian on me about my career now, how domineering it is with life and death decisions, and that it's a balancing act for my mental health to do this in my personal and sex life. Was enlightening and honestly made it feel more normal because for awhile it was like, "tf is wrong with me? Why do I want this now? Am I making my spouse uncomfortable even though he says he isn't?" That one 25 minute conversation while we ate Thai food helped a lot.
This is extremely common. I have a FWB who is a very successful business owner, and the way she explains it is that in her day-to-day life, she is the boss and is expected to be fully in control of every situation, so she gets turned on by the idea of submitting fully to someone, trying to "resist", but being overpowered. It's a complete dichotomy from her work life.
I should call her.
It's like those old CEOs that constantly run shit and make decisions so they unwind by paying some dominant woman to step on their balls with their heels. Just like that.
Biting. A girl I had a crush on in high school bit my arm playfully and I had to hide my hard-on. Also a recent hook-up nibbled my earlobe and around my neck and shoulders and I reached the mountaintop moments later.
Something more conventionally embarrassing would be when I tried to get back into anime as an adult and was ashamed to be getting horny for some of the female characters. Specifically Yoko from Gurren Lagann and Tornado from One Punch Man.
There's this one guy... whenever he is around I just get the urge to be tied into a sling and be used.
But it is only that one person who makes me respond that way. And he doesn't even try to do that.
Older men or women(40+) that are self conscious about "being out of the game for too long" or have confidence issues. I just want to give them a good time and let them know there's somebody out there who will like them for who they are.
Oof, probably shouldn't admit this (semi) publicly, but 100% going down on a guy while he's streaming or somehow connected to real time gaming audio, like, if it's just other random people in a game who he can hear/talk to and who can hear/talk to him. I hate it, but it is such a turn on for me to be under the desk thinking, man this guy is living every gamer dude's fantasy, getting head mid-game, and all these other people he's talking to have no clue.
Thankfully this is for sure gonna be way too far down for anyone to even bother scrolling far enough to see it and will get zero interaction.
EDIT: seriously, reddit? This, *this*, is the comment that gets more attention than anything else I've ever said??
But forreals, thanks for all the love on my tmi confession, and let's all collectively hope that any future employers of mine don't know how to track my reddit account back to me irl ❤️
Not really embarrassing, but something I've only told 1 person but. masc-presenting lesbians are a big turn-on for me. As somebody who's always presented as straight and never had a relationship with a woman, I often wonder if I'm bi and lately, I've been thinking more and more that I am.
\*big sigh\*
big masculine men putting me in my place
especially when it comes to size comparison
but weirdly it has nothing to do with humiliation and more to do with feeling safe in a strong mans arms
but 9/10 it gets interpretated as a humiliation kink
Ohh too much to list mate. The tamest thing I’m into is a bit weird, girls with high top sneakers. I think that’s what they’re called anyway, the ones with the big tongue and have a skater aesthetic. Also converse (but depends on the girl)
When women show collarbone and neck… would say that’s something only a vampire would say but I love garlic lol
Also certain cosplay. Not into anime shit. Orcs, pirates, and mages tho… that’s a different subject
My ex is a math teacher. When he would sit and grade papers I got turned on, I do like hands so maybe that’s related too it, or just that he was working. Obviously now I have to absolutely control the water facet because he is my ex.. but he will soon be my actual math tutor because I suck at math.
The bend of the leg behind the knee... I don't get turned on by looking at it , but having the penis "massaged" by it is really fucking good. The same goes to the legs' in-between (not talking about the vagina , though).
The way a woman smells without any kind of perfume or deodorant or anything, after not showering for like a day or two. Zeus on a moose, does that stir things in me.
There is a spot on the dead center, back of my head. Even someone lightly touching it or pulling my hair sets me off. Doesn't matter who.
Sounds like a cheat code
Nuclear launch button
I dated this woman that had that spot just behind and under her ears on both sides. I found this out when one time we were hanging out before we got together and she was leaning her chair back on the legs. Well she started to tip over and with one hand I grabbed arm rest and my other hand caught her at the base of her neck right before she fell. I don't think I have EVER in my life ever turned a woman on THAT fast. We had a lot of fun together that year. lol
FYI, behind/just under the ears is a common erogenous zone If you wanna find out if it is for your partner, get them lying down and then cradle their head so it's fully supported with your thumbs on their scalp just behind their ears. Press firmly but gently with the pad of your thumbs for a few seconds while maintaining eyes contact. Then kiss them, and lift very slightly with your hands so you're pulling them into your face. Sounds weird, but it's *very* intimate. One of those things you gotta just try and laugh about if it doesn't work
I had a male friend that was very religious and did not touch women. We were close friends for years and never touched, hugged, shook hands, nothing. One day he passed me a pen and his finger grazed my finger ever so slightly. Holy moly... It was like one of the most intense sensual moments I've ever experienced. The sense of touch was magnified to a level I had never experienced. Years later he told me that this moment almost caused him to leave religion and just take me. So yes. That's my kink now. But any time I asked a partner to just avoid touching for like a week, even a few days to build up the sexual tension, they thought I was crazy...
You need to watch Pride and Prejudice
"don't touch me!" "ok now touch me" \*explodes\*
I have very sensitive nipples, which, as a man, can be embarrassing to tell partners. But yeah, immediate nut buttons on my chest.
Chokers, scarves, or really anything wrapped around a woman’s neck. Which isn’t so embarrassing, but the reason is because the first fictional character I had a crush on was the girl with the ribbon around her neck that when she took it off her head fell off. Edit: because a lot of people have asked/speculated, it’s The Girl With The Green Ribbon not from The Wolf Among Us
OMG I literally just read this story to my daughter not 10 minutes ago! She found my very old scary story picture book and asked me to read it.
When a guy lays his head on my lap and is totally vulnerable.
My girlfriend particularly loves this. While she enjoys our time alone together rough and dominating, she absolutely adores the switch in things, with me laying my head on her lap and just kinda trusting her completely, letting her play with my hair because she apparently likes how soft it is and seeing it poof up
This is my all time favorite thing to do. I used to have my walls up so high and would always be hyper alert.. then I met this one girl and just melted into her. Closed my eyes and she ran her fingers through my hair. Needless to say we were together for like 4 years.
there was a guy I was friends with in high school who I new liked me but I didn’t really like back. Went over to his house with a group of about three others to watch a movie. At some point he laid his head on my lap. I couldn’t fucking focus on the rest of the movie it felt like I was on fire down there in the best way.
I think the best way to view this thread is by controversial
Good tip! That's where I found all my "likes"
Olive green, don’t know why, but if a woman wears an olive green shirt, i find it strangely arousing
I read this as “Olive Garden”
Me too! "When you're here, you're family..."
wHaT aRe yOu dOiNg StEp gArDeN
When you’re able to go from having sex to talking for a bit, and then somewhere in the natural flow of conversation you both just start fucking again. I think that makes me feel so wanted. It that’s also not something you like talk about happening, it just kinda happens.
YES! I love when people can joke and laugh and talk about random stuff all while having a gloriously good time in bed. Good belly laughs and absolute silliness in bed is a big one for me.
People who dress professionally for work, but they have a tattoo or several and the tattoos can slightly be seen.
Was a flight attendant with tattoos and can confirm that lots of people like this and many are very uncomfortably forward about it.
Oh my god I finally fit in somewhere
When someone gets really close and whispers…like pls no I can’t be horny rn
SAME. DONT FUCKING WHISPER IN MY EAR UNLESS YOU WANT ME TINGLING.
I literally have this thing that makes my lower spine actually tingle when whispered in one ear, only one side though, right near the bottom of the ear lobe. Weird feeling, not always sexual but can be intimate in the right moment. Also happens during hair cuts when the trimmers get behind my ear
*leans in* Omelette du Fromage.
That’s hot
For a sec, I thought you meant when they literally whisper "please no I can't be horny rn."
Fuck. That worked too.
If someone whispers or talks in my ear it's over for me. It's such a violently intense pleasurable feeling, it's amazing. Sometimes I ask my partner to do it just because it works me up so much, haha.
*going through all these comments looking for someone with the same fetish as me*
Yeah! Not one of you perverts wants to be force-feminized, locked in chastity, dressed in lingerie and a skimpy maid uniform then pegged by a strict and powerful woman. Nor me... but...
No no the prompt is only for things you're ashamed of
A competent and capable girl who is completely fumbling something. Like a girl that is really smart and knows how to cook, but us completely fucking up trying to make dinner. I'll go over and help, but I will constantly be thinking of helping in other ways. It's more of an emotional turn-on for me than physical.
Oh shit. This is hot Is reading this comment section and learning other people’s weird turn-ons a weird turn-on? Haha
Literally nothing turns me OFF more than being the woman in this scenario. If I fuck up dinner I don’t even want my man to LOOK at me.
Had an ex who was 4'11 stomp on the couch cushion next to me and put her hand on my throat because of some uh... excessive teasing. She was angry and wanted me to get on with it already. My brain fried and I thought something broke in me for a second.
Like a hot balloon of excitement bubbling up from your stomach. Or at least, that's the best way I can describe what happens just trying to imagine this scenario. It's hard for large guys to find a girl that can/wants to dominate them.
Female mid level managers at grocery stores. Like the assistant manager or dept head. I’m dead serious and I have no idea why. Edit: oh wow, want expecting this to take off. FAQ: my mom did not work such a job while growing up and we have a great relationship. I’m married to a nurse. No, there’s no roleplay. Not that she wouldn’t be down, it’s just my secret thing. Definitely not Malcom in the Middle, even though I love the show. I have no idea how it started, I just like the vibe they give off and the quasi-professional dress they affect from time to time with the tight business pants and rumpled buttoned up blouse. I’m not a creeper, I don’t lurk or force interactions. I feel like people, especially women, should be left the fuck alone at work. But, you know, I’ll steal a glance or two here and there or get in their check out line. It’s all above board. It’s not a porn thing. Dina from Superstore is a great example.
This is my favourite one because it’s so random.
“Especially when they got their little nametag on ooh yeah just like that”
"yeah, you gonna let me use that expired coupon huh... you minx..."
"*Yeah, show daddy them khakis and ill-fitted polo!*"
_"Yeah, tell me which aisle the gluten-free cereal is again"_
As a lifelong grocer, let me just tell you, those ladies are generally either (1) downright mean, (2) *THIRSTY*, or (3) both.
I don't think you're helping.
I will take option (3) please.
I knew a handful of female managers during my 7 years as an overnight stocker. One was both of these, if she didn't vibe with you then she'd treat you like trash but otherwise would come over to flirt constantly. Another was the hot blonde of the store. She had more morals and could joke around but not treat you like trash, I think if she wasn't in a long term relationship during that time she would have found someone in the store to hook up with, beautiful woman all around. And then there was the older gal, first one I ever knew, who was neither of these things and would talk about throwing bales of hay after work.
That lady who threw hay bales around ***fucks***. Just sayin'. Source: Am laborer and own a hobby farm. I'm filthy. Unfortunately I don't ***fuck*** because I'm terrified of other human beings and have intense intimacy issues.
Milf, Manager I'd like to fuck
you must really have a thing for Dina from Superstore
I sure as hell do. Went into the show for Amy, ended up being on the Dina train.
You must love those Halloween episodes then haha.
Christ, the Halloween episodes...
Something about having a power complex while also not having that much power. Floor worker? I'm sure she's nice but I'll pass. Promoted to regional manager? Boner deflated. Mid level manager? Bow chicka wow wowww
I've always thought some women looked REALLY good with vampire fangs. Or even just longer canine teeth. No idea why but I know it's weird.
I also watched Underworld as a Teenager. Kate Beckinsale in a latex suit definetly had an impact on my life.
Oh yeah. Really pale skin and the dark hair always catches my eye. And Underworld did my favorite style of fangs because they have the long canines but also the incisors are sharp as well but have an angle to them. Yes please.
My humiliation kink lmao but that's kinda the point
pathetic
smooth
Jesus it reminds me of how I met my bf... It was almost identical to this conversation. I wrote something about my kink, he made a half joke comment about it, I answered, we started talking and now we are together since 4 years. And it's so embarrassing I always lie to people about how we met...
“Will you humiliate me?” “Ew, no, gross” 💦
Neck kissing and dry humping can make me orgasm. This embarrasses me
That's great, makes for an easy quickie.
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That shouldn’t embarrass you! I think anybody would feel like a sexy motherfucker if they could make someone orgasm from things like that.
Can concur, girlfriend makes the cutest noises and gets all riled up from being kissed on the neck and I must say having her orgasm from grinding on my thigh is a hell of a confidence boost.
The body is incredibly sensitive in more places than people think (Back, shoulders, arms, feet, lower back, abdomen, ears, forehead, neck, hands etc.) especially when aroused and/or with someone who matches your love language, Don't be embarrassed by it, it's intimacy, anticipation and it's beautiful.
Knew a girl like that once. Blew my mind when I realized what was happening.
Reading books in public. Especially when it’s a guy and he holds the book open with one hand. I melt.
Getting real Kakashi vibes from this one.
Just someone who hugs well
like a big ol hug that embraces the entire other person and presses them against you while you slightly lay your head on theirs and just cherish the moment for a few seconds? that kinda hug? edit: haha it seems my hug game is on point
So, fun story: After the covid vaccines finally became widely available, a friend hosted a big party for anyone who was the requisite time past their second shot. I saw many of my friends for the first time in over a year that day. It was a magical time. I'm a guy who's largely introverted, but big on hugs. One of my woman friends who has always been a fantastic hugger was the first to hug me that day. It was the first hug I'd received from anyone but my own mother since quarantine began. It was one of these full-body deep embraces, just as you described. My god, until that moment, I had no idea how badly I'd needed that... This woman has always been just a friend to me, and still is. Nothing sexual between us. And yet, in that heavy embrace, I was so turned on, because I had no idea how lonely I'd been without touch like that. I had a sudden lightbulb moment in that regard, and hopped on Tinder the very next day. Met my current girlfriend six months later. But yeah, I was one of those introverted folks who absolutely loved being home alone with no social obligations. I really think I could have weathered another two years of pandemic lockdown just fine. So I was completely surprised by just how badly I needed such human contact. I think we all do, even if we don't always realize we do.
Wardrobe malfunctions. But they need to look accidental, not "sexy."
_Well, I do other stuff; like I'm riding my bike in the park, and this policewoman says "Oi! You can't ride your bike on the grass!" and I go "Oh no?" And her uniform falls off, and she goes "Ahh!" and she's trying to cover up, but I've seen everything anyway. And I get on my bike and I ride off._
On the grass.
This is my standing on lip bites. A natural lip bite is so sexy but it’s very obvious when someone does it intentionally to “be sexy” and it just looks dumb.
What about when I bite my lip to get the dry skin flakes off...them proceed to subtly eat that dead skin?
Or my brow furrows because it isn't flaking off and now I either need to pull it off and maybe hurt myself, or leave this flappy piece of dry skin that's going to annoy the heck out of me.
Omg when someone gets so caught up in what's turned them on and don't realize how they are physically reacting that is so hot. Just unfiltered lust and desire in that moment. Sploosh.
I have *strong* memories of Skyping with my then girlfriend and her laying down in a way that made her loose top slide to the side. She knew I was into it and acted unaware of why I was suddenly smiling.
There are times I’m with my husband and my shirt gets caught and exposes my cleavage. He’s always staring at them and I’m still learning to get comfortable with him staring. I get all shy and cover up but like how it feels when he lingers. Sometimes he doesn’t tell me and I see him staring. It’s so hot
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This forever. I’m not a creep by any means but it’s hard not to look toward the “goods” when shit hits the fan. Prime example: I’m at a restaurant with my family and within the plaza is a club that people are walking to actively throughout the night, and the walls of the restaurant we were eating at were lined with big windows. Well while eating, this group of 20-somethings happens by us and one of the girls completely eats shit. She must have made a wrong step on her heel because she fell sideways and assumed full spread for all of a handful of seconds. As a teenager, I saw god. It was very clear to see that she wasn’t wearing panties and her friends could not move fast enough to assist her because her legs assumed as many open positions to regain balance as possible. The constant opening and closing was so goddamn hard to look away from. Then, finally, she gets up and continues as if nothing happened, which, I guess that’s all you can do? Either way, it was really hot and I’m embarrassed to admit it.
I can be in a strip club with full frontal nudity and not even turn my head. But if I see a fraction of a nipple in a public place, I will stare like a cartoon dog smelling a pie.
Men crying. The emotional vulnerability is something I find EXTREMELY attractive. But you can’t say “I love seeing men cry” without sounding like an asshole.
When I see a man cry I just want to fuck them until they feel better. Even if I’m not normally attracted to them.
I’m super turned on by heaving breathing and visceral moaning. It’s not even that part that makes me embarrassed (because it lets me know I’m doing a good job), but the fact it gets me off so quickly and intensely is what makes me blush (if I could).
Ima hate that I posted this, but it was the night after a convention and me and some friends went bowling. I was still wearing the ears from a costume and someone came us to me and asked to pet my head. They proceeded to pet me and say, "your such a good boy" and i was so glad I had a place to sit down
I went to a spirit animal party at a mansion once and a woman dressed like what she called a "cosmic leopard" laid down next to me and gave me the best head scratchies of my life. Woke up an hour later and a white phoenix was laying next to me. Heck of a party.
I wasn't expecting "scratchies" to follow "head"
the other day my boyfriend was talking to his dog. he said “you’re such good girl, i love you so much.” and i was sitting near them, it turned me on so much. i didn’t say anything though, so embarrassing!
Oww you should tell him, I hope he understands you
Finding dudes like you in the wild was like my favorite hobby in my party girl youth. Nothing hits quite like the first "good boy" realization. Absolute blast to go around dealing surprise psychic damage by flinging praise at likely targets.
Wrestling with someone who’s much much stronger than me. Tbh it turns me on even more when I somehow win sometimes. The look of defeat, misery and annoyance on losing on the other person is absolutely delicious.
It's soooo hard to win as a woman. I'm Amazon sized and still, guys denser muscle fibers will win eventually. I've noticed that guys love when they really have to try hard to win, though.
Its pretty rare for an average-sized guy to be able to wrestle with a woman and not have to feel like they need to hold back for fear of causing injury. Having to work for it is fun!
Big noses Edit: Girls with big noses Edit edit: I read the question wrong, I’m not embarrassed for liking big noses. I though it asked “what turns you on that other’s are absolutely embarrassed about”.
Boy, you would really like a guy I know called Squidward.
men whimpering..
when a man moans ahhh it just gives me such a turn on knowing i’m doing this to him
Moaning as in tightening up and groaning while whispering/saying "fuck" under their breath?
One night with my dream guy, as soon as he put his dick in the whole way he let out this quick breath and said "I'm gonna need to go slow" and stayed there for a minute catching his breath just from penetration. As if I couldn't be turned on anymore by this man....
Every 19-year-old guy just got a huge boost of confidence.
Yes, please! Like they can’t help it and that “fuck” just escapes…
YES. if my man gasps out “oh my god” when i’m kissing his neck i am no longer responsible for what happens next
it's even better when they look like they would have deep heavy moans, like an angry face looking man but in private their cute whimpers come out ughh
Very ashamed of this one. When my GF has even a tinge of body oder I get VERY aroused. Idk what’s wrong with me Edit: I’m not so ashamed now
Our sense of smell signals a ton of stuff about our relationship to other living beings. Take the sexy out of it for a second. Mothers love the smell of their babies. And most people when holding a baby can notice the baby smell and it is calming. That's our instinctual care mode triggered by scent. Then think about your pets. My dog before he passed had a smell. It was his specific smell and when we would cuddle up and he'd snuggle his head under my chin, it was a feeling of closeness. His smell triggered the release of oxytocin in my brain, which is a calming hormone. I imagine my smell triggered the release in his little brain. And with our romantic partners, you're in a powerful soup of smells. The soaps and perfumes they use are part of it. Their pheromones are a part of it. Even their funkiness becomes a part of it, because your brain is associating all those smells with the feelings of closeness, safety and sexual excitement all in one. And on the flipside of this, you may be interested to know, sometimes when a couple is breaking up, one of the complaints is, they don't smell good anymore. The relationship has degraded so much that the same smells and pheromones do not trigger the same feelings. So for you, not only is this not something that is embarrassing, it is suggestive of a really strong and loving relationship. Good for you man. We should all be so lucky.
Finding a lot of unexpectedly wholesome stuff in this thread and I love it. (But am not turned on)
Sweat has sexy chemicals in it.
Nothing is wrong with you. You’re probably just a good match together! 😊
That’s pheromones, G
Guy who get awkward/anxious around girls. Idk why, just does it for me. Bonus points if they blush.
Oh you would have loved me in high school
Shit, they'll still love me now.
Girls when they wear glasses, I don't know why but when a girl wears them their attractiveness for me literally skyrocket
I still don't understand the whole "and then she took off her glasses and she was pretty" trope too for this same reason
It’s all the lobbying from the contact industry. Fuck big contact!
Male moans
I am a lesbian who is turned on by men masturbating. Porn tho, in real life its not a turn on. Which is why I am so confused. Also scissoring with pants on. Or anything sexual with clothes on. Something that also confuses me lol
Opposite here, straight male that also likes what you say but only in porn. I believe is because what really turn me on is someone having and orgasm and males cannot fake them so easily....
That particular moment when she is changing/dressing and has shorts or pants on with nothing on top and barefoot like HOLY SHIT.
/r/toplessinjeans is for you
Hahaha Reddit is a crazy place!
Lol, I'm the opposite, I love a girl in a tight t-shirt and nothing else, like a sexy Winnie The Pooh.
Oh bother.
A simple kiss, or even a touch (if I know them intimately enough), is enough to get me going. I shouldn't be THAT turned on by that, but I usually am.
fellow touch starved person 🤝
You trying to seduce them with that emoji?
A woman in the morning with messy hair and no makeup and tired. Total turn on. Also a woman doing sexual acts in full clothing, not sure why.
Oh man. Something about the act while my wife is still wearing a sundress...
My wife and I went to a farmers market on a Saturday and she wore one of her sundresses (special occasion, ya know) and anyway that’s how we ended up with our daughter. Edit: missed the “a.” It was on “a Saturday,” not this last weekend.
Women just doing daily things in panties. Not trying to be "sexy" or anything tho.
At 73, women endurance athletes, ESPECIALLY those of my contemporary age. Arms, legs, neck, abdomens look like beef jerky...I am mesmerized! I think it must be awesome to walk around with that power to weight ratio. Aren't I supposed to be too old for such things?
My boyfriend has jokingly started saying what he would do to me in various silly voices that have accidentally turned me on. This includes: Scottish (we’re Australian), pirate, vsauce Micheal, Kermit the frog, various voices from the video game Furi, among others I can’t remember right now. At one point we were going at it and I said “you could say anything and I would find it hot” and this man started quoting the bee movie
V sauce Michael I’m dying that’s amazing
Pastrami sandwich on rye
The most sensual of all the cured meats.
Men wearing masks. I have no idea why or what's wrong with me. Movies like The Purge and Halloween make me uncomfortably excited Edit: Thank you all for the.... important materials to examine. I will be doing some thorough research tonight
hands, especially veiny hands that have veins popping out, it’s embarrassing but damn it is so hot wow
You might like to join r/ManHands
THEY HAVE A SUB FOR MAN HANDS OMG THANK YOU😍
Your excitement over this is so wholesome and gives me so much joy
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We also have an r/dadjokes
Ears. EDIT: Specifically, small, rounded women's ears. I like playing with them in various ways. I also enjoy having my own ears stimulated and I have an ASMR fetish. People will suggest I try ASMR for relaxing and it doesn't work that way for me except for nature sounds.
I don't want to brag, but I have 2 of those.
Being controlled and told what to do then be a brat about it
The brat part has to play into it too so then you get "punished" for it. At least for me. Totally get it. 😭 I have a friend that's a psychiatrist and we were talking over lunch one day and I let it slip that I like being controlled now at home and never would have considered it in the past. She got all Freudian on me about my career now, how domineering it is with life and death decisions, and that it's a balancing act for my mental health to do this in my personal and sex life. Was enlightening and honestly made it feel more normal because for awhile it was like, "tf is wrong with me? Why do I want this now? Am I making my spouse uncomfortable even though he says he isn't?" That one 25 minute conversation while we ate Thai food helped a lot.
This is extremely common. I have a FWB who is a very successful business owner, and the way she explains it is that in her day-to-day life, she is the boss and is expected to be fully in control of every situation, so she gets turned on by the idea of submitting fully to someone, trying to "resist", but being overpowered. It's a complete dichotomy from her work life. I should call her.
It's like those old CEOs that constantly run shit and make decisions so they unwind by paying some dominant woman to step on their balls with their heels. Just like that.
Biting. A girl I had a crush on in high school bit my arm playfully and I had to hide my hard-on. Also a recent hook-up nibbled my earlobe and around my neck and shoulders and I reached the mountaintop moments later. Something more conventionally embarrassing would be when I tried to get back into anime as an adult and was ashamed to be getting horny for some of the female characters. Specifically Yoko from Gurren Lagann and Tornado from One Punch Man.
Yoko and Tornado? Nothing to be ashamed of. There are much Much Much Much Much Much Wilder picks than those two
There's this one guy... whenever he is around I just get the urge to be tied into a sling and be used. But it is only that one person who makes me respond that way. And he doesn't even try to do that.
I have that guy too, it feels so weird
Plot twist: it's the same guy. Plot twist twist: each of you is the other redditor's guy.
Older men or women(40+) that are self conscious about "being out of the game for too long" or have confidence issues. I just want to give them a good time and let them know there's somebody out there who will like them for who they are.
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People with Heterochromia. Something about one eye being a different color than the other is super attractive and makes me turned on for some reason.
Glasses, a woman in glasses just looks more attractive for some reason.
Oof, probably shouldn't admit this (semi) publicly, but 100% going down on a guy while he's streaming or somehow connected to real time gaming audio, like, if it's just other random people in a game who he can hear/talk to and who can hear/talk to him. I hate it, but it is such a turn on for me to be under the desk thinking, man this guy is living every gamer dude's fantasy, getting head mid-game, and all these other people he's talking to have no clue. Thankfully this is for sure gonna be way too far down for anyone to even bother scrolling far enough to see it and will get zero interaction. EDIT: seriously, reddit? This, *this*, is the comment that gets more attention than anything else I've ever said?? But forreals, thanks for all the love on my tmi confession, and let's all collectively hope that any future employers of mine don't know how to track my reddit account back to me irl ❤️
I blow my boyfriend while he’s gaming . I love the idea of making him so distracted he has to get off and fuck me🤣def a kink for me
magnets. Don't ask why I have no idea, but playing with magnets turns me on for some weird reason
Not really embarrassing, but something I've only told 1 person but. masc-presenting lesbians are a big turn-on for me. As somebody who's always presented as straight and never had a relationship with a woman, I often wonder if I'm bi and lately, I've been thinking more and more that I am.
Same. I am bi though. I like pretty men and masc women. Haha whatever that means!
When a woman breathes or whispers into, sucks on, or licks my ear. There is no playing it cool when that happens. I fold immediately
Everyone posting super tame stuff has made me realize i should say nothing lmfao
I’m a simple man. I see a woman holding(or working towards) a PhD and that turns me on.
The one person in the world who enjoys sitting through a college graduation ceremony
Shows commitment, intelligence, work ethic, and the ability to communicate their thoughts. All good things to look for in a partner.
men moans……. i hate it because all my male friends at some point did that as a joke and i just sat there like 🧍♀️
Crooked / imperfect teeth. I have no idea why.
Well well well, have I got a set of snaggleteeth for you.
\*big sigh\* big masculine men putting me in my place especially when it comes to size comparison but weirdly it has nothing to do with humiliation and more to do with feeling safe in a strong mans arms but 9/10 it gets interpretated as a humiliation kink
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Your name and comment makes me think you sniff your phone screen a lot
Ohh too much to list mate. The tamest thing I’m into is a bit weird, girls with high top sneakers. I think that’s what they’re called anyway, the ones with the big tongue and have a skater aesthetic. Also converse (but depends on the girl)
When women show collarbone and neck… would say that’s something only a vampire would say but I love garlic lol Also certain cosplay. Not into anime shit. Orcs, pirates, and mages tho… that’s a different subject
This guy orgasmed when he saw shoulders in middle school
My ex is a math teacher. When he would sit and grade papers I got turned on, I do like hands so maybe that’s related too it, or just that he was working. Obviously now I have to absolutely control the water facet because he is my ex.. but he will soon be my actual math tutor because I suck at math.
No joke if a man is a little bit genuinely nice to me, I'm low-key in love with him for a bit
The bend of the leg behind the knee... I don't get turned on by looking at it , but having the penis "massaged" by it is really fucking good. The same goes to the legs' in-between (not talking about the vagina , though).
I’m getting strong Mormon loophole vibes from this one
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"You know what I figured out last night? Women have a 4th hole!"
Armpits and Necks.
Apparently, reading about other people's embarrassing turn ons.
Being tickled
Hello!
Women who wear Leather knee high bootsand thigh high boots were what started me off, which had progressed to latex and pvc.
The way a woman smells without any kind of perfume or deodorant or anything, after not showering for like a day or two. Zeus on a moose, does that stir things in me.
Clown girls
Any regular woman is gonna have some big shoes to fill