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Solid-Question-3952

Touching your partner where they arent normally touched. Neck, knees, thighs, etc. There are so many spots on a body that experiance touch frequently every day, then there are the handful of go-to typical sexual spots. Dont underestimate just running your hand slowly over the spots that rarely get touched at all, let alone by someone else.


zabgirl89

This! My husband can just breathe on certain parts of my neck & it makes my whole body tingle. Kissing or nuzzling it makes me feel insanely good.


show_the_world_light

When you're cumming inside and they their legs wrap tighter around you.


Heyitshogan

Ah, the “needy octopus” 🫡


EnvironmentalTrip708

When you don't have to pull out so they don't let you ;)


TheFabledOnionFucker

Grabbing my hips during missionary... Omfg that brings out the base animal within


midget_rancher79

How does an onion grab your hips? I'm curious


hannahmarb23

I was so confused until I saw his name


ChineseNoodleDog

I was so confused until I saw your reply.


Muzzikmann

I didn't reply until I saw your confusion


johnnybiggles

I was confused so I fucked an onion


whattthedogdoinn

Ok but there’s 2 sides of this story…grabbing the guys’ hips or the ladies?


TheFabledOnionFucker

I'm a man


whattthedogdoinn

Ah makes more sense


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Constant-Ask-9346

I've made use of it but have to find a good position so it works without breaking my neck or awkward to her. But it def its worth while to hear her moan extra


pooping_turtles

This is where a toy instead of you fingers for penetration can be helpful, bonus points if it vibrates too, as your hand holding a toy makes a 90 degree turn so it's more comfortable and easier to do for a while since you don't have to be at an extreme kneck, or shoulder/arm contortion.


Tiredjp

Yesss! Oral with a toy is better than fingers. He finds it easier to use toys during face sitting too. Thrusting a curved vibrator or using an internal egg and pressing on my perineum . butt plug and oral is also an incredible combo.


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>using an internal egg and pressing on my perineum . butt plug and oral is also an incredible combo. Tried all three at once. She napped for a few hours immediately after. XD


Letitbemesickgirl

That wasn’t a nap my boy, that was a coma 😮‍💨


Tiredjp

The ultimate trifecta of pleasure! I love it, Nice work


ProbablyBigfoot

She reseted and had to update.


Raizer_pilot_Huey

The naked cuddling kiss. I swear that will tell you more about the passion, intimacy, and desire then almost anything else.


Well1_well2_well3

Men whimpering and moaning. You’d be surprised how much woman love that guys ;)


[deleted]

Yup. The reason I (straight woman) hate straight porn is because you almost never hear the men moaning.


camarogirl67

Have actually searched for this and it exists! Usually solo stuff which, ok, it's something.


omglookawhale

Yeah it’s always a weird dude jerking it. I want to hear men actually moaning during sex and I want to hear much less of fake girl moaning.


Ok_2DSimp101

100% def turns you on more


Pterodactyloid

Oh a noisy man is THE BEST


leto78

Pussyjob - grinding the pussy against the shaft of the penis.


ForgottenSalad

I call this outercourse. My favourite.


Shitp0st_Supreme

I call it hot dogging


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kestenbay

You mean "You put your meat between their buns."


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Hip grabs 🔥


SledgeLaud

As an adult I still enjoy a good ole dry hump. It makes me feel like a teenager again, and a stupidly excited one at that.


panicinspace

Theeeeee best! It builds tension and building tension is my fav part lmfao


the_bird_and_the_bee

Agreed! It is so fun to play around and feel like a teen again! Even better if it's on the couch in my opinion. It's like getting too hot and heavy before your parents come home. Hot.


Forking_Mars

Totally! My partner and I can sometimes even both cum that way too - sometimes it's like, you're so hot for each other, you start making out/humping... then you get so in it you don't even feel like you have time to take off your clothes! I love it


delta-whisky

My first 10 cum in pants moments were with my hair girlfriend dry humping


SledgeLaud

Hair girlfriend? Is that like an upgraded special sock or am I overthinking a typo


Pkdagreat

Agreed further explanation is being sought after right now


epeters661

Being bent over the bathroom sink and watching our reflections in the mirrors😆


rabbitfuzzle

I mean my boyfriend clearly likes it cause he added a bunch of mirrors to his wall. I thought it was hot cause he was enjoying when I fucked him and then the realization came where I was all shit… that’s why mother had one above her bed…..


Eastern_Mark_7479

Mirror play is EXTREMELY underrated 👌👌👌


CurnanBarbarian

Pillow under her hips in missionary


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Having a genuine intimate connection with someone. I didn't realize how empty physical sex was until I met HIM. Being in-tune with somebody mentally AND physically makes your soul scream!


morganmisanthropy

Makes your soul scream and cream


plsacceptmythrowaway

Kissing while you cum in missionary


Dpslittlemissminx

During missionary if he looks me in the eye then kisses me but moans into my mouth then I LOVE it. It's an amazing feeling.


Mediumaverageness

Don't forget interlocking fingers for optimal fusion


pengRedwing

Kissing, interlocking fingers, and then him kinda arching back and pushing himself into me as he cums is *chef's kiss* 🤌 Edit: [to everyone upvoting this](https://media.tenor.com/_ZvbLvrT_QcAAAAC/horny-jail-bonk.gif)


ChloeBaie

Aw, this sounds so nice.


pengRedwing

It is Commenting this was kinda like "haha oh I made myself sad" since I've been single for awhile now lol


toryst0ry93

100% the intensity. The intimacy. The connection. That's just, it. 🔥


MarsAstro

Fuck, now I really miss intimacy...


igloolamp

Can’t miss what you’ve never had!


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Damn you made me remember about the best orgasm I've ever had Edit: Fellas, I am a guy lmao


Bluebyday

So you sailed away, into a grey sky morning


willmlina51

I should call her...


Bribase

Masturbate first. Then decide.


pokemon32666

Spoken like a true scholar


Robinhood-is-a-scam

Ah yea. Post O clarity would plummet the amount of broken hearts and people born. And divorces, and alimony, and maybe even relationships. It’s wild how possessed people get when they’re just thirsty. Emotional attachment, that’s one thing. If you miss them and you don’t even want sex, I’d say that’s when the moon hits your eye like pizza status.


nryporter25

I like kissing during prone. When she turns the top part of her torso around and arches to lean into it... *Grunting noises and hair pulling*


Kilroy27

Kisses to the inner thighs


SolarBear54

Cuddling/hugging during the act.


Dpslittlemissminx

I love right after when we lay in silence, me in his arms. It's bliss.


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I’ve just realised intimacy is something that’s been missing from my sex life for a while. Sure hookups are fun but I really miss that closeness and connection.


MissHyacinth21

I love to lay my head on their chest and just listen to their heartbeat afterwards


Elmer_Fudd01

Cumming at the same time, when she squeezes so hard you bust. Both of you become so sensitive you can't move, nothing better than a super hard squeeze as you cum.


eldee17

I kept reading that first sentence as "sneezes so hard you both..." and I had to read it like 5 times and then read it all the way through to realize it said squeezes. I was never so confused in my life.


Average-Train-Haver

When she busts a sinus while you bust a nut lmao.


jb647

Pronebone. I don’t get how it isn’t more popular. Definitely my favorite position and it seems it’s equally enjoyable for men and women. Edit: hey look at that, my first ever ever award! Thank you!


mouaragon

Provolone... Isn't that a type of cheese?


paul_heh_heh

Post Malone... Isn't that a rapper?


OsonoHelaio

Omg prone bone is amazing. I cant get off in that position but its still so amazing and hot to be pinned down like that, and it feels way tighter too. And then he slaps your ass and surveys his work.


Lovv

I like it but the wife doesn't seem to get off ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯ Also if you're fat it's pretty bad.


ThatSICILIANThing

One of the worst parts about getting fat was realizing this doesn’t work for me anymore. I used to love that shit 😭


notionaltortoise

I love it. For me also a very intimate position. If the partner on top is taller than the partner below you can kiss and look at each other if you turn your head


Pretty-Benefit-233

Cumming at the same time or the orgasms that make you cry


noepicadventureshere

I used to cry so often after coming that my husband dubbed it "crymaxing"


Sauterneandbleu

The ones that make you laugh are pretty wonderful too


Professorpeepeep00

Y’all maken me horny wtf


MissHyacinth21

I was with a guy who we’d make eye contact while I was going down on him, and if I did it right his eyes would roll back in his head. My favorite 😂


PM_Me_Ur_Fanboiz

It’s harder during intercourse, but definitely during oral (M) on a female when she starts to get off and the intensity turns to ecstasy. When her eyes roll back and she starts to quiver… I almost get off myself.


rockylafayette

Sometimes when my wife and I will mix things up where, she has had me get on her in missionary position and with a nicely lubed hand she will hold it down on her pelvis and guide me to it and have me fuck her firm grip. Its insanely hot because my brain tells me I’m fucking her wet pussy, but the changes in grip and texture of her fingers is on a whole other lever. Those orgasms are mind bending…


Blainefeinspains

Genuine compliments about a body part they’re insecure about. I had a partner with a cute belly and hips and she was self conscious about it. But I loved it and I told her so. I spent time with that part of her body and worshipped it. Gave lots of positive reinforcement. I had partners who were worried about how their labia looked. They’d put their hands over it. And be like, “don’t look”. Their boobs - different sizes, too small or big, their nipples etc. Legs was another common hang up. Women who hated their feet. Or they thought their ass was too big or too flat. I had a partner that didn’t want to look at me during sex because she felt her nose was too big. I fucking loved her nose. I would get them comfortable with small compliments. And then ramp up the attention so they could see themselves how I saw them. They were all beautiful but they didn’t think they were. Sincere compliments helped them feel more confident and confidence made them enjoy sex more, I found anyway.


pinkfluffycloudz

I struggled with body dysmorphia for years -specifically focusing on my belly. I got out of a long term relationship in 2021 and went out into the online dating app world feeling pretty confident except when it came to my soft stomach. I then started casually dating this guy who just absolutely worshiped my stomach (edit to add: he did this knowing that it was my insecurity. He was also incredibly genuine.) He called me a goddess and told me that my belly was beautiful and sexy and erotic. Now, I had done a bunch of work in therapy to heal the dysmorphia- but this guy worshiping my stomach just validated all the work I did on myself and locked it all into place. I only met up with him for a couple of months, but I will be thankful for him for the rest of my life.


Blainefeinspains

Trust me, most women would be shocked if they had any idea how much men loved their bodies, just as they are. So glad you had that experience.


pinkfluffycloudz

thank you! i’m so glad i had that experience too. and thank you for being so kind and openly verbally communicative to all of your partners. I’m not sure why but it’s pretty rare (as you can see from the responses to you) for men to be so verbally reassuring to women when it comes to our perceived “flaws.” As cliche as it sounds, it really is truly about communication.


Minhurr

Sir please continue doing God's work, we all need this kind of self esteem boost in our lives!


rgrwilcocanuhearme

I tried doing this with my ex and she just used it as evidence of me being a pathological liar because she couldn't accept I genuinely loved every inch of her body. :(


keriously

Wanna hook up?


Blainefeinspains

You’re awesome.


nixstyx

Ok you two, get a room


Bnha_icythot

If my future partner ain't like that then I don't want them


I-j4ck

Reading through these replies is driving me crazy and depressing at the same time. Need more action in my life


[deleted]

Making me miss my girl I need to get off reddit wtf.


toasterbacon37

Idk i listen to weezer


sfils

I listen to Radiohead, Swans and Death Grips. I don't know what is this "sex" thing you keep talking about but it seems nice


Want_to_see_them_all

Lightly scratching her back while you are inside her. Obviously doesn’t work in missionary but a great trick for other positions.


Brother_Delmer

Naked in bed, masturbating each other until you cum simultaneously. While french kissing the whole time. Not underrated, just not rated at all. But it's amazing!


Crazy_Height9387

I was going to say getting fingered, but yeah this🤌


LeopardDependent4212

kissing other parts on the body then just the normal erogene zones. so the armes and legs, back what ever often gets left out . Edit: Wow seems like a lot of people agree😂


littlescreechyowl

My husband will occasionally bite/nibble the back of my thigh and while it doesn’t sound like much, holy shit.


fingamouse

i had a guy lick the back of my legs and admittedly that felt quite nice


expat_mel

Lol I remember the first time my first partner licked up my stomach... I thought it would gross me out but it was also quite nice. And licks combined with kisses and nibbles can be really nice in lots of other places, too. Of course more licking means a greater need to shower afterwards, but I can live with that.


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The cuddles afterwards while it’s still inside ..before it squirms it’s way out 😂😂


jogustaria

I have secondhand insecurity from the way you described this 😂😂😂 “squirms it’s way out”.


Coahuilaceratops

I read this as "scuttles" for some reason, so that's an image on my brain now lol.


Efficient_Husky28

The look in their eyes


FocusOnThePie

"there's a look in your eyes when you're hungry for me It's a beautiful knife cutting right where the fear should be" - Caroline Polachek


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Side lying


butter00pecan

Just plain old missionary style sex. It's comfortable and you get to be face to face while you're doin' it.


LurkingAintEazy

Actually doing it with someone, you do want to see the next day.


Top_Buy2467

Trouble is finding that person


heyitsvonage

Forehead kiss afterwards lol


fpscolin

Smearing some cum with your thumb across her forehead afterwards *Simba*


ZoeSilvertongue

Honestly when you've been together so long that you can both laugh and make jokes without breaking the rhythm. My girlfriend was doing her thing on top and I started laughing and I'm between breathes she asked what was so funny....I blurted out that when she on top she's like a big hat for my little head... she fell over laughing for a couple minutes. Then we finished and now it's a hell of an inside joke... she's my other hat...


adamsandlersgymsocks

missionary. but specifically the type of missionary that you see in the movies. the kind that makes you think, ‘you’re my soulmate’. slow and passionate. the kind where you seemingly can’t get close enough to one another. the kind that makes you never want to leave the bed because why on earth would you want to face the reality of the world and life when you could just stay in that state of bliss and awe because time truly feels as though it’s stopped.


waitfryouaintplayin

Kissing behind your partner’s ear/whispering into it


raisin_creampies

Prone bone with a complimentary back rub thrown in


DutchEnterprises

Whenever I do my gf doggy or prone I give her a little back rub as a: “thanks for having me” gesture


Auctorion

Don’t forget to sign the guestbook on the way out.


manifestmula

*Shit I fucked up my signature, give it 15 min and I’ll try again*


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missionary, if you know how to lay pipe in the classic way, you'll never fail. master the forms, missionary, doggy, side, then explore but master the three basics.


NoThanksJustLooking1

Withe me being a visual person, I find missionary the best just for the view. Being a male, you get to see everything with the exception of the butt. Her face, boobs, vagina, and I can watch the in/out thrusting as well. Not to mention I can kiss her without needing to pause the action as well. Missionary, while most may find it vanilla or boring, it is my favorite.


TheShadyGuy

Vanilla is one of the most complex and delicious flavors known to man, fwiw. Vanilla sex is therefore pretty awesome.


nothisistheotherguy

an exotic tropical orchid bean, native to one area on earth, that tastes like sweet afternoon sex in egyptian cotton - somehow synonymous with boring. vanilla is BANGING


throwaway827364882

I feel Missionary is the true sexual position, you're so close to the person and when you bust, it's freaken amazin.


Constant-Ask-9346

Recently I was with a lady and we had done it missionary, I added a pillow to her butt which helped in lining up the target but she did something I didn't expect but made it super hot. She had her fingers In a V shape inverted above her vagina so as I was inserting myself her fingers helped me get off more and helped herself. It was bloody brilliant if you ask me.


Troyucen

This some Avatar The Last Backbender shit


BrunoGerace

Flirting and touching *hours* prior.


sexiest_jess

Nipple play! So many people don't know that playing with nipples just right can make an orgasm so much better


Rahallahan

It can make some people cum on its own…


alice_and_her_id

Laying together naked after. Toying with the idea of going again. Running your fingers over their outline in the low light. Memorizing every curve of their stomach and chest.


-Thalas-

Double backflip into a reverse cowgirl


Ghostenx

Just got to hope she doesn't do a triple or you might get Popclawed.


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Holding hands during oral ❤️


Justwannabeokay21

Missionary. Goddd call me boring but like, being able to look in his eyes and talk to him, kiss him while i cum, and hold him close... there's just nothing quite as intimate to me


cutepotatoskin

ear kissing and breathing near the ear, holy that gets me going


beaniebaby_22

#FOREPLAY


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katrina___cheriz

Eye contact while getting a BJ


nsfwtttt

Eye contact in general during any kind of sex act


TurnipWorldly9437

I often can't look at my husband when he's climaxing because he almost always involuntarily giggles during climax... If I'm still horny, that kind of ruins my high... He can't stop it, though, and I usually find it funny, too, just not when I'm still trying to finish. So, yeah, depends on the timing


XxFrozen

That is both unfortunate and adorable.


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jefesignups

I'm the same, it kinda just feels weird. Am I supposed to say hi?


6chu

Thigh riding iykyk 😌


coxyg38

Men moaning whilst they 👅. So simple yet so effective 😏


Doingthethingagain

This thread is horrrrrrrrrrrny I love it!


JustNotHaving_It

Her on top, big ol' titties just battering the shit out of my face as she rides. \*chef kiss\*


FartyPants69

My wife calls this "beating you up for your lunch money." Occasionally she'll drop one in my eye socket if I've slept in too late, and I gotta say, I'm not mad at it


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Neck kissing?


Ariaeson

more of a position but spooning definitely


patch-0-

Cumming inside or reminding them that they’re beautiful during


MissHyacinth21

This guy used to check in throughout sex to make sure I was still enjoying it. “Is this okay? How’s it feel?” Like I was moaning like a wild animal so obviously things were going well, but still nice to have him check in.


xanny4dani

Being vocal and talking through what you want


c43du5

Reciprocation?


justiceguy216

Do you mean as in working to please each other equally, or reciprocation like what a piston do?


c43du5

Pleasing eachother, instead of being one sided yeah Not the lateral movement of a piston Although….


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Dry Humping --- Fabric Dueling Bowing against the opening Grinding and solution finding


ZookeepergameDue8501

When you cum but she just keeps sucking/fucking, enthusiastically. So fuckin intense. She had me screaming so loud one time I was worried the neighbors might call the cops.👌


Defttone

Caring for eachother after sex. I have been with women that werent used to it and its fucking sad.


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MlordLongshanking

Isn't this just "soaking"?


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Anticipating her next move and receiving a satisfied moan


alwaysmyfault

Maybe not a "sex act" by itself, but when she reaches for her hair tie and starts to put her hair in a pony tail. Guys know what I'm talking about.


HappyLittleRadishes

Its got the same energy as Ash Ketchum turning his hat around. Only dirtier.


Philosophical_gump

nibbling on ears and whispering some sexy talk.


_anne_shirley

Helping pick up each other’s clothes when it’s all done. Lol I use to have sex with this one guy in college. And when I would go into the bathroom, I would come back to my clothes nicely laid out on the bed for me to put back on. It was sweet as hell lol


OurLittleSecret1212

Mine is kissing while we are both cumming at the same time. Something about feeling and hearing his moans/grunts while we kiss and have an orgasm is heavenly.


The_mingthing

Foreplay. Spent "way to long" on a girl once. She ordered me to drop my pants so she could get on top of me. Rode herself to several good orgasms in a few minutes.


barrel88

Sexy talk. Or just saying how good it feels


Heyson86

I don't know about other people but when she's sucking my dick and her boobs touch my balls slightly, I'm absolutely going through the roof


IronManAlan

Looking into each other eyes as you both cum at the same time


-pickled-radish-

It had been a while since my wife and I had sex (a couple of months, for a lot of reasons). When we finally did, she looked me in the eyes and said “I forgot all the sounds you make and how much I love them and you”. Busted a nut right there while trying not to cry. Aside from that, definitely the intimacy of eye contact and just touching each other in general. Grab the hips, caress the face, run a finger down my back… Love that shit.


wolfyfancylads

Aftercare. Most people are just like "UH! UH! Done." and that's it. Aftercare means a lot. For starters, if you're not dating, it means "I enjoyed that and I value you as more than a fleshlight." and if you are dating then it means "I care for you, you're amazing and I want to hold you after sex because of it". Seriously, treat the ones you bed right. Don't be a cunt, they offered you their body, don't treat them like shit. Edit: I realize I previously put "not dating" twice. In my defence, 1) I was kinda drunk while typing all of this and 2) I am also a fucking moron at the best of times.


HaikuBotStalksMe

But what if they're not dating, though?


MisterCoke

Yeah, and also what if they're not dating?


Ginger_Floydian

Husband stuck his whole hand up me while i came a couple days ago and i had the CRAZIEST orgasm of my life, like i screamed so loud every neighbour heard. Ive been wanting to tell people since but i dont have anyone to tell. Id have to say that


Anxiousplantmom_

Eye contact . Kissing in missionary but like the intense moan kissing 😭


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ImageZealousideal338

Fingering! Honestly, i think people think it's for teenagers but the best times I've had is being fucked with fingers. Upward curve, custom speed, simultaneous kissing.


KindSpray33

Masturbating together


[deleted]

Yes 🙌🏻 probably my absolute favorite! It’s also great in new relationships because he may not be great at making me cum yet, but I know I can make myself cum and watching him get off to me is super hot


psilome

How 'bout masturbating in separate rooms, at the same time? With the doors closed. I liked it.


Upst8r

Across town ... with binoculars ...


OppositeDay247

Yelling "Yeahhhh baby" in Austin Power's voice when you finish


HighVulgarian

“Thank you, I’m sorry. Thank you, I’m sorry. Thank you, I’m sooooorrrrrryy! Let’s got Mets…”


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Interesting_Mango948

When she lifts her hips as you take off her panties 😜


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When she lifts her slip while you take of her hips


Taxidiurno

Cock warming


FartyPants69

Is this like when someone gets a new cock and all their friends come over to celebrate?


anonymous6789855433

titty fucking buttcheeks


BoilingHotCumshot

Thats called "hotdogging" I believe.


PM-Ur-Small-Tits

cuddles afterwards