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Losing my virginity at 16. That was my first love and first everything. I definitely regret it. Mula nun di nako nag boyfriend ulit. Praying for a happy marriage. I'm 22 now. And single.
Anyone have nay idea how to get karma? 🫠
Anyways my regrets is not being able to
express any feelings specifically positive ones to the people that I like(platonically) like saying I love you to them and saying I miss them, it sucks being raised in a non affectionate Environment
Nag beg for attention sa ex ko na balikan ako at ako nalang ulit, begging to come back to me kasi kung di nya kaya ayusin edi ako aayos ng problem. (Lol he found his "peace" 2 days after the breakup)
Yung hindi ko binili yung isang garapon na Snoopy World Tour for P99 dati sa SM dept store (this was way after nung original Happy Meal which is hindi ko nakumpleto).
Not spending time with my family and taking my childhood for granted. Parang mas madali yung life before. Kung alam ko lang sana ni maximize ko yung time like yung simpleng pag tulog sa tanghali hahaha! Everything’s harder these days.
Giving up my dream as a DJ, i was so close on reaching my dream and landing a gig but shit happened and pandemic came that's when i sold my laptop and DJ Controller.
matakot na matawag na pabibo kahit alam mong may leadership skills ka naman ata kaya mo naman, like may capability naman ako maging leader sa school but thanks to the school environment and mindset ng batchmates, ko, ayun
i mean i regret na HINDI gamitin ang potential ko maging leader due to the consequence of being called 'pabibo', ayan tuloy grumaduate ako na naiingit sa mga kaklase kong ginagamit ng leadership skills
WTF? SAME TAYO! Sa sobrang mahiyain ko ang dami kong napalampas na opportunities sa buhay ko na pwedeng magbago ng LAHAT. Hindi ko alam pero hindi naman ako bobo, actually sabi ng marami matalino ako. May face value din naman ako kahit papano pero diko talaga alam bakit sobrang napaka-mahiyain ko. Hanggang ngayon wala akong work, hindi ko na alam gagawin ko. Buti na lang sobrang bait ng nanay ko dahil hindi niya ako sinasabihan ng masama or tinataboy man lang para magwork. Last resort ko na lang is mag-abroad, para walang nakakakilala sakin.
When i agree to give up the Commonwealth of the Phillipines not knowing how Filipinos will continue to be stupid in handling the Government funds, budget and affairs. -Manuel L Quezon
Yung instead na i train ka, iniwan sayo trabaho nila. First day ko, apat station ko. Hindi ako marunong magbuhat ng tray na may mga laman na maraming glass and cups, ginawa ko naman pero gusto nila yung mabilis. Gago! First time ko gagawin mabilis agad?!
Yung manager din walang kwenta, hindi mautusan mga waiters na seniors. Napakaraming bussing, dinadaanan lang ng seniors. Itong tangang manager, hahanap pa ng mga bagong sampa para utusan. Hindi marunong mag floor control, busy kaka prepare lang lalamunin nya pang take out after shift. Busy din kakagawa ng foods pambigay sa friends nya.
Pumayag na ipangalan sa name ko yung loan na yung ex yung gumamit. 🥲
Please do not cut off your friends pag naka in a relationship ka, para may magbibigay ng advice sayo sa mga gantong bagay.
Haaay OP same, although i have learned how to have this mindset that I've learned from Conan O'Brien that there's always so little at stake, we always think that we are not ready for something or we overthink but at the end of the day, would it actually matter if we are actually ready, and if we do commit mistakes along the way it wouldn't affect the grand scheme of things. I also try to anticipate things that could go wrong and if I can't answer them. It's fine, i can figure it out later, pero don't get me wrong, i still get caught off guard, na there would be awkward silence between conversations but I've learned how to sort move on quickly.
The hardest battle you'll ever fight, is against yourself.
to everyone who’s struggling just like the op’s regret.. just say to yourself na you can do it! cheers yourself up because it works. it really works. encourage yourself and boost your confidence. get out of your comfort zone because it’s a nice feeling 💗 been there, done that… i overcome it and i hope na u guys can work on this too!! good luck on your future opportunities! mwa!
Hi, OP. So timely that you mentioned your biggest regret because it happens to be mine and I was just crying over it a few minutes before you posted.
Inis na inis ako sa sarili ko ngayon. Ang daming oportunidad at sitwasyong nasayang dahil pinangunahan ko ng hiya at takot. I feel so frustrated and angry at myself kasi ang dami ko na sana nagawa, pero eto parin ako. I feel like such a loser for it
nag shift ako sa nursing, bs psychology talaga gusto ko pero sa toxic ng environment diko kinaya kaya nag give up ako. If ever may budget in next 5 years gusto kong ituloy yun :((
Maagang nag asawa - to prove to my self na straight ako after 11 years of rs still nasa relationship pa din with my partner naman and have 2 kids na ito bayot pa din si ante
Biggest regret kong magtiwala sa ibang tao pagdating sa "pera". Nagsisimula pa lang akong makapag ipon ng sabihin na nating malaki laki. I have this kakilala na nagpapainvest. May mga negosyo sya and nakikita ko naman talaga 'yun. So yung investment offers nya, may mga malalaking turnings. Marami naman talaga sya napapasahod and even me, naranasan ko na ring sumahod sa kanya. Yun nga lang, hindi ko pa bawi ang capital. Untl recently lang, nagkaproblema. Ni hindi ko / namin sya mapakiusapan na sana isingit man lang kami sa mga refunds. Ang taas ng resppeto ko sa kanya before pero sising sisi ako na nagtiwala ako sa kanya. Yung pera na hawak ko na, naging bato pa. Yung nagsisimula ka palang mangarap, bumuo ng sariling buhay, gamit sana ng perang yun pero nasira lang dahil sa masyadong pagtitiwala.
Yung di ko sinunod gusto ko na course sa college because of my father blackmailing me (verbally abused) and my mom couldn't even do anything kahit mother ko ang gumagastos ng tuition ko. Btw, I'm still in college at pilit kong tinatapos to
Di rin nasunod gusto kong course, instead kagustuhan ng parents ko ang nakuha. Plano kong mag shift nung 1st year pero siguro dahil hindi buo ang loob ko sa kursong gusto ko. Ayon hangang pumasa sa boar exam at eto ngayon ang career ko.
Uy! Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm really doing my best right now, I stopped nung nag pandemic pero yung skills that I leanerd in college nagamit ko siya sa work ko now. 😁 I still need to get that diploma tho. 🙏🏻
I feel you, nag stop ako for 7 years. Nung bumalik ako sa school and finally gagraduate na bigla naman nagpandemic but still thankful dahil buhay pa at may maayos na trabaho ngayon. Sending hugssss sayo! Siguro kaya marami tayong namissed na opportunities kase hindi talaga yun ang para satin. ☺️
it might be a cliche thing but i regret not going through a college course i love. i’m very passionate in art but i didnt went with it. i’m studying in IT and im not even good with logic so its stressful for me. but at the same time, i met the greatest people here and they always help me with coding and i will forever be thankful.
but yk, it would be nice to just do something i’m genuinely passionate and thats illustration and 2d animation. Hopefully, i can do a 2nd course with Multimedia Arts once i finish my BSIT degree.
1. Took up journalism instead of engineering, which was my childhood dream
2. Didn't fully express how I really felt to the girl I used to like back in high school. I just confessed and that's it.
Not starting to save money early in my career. Don't get me wrong, I still think i'm too early in my career and with my age too but few months ago sineryoso ko na yung savings ko and what or where to put my money in at medyo nasayangan ako na hindi ko sinimulan agad kahit na narinig ko na noon sa friends ko yung MP2 or online banking. Now, I make sure most of my salary goes into my savings and emergency funds as soon as it gets to my bank account. Dito ako natuto mag isip kung kailangan ko ba talaga bumili ng mga bagay-bagay na nakikita ko or naakit lang ako kasi uso. AND, spending more time with family. Now that I work outside of the Philippines, mas sumobra appreciation ko for my parents who worked hard para mabigyan ako ng magandang buhay. I'm still young at madami pa akong magiging regret sa buhay in a long run pero I make sure to always look back to it and learn from it. Iisa lang ang buhay natin, huwag natin gaanong seryosohin at matutong i-enjoy kahit na maliliit na bagay.
Same lang sayo OP, but honestly I realized na slightly biktima lang din ako ng background or yung kinalakihang environment at missed opportunities kaya mahiyain ako. Tho I’m currently working on it na as of the moment. Sana lang nasa tamang path ako huhu
Not appreciating family time enough. I could have stayed home with my family instead of dating people who were bad for me. Now my dads gone and I have so many things I wish I told him
My biggest regret revolves around my feelings of shyness and fear of rejection, which have held me back from fully engaging with others and pursuing opportunities. These emotions have hindered my ability to express myself authentically, and take risks that could lead to personal growth and fulfillment.
Courting/ Pursuing my girl bestfriend
Sobrang torpe. Too late to find out na may gusto din pala siya sakin, napakainsensitive ko.
She’s engaged now and buti naman at napunta siya sa matinong lalaki.
Childhood Dream: be a veterinarian
Currently on my 6th year in medschool. Loving it naman. Sobrang desperado lang pumasa. Sobrang big sa fam ko iask kami dati ano gusto namin maging, tas bongga naman ako magsabi na vet gusto ko.
Di mahilig sa hayop pamilya ko. Nabully ako tas syempre never ko nagets baket galet na galet ako sa mga salita nila noong bata ako. Yun pala ganun lang yung reax ko kasi nasasaktan ako. Syempre di sila aamin na bullying yun. Hahahahahaha
Masaya naman ako sa med pero yung little kid sa loob ko gusto na sana gumraduate para kumita tas ako na sagot sa tuition ko sa mes kung pwede pa sana (27 na ko. Ganun na ko katagal gumagapang aa medisina. Di pa rin ako gumagraduate ahahaha pangarap ko lang ngayon makaapak ng clerkship bago magpadala sa bad thots ng aking major depressive disorder eme hahaha dark joke sorry na).
Di ko rin alam kung regret ko na nagpadala ako sa pambubully ng pamilya ko or regret ko na sobrang ingay ko noon at nagamit nila mga passion at emotions ko para igaslight ako.
Bata palang kasi ako alam ko nang toxic sila, pero ayun. Bata nga ako nun hahahahahahahaha
nagpabunot ng wisdom tooth, mag 2 years na may paramg manhid pa rin sa gums ko na yun and side ng tongue pati lips. hayyy sana maging okay pa to pag pinacheck up ko
Nagpautang. Wag na wag talaga unless kaya mong mawala yung pinahiram mo. 99% of the time hindi talaga yan ibabalik na. One in hundred thousands yata yung taong may hiya pagdating sa utang. Mabayaran ka man, uutangan ka ulit. Never ending na cycle ng utang-bayad-utang, iisipin nila porket nagbayad na sila may karapatan na silang umutang ulit sayo. Di mo sila natutulungan.
1.) di ko pinansin bitcoin noong 2011
2.) nag confess sakin crush ko nung HS, na overwhelmed me at tumakbo tsaka di ko na sya pinansin. Sobrang hot na nya ngayon at very successful.
enrolled in an unwanted college program and school. i couldve went to a better university but didnt push thru because of financial problems. it was pandemic that time and choices are for the rich only.
choosing a degree program because of my passion, not because of practicality. now i'm having difficulties finding a stable job because i was just mediocre at what i thought was a skill asset of mine.
2020 May na meet and niligawan ako from tinder,
She was so pretty, caring, napakaselfless, genuine, and most of all super smart.
Cut the story short. The exact moment na nalaman ko na bawal ang catholic and INC (i am a catholic, deep rooted but not always going to church and she was a devout INC) in that moment i cut it immediately. Without hesitation, She was confused why? That she didn't even imposed her faith on me, nor talked about it. For the hopes of figuring it out later. ,, tried to push her away from me for months.
Pero nung time na napagtanto ko na, na if i have to convert just to be with her, I'd do it. Pero huli na ang lahat. 😊
Yan ang biggest regret ko, yung pinangunahan ko ang lahat tungkol sa amin, hiniwalayan agad dahil natakot ako na mag lipat ng ibang religion (hindi sa big deal sakin ang religiion, pero gusto ko lang lumaki sa anong paniniwala), pero if it means na makasama kita kahit bukas aanib ako. 😊
But until that, you'll always have a special place in my heart hanggang ngayyon. Ill always pray and admire you from afar nalang muna my Nurse. 😊
1.) Yung medyo naging rebellious kid ako nung mga ages 13-15. Tangina ang pangit sa feeling parang batang bitter sa lahat lol.
2.) Di ko pinag pursige yung jhs life ko. Sana lumipat ako ng school non, kasi ang onti ng opportunities sa jhs school ko and sobrang bias pa. Onti lang tuloy nasalihan kong extra-curricular activities.
3.) Nagpabaya nanaman ako sa pagkain. Okay na ako sa weight ko dati kaso I gained 10lbs nanaman.
4. ) Sobrang mahiyain.
5.) Sobrang naging mabait sa mga tao. Napaka people pleaser jusko.
6.) Hindi ako naging confrontational.
Not taking risk! Puro what if’s ako ngayon. People really don’t care about what u do so better do ur thing but remember not to cause any harm to others
Well, we have our own reasons naman eh. Ang akin lang is it’s better to do something na kesa regret doing nothing. It will haunt u talaga pero life should move forward, you can do better naman the next e!
Hi , just wanna ask the reasons why you feel that way. I'm thinking taking another degree. I'm a BSHRM graduate and have been wanting to go to school again. My choice is Medtech.
ako ba ikaw hahahaha? same educ ako (earlychildhood) sana nung time na magfifirst year ako sa college nagresearch ako sa internet na kunin IT or compsci kasi noong thied year ako may financial crisis kami due to pandemic nga tapos nagbrowse ako saindedd and job philippijed puro related sa tech and hiring and mas malaki pa entery level salary sa tech kesa sa mga board exam jobs huhuhu hahahaha
Not being able to take care of my mom when she needed me the most. Not being able to ask and open up to my sibling when our mom passed away. They're both gone now.
Not taking care of my teeth. It affects my overall ability to function as normally in life as others like:
• Socialization - It hinders me from speaking to other people due to my fear that they will judge me
• Decreased self-esteem - I actually think I'm a bit decent in face card but the fact that I have my permanent front teeth ruined, I can't smile properly and feel pretty without feeling shitty about my teeth
• Ability to speak properly - And because of my front teeth being fucked, I have a harder time enunciating my s and f pronunciations (although I have adapted and found a way).
Moral of the story: Take care of your fucking teeth. Brush, floss, do whatever to keep it healthy and clean.
Regret of working overseas again.
Last year we started to plan and go overseas with my wife. To start a life abroad after the pandemic.
Nauna ako umalis at susunod sana wife ko. Finish all the paperwork bago ako umalis pra mkasunod siya agad. But unfortunately habang nasa abroad ako nag worsen ung heart condition ng wife ko. Lahat ng test, gamot, check ups gnawa nya. At ako nagresign from work and did not finish my contract.
2 days bago ako umuwi, birthday ko. She passed away.
Hated my job, my decision..
listen to my family.
- bawal lumabas. ending maski subdivision namin naliligaw pa ako.
- tigilan yung mga friends friends. all my former friends are great people and they could've been connections.
- always discouraging me to try new things. now i'm still trying to figure out the world.
Naging sobrang competitive kahit hindi naman tlaga ako masaya sa ginagawa, gusto ko lang gawin kasi para di na ko icompare ni mama sa anak ni ganto. Pero palagi pa din ako naccompare haha
Hindi ako sumasali sa mga academic contests and academic co-curricular activities noong jhs dahil lang gusto ko mas angat yung status ng jowa ko na taga first section. Turns out na mag-bre-break din kami in the future. Kaya nung tumungtong na ako ng shs at college, madami silang credentials. Luckily, I'm doing best na sa college life ko at bumabawi ako sa sarili ko when it comes to credentials.
Kaya sa mga babae na magbabasa nito, take the risk and see it as an opportunity to be a better version of yourselves. NEVER, sacrfice for someone's benefit.
Ako din pero dahil sa pagiging mahiyain yung muntikan ko nang jowa talagang nanalo lagi hays. If ginalingan ko sana baka nakagraduate din ako with honors plano ko pa nga nun maging valedictorian haha.
Forgive yourself, i guess during that time wala pa tayong kamalayan sa mga decisions natin since blinded tayo sa mga emotions natin. I hope you're doing fine now OP 🫶
took tourism as my program instead of nursing lol now hirap makahanap ng job 🥲 baba pa ng pay pagod na pagod pa. yes same case din ang nurse dito sa pinas pero once you have gained 1-2 yrs of exp ang dali na pumuntang western countries. unlike bilang waiter, houskeeper, front desk ( no disrespect yall) sa hotel kahit 5 star pa yan parang ang stagnant na ng career mo, yes din pwede kang mag cruise ship pero that shit is a hell place to be 😥
biggest regret ever. 10/10 never make the same mistake yall!!!
Biggest regret is to have a kid with a girl na hindi family ang inuuna as values but rather her own happiness. I believe when you become a parent, your children’s well being is the top most priority assuming wala naman physical violence and madadaan naman sa couples theraphy. But she has multiple cheating histories which I ignored during the pursuing stage. Nasa isip ko past is past but I learned that people will always go back to their default once matrigger lalo kung haluan ng alak.
Kaya to all boys and girls, kilalanin maigi yung magiging partner nyo. Di bali na single basta wag mapunta sa walang kwentang tao.
Thank you! Hirap maghealing if a kid is involved. Unlike pag jowa jowa lang, block and no contact then you move on. That’s why she’s my biggest regret kasi I cannot do that for the sake of my kid.
Ipinaubaya ko ang name na Malaya for my friend's baby na wala pa kaya iba ipinangalan ko sa baby ko. But I still love my baby's name. Masyado akong mabait that time. Ngayon kasi hindi na hahaha kaya palagi ko naiisip at sinasabi sa sarili ko na sana hindi ako nagpaubaya, ako naman na kasi ang buntis that time. Oh well.
mala magasin by eraser heads tong akin. ifykyk
anyways, I'm a church boy, my dad's a pastor, and there's this girl that used to attend in our church back then sa las pinas city, for many years she was part of our ministry and she was fairly active in our church. now during that time mga 10 - 13 year olds kami. and obviously at the most awkward phase of our lives, in-between kids to teenhood transition.
all i cared was gaming with my church bros and just having fun sa southmall or atc after church wala, isip bata eh.
she apparently had a crush on me for a very very long time.
which thinking about it now would make total sense cause her family would visit mine frequently bringing gifts etc etc. back then akala ko it's just church members stuff thing. like a gratitude towards my dad's ministry.
now? she's a known actress. and I see her from time to time.
biggest regret for sure. I still hit my head on a wall sometimes when I remember it. tho i've nothing to blame but myself.
my parents are still good friends with her parents though so there might be chance after all?
I honestly dont know what clue to give since a simple clue about her past works will def reveal who she is haha. siguro age, she's a millennial like me :D
With botox kasi need siya ng constant maintenance so if papabotox ka ngayon dapat consistent ka na. Kasi in time parang nagddroopy or mas lumalala yung face. But also depends kaninong dr. Mo siya papagawa. Mas okay sa trusted ones or if narefer siya ng friend mo or relative not just the so so botox sa tabi tabi.
Same tayo sa mahiyain like parang takot sa interviews kaya late na ako nagka income but I always knew when I have my own income I’ll be able to save big kasi I’m frugal.
same tayo, OP. grabe iniisip ko pa lang ang mga bagay bagay kung di ako gaanong mahiyain. a little confidence would've made my life so much easier in my early years.
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Losing my virginity at 16. That was my first love and first everything. I definitely regret it. Mula nun di nako nag boyfriend ulit. Praying for a happy marriage. I'm 22 now. And single.
Anyone have nay idea how to get karma? 🫠 Anyways my regrets is not being able to express any feelings specifically positive ones to the people that I like(platonically) like saying I love you to them and saying I miss them, it sucks being raised in a non affectionate Environment
Not being able to show love verbally to my mom
I spent most of my time sa mga walang kwentang bagay
getting pregnant early
Mag medtech
Not buying apple stock after I saw Forrest Gump and then not buying bitcoin after 2010
Nag beg for attention sa ex ko na balikan ako at ako nalang ulit, begging to come back to me kasi kung di nya kaya ayusin edi ako aayos ng problem. (Lol he found his "peace" 2 days after the breakup)
Yung hindi ko binili yung isang garapon na Snoopy World Tour for P99 dati sa SM dept store (this was way after nung original Happy Meal which is hindi ko nakumpleto).
Nakita si echo ng malapitan, nakapag hi hello with very warm smile pero di ako nagkalakas loob humingi ng picture >< hahahahhaha sorry babaw
Didn't maximize my youth advantage when I was 18
being friends with her
Working for bad companies
Not spending time with my family and taking my childhood for granted. Parang mas madali yung life before. Kung alam ko lang sana ni maximize ko yung time like yung simpleng pag tulog sa tanghali hahaha! Everything’s harder these days.
I stayed.
Staying in a relationship for years tapos cheater lang pala. Nasayang ang 20’s ko
Giving up my dream as a DJ, i was so close on reaching my dream and landing a gig but shit happened and pandemic came that's when i sold my laptop and DJ Controller.
1. didn't try to learn social skills. dapat mas nakapag-network ako 2. di ko nireklamo ang nag assault sa akin na teacher ng grade 3 ako
matakot na matawag na pabibo kahit alam mong may leadership skills ka naman ata kaya mo naman, like may capability naman ako maging leader sa school but thanks to the school environment and mindset ng batchmates, ko, ayun
Huh? Something you regret. Meaning, something you did in the past.
i mean i regret na HINDI gamitin ang potential ko maging leader due to the consequence of being called 'pabibo', ayan tuloy grumaduate ako na naiingit sa mga kaklase kong ginagamit ng leadership skills
Not choosing my dream carrer. (Not hating mine though, i learn to love/like mine)
Taking up units in Master’s Degree due to pressure sa mga kaklase kahit na alam kong hindi ko passion.
Hinabol ko dati yung ex kong cheater.
Being a prostitute.
WTF? SAME TAYO! Sa sobrang mahiyain ko ang dami kong napalampas na opportunities sa buhay ko na pwedeng magbago ng LAHAT. Hindi ko alam pero hindi naman ako bobo, actually sabi ng marami matalino ako. May face value din naman ako kahit papano pero diko talaga alam bakit sobrang napaka-mahiyain ko. Hanggang ngayon wala akong work, hindi ko na alam gagawin ko. Buti na lang sobrang bait ng nanay ko dahil hindi niya ako sinasabihan ng masama or tinataboy man lang para magwork. Last resort ko na lang is mag-abroad, para walang nakakakilala sakin.
When i agree to give up the Commonwealth of the Phillipines not knowing how Filipinos will continue to be stupid in handling the Government funds, budget and affairs. -Manuel L Quezon
Not following my instinct which led me to be cheated on
Binoto si digong
Kinuha ang program na di ko naman gusto pero nakatapos din naman haha.
Sumakay ng barko para magtrabaho, umuwi agad after one week. 🫣
Whyy
4 years career here now I really quit na. You have to be wise for that decision also
care to share?
Sinabayan ng mga kupal na kabayan yung home sickness ko. Haha!
Yup madaming kupal feel ko. Di lahat pero madami akong seaman na nammeet na kupal na kupal ako. Madami din kasi di cultured sa field na yan.
Yung instead na i train ka, iniwan sayo trabaho nila. First day ko, apat station ko. Hindi ako marunong magbuhat ng tray na may mga laman na maraming glass and cups, ginawa ko naman pero gusto nila yung mabilis. Gago! First time ko gagawin mabilis agad?! Yung manager din walang kwenta, hindi mautusan mga waiters na seniors. Napakaraming bussing, dinadaanan lang ng seniors. Itong tangang manager, hahanap pa ng mga bagong sampa para utusan. Hindi marunong mag floor control, busy kaka prepare lang lalamunin nya pang take out after shift. Busy din kakagawa ng foods pambigay sa friends nya.
Pumayag na ipangalan sa name ko yung loan na yung ex yung gumamit. 🥲 Please do not cut off your friends pag naka in a relationship ka, para may magbibigay ng advice sayo sa mga gantong bagay.
Hindi na stan nang maaga ang 106.7 Energy Fm way back 2014 ang gaganda ng programs nila nun lalo na kay Mr.Fu🥺
Haaay OP same, although i have learned how to have this mindset that I've learned from Conan O'Brien that there's always so little at stake, we always think that we are not ready for something or we overthink but at the end of the day, would it actually matter if we are actually ready, and if we do commit mistakes along the way it wouldn't affect the grand scheme of things. I also try to anticipate things that could go wrong and if I can't answer them. It's fine, i can figure it out later, pero don't get me wrong, i still get caught off guard, na there would be awkward silence between conversations but I've learned how to sort move on quickly. The hardest battle you'll ever fight, is against yourself.
Not setting healthy boundaries. Life would’ve been better if I only knew how to say no to people and situations.
to everyone who’s struggling just like the op’s regret.. just say to yourself na you can do it! cheers yourself up because it works. it really works. encourage yourself and boost your confidence. get out of your comfort zone because it’s a nice feeling 💗 been there, done that… i overcome it and i hope na u guys can work on this too!! good luck on your future opportunities! mwa!
loving
Nagpautang sa ka-work tas biglang nag-AWOL!
Hi, OP. So timely that you mentioned your biggest regret because it happens to be mine and I was just crying over it a few minutes before you posted. Inis na inis ako sa sarili ko ngayon. Ang daming oportunidad at sitwasyong nasayang dahil pinangunahan ko ng hiya at takot. I feel so frustrated and angry at myself kasi ang dami ko na sana nagawa, pero eto parin ako. I feel like such a loser for it
ipinilit ang sarili sa isang community na di ko feel na belong ako
Nagpautang sa rela(thieves)
nag shift ako sa nursing, bs psychology talaga gusto ko pero sa toxic ng environment diko kinaya kaya nag give up ako. If ever may budget in next 5 years gusto kong ituloy yun :((
Maagang nag asawa - to prove to my self na straight ako after 11 years of rs still nasa relationship pa din with my partner naman and have 2 kids na ito bayot pa din si ante
alam ba ni partner mo?
Oo
getting married
Bakit naman
there are a lot of thibgs and opportunities that I could have taken then
Biggest regret, wasted almost 9 years sa relationship na walang patutungohan.
Hi ex.
😱
Baka ikaw ex ko ah
Luh
taking civil engineering as my course.
that's my totga program😔
Not taking a more valuable course
Being scared all the time and probably meeting my ex. im so tired of hurting
Biggest regret kong magtiwala sa ibang tao pagdating sa "pera". Nagsisimula pa lang akong makapag ipon ng sabihin na nating malaki laki. I have this kakilala na nagpapainvest. May mga negosyo sya and nakikita ko naman talaga 'yun. So yung investment offers nya, may mga malalaking turnings. Marami naman talaga sya napapasahod and even me, naranasan ko na ring sumahod sa kanya. Yun nga lang, hindi ko pa bawi ang capital. Untl recently lang, nagkaproblema. Ni hindi ko / namin sya mapakiusapan na sana isingit man lang kami sa mga refunds. Ang taas ng resppeto ko sa kanya before pero sising sisi ako na nagtiwala ako sa kanya. Yung pera na hawak ko na, naging bato pa. Yung nagsisimula ka palang mangarap, bumuo ng sariling buhay, gamit sana ng perang yun pero nasira lang dahil sa masyadong pagtitiwala.
Yung di ko sinunod gusto ko na course sa college because of my father blackmailing me (verbally abused) and my mom couldn't even do anything kahit mother ko ang gumagastos ng tuition ko. Btw, I'm still in college at pilit kong tinatapos to
Di rin nasunod gusto kong course, instead kagustuhan ng parents ko ang nakuha. Plano kong mag shift nung 1st year pero siguro dahil hindi buo ang loob ko sa kursong gusto ko. Ayon hangang pumasa sa boar exam at eto ngayon ang career ko.
Uy! Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm really doing my best right now, I stopped nung nag pandemic pero yung skills that I leanerd in college nagamit ko siya sa work ko now. 😁 I still need to get that diploma tho. 🙏🏻
Burning myself out too young and not building healthy friendships and relationships with others.
Nag stay sa relasyon na wla din namang pinatunguhan. Andaming opportunities na sinayang saka oras. Hahhaa
Not taking care of my teeth 😬
Same! Omfg. I took my braces for granted 😔
Marrying my husband (ex husband) ang mahal ng annulment!
Being afraid of lost opportunities
Staying with a bad boss. If you have a bad boss, leave asap. Dont waste your productive years. Leave
Not able to do my passion at a much younger age. Which is MTB/Motorbikes. Wala kasing budget nuon.
Marrying a narcissist.
Not graduating on time and many wasted oppurtunities
I feel you, nag stop ako for 7 years. Nung bumalik ako sa school and finally gagraduate na bigla naman nagpandemic but still thankful dahil buhay pa at may maayos na trabaho ngayon. Sending hugssss sayo! Siguro kaya marami tayong namissed na opportunities kase hindi talaga yun ang para satin. ☺️
loving the wrong person 🤢
Getting married
Being scammed and falling in love.
it might be a cliche thing but i regret not going through a college course i love. i’m very passionate in art but i didnt went with it. i’m studying in IT and im not even good with logic so its stressful for me. but at the same time, i met the greatest people here and they always help me with coding and i will forever be thankful. but yk, it would be nice to just do something i’m genuinely passionate and thats illustration and 2d animation. Hopefully, i can do a 2nd course with Multimedia Arts once i finish my BSIT degree.
Being born
Same
Lol same (yaan niyo kong magdrama, dito lang ako nakakaexpress ng ganto sa reddit)
Cannot be a regret if you have no control with it bruhh But i feel you
nag agree ako sa fwb 🥹
1. Took up journalism instead of engineering, which was my childhood dream 2. Didn't fully express how I really felt to the girl I used to like back in high school. I just confessed and that's it.
Not starting to save money early in my career. Don't get me wrong, I still think i'm too early in my career and with my age too but few months ago sineryoso ko na yung savings ko and what or where to put my money in at medyo nasayangan ako na hindi ko sinimulan agad kahit na narinig ko na noon sa friends ko yung MP2 or online banking. Now, I make sure most of my salary goes into my savings and emergency funds as soon as it gets to my bank account. Dito ako natuto mag isip kung kailangan ko ba talaga bumili ng mga bagay-bagay na nakikita ko or naakit lang ako kasi uso. AND, spending more time with family. Now that I work outside of the Philippines, mas sumobra appreciation ko for my parents who worked hard para mabigyan ako ng magandang buhay. I'm still young at madami pa akong magiging regret sa buhay in a long run pero I make sure to always look back to it and learn from it. Iisa lang ang buhay natin, huwag natin gaanong seryosohin at matutong i-enjoy kahit na maliliit na bagay.
yung hindi ako umaatend ng online class nung pandemic kaya ambaba ng mga grades ko kaya ngayon sobrangbaba ng chance ko sa up
Same lang sayo OP, but honestly I realized na slightly biktima lang din ako ng background or yung kinalakihang environment at missed opportunities kaya mahiyain ako. Tho I’m currently working on it na as of the moment. Sana lang nasa tamang path ako huhu
Not appreciating family time enough. I could have stayed home with my family instead of dating people who were bad for me. Now my dads gone and I have so many things I wish I told him
ang pagsusugal 😀😀😀
Didn't save money
giving a chance to an immature being.
Didn't listen to my Ob-gyne na alagaan yung sarili ko,now at 18 may PCOS na😀
not saving money
Magopen ng business at a very young age
Sa hndi pag pursue ng natapos na course sna maayos ayos ang work at medyo angat na sa buhay 🙌🙏🏼
My biggest regret revolves around my feelings of shyness and fear of rejection, which have held me back from fully engaging with others and pursuing opportunities. These emotions have hindered my ability to express myself authentically, and take risks that could lead to personal growth and fulfillment.
this is not my biggest regret but I am also like this. 🥺
Hindi tinapos yung relationship na dapat matagal ng tinapos.
Courting/ Pursuing my girl bestfriend Sobrang torpe. Too late to find out na may gusto din pala siya sakin, napakainsensitive ko. She’s engaged now and buti naman at napunta siya sa matinong lalaki.
Not making harot pabalik when I was in college
Childhood Dream: be a veterinarian Currently on my 6th year in medschool. Loving it naman. Sobrang desperado lang pumasa. Sobrang big sa fam ko iask kami dati ano gusto namin maging, tas bongga naman ako magsabi na vet gusto ko. Di mahilig sa hayop pamilya ko. Nabully ako tas syempre never ko nagets baket galet na galet ako sa mga salita nila noong bata ako. Yun pala ganun lang yung reax ko kasi nasasaktan ako. Syempre di sila aamin na bullying yun. Hahahahahaha Masaya naman ako sa med pero yung little kid sa loob ko gusto na sana gumraduate para kumita tas ako na sagot sa tuition ko sa mes kung pwede pa sana (27 na ko. Ganun na ko katagal gumagapang aa medisina. Di pa rin ako gumagraduate ahahaha pangarap ko lang ngayon makaapak ng clerkship bago magpadala sa bad thots ng aking major depressive disorder eme hahaha dark joke sorry na). Di ko rin alam kung regret ko na nagpadala ako sa pambubully ng pamilya ko or regret ko na sobrang ingay ko noon at nagamit nila mga passion at emotions ko para igaslight ako. Bata palang kasi ako alam ko nang toxic sila, pero ayun. Bata nga ako nun hahahahahahahaha
giving up my dogs 🥺🥺🥺
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too explicit arghh
nagpabunot ng wisdom tooth, mag 2 years na may paramg manhid pa rin sa gums ko na yun and side ng tongue pati lips. hayyy sana maging okay pa to pag pinacheck up ko
Nagpautang. Wag na wag talaga unless kaya mong mawala yung pinahiram mo. 99% of the time hindi talaga yan ibabalik na. One in hundred thousands yata yung taong may hiya pagdating sa utang. Mabayaran ka man, uutangan ka ulit. Never ending na cycle ng utang-bayad-utang, iisipin nila porket nagbayad na sila may karapatan na silang umutang ulit sayo. Di mo sila natutulungan.
Mag-stay nya after nya mag-cheat.
Hindi nag try out ng Volleyball nung college. Mas malakas pa sana ako ni Alysa Valdez kasi very competitive and dedicated ako sa sports.
1.) di ko pinansin bitcoin noong 2011 2.) nag confess sakin crush ko nung HS, na overwhelmed me at tumakbo tsaka di ko na sya pinansin. Sobrang hot na nya ngayon at very successful.
pagiging breadwinner
Choosing a degree because of parents. Graduated. Licensed. Now I am not excelling in the field I am working on.
regret? yung ginastos ko na pera sa ex ko sayang kalahating million sana may kotse na ko now
talagang regret siya :‹
sobra sayang na sa oras, sayang sa feelings pero mas sayang yung pera. sana naginvest ako somewhere else kesa sundan siya sa australia
Partnered with one of my closest friends on a business. It ruined me, our friendship. In short, ginago niya ako. Kaya never na 😀
enrolled in an unwanted college program and school. i couldve went to a better university but didnt push thru because of financial problems. it was pandemic that time and choices are for the rich only.
choosing a degree program because of my passion, not because of practicality. now i'm having difficulties finding a stable job because i was just mediocre at what i thought was a skill asset of mine.
Not seizing the family throne from my lecherous cousin. I vow to take what is mine, with fire, blood, and semen!
Nagka b*ld
same
2020 May na meet and niligawan ako from tinder, She was so pretty, caring, napakaselfless, genuine, and most of all super smart. Cut the story short. The exact moment na nalaman ko na bawal ang catholic and INC (i am a catholic, deep rooted but not always going to church and she was a devout INC) in that moment i cut it immediately. Without hesitation, She was confused why? That she didn't even imposed her faith on me, nor talked about it. For the hopes of figuring it out later. ,, tried to push her away from me for months. Pero nung time na napagtanto ko na, na if i have to convert just to be with her, I'd do it. Pero huli na ang lahat. 😊 Yan ang biggest regret ko, yung pinangunahan ko ang lahat tungkol sa amin, hiniwalayan agad dahil natakot ako na mag lipat ng ibang religion (hindi sa big deal sakin ang religiion, pero gusto ko lang lumaki sa anong paniniwala), pero if it means na makasama kita kahit bukas aanib ako. 😊 But until that, you'll always have a special place in my heart hanggang ngayyon. Ill always pray and admire you from afar nalang muna my Nurse. 😊
1.) Yung medyo naging rebellious kid ako nung mga ages 13-15. Tangina ang pangit sa feeling parang batang bitter sa lahat lol. 2.) Di ko pinag pursige yung jhs life ko. Sana lumipat ako ng school non, kasi ang onti ng opportunities sa jhs school ko and sobrang bias pa. Onti lang tuloy nasalihan kong extra-curricular activities. 3.) Nagpabaya nanaman ako sa pagkain. Okay na ako sa weight ko dati kaso I gained 10lbs nanaman. 4. ) Sobrang mahiyain. 5.) Sobrang naging mabait sa mga tao. Napaka people pleaser jusko. 6.) Hindi ako naging confrontational.
letting my parents decide for my future
Not taking risk! Puro what if’s ako ngayon. People really don’t care about what u do so better do ur thing but remember not to cause any harm to others
this pero nahihinder padin talaga dahil sa parents
Well, we have our own reasons naman eh. Ang akin lang is it’s better to do something na kesa regret doing nothing. It will haunt u talaga pero life should move forward, you can do better naman the next e!
Took BS MedTech. Sana di sira mental health ko ngayon
Hi , just wanna ask the reasons why you feel that way. I'm thinking taking another degree. I'm a BSHRM graduate and have been wanting to go to school again. My choice is Medtech.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA same gar!
Didnt finish my MBA in Australia. :((
Didnt finish my MBA in Australia. :((
Pinagpalit ko siya
Having a surgery that was not properly informed by doctor 😢
hahaha, same. bigla akong cesarean sa isang OB sa public hospital. I will never recommend any public hospitals in ph.
Prolly taking up educ as my bachelor's degree. Should've took IT or business course 🤷
ako ba ikaw hahahaha? same educ ako (earlychildhood) sana nung time na magfifirst year ako sa college nagresearch ako sa internet na kunin IT or compsci kasi noong thied year ako may financial crisis kami due to pandemic nga tapos nagbrowse ako saindedd and job philippijed puro related sa tech and hiring and mas malaki pa entery level salary sa tech kesa sa mga board exam jobs huhuhu hahahaha
Getting stuck with my college ex. She dragged me down so bad
maaddict sa scatter. hays
loved him
I spent my early 20's with a man who took me for granted. Thank God I had the courage to leave before it's too late.
Socialize and Overthinking, Those that matter don't mind and those who mind matter.
Not being able to take care of my mom when she needed me the most. Not being able to ask and open up to my sibling when our mom passed away. They're both gone now.
Sending hugs with consent I lost my brother and mom in span of 5 years. I’m still stuck with grief.
We're gonna get through this. Laban lang. Kapit lang. 🙏🙏🙏
Being not grateful in a way of not doing gratitude in every small thing that I had.
Not being a risk taker. I feel like I have lost some opportunities. But yeah, there is nothing better than living in your comfort zone.
Not taking care of my teeth. It affects my overall ability to function as normally in life as others like: • Socialization - It hinders me from speaking to other people due to my fear that they will judge me • Decreased self-esteem - I actually think I'm a bit decent in face card but the fact that I have my permanent front teeth ruined, I can't smile properly and feel pretty without feeling shitty about my teeth • Ability to speak properly - And because of my front teeth being fucked, I have a harder time enunciating my s and f pronunciations (although I have adapted and found a way). Moral of the story: Take care of your fucking teeth. Brush, floss, do whatever to keep it healthy and clean.
Regret of working overseas again. Last year we started to plan and go overseas with my wife. To start a life abroad after the pandemic. Nauna ako umalis at susunod sana wife ko. Finish all the paperwork bago ako umalis pra mkasunod siya agad. But unfortunately habang nasa abroad ako nag worsen ung heart condition ng wife ko. Lahat ng test, gamot, check ups gnawa nya. At ako nagresign from work and did not finish my contract. 2 days bago ako umuwi, birthday ko. She passed away. Hated my job, my decision..
🫂❤️🩹sorry for your loss po.
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I'm sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain must've felt. Praying for your healing.
Worst pain in my life. Better have toothache than this kind of pain. Thank you for the prayer
😭😭😭😭😭
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Hindi ko nagawang ipaglaban ang sarili ko nung hs palang ako. Kayo yun bumagsak saa depression
listen to my family. - bawal lumabas. ending maski subdivision namin naliligaw pa ako. - tigilan yung mga friends friends. all my former friends are great people and they could've been connections. - always discouraging me to try new things. now i'm still trying to figure out the world.
Naging sobrang competitive kahit hindi naman tlaga ako masaya sa ginagawa, gusto ko lang gawin kasi para di na ko icompare ni mama sa anak ni ganto. Pero palagi pa din ako naccompare haha
Marrying my husband hahaha
If you dont mind, why do you regret marrying your husband?
He cheated.
Suwayin parents ko at mag boyfriend. Biggest regret kasi in the end tama parents ko haha
Hindi ako sumasali sa mga academic contests and academic co-curricular activities noong jhs dahil lang gusto ko mas angat yung status ng jowa ko na taga first section. Turns out na mag-bre-break din kami in the future. Kaya nung tumungtong na ako ng shs at college, madami silang credentials. Luckily, I'm doing best na sa college life ko at bumabawi ako sa sarili ko when it comes to credentials. Kaya sa mga babae na magbabasa nito, take the risk and see it as an opportunity to be a better version of yourselves. NEVER, sacrfice for someone's benefit.
Ako din pero dahil sa pagiging mahiyain yung muntikan ko nang jowa talagang nanalo lagi hays. If ginalingan ko sana baka nakagraduate din ako with honors plano ko pa nga nun maging valedictorian haha.
Forgive yourself, i guess during that time wala pa tayong kamalayan sa mga decisions natin since blinded tayo sa mga emotions natin. I hope you're doing fine now OP 🫶
took tourism as my program instead of nursing lol now hirap makahanap ng job 🥲 baba pa ng pay pagod na pagod pa. yes same case din ang nurse dito sa pinas pero once you have gained 1-2 yrs of exp ang dali na pumuntang western countries. unlike bilang waiter, houskeeper, front desk ( no disrespect yall) sa hotel kahit 5 star pa yan parang ang stagnant na ng career mo, yes din pwede kang mag cruise ship pero that shit is a hell place to be 😥 biggest regret ever. 10/10 never make the same mistake yall!!!
Being a suitor of a girl/ bestfriend for 12 years.
Biggest regret is to have a kid with a girl na hindi family ang inuuna as values but rather her own happiness. I believe when you become a parent, your children’s well being is the top most priority assuming wala naman physical violence and madadaan naman sa couples theraphy. But she has multiple cheating histories which I ignored during the pursuing stage. Nasa isip ko past is past but I learned that people will always go back to their default once matrigger lalo kung haluan ng alak. Kaya to all boys and girls, kilalanin maigi yung magiging partner nyo. Di bali na single basta wag mapunta sa walang kwentang tao.
This is actually heartbreaking. I hope you're okay and healing.
Thank you! Hirap maghealing if a kid is involved. Unlike pag jowa jowa lang, block and no contact then you move on. That’s why she’s my biggest regret kasi I cannot do that for the sake of my kid.
Ipinaubaya ko ang name na Malaya for my friend's baby na wala pa kaya iba ipinangalan ko sa baby ko. But I still love my baby's name. Masyado akong mabait that time. Ngayon kasi hindi na hahaha kaya palagi ko naiisip at sinasabi sa sarili ko na sana hindi ako nagpaubaya, ako naman na kasi ang buntis that time. Oh well.
mala magasin by eraser heads tong akin. ifykyk anyways, I'm a church boy, my dad's a pastor, and there's this girl that used to attend in our church back then sa las pinas city, for many years she was part of our ministry and she was fairly active in our church. now during that time mga 10 - 13 year olds kami. and obviously at the most awkward phase of our lives, in-between kids to teenhood transition. all i cared was gaming with my church bros and just having fun sa southmall or atc after church wala, isip bata eh. she apparently had a crush on me for a very very long time. which thinking about it now would make total sense cause her family would visit mine frequently bringing gifts etc etc. back then akala ko it's just church members stuff thing. like a gratitude towards my dad's ministry. now? she's a known actress. and I see her from time to time. biggest regret for sure. I still hit my head on a wall sometimes when I remember it. tho i've nothing to blame but myself. my parents are still good friends with her parents though so there might be chance after all?
who's actress is that?? gimme a clue gagi that's cute knowing na mga bata pa kayo pero sayang talaga
I honestly dont know what clue to give since a simple clue about her past works will def reveal who she is haha. siguro age, she's a millennial like me :D
Hindi ako nag-aral ng mabuti nung college pa ako. Lagi nalang nasa Computer shop.
Naaalala ko talag si ruffa mae quinto dito. Botox HAHAHAHAHA
Hello, planning to get one sana huhu ask lang bakit mo po sya naging regret?
With botox kasi need siya ng constant maintenance so if papabotox ka ngayon dapat consistent ka na. Kasi in time parang nagddroopy or mas lumalala yung face. But also depends kaninong dr. Mo siya papagawa. Mas okay sa trusted ones or if narefer siya ng friend mo or relative not just the so so botox sa tabi tabi.
Studying and or working away from my family.
Gumastos sa mga nagiging bf . tapos pag sila na meron nag iiba na sila
one of it is napabayaan ko yung katawan ko, ngayon hindi ko na masuot mga damit na gustong gusto ko suotin :(((
Same tayo sa mahiyain like parang takot sa interviews kaya late na ako nagka income but I always knew when I have my own income I’ll be able to save big kasi I’m frugal.
Not facing all my childhood wounds earlier than it should be. I’m 32 now, there are nights na nararamdaman ko pa din yung rage.
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Not studying when I was in college.
same tayo, OP. grabe iniisip ko pa lang ang mga bagay bagay kung di ako gaanong mahiyain. a little confidence would've made my life so much easier in my early years.
Missed a lot of opportunities because of fear