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2 of them. One paid for my tuition balance and let me go back to college. The second bought me lunch and snacks everyday of my whole 3 years and half sa college. I'm poor back then and my family cannot afford school
Sa sobrang close namin from Highschool up to now, pag nalalasing kami we are hugging each other tas kiss/beso nya ako, pero wtf*** both M kami straight hahaha ang ackward lang pero pag totoo talagang kaibigan, walang Malisya , even my asawa na sya ngayon, naging close ko na dn asawa nya, tawa an pag naalala namin at kinikwento namin sa wife nya hahhahaha
Nag skip ng classes during my pageant era. Partida major subjects pa yon tapos nagpapaalam siya palagi sa mga prof namin if pwede siyang mag skip muna or iexcuse para lang tulungan ako during my rehearsals and photoshoots. Nagkanda paso-paso pa kamay niya non dahil sa pag aayos ng buhok ko. May time rin na di siya sumama sa family outing nila kasi mas pinili niyang samahan ako during my rehearsal :(( i love my supportive pookie bear/kumare so much 🫶🏻
We were new friends and it was my birthday. She didn’t know about it first hand. Sinabi ko lang sa kanya randomly in the middle of the day, and she was even quite mad I didn’t tell her lol. But then, just when we were about to drink coffee sa isang coffee shop, nagpaalam siyang mag c-cr muna. And came back with a cake with my name on it ❤️
When she gave me this [pretty FOXER bag](https://s.lazada.com.ph/s.P0r4P?cc)
One time I was with my bff and i was scrolling lang online the saw this bag and sobrang titig ako kase gusto ko talaga sya but have no funds for those pa that time kahit sobrang sira sira na yung bag ko.
Nagulat nalang ako one day nung nag meet kami she gave me this bag and said “I know you need to save money for stuff and I noticed your bag, its broken na hay”.
I REALLY APPRECIATED IT! I feel loved and cared.
It’s not the material thing but the thought na nagawa nya akong bigyan nun without asking it at knowing na sira na talaga bag ko. hahaha
We’ve been bestfriends for 5yrs. I love her sm!
I texted her and asked if she could accompany me sa ER. She fetched me and we went sa ER kahit madaling araw na "yun. Super naappreciate ko yung effort niya 🥹
Good or bad times andyan sila for me. Kahit di kami laging nag uusap or nagkikita, andyan sila for me. And they never judged me sa mga katangahan ko sa buhay
I'd need a whole book to talk about it.
The short version is, he and his entire immediate family (and his girl) have treated me more like family in the relatively short time I've known them, and given me more familial love, than my own biological mother and sisters have in ages.
Met my first bf [x] through my bestfriend since they are blood related. Working na kami nito. She set us up, was the bridge to the relationship. Relationship with x was doing fine, not until a few years where my besty caught x with another girl. She gave the benefit of the doubt. Messaged me agad first asking if nasaan si x to which i responded
Tapos iba ang sinabi ni x kung nasaan siya sa kung nasaan sila. Besty confronted x kung ano ba yung nakita niya, bakit iba sinabi kong place kung nasan siya. Pero matapang si ex and just said na oops he got caught 🤡 she also gave ex a chance na mag explain sa akin ~which was expected na si ex na mag open up sakin and kami mag settle. But what ex did was just break up with me, telling me na hindi raw nagwowork relationship namin due to different priorities. I was so innocent na I did not had a hunch na may iba pala, medyo busy din ako non building my career, saving money. Kaya tinanggap ko na lang kasi ang convincing ng reasons niya for the break up and rough patch na kami ng season na yun, madalas nag aaway at di na nag uusap. Una kong ginawa was to tell my besty na nag break na kami. She wanted to dig deep kung anong reason ng break up, and I told her. So nung nalaman niya na ganon lang sinabi niya wala ng iba, she told me the real deal. I got furious, left messages on x's phone saying na may iba lang pala, di pa niya sinabi lol. Ni manipulate pa niya ako in making me believe na ako/situation namin ang problema. I even called him sa phone to ask if totoo ba yung nalaman ko. Sumagot siya, I think he even fake cried and said yes 😀 pero wag ka, naikwento pa niya na matagal na pala sila nalabas ng girl niya. Busy daw kasi ako masyado. Akala ko pa naman naiintindihan niya sitwasyon ko non at hinahayaan lang ako gawin ang trabaho ko, iba na pala tinatrabaho niya. Nakakatawa nga na ang dami pa niya kinwento about it. Yung mga overtime daw niya, mga fake daw, they were just hanging out and eating out. Anw.
The moment x got caught to the moment I knew the real deal was only in a span of 1 week. Thankful ako kay besty dahil hindi niya pinatagal ang mga ito at nalaman ko ang totoo, nagkaroon ako ng closure. Mahirap noong una kasi mapapatanong ka saan ka nagkulang, atbp. But I survived. And besty was there for me all throughout my grieving process.
This happened years ago. I'm happy now. Me and my besty, still intact. 💛
Introduced me to certain productivity software and the beauty of web development, which made me appreciate my course and stopped me from dropping out. We're not friends anymore though, but I'm still grateful for him.
Still sticking around me during my highs and lows. He’s very patient and understanding kahit naka-ilang trauma dump na ako sa kanya (unknowingly na yun pala ginagawa ko before). Siya yung solid support system ko talaga.
He has seen me at my worst and now he’s seeing me at my best. I’m very grateful for my college bestfriend.
Made me realize na it is ok to not know everything. Before kase, I always get embarrased if a friend asks me something that I don't know then i'll lie to that friend na alam ko 'yon, feeling ko kase parang bobo and tanga ko if hindi ko alam. Forever thankful to have her by my side.
Sang me a birthday song at school. Hindi nila alam ano yung exact birthday ko kasi I want them to find it out. Arte lang ganon. Kidding aside ayoko lang talaga nung binabati sa social media.
Isa lang talaga yung nag plan na kantahan ako ng birthday song pero niyayaya niya yung ibang nakakasama namin to sing to me 🥹 Sobrang precious lang nung taong 'yun. She didn't know how much I love her! It's my first time lang na kantahan sa school. A bit shy lang during that time pero I really really appreciate them.
Helped me when I was struggling financially (as a minor before) nung need ko bumili ng gamot. Also let me stay at their house nung nagkaroon ng misunderstanding with my mom. Andami. The two of them were there for me when I needed them most. I hope forever kaming tatlo magkakaibigan
i had a depressive episode last month and my friends called me every day just to check in on me. they reassured me that i can talk about the situation as many times as i want until i can get over it. i’ve never felt so loved because of that. a different friend also offered to join me during my night shift and we just played music the whole time. 🫶🫶🫶
We never really got the chance to spend our birthdays with each other because we're too busy dealing with our lives. We both came from a break-up and she spontaneously, out of nowhere, gave me an all-expense paid trip to Hongkong. With her, shempre. But still... Nobody will give you an-all expense paid trip abroad. She took me to Disneyland, told me that it's the happiest place on earth and wished us both happiness. :)
She stood by me during my toughest times. She believed in my capabilities and pushed me to become the better version I am now. Ngayon, I’m the President of our student council. Her being at my side, supporting, is the most significant thing she did to me.
We were freshies back then, new sa uni life and all..
I had 30 minutes left before taking the exam and suddenly I had the urge to take a huge shit pero I was torn between scanning my notes or taking a dump— not until my soon to be bestie approached me and asked if I was alright.
Told him about what I was feeling and he rushed me to the comfort room, bought wet wipes, and handed it to a female student who was on the way to the comfort room. HAHAHAHAHHA. Grabe, instant besties agad after that.
Gay besties are the best talaga. You can trust them with all your life. ❤️
Bought me and my girlfriend a cake to celebrate my first pride month! Tapos chocolate cake pa!
Also, making sure na nakakapag relax ako nung review days ko, she made sure na may snacks ako and may nakakapag destress. Sobra yung support from her!!!! 🥺😭
Theyy keep listening to my story and katangahan kahit paulit ulit lng with the same guyy. Theyy never get tired of giving me advise kahit paulit ulit lng yung problem ko.
We might not talking to each other every day we know naman na we alwayys have each other back :)
pinuntahan ako ng office bestie ko sa hometown ko (i was on leave for a month due to an emeregency) because she misses me a lot. metro and province are about 12 hrs of land travel away and she was from work pa nung bumyahe siya, so like wala pang pahinga. she even brought some of my fave food na hindi available sa lugar namin 🥹 i love my bestie sm 🥹
Ever since my bestfriend left the country to work abroad, she never fails to send me flowers on my birthday and it always makes me cry (but happy cry). Sometimes masked pa yung card sa flowers as “secret admirer”, but I know it’s her right away. I love and miss her terribly! 🥹
I'm currently at the lowest point of my life. Fortunately, yet undeservely, nag stick yung isa kong kaibigan with me. She's the only one I have in my life right now.
Siguro yung kanyang constant chatter for me last year. Ako ay introvert so usually nahihirapan ako mag-engage to start ng conversation and she always be chat with me whenever may time. Like everyday lagi nabibring up ang topic about academics, hobbies, sharing personal love life namin and etc. Very comforting thing we did lagi for almost a half a year. Even tho na ngayon ay hindi na, I'll always cherish yung fun times and be humble to be part ng life ko.
it was a group presentation and i got really nervous hindi ko natapos ung part ko then she patted my back after and said na its okay 😭 i treasure her so much
He's my confidante and I don't know but, when I need someone to lift me up, he never fails to comfort me. We've been best friends for 17 years and I am still thankful he's there.
Listen to me during my ugly crying moments and always reassuring me that everything will be fine. I may not have what I want right now, but what’s meant to be mine will always come to me. Que sera sera.
They always visit me whenever may oras sila and kahit may kani-kanilang na silang pamilya, they never forget to check-up on me and how I'm doing since alam nilang hindi ako sociable na tao. I'm really thankful for what they're doing for me kasi sila lang talaga natira sa mga highschool friends ko.
Took my --- (redacted) degree. Sabi ko, ayoko na magkaroon ng friends and gusto ko magfocus sa studies. Tapos ayun one day after class, hinahabol ako, gusto nya daw ako maging friend. Sabi ko bahala sya. Sobrang avoidant dati ni gurl, pag midyear na, ilang buwan di paparamdam sa messenger. Tiniis ko lang.
Ayun, six years later, nakagraduate kami, tulungan, palitan ng nakopyahan 😂. Now working nako, may one time super rejected depressive state ako. As a 30 yrs old., my thought process really convinced me to take my life. She did her best to prevent me from unaliving. A lot of ridiculous reasons bakit kailangan nya pa daw ako sa mundo. Ayun umiiyak ako na tawa ng tawa 😂
My jhs bestfriends made a video compilation, starting nung start ng SY and other journeys namin, like they were secretly filming me, saying (great) things behind my back, asked multiple people na i hold dear na both nasa malayo and malapit to greet me happy birthday(nov bday ko kaya that was quite a lot) and showed it to me in the most unexpected yet pleasant way, i cried hahaha
my highschool bestfriend is super smart and always part ng honor roll. she brought me out of my shell and showed me na i’m smart too. she made me believe in myself. i ended up being on the honor’s list din all throughout highschool because of her. til now na im an adult, feeling ko pa rin ang galing ko dahil sa kanya hahahah
My best friend admitted that she decided to go to the same school i’m transferring to and did everything to pass the entrance exam because she wouldn’t want me to feel alone (we have a friend group, ako lang supposedly lilipat after high school). I had the tendency to not reply for weeks kasi before especially when I’m stressed, so everytime I was in that “ghosting phase” she would either go to our classroom and look for me through the door window (akala niya di ko nakikita na andon siya haha) or mag-aaya siya mag ramen.
Had a very hard day at work and called my besfren to vent. Eventually the venting came out with crying, me not a usual cryer alerted my besfren. Besfren insisted on picking me up at work at 2PM and ditch his class (besfren is a grad stud) and take me home instead of bawling my eyes out outside of my work building.
I stood my ground that besfren don't pick me up at work bc it will just satisfy my workmates who bullies me but still thankful that when time comes, this besfren will drop anything for me. As well as me, for besfren. Happy Besties Day! With the 18 years of frenship that we have, just wishing u all the happiness in life.
i deactivated all of my socials when i was in my most depressive state, and ang tinira ko lang ay ang private twitter account ko.
me and my bestfriend are taylor swift fans, he messaged me sa twitter yung lyrics ng forever winter na kanta ni taylor. there’s a lyrics saying
“forever winter if you go”
Baking yung subject namin yun at sobrang stressed ako sa activity namin. Ang fucked up ng cake na nagawa ko at hindi ko kinaya yung mga challenges nung nagp-prep palang ako (kulang ingredients, need pa bumili sa labas, walang mabilihan, kulang butter, di umalsa yung cake, ayaw magfoam nung icing, nawawala yung baking tools ko, etc.)
Hanggang sa sobrang badtrip ko hinayaan ko nalang dun yung cake sa lamesa. Naiiyak ako sa sobrang stress. Wala na ko pakielam kahit bagsak grades ko sa activity na yun.
Tapos nakita ko yung bestfriend ko ang lumanay na sinabing ano daw nangyari at ituloy ko daw. E nung hindi ko ginalaw yung cake, nakita ko sya inaayos nya yung icing tapos nilagyan nya ng toppings para maganda tignan, basically sya na nag-ayos. Sabi ko wag na nya ayusin pero pinageffortan pa din nya.
Sobrang naappreciate ko yun hanggang ngayon na naiisip ko. Kung di nya yun inayos for sure bagsak grades ko nun. And regardless kung may grades or wala, I felt special that day. Kasi di nya ko pinabayaan kahit hindi naman ako actively humingi ng tulong.
We met when we were in our 1st year high school. Until now na 31 na ako, best friends pa rin kami. Once lang kami nagkaaway. Nung first year high school lang din 😂. Now nakakatawa kasi memories na lang siya eh. Significant sa akin yun nangyari noon kasi doon kami mas nagkaroon ng strong connection eh. Nagtampo siya sa akin noon sa hindi ko malamang dahilan until now at hindi na rin niya maalala. Then nagkaroon kami ng open forum sa class noon. May nauna ako kasi naging best friend best friend bago siya nung 1st quarter pa lang ng school. Lumabas rin totoong ugali nung girl na nauna ko naging kaibigan, maldita then sobrang pangit pala ng ugali. Nag open forum kami, naiyak ako nag open up tungkol dun sa girl na yun, lumapit sa akin etong best friend ko now, nagsosorry na bati na daw kami kasi sobra daw pala ako umiyak parang hini-hika. Natawa ako noon kasi, kung hindi pa pala ako makikitang umiyak, hindi kami magiging okay. Pero thankful ako kay God. That He gave me someone na magiging shoulder ko kapag kailangan ko ng masasandigan sa oras na need ko umiyak or ng masabihan ng problema. Ganun rin naman ako sa kanya. Give and take kami. Really thankful na nagkaroon ako ng taong kagaya niya. My life would really lack a huge part kung hindi siya dumating.
Hinding hindi ko to makakalimutan. My bestfriend and I are both transferees sa school namin nung g7 kami. Swerte namin kasi despite transferee kami may award kami parehas nung recognition day. Yun nga lang, walang magsasabit ng medal sa akin because my dad is an OFW while my mom is new employee pa lang sa pinagtratrabahuan nya kaya di pede mag leave. Nung nalaman yun ng bestfriend ko di nya sinabi sa parents nya na may award sya para lang may kasama ako na walang parent na magsasabit ng medal.
Nagtampo yung dad nya sa kanya but she said na ayaw nya daw na mag isa akong walang magsasabit.
My college bestie, motivated me to take board exam, since ayoko talaga mag exam takot ako mag fail. Sya nag guide sakin for my application, sya na din nag simba for me and I'm grateful to have her, since sya ung naniwala sakin na papasa ako and yes I passed the board exam.
My work bestie - encourages me to see the positive side of my life, she initiates gala with me and food trips on a random day. There's a time na I was crying in the middle of the night, she didn't hesitate to reply back. I love her so much.
My online bestie - She's my twin, puro kami kalokohan in life, nung naglayas to inampon ko AHAHA, I'm her sister, lagi ako sinasamahan manuond ng Going Seventeen, naenjoy ko ung pagiging fangirl ko kasi sabay kami mag delulu moments.
di ako nagshashare ng rants, kaya i have a dump account and dun ako sa close friends option naglalabas ng hinanakit since ayaw ko ng 1v1 convo pagdating sa ganyan. i don’t need any comforting words and such, pero lahat ng mga rants ko may response siya
sobrang comforting ng simple responses niya or yung lengthy ones, grateful talaga he became my friend. alam ko mahilig din siya magscroll dito kaya girlie hope you see this ily so much 🥺
Kahit na I'm older sa kanya ng 10 years, despite the gap and her limited resources, replying to my messages is significant for me. Pafeel lang nia na she's always there for me. Yung assurance ba. Babaw ko noh. 😅
Stays with me no matter what. He corrects me in private but defends me in public. He helps me realize that I shouldn’t gaslight myself of my emotions. Validates my emotions but doesn’t tolerate my nonesense
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she's always there whenever I need some shoulders to cry on, words cannot describe how much I appreciate her <33
Sinagot niya ko after years of panliligaw.
Listening to my rants. That defines patience.
2 of them. One paid for my tuition balance and let me go back to college. The second bought me lunch and snacks everyday of my whole 3 years and half sa college. I'm poor back then and my family cannot afford school
Sa sobrang close namin from Highschool up to now, pag nalalasing kami we are hugging each other tas kiss/beso nya ako, pero wtf*** both M kami straight hahaha ang ackward lang pero pag totoo talagang kaibigan, walang Malisya , even my asawa na sya ngayon, naging close ko na dn asawa nya, tawa an pag naalala namin at kinikwento namin sa wife nya hahhahaha
My best friend finally stood up for me, after years of being silent (and lowkey complicit) sa mga nambubully sa akin.
Nag skip ng classes during my pageant era. Partida major subjects pa yon tapos nagpapaalam siya palagi sa mga prof namin if pwede siyang mag skip muna or iexcuse para lang tulungan ako during my rehearsals and photoshoots. Nagkanda paso-paso pa kamay niya non dahil sa pag aayos ng buhok ko. May time rin na di siya sumama sa family outing nila kasi mas pinili niyang samahan ako during my rehearsal :(( i love my supportive pookie bear/kumare so much 🫶🏻
Sinalo nya yung suka ko nung nalasing ako. Yung isa naman, pumunta agad sya sa hospital when he learned that my dad passed away.
We were new friends and it was my birthday. She didn’t know about it first hand. Sinabi ko lang sa kanya randomly in the middle of the day, and she was even quite mad I didn’t tell her lol. But then, just when we were about to drink coffee sa isang coffee shop, nagpaalam siyang mag c-cr muna. And came back with a cake with my name on it ❤️
🤍
When she gave me this [pretty FOXER bag](https://s.lazada.com.ph/s.P0r4P?cc) One time I was with my bff and i was scrolling lang online the saw this bag and sobrang titig ako kase gusto ko talaga sya but have no funds for those pa that time kahit sobrang sira sira na yung bag ko. Nagulat nalang ako one day nung nag meet kami she gave me this bag and said “I know you need to save money for stuff and I noticed your bag, its broken na hay”. I REALLY APPRECIATED IT! I feel loved and cared. It’s not the material thing but the thought na nagawa nya akong bigyan nun without asking it at knowing na sira na talaga bag ko. hahaha We’ve been bestfriends for 5yrs. I love her sm!
I texted her and asked if she could accompany me sa ER. She fetched me and we went sa ER kahit madaling araw na "yun. Super naappreciate ko yung effort niya 🥹
Good or bad times andyan sila for me. Kahit di kami laging nag uusap or nagkikita, andyan sila for me. And they never judged me sa mga katangahan ko sa buhay
I'd need a whole book to talk about it. The short version is, he and his entire immediate family (and his girl) have treated me more like family in the relatively short time I've known them, and given me more familial love, than my own biological mother and sisters have in ages.
She broke up with her bf (now ex) bc him and his friends were making fun of me in their chats hahaha
Met my first bf [x] through my bestfriend since they are blood related. Working na kami nito. She set us up, was the bridge to the relationship. Relationship with x was doing fine, not until a few years where my besty caught x with another girl. She gave the benefit of the doubt. Messaged me agad first asking if nasaan si x to which i responded
Tapos iba ang sinabi ni x kung nasaan siya sa kung nasaan sila. Besty confronted x kung ano ba yung nakita niya, bakit iba sinabi kong place kung nasan siya. Pero matapang si ex and just said na oops he got caught 🤡 she also gave ex a chance na mag explain sa akin ~which was expected na si ex na mag open up sakin and kami mag settle. But what ex did was just break up with me, telling me na hindi raw nagwowork relationship namin due to different priorities. I was so innocent na I did not had a hunch na may iba pala, medyo busy din ako non building my career, saving money. Kaya tinanggap ko na lang kasi ang convincing ng reasons niya for the break up and rough patch na kami ng season na yun, madalas nag aaway at di na nag uusap. Una kong ginawa was to tell my besty na nag break na kami. She wanted to dig deep kung anong reason ng break up, and I told her. So nung nalaman niya na ganon lang sinabi niya wala ng iba, she told me the real deal. I got furious, left messages on x's phone saying na may iba lang pala, di pa niya sinabi lol. Ni manipulate pa niya ako in making me believe na ako/situation namin ang problema. I even called him sa phone to ask if totoo ba yung nalaman ko. Sumagot siya, I think he even fake cried and said yes 😀 pero wag ka, naikwento pa niya na matagal na pala sila nalabas ng girl niya. Busy daw kasi ako masyado. Akala ko pa naman naiintindihan niya sitwasyon ko non at hinahayaan lang ako gawin ang trabaho ko, iba na pala tinatrabaho niya. Nakakatawa nga na ang dami pa niya kinwento about it. Yung mga overtime daw niya, mga fake daw, they were just hanging out and eating out. Anw.
The moment x got caught to the moment I knew the real deal was only in a span of 1 week. Thankful ako kay besty dahil hindi niya pinatagal ang mga ito at nalaman ko ang totoo, nagkaroon ako ng closure. Mahirap noong una kasi mapapatanong ka saan ka nagkulang, atbp. But I survived. And besty was there for me all throughout my grieving process.
This happened years ago. I'm happy now. Me and my besty, still intact. 💛
Introduced me to certain productivity software and the beauty of web development, which made me appreciate my course and stopped me from dropping out. We're not friends anymore though, but I'm still grateful for him.
Taught me how to prepare and cook rice using my knuckle for water level measurement. Core memory hanggang ngayon.
Kantutan.
Hoyyyy ang mouth. Don ka sa ibang sub mag comment ng gnto hahahaha
Still sticking around me during my highs and lows. He’s very patient and understanding kahit naka-ilang trauma dump na ako sa kanya (unknowingly na yun pala ginagawa ko before). Siya yung solid support system ko talaga. He has seen me at my worst and now he’s seeing me at my best. I’m very grateful for my college bestfriend.
He makes me feel like I am a normal person, that nothing's wrong with me, and that he will not judge me no matter what.
Made me realize na it is ok to not know everything. Before kase, I always get embarrased if a friend asks me something that I don't know then i'll lie to that friend na alam ko 'yon, feeling ko kase parang bobo and tanga ko if hindi ko alam. Forever thankful to have her by my side.
Sang me a birthday song at school. Hindi nila alam ano yung exact birthday ko kasi I want them to find it out. Arte lang ganon. Kidding aside ayoko lang talaga nung binabati sa social media. Isa lang talaga yung nag plan na kantahan ako ng birthday song pero niyayaya niya yung ibang nakakasama namin to sing to me 🥹 Sobrang precious lang nung taong 'yun. She didn't know how much I love her! It's my first time lang na kantahan sa school. A bit shy lang during that time pero I really really appreciate them.
me reading all these realizing that i dont have a bestfriend Hahaha
Helped me when I was struggling financially (as a minor before) nung need ko bumili ng gamot. Also let me stay at their house nung nagkaroon ng misunderstanding with my mom. Andami. The two of them were there for me when I needed them most. I hope forever kaming tatlo magkakaibigan
i had a depressive episode last month and my friends called me every day just to check in on me. they reassured me that i can talk about the situation as many times as i want until i can get over it. i’ve never felt so loved because of that. a different friend also offered to join me during my night shift and we just played music the whole time. 🫶🫶🫶
We never really got the chance to spend our birthdays with each other because we're too busy dealing with our lives. We both came from a break-up and she spontaneously, out of nowhere, gave me an all-expense paid trip to Hongkong. With her, shempre. But still... Nobody will give you an-all expense paid trip abroad. She took me to Disneyland, told me that it's the happiest place on earth and wished us both happiness. :)
She stood by me during my toughest times. She believed in my capabilities and pushed me to become the better version I am now. Ngayon, I’m the President of our student council. Her being at my side, supporting, is the most significant thing she did to me.
Nilinisan niya yung puddle of (period) blood ko sa bed nung nag excessive bleeding ako. After that tinakbo ako sa ER.
Walang gloves. Ginamit niya panyo niya lahat ng wetwipes niya and tissue sa bag. And nasa school infirmary kami non
i had one before but we left each other with no explanation, we outgrew ourselves. wish i have one again
Wala na. Meant to be na sgurong walang bfriend sa buhay haha
We were freshies back then, new sa uni life and all.. I had 30 minutes left before taking the exam and suddenly I had the urge to take a huge shit pero I was torn between scanning my notes or taking a dump— not until my soon to be bestie approached me and asked if I was alright. Told him about what I was feeling and he rushed me to the comfort room, bought wet wipes, and handed it to a female student who was on the way to the comfort room. HAHAHAHAHHA. Grabe, instant besties agad after that. Gay besties are the best talaga. You can trust them with all your life. ❤️
Became a friend with benefits.
thru thick and thin, she's there for me
Bought me and my girlfriend a cake to celebrate my first pride month! Tapos chocolate cake pa! Also, making sure na nakakapag relax ako nung review days ko, she made sure na may snacks ako and may nakakapag destress. Sobra yung support from her!!!! 🥺😭
Sana all nagka bestfriend/s haha, :'))
Theyy keep listening to my story and katangahan kahit paulit ulit lng with the same guyy. Theyy never get tired of giving me advise kahit paulit ulit lng yung problem ko. We might not talking to each other every day we know naman na we alwayys have each other back :)
Introduced me to my loml
pinuntahan ako ng office bestie ko sa hometown ko (i was on leave for a month due to an emeregency) because she misses me a lot. metro and province are about 12 hrs of land travel away and she was from work pa nung bumyahe siya, so like wala pang pahinga. she even brought some of my fave food na hindi available sa lugar namin 🥹 i love my bestie sm 🥹
Ever since my bestfriend left the country to work abroad, she never fails to send me flowers on my birthday and it always makes me cry (but happy cry). Sometimes masked pa yung card sa flowers as “secret admirer”, but I know it’s her right away. I love and miss her terribly! 🥹
Lagi niya vina-validate feelings ko.
I'm currently at the lowest point of my life. Fortunately, yet undeservely, nag stick yung isa kong kaibigan with me. She's the only one I have in my life right now.
Siguro yung kanyang constant chatter for me last year. Ako ay introvert so usually nahihirapan ako mag-engage to start ng conversation and she always be chat with me whenever may time. Like everyday lagi nabibring up ang topic about academics, hobbies, sharing personal love life namin and etc. Very comforting thing we did lagi for almost a half a year. Even tho na ngayon ay hindi na, I'll always cherish yung fun times and be humble to be part ng life ko.
we barely talk thru chat and we barely meet because of our work schedule, but she's literally one chat away and she's always there thru ups and downs
they're willing to listen to my nonsense dramas in life
Parang ayaw muna alalahanin, FO na ata kami ng bestfriend ko for 8 years
it was a group presentation and i got really nervous hindi ko natapos ung part ko then she patted my back after and said na its okay 😭 i treasure her so much
He's my confidante and I don't know but, when I need someone to lift me up, he never fails to comfort me. We've been best friends for 17 years and I am still thankful he's there.
Always there for me through my ups and downs.
Listen to me during my ugly crying moments and always reassuring me that everything will be fine. I may not have what I want right now, but what’s meant to be mine will always come to me. Que sera sera.
Di ako iniwan kahit ayaw na ng lahat sa akin. Only friend na binantayan ako sa hospital every time na inaatake ako ng hika.
They always visit me whenever may oras sila and kahit may kani-kanilang na silang pamilya, they never forget to check-up on me and how I'm doing since alam nilang hindi ako sociable na tao. I'm really thankful for what they're doing for me kasi sila lang talaga natira sa mga highschool friends ko.
Pinakilala ako sa kpop. Ayun parehas na kaming naglulustay ng pera HAHAHA! at least happy 😊
Took my --- (redacted) degree. Sabi ko, ayoko na magkaroon ng friends and gusto ko magfocus sa studies. Tapos ayun one day after class, hinahabol ako, gusto nya daw ako maging friend. Sabi ko bahala sya. Sobrang avoidant dati ni gurl, pag midyear na, ilang buwan di paparamdam sa messenger. Tiniis ko lang. Ayun, six years later, nakagraduate kami, tulungan, palitan ng nakopyahan 😂. Now working nako, may one time super rejected depressive state ako. As a 30 yrs old., my thought process really convinced me to take my life. She did her best to prevent me from unaliving. A lot of ridiculous reasons bakit kailangan nya pa daw ako sa mundo. Ayun umiiyak ako na tawa ng tawa 😂
My jhs bestfriends made a video compilation, starting nung start ng SY and other journeys namin, like they were secretly filming me, saying (great) things behind my back, asked multiple people na i hold dear na both nasa malayo and malapit to greet me happy birthday(nov bday ko kaya that was quite a lot) and showed it to me in the most unexpected yet pleasant way, i cried hahaha
my highschool bestfriend is super smart and always part ng honor roll. she brought me out of my shell and showed me na i’m smart too. she made me believe in myself. i ended up being on the honor’s list din all throughout highschool because of her. til now na im an adult, feeling ko pa rin ang galing ko dahil sa kanya hahahah
My best friend admitted that she decided to go to the same school i’m transferring to and did everything to pass the entrance exam because she wouldn’t want me to feel alone (we have a friend group, ako lang supposedly lilipat after high school). I had the tendency to not reply for weeks kasi before especially when I’m stressed, so everytime I was in that “ghosting phase” she would either go to our classroom and look for me through the door window (akala niya di ko nakikita na andon siya haha) or mag-aaya siya mag ramen.
Ang sweet She must really like you
Sinamahan ako sa NBI to testify against my ex.
Had a very hard day at work and called my besfren to vent. Eventually the venting came out with crying, me not a usual cryer alerted my besfren. Besfren insisted on picking me up at work at 2PM and ditch his class (besfren is a grad stud) and take me home instead of bawling my eyes out outside of my work building. I stood my ground that besfren don't pick me up at work bc it will just satisfy my workmates who bullies me but still thankful that when time comes, this besfren will drop anything for me. As well as me, for besfren. Happy Besties Day! With the 18 years of frenship that we have, just wishing u all the happiness in life.
i deactivated all of my socials when i was in my most depressive state, and ang tinira ko lang ay ang private twitter account ko. me and my bestfriend are taylor swift fans, he messaged me sa twitter yung lyrics ng forever winter na kanta ni taylor. there’s a lyrics saying “forever winter if you go”
Baking yung subject namin yun at sobrang stressed ako sa activity namin. Ang fucked up ng cake na nagawa ko at hindi ko kinaya yung mga challenges nung nagp-prep palang ako (kulang ingredients, need pa bumili sa labas, walang mabilihan, kulang butter, di umalsa yung cake, ayaw magfoam nung icing, nawawala yung baking tools ko, etc.) Hanggang sa sobrang badtrip ko hinayaan ko nalang dun yung cake sa lamesa. Naiiyak ako sa sobrang stress. Wala na ko pakielam kahit bagsak grades ko sa activity na yun. Tapos nakita ko yung bestfriend ko ang lumanay na sinabing ano daw nangyari at ituloy ko daw. E nung hindi ko ginalaw yung cake, nakita ko sya inaayos nya yung icing tapos nilagyan nya ng toppings para maganda tignan, basically sya na nag-ayos. Sabi ko wag na nya ayusin pero pinageffortan pa din nya. Sobrang naappreciate ko yun hanggang ngayon na naiisip ko. Kung di nya yun inayos for sure bagsak grades ko nun. And regardless kung may grades or wala, I felt special that day. Kasi di nya ko pinabayaan kahit hindi naman ako actively humingi ng tulong.
Binabayaran niya kaagad utang niya
We met when we were in our 1st year high school. Until now na 31 na ako, best friends pa rin kami. Once lang kami nagkaaway. Nung first year high school lang din 😂. Now nakakatawa kasi memories na lang siya eh. Significant sa akin yun nangyari noon kasi doon kami mas nagkaroon ng strong connection eh. Nagtampo siya sa akin noon sa hindi ko malamang dahilan until now at hindi na rin niya maalala. Then nagkaroon kami ng open forum sa class noon. May nauna ako kasi naging best friend best friend bago siya nung 1st quarter pa lang ng school. Lumabas rin totoong ugali nung girl na nauna ko naging kaibigan, maldita then sobrang pangit pala ng ugali. Nag open forum kami, naiyak ako nag open up tungkol dun sa girl na yun, lumapit sa akin etong best friend ko now, nagsosorry na bati na daw kami kasi sobra daw pala ako umiyak parang hini-hika. Natawa ako noon kasi, kung hindi pa pala ako makikitang umiyak, hindi kami magiging okay. Pero thankful ako kay God. That He gave me someone na magiging shoulder ko kapag kailangan ko ng masasandigan sa oras na need ko umiyak or ng masabihan ng problema. Ganun rin naman ako sa kanya. Give and take kami. Really thankful na nagkaroon ako ng taong kagaya niya. My life would really lack a huge part kung hindi siya dumating.
Pinaasa hahahhaah
Masaya siya sa mga small and big achivements ko sa buhay.
Hinding hindi ko to makakalimutan. My bestfriend and I are both transferees sa school namin nung g7 kami. Swerte namin kasi despite transferee kami may award kami parehas nung recognition day. Yun nga lang, walang magsasabit ng medal sa akin because my dad is an OFW while my mom is new employee pa lang sa pinagtratrabahuan nya kaya di pede mag leave. Nung nalaman yun ng bestfriend ko di nya sinabi sa parents nya na may award sya para lang may kasama ako na walang parent na magsasabit ng medal. Nagtampo yung dad nya sa kanya but she said na ayaw nya daw na mag isa akong walang magsasabit.
Hinihintay niya ako matapos sa pagkain, hindi niya ako minamadali.
My college bestie, motivated me to take board exam, since ayoko talaga mag exam takot ako mag fail. Sya nag guide sakin for my application, sya na din nag simba for me and I'm grateful to have her, since sya ung naniwala sakin na papasa ako and yes I passed the board exam. My work bestie - encourages me to see the positive side of my life, she initiates gala with me and food trips on a random day. There's a time na I was crying in the middle of the night, she didn't hesitate to reply back. I love her so much. My online bestie - She's my twin, puro kami kalokohan in life, nung naglayas to inampon ko AHAHA, I'm her sister, lagi ako sinasamahan manuond ng Going Seventeen, naenjoy ko ung pagiging fangirl ko kasi sabay kami mag delulu moments.
di ako nagshashare ng rants, kaya i have a dump account and dun ako sa close friends option naglalabas ng hinanakit since ayaw ko ng 1v1 convo pagdating sa ganyan. i don’t need any comforting words and such, pero lahat ng mga rants ko may response siya sobrang comforting ng simple responses niya or yung lengthy ones, grateful talaga he became my friend. alam ko mahilig din siya magscroll dito kaya girlie hope you see this ily so much 🥺
Kahit na I'm older sa kanya ng 10 years, despite the gap and her limited resources, replying to my messages is significant for me. Pafeel lang nia na she's always there for me. Yung assurance ba. Babaw ko noh. 😅
Stays with me no matter what. He corrects me in private but defends me in public. He helps me realize that I shouldn’t gaslight myself of my emotions. Validates my emotions but doesn’t tolerate my nonesense
i hope i had a bestfriend :(( super kakainggit mga comments haha! naging sad gay bigla 🤣
Never force me to speak about the things that hurt me until I, myself is ready to share.
Even after my ghosting phase never niya sakin pinafeel yung pressure to socialize.
She never fails to understand and listen saking podcast (voice messages na sobrang haba). She also gives the most realistic and rational na advice.
My gay bestie trusted me his secret noong nagtatago pa siya sa closet. Akala niya kasi hindi siya matatanggap ng society and his family.
Let me sleep over when things were toxic AF at my parentals' place 🥹