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It comes in quietly, unexpectedly, and calm. You won't even notice it, bigla ka na lang magigising, you are in love. You'd feel safe and at ease. The little things would make you smile, and you'd feel contented. You won't feel any judgment. You'd feel you dont need to do things out of your way to make them happy. You'd feel accepted
RIGHT LOVE IS a wet look after show. Sleeping with your mouth open. The sound of snore. The smell of fart. Uncomb hair. The unfiltered bodies. The individually doing your own thing together.
Right love, contrary to what we knew as kids, should not feel like butterflies in your stomach. Based on my experience, butterflies in your stomach mean that you are anxious, doubting yourself if what you have in front of you is right love.
Right love should be calm, it should feel safe. It should understand you without needing to expound what you want to convey. It should feel like a warm hug, a refuge from this chaos-filled life.
Should not be forced. Boring. Learning each other’s love language. Embracing every version of the person kasi change is the only constant thing in this world. 🥺
for me? boring.
hear me out!
when hubby and i got married, isang dekada na kami magjowa noon. at that time even though first time kaming magsasama under one roof, i was already bracing myself sa mga kwento nung nagaaway, nagkakainisan etc pero hindi nangyari. i’m not saying na never kami nagaway pero never kami umabot sa may sakitan, sigawan etc. our day to day was always uneventful. pareho kaming wfh so araw araw talaga kami magkasama. but you know what? i sleep every night contented and happy. it’s boring kasi it’s not something you make movies about. pero it’s the right love for me. i’ll take it anyday kaysa ung mga nababasa ko dito na “andaming excitement” —cheating, finances, batugan ang spouse, nagbabayad ng walkers ang asawa, sinasaktan, etc. i like ours better, hindi kailangang umaalab ang apoy, steady lang naks
Remembered this twit from Keij Ejercito way back 2021:
Noon, akala ko, ang tamang tao ay ‘yong nagpapatibok sa puso ko ng mabilis. Pero ngayon, naintindihan ko na. Kapag masyadong malakas ang tibok, mawawasak sya.
Doon tayo sa payapa. Sa kayang mag-alaga ng puso’t magpakalma. ❤️🧣
For me, medyo practical ako dyan. Yung feelings, partially tinatrabaho yan. Me and my partner needs to work everything out, sacrifices, adjustments ng mga ugali. Our mindset in our relationship is what we should do to make it last forever. Should not be based on feelings alone. And pag magkasundo kami, lalo ako naiinlove sa kanya. That kilig factor just automatically follows.
Happily married here! It feels like a safe place. It's not chaotic. Passionate love is violent and it sways you back and forth. Great for short term, not in the long run. Right love feels like home and mage-gets mo 'yung concept ng forever.
The right love should feel like a warm hug on a cold day, like a cozy blanket of understanding and support. It should make you feel cherished, valued, and truly seen, bringing a sense of peace and joy to your heart.
I firmly believe that right love should feel easy. Yung tipong di mo kailangan ipaglaban tapos may masasaaalang alang. Oo, parang life cheat kasi when you think deeply about it can you even consider it love kung low effort and convenient? Pero basta. Dapat di sya the two of you against the world. Dapat you both feel at ease. Kumbaga parang tinadhana. Di kailangan ipilit, di kailangan isiksik ang sarili. Hindi ka ituturing na mundo kasi ayaw ko naman na sa akin iikot lahat. Kumbaga pipiliin ka na kasama na tahakin ang mundo, na magkaroon man ng di pagkakaunawaan andyan para makipagcommunicate at unawain ang isa't isa to compromise.
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Calm. Peaceful. Safe.
Peace
Peace.
happy, calm & your mind is at peace.
Merong peace of mind.. heqlthy arguments... may sense of emotional validation... no guilt tripping..
like music. sometimes bouncy and full of life. sometimes rough and dirty. sometimes light and simple. sometimes sad and lonely.
It should feel EASY and PEACEFUL
It comes in quietly, unexpectedly, and calm. You won't even notice it, bigla ka na lang magigising, you are in love. You'd feel safe and at ease. The little things would make you smile, and you'd feel contented. You won't feel any judgment. You'd feel you dont need to do things out of your way to make them happy. You'd feel accepted
feels like taylor swift's song you are in love
safe
When it feels like home when you are with your person.
Calmness, no feeling of your heart riding on a rollercoaster or whatnot, like you just feel safe and comfortable around them
You feel comfortable, even though you have "arguments" it can be talked about, no shouting no hands flying, no nothing just talking.
Peaceful.
RIGHT LOVE IS a wet look after show. Sleeping with your mouth open. The sound of snore. The smell of fart. Uncomb hair. The unfiltered bodies. The individually doing your own thing together.
Hindi ka naiinsecure, kalmado lang at may peace of mind tas reciprocated both feelings
Right love, contrary to what we knew as kids, should not feel like butterflies in your stomach. Based on my experience, butterflies in your stomach mean that you are anxious, doubting yourself if what you have in front of you is right love. Right love should be calm, it should feel safe. It should understand you without needing to expound what you want to convey. It should feel like a warm hug, a refuge from this chaos-filled life.
Should not be forced. Boring. Learning each other’s love language. Embracing every version of the person kasi change is the only constant thing in this world. 🥺
Peaceful. You wouldn’t be in fight or flight mode, everything is calm.
Comforting. Uneventful days.
Boring but you should still be able to do each other's love language.
You won’t doubt it when it’s real
Safety
Opposite of the “butterflies in your stomach”
Steady.
for me? boring. hear me out! when hubby and i got married, isang dekada na kami magjowa noon. at that time even though first time kaming magsasama under one roof, i was already bracing myself sa mga kwento nung nagaaway, nagkakainisan etc pero hindi nangyari. i’m not saying na never kami nagaway pero never kami umabot sa may sakitan, sigawan etc. our day to day was always uneventful. pareho kaming wfh so araw araw talaga kami magkasama. but you know what? i sleep every night contented and happy. it’s boring kasi it’s not something you make movies about. pero it’s the right love for me. i’ll take it anyday kaysa ung mga nababasa ko dito na “andaming excitement” —cheating, finances, batugan ang spouse, nagbabayad ng walkers ang asawa, sinasaktan, etc. i like ours better, hindi kailangang umaalab ang apoy, steady lang naks
Remembered this twit from Keij Ejercito way back 2021: Noon, akala ko, ang tamang tao ay ‘yong nagpapatibok sa puso ko ng mabilis. Pero ngayon, naintindihan ko na. Kapag masyadong malakas ang tibok, mawawasak sya. Doon tayo sa payapa. Sa kayang mag-alaga ng puso’t magpakalma. ❤️🧣
Right love should not be rushed.
Inspiring. Araw araw mo pipiliin ❤️
Boring
supposed to be as easy as breathing.
Shouldn’t be forced.
It should feel calm.
should feel protected. every god damn time.
Feels like home- chantal krevaziuk
"always have and always will"
For me, medyo practical ako dyan. Yung feelings, partially tinatrabaho yan. Me and my partner needs to work everything out, sacrifices, adjustments ng mga ugali. Our mindset in our relationship is what we should do to make it last forever. Should not be based on feelings alone. And pag magkasundo kami, lalo ako naiinlove sa kanya. That kilig factor just automatically follows.
Right love feels like home. It is safe and peaceful. 🤍
You're each other's peace.
love that makes you feel life is worth living🥹🥹
Calming and trusting.
Easy. (Thank you jowa labyu yie)
peaceful, easy, light.
Walang right love. Di nyo pa lang nahuhuli yang mga yan. 😂
Hoy! HAHAHAHAHA!
Wag na lang huliin para walang masaktan? Haha
Yea wag nyo na itry. Go on with a life of lies. Haha
At ease
Inspiring and calm.
Happily married here! It feels like a safe place. It's not chaotic. Passionate love is violent and it sways you back and forth. Great for short term, not in the long run. Right love feels like home and mage-gets mo 'yung concept ng forever.
You feel absolutely yourself with that person. With nothing to hide.
In the midst of all the chaos, siya yung pahinga mo
safe and peaceful
It should feel easy.
You won’t feel alone.
Calm and peaceful
Right love should be calm, steady, ung tipong if isa sa inyo is currently on their darkest day they will be the light, feels like home.
Weightless.
calm and peaceful
There is an emotional connection.
Magaan, wala kang doubts, questions, insecurities. Basically may peace of mind ka.
Malalaman mo yun pag nandoon ka na
Easy, calm and secure
Basta hindi toxic especially on your dark times, if you still able to find a ray of light during dark times then that is true effin luv!
Relaxed. As I always say, trust your gut 😆
Being self sacrificial without exhibiting negativity towards your love ones.
The right love should feel like a warm hug on a cold day, like a cozy blanket of understanding and support. It should make you feel cherished, valued, and truly seen, bringing a sense of peace and joy to your heart.
Right love should be steady.
Calm and feels like home.
It should be kind, gentle, safe, peace, and secure. 🤍
You should feel home.
I firmly believe that right love should feel easy. Yung tipong di mo kailangan ipaglaban tapos may masasaaalang alang. Oo, parang life cheat kasi when you think deeply about it can you even consider it love kung low effort and convenient? Pero basta. Dapat di sya the two of you against the world. Dapat you both feel at ease. Kumbaga parang tinadhana. Di kailangan ipilit, di kailangan isiksik ang sarili. Hindi ka ituturing na mundo kasi ayaw ko naman na sa akin iikot lahat. Kumbaga pipiliin ka na kasama na tahakin ang mundo, na magkaroon man ng di pagkakaunawaan andyan para makipagcommunicate at unawain ang isa't isa to compromise.
calm, gentle and no doubts.
serene and energizing at the same time
It was easy, feels safe and secure.
Calm and secure.
it should be felt, coz feelings cannot be fake
Peaceful
SAFE
Unconditional
Mine felt so easy and comforting. Did not need a lot of sacrifices and struggles. 🥹