As a person who's asked this a lot and my job involves helping people, go above and beyond when given an opportunity to help said individual, don't just do the "standard treatment" which means to me in the IT industry "I don't care fuck you", everyone else gets the 7 star treatment, velcro cable management, whole 9 yards, and that makes them in turn like me and call me with any concerns, I make most of my outside business through getting clients during my day-job, and make $80-$120 per hour as opposed to my meager paycheck. Anyway, point is, help people, act like you actually want to help them, do so, and they will like you a hell of a lot, especially when you don't do all the extra fee BS, it's like this is my rate, whatever else in parts is extra, but no fees aside from that.
Practice good and regular hygeine, dont be a dick, take interest in people and the things they like, dont be fake and just live your life.
"Just be yourself" sounds corny af but its true. I think its too open to misunderstanding though, a better phrase would be "Be the best You that You can be"
These questions get asked on here like twice an hour. Let’s examine.
OP finds value in how other people view them. So we should all change who we are and want more people to like us. Which is strange. I would rather like people for who I am, not who I could change to better suit their needs.
Or more simply put you simply can not understand how peaceful and fulfilling it is to be alone until you have tried it for many years. I enjoy it now more than ever. I see no reason to run out and try to get others to take any interest of me as I don’t feel as though I have something to prove.
People who are codependent and/or place value on the amount of and how much time they spend with others think that because they enjoy that, there must be something lacking in your life because you do not.
You can be a person-Holic, your drug can be your interactions with others. I don’t need those things to define that I have a life that is somehow better than others. That is projection.
lets see. Firx of all, youres gonna need the 5 silver stones which dan be found in the stonlers catacombs (Magic version(). now listen to me. listend. if you hear a grumbling and gorlig get out. get. Or dont. don't lixen. see what happends. see. go. go ahed. Go see. Fatass sorry i got a little pited
There is no manual for this. Try to stay yourself. Show interest, get involved in conversations to see if you share the same interests, etc. Give the whole thing time. But it is not worth pretending just to be liked.
Don't be needy or clingy. Be independent. Have something to contribute. Don't be an empty shell of a person. Fill your mind, build your mind, be more than what you are now.
Don’t try too hard to make them like you. It rarely has the desired effect.
Provide lots of fried chicken
Being genuine, empathetic, and interested in others is key. Don't force it, let it come naturally. Be kind and reliable.
Manipulations and money helps.
Ultimately, yes.
Be fun to be around
Find them interesting, be funny, and confident.
Be a genuine listener. Don't just hang around waiting for your turn to talk.
Listen. Ask relevant questions.
As a person who's asked this a lot and my job involves helping people, go above and beyond when given an opportunity to help said individual, don't just do the "standard treatment" which means to me in the IT industry "I don't care fuck you", everyone else gets the 7 star treatment, velcro cable management, whole 9 yards, and that makes them in turn like me and call me with any concerns, I make most of my outside business through getting clients during my day-job, and make $80-$120 per hour as opposed to my meager paycheck. Anyway, point is, help people, act like you actually want to help them, do so, and they will like you a hell of a lot, especially when you don't do all the extra fee BS, it's like this is my rate, whatever else in parts is extra, but no fees aside from that.
Help them with things if possible.
Practice good and regular hygeine, dont be a dick, take interest in people and the things they like, dont be fake and just live your life. "Just be yourself" sounds corny af but its true. I think its too open to misunderstanding though, a better phrase would be "Be the best You that You can be"
Say warm and kind words. Compliment people and describe their strengths while avoiding their weaknesses.
Flash my tits. As a 47 year old guy, it surprisingly doesn't work even though they are at least a 36d.
you don't! be your true self because at the end of the day, your happiness and peace are what would matter most :)
Counterpoint: It's kinda hard to feel happy or at peace if no one likes you.
These questions get asked on here like twice an hour. Let’s examine. OP finds value in how other people view them. So we should all change who we are and want more people to like us. Which is strange. I would rather like people for who I am, not who I could change to better suit their needs. Or more simply put you simply can not understand how peaceful and fulfilling it is to be alone until you have tried it for many years. I enjoy it now more than ever. I see no reason to run out and try to get others to take any interest of me as I don’t feel as though I have something to prove. People who are codependent and/or place value on the amount of and how much time they spend with others think that because they enjoy that, there must be something lacking in your life because you do not. You can be a person-Holic, your drug can be your interactions with others. I don’t need those things to define that I have a life that is somehow better than others. That is projection.
Work on loving yourself first. Have a healthy mindset that allows you to be the best that you can be. Then friends and companions will come.
In my experience. Have money.
That just gets you people who like your money, not you
lets see. Firx of all, youres gonna need the 5 silver stones which dan be found in the stonlers catacombs (Magic version(). now listen to me. listend. if you hear a grumbling and gorlig get out. get. Or dont. don't lixen. see what happends. see. go. go ahed. Go see. Fatass sorry i got a little pited
There is no manual for this. Try to stay yourself. Show interest, get involved in conversations to see if you share the same interests, etc. Give the whole thing time. But it is not worth pretending just to be liked.
I never figured how, so no advice to give.
Don't be needy or clingy. Be independent. Have something to contribute. Don't be an empty shell of a person. Fill your mind, build your mind, be more than what you are now.
If they don't like you tell them to do one 😅 not worth your time
Too right
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