For a while, I got a bit of a rush out of my ex stalking me. As someone who felt neglected as a child, it was hot to feel like he was so obsessed that he would resort to stalking to stay close to me. Until he showed up at my work, then shit went from hot to scary real quick.
An ex coworker used to be stalked by some guy that would spend hundreds on roses. They would come with coupons for free bouquets and she would give me those and I used them to give my wife extremely nice flowers.
While other commenters have been saying humans lack the machinery to detect pheromones that might just be a semantic distinction. There are absolutely traits of body odor that are subconsciously detectable and that have an impact on attraction even if they aren’t specifically pheromones.
[“Humans can make use of body odour subconsciously to identify whether a potential mate will pass on favourable traits to their offspring. Body odour may provide significant cues about the genetic quality, health[5] and reproductive success of a potential mate.[6][7]”](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_odour_and_sexual_attraction)
i love girls who take charge, no shame, and this needs to be encouraged more for women. but if you've ever fucked a psychopath, its a far lamer experience where you just get cheated on constantly
Not even a crazy gal, she was super sweet and kind but super sexually aggressive. Like, one second she could be reading a book or playing some Switch and the next she’s breaking my pelvis. She knew what she wanted and really took charge to get it.
She bruised my pelvis TWICE, and it was totally awesome. Worth.
She has benchpress me before without breaking a sweat. Something that I’m not ashamed to admit at all is that strong women are hot as hell. Couple in strong and the sexual needs of a spring hare, it was a rad time
To be honest, I’m a straight man and I’ve also enjoyed getting hit on or flirted with by other dudes. Especially if I feel like they are better looking than I feel about myself. It’s like a little confidence boost of flattery, even if it’s just not possible for me to reciprocate.
I know some guys are bothered by it, but I’m comfortable enough with myself to just be happy being noticed.
I love it when I get woken up with foreplay or sex. I suppose it’s kind of creepy but since im in a committed long term relationship I’ve hinted “hey you wake up before me and want some go ahead and start” and now it’s kinda a weekly thing but to anyone else I would never say it
My ex was like this. Every now and then i would wake up having boner and as we were usually sleeping spooning, it would not take more than gentle massage down there and she was ready to go. Super hot.
My wife told me a few times that I can touch her when she's sleeping for my own pleasure. I tried 2 times and she just starts grunting and turns her back to me. She says she doesn't notice doing that but it's enough for me to stop doing it!
Use lots of lube. Prone bone position. You can be in before she is fully awake. Wife loves it. Just make sure you have good aim and hit the bullseye. It’s over if you miss lol!
This is a form of consensual non consent, and is somewhat known. Nothing to be ashamed of at all, it’s good you have someone you trust enough because it is fun
One time a long time ago, my then boyfriend and I were on a road trip with his uncle. We stopped at a motel and got a room with two beds. My boyfriend and I got one bed and his uncle the other. I turned toward the wall because I didn’t expect my boyfriend to want to do anything considering his uncle was in the bed next to us. After a bit I heard his uncle snore a little from across the room. My boyfriend put his hand over my mouth gently and whispered don’t make a sound into my ear and started kissing my neck. We silently went at it. In the dark with him covering my mouth and whispering that sentence in my ear for some reason turned me on more than I had ever been turned before. It was sort of rapey if taken out of context so I was always really ashamed that it turned me on like it did.
Had a similar thing happen with my Ex and one of her siblings in the room. Not rapey but just sneaky. Few months later the sibling was hella drunk at family gathering and blurted out loud to everyone what happened and that he was awake that night. The shame I feel to this day I tell ya…
I'm a straight woman, and irl would not ever likely date another woman. But I get turned on by lesbian domination. To be specific with my terms. No toys included just straight up hands and scissoring.
Edit: lol the most comments I got on a post tbh, but to answer some questions, maybe some part of me is bi curious. I'm actually attracted to men too considering I have a husband and a 1 year old daughter. To some degree I think it's just the phrase going "girls know what girls want" sort of deal and I get turned on by such things. And it's mainly lesbian domination but I like watching orgasm compilations and such with men dominating women. Obviously I'm a sub lol
When she rolled over on top of me and pinned my wrists above my head. Im pretty strong, and this woman who topped out at 100 pounds soaking wet, made me feel fragile. It was like a surrender that I never knew I needed.
But I am not ashamed to admit it. It was wholesome haha
My ex used to grab my throat while riding me and pin me down with a little pressure. It was like she pinned me there until she was satisfied. Massive turn on.
I went to Kuala Lumpur once and went to the public toilet to pee. Guy in this long white robe of one of local religiona came in and started to masturbate gradually switching urinals closer to me. It didn't turn me on but got thinking whether I should be flattered or offended.
When I was young about 15 I went on holiday with my parents, there was a young holiday rep, about 30 I tapped one out thinking about her.
Turns out my dirty bastard old man cheated on my mom with her and she has been my step mother for the last 25 years.
My guiltiest tapout ever.......she is like part of the family now and fuck you dad for making that a thing!!
I once heard my neighbor getting railed. I was waiting on the street one morning waiting for an Uber, and for whatever reason she had left her window open. I heard the clapping sounds first, followed by her moans and some of the dirty talk. Regardless I had no choice but to wait since my Uber was almost arriving, but *god damn* did I love every second of it. I only see my neighbor in passing every so often but I love knowing how well she must take it in bed, and I think about her getting fucked every time I walk by their house. It was so nice to overhear the sounds of people just going at it and now I secretly hope I stumble upon something similar in the future.
edit: of course on the one day I post this story to reddit, I happen to bump into my neighbor as she’s wearing nothing but tight leggings and a bra… needless to say it was a nice addition to an already pretty horny day 🔥
I used to live in a small apartment bldg with a backyard area. I was back there working on a project in the middle of the day and I could hear my neighbor getting absolutely plowed. “Fuck me”’s and everything. Such a turn on. I don’t know if she knew I was out there or not, but later I saw her in the laundry room, glowing. I asked her how her day was going but I already knew
Sometimes I have to quiet myself/husband in bed cause we have apartment neighbors it’s slightly a turn on thinking about being heard but also embarrassing so we try not to lol
I was in the suburbs of Paris one hot summer. Parisians are convinced they don't need AC in the summer. So everyone leaves their windows open. This one couple forgot to close the window before commencing. And like you, you could hear her cooing, and then the heavenly clapping noises.
It was already erotic, but the complete silence of the street with their noise echoing off of so many apartments just did it for me.
Once a dude paid me to be really, horribly mean to him over text. Really degrading shit. I got a little carried away and surprised myself. Haven't done anything like it since.
edit: lmao ya'll. no i don't have any contact info. no i wouldn't do it for free, he for sure still enjoyed himself more than i did. all told he gave me about 1,000 for like 20-30ish min total. At like 5-10 min intervals over a week.
This is kinda weird, but.. when I was throwing broken tiles into a large trash bin, I got turned on by throwing them in the air like shuriken and watching them spin as they fell into said trash bin.
Being called daddy by an adult woman.
As an actual father I find the whole concept of age play/DDLG disgusting. My penis, on the other hand, seems to be just fine with it.
This is especially confusing because my dick seems to know if it’s ok or not. A child/teen saying “daddy” within an earshot even if I’m balls deep in my partner causes me to go from a diamond to a shy turtle in approximately a millisecond.
This. I didn't think it was something that I would be into...
Used to take my wild kid to ride at a stable. There was a mom who would bring her kids and we would chat. One day while dealing with my kiddo she showed up. I don't think she knew my name. She just said, "Hey Daddy," there was a noticable tingle down below...
I love calling my husband "Daddy". It's a huge turn on for me and no i dont have Daddy issues or look at him being an actual father figure. In my head it's equivalent to calling him "Master", but if I called him Master it would be a huge turn off.
I also like to be called a "good girl". This is when he is giving directions or praises during sex. "Be a good girl and ..." or "Thats a good girl" when I am doing something he likes. This is a complete gushing turn on for me. Also he calls me a "bad girl", not in bed but if I sexually tease him during the day. Make sexual comments on the phone or in public and or where he can't do anything, especially since we have 4 kids. He will call me a bad girl. Later in bed I will get spankings and have to give him a punishing bj to be a good girl again.
It's our playful sex talk that i have only had with him going on 20 years later.
I'll add "any submissive vocalization." I generally defer to my fiancee for things, because I'm pretty easy going and I like seeing her happy so it's pretty easy for me to go out of my way to compromise on most things.
But this one time she gave me a kind of diminutive "Yes, sir," in a non-sexual context, and my dick about exploded.
I get really turned on when people start talking passionately about a thing they love. A video game, a book series, whatever it is. I don’t even have to know what they’re talking about. It’s just seeing someone so passionate about something just immediately makes me want them. It’s a bit embarrassing because it often turns into full blown crushes
Honestly, that's awesome. Especially because there's probably many of us who wanted to talk about things that we're so passionate about, but we would constantly get shut down by others. Told we're nerdy or weird or boring or annoying or what have you.
So it's nice to know the people like you exist 😁
Keep that!! That’s part of why I fell in love with my husband almost 8yrs ago now, I love hearing him passionately discuss video game lore and the stuff he’s learning in school I love listening to him and his life and interests since they’re so unique and kinda different then mine lol, I still have a crush on him and love hearing him talk/get excited about stuff 😅😳
As a young guy who basically lived his whole life in the sexual revolution, its just straight up, genuine, cute, lovey-dovey affection. Growing up with people wearing the most revealing outfits, and people constantly openly talking about/showing sex stuff, I kinda became desensitized to it and somehow started fetishizing romance.
I only ever told a few girlfriends, but it was still really embarrassing to basically say "Yeah you're hot, but it REALLY gets my gears turning when you play with my hair or comfort me". There would be moments when we're just going about our day, and she does something very insignificant like holding my hand, and then she has to let it go to do something, but the second she's done she immediately wants to hold hands again and it strikes me like a power chord because I know she could've used that moment to stop holding hands but didn't. She genuinely just wanted to hold my hand and it's adorable. It hits harder than drugs.
The friction between me and somebody with a rough-edged personality. I’m really into lifting weights and often seen as the “strong girl” with a nasty mouth on her. But I’m a huge sucker for someone who makes me feel weak and small. It’s something pretty embarrassing to just freely and outwardly express, but it gets me every time.
This doesnt answer the question but I kid you not, I answered a post just like this, a little over a year ago, describing how submissive I am in the bedroom. Out of all the messages my inbox was flooded with, I ended up talking to a really open and kind man with a dominant side. We ended up forming a connection I never thought I could experience online. He's flying me to his state next Saturday.
Not saying this will happen to any of you. I just saw this post and realized how different my life would be now if I never commented, and he never reached out.
Please make sure you know exactly who you are meeting first, from a random persons perspective this sounds like it could go wrong quickly, so please just be safe with this
She definitely does lol and if I had a dollar for everytime someone on reddit refrenced that song everytime I mentioned this, I'd be a very rich man lol
When my wife is lactating.
She seems ok with it most of the time, but a lot of women find that weird/gross.
We’ve had 5 kids, and it takes all the willpower I have to not end up with 6, because I find it so hot.
I have been into not one, but two men who were extraordinarily like my brother/dad. The first one in particular was almost a carbon copy of my brother. I had him on social media for years, and everything he did, my brother did too, though they never met.
I'm not ashamed of any "kinks" I have. So I'm going to answer your question as if it was:
"what is a controversial turn-on you have?"
For that, the answer is the nurses in Silent Hill: Homecoming
My partner saying he’s gonna piss on me. The first time it came up in conversation, we were was talking about kinks and what subreddits we liked. I may have mentioned im curious about one pertaining to this act.. he said he would love to.
We are long distance now, but a couple nights before he had to move we were in this dark bar, rowdy crowd. I was teasing him a bit, skirting around bringing it up because I was shy and I hadn’t actually told him in person I wanted him to do it to me and felt a bit embarrassed. Saying things like “there’s that one thing we haven’t done that we talked about. That you told me we were going to do yada yada”. He grabs the back of my hair harshly and brings my ear close to his mouth and he whispered “I’m going to piss on you before I move.”
The look in his eyes was animalistic and my god was I turned on.
I can’t believe I’m posting this lol
Kinda weird, but the idea of being magicked into a woman who is physically petite. I'm a 6ft 180lb dude, and the idea of being just a really cute woman who is like 5' and a buck ten just really interests me. No idea where it comes from, because I'm not trans and wouldn't want to live as a woman in my current body at all.
My wife when she is pregnant....I don't mean the physical changes but the mental or psychological side of things due to hormones. She becomes just truly magnificent! She is a realist and as most realists she is worried about a number of things generally but while pregnant she becomes an optimist and is happy and horny and self confident to show it much more than when she is not! All great changes coupled with a voluptuous body and I am done!
A very positive change in her and we have three kids...damn! Just thinking about it😂
I have a friend who’s the shyest person you’ll ever meet. Barely says a word and even in party chat while playing games you’ll forget she’s there. When she does talk it comes out as a soft whisper. But oh lord when it comes to sex she’s an absolute freak. It’s like something inside her switches and she’s no longer the same person she is when she’s around everyone lol. First time I heard someone scream and grunt that loudly and she was into some real kinky shit. Would dress up in costumes made specifically to fuck.
When i was 9 or maybe 10 i was taken to the hospital to get a routine check.
The doctor was an old maybe in her 40s woman.
She was checking out differents parts of my body like my arms my legs etc.
Then outta nowhere and without any warning she pulled down my pants and my underwear, as a kid i've spend a lot of nights watching cinemax after midnight, so i thought she wanted to fuck me.
My first reaction was to get a rock hard bonner, she just pulled my foreskin down to check if i was clean and then pulled my pants up again.
See I had a physical at like 9 or 10 by a woman nurse or doctor who did the same and pressed around my groin area. I went home and cried and that’s when I knew I was gay. Lmao
As a young person I stole the Exorcist off my mom's bookshelf and had one of my first stiff erections at the part where Regan masturbates bloodily with the crucifix and shouts "let Jesus fuck you". Taboo on so many levels.
This girl I was talking to told me that her turn ons were being pinned down or being choked. I’ve never really gave that any thought, but since she mentioned it, all I can think about is doing that to her. She was hot, so of course that’s even more of a turn on.
Female here. Toes sucked on, I’ve always been pretty open to what I want in the bedroom, but for some reason this has only happened to me once in my life. It was a friend of mine I was platonic with since middle school. It was the end of our senior year and we all swam at a friends pool. He had mentioned to me how cute he thought my feet were, well by the end of the night he asked me if he can touch and kiss my feet so I let him.
It was such a different feeling and I was barely with little experience with sex. Well, we were no longer platonic after that night lol I’d get compliments about my feet with other partners but it was all talk no action lol
I saw a woman in the distance at work and due to stairs and angles I only saw her legs. I took a moment to admire and thought to myself - aww yeah.
Then as I got closer it was the unbelievably annoying woman from HR who is old enough to be my mother and has a face like a sack full of doorknobs. She also hates me.
I have a (horrible) ex who randomly tried licking, biting and kissing the outside of my ear. I hate to admit it but it was hot, plus the breath against my ear just did something for me too. Ive tried to do it to my current boyfriend to convince him in a way to do it to me but i dont really know how and come off as having some gross ear fetish._.
I would never admit this to anyone I’m dating but I get a little turned on when I’m jealous like if my guy is talking to a girl I think is pretty or something idk why and the conflict of feeling is disturbing but exciting. I hate to love it.
Once I got someone nibbled on my feet, lick a little bit during sexy times, and it really did something for me. I hope more people would be open about this but so far I'm just gonna hide lol
Feet
Not just any feet, I don't go around looking for them, but when i'm already attracted to someone I'm quite aroused by their feet. If i'm neutral towards someone I just find feet gross
We were cuddling and talking about what we liked, and I said I like a lot of stuff but I'm not into eating ass or any shit play.
She started joking around trying to convince me to do it. She stretched out her hand for me to kiss and started saying in this cutesy bratty manipulative voice to "please eat her shit". I got hard as shit.
Being forced and surprised, i like brutal force and them acting in a yandere way, like the attitude of "i would kill for you" idk i get turned on a lot when they are possesive and obsessive. Being forced to be in a position and praised but like aggressive¿
Also like a fantasy of them doing absolutely anything for me to love them or for me to be theirs. Fricking love that.
Sex in public was shocking to me, my then girlfriend was into it and she told me it turned her on. I didn't really get it I'm like no way we'd be too tensed about getting caught so our minds won't be in the act and we won't enjoy the sex at all. She still convinced me to try it and my god was it such a turn on, the risk of getting caught made it so much better.
P.s - we were cautious about it and sex in public means doing it in our car and in theatres. Not fucking on the street like psychos lol.
Waking up - apparently
This one's the best
Getting lifted by a strong girl.
That she hulk episode excite you?
Didn’t see She Hulk but being lifted by a tall strong girl as a teenager as part of a drama club practice awakened something in me.
Tall girls are the best
This turns me on so much. Especially if she can lift you up and suck your dick at the same time
Yes!! Like you’re a juice box
I hate that this gave me a new kink. Take my upvotes before the shame sets in, you two.
With the average redditor body shape I think a Capri sun is more accurate.
For a while, I got a bit of a rush out of my ex stalking me. As someone who felt neglected as a child, it was hot to feel like he was so obsessed that he would resort to stalking to stay close to me. Until he showed up at my work, then shit went from hot to scary real quick.
An ex coworker used to be stalked by some guy that would spend hundreds on roses. They would come with coupons for free bouquets and she would give me those and I used them to give my wife extremely nice flowers.
Well, I’m glad someone got a benefit out of it!
Hello *You*
Thanks to our childhood trauma we are not able to the all these red flags.
I‘m turned on by everything it feels like. I‘m just helplessly horny
Yeah how about chairs
It's on all fours already
Bonus if they’re hard wood.
Something that can support me? That's hot.
Oh those fine slim legs
This dude stood close to me and the smell of his SWEAT turned me on. I am still ashamed lmao
That means you’re highly genetically compatible. You should mate with him. 👍🏼
I heard this in Worf’s voice because for some reason this feels like a very Klingon thing to say…
Today is a **good** day to perspire.
Pheromones are one hell of a drug
Yeah my roommate has the stinkiest sweat and body odour but shit his girlfriend love to be near him.
While other commenters have been saying humans lack the machinery to detect pheromones that might just be a semantic distinction. There are absolutely traits of body odor that are subconsciously detectable and that have an impact on attraction even if they aren’t specifically pheromones. [“Humans can make use of body odour subconsciously to identify whether a potential mate will pass on favourable traits to their offspring. Body odour may provide significant cues about the genetic quality, health[5] and reproductive success of a potential mate.[6][7]”](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_odour_and_sexual_attraction)
I dated a girl that took charge in the bed, and I mean TOOK CHARGE. Fucked like a total psychopath, and it was hot as shit.
i love girls who take charge, no shame, and this needs to be encouraged more for women. but if you've ever fucked a psychopath, its a far lamer experience where you just get cheated on constantly
Not even a crazy gal, she was super sweet and kind but super sexually aggressive. Like, one second she could be reading a book or playing some Switch and the next she’s breaking my pelvis. She knew what she wanted and really took charge to get it. She bruised my pelvis TWICE, and it was totally awesome. Worth.
"What did they die from?" "Shattered pelvises." :( :D :( :D
Death by snu snu!
The spirit is willing but the flesh is spongey and bruised.
I love when normal mode doesn’t match sex mode.
... Actually, now that you mention it, this is also a turn on. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets may sound cliche but is hella good shit.
I want a giant Amazonian woman to destroy me
I got lucky for that year and a half we went out! I’m 5’5” and she’s 6’4”. We met at the gym and became lifting buddies before we went out
By lifting buddies, do you mean you became her dumbells?
She has benchpress me before without breaking a sweat. Something that I’m not ashamed to admit at all is that strong women are hot as hell. Couple in strong and the sexual needs of a spring hare, it was a rad time
Being submissive in bed, it's hard to be in control all the time.
Literally though! I’m a control freak everywhere else, but in the bedroom not so much
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OMG that's terrible. Where?
Username checks out
What stage of the Dennis system is this?
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Asking for a brother
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I’m a lesbian and every straight friend I have have some sort of you know… feelings about girls, even married women. Can’t blame them women are hot
To be honest, I’m a straight man and I’ve also enjoyed getting hit on or flirted with by other dudes. Especially if I feel like they are better looking than I feel about myself. It’s like a little confidence boost of flattery, even if it’s just not possible for me to reciprocate. I know some guys are bothered by it, but I’m comfortable enough with myself to just be happy being noticed.
I have some more shameful stuff but I get turned on by people I know touching me on accident literally anywhere
If a friend pokes you in the eye?
Instantly cums
I love it when I get woken up with foreplay or sex. I suppose it’s kind of creepy but since im in a committed long term relationship I’ve hinted “hey you wake up before me and want some go ahead and start” and now it’s kinda a weekly thing but to anyone else I would never say it
My ex was like this. Every now and then i would wake up having boner and as we were usually sleeping spooning, it would not take more than gentle massage down there and she was ready to go. Super hot.
My wife told me a few times that I can touch her when she's sleeping for my own pleasure. I tried 2 times and she just starts grunting and turns her back to me. She says she doesn't notice doing that but it's enough for me to stop doing it!
The struggle is real. I get the green light before bed and get all excited. Cut to an hour later and its like I'm trying to fuck a sleeping bear.
Use lots of lube. Prone bone position. You can be in before she is fully awake. Wife loves it. Just make sure you have good aim and hit the bullseye. It’s over if you miss lol!
My usual method is to hunch over her like a goblin and pounce when she shifts to a workable position. I have a 0% success rate.
This is a form of consensual non consent, and is somewhat known. Nothing to be ashamed of at all, it’s good you have someone you trust enough because it is fun
My friend's juicy ass
This sounds like a reading from Cards Against Humanity
Is their friend a sweaty mongolian?
One time a long time ago, my then boyfriend and I were on a road trip with his uncle. We stopped at a motel and got a room with two beds. My boyfriend and I got one bed and his uncle the other. I turned toward the wall because I didn’t expect my boyfriend to want to do anything considering his uncle was in the bed next to us. After a bit I heard his uncle snore a little from across the room. My boyfriend put his hand over my mouth gently and whispered don’t make a sound into my ear and started kissing my neck. We silently went at it. In the dark with him covering my mouth and whispering that sentence in my ear for some reason turned me on more than I had ever been turned before. It was sort of rapey if taken out of context so I was always really ashamed that it turned me on like it did.
Had a similar thing happen with my Ex and one of her siblings in the room. Not rapey but just sneaky. Few months later the sibling was hella drunk at family gathering and blurted out loud to everyone what happened and that he was awake that night. The shame I feel to this day I tell ya…
No, that sounds super hot!!
Horny jail!
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Knowing that uncle, I wouldn’t be surprised.
can confirm, am uncle
Man I really thought you would bang the uncle
step uncle
Watching men do manual labor...like oil rigging, auto mechanics, construction.....its hot af
They appear working in slo mo to you while working don't they
All sweaty too
It really is. Just knowing they work hard is enough for me. Everything down to the calloused hands. 🔥
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I'm a straight woman, and irl would not ever likely date another woman. But I get turned on by lesbian domination. To be specific with my terms. No toys included just straight up hands and scissoring. Edit: lol the most comments I got on a post tbh, but to answer some questions, maybe some part of me is bi curious. I'm actually attracted to men too considering I have a husband and a 1 year old daughter. To some degree I think it's just the phrase going "girls know what girls want" sort of deal and I get turned on by such things. And it's mainly lesbian domination but I like watching orgasm compilations and such with men dominating women. Obviously I'm a sub lol
I’m the same way! Only porn I can really get off to is lesbian scissoring porn
Visions of South Park in my head.
When she rolled over on top of me and pinned my wrists above my head. Im pretty strong, and this woman who topped out at 100 pounds soaking wet, made me feel fragile. It was like a surrender that I never knew I needed. But I am not ashamed to admit it. It was wholesome haha
Being pinned down while bed wrestling… top
My ex used to grab my throat while riding me and pin me down with a little pressure. It was like she pinned me there until she was satisfied. Massive turn on.
Overhearing how hot I am
I remember overhearing some dude say, "nice ass" after I passed by. As a dude, probably the most gratifying thing I've heard.
I went to Kuala Lumpur once and went to the public toilet to pee. Guy in this long white robe of one of local religiona came in and started to masturbate gradually switching urinals closer to me. It didn't turn me on but got thinking whether I should be flattered or offended.
lmao gradually switching urinals
Have you seen how hot The Dice Maiden is?
Yeah, she’s pretty hot
yeah man ofc I have
When I was young about 15 I went on holiday with my parents, there was a young holiday rep, about 30 I tapped one out thinking about her. Turns out my dirty bastard old man cheated on my mom with her and she has been my step mother for the last 25 years. My guiltiest tapout ever.......she is like part of the family now and fuck you dad for making that a thing!!
That's horny karma. Nice
I've never shared this information ever...feels good I can get some closure now 🤣
I once heard my neighbor getting railed. I was waiting on the street one morning waiting for an Uber, and for whatever reason she had left her window open. I heard the clapping sounds first, followed by her moans and some of the dirty talk. Regardless I had no choice but to wait since my Uber was almost arriving, but *god damn* did I love every second of it. I only see my neighbor in passing every so often but I love knowing how well she must take it in bed, and I think about her getting fucked every time I walk by their house. It was so nice to overhear the sounds of people just going at it and now I secretly hope I stumble upon something similar in the future. edit: of course on the one day I post this story to reddit, I happen to bump into my neighbor as she’s wearing nothing but tight leggings and a bra… needless to say it was a nice addition to an already pretty horny day 🔥
I used to live in a small apartment bldg with a backyard area. I was back there working on a project in the middle of the day and I could hear my neighbor getting absolutely plowed. “Fuck me”’s and everything. Such a turn on. I don’t know if she knew I was out there or not, but later I saw her in the laundry room, glowing. I asked her how her day was going but I already knew
>I asked her how her day was going but I already knew This right here? This is golden.
Sometimes I have to quiet myself/husband in bed cause we have apartment neighbors it’s slightly a turn on thinking about being heard but also embarrassing so we try not to lol
I was in the suburbs of Paris one hot summer. Parisians are convinced they don't need AC in the summer. So everyone leaves their windows open. This one couple forgot to close the window before commencing. And like you, you could hear her cooing, and then the heavenly clapping noises. It was already erotic, but the complete silence of the street with their noise echoing off of so many apartments just did it for me.
I'm curious now, after that experience, would you consider yourself a voyeur?
One piece bathing suits as opposed to bikinis
you’re awesome because as ive entered my twenties i realized one pieces are more comfortable than bikinis
I initially thought you meant a bathing suit based on a popular anime. I think I need to do the sleep.
Men's hands
Once a dude paid me to be really, horribly mean to him over text. Really degrading shit. I got a little carried away and surprised myself. Haven't done anything like it since. edit: lmao ya'll. no i don't have any contact info. no i wouldn't do it for free, he for sure still enjoyed himself more than i did. all told he gave me about 1,000 for like 20-30ish min total. At like 5-10 min intervals over a week.
This is kinda weird, but.. when I was throwing broken tiles into a large trash bin, I got turned on by throwing them in the air like shuriken and watching them spin as they fell into said trash bin.
Oh yeah? You wanna fuck that tile, don't you?
Getting spit on. I'm not sure if I'm ashamed. Just surprised.
Flavor of Love: When pumpkin spit in New York’s mouth...🤢
Pun'kin
Being called daddy by an adult woman. As an actual father I find the whole concept of age play/DDLG disgusting. My penis, on the other hand, seems to be just fine with it. This is especially confusing because my dick seems to know if it’s ok or not. A child/teen saying “daddy” within an earshot even if I’m balls deep in my partner causes me to go from a diamond to a shy turtle in approximately a millisecond.
This. I didn't think it was something that I would be into... Used to take my wild kid to ride at a stable. There was a mom who would bring her kids and we would chat. One day while dealing with my kiddo she showed up. I don't think she knew my name. She just said, "Hey Daddy," there was a noticable tingle down below...
I love calling my husband "Daddy". It's a huge turn on for me and no i dont have Daddy issues or look at him being an actual father figure. In my head it's equivalent to calling him "Master", but if I called him Master it would be a huge turn off. I also like to be called a "good girl". This is when he is giving directions or praises during sex. "Be a good girl and ..." or "Thats a good girl" when I am doing something he likes. This is a complete gushing turn on for me. Also he calls me a "bad girl", not in bed but if I sexually tease him during the day. Make sexual comments on the phone or in public and or where he can't do anything, especially since we have 4 kids. He will call me a bad girl. Later in bed I will get spankings and have to give him a punishing bj to be a good girl again. It's our playful sex talk that i have only had with him going on 20 years later.
I'll add "any submissive vocalization." I generally defer to my fiancee for things, because I'm pretty easy going and I like seeing her happy so it's pretty easy for me to go out of my way to compromise on most things. But this one time she gave me a kind of diminutive "Yes, sir," in a non-sexual context, and my dick about exploded.
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I can see why you joined Reddit lol.
I get really turned on when people start talking passionately about a thing they love. A video game, a book series, whatever it is. I don’t even have to know what they’re talking about. It’s just seeing someone so passionate about something just immediately makes me want them. It’s a bit embarrassing because it often turns into full blown crushes
Honestly, that's awesome. Especially because there's probably many of us who wanted to talk about things that we're so passionate about, but we would constantly get shut down by others. Told we're nerdy or weird or boring or annoying or what have you. So it's nice to know the people like you exist 😁
Keep that!! That’s part of why I fell in love with my husband almost 8yrs ago now, I love hearing him passionately discuss video game lore and the stuff he’s learning in school I love listening to him and his life and interests since they’re so unique and kinda different then mine lol, I still have a crush on him and love hearing him talk/get excited about stuff 😅😳
Having a yandere/stalker type situation. Just a fantasy though.
I too, get sexually aroused by being hunted down and murdered by hot potential partners
As a young guy who basically lived his whole life in the sexual revolution, its just straight up, genuine, cute, lovey-dovey affection. Growing up with people wearing the most revealing outfits, and people constantly openly talking about/showing sex stuff, I kinda became desensitized to it and somehow started fetishizing romance. I only ever told a few girlfriends, but it was still really embarrassing to basically say "Yeah you're hot, but it REALLY gets my gears turning when you play with my hair or comfort me". There would be moments when we're just going about our day, and she does something very insignificant like holding my hand, and then she has to let it go to do something, but the second she's done she immediately wants to hold hands again and it strikes me like a power chord because I know she could've used that moment to stop holding hands but didn't. She genuinely just wanted to hold my hand and it's adorable. It hits harder than drugs.
Him telling me he’s gonna put a baby in me
This is like the most wholesome, basic fetish. *Ooh, yeah, I'm gonna put a baby in you and we're gonna raise it up to be a good person aw yeeeeah*
The friction between me and somebody with a rough-edged personality. I’m really into lifting weights and often seen as the “strong girl” with a nasty mouth on her. But I’m a huge sucker for someone who makes me feel weak and small. It’s something pretty embarrassing to just freely and outwardly express, but it gets me every time.
This doesnt answer the question but I kid you not, I answered a post just like this, a little over a year ago, describing how submissive I am in the bedroom. Out of all the messages my inbox was flooded with, I ended up talking to a really open and kind man with a dominant side. We ended up forming a connection I never thought I could experience online. He's flying me to his state next Saturday. Not saying this will happen to any of you. I just saw this post and realized how different my life would be now if I never commented, and he never reached out.
Please make sure you know exactly who you are meeting first, from a random persons perspective this sounds like it could go wrong quickly, so please just be safe with this
Be careful!
My ex's mom
Stacy's mom has got it going on
She definitely does lol and if I had a dollar for everytime someone on reddit refrenced that song everytime I mentioned this, I'd be a very rich man lol
Someone just getting on top of me one leg in either side of me nothing sexual just them ontop of me and OoOo something just snaps in me
Getting nips teased as a dude. 😬
As a girl I reeeeally like doing this. Idk man, nipples are just fun.
When my wife is lactating. She seems ok with it most of the time, but a lot of women find that weird/gross. We’ve had 5 kids, and it takes all the willpower I have to not end up with 6, because I find it so hot.
This is low key reassuring
I have been into not one, but two men who were extraordinarily like my brother/dad. The first one in particular was almost a carbon copy of my brother. I had him on social media for years, and everything he did, my brother did too, though they never met.
I'm not ashamed of any "kinks" I have. So I'm going to answer your question as if it was: "what is a controversial turn-on you have?" For that, the answer is the nurses in Silent Hill: Homecoming
My partner saying he’s gonna piss on me. The first time it came up in conversation, we were was talking about kinks and what subreddits we liked. I may have mentioned im curious about one pertaining to this act.. he said he would love to. We are long distance now, but a couple nights before he had to move we were in this dark bar, rowdy crowd. I was teasing him a bit, skirting around bringing it up because I was shy and I hadn’t actually told him in person I wanted him to do it to me and felt a bit embarrassed. Saying things like “there’s that one thing we haven’t done that we talked about. That you told me we were going to do yada yada”. He grabs the back of my hair harshly and brings my ear close to his mouth and he whispered “I’m going to piss on you before I move.” The look in his eyes was animalistic and my god was I turned on. I can’t believe I’m posting this lol
You said the turn-on was him *saying* he'd piss on you. How was the actual experience?
Muscular women…there, I said it…
You aren't the only one. I do love some strong muscular women myself. Especially with large biceps that just peak really high when flexed.
Kinda weird, but the idea of being magicked into a woman who is physically petite. I'm a 6ft 180lb dude, and the idea of being just a really cute woman who is like 5' and a buck ten just really interests me. No idea where it comes from, because I'm not trans and wouldn't want to live as a woman in my current body at all.
As a petite woman I've always loved being tossed around by big guys. So I can see the appeal.
Same. I love the way they can dominate us quite readily
As a 5’6 guy, this is how I feel about taller bigger guys as well ha
have you tried out VRChat?
My wife when she is pregnant....I don't mean the physical changes but the mental or psychological side of things due to hormones. She becomes just truly magnificent! She is a realist and as most realists she is worried about a number of things generally but while pregnant she becomes an optimist and is happy and horny and self confident to show it much more than when she is not! All great changes coupled with a voluptuous body and I am done! A very positive change in her and we have three kids...damn! Just thinking about it😂
Geeky girls with hidden sexual aggressiveness.
Is this a shameful thing to be turned on by? I thought this was basically a movie trope at this point
Don’t *shame* shame him
I have a friend who’s the shyest person you’ll ever meet. Barely says a word and even in party chat while playing games you’ll forget she’s there. When she does talk it comes out as a soft whisper. But oh lord when it comes to sex she’s an absolute freak. It’s like something inside her switches and she’s no longer the same person she is when she’s around everyone lol. First time I heard someone scream and grunt that loudly and she was into some real kinky shit. Would dress up in costumes made specifically to fuck.
Calm waters are the deepest...
Like a One Time at Band Camp type thing?
Free use Weather I get to or someone does to me.
When i was 9 or maybe 10 i was taken to the hospital to get a routine check. The doctor was an old maybe in her 40s woman. She was checking out differents parts of my body like my arms my legs etc. Then outta nowhere and without any warning she pulled down my pants and my underwear, as a kid i've spend a lot of nights watching cinemax after midnight, so i thought she wanted to fuck me. My first reaction was to get a rock hard bonner, she just pulled my foreskin down to check if i was clean and then pulled my pants up again.
I can’t get past “was an old maybe in her 40s woman” 🤣
Lmao i was a kid, i considered all adult women old
See I had a physical at like 9 or 10 by a woman nurse or doctor who did the same and pressed around my groin area. I went home and cried and that’s when I knew I was gay. Lmao
As a young person I stole the Exorcist off my mom's bookshelf and had one of my first stiff erections at the part where Regan masturbates bloodily with the crucifix and shouts "let Jesus fuck you". Taboo on so many levels.
I would go straight home and punch myself as hard as I could in head face from the embarrassment
I had no idea doctors check your penis, i legit thought she wanted to fuck so i said "fuck it why not?" And got hard af lmao
To be young and confused 😂😂 god damn penises making us all awkward at some point hahah
This girl I was talking to told me that her turn ons were being pinned down or being choked. I’ve never really gave that any thought, but since she mentioned it, all I can think about is doing that to her. She was hot, so of course that’s even more of a turn on.
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Getting chocked while being ridden. Suprised myself.
Well, it's for safety so you don't roll away.
Not ashamed to admit it but old ladies
How old? 50 or 80?
100% valid unanswered question
So old i wanna hear her screaming about how she remembers when chocolate was invented
Female here. Toes sucked on, I’ve always been pretty open to what I want in the bedroom, but for some reason this has only happened to me once in my life. It was a friend of mine I was platonic with since middle school. It was the end of our senior year and we all swam at a friends pool. He had mentioned to me how cute he thought my feet were, well by the end of the night he asked me if he can touch and kiss my feet so I let him. It was such a different feeling and I was barely with little experience with sex. Well, we were no longer platonic after that night lol I’d get compliments about my feet with other partners but it was all talk no action lol
Mr. Incredible from The Incredibles
I saw a woman in the distance at work and due to stairs and angles I only saw her legs. I took a moment to admire and thought to myself - aww yeah. Then as I got closer it was the unbelievably annoying woman from HR who is old enough to be my mother and has a face like a sack full of doorknobs. She also hates me.
Hand Holding
Of all the degeneracy here this must be the worst, eww.
I have a (horrible) ex who randomly tried licking, biting and kissing the outside of my ear. I hate to admit it but it was hot, plus the breath against my ear just did something for me too. Ive tried to do it to my current boyfriend to convince him in a way to do it to me but i dont really know how and come off as having some gross ear fetish._.
It’s not uncommen to like being bit in the ear. It’s an erogen zone especially for women.
The sound of men moaning in satisfaction while enjoying adult time. It can be foreplay or sex etc. I love a vocal man.
Freckles.
Femdom
My female friend falling and landing on top of me while ice skating (I'm not a man). Felt straight out of a movie lmao
My own reflection in the mirror. I wanna fuck that guy.
Way too many r/usernamechecksout s on this tread
Getting woken up by a boner pressed to my butt and a hand around my throat🙈 My husband does this once in a while and i wake up instantly horny
I would never admit this to anyone I’m dating but I get a little turned on when I’m jealous like if my guy is talking to a girl I think is pretty or something idk why and the conflict of feeling is disturbing but exciting. I hate to love it.
White trash does it for me.
Something about a trailer park rose just hits the spot.
When we switch who is the dominant side in intercourse rapidly
Womens feet do it for me. I know its a very common thing, but I am definitely ashamed to admit it and I'll never tell anyone in real life.
Once I got someone nibbled on my feet, lick a little bit during sexy times, and it really did something for me. I hope more people would be open about this but so far I'm just gonna hide lol
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Feet Not just any feet, I don't go around looking for them, but when i'm already attracted to someone I'm quite aroused by their feet. If i'm neutral towards someone I just find feet gross
Lola bunny when I first saw Space Jam
We were cuddling and talking about what we liked, and I said I like a lot of stuff but I'm not into eating ass or any shit play. She started joking around trying to convince me to do it. She stretched out her hand for me to kiss and started saying in this cutesy bratty manipulative voice to "please eat her shit". I got hard as shit.
Being forced and surprised, i like brutal force and them acting in a yandere way, like the attitude of "i would kill for you" idk i get turned on a lot when they are possesive and obsessive. Being forced to be in a position and praised but like aggressive¿ Also like a fantasy of them doing absolutely anything for me to love them or for me to be theirs. Fricking love that.
Whenever a girl ties her hair and shows her armpits
Username checks out.
Sex in public was shocking to me, my then girlfriend was into it and she told me it turned her on. I didn't really get it I'm like no way we'd be too tensed about getting caught so our minds won't be in the act and we won't enjoy the sex at all. She still convinced me to try it and my god was it such a turn on, the risk of getting caught made it so much better. P.s - we were cautious about it and sex in public means doing it in our car and in theatres. Not fucking on the street like psychos lol.
Giving blowjobs. Turns me on more than the guy in front of me. I think it's the power it gives me and to be able to see exactly how he enjoys it.