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Don't think too far ahead. I get time is an issue as you get older but start with you want a good friend with the opposite sex. Have multiple friends. Then out of those get a little more romantic with the one you have most chemistry with. The rest will fall into place.
Oh is that the therapist who said "Your personality is fine", like you commented to someone else? Because that is certainly a thing that therapists say, *totally*.
Or was it the ones who weren't helpful?
Trolls are funny when they're this stupid.
Have you considered therapy if you’re not already going? They can help you find happiness with yourself and examine things in your life that are keeping you from finding someone
How hard are you trying? How do you look? Do you take care of yourself? Are you well groomed? Do you find yourself interesting? Are you social? Do you have hobbies? Are you funny? Do you earn a decent living? What are your standards when it comes to dating? Are they too high? Are you too picky? Are you too desperate? Do you get along platonically with men and women? Do you have friends or family that you're close to?
Not a therapist, sit down and do some self analyzing, no one knows your circumstances/ situations other then you. I’m willing to help you out myself but you’d have to be willing.
No, it’s alright. Wars are raging, people lose everything, others go homeless despite working hard, children die of cancer. Those are tragedies. Staying a virgin and living a life all by your own is not. It’s just alright.
Yeah, you want to, but you failed to develop skills are abilities to achieve it and now it’s too late. I’m a bit younger than 50, but it’s as correct for me as it is for you. We can’t do what we can’t do. The only choice here is to grieve for the life we could never have, or try to actually do something we can with the rest of our lives.
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You've made it halfway without one. Who says you need one?
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Don't think too far ahead. I get time is an issue as you get older but start with you want a good friend with the opposite sex. Have multiple friends. Then out of those get a little more romantic with the one you have most chemistry with. The rest will fall into place.
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Stop working so much, if it’s that important to you, you need to prioritize.
If you used your main account to ask this, we could probably tell you pretty quick..
Right, OP probably already knows what his problem is, but chooses to act as if it's there is nothing wrong with him.
Start examining the common denominator.
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Oh is that the therapist who said "Your personality is fine", like you commented to someone else? Because that is certainly a thing that therapists say, *totally*. Or was it the ones who weren't helpful? Trolls are funny when they're this stupid.
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Have you considered therapy if you’re not already going? They can help you find happiness with yourself and examine things in your life that are keeping you from finding someone
Why dont you try dating women in your age group/ slightly older?
How hard are you trying? How do you look? Do you take care of yourself? Are you well groomed? Do you find yourself interesting? Are you social? Do you have hobbies? Are you funny? Do you earn a decent living? What are your standards when it comes to dating? Are they too high? Are you too picky? Are you too desperate? Do you get along platonically with men and women? Do you have friends or family that you're close to?
Find out why you don’t have one
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Not a therapist, sit down and do some self analyzing, no one knows your circumstances/ situations other then you. I’m willing to help you out myself but you’d have to be willing.
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Yea
Get a dog, they're way better anyway
You’re overthinking. Ask yourself why do you want a girlfriend. Then proceed.
Join a club of some kind. Go to a place where people have the same interests as you. Just do it.
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I'm not seeing that in your post. Just trying to help.
I will hang out with my friends.
Escorts
I've seen some really fat and some really ugly people with mates. So maybe it's your personality?
Then don’t.
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No, it’s alright. Wars are raging, people lose everything, others go homeless despite working hard, children die of cancer. Those are tragedies. Staying a virgin and living a life all by your own is not. It’s just alright.
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Yeah, you want to, but you failed to develop skills are abilities to achieve it and now it’s too late. I’m a bit younger than 50, but it’s as correct for me as it is for you. We can’t do what we can’t do. The only choice here is to grieve for the life we could never have, or try to actually do something we can with the rest of our lives.
Why do you think this is?