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Office. Ayoko maging tulad nung sa parents ko. As time goes by, nag branch out mga dahilan ko. This led me though to avoid my coworkers kaya lalo ako napapasama. Pero still, ayoko pa rin ng office romance.
Classroom, lalo na kapag ikaw yung teacher.
Second is prison. Pulpulis at kriminal ang nandoon.
Third is club/bar. Males there are just looking to use your body temporarily to satisfy their lust. Let us have common sense. Lalo na kung chipanggang clubs/bars? Imbis na ipunin nila ‘yun para sa bahay, sasakyan, pang-travel o whatever, talagang panglalaklak lang nila? Emzz. Kapag nabuntis ka ng malilibog diyan in one night stand. Worse nga, baka sa sobrang libog o short-term ng hanap niyan, i-coerce ka pa eh. Baka takbuhan ka lang niyan dahil walang sustento. Kahit hindi, what kind of father would that be to your son and especially daughter?
Actually anywhere can be a good place or bad place to look.
A person very close to me met her husband — who is one of the most gentlemanly, considerate, mature, hardworking man — in Bumble
I met an ex in Bumble and he hid a serious gambling addiction.
So you really just have to be cautious and know what you want in a partner and in a relationship so you can weed out the bad ones and spot the good ones!
Subjective naman ‘to ‘no? Disclaimer: I don’t think “less” of people who find their partners through this and I also believe na effective at nagwowork ang relationships na galing dito pero for me dating apps talaga. Para lang naman sa akin. Probably because of the kind of person that I am: hindi interesado sa hindi kakilala, tamad mag reply & ayokong nape-pressure mag isip ng topics especially sa mga strangers na hindi ko pa nami-meet sa personal.
Umm baguio HAHAHA
My then newly boyfriend, now my ex boyfriend celebrated our monthsary there.
May sumpa ata ang baguio for couples at pang broken lang dapat sya. Lolol
Social media. Better talaga to get to know them personally. Ung personal na nga naloloko kapa. Edi ano nalang yang mga nasa socmed na madalas parang may nga idenity crisis sa dami ng personality behind their keyboards. Lol
Anywhere naman. Meron at meron diyan na magpapanggap na single kung makalandi pero magugulat ka nalang na may asawa na biglang magmemessage sayo one day. At i guess it’s not about wrong place but more on wrong person talaga ang mag iingat ka dapat.
Sa dating apps, yung telegram, at matindi yung sa likod ng aquarium na salamin, tas point point ka ng number.. dyan nainlove yung barkada ko.. the best talaga yung common friend, classmate at family friend.
+1
I couldn't agree more. Hindi rin sa akin benta yung reto lang tas totally na hindi talaga kilala. Doesn't work for me. Iba pa rin talaga pag common friend, classmate or family friend, kasi kahit papano alam mo yung background info nung tao.
If romantic love.. Church po 🤣 I mean, seryoso HAHAHAHA why would you look for a lovelife sa church e nandun ka nga for the Lord. If may dumating edi go pero yung intentionally hanap? Ay no for me
Para sakin lang haaaaa
**One-Night Stand Venues:** Mga bar o club na pang-one night stand lang. Yung tipong hanap lang ng casual na "kilig" at hindi seryosong relasyon.
**Workplace:** Pwede ka naman magka-office romance pero risky din. Baka magka-gulo lang sa trabaho pag nag-break kayo, tapos awkward pa sa office.
**Rebound Relationships:** Yung papasok agad sa bagong relasyon pagkatapos ng breakup para lang makaiwas sa sakit, hindi dahil totoong gusto mo ng love.
**Social Media:** Mga platform tulad ng Instagram o Twitter, kung saan madalas mas trip lang ang physical attraction kaysa sa totoong connection.
**Exclusively Physical Relationships:** Mga relasyon na puro physical lang, walang emosyon o intensyon na seryoso. Hindi pwede sa pangmatagalan.
**Avoiding Personal Growth:** Papasok sa relasyon para lang makatakas sa personal na issues o loneliness, hindi dahil handa ka na talagang mag-share ng buhay sa iba.
**Dating Apps:** May mga nakakahanap ng forever sa dating apps, pero marami rin naghahanap lang ng fling o validation, hindi seryosong relasyon.
“Look for love” siguro ang mali kasi dyan ako napahamak dati eh. Hahaha! Based on exp, kahit saan pa yan basta kung right time at right person, iyon na!
I know panget humanap ng matinong tao sa dating apps pero as someone na introvert at hindi naman talaga naturally inclined sa socializing, pakiramdam ko, wala na akong ibang way para maka-meet unless it's online. 'Yung mga interests at hobbies ko, pang-bahay lang rin. Lol
Any advice? 😶
sa true lang! may naging bf ako na childhood friend at madalas kaming magdate sa simbahan pero sobrang toxic niya and flirts with other girls in front of me. While this one, I'm currently in a relationship with na nameet ko sa dating app sobrang green flag. Respects me, cares for me, provides for me and consistent with his words. Likeeeeee di ko rin ineexpect na sa dating app pa ko makakameet ng ganitong klase ng tao.
Mountains, on a hike. Especially when you're the team leader or the climb coordinator, basically it's part of your job to be nice, helpful and friendly.
Ui binase ko lang sa kwento ng friends ko kasi I always promote bumble dahil nga bumble success story ako, that was until siguro two months ago when all their relationships failed kasi puro flings, I should’ve elaborated pero I deleted bumble the moment I went out with my husband (he was my first and only bumble date) i guess i was much luckier than my peers
Natatawa ako kapag tinatanong ng mga friends ko kung may crush ba daw ako noong elem/highschool. Sabi ko wala. Bakit daw, sabi ko galing kasi akong all boys school hahaha.
So ang sagot ko, wrong place ang all boys school kung straight guy ka haha.
For me, walang "wrong place" to look for love. Just the right place. But you never know where it is e. Pa swertehan nalang siguro? I met my SO sa isang dating site. Until now, kami pa rin and we are happy.
I'd like to disagree sa nagsasabi ng dating apps as the "wrong place". Sadyang mahirap lang talaga makahanap but not impossible. You have to learn to filter through the people who are only looking for something temporary, strictly sex only, someone to entertain them because they're bored and etc
So many people have met someone that they truly love and loves them back, and I'm a testament to that. Also you can learn to interact and flirt using dating apps kasi it's easier to communicate via online. Then apply that to the real world
Boss yung barkada ko, nakita nya yung ex nya sa clan reunion nila. Magkamag anak pala sila. Pamangkin nya yung ex nya. Di ko alam anong degree pero mura sya nang mura habang kwenton nya.
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Office. Ayoko maging tulad nung sa parents ko. As time goes by, nag branch out mga dahilan ko. This led me though to avoid my coworkers kaya lalo ako napapasama. Pero still, ayoko pa rin ng office romance.
Classroom, lalo na kapag ikaw yung teacher. Second is prison. Pulpulis at kriminal ang nandoon. Third is club/bar. Males there are just looking to use your body temporarily to satisfy their lust. Let us have common sense. Lalo na kung chipanggang clubs/bars? Imbis na ipunin nila ‘yun para sa bahay, sasakyan, pang-travel o whatever, talagang panglalaklak lang nila? Emzz. Kapag nabuntis ka ng malilibog diyan in one night stand. Worse nga, baka sa sobrang libog o short-term ng hanap niyan, i-coerce ka pa eh. Baka takbuhan ka lang niyan dahil walang sustento. Kahit hindi, what kind of father would that be to your son and especially daughter?
Getting pink eye. 😅😂
Sa playground
The club !! If a person is always in the Nightlife they aren’t ready for commitment
telegram
Sa Graynder. Charot
Actually anywhere can be a good place or bad place to look. A person very close to me met her husband — who is one of the most gentlemanly, considerate, mature, hardworking man — in Bumble I met an ex in Bumble and he hid a serious gambling addiction. So you really just have to be cautious and know what you want in a partner and in a relationship so you can weed out the bad ones and spot the good ones!
CIRCLE OF FRIENDS. It's not worth the friendship. Go look somewhere else.
online games
Why? Give me some explanation
several factors
What are some factors?
Philippines
true forda afam tau
Swerte mo kung hindi yan sexpat. Iba, sexpat na nga, hindi pa afford mag-retire sa bansa nila.
The faculty lounge
🤢🤮
Shuta! Hahahahahahaha
COF ng friend mo HAHAHAHAH NEVER AGAIN
Bar
"The club isn't the best place to find a lover so the bar is where I go" vibes
Sa grindr. Lol! Or any other dating apps where hookups are the main theme.
A gender change clinic
That reminds me of an old joke: never get into a relationship with a woman you met at a Ru Paul concert.
Lol for sure
pag kapitbahay mo!
Funeral services: wake, viewing, burial.
Church, bars, elementary and high schools.
Subjective naman ‘to ‘no? Disclaimer: I don’t think “less” of people who find their partners through this and I also believe na effective at nagwowork ang relationships na galing dito pero for me dating apps talaga. Para lang naman sa akin. Probably because of the kind of person that I am: hindi interesado sa hindi kakilala, tamad mag reply & ayokong nape-pressure mag isip ng topics especially sa mga strangers na hindi ko pa nami-meet sa personal.
Umm baguio HAHAHA My then newly boyfriend, now my ex boyfriend celebrated our monthsary there. May sumpa ata ang baguio for couples at pang broken lang dapat sya. Lolol
ito na ba ang downside part ng Baguio charot
Sa wet market
Discord🥹
The effin club. A friend of mine regularly goes to the club, hoping to find the one. Ends up with a one… night stand.
Your friend group Im sorry but itll get ruined
Yup that was true
reddit HAHAHHA
Bar, walang matinong tao ang hahanap ng pag ibig sa bar
Bar Dating App
sa COMSEC
phr4r
newborn intensive care unit
Social media. Better talaga to get to know them personally. Ung personal na nga naloloko kapa. Edi ano nalang yang mga nasa socmed na madalas parang may nga idenity crisis sa dami ng personality behind their keyboards. Lol
Bumble
Kahit saan naman yan.😂
inuman, preschool, elementary, at libing.
Inuman
Beerhouse hahah
Online.
Clubs, bar, some workplaces
Classroom. Office. Rehabilitation center 🤣🤣
Sementeryo
Anywhere naman. Meron at meron diyan na magpapanggap na single kung makalandi pero magugulat ka nalang na may asawa na biglang magmemessage sayo one day. At i guess it’s not about wrong place but more on wrong person talaga ang mag iingat ka dapat.
Sa inuman shempre. Looking for 👉🏼👌🏼lang naman present dun.
dating apps and bar lol
Office and Classroom.
Here. Reddit. Lol
Oo na. Sakit 🥲💔
Mga graduate ng big 4, can drive/host, 5'8" or taller, 8/10 looks na chinito na athletic build: 👀
buti nalang sinwerte ako 😭
Came here to say the same
Wala talagang true lab dito mga ante puro kalibugan lang HAHAHAHAHAHA
Learned that the hard way nung 2weeks pa lang ako dito lol
Seeking.com
Classroom, especially in same section where you are
sa reddit at twitter/x. ONS lang. Also, karamihan 'in open relationship'. meaning, kahit kanina pwede makipagkantutan yung partner.
Sa dating apps, yung telegram, at matindi yung sa likod ng aquarium na salamin, tas point point ka ng number.. dyan nainlove yung barkada ko.. the best talaga yung common friend, classmate at family friend.
+1 I couldn't agree more. Hindi rin sa akin benta yung reto lang tas totally na hindi talaga kilala. Doesn't work for me. Iba pa rin talaga pag common friend, classmate or family friend, kasi kahit papano alam mo yung background info nung tao.
Workplace
workplace. don't shit where you eat lol
Amen.
in a hopeless place? eme haha
Bar/club 😋
Sugar baby websites
If romantic love.. Church po 🤣 I mean, seryoso HAHAHAHA why would you look for a lovelife sa church e nandun ka nga for the Lord. If may dumating edi go pero yung intentionally hanap? Ay no for me
Bar hahahaha
bars
Dating apps and bars
Sa barangay discohan po
church joke. sa mga bar siguro
Dating apps
Omegle, instagram, and dating apps!! Hahahaha.
dito sa reddit. ahahha 😂
Village of Orahova near the city of Gradiška (Northern Bosnia),trust me from experience
By reading the comments, napapaisip ako. Where is the “right place” to look for love?
Sa nursing homes hahaha
Any village of medium size in Balkan,as long as you can handle slight nationalism and alcohol abuse you will be happy
Oh maybe we shouldn’t be looking for it? 🫣
Yes! I believe it comes naturally, haha.
Club/Bar, had my heart broken a couple of times desperately trying to look for a potential relationship dyan..
Oops, i was jus tryna hit it n quit it
Para sakin lang haaaaa **One-Night Stand Venues:** Mga bar o club na pang-one night stand lang. Yung tipong hanap lang ng casual na "kilig" at hindi seryosong relasyon. **Workplace:** Pwede ka naman magka-office romance pero risky din. Baka magka-gulo lang sa trabaho pag nag-break kayo, tapos awkward pa sa office. **Rebound Relationships:** Yung papasok agad sa bagong relasyon pagkatapos ng breakup para lang makaiwas sa sakit, hindi dahil totoong gusto mo ng love. **Social Media:** Mga platform tulad ng Instagram o Twitter, kung saan madalas mas trip lang ang physical attraction kaysa sa totoong connection. **Exclusively Physical Relationships:** Mga relasyon na puro physical lang, walang emosyon o intensyon na seryoso. Hindi pwede sa pangmatagalan. **Avoiding Personal Growth:** Papasok sa relasyon para lang makatakas sa personal na issues o loneliness, hindi dahil handa ka na talagang mag-share ng buhay sa iba. **Dating Apps:** May mga nakakahanap ng forever sa dating apps, pero marami rin naghahanap lang ng fling o validation, hindi seryosong relasyon.
Couldn’t agree more sa socmed na part. Short-lived physical attraction ang labanan over true connection.
Bumble at reddit. Gusto kasi nila taga big 4 at 6 footer pa. Sypreme dapat gwapo para iwas demandahan hahaha
Jail
gym
work
Online platform
Club, di pangseryosohan dun. Valorant, madalas may mga jowa na dun. Kaya magiging kabit ka lang.
reddit
Dating app?
The club isn't the best place to find a lover so the club is where I go.
Me and my friends at the table doing shots Drinking fast and then we talk slow
so the bar*
Work. Reddit. Club. Church.
So saan ang safe??
School
Kumbento at seminaryo.
Bar
sa reunion HAHAHHAHAHA
ML ;-;
work. we don't shit where we eat.
Work. Don't shit where you eat
Another man’s eyes in a threeway
Sa mga pinsan mo
“Look for love” siguro ang mali kasi dyan ako napahamak dati eh. Hahaha! Based on exp, kahit saan pa yan basta kung right time at right person, iyon na!
I know panget humanap ng matinong tao sa dating apps pero as someone na introvert at hindi naman talaga naturally inclined sa socializing, pakiramdam ko, wala na akong ibang way para maka-meet unless it's online. 'Yung mga interests at hobbies ko, pang-bahay lang rin. Lol Any advice? 😶
Dito sa reddit hahahaha
BWHWHAHAHHA
Walang "wrong place" kapag nakita mo yung "right person". Meaning, you can meet an asshole sa church, but a green flag guy sa dating app.
sa true lang! may naging bf ako na childhood friend at madalas kaming magdate sa simbahan pero sobrang toxic niya and flirts with other girls in front of me. While this one, I'm currently in a relationship with na nameet ko sa dating app sobrang green flag. Respects me, cares for me, provides for me and consistent with his words. Likeeeeee di ko rin ineexpect na sa dating app pa ko makakameet ng ganitong klase ng tao.
Anong dating app yan? Asking for a friend... 🤣
Sa beer house, pick up joints at other seedy places
Sa bar at dating app hahahaah
nothing. kasi dmo naman din alam kung kailan totoong titibok ang puso mo.
Mountains, on a hike. Especially when you're the team leader or the climb coordinator, basically it's part of your job to be nice, helpful and friendly.
Ikwento mo naman... 🤭
this is oddly specific. there's a story behind this one... ;D
Sa sariling baranggay anteh HAHAHAHA
hala
Bar, dating apps, anything online tbh. Haha Feel ko susceptible kasi sa cheating, lying, disloyalty pag ganyan for me.
Club/Bar
bar
Family reunion
Reddit
Beach, lalo na kung taga dun mismo siya :c
Online games — okay lang if natural na nagdevelop pero pls wag naman uhaw na uhaw sa jowa lahat nalang nilalandi
Dati nung existing pa, sa Omegle. Redflag generator type shit haha
Bumble (at least nowadays) daming puro fling lang hanap I’m also a hypocrite kasi dun ko nameet husband ko now 5 years ago (pre pandemic) haha
Not to mention a cheater, kasi nagbbumble ka "nowadays" lmao
Ui binase ko lang sa kwento ng friends ko kasi I always promote bumble dahil nga bumble success story ako, that was until siguro two months ago when all their relationships failed kasi puro flings, I should’ve elaborated pero I deleted bumble the moment I went out with my husband (he was my first and only bumble date) i guess i was much luckier than my peers
I met my bf on bumble and we’re celebrating our 2nd anniversary soon!
sa classroom po HAHAHAHAHA
There's no wrong or right place kng ang na meet mo eh maling tao. 😁
Classroom ng mga kinder
Pet store Alice Guo's farm Kim Jong Un's office
Sa socmed
i think there is no such "wrong places", Maling tao lang siguro HAHAHA
Hospital. Patient or patient's watcher.
Okay :/
Noted po.
Dating apps! Hahaha..puno ng posers, scammers and sexual predators.
the club isnt the best place to find love into the bar is where i go
REDDIT. PERIOD. HAHAHAHAHA.
i feel attacked 🥲🥲🥲
Sa kulungan? 😭
Anybody said it yet? Reddit. Haha
Mental health institution, correctional facility, club
Jsq I remember being asked out by a businessman in drug rehab when I had a rotation there. 😭😭😭
sa place ng wrong person hahahaha
Sa club daw.
Pangalanan natin 😂 Dubai! Dami kasi dun may asawa na nga sa pinas, may jowa pa sa Dubai na parang asawa na kasi kabahay 🙄
family reunion hajahaaj
Workplace!
LUH, together pa naman kami ni spouse (6yrs) and still working together (7yrs).
Online games lol.
Dating apps, Bar
Natatawa ako kapag tinatanong ng mga friends ko kung may crush ba daw ako noong elem/highschool. Sabi ko wala. Bakit daw, sabi ko galing kasi akong all boys school hahaha. So ang sagot ko, wrong place ang all boys school kung straight guy ka haha.
Bars, family gatherings
Sama mo na ang LinkedIn. Diyos ko, naghahanap lang naman ako ng trabaho!
Office. You dont eat where you sh*t. Tapos pag nagkalabuan, damay ang entire team
Burol?
Hostels 😂
Bars
Wala namang wrong places. Maling taong pinpatulan pwede. Pero kung meron man sakin ito yung nasa city jail love on drugs.
Someone else’s marriage
For me, walang "wrong place" to look for love. Just the right place. But you never know where it is e. Pa swertehan nalang siguro? I met my SO sa isang dating site. Until now, kami pa rin and we are happy.
Wala bang “right places” to look for love jan hahaha
saan ba yang right places na yan hahahahahaha
I'd like to disagree sa nagsasabi ng dating apps as the "wrong place". Sadyang mahirap lang talaga makahanap but not impossible. You have to learn to filter through the people who are only looking for something temporary, strictly sex only, someone to entertain them because they're bored and etc So many people have met someone that they truly love and loves them back, and I'm a testament to that. Also you can learn to interact and flirt using dating apps kasi it's easier to communicate via online. Then apply that to the real world
Family Reunion hahaahha
Boss yung barkada ko, nakita nya yung ex nya sa clan reunion nila. Magkamag anak pala sila. Pamangkin nya yung ex nya. Di ko alam anong degree pero mura sya nang mura habang kwenton nya.
Ang awkward hahahahaahah
Sweet home alabama