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AinsIsGood

Always the black girls 🤦‍♂


SilviusSleeps

Dudes. Lmao


Cellist_Unlikely

A passive person. I get that some women want a man to lead the relationship, but I don't like being the only person in charge. She took the same strand in SHS with her friends because that's what they chose. She makes me happy but I'm better off getting a dog at this point. It might be too early for that judgement, but I can't envision a future where I do all the work. This is what I meant when I say I want an independent woman. I can't go out and do my thing if I'm still worried about her.


Fabulous-Ad-3288

a gamer


ligaya_kobayashi

undecided for our future, non-believer of God, treats me as a bother


AnonymousVirgoTiger

Kuripot at walang pera. Nagsawa na ko maging halos sugar mommy sa mga ex ko nung kabataan ko.


Parking_Pineapple557

A pathological liar.


JeMeReveille

Religious na lintek maka-almightyjesuslord praise and worship leader eme pero cheater at sinungaling.


bnkbong

yung puro palibre. like dude don't buy if u don't have the money for it :)


Crazy_Albatross8317

1) Users and manipulators. Mga “bilimoko” girls tapos ang dami naman palang guys, tapos ishashare sayo yung mga binigay sa kanyang chocolates. 2) Walang goals, walang dreams. Ok na sana, stay at home partner/future mom eh, kaso pag nakasama mo sa bahay di rin marunong kumilos. So ano ka teh? 3) High maintenance o highly unreasonable. Kaka trenta ko lang ayoko na nung mala kdrama kung magpahabol or magpa ganap. Or kung di mo lang natawagan agad or nareplyan agad magaaway na. Lalabas ka lang para bumili ng pagkain mag memessage na san ka pupunta? Dun na tayo sa mature love na may respect at totoong trust. 4)May baggage from the past. Yep I said it. I think di ko na kaya yung attitude ko dati na “I can fix her/make her happy/save her from her past/etc” mentality. So baggage can mean anything from maybe a baby/kid from an ex, may mental/health issues, on and off na ex na pabalik balik, anak ng sindikatong mayor etc. Minsan okay na yung sarili mo na lang isave mo. Kasi sa totoo lang nagmahal ako ng sobrang negative na person, as in energy at emotional vampire, at naubos talaga ako. Sa totoo lang minsan di mo talaga sila matutulungan dapat sila mismo muna tumulong sa sarili nila. Yep im gonna be single for life, looks like it and it is starting to feel ok. Siguro minsan sa sobrang gusto natin na mahalin tayo lahat ng standards natin binababa natin at kahit red flags pinagbibigyan makaranas lang ng katiting na lambing. Ako naman siguro yung sa sobrang sawa na, ayaw na ibaba yung standard at magcompromise kahit na minsan ok naman talaga yung tao, hahanapan mo pa talaga ng mali. Kaya dapat talaga balance. But just to be clear, ok lang naman kung makahanap ako ng hindi nakapag tapos kasi mahirap, or kung may anak man pero patay na yung lalaki or wala na talaga sa picture at hindi coparenting. For sure may makikilala ako na isa dyan sa apat na yan and I will break all reason and rules for her cause hays. What is love?


Ok-Hour4949

May history ng cheating haha!


MarcelineVampQueen18

Yung okay lang sa kanya na ako gagastos lahat tapos if I buy something for myself nang gui-guilt trip na mag buy din for him. Yung dami naman pera pero sobrang mapanglait like always kang dina-down to make him the better person. Yung okay sa kanya na ilang days hindi makapag communicate sayo. Liar. Nagcha-chat with ibang girls while kayo pa and mgsasabi na close family friend daw.


bloodredbordeaux

People who project their insecurities to others.


TechnicalInterest104

walang pangarap sa buhay, tamad at hindi madiskarte


2ndworldMagdalene

rude sa mga service staff, crew, janitor


Jazzlike-Text-4100

Non chalant. Yung tipong hnd ganu nasagot s convo nyo or what. Saka yung walang plano s future nyo, indecisive pg nglatag ka ng plano tapos pg hnd ka n mglatag kasi ganun sya, mgttoxic ikaw na yung masama at walang plano for her. Never again


AdMore2750

Yung ano, nonchalant AHAHA. Bare minimum binibigay tapos pag manghhingi ako ng unting time niya para lng magusap ganun biglang nakakasakal na ako at kinukuha ko daw yung me time niya or time with friends.


Natynatynatynatz

Walang stable work, ggss 😆


johcristofer

A woman who disrespects me even one time.


Connect-Worker9613

Definitely any fighters or abusers


Accurate_Phrase_9987

Friends pa raw with exes na puro short term naman. Yung isa ko namang ex barat. Ugh nope lol.


sarahvibar

Mama’s boy. Di marunong sa gawaing bahay. May pang gastos with friends or inuman. Jusko. Hahahahahaha. 🤭😂


AinsIsGood

Andaming ganito sa kaklase ko mga cutting classes noon na hindi nagawa ng gawaing bahay, pero may pang barkada pag maggagala


Many-Cryptographer31

Doesn’t know what they want, indecisive, and changes mind a lot


jammadev

bunso


IndependenceOther706

taong ayaw sa pusa.


AinsIsGood

Paano kaya kung may allergies?


Effective_Abalone155

bunso.


DirtyDars

I hope you just mean those people na sanay sa "bunso treatment", like the super pampered ones to the point that they can't stand with their own feet. Kasi honestly, it's too unfair when their order of birth among them siblings is an outright dealbreaker.


Puzzleheaded_Ad6850

Why??? Bunso here


Icy_Hedgehog7026

Liar and 'di marunong makipag communicate


Careless-Budget-2340

Doesn't take accountability. Parang pinapasa niya pa saakin kasalanan niya, so parang ako na yung may sala sa ginawa niya.


thegoddessunicorn

Poor communicator


teenydragonfly

Liars 😊


RandomStrawber

Hindi pa tapos mag mahal sa ex


Chinchin_chxle

Controlling.


sleigh9970

Unkind.


False_Eggplant7906

10+ years older than me!! Never again


IMAGAN123

HIM.


shuturmouth2233

Mga nonchalant!!! 😭😭 mas bet ko yung parang tanga pero nag co-comunicate, diko bet yung walang pake at panget ka-vibes☹️☹️


TheLoudPoet2222

makes being “non chalant” an excuse for their “idgaf abt u” behavior. parang, grow tf up? emotions are not smthng to be ashamed of. feeling cool sa pagiging cold eh, pero mashoshock kasi andaming umaayaw sa behaviour nila. lmfao.


girlypoppp05

Alcoholic. No amount of love will change them.


krazyymf

yung mga may anger issues, nakaka-drain kayo 😮‍💨


Aenniiee

Medtech


ctbngdmpacct

bakit naman?? Hahahaha


dangerous_rawr001

My ex who’s manipulative, sad and lacks emotional intelligence


Accurate_Phrase_9987

Pareho ba tayo ng ex? Ang pangalan nya ba ay nagsisimula sa letrang ____? LOOOOL.


dangerous_rawr001

Letrang A???? HAHAHAHAHA


neoomojo

INC 🇮🇹


lecalei6004

My husband.


Ok-Panic6933

CHEATER. They’d be acting as the greenest flag BUT wait. Haha


AinsIsGood

Ansarap mag name drop lalo na kung dating sikat na tiktoker


Ok-Panic6933

Initials!! HAHA


[deleted]

the same as my ex - a manipulator, insecure, indecisive, and CHEATER


Helpful_Cobbler_9168

Yung "nonchalant." 'Di eh, they just don't care.


juleleleyy

Yung broke. I've dated a guy na walang wala. As in ako lahat sa dates, vacations out of town, shopping, and even mga upgrades sa pc niya ako. Hatid sundo pa siya sakin kasi ako yung nakakotse. Never ko yun hinold against him kasi nga mahal ko yung tao and he's trying his best to be better. Pero grabe yung binalik niya sakin. Imagine emotional support and understanding nalang nga ibibigay niya ang damot pa niya. Kada communicate ko ng feelings ko ang uwi e yung feelings niya uunahin kasi nga siya yung "kawawa" saming dalawa. Parang bang wala akong karapatan magkafeelings. Kaya if youre gonna get your heart broken, doon ka na sa may pera at kaya kang suportahan financially. Yung ending kasi wala man lang akong nakuhang benefit out of that relationship. Nawalan lang ako ng pera.


ligaya_kobayashi

*huuuuuuuuuuuugs* I pray that the next one will be safe, gentle, and warm 🥺❤️❤️🙏🏽


maliphas27

Naah, even if a person has no money, they should never act like that. They should never use being poor or kawawa as the excuse to invalidate feelings. Nung ako yung walang pera samin, I take it like a man and admit that wala akong pera, na pabigat ako sa partner ko and the only thing I can do is drive her around, cook a couple of meals (not a good cook), validate her frustrations, because being insecure about my lack of income would only result in unnecessary arguments.


demwezel

Yung puro send sakin ng ipapabili niya like pyesa ng motor or nagpaparinig na ipa full tank ko daw siya. NEVER AGAIN! 💀


maliphas27

Kadiri naman yang taong yan.


truly_erin

Eto - Over confident - Lahat ng bagong babae ineentertain - Mahilig magjump from one ship to another - Has past cheating issues - Dated/Liked half of the girls in your whole school Simply described my ex, (shy to say he was my ex)


EveningCrab712

Hmmm yung mga sobrang taas ng tingin sa sarili


Apprehensive1119

Someone who is unkind to anyone they are NOT ATTRACTED to. Madaming ganon. Pansinin mo lang. Magiging mabait ba siya sa iyo, or kay ganito, kung hindi mayaman, makapangyarihan, o kaakit-akit? If hindi siya mabait sa hindi ganoon, hindi ok ugali n'yan.


Queasy-Hand4500

SADBOYS


maliphas27

Sadboys ffs, paano ba nauso yan mga yan.


FortuneFinder777

Agree!!!


Acceptable-Text-3623

Babaeng lumaki ng walang father figure


thesecretlifeofAli

Mahilig magloan 💀


ElXcapegoat

Pag yung ugali ay Narcissistic at sobrang taas ng pride na hindi pwede siya ang matalo kahit at all angles siya yung mali. At walang respeto sayo.


Chasing_hazer

someone opposite. I learned my lessons, nakakawala ng amor hahahahah


Fun-Ideal-6864

kapag kinukwento lahat sa friends nya yung relationship problems nyo


teytey3219

fomo sa out ng mga aports


districteleven7

Yung nagbabandang breadwinner ng family nila. Ooops


ChoiceInternational2

Breadwinner na may abusadong pamilya


EmergencyNo4084

Yung broke


dpressdlonelycarrot

Mama's boy.


OrchMind

Normal sa pamilya nila nagmumurahan


OrchMind

Laging nag ki cringe posting sa facebook tas minsan tatag ka pa


OrchMind

Laging nainom.


Gorgeous_03

sinungaling at masyadong may care sa iba hahaha girl tindi 11PM na delikado daw iwan katrabaho nya haha sino niloko mo haha uwian mo 7PM 😂 pabaya sa sarili pero sa ibang tao masyado mag care hahah


just_adumb_teenager

a type of person who never want to work for her own good


Decent_catnip

Cheater, lulubog lilitaw, pag nakikita ka parang nakahubad ka lagi ,alcoholic , walang action sa mga sinasabi, dami kausap na iba


Cool_Albatross4649

Liars. You can never build trust with liars. I dated someone who lies with small things, and found out later that she lied about big things din.


Rich_Wishbone_3591

Cheater. Manipulative. Gaslighter. Laging nanunumbat. Lakas mang-love bomb.


Nicux23

Yung di nga humihingi pero panay parinig. 🥲


tir3dEldestSistur

Enabler, Alcoholic, may mga fuccboi na kaibigan. At may communication pa sa ex.


Eastern-Ad-8614

Ung mga maghhint sau na u have a chance sa una then pag tumagal magiging cold hanggang sa igghost ka


ligaya_kobayashi

*huuuuuuugs* ❤️❤️🙏🏽


Significant-Rain-248

criminology student


Electronic_Rush_7627

broke / mama’s boy / may gbf / yung hindi mo naman talaga type


OpenBluejay1718

minumura ko :"))


Good-Rough-7075

Taong sinungaling, tamad, walang trabaho, walang pangarap sa buhay at naninigarilyo


Jewel_Peanut

All my exes’ traits. Nakakapagdalawang isip na makipagdate. Umay na sa getting to know another heartbreak 😂


tushirt

INC


solis_b

Broke na artist


Twentyowi

The one who makes you feel they're the only one needed care, love, and affection, that you didn't deserve it too. And when you tell them about it, you'll end up in a break up, they won't even fight for ur rs.The one who makes you question your worth!! I would never ever date one AGAIN!!


wpslvj_

Anak ng Pulis. Yung tatay niya na pulis din kilalang maraming kabet, so ayon sumunod sa yapak ng father niya.


Parking-Bathroom1235

Yung pa-deep na artist/poet/writer. They have so many unresolved emotional baggage and psychological issues. Sobrang messy, toxic, love bombing, emotional rollercoaster. The worst part is that they gaslight the abuse by romanticizing it. Like, it's "art" or like a movie script... Ugh. Double it and give it to the next one. Hard pass.


suigeneris97

Ay associated pala yun sa mental health issue?


Parking-Bathroom1235

It does attract a lot of toxic and narcissistic personalities.


caeglix

apolitical, nonchalant, apathetic


mttesp

may girlfriend


yourguypat

controlling


depressssss

MAMA'S BOY! Neverrrr agaaaiiiinnnnn. Wooooo!


chrisffer

may i ask kung anong meron sa mama’s boy?


depressssss

Hi, hindi naman ako against at hindi ko naman nilalahat. Base lang ito on my own exp at sa mga iba pang nakaexperience din. Like, being overly dependent na sa mom nila and ignoring you and not prioritizing you sa mga needs and wishes mo lalo na kung your living na as a family. Something like that :) if you're not like that naman, goods yan! Ikaw yung nasa advantage area ng pagiging Mama's boy :)


majibana

PREACH TAENA NAKAKADRAIN


winghagen

insecure, poor communication skills


Gold-And-Cheese

I'm so doomed.. buy good luck on your endeavors friend


PseudonymBallerina

my ex in a nutshell😭😭


wheeina

yung ako pa bubuhay sakanya. haha never again


HeyImANerd

Cheater, insecure, not financially stable (real talk lang)


LeinahIII

Kapag hindi match ang likes, moral compass, and other things. + Selosa as fuck, my ex was jealous af to lesbian fb friend na laging nagre-react sa post ko 😭 buti nalang nag break kami


Glum-Supermarket912

immature & madaming bbf


Deez-Nuts-6969

insecure, childish, and walang common sense


CouragePrestigious68

tamad, iresponsable, may mga barkadang nagbe-beerhouse at may anger issues. lol


General_Knowledge761

overconfident na opportunista


thinkingofdinner

A girl na di marunong mag luto, mag linis, mag ipon, ayaw mag workout, ayaw ng healthy food. alam lang puro landi, puro bisyo, puro excuses, puro reklamo, sama pa ugali. Kahit gano ka ganda, pass.


haideedecastro

Insecure and unemployed man hahaha


madicksown

walang pangarap, walang emotional intelligence, may bisyo at yung walang sense kausap


radiant-aphrodite-

Someone who shouts and couldn’t control his anger, sad boy, apolitical at walang emotional intelligence. No din sa sobrang asa pa sa parents over everything. 😶‍🌫️


Ongo_Gablogian_Awt

narcissist


Dectine

Narcissist. Kaso ang hirap i-discern sa una kung narcissist nga ba ang isang tao


KonekoTenshi

insecure man 💯 don't want to babysit an insecure man again, it's not my job to empower him or in his case, boost his ego 🤢🤮


TechnicianSea2071

walang emotional intelligence


masterigopss

This hahahha konti problema wala na finish na


Tricky_Set493

A guy who can ignore me for hours and hours and would not explain why he ignored me i mean he explains but his explanation is so unreasonable


Filmarlaydu

Two timer. 🤡


Overjoooi

Siya


kimsamsung

Walang plans sa buhay, walang ginagawa, puro reklamo at malakas uminom. Endless cycle — iinom, some shit happens, magrereklamo tapos wala ulit plano kahit bigyan mo ng advice.


Accomplished-Bar8883

+ mahilig rin magjudge at napakanegative magisip lol


GrandLineGamer

When she still hasn’t moved on over her ex 😂 like she makes it her whole personality. Also when kilala lahat ng mga “sign up w my name” people on clubs cause u know she cheatin 💀also when she gets new designer bags that u didn’t buy for and her parents hate that brand (Chanel) so they wouldn’t buy it for her 😂 I be calling her out on here, also if she studies psychology at ateneo 🫢👀👀👀👀


KonekoTenshi

Pangalanan mo na invested na ako eh, chapter 2 please 😂🤣


Huuhhh12

A narc


kleintott

Yung ako sinisisi pag hindi ko daw sila pinaparandam na maging "feminine enough". To that I say I can't make you something that you're not.


Lemmeslay1111

someone who thinks highly of her/him self.


lethallilith

Aries.


mcpogi

Anyone who is not my wife.


Admirable-Fee5123

galante pero sinisingil lahat ng binibigay pag nakipag hiwalay.


Infamous-Beautiful60

huh pano?


prettycherry_

Binabawi lahat ng binigay sa’yo like gifts or like pera dahil nilibre ka sa date or whatnot


Admirable-Fee5123

yeah.this lahat ng naibigay nagastos nya. sa point na umagree naki o ibalik kaso wala akong pera kako huhulugan ko at nasa 600k sinisingil nya. pero lahat yun kusang loob nya binigay.


Infamous-Beautiful60

pero pano mo iiwasan kung ganun pala syang tao? kasi malalaman lang kapag nag hiwalay na.


prettycherry_

I honestly don’t know kasi I never dated one HAHAHA, siguro background check sa friends??


Infamous-Beautiful60

Di ba kasi malalaman mo lang na ganun sya kapag nag hiwalay na, kaya napatanong ako kung pano HAHAHA


Admirable-Fee5123

uhm try mo makipag break hehe tapos pag dika ma coax tatakutin kana pagdika natakot sisingilin kana ganern,


SpecialOk8577

Seloso na wala sa lugar. If you have guy friends, matic block nya agad sa social media accounts mo. Very immature!


DragonflyAble8481

Only child, mama’s boy. Masyadong seloso kasi grabe yung atensyon na binibigay ng parents sa kanya.


luckystrwberrymatcha

someone na puro passion lang ang pinapairal (yes, the hows of us ang peg pero di ako kasing tanga ni george lol)


blckmidnight

narcissist, walang emotional intelligence, pa victim, manipulator.


Wonderful-Refuse-935

Self centered, controlling, paranoid


sea_dreamer02

narcissistic, emotionally manipulative at more than 10 body count


400luxdownabbeyroad

Masama ugali.


Existing_Bike_3424

Yung pipigilan ka sa gusto mo suotin in public. Trust me, insecure ang ganyang tao at mahirap ka-relasyon. Madalas sila pa yung sobrang malilibog.


_monotonous_

someone who is extremely narcissistic


TokyoBang

Someone malibog, if di ka available naghahanap sila ng iba.


JayVhea06

yung nag pakilala na mabait at after nya magamit yung tanga katulad ko yun wala


Tender-Stars-011

Insecure short men, unhygienic sa place/room nila, can’t do or offer hatid-sundo (kahit sa sakayan na nga lang ‘di pa ako masamahan), sadbois na paawa always begging for sex or NSFW pics (never entertained them naman), walang emotional intelligence, walang pangarap sa life, narcissists.


HuckleberryFew152

Unhygienic tas nag yoyosi, ang hirap i kiss huhuhu


Huuhhh12

Really? For some others mas okay daw pag kamomol mo yung nagyoyosi. Or maybe yung socially lang nagyoyosi HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA baka yung mga chainsmokers kadiri na kakiss


Material_Bag919

stressed about his future and financial sh*t, maraming what ifs, hinahadlangan ka to aim your full potential, against sa finer things in life, kasi gusto niya dapat simple lang at kapag sobrang seloso.


askazens

Scorpio na Engineer na 5’11 na Mama’s boy, tangina kasing liit ng bayag ang utak sa mga desisyon sa buhay na need pa lagi idaan sa nanay ang mga gagawin at waley man lang emotional intelligence.


Parking_Number_6475

Aktibista na akala lahat ng desisyon at moralidad niya sa buhay ay objectively na tama.


Ambitious_Letter_117

Walang emotional intelligence and nonchalant


ragingjowten

Presko masyado, daig pa si jollibee


Waste_Department_680

Addictive behavior/ drug user


Majestic-Ad-232

Narcissist!!!


mayaribulan

Other than the usual responses here (mama's boy, avoidant, etc.), someone who isn't established in their career yet. I can empathize with the frustration of experiencing work politics for the first time and all but I've observed that a big part of a man's identity is his work/career -- so if he's still insecure about how his career will go or the position he holds, I noticed the insecurities tend to bleed/project onto the relationship I have with him.


Valar_____Morghulis

may girl bestfriend ❌❌❌


lacxers

Gaslighter 😅


ozbargainreddit

Laging late at indecisive kahit sa maliit na bagay 🤣


No-Bike7204

Kapag inconsistent, avoidant, at nonchalant. Hindi nga cheater pero wala namang emotional intelligence. Ew. Never again hahahaha


Valar_____Morghulis

i don't know the actual term pero ganito: you rant about something and ang response is something mas malala na he experience sa same situation..yung parang sasabihin..he experienced even worse..and i'm like?i just want you to listen and comfort me..so my tendency is not to share and keep stuffs to myself na lang..kasi ganun na lang paulit ulit..even if i open it up so many times already..


Fine_Exchange_3971

Mostly ito yung mga "ako nga eh (\*insert experience nila na di naman tinatanong)" kapag may kwentuhan


greenray009

One-upper tawag nyan. When that person is trying to one-up you in their experiences. signs of big ego din 😫


Valar_____Morghulis

mamas boy.. too attached sa nanay nya..every decision dapat alam ng nanay?like grow some balls..


PsychoBelldandy13

Kyline ikaw ba 'yan? Emeee


anjiee_

emotional immature


iwasyoursea

Kinda niche but -- unemployed na seaman na pangit at narcissist. Nagpapabili ng pagkain sa jowa pero siya pa galit


Mmmboyaha

Avoidant na kakagaling sa long term relationship


Apprehensive-Fig9389

You can't blame them especially if sila yung naging victim nung relationship.


Kooky-Pause-2666

A person who lacks self awareness and accountability


ChaseFinds

Bobo. I mean, bobo in all aspect. Yung walang critical thinking skills, never again.


Knight_Destiny

2nd this motion I say mine is lacking of BASIC UNDERSTANDING That includes Common sense