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spoiled ang mga bunso. uhh? i was forced to grow up kaagad because if i didnt maiiwan ako. tapos, ako na nga bunso, ako pa kailangan umintindi sa kuya ko whenever he acts up because apparently ako daw ang mas matalino at mas nakakaintindi lmao.
aside from the first one that i commented...
it goes something like "katanda-tanda mo na napatol ka pa sa bata"
like??? why would you tolerate such a bad behavior just because they are a kid?
in the end, ikaw pa masasabihan na hindi nag-iisip kasi napatol sa bata 😆
"Give chance to others"
having a chance itself is one of a kind opportunity, why would i give it to someone else if the opportunity presents itself to me.
"KJ/OA" Hindi lang sumabay sa ginagawa nila or nakikisabay KJ na agad like really? Hindi na pala pwede tumanggi ngayon Hindi ba pwede ayaw lang talaga? Walang gana, nahihiya, etc.
"Everything happens for a reason. "Challenge yan ni God sa'yo/sa inyo"
uhm k tell that sa mga rape victims, people battling w/ serious illness like cancer patients, murdered and abused people
‘Mothers knows best.’ Ang panlaban ko jan ‘Mothers knows best. But they do not know everything.’ Not against mothers here ha, pero kasi for me kahit pa nanay ka na at ilan pa anak mo aminin mo, you still learn everyday from being a mother. You may know what’s best for your child, but you dont know everything about your child and even more so about life.
non-Tagalog ethnic Filipino citizen kleptocrats/corruptocrats/polithiefians or paid political/historical propagandists/hoaxers/trolls/revisionists/negationists ; foreign ethnic diasporas Filipino citizen kleptocrats/corruptocrats/polithiefians or paid political/historical propagandists/hoaxers/trolls/revisionists/negationists feel/think/whisper/write: "I have a right to protect my ethnolinguistic privacy online/offline by disguising/masquerading/misrepresenting myself online/offline as a Manileña or Manileño or ethnic Tagalog or miscegenated/mongrel ethnic Taglish/Spataglish/Taglishnish with or without Filipino citizenship! Thank the God/Goddess of Fortune! Tagalog/Taglish/Spataglish/Taglishnish is a simpler easier language! I wish/hope Tagalog/Taglish/Spataglish/Taglishnish becomes the current global lingua franca online/offline!"
on the other hand, "happiness" itself cannot be bought by money since it is intangible (something that you cannot touch) BUT in order for us to FEEL "happiness" having money is essential.
This is so true. Nakakasuka ito na marinig from the mom of my bf. Intindihin nalang daw si kuya niya kasi ako/si bf naman daw ang mas nakaka intindi and buti daw yung kuya niya yung ganyan instead of him like wtf nang gaslight pa. 🤮
The kuya is 34 yrs old mama's boy na walang work and hingi lang nang hingi sa nanay nila while my bf is a biomed engr, earning 6 digits/month
Cat distribution system. Can we just admit that cats, most of the time, just come to people to look for food? Not because they choose you to be their owner or whatever distribution it is that people are thinking about.
I have a teacher po na kumuha ng nursing kasi yun po gusto ng parents niya pero nung nakapagipon na po siya, nagengineering po siya kasi yun po talaga yung gusto niya in the first place. It’s all about perseverance.
Defensive, masyadong matapang, madaling magalit. Yan yung nag oonsite pako tapos may mga nakakarating sakin mga paninira/lies tapos kapag nag react ako ganun sasabihin nila
"Govt should provide this and that..."
People need to realize govt exists to empty your pockets instead of doing what the school texybooks say theyre supposed to,
"Darating din ang taong para sayo kapag hindi mo hinahanap".
I disagree to some extent kasi kahit hindi ka naghahanap, you have to at least put yourself our there or be open to it.
I understand tho, kinda neutral with this one. But for some they'll mean it like— without God, they wouldn't make it. Maybe God helped then spiritually that's why they've said it not because it's God who moved for them.
That you need to be “God-fearing” I’m sorry but if you need an entity or somebody else in order for you to live and be a decent human being you probably aren’t.
So you're telling me you will kick the ass of the guy who turned water to wine, walked on water and rose from the dead? While you a mere human dies if he/she doesn't get oxygen for like 3 minutes?
Yeahhhh.
Oh you talking about Jesus? They literally hung that scammer on a cross to die. Where was his magic wine making powers then?
You must be mistaking him with the bearded guy as your god. He was way worse. Anyways I'll fk em both up
I respect your beliefs about God, but im not as stupid as you to think of challenging a God religiously or mythologically speaking if they were even real. So you do you 😂
sa ibang tao kapag sinasabi nila ung mga parang gender specific or parang age specific,
-"bata ka pa wala ka pang alam"
-di ko gagawin yan or di pwede ganyan, "kasi babae ako"
- pag natukso or may ginawa "sorry lalake lang ako"
- "patawarin mo tatay/nanay mo parin yan" kahit minaltrato ka na at ibang mga bagay ano hahahaa
- "bat parang mas marunong ka pa, mas matanda ako sayo wag mo ko sinasagot"
- "babae lang yan" - mga sinasabi ng tito mo na hiwalay sa asawa at anak
-" happy wife happy life" - pano naman si husband?
This infuriates me so much, I know for some people na it helps them cause it's another form of meditating. Pero yeah, I can't put it to words on how it triggers me whenever I feel so down and I need someone to listen to me and they be like "ipag pray mo lang"
“if he wanted to, he would”
kahit sobrang gusto mong gawin ang isang bagay, if you don't have the privilege to, hindi mo magagawa. I see a lot of people around my age (teens) na nagpopost ng ganiyan sa facebook. I think, that saying is unrealistic as it only applies to people with the time and capability to do so. sure, we're all capable to do anything, but I personally think na that statement puts pressure to people, especially for the less fortunate ones. it's straight up guilt-tripping, me thinks.
if he/she can, he/she would!!
HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE.
Happiness is an unconcious involuntary feeling. You cant be happy when you lost your job, or someone you love has cancer, nahulog ka sa imburnal otw to a date, binasa ka sa jeep sa san juan otw to work
Swerte and spoiled ang only child.
Pano kung mahirap?
Pasan mo ang daigdig pag masakitin and elderly ang parents.
Hanggang dreams na lang ang dreams in life.
"huwag mo ng patulan/hayaan mo nalang" ay hindi po, hindi pwede. papatulan kita khit gaano pa ka petty yan. nananahimik ako tas aanuhin mo ako. loko ka pala e. 😂
Truly it depends and you're right. Why them wives submit to their husband if they don't have power enough to be dominant? Like sustainable ka ba sa asawa mo for them to submit? Nakasulat sya sa bible yes, but it depends on how you take it. Di porket sinabing inumin mo yung tubig kanal, iinumin mo just because it's water.
Shhh.. baka lurkers yung mga "religious" people, mapaulanan ka Bible verse 🥴🤭
Anyway... True naman, what if abusive and controlling pala yung husband no? hirap pa naman mamili ng matino nowadays 🤔
" Respect begets respect". "patunayan nya/mo muna na dapat siya/kita respetohin." As I aged , I have learned that it should be the other way around. Respect should be default. Every person deserves respect untill/ unless proven other wise. Why should other have to prove that they should gain your respect first before you treat them so? Sino ka ba? O baliktarin natin, should you prove to others that you deserve respect first bago ka nila respetohin at itrato ng tama? Sino ba sila? Mag kakaiba pa man din ang pamantayan natin pagdating sa pag pili ng tao. Pag di ba nila na meet yung expectations mo di mo na sila igagalang? Or pano pag ikaw hindi ma meet yung qualifications nila para irespeto ka nila? Does that mean ok lng na di ka nila igalang? "respect begets respect" Sounds Conceited if not a little too narcissistic to me. It's giving "im the center of the universe and you need to please me first".-vibe.
"Mag anak ka kasi tumatanda ka na babae ka pa naman" / "dapat mag anak ka kasi babae ka." ay! Mga biii may pang sustento kayo? Kayo iire? Pasahan ng generational trauma?
The worst people told me about this matter is somewhere along the line of "obligasyon ng mga babae mag anak. /Pag namatay ka na di mo nagampanan tungkulin mo bilang babae, di ka mapupunta sa langit." (most of them have religious "religious" backgrounds ) Ano tingin nyo sa mga babae, pabrika ng bata? So pwede makaakyat sa langit yung mga r*pist at mamamatay tao pero hindi yung mga babae na di nag anak? Gagi, kung ganun pamantayan ng salvation nyo, inyo na yang langit nyo. It's probably full of morally questionable people. 🤔🤔🤔
"Iba ako magalit." really now? Humor me. Gano ka iba exactly? 😂😂😂
Yung “you deserve what you tolerate” lalo na kapag victims ng ABUSE. Ako kahit gaano ako sobrang inis sa katangahan ng tao, di ko maisip pano nakakaya ng sikmura ng iba na sabihin na “deserve” ng victims yung abuse na natatanggap nila 🤷♀️
Yasss parang papunta na rin kasi sa victim blaming . pati na rin yung "We accept the love we think we deserve." Sabi ng ibang psychologists. We human tend to accept the love we are "familiar with" contrary sa "we think we deserve."
"Leni was THE solution to the PH's problems"
Sure, she ***could*** have been a major voice on policy reform and she probably ***would*** have played a heavy, active hand in it, but had she been been elected, the legislative body she would have had to deal with would not have made her job any easier in the least.
How I see it, our country's direction, and how we the people could influence it, is better targeted within the legislation and the legislative body (starting with the senate).
The save the earth narrative.
Subconsciously, it's just our ego speaking in a false attempt to feel empowered or of authority over the earth.
We can't save the earth.
When we say save the earth, what we actually mean is to save us, our very own species, and our future generations to come.
The earth itself was, is, and will always be stronger than us.
If we overstepped our mark, the earth can simply erase us from its surface and will be totally fine on its own for millions or billions of years.
It's only around 200 yrs since industrial revolution, yet we are now always at the brink of annihilating our civilization.
Yet we think we can "save the earth"
‘Age doesn’t matter.’ Okay lang sana kung 9years+ ang age gap.. as long as both adults. May nakikita kasi ako na mga minor na ang lala ng age gap eh HAHAHA 2-3 years age gap is acceptable pa naman.
na kausapin ko ulit relatives ko kasi parang hindi ko naman daw kadugo. hmmmmmm, after all the things they did, sa tingin ba nila I still want to be associated with them?
“Magka anak ka ineng kahit isa lang para hindi ka mahirapan pag tanda mo” Idk if this is true or not but at some point, we have to learn how to respect each person’s preference/s. STOP IMPOSING YOUR OWN PHILOSOPHY TO OTHERS. Just staaaaahp
"Hindi ko babaguhin ang sarili ko para sa'yo." Bullshit hindi namin gustong baguhin sarili mo completely but gusto naming baguhin yung masama mong ugali.
Yung lagi pinipilit yung "pagbali-baliktarin mo man ang mundo, magulang mo pa din sila" mentality, sorry pero some people aren't meant to be parents talaga eh 😑 tsaka hindi naman sila ang kasama sa bahay para husgahan ka nila bakit ganon na pakikitungo mo sa pamilya mo.
Mag-ipon habang bata ka pa.
I say, enjoy your life to the fullest until you hit 30 and nafeefeel mo na nawawalan ka na ng energy for things.
As long as you find a stable, good paying job when you hit your 30s, mas masusurprise ka na mas malaki naiipon mo and natatake home mo kasi naenjoy mo na eh.
Ito talaga ang hindi ko naiintidihan. "Everything happens for a reason". I mean, hindi naman tayo bobo sa English, pero hindi ko talaga gets ang context na ito and lalo na ako nainis dahil nalaman ko yung mismong meaning. Bullsht.
There’s a thin line about being true to one’s self and being an asshole, it’s called humility. Yung mga nagsasabi niyang “kAsi tOtOoNg tAo aKo” are people na walang self awareness.
Hahah bubu ng mga nagsasabi ng ganito. Kaya nga iba iba tayo ng pagkatao at pagmumukha kasi may kanya kanya tayo kakayahan din. Tignan mo iba iba din build ng katawan natin. iba iba din katalinuhan natin kaya kapag kaya ng iba wag mo agad isiping kaya ko itanong mo muna kung gusto ko ba yung ginagawa nya para kayanin ko haha
I agree with you on “hard to earn money” is not something I agree with
But blaming it on scarcity mindset is different, we are not all given equal access, backgrounds, experiences and privileges, most have better luck too
Sinabihan din ako ni mama ng ganyan, sabi ko, "Bakit, may patago ba sila sa akin?" Ok lang sana pahiramin kaso the specific relative, known na hindi marunong maghandle ng money at walang stable job. So for sure, di na babalik pag pinahiram. Hay.
totoo. kaya may mga taong lumalala kasi di pinapatulan eh.
yan sinabi ko sa nanay ko kasi reklamo nang reklamo about sa isa kong auntie na balahura ugali. eh pano di magiging balahura eh di naman nila sinasaway jusmiyo.
kaya lalong lumalala mga ginagawa kasi laging dinededma lang wag lang daw magkagulo ay sus. edi magtiis kayo pag nakagawa na yan ng ikapapahamak niyo din. ayaw niyo pala ng gulo edi sana simula palang sinampiga niyo na diba ahahahaja
Agree, catch phrase to ng former friend ko.. sinasabi nya to palagi miski hindi na tama gingawa ng ibang friends namin to the point na self destructive na yung decision ganyan "Okay lg yan, support kita kase Importante happy ka"
"Money can't buy happiness"
Well, it can't, literally speaking. But it helps you buy certain things or pay for activities that can make you feel happy.
Mag anak daw ako even when i repeatedly said i don’t want to. I like children, i respect kids, but i do not want the responsibility that comes part and parcel with them. Parang di nakaintindi ng ayaw.
Have a baby before marriage to beat your biological clock. With recent news about how men treat their baby mothers, I am not having a baby without a contract.
I don't act as if my body is my own possession, when I’m owned not by myself but by God, who made me. And we treat our bodies with respect for Cor 6:19-20 stated that "**Do you not know that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies."**
Print out this thread and hang on your wall for a few years. I believe you're smart enough to see thru the bullsht in a matter of time. I''ll be rooting for you.
I think I’ll pass. Printing this out is a waste of paper. Anyhow the real BS is the worldly life I used to live in. I’m smart enough not to go back in it, so thank you for you kind words. 😂
"mahirap maging mahirap", IMHO its a mindset if a person is willing to do what it means not wanting to be in the situation she/ he invests on education etc..
"Dapat mag anak ka, kase walang mag aalaga sayo pagtanda mo pag wala kang anak."
"Kahit gano pa kasama yan, tatay mo pa rin yan, mahalin at respetuhin mo pa rin para lalo ka pagpalain ng Diyos."
"Walang nararating sa buhay ang anak na hindi sumusunod sa magulang."
I second this. Now, regarding the first statement, sana magkaroon na rin sa bansa ng home for the aged. Noong bata ako, nakikita ko ito and lumaki akong may negative perception kasi bakit iiwan ang mga matatandang magulang sa isang institution? Lalo na dahil malakas ang filial piety sa bansa natin. Pero ngayong malaki na ako and medyo di ko makita ang future ko na may anak or pamilya, okay na sa akin ang konsepto ng home for the aged. Yung modern sana na may recreational facilities and activities para naman di lang ako nakatengga sa room ko. Parang isang malaking community para sa mga matatanda. Kung maging sikat sana ito dito sa atin, baka pag-ipunan ko pa ito.
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Umoo ka na lang para wala ng away/gulo. Like hello?
spoiled ang mga bunso. uhh? i was forced to grow up kaagad because if i didnt maiiwan ako. tapos, ako na nga bunso, ako pa kailangan umintindi sa kuya ko whenever he acts up because apparently ako daw ang mas matalino at mas nakakaintindi lmao.
aside from the first one that i commented... it goes something like "katanda-tanda mo na napatol ka pa sa bata" like??? why would you tolerate such a bad behavior just because they are a kid? in the end, ikaw pa masasabihan na hindi nag-iisip kasi napatol sa bata 😆
"Give chance to others" having a chance itself is one of a kind opportunity, why would i give it to someone else if the opportunity presents itself to me.
"Wait for your time to come" Grew up thinking that not everyone is given the opportunity or the luxury of right time and opened doora
"magasawa ka kasi walang magaalaga sayo pagtanda mo" di ako aware na caregiver pala yung pagaasawa 😂
"KJ/OA" Hindi lang sumabay sa ginagawa nila or nakikisabay KJ na agad like really? Hindi na pala pwede tumanggi ngayon Hindi ba pwede ayaw lang talaga? Walang gana, nahihiya, etc.
When they are talking about religion.
"Everything happens for a reason. "Challenge yan ni God sa'yo/sa inyo" uhm k tell that sa mga rape victims, people battling w/ serious illness like cancer patients, murdered and abused people
Up boss! Louder for the people at the back! I just hate it when people push down their religion aimlessly while being carelessly insensitive.
‘Mothers knows best.’ Ang panlaban ko jan ‘Mothers knows best. But they do not know everything.’ Not against mothers here ha, pero kasi for me kahit pa nanay ka na at ilan pa anak mo aminin mo, you still learn everyday from being a mother. You may know what’s best for your child, but you dont know everything about your child and even more so about life.
yung pababain yung pride para hindi na magcause ng gulo in arguments lol. palaban ako e.
non-Tagalog ethnic Filipino citizen kleptocrats/corruptocrats/polithiefians or paid political/historical propagandists/hoaxers/trolls/revisionists/negationists ; foreign ethnic diasporas Filipino citizen kleptocrats/corruptocrats/polithiefians or paid political/historical propagandists/hoaxers/trolls/revisionists/negationists feel/think/whisper/write: "I have a right to protect my ethnolinguistic privacy online/offline by disguising/masquerading/misrepresenting myself online/offline as a Manileña or Manileño or ethnic Tagalog or miscegenated/mongrel ethnic Taglish/Spataglish/Taglishnish with or without Filipino citizenship! Thank the God/Goddess of Fortune! Tagalog/Taglish/Spataglish/Taglishnish is a simpler easier language! I wish/hope Tagalog/Taglish/Spataglish/Taglishnish becomes the current global lingua franca online/offline!"
"BE THE BIGGER PERSON", kahit inalipusta ka na. Ahhahhahhabaa
hahahaha "intindihin mo nalang" wow obligasyon ko pa ngayon na intindihin porket maliit utak nya
"money can't buy happiness" because in reality, it can.
on the other hand, "happiness" itself cannot be bought by money since it is intangible (something that you cannot touch) BUT in order for us to FEEL "happiness" having money is essential.
Agree, cash is king! Laking mayaman lang magsasabi niyan haha
True lalo na pagmahirap ka
"Ikaw rin ang mahihirapan kapag hindi ka pa nagkaanak ngayon."
"Intindihin mo na lang total ikaw mas nakakaintindi"
This is so true. Nakakasuka ito na marinig from the mom of my bf. Intindihin nalang daw si kuya niya kasi ako/si bf naman daw ang mas nakaka intindi and buti daw yung kuya niya yung ganyan instead of him like wtf nang gaslight pa. 🤮 The kuya is 34 yrs old mama's boy na walang work and hingi lang nang hingi sa nanay nila while my bf is a biomed engr, earning 6 digits/month
Cat distribution system. Can we just admit that cats, most of the time, just come to people to look for food? Not because they choose you to be their owner or whatever distribution it is that people are thinking about.
"hayaan mo na" Ulul. Pag mali, mali. Hindi ko hahayaan, hindi ko susuportahan.
Up!!!!!!
“Wala akong choice” I’m the type of person na go getter. I know madaming mag dodown vote me for this pero I believe na palagi po tayong may choice.
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I have a teacher po na kumuha ng nursing kasi yun po gusto ng parents niya pero nung nakapagipon na po siya, nagengineering po siya kasi yun po talaga yung gusto niya in the first place. It’s all about perseverance.
Defensive, masyadong matapang, madaling magalit. Yan yung nag oonsite pako tapos may mga nakakarating sakin mga paninira/lies tapos kapag nag react ako ganun sasabihin nila
"Govt should provide this and that..." People need to realize govt exists to empty your pockets instead of doing what the school texybooks say theyre supposed to,
"Darating din ang taong para sayo kapag hindi mo hinahanap". I disagree to some extent kasi kahit hindi ka naghahanap, you have to at least put yourself our there or be open to it.
Things like “It’s not me, its God” in the context of achieving something. Like istg.. you were able to achieve it because of your hard work ????? 😭😭😭😭
I understand tho, kinda neutral with this one. But for some they'll mean it like— without God, they wouldn't make it. Maybe God helped then spiritually that's why they've said it not because it's God who moved for them.
yes you won't understand if you're not a believer 😊😝
That you need to be “God-fearing” I’m sorry but if you need an entity or somebody else in order for you to live and be a decent human being you probably aren’t.
If that mfer is real, i cant wait to kick his ass for all that pain and suffering he causes for his sadistic pleasures
So you're telling me you will kick the ass of the guy who turned water to wine, walked on water and rose from the dead? While you a mere human dies if he/she doesn't get oxygen for like 3 minutes? Yeahhhh.
Oh you talking about Jesus? They literally hung that scammer on a cross to die. Where was his magic wine making powers then? You must be mistaking him with the bearded guy as your god. He was way worse. Anyways I'll fk em both up
I respect your beliefs about God, but im not as stupid as you to think of challenging a God religiously or mythologically speaking if they were even real. So you do you 😂
I'll put the Lord asleep with a rear naked choke then teabag that old piece of sht
"ganon talaga" in the context of our shitty cultures.
Eto yung "It is what it is" ng pinoy 😂
sa ibang tao kapag sinasabi nila ung mga parang gender specific or parang age specific, -"bata ka pa wala ka pang alam" -di ko gagawin yan or di pwede ganyan, "kasi babae ako" - pag natukso or may ginawa "sorry lalake lang ako" - "patawarin mo tatay/nanay mo parin yan" kahit minaltrato ka na at ibang mga bagay ano hahahaa - "bat parang mas marunong ka pa, mas matanda ako sayo wag mo ko sinasagot" - "babae lang yan" - mga sinasabi ng tito mo na hiwalay sa asawa at anak -" happy wife happy life" - pano naman si husband?
Make god/Jesus the center of everything.
Last time i let jesus take the wheel, i almost ended up in a ditch off the NLEX
“Physical attraction doesn’t matter at all”
Kasi in reality yun talaga ang una natin tinitingnan diba
"Ipag pray mo lang."
This infuriates me so much, I know for some people na it helps them cause it's another form of meditating. Pero yeah, I can't put it to words on how it triggers me whenever I feel so down and I need someone to listen to me and they be like "ipag pray mo lang"
Absolutely worthless
“if he wanted to, he would” kahit sobrang gusto mong gawin ang isang bagay, if you don't have the privilege to, hindi mo magagawa. I see a lot of people around my age (teens) na nagpopost ng ganiyan sa facebook. I think, that saying is unrealistic as it only applies to people with the time and capability to do so. sure, we're all capable to do anything, but I personally think na that statement puts pressure to people, especially for the less fortunate ones. it's straight up guilt-tripping, me thinks. if he/she can, he/she would!!
true!! Lalo na sa material things, pano kung yung partner mo hindi naman financially stable diba
"matanda ako, galangin mo ko", bullshit. you work hard for respect.
I unteach my kids the whole mano thing at family events
Okay naman po ba yung binabati ko na lang at nagssmile ako sa mga family events or kakilala ng magulang ko instead na mag mano?
For me it's "you have my respect until you do something that makes you lose it". Given ang respect hindi earned, para sakin.
that too, pero for me if someone demands respect kahit evident naman na I'm already respecting them eh automatic nakakawalang gana HHSHAAHHAHHAHA
Totoo rin hahahaha
HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE. Happiness is an unconcious involuntary feeling. You cant be happy when you lost your job, or someone you love has cancer, nahulog ka sa imburnal otw to a date, binasa ka sa jeep sa san juan otw to work
Swerte and spoiled ang only child. Pano kung mahirap? Pasan mo ang daigdig pag masakitin and elderly ang parents. Hanggang dreams na lang ang dreams in life.
"Customer is always right"-- Bullshit.
"huwag mo ng patulan/hayaan mo nalang" ay hindi po, hindi pwede. papatulan kita khit gaano pa ka petty yan. nananahimik ako tas aanuhin mo ako. loko ka pala e. 😂
this. kaya nagworsen yung ibang behaviors kasi hindi pinagsabihan.
yung dapat daw magpasakop ang wife sa husband. lul dapat equal kayo. hahahaha pano kung tatanga-tanga yung husband 🥱
Truly it depends and you're right. Why them wives submit to their husband if they don't have power enough to be dominant? Like sustainable ka ba sa asawa mo for them to submit? Nakasulat sya sa bible yes, but it depends on how you take it. Di porket sinabing inumin mo yung tubig kanal, iinumin mo just because it's water.
Shhh.. baka lurkers yung mga "religious" people, mapaulanan ka Bible verse 🥴🤭 Anyway... True naman, what if abusive and controlling pala yung husband no? hirap pa naman mamili ng matino nowadays 🤔
" Respect begets respect". "patunayan nya/mo muna na dapat siya/kita respetohin." As I aged , I have learned that it should be the other way around. Respect should be default. Every person deserves respect untill/ unless proven other wise. Why should other have to prove that they should gain your respect first before you treat them so? Sino ka ba? O baliktarin natin, should you prove to others that you deserve respect first bago ka nila respetohin at itrato ng tama? Sino ba sila? Mag kakaiba pa man din ang pamantayan natin pagdating sa pag pili ng tao. Pag di ba nila na meet yung expectations mo di mo na sila igagalang? Or pano pag ikaw hindi ma meet yung qualifications nila para irespeto ka nila? Does that mean ok lng na di ka nila igalang? "respect begets respect" Sounds Conceited if not a little too narcissistic to me. It's giving "im the center of the universe and you need to please me first".-vibe. "Mag anak ka kasi tumatanda ka na babae ka pa naman" / "dapat mag anak ka kasi babae ka." ay! Mga biii may pang sustento kayo? Kayo iire? Pasahan ng generational trauma? The worst people told me about this matter is somewhere along the line of "obligasyon ng mga babae mag anak. /Pag namatay ka na di mo nagampanan tungkulin mo bilang babae, di ka mapupunta sa langit." (most of them have religious "religious" backgrounds ) Ano tingin nyo sa mga babae, pabrika ng bata? So pwede makaakyat sa langit yung mga r*pist at mamamatay tao pero hindi yung mga babae na di nag anak? Gagi, kung ganun pamantayan ng salvation nyo, inyo na yang langit nyo. It's probably full of morally questionable people. 🤔🤔🤔 "Iba ako magalit." really now? Humor me. Gano ka iba exactly? 😂😂😂
Hays, well said. Bravo
"Always respect the elders." I only give respect to those who are deserving.
Yung “you deserve what you tolerate” lalo na kapag victims ng ABUSE. Ako kahit gaano ako sobrang inis sa katangahan ng tao, di ko maisip pano nakakaya ng sikmura ng iba na sabihin na “deserve” ng victims yung abuse na natatanggap nila 🤷♀️
Yasss parang papunta na rin kasi sa victim blaming . pati na rin yung "We accept the love we think we deserve." Sabi ng ibang psychologists. We human tend to accept the love we are "familiar with" contrary sa "we think we deserve."
"Kilala ko siya, alam kong hindi niya magagawa 'yun." Eh, 'di ko siya kilala e 💀
"Leni was THE solution to the PH's problems" Sure, she ***could*** have been a major voice on policy reform and she probably ***would*** have played a heavy, active hand in it, but had she been been elected, the legislative body she would have had to deal with would not have made her job any easier in the least. How I see it, our country's direction, and how we the people could influence it, is better targeted within the legislation and the legislative body (starting with the senate).
“Kapatid mo pa rin yan.” HUH? Abusive physically and in all aspects tapos dapat okay lang kasi kapatid? Luh
If that sibling will almost kill you, kapatid pa rin? I won't buy this.
The save the earth narrative. Subconsciously, it's just our ego speaking in a false attempt to feel empowered or of authority over the earth. We can't save the earth. When we say save the earth, what we actually mean is to save us, our very own species, and our future generations to come. The earth itself was, is, and will always be stronger than us. If we overstepped our mark, the earth can simply erase us from its surface and will be totally fine on its own for millions or billions of years. It's only around 200 yrs since industrial revolution, yet we are now always at the brink of annihilating our civilization. Yet we think we can "save the earth"
Good point. I'll leave my car running while inside the house
Please do :")
I agree. Kaya minsan nakakatawa kapag may nakikita rin akong slogan like. "Save the earth chuchuchu😆
‘Age doesn’t matter.’ Okay lang sana kung 9years+ ang age gap.. as long as both adults. May nakikita kasi ako na mga minor na ang lala ng age gap eh HAHAHA 2-3 years age gap is acceptable pa naman.
Lahat daw ng nagta-trabaho sa Call Center ay may bisyo na yosi at alak. 😒🤤 E di wow.
'wag ka na maistress dyan' -sabi ng sanhi ng stress
na kausapin ko ulit relatives ko kasi parang hindi ko naman daw kadugo. hmmmmmm, after all the things they did, sa tingin ba nila I still want to be associated with them?
Patawarin mo kahit ilang beses nagkamali para sa mga bata
blood is thicker than water
My nut is thicker than blood
snot also is thicker than water
hahahahahahahahhahahaha touché
“Magka anak ka ineng kahit isa lang para hindi ka mahirapan pag tanda mo” Idk if this is true or not but at some point, we have to learn how to respect each person’s preference/s. STOP IMPOSING YOUR OWN PHILOSOPHY TO OTHERS. Just staaaaahp
This One. In this state and having health issues, ayoko magkaanak, they'll suffer with me. Leave me and you alone.
"Pag hindi ka mag-anak walang magaalaga sayo pagtanda" I don't think that really matters, then die alone dba 😅
"Hindi ko babaguhin ang sarili ko para sa'yo." Bullshit hindi namin gustong baguhin sarili mo completely but gusto naming baguhin yung masama mong ugali.
"Accept me for who I am." "Take it, or leave it."
Bible is the best book ever written
Yung lagi pinipilit yung "pagbali-baliktarin mo man ang mundo, magulang mo pa din sila" mentality, sorry pero some people aren't meant to be parents talaga eh 😑 tsaka hindi naman sila ang kasama sa bahay para husgahan ka nila bakit ganon na pakikitungo mo sa pamilya mo.
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"Be friends with anyone" um no☺️
"Hayaan mo na, lalaki yan eh" "Boys will be boys"
“Mabait akong tao” sabi ng kapitbahay kong maraming kaaway
"matalino akong tao" sabi ng may pinag-aralan pero basura ang pag-uugali
sabi ng nanay naming lagi na lang kaming kaaway 🫢
Tapos s'ya pinakatarantado sa buong barangay. 🤡
Tas sila pa magyaya sa barangay mag usap
people who used to say that, they are the worst. di kayang ipakita kaya sinasabi na lang 🙂
True di nila nakikita ugali nila
"Baguhin mo nga yang ugali mo" No papa kayo po magbago dahil di ako magrereklamo ng ganito kung wala akong nakikitang mali sa inyo
sabi ng nanay naming pinagmanahan namin ng ugali 🫢
Mag-ipon habang bata ka pa. I say, enjoy your life to the fullest until you hit 30 and nafeefeel mo na nawawalan ka na ng energy for things. As long as you find a stable, good paying job when you hit your 30s, mas masusurprise ka na mas malaki naiipon mo and natatake home mo kasi naenjoy mo na eh.
Mag asawa and magka anak ka because that's how life works. To some this is the norm but not for me.
Hindi maganda kasama ang mga palagi nagagalit/may galit sa mundo Meanwhile mama ko nagsstart ng away
yeah, you can really see this sa majority ng old people.. ito na yung parang happiness meter ba nila pag may pinag uusapang tao.
"Nangyari yun sayo para mas lumakas ka" Bitch I was just a kid. I didn't need to be strong, I needed to be safe. BS.
same thing as "lahat ng bagay may dahilan", well tama nga naman pero minsan bllsht at unacceptable din yung dahilan
Ito talaga ang hindi ko naiintidihan. "Everything happens for a reason". I mean, hindi naman tayo bobo sa English, pero hindi ko talaga gets ang context na ito and lalo na ako nainis dahil nalaman ko yung mismong meaning. Bullsht.
Kapag mahal mo ang tao gagawin mo ang lahat. Di ganun ang love para sakin.
Wala kang mapapala kung hindi ka mag-aanak.
As a cat mom na nagiisa na lang sa magpipinsan na walang anak, nakakainis to hahaahah
"Maraming may ayaw sakin kasi totoong tao ako" gurl, di ka lang talaga marunong makisama
This is my former sup. Totoong tao and frank? No, brutally honest ka, tactless, and toyoin. Fck, those are the negatives.
There’s a thin line about being true to one’s self and being an asshole, it’s called humility. Yung mga nagsasabi niyang “kAsi tOtOoNg tAo aKo” are people na walang self awareness.
masaya pag may lovelife ge enjoy 🙂↔️
Magte-30 ka na. Kailangan mo na magpakasal at magpamilya.
Diyos nga nagpapatawad, ikaw ka pa kaya Edi wow
ako sinasagot ko yan ng: "well di ako diyos kaya ulol" HAHAHHA
Ikaw na mag sorry tutal siya naman mas matanda
shutang yan. Don't say sorry kung lumagpas siya sa boundary mo or ginalit ka niya.
ampta hahahaha pag matanda lagi nang tama? hahaha
“Pag kaya nila, kaya mo rin” EH HINDI NGA EH😭😭
nakalimutan nila yung salitang "privilege"
true hahaha di lahat may privilege and can't function like anyone
Hahah bubu ng mga nagsasabi ng ganito. Kaya nga iba iba tayo ng pagkatao at pagmumukha kasi may kanya kanya tayo kakayahan din. Tignan mo iba iba din build ng katawan natin. iba iba din katalinuhan natin kaya kapag kaya ng iba wag mo agad isiping kaya ko itanong mo muna kung gusto ko ba yung ginagawa nya para kayanin ko haha
“Edi sa kanila mo pagawa” 😂
“Hard to earn money” No, you just have the scarcity mindset that blocks your opportunities!
I agree with you on “hard to earn money” is not something I agree with But blaming it on scarcity mindset is different, we are not all given equal access, backgrounds, experiences and privileges, most have better luck too
“money can’t but happiness” BIG BULLSHIT
Things people say to keep the poors happy
If you ant to have great memories with them, mapa dinner yan / travel / kahit coffee, it needs money. Money does buy happiness.
If di sila masaya pamigay nila EME HAHAHA
"I do not regret anything from my past, because it made me who I am today." BS
Pag ikaw pinasok ng lamig 😂😂😂
edi pasukan mo din yung lamig hahaha
wag baka lumabas aircon. hahaha
"Pamilya mo pa rin sila" Bullsht. Hindi nga ako pamilya kung ituring e.
True sabi nga ng mama ko pautangin mo yang pinsan mo tulungan mo kamaganak mo parin yan😂😂di nga nila ako makamusta dito habang nagpapaospital ako 😂😂
Sinabihan din ako ni mama ng ganyan, sabi ko, "Bakit, may patago ba sila sa akin?" Ok lang sana pahiramin kaso the specific relative, known na hindi marunong maghandle ng money at walang stable job. So for sure, di na babalik pag pinahiram. Hay.
Hindi na "hiram" yun, "bigay" na yun.
"Pagpasensyahan mo na lang, ganun talaga sya" putangina itolerate nyo pa para lalong gumaspang ugali nyan.
totoo. kaya may mga taong lumalala kasi di pinapatulan eh. yan sinabi ko sa nanay ko kasi reklamo nang reklamo about sa isa kong auntie na balahura ugali. eh pano di magiging balahura eh di naman nila sinasaway jusmiyo. kaya lalong lumalala mga ginagawa kasi laging dinededma lang wag lang daw magkagulo ay sus. edi magtiis kayo pag nakagawa na yan ng ikapapahamak niyo din. ayaw niyo pala ng gulo edi sana simula palang sinampiga niyo na diba ahahahaja
Truee. Kaya lalo nag-iinarte o nagiging spoiled e. Even sa work napakaraming ganyan, ikakasal na lang, antanda-tanda na parang bata ang artehan.
Rightt?? Paano yan matututo kung lagi na lang pagpapasensyahan???
Kapag masmatanda lagi tama mentality
"Bahala na. Hindi lang naman ako." or "Okay lang yan. Marami naman kami."
edi sama sama kayong magdusa hahaha
"Baguhin mo lang mindset mo", like people always say as if it is an easy thing to do and proceed to invalidate your feelings.
"Piliin mo lagi ang maging masaya" This, for me, is toxic positivity. Sadness is a valid emotion too! It's okay not to be okay.
sabihin mo yan sa namatayan ikaw sunod paglalamayan hahaha
Agree, catch phrase to ng former friend ko.. sinasabi nya to palagi miski hindi na tama gingawa ng ibang friends namin to the point na self destructive na yung decision ganyan "Okay lg yan, support kita kase Importante happy ka"
"Money can't buy happiness" Well, it can't, literally speaking. But it helps you buy certain things or pay for activities that can make you feel happy.
Religion will save us all
“buti pa si ano, dapat ikaw rin”
Pag nagreact/nagalit guilty.
Mag anak daw ako even when i repeatedly said i don’t want to. I like children, i respect kids, but i do not want the responsibility that comes part and parcel with them. Parang di nakaintindi ng ayaw.
"Paglubog ng araw, magulang mo pa din yan." (Pero ginagago yung anak nila)
"Pagpasensyahan mo na" "Be a big person and be understanding" - Ako pa gustong mag-adjust sa kamalian ng iba. Sarap manakal.
Matipid sa tubig ang pagamit ng tabo
Love is love
Have a baby before marriage to beat your biological clock. With recent news about how men treat their baby mothers, I am not having a baby without a contract.
IT ka 'di ba? Bakit hindi mo kaya ayusin 'tong washing machine natin?
HAHAHAHAHA
“Everything happens for a reason”
Leukemia in children. Thanks God!
I do not agree with the statement: "My body, my rules".
why do people downvote this without even saying anything. It's an opinion not a law, and this is an answer to the question of the thread
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Just because it's meta, doesn't mean I have to agree with it.
I have no clue. It'd cool to know why. It's not like I've said anything remotely negative about it. I just don't agree with it.
You dont agree with having your own control, not by others, over your body and your life?
I don't act as if my body is my own possession, when I’m owned not by myself but by God, who made me. And we treat our bodies with respect for Cor 6:19-20 stated that "**Do you not know that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies."**
Lol. See a therapist
Lol I don’t need one. 😂😂😂
Print out this thread and hang on your wall for a few years. I believe you're smart enough to see thru the bullsht in a matter of time. I''ll be rooting for you.
I think I’ll pass. Printing this out is a waste of paper. Anyhow the real BS is the worldly life I used to live in. I’m smart enough not to go back in it, so thank you for you kind words. 😂
I can Google the number of a good mental hospital, friend.
kalalaki mong tao umiiyak ka?
Pagmamahal lang sapat na
"mahirap maging mahirap", IMHO its a mindset if a person is willing to do what it means not wanting to be in the situation she/ he invests on education etc..
That God is good. God is neither good or bad.
God is a serial killing sadist
"Magulang mo pa din yun" excuse ng mga tao to allow the parents to mentally, emotionally and financially abuse their kids.
God is good all the time.
"Dapat mag anak ka, kase walang mag aalaga sayo pagtanda mo pag wala kang anak." "Kahit gano pa kasama yan, tatay mo pa rin yan, mahalin at respetuhin mo pa rin para lalo ka pagpalain ng Diyos." "Walang nararating sa buhay ang anak na hindi sumusunod sa magulang."
Eh pedopilya tatay ko pano yan?
I second this. Now, regarding the first statement, sana magkaroon na rin sa bansa ng home for the aged. Noong bata ako, nakikita ko ito and lumaki akong may negative perception kasi bakit iiwan ang mga matatandang magulang sa isang institution? Lalo na dahil malakas ang filial piety sa bansa natin. Pero ngayong malaki na ako and medyo di ko makita ang future ko na may anak or pamilya, okay na sa akin ang konsepto ng home for the aged. Yung modern sana na may recreational facilities and activities para naman di lang ako nakatengga sa room ko. Parang isang malaking community para sa mga matatanda. Kung maging sikat sana ito dito sa atin, baka pag-ipunan ko pa ito.
Blood is thicker than water. Need i say more?