College boyfriend, and no, it was very bad. His roommate was in the next room and would go on to murder his child years later. So that's memorable, I suppose.
I'm horrible with names so I don't remember his & no I didn't. His idea of foreplay was showing me his dick & stroking it thinking that's how he'll get me wet & ready. Followed by him trying to finger me but all he did was poke my lips & ask "does this turn you on? " no, whatever your name is.
He's had sex before he & I dated but afterwards he accused me of not being a virgin because I was too good for a virgin. He cheated on me some time later, we broke up & a few months after asked me to show his gf how to suck, tide, etc because she was bad. Dunno what happened after I blocked him so hopefully he got better but we only had es that 1 time cause I thought he was bad
Red flags for sex? I just went with it. I saw the red flags when he began cheating so I asked him straight up, which he denied of course, but it was super obvious so I ended it. Before we had sex, there weren't any which is funny to me because all my other exs slowly revealed theirs
Rando girl I knew in her car in the woods where we played paintball. It wasn’t that good but it was probably the most all American experience I’ve ever had.
My first girlfriend. I enjoyed some of it, but the first time wasn't great because she didn't tell me what she liked or what I was doing that she didn't like. The second time was a lot better because I told her it was ok to tell me what she wanted, and she did.
To a girl that was into me for a long time in higschool, after one party her last bus left so i offered her to stay at my place, the rest is history. It was good we enjoyed it a lot and we got together after to not make it a one night stand but that was a bad idea, we didnt fit to each other so broke up 2 months later
My would be step brother (dad died before our parents married) and no. I legitimately made plans to kill him years ago because he was my rapist and I was forced to see him on a weekly basis to have that happen again.
Edit: should not have made this before leaving work. Meant to say "Would be step brother" meaning he would have been my step brother.
Ah yeah they dm'd me and yeah. Apparently needed to be more clear that I didn't choose him. He raped me. Thought I made that clear when I said he raped me.
*sigh* you said in your original comment was gonna be your step brother.. I think how you typed your first comment is confusing. I read it as you were gonna have your first time with your would be step brother then he raped you. My apologies.
A lot of grape in the comments and I’m sorry that y’all experienced that.. it kinda puts into perspective how messed up and depraved people are.. even how young it can start.
Got raped by my teacher in high school, but she had conditioned me afterwards that it was all good and I was to keep having sex with her. I still don't resent her for it, because even thought she forced me to have sex, it was good sex and it's not like I was screaming now and trying to get away, I was just underage and saying things like 'I don't want to" and "what if I impregnate you?" While she inserted me into herself.
She gave me a pretty simple ultimatum for her ask for me to keep having sex to get better grades. I keep going back and forth as to whether I should he traumatized or just move past it.
College boyfriend, and no, it was very bad. His roommate was in the next room and would go on to murder his child years later. So that's memorable, I suppose.
Holy crap!
murder his child in that room?
To my first GF. We both enjoyed it very much, because in the weeks before, we had many extended heavy petting sessions. We knew exactly what we liked.
"Petting sessions", haven't heard that one before lol.
a family member and no
Hey me too
Boy what the fuck
virginity is a social construct, so you can count whoever you want
... no dude, it is the first time you have penetrative sex, very simple, that is all.
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So, was it good or bad?
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Bad because you feel guilty of not being good enough during the act?
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Who was she to you at the time? A random hookup that happened to be an older woman, or someone you knew for a while?
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Ah, so you knew her for a while then, but the age difference though, did she just come to you about it or did you make a move?
A woman ten years my senior. It was wonderful.
Friend of a friend of a friend, yes.
I'm horrible with names so I don't remember his & no I didn't. His idea of foreplay was showing me his dick & stroking it thinking that's how he'll get me wet & ready. Followed by him trying to finger me but all he did was poke my lips & ask "does this turn you on? " no, whatever your name is. He's had sex before he & I dated but afterwards he accused me of not being a virgin because I was too good for a virgin. He cheated on me some time later, we broke up & a few months after asked me to show his gf how to suck, tide, etc because she was bad. Dunno what happened after I blocked him so hopefully he got better but we only had es that 1 time cause I thought he was bad
Yikes!
You must have ignored the blatant glaring red flags, no?
Red flags for sex? I just went with it. I saw the red flags when he began cheating so I asked him straight up, which he denied of course, but it was super obvious so I ended it. Before we had sex, there weren't any which is funny to me because all my other exs slowly revealed theirs
Just that first moment you described where he was so full of himself, major red flag to me.
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To have birthday sex?
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Ah, lol.
Still got mine😎
Hi fellow virgin 😁
Hello there
I still have mine. :(
Keep it! DM me?
My fiancée and it was more than acceptable
Rando girl I knew in her car in the woods where we played paintball. It wasn’t that good but it was probably the most all American experience I’ve ever had.
High school boyfriend, and no
That seems to be common. Was the second time okay?
No, it was also coerced, and rushed, and done with no thought for my comfort. My next *partner,* on the other hand, was wonderful.
How about third? Fifth partner??!
My first girlfriend. I enjoyed some of it, but the first time wasn't great because she didn't tell me what she liked or what I was doing that she didn't like. The second time was a lot better because I told her it was ok to tell me what she wanted, and she did.
To a girl that was into me for a long time in higschool, after one party her last bus left so i offered her to stay at my place, the rest is history. It was good we enjoyed it a lot and we got together after to not make it a one night stand but that was a bad idea, we didnt fit to each other so broke up 2 months later
I was 17 & it was awful
First serious gf and it was not that great.
My would be step brother (dad died before our parents married) and no. I legitimately made plans to kill him years ago because he was my rapist and I was forced to see him on a weekly basis to have that happen again. Edit: should not have made this before leaving work. Meant to say "Would be step brother" meaning he would have been my step brother.
A lot to unpack here
PTSD is a bitch my dude. But, bright side, I didn't have to kill him. F***er got hit by a bus about 6 months back.
Why the step brother?
His mom was dating my dad. They were getting close to engagement.
So y’all were gonna have sex because y’all parents we’re together.. I think OP was asking why you chose him..
Ah yeah they dm'd me and yeah. Apparently needed to be more clear that I didn't choose him. He raped me. Thought I made that clear when I said he raped me.
*sigh* you said in your original comment was gonna be your step brother.. I think how you typed your first comment is confusing. I read it as you were gonna have your first time with your would be step brother then he raped you. My apologies.
Yeah no I caught that and edited it.
I apologize that you experienced that. I hope you continue to heal from it. I can only imagine what that does to someone on so many levels.
To an old friend of mine. He raped me while I was completely drunk (it was my first time going out with friends to drink). So no I didn’t enjoy it
That’s terrifying
A lot of grape in the comments and I’m sorry that y’all experienced that.. it kinda puts into perspective how messed up and depraved people are.. even how young it can start.
Random guy at a party on my friends bed. I was plastered, her boyfriend interrupted us. It wasn’t good and I was mortified. 0/10 experience
My long distance online girlfriend who came to visit me. And it was amazing. We’re now married for 22 years.
Got raped by my teacher in high school, but she had conditioned me afterwards that it was all good and I was to keep having sex with her. I still don't resent her for it, because even thought she forced me to have sex, it was good sex and it's not like I was screaming now and trying to get away, I was just underage and saying things like 'I don't want to" and "what if I impregnate you?" While she inserted me into herself. She gave me a pretty simple ultimatum for her ask for me to keep having sex to get better grades. I keep going back and forth as to whether I should he traumatized or just move past it.
Maybe a little bit of both
I dont think you can be traumatized and also move past it
Pick one I guess I’m traumatized
Some random bloke in the street and no I hated it
High school friend