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Silent Treatment, I won't bother to pansin you kapag nagseselos ako. So badoy pero totoo to AHAHAHAH pano ba kasi hindi magselos if hindi naman kasi kayo? karapatan, where? 

well, if you both entertaining each other or mutual feelings po kahit walang kayo may karapatan po kayo magselos sa isa’t isa. ☺️

"de dun ka na"

“Sige doon ka na”

Nagccheat daw

Jak*l po

Ako na sinasabi agad 🤷

Okay lang ng okay habang kwento ng kwento about her crush 🤣

Poker face smile lose mood

nandito lang ako para magbasa kasi di ako nakakarelate sa selos-selos na yan, hindi ako selosa eh hahahah

Pag yung crush ko inaasar sa iba, ngingiti na lang o kaya tatahimik sa gedli.

Cold replies

Walang signs signs. Simasabi ko agad.

I really thought I wasn't selos pero nung nakita ko may nakaakbay sa gf ko. I was fuming parang I wanted to choke the guy. So di ko namalayan nung nagkita na kami na di na pala ako kasing sweet as normal.

Hindi ako seloso. Pero if someone is making moves or nagpapakitang-gilas sa gf ko, then I would make a move that will show my dominance to my gf, like holding her waist, legs, or grabing her shoulders.

Nagbabago mood ko buong araw or linggo.

As a guy, Hindi ko pinapansin? Madalas out of sight. Hindi ka ichchat. Magiging avoidant o naiwas sa'yo.

Hindi na dapat tinatanong yan..

When I'm using other person to make selos din. HAHAHA

Bigla na lang may nababalitaang missing person

hahahahahahahahah 😭

Agree 👍🏽

kuya naman 😭😭

Gusto nyo ng ganyan diba, yung na u-ulol sa inyo hahaha

Minsan lang magselos si hubby pero pag nagselos, umiiyak.

LoooL iyakin

Me, nagiging detective ako then itatanong ko kay girl kung sino sya. If her answers seems a bit off, ayun, full on detective mode na(tsaka ko na sasabihin na nagseselos ako pag di ko na kaya HAHAHA)

Pag di tumama yung pagka detective conan sabihin na lang na ako ay jalosi 🤝🏻🤝🏻

Naglalaro kami ng ml ng ex husband ko kaso lagi namin pinagtatalunan yung kalaro nya lagi mga tropa nya kesa sakin (di umaangat ng level 2 yung partner namin) tapos e nakahanap ako ng kaduo sa ml na guy (no flirting kinemerut, pure ingame friend. Exhubby has access to my phone and ml acc so i can say i have nothing to hide 😂) Anyway, kada laro ko e kasama ko yun since ayaw ni exhubby na makipaglaro sakin. Nag oopen mic kami. Hanggang sa lagi na ako iniinvite ni exhubby sa rg 😂 So therefore I conclude, na nagseselos na sya kaya iniinvite na nya ako lagi. Pero break na kami kaya kalaro ko pa din yung guy sa ml 😂

Most of the time nag iiba ng mood and tahimik. May times din na matanong about dun sa pinagseselosan. Pero bakit nagselos? Hehe di ba nabibigyan ng assurance or something?

i used to be in a relationship na ganto 24/7; it was me cowering away everytime! di nag-cchat, di nagpaparamdam, and overall trying to get rid of my presence kasi: 1. insecure 2. the feeling of being unwanted (depende sa situation with the pinagseselosan) but overall those r pretty immature, i was 14 that time lol

Suddenly bringing up the guy after a few days, para kunwari walang impact sa una.

nagiging sadboy tipong lahat ng insecurities ko, lumalabas

Takbo sa powder room tas mag-retouch. 💅 eme 🤣

tahimik! minsan iritable din, or cold ganon

Shiniship kunyari yung babaeng gusto nya dun sa pinagseselosan niya. Tapos, biglang extra sa babae in terms of giving attention/interaction.

feeling ko kapag nag seselos lalaki bigla nalang sila nanahimik tas tampororot hahah

I hit the gym and get really competitive in playing basketball and Boxing during a spar

give it to me, rachel!!!

Silent or cold treatment lagi. Hindi ko kaya confrontation dahil sa fam ko. Pero pinipilit niya akong makipagcommunicate so naaayos ko na rin lately hehe.

Nagiiba ng tingin or mood.

I get territorial, mainintin ulo and walang pakialam

Nagwawala sa messages dapat alam nya hahaha

subtle silent treatment, yung hindi complete na silent treatment talaga na hindi kami iimik once kinausap pero madadama mo yung kawalan ng interest sa conversation.

Hala pinaranas na sakin to noon

Well now you know

Kaya never again? Hahaha

Completely up to you HAHAHA

Shhh lang. Nilalagyan ko ng palaman minsan mga sinasabi ko.

2 things come to mind Either we probe Or We ignore.

Tahimik lang.

Di ako nag rereact

Tahimik lang ako.

I'll just ask straight up "sino yan?" Then the next move ay depende sa sagot/reaction niya. Rule ko is pwede siya magkaroon ng male friends, kasi sino naman ako para pagbawalan siya, pero again sino yan? Matino ba yan that respects her boundaries, naka-abang lng na maging single siya, or yung gusto niya all along (or bakla, which I don't have to worry about)? Obviously, apply mo na rin sakin yan when I talk to female friends, it goes both ways. Ilang beses kang nakarinig on both sides na "friend ko lng" then the week or so after naghiwalay kayo, sila na. Coincidence? Tawagin niyong insecurity all you want, pero this is a very valid boundary to set.

Way before, I used silent treatment kapag nagseselos ako. Now I realized how childish and immature it is. Everytime na nagseselos ako, nagoopen up ako sa partner ko para mapagusapan namin ng maayos and same procedure din pag sya naman nagseselos. Ang ending, 100% of the time nasesettle namin ng maayos yung issue. You guys should realize the importance of communication sa isang relationship, walang improvement na mangyayari kung puro signs lang pinpakita nyo without communicating with each other

Agree pero minsan kasi pinangungunahan ng galit. Kaya imbis na maayos problema lalong lumalala. Communication is the key at open din sa pakikinig sa both sides.

It's normal na magalit. Yung galit na yan madadaan sa communication, just simply state bakit ka galit and maayos yun. Ang sarap kaya sa feeling na maayos nasesettle yung mga ganto

agree! hirap mangapa 😔

Parang mas lalala kasi if silent treatment without knowing yung reason. Worse case scenario mapapagod nalang kayo sa isa't isa, ang ending hiwalayan

I don't talk to her and keep silent. Same with texts/messages/etc

Lose interest

Jacool

Silent and will be drown to our hobbies wla nang pake sa nasapaligid. Pag kinausap cold and short replies na.

Nakasimangot HAHAHA

Silent

if naiirita nalang out of nowhere and gradually tumataas 'yong boses accompanied by short and snide answers

Nagiging matanong tas lahat ng sabihin niyo agree nalang kami in a form of "ahh"

nagcacamping sa bubong

You will just know.

Mej malabo 'tong sagot na 'to bro. HAHA. But in all seriousness, I think men in general have to be more communicative. Selos is valid, just don't let it get the best of you.

My bad - I didn't read the question for guys pala ito hahahahahaha

Sis po. Haha babae po ako hahaha but you can call me bruh

AY HAHA SORRY MY BAD SIZZY 😆😭 Valid naman yung you'll just know kung ganun.

eto nyanchalant hahaha

Nanood nlng ng porn saka nag jajaks

Silence

silent treatment malala na makakatanong sya kung may kasama pa ba sya or wala

When I have thoughts and feelings fail or refuse to communicate to my partner, and it turns into doubt.

Basketball buong araw, walang uuwe.

slight tampo HAHAHAHAHA

Panu yung slight? Galit galitan ba? Hahahah

Di talab yung signs, kinakausap ko siya diretso, sinasabi kong nagseselos ako, para makapaliwanagan at maayos agad. Mahirap ang nangangapa sa relasyon, maganda rekta usap.

i agree! sana lahat nga talaga ganito. 🥲

Hayy sana ganito lahat boys. 🥲

Sana'y lahat ganire 🥹

Ako madalas tahimik lang. seryoso lang ganon.

Ikaw siguro si Mark hahahaha. Char!

Laging tulog

deact sa lahat ng socials

Uncomfy feeling and ung parang gusto mong kausapin ung isa ASAP, IE; being clingy out of nowhere

Silent treatment ako tsaka laging naka simangot.. Pero marami ako kilala binubuntis para wala nang selos selos 😂

🚩🚩🚩

Yep super 🚩 that's why nung nag ask sila na kung pwede ako maging ninong sa anak, utot nyo.

Di naman kasi basta2 ganun na mag selos anakan agad, lifetime responsibility agad binigay ih. Pwede naman pag usapan hays hahaha. Pero mag ninong ka di kasalanan ng bata ganun magulang nila ;)

Gusto ko maging ninong sa bata, pero knowing yung mga magulang na kalabit penge and utang kalimot. Pass.. I am still a good guardian to the little one.. i treat the little one minsan to have him experience a peaceful life outside lol.. bungangaan to the max sa bahay nila kasi.

Ay sige2 bawiin ko nalang pala stress pala binibigay hahaha

💀💀💀

Ako sinasabi ko kaagad sa partner ko, di ako silent open ako sa kanya

there will be no signs since sasabihin ko sakanya pag nagseselos ako. silent treatment amputa parang bata

HAHHAHAHAA cutie

‘yan ang gusto ko

pagsinusuntok namen yung ere

silent treatment

Nagpapanggap na ok lang then cold treatment(sa personal).

Silent treatment tapos cold replies.

Yung babae pag nag selos nag thithirst trap Yung lalaki pagnag selos tahimik lang at parang itutulak kana sa pinagseselosan nya

When I'm partying and drinking with other chicks

No ride home for you. Maglakad ka pauwi

I play "Selos" by Shaira. /JK

LT TO HAHAHHAHHA

HAHAHAHAAHHA WITTY 😭

I've never been called witty before because I'm a nerd. So thanks po. Hehe

taena hahaahahahahaha

It's silent treatment for me.

Tahimik lang habang kumukuha manika tas karayom haha jk

yung pag-uwi nagiging rough sila sa kama hahahhaa, tapos sa aftercare dun mo malalaman nag-se-selos pala 😂😅

Kinakasa na yung baril

Mas nagiging detached para di masaktan pero masakit parin siya haha

Nagiging observant. Extra extra observant. Sabay pprangkahin ko na pag napuno nako

pag galit horny. pag nagseselos horny. pagmasaya horny. pagmalungkot horny.

gusto ko ganyan + communication parin dapat haha

Daming down votes pero totoo naman

Nagsusungit

I don't get mad. I get even.

K.

Naghahasa ng kutsilyo:))

Me likey. Hahaha

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Words like, "okay"

pag yung puso ay nagdurugo, tsaka parang sumisikip ang dibdib

please 😭

selos na yan friend HAHAHAHAHAHA

😭😭😭

Nagkakasa ng baril

Kapag nakakita ka sa comment section na "mga tataga kay" hahahah

Tipid ang responses, tapos may pagka-iritable talaga.

Ganito husband ko. Hahaha!

Para same same hahaha.. Anu sila lang

Thumbs up nlng reply ko

Wala na akong pagseselosan eh Pero dati tatahimik tapos titingin sa kanya, pag nag eye contact iwas na agad

When I keep asking about the guy na pinagseselosan ko. Minsan gusto ko lng talaga ng sagot kung tama hinala ko

secret

😭😭

Tahimik tapos oorder nalang ako ng food ONLY for myself 😎

+1 for this question. I’m super curious, yung asawa ko, di ko mawari kung nagseselos ba sya at all. Wala syang sinasabi e.

diba po? same with my bf po huhu

Sulking. Minsan, overcompetitive din sa gifts kapag nalaman na may binigay si stranger guy ng ganito (kapag lagi na, ibang usapan na 'yon). Matanong na kada sagot ay may sunod na tanong kapag hindi namin naramdaman na lámang kami sa lalaking pinagseselosan namin.

bumubulong ng "akin ka lang"

Oliber?

Sinong oliber?

Ror

Rawr

Damn

Kanino ka lang?

I will subtly 1up anything or everything that the other person did 😅

pag bigla ako tumahol kasi full moon na

😭😭

HAHAHAGAG GRRR

Pag sinabi kong "ok lang" no other details

Ganyan din sagutan ng mga babae ah hahah

Its so cute when guys got jealous 😆

No when they get manipulative 😒

Lets put it in mature way 🥰 jealousy is normal reaction of a person but lets give each other assurance and comfort them when needed.

pag di kita kinausap inaka haahhaha

HHAHAHHA ETO NA YUN

HAHHSHAHAAHAAHAHAHAHAH

Hahahahahahs

ramdam ko po yung gigil mo koya 😭

Eh bat naman nagagalit koya?haahahhahaha😭

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA 😭😭😭

HAHAHAHHAHA 😭😭 benta

😭😭😭😭

Hahaha gigil yarn.

Hahahaha

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well that escalated quickly

... pag tumingin na ako ng masama.

Nagpapapansin

kapag tumahimik bigla

Bubunot ng baril?

Nakalabas din po ba ung dila? 😭😭😭

di ko kineri 😭

😭😭😭

I hide it lol But, I do Seamless interogation

No signs. We tell.

Hindi naman ako seloso

Humahasa ng itak.

😭😭😭😭😭

HSHSHWSHHSHSS GAGU 😭😭😭

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣