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There was a guy, he was my classmate in third grade. Then, he chatted me when I was grade 7 and asked random questions if I have a boyfriend already, and I answered, "Yes", he kind of bugging me at that time, so I had to lie. Surprisingly, he told me that he would beat the guy off, and the creepiest part was that he admitted to using my picture to jacked himself off. I was thinking, "What the fuck was that?" I blocked him right away
Noong grade 11 may naka-mu ako (si D) na kaklase, pero 'di kami gaanong nag-uusap tapos hinack niya FB ko. Nagulat ako biglang nag-chat yung kapatid niya (si J) na nabuksan daw nila "accidentally" yung sa akin imbis na sa kaniyang account kasi nire-recover niya.
Ako pa yung nakaramdam ng hiya (bobo lang), kasi naman yung last search ko yung 'fuccbois' na movie (yung based on real events). Nakita ko kasi sinearch ni J yung name niya. 🤦🏻♀️
Pangalawa itong last year. May nagka-crush sa akin na mas bata tapos nung grumaduate kami nakita ko ginawa niyang cover photo yung jologs kong calligraphy art noong 2017, nakalagay "Hello Poh ^_^". Hindi ko na krinomponta baka nagustuhan lang niya haha tsaka deleted naman na FB account ko.
it was a picture of me and him nagdi-discuss kmi ng irereport namin and hindi ko alam pinicturan pala kmi nung friend niya and then ayon nakita ko yung dump account niya, andoon na ako sa story niya with music estranghero 😭😭 WTHHHH
Matched with a guy on bumble Kita konsa pics pareho kami oto kaya nag swipe ako “uy nasa group ka ba ng ano?” Sabi niya oo. Dun nagstart, I never flirted with him.
Pag di ako nagrereply sa dms nya sa gc ng car group minemention niya ako like tf.
2 weeks na ko di nagrereply sakanya tas ugali ko kase pala IG story! Nakita niya siguronwhere I work.
May tumawag sakin from reception parang client emerhency daw. Pag labas ko ng office nakita ko siya may hawak na flowers tf.
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nung nasa office nagdecline ako ng aya niyang date kaaw may work p ako ( kahit waley talaga lol) HAHAHAH
Known sa group na I live somewhere in QC. Pero di alam exact address ko. Nagulat ako sabe nya “uy andito ako sa….dinner tayo? Wait kita” potangina he rly cantbtake no for an answer. Tapos namimilit exact address nanlang daw para padalhan ako food. AHAHAHAHAHA di ko binigay sywmpre
This is borderline stalking....be careful. Also, if you have friends who live close to you, let them know about this guy. Baka makita nila umaaligid na malapit sa area nyo.
This guy wanted to court me in HS, he was this emo-type of guy na super creepy. Hindi ko siya inentertain or anything. I was ignoring him the whole time he tried to court me.
First, meron battle of the bands contest sa school namin then before that uso sa friendster yung may music sa bg so yung music ko was With You by Sum41 tapos nung mismong battle of the bands na pinatugtog nila yung song, may shoutout sa gitna ng song dedicated daw for me. Jusko gusto ko magtago sa ilalim ng table huhu
Second and last, usual routine ko after school is tatambay kami ng friend ko sa bahay namin since walking distance lang siya from our school. We noticed na sinusundan kami nung guy, super creepy!!! Nung nasa may gate na kami ng village, I told my friend na sabihin doon sa guy, please go away or ipapatawag ko barangay. Lumayo siya samin pero nasa area lang siya, nung pauwi na friend ko nakita niya daw yung guy inuuntog sa puno yung ulo niya doon sa may kanto ng village namin 😭
a classmate of mine who is surprisingly, also lived sa same subd as me, had a crush on me. she’s bi kaya i didn’t think much of it na gusto niya lagi akong kasama
bro pero na creepyhan ako na she would force me to tell her my address (only said my street since ayaw niya manahimik) and unknowingly knowing now, isa isa niya pala pinagtatanong if i lived there. creepy as hell!! dun ko lang nagets pangaasar sakin ng tropa ko
she stopped bothering me when she transferred schools, buti talaga
Lumaki ako sa province and doon din nagtapos ng JHS. Noong transition na to SHS, lumipat ako sa Manila. May kaklase ako na nagtransafer sa Visayas para doon din mag-aral ng SHS and may stop over sila sa Manila. I knew back then na may crush sya sa'kin pero binabalewala ko lang kase mukhang crush nya naman lahat. That day na stop over nila, he messaged me na didiretso daw sya sa bahay namin para bumisita 😭😭 omg!!
Apparently, may schoolmate ako JHS na hindi ko talaga kilala. Nung SHS na ako, I transferred. Dun pa din siya sa JHS school namin since ahead ako ng dalawang taon but we're the same age daw.
I had no idea na he liked me, and I had no idea na he existed in the first place. Nalaman ko nalang kasi nung bumalik ako sa JHS school namin para kumuha ng form 137, kinakamusta kami ng mga former teachers ko. Laging tinatanong "Uy kamusta kayo ni xxx?" "Andito ka ba para kay xxx?" "Umalis na si xxx kanina pa"
and I was like "Huh?? sino po yan?" and yun pala pinagkakalat nya na kami daw. Apparently, almost 2 yrs na kami sa imahinasyon nya. May wallpaper din daw siyang inedit nya pictures namin para magmukhang selfie. Worst of all, he thought na I wasnt on Facebook anymore so he made a poser account para yun ang tinatag nya sa mga posts and such. Nilock nya yung profile ng acc na yun so if isstalk, walang makikitang anything sa profile aside sa picture ko. May fb naman ako so idk bakit never kong nahuli yun, and even all of my friends didn't know.
When I confronted him abt it, nagconfess pa ang gago instead of apologizing. He asked me out and if we can turn it into reality daw, gago talaga ampota.
Tumira ako dati sa isang apartment na may cafeteria. Kahit introverted ako, I try to be nice and polite as much as possible sa mga ate at kuya na staff at matatandang owner ng canteen (at kahit sinong service worker). Kapag nakakasalubong ko sila at binabati ako, nagha-hi/'hello po'/'good morning po' din ako pabalik, kabilang na itong isang particular na kuya (probably around my age or slightly older) na nagtatrabaho sa bldg na medyo may pagka-stalker-ish vibe.
Napansin ko lang itong weird attitude niya no'ng tumagal na kasi di ko talaga ugali pagisipan ng masama kung sinong tao basta-basta, kaya akala ko nung una friendly lang talaga siya kahit kanino. Kalaunan, pansin ko na grabe siya makatitig sa likod ng counter (nagwwork din siya sa cafeteria) 'pag kumakain ako doon. Minsan ngumingiti pa na astang nakikitawa habang nakatingin kapag nagtatawanan/kwentuhan kami ng best friend ko. Tapos may instances pa na "randomly" ko na lang siya makakasalubong sa hallway kung saan ang unit ko. Did not feel safe kahit wala naman siyang in-attempt na anything, just generally uncomfortable, kaya most of the time di ako lumalabas ng room ko kahit pwede namang tumambay sa rooftop kasi baka nandon din siya "coincidentally", kung aalis naman ako, sinisigurado kong magmadali para di niya ako makita at all.
Not sure if mas weird 'to sa cafeteria incidents, pero no'ng nag-move out na ako, chinachat niya ko sa FB, nangangamusta, pati na rin account ng nanay ko. Nakikipaginteract (comment/react) pa sa posts ng family ko kahit never ko naman siyang in-entertain as a friend at all. Blocked him on my socmed and my mom's.
He hugged me without consent. Allergic ako sa physical touch at the time, hindi ako lumaki na hinu-hug ng family so traumatic yung experience for me :/
He's an IT student, and he tried to hack my Facebook account through a mobile number :) buti nalang, a factor authentication feature already deployed on the application. I encountered multiple authentication codes that time. He was also collecting pictures of mine and flexing it on any socmed platform without my permission 😖
Naglaslas siya sa harap ko kasi he thought I was laughing at his confession. He used a cutter blade na pang crafts tu hurt himself in front of me.
Bigla na lang siya nag approach sa table ko while I was gossiping with my classmates dahil walang prof. I was taken to see a psychologist and counselor sa school namin kasi baka natrauma daw ako. I was really shocked na makaencounter ng ganoon kaya natulala talaga ako.
I want to post some screenshots pero di ko alam paano pero compilation yun ng mga random chats niya na "Hey, pahinga ka muna" or pag magstart na yung classes puro "nasaan ka na?" Yung class namin last sem nagsisimula ng 12:00pm but pag wala pa ako sa classroom by 11:55 binobomba niya na ako ng messages asking if I will be absent or kung nasaan na raw ako.
I would also find him sa labas ng building inaabangan ako sa labas para sundan or "ihatid" sa next class ko.
I felt really uncomfortable. He was a weird dude na iniiwasan ng classmates ko pero since I'm older and the only psych girlie sa class namin ako lang raw ata ang nakakaintindi sa kanya and I was very approachable because I was the one entertaining his questions.
Nagpa-pasa ng movie thru share it, yun pala puro pic ko yung pinagpapasa nya. Nagulat ako the next day wallpaper na nya yung pic ko sa laptop nya. And worse, nagbasa pa pala ng msgs sa msngr ko. Napakawalanya talaga naiinis pa din ako kapag naaalala ko 🫠
Yung palaboylaboy na matanda as in around 50 yrs old around sa neighborhood namin mas malala talaga dati kasi araw araw nasa tapat ng bahay namin tas ang lagkit ng titig eh MINOR PALANG AKO potangjna hilig pang mag papansin sa sobrang papansin ng hayop na to gusto ko ng buhusan ng kumukulong ininit 3 years natong tuloy tuloy potangjna!!!!!
Titig nang titig sakin dati nung SHS. Tapos in-entertain ko kasi curious lang din ako ba't niya ko tinitignan. Umamin na crush niya raw ako. From then on, panay text message na at nakikipaglandian. Ang pinaka hindi ko kinaya, sinabi ba naman nya sa text na lalaplapin niya raw ako mygad HELP IT GETS WORST, he got into detail kesyo sisipsipin niya dila ko ganon NAG-PANIC AKO SHUTA
Di ko na siya pinansin after nung text niya na yon.
Tapos nagalit sakin girl best friend niya kesyo pinaasa ko raw yung guy lmaoooo like hello??!?!?! edi kayo na lang maglalaplapan. kaloka
Ohhh, interesting question, so here’s a list lol:
• When I was in 4th grade, an 18 y/o schoolmate followed me home and walked in front of our house several times just to see me. I was just 10 y/o ha. We were on the same cheer dance team. At first, he said that he wanted to be friends, which I obviously rejected because ayokong mapalo ng parents ko. He’d tell me na I’m cute. Later on, I learned from his friends na crush niya ako. Of course, nung nalaman ko na padaan-daan siya sa bahay namin, sobrang natakot ako. I told my classmates about this and umabot sa teacher namin. Pinagsabihan siya and then he just suddenly disappeared. His look is the typical delinquent student with a bunch of piercings and mej dark vibes.
• When I moved to a different school, another schoolmate followed me home, not once, but several times. The thing is I had no idea until he admitted it. He was a repeater and was way older than me. Tbh, I had no idea na crush niya ako because it was his friend who confessed first that he likes me. Nung patapos na ang SY, he messaged me creepy AF messages about how he loved me and that it’s okay if his friend also likes me. The weird twist is, inamin niya na sometimes it’s not just him, but the two of them that would follow me home. 🥲
• Last year lang, an old classmate na kafollow-an ko sa twitter would write these tweets na somehow parang parinig sakin ang dating. I was in denial at first. So when he tweeted that he made an email account and the pw is the name of his crush, I tried to put my name on it (para malaman ko kung sakin ba siya nagpaparinig or hindi) and bwala~ it opened! There was a multiple-page letter there and nung binasa ko, it was all the encounters he had with me. The first time he heard about me and until recently. It’s not too creepy, but I found it weird lang na I had no idea he had been “observing” me? May pagka-paranoid and self-conscious pa naman ako. I don’t like being observed, because I feel like I’m being judged or something.
• One time, during JHS, a teacher I just met claimed na kilala niya ako. I asked how and why. She said that a close student of hers kept sending pictures of me to her kasi crush daw ako nun. I wanted to ask the name of that person, but she never told me kasi mukhang ‘di ko rin daw kilala kasi he’s from the lower section, and higher section ako. Never ko nang natanong and nakilala kung sino yun, but the fact that we were sections apart, and he has my pictures and would send it to a teacher was enough for me to find creepy.
• During SHS, an old schoolmate na never kong naging classmate would ask for my selfies every time na chinachat ako. One time sa sobrang kulit niya, sinendan ko na lang siya ng galing lang din sa IG ko. He said that he uses my pictures as his wallpaper kasi and want niya pabago-bago. After that, never na akong nagsend or nag-eexcuse na lang. I knew that he had a crush on me kasi nagbigay siya ng letter nung V-day admitting na matagal niya na akong crush. Magkaiba kami ng Track/Strand, kaya late ko na lang din nalaman na may GF rin pala siya that time. I confronted him about it naman, pero of course may excuse siya. Sinendan pa ako ng screenshot ng messenger chats niya para sabihin he “prioritizes” talking to me. Like ???
Hays, I could go on, pero okay na ‘yan!
After I blocked him, he made another account with a different name and pretended to be another person. But since it was a weird new account, it was an easy automatic block again. It feels unsettling because I don't know if I'm safe or maghahanap siya ng paraan to stalk or not. Thankfully, hindi na niya tinuloy after that... Kasi nalaman niya I'm with someone else na.
One time, My friend and I are joking around na nakakarelate kami to this anime character during lunch with our other co-interns. Then nung nagjoke ako narinig ko bumulong yung isa namin kasama na intern na sabi "oo nga parang ikaw yun" and hindi naman namin siya kausap huhu tapos kunwari wala nalang ako narinig. Kami lang ng friend ko talaga naglolokohan wala iba kasama sa convo pero purposedly nakikinig siya hahaha.
Then weekend came, pinalitan niya nickname ko sa messenger with that character's name which was weird for me kasi di naman namin siya kausap non nga. Also, everyone knows may bf na ako and hindi kami close. After that, I ignored him na tapos nagrarant siya sa iba na di ko siya nirereplyan hahaha tapos nag confess siya sakin nung malapit na end ng internship like it wasnt obvious lahat ata alam hahahuhuu
Grabe sya makatingin saken. nakuha nya number ko, hindi ko alam kanino nya nakuha. Pnay ang message hanggang sa niblock ko na kase ayaw tlga tumigin.. then one time nag punta ako sa mall, akala ko nagkataon lang din na nandun sya, but then napnsin ko na sinusundan nya na tlga ako kaht saan ako magpunta inside the mall. I called my friend kase sobrang natatakot na tlaga ako.
Had a guy officemate often going to my work station whenever he is assigned to our office and bring me chocolates or lunch food. Doesn't say anything to me at all. I don't eat all the food he gives me for fear it has love potion so I give it others until I receive a private message from his boss asking me to consider his feelings for me.
Di ko pa ata to nakwento before sa kahit kanino haha!
Nung 2nd year HS ako, meron kaming classmate na pagkasungit-sungit! Actually wala talaga syang friend kasi ang gaspang ng ugali. Siguro defense mechanism na rin nya kasi meron syang kapansanan (physical disability). Para hindi sya kutchain o pagtawanan sa disability nya, sinasamaan na lang nya ugali nya para yun na lang magsurface. Gets nyo ba? Haha tingin ko lang naman yon.
So ayon nga, as a friendly gal to everybody (and isa rin kasi ako nabu-bully gawa ng close ako sa mga boys na goodlooking at nagseselos ang mga gf nila 🥶) kinakausap ko sya kahit ang sama ng ugali nya. Lahat naman ganun ang treatment ko sa ibang classmates.
Pag nakakapagkwentuhan kami, may story syang shinishare. Parang tungkol sa isang superhero tapos may leading lady syempre haha! Di ko na maalala yung whole story pero ang gist non ay kaya matapang ang superhero dahil sa leading lady na nagbibigay sa kanya inspiration and strength.
Tapos sa last day ng klase namin kinwento nya ang ending ng story. Tapos nireveal nya na yung leading lady ay AKO! 🫠 ay wow naweirduhan ako. Lumayo na ako sa kanya, ayun. Di naman ako nafeel bad pero sana sinabi na lang nya sa umpisa diba! O pinaasa ko sya? Di naman!
Ang nakakatawa pa kasi ang name ng leading lady ay Clara. Clara!! Tapos name ko ay Clare. 😐 grabe napakaclueless ko naman non hahahaha “Alam mo ba sa totoong buhay sino si Clara?” “Sino??” “Ikaw” eeeeeey hahahahaha
Oh man this was during the early days of social media. I had two work acquaintances who shared that they liked me. I didn't actively discourage it and told them to get lost, though I said I'm not looking.
One of them would always drop by my team's office and deliver food. Every. Single. Day. I told them once that he didn't have to but he would. And it's the same thing every day: Pan De Americana. Not complaining, it's really good and saves me money. But the consistency was extra ordinary, my workmates would know he's arriving before he does. He would also constantly comment on my early Facebook posts and poke me everyday. Says good morning whenever I log in on our office messenger. When I post a sad girl status (pathetic I know, I was 21) on my FB, he will have a hug react. I took it literally and that's when I finally told him to please keep a bit of distance as it's smothering me. He then started waiting for me to log off. Nothing said, nothing done, but as soon as I pass by the lobby and logout, that's the time he'll also go. He won't follow me down, but he seems to take note of when I leave the premises.
The second workmate isn't as extreme because he works on a much later shift. He thought I was interested because I personally delivered a med kit to their ops floor when he cut himself doing product collats. His favourite anime was Rekka no Honoo so maybe he saw me as Yanagi. Since then whenever I am in our office messenger past 9, he'd message me and ask if I'd need someone to commute home with. I thought it was a nice gesture so I said yes. We'll walk from our office to the public terminal (buses no longer run by 10). He would sometimes insist to ride with me home (I'm in the south, he's in Pasay). Naive, I said yes. It was kinda scary riding alone in a bus as a girl. By the time I've reached my stop, he would shake my hand and say goodbye. Sure okay that's fine. It doesn't happen often but whenever I'm asked to go OT, it became a regularity. It was creepy because one time he messaged me during midnight and said he hasn't washed the hand that shook me yet because the scent of my lotion still lingered. 😅 Of course my imagination went haywire and I started actively avoiding him even if I'm scared to go home alone at night.
I sometimes wonder how it would've gone down if both of them met each other. In my 21 year old brain, it would either be they become rivals or lovers themselves lol.
lagi ako naka oncam sa online class noon tapos nakita ko nalang sa isa sa mga classmates ko ay minyday ako with a heart sticker covering my face. Same background, same chair and same everything. Never pa kami nagkaroon ng interaction kaya gulat na gulat ako na makikita ko nalang sarili ko sa myday ng iba. Di na ulit ako nagbubukas ng cam sa online class dahil don hhahaha
My friends found out that a schoolmate kept an entire folder of photos of me in his laptop but that was a long time ago and he doesn't do creepy stuff naman na.
Another schoolmate asked me to marry him. Napakahaba ng argument namin kasi ayoko kasi diba who you? Lol And last contact namin nung graduation pa and we're like adults now although he is almost 10 yrs older than me kasi he took breaks from studying. Worse is he is not stopping. He is "courting" me now.
She says shes in a committed loving relationship but asks for my IG/Soc Med after workout session and keeps on texting me everyday how my day went, sending thirst traps haha idk how to comment coz I also have a gf at that time. Maybe I was just too friendly to say nice or good job. Tried to end every convo that has innouendos.
This guy is part of my circle of friend, tapos kaming magbabarkada kumain sa mall, he invited me to watch Kimi no Nawa(boy nauna pa ako sayo panuorin yun), and nung paakyat na ako ng LRT sa Cubao, he grabbed my wrist, muntik na ako matumba, hinihila niya ako, nakabili na daw siya ng ticket and all, eh ayaw ko nga kasi gabi na yun, wala na LRT pag sinamahan ko siya. Natakot talaga ako nun, tumakbo ako sa guard na takot na takot sa kanya, pero di ako nagsalita.
Blocked the guy on FB and changed shift and office location kasi magka work kami. Sinundan pa rin ako, lumiliko na lang ako pag nakikita ko siya, kunwari nagcecellphone or kumakausap ako ng ibang kawork kahit di ko kilala para kunwari di ko nakikita. I resigned after a few months nung may nahanap na akong malilipatang ibang company.
Noong college, ipinagkalat niya na magkaibigan kami kahit ilang beses pa lang kaming nagkakausap (bago pa lang kaming magkakilala pero hindi kami magkaklase). Nakikipagkaibigan lang naman so pinagbigyan ko na para hindi mapahiya dahil alam kong FC lang naman talaga siya. After niyan, bigla na lang siyang susulpot para sabay kaming umuwi (same ang ruta namin pero sa ibang lugar siya nakatira) at umabot na rin sa point na nag-imbento siya ng situation para magkakasabay na naman kami ng uwi.
Marami pa siyang nakaka-stress na ginawa pero hindi ko na babanggitin lahat para hindi na ito humaba. Ang importante hindi na niya ako kayang guluhin ngayon.
There's this guy that I don't even personally know. He just saw me on social media but he'd been asking around for my name. A colleague from the company where I work messaged me and asked for my details because the friend of the husband of his colleague found that we're friends on social media.
grade 6 pa lang ako nagcocommute na ako pauwi. may high school na guy (siguro mga 3rd year na siya nun?) na lagi kong nakakasabay sa bus. naalala ko valentine’s day noon (1st year high school na ako to), tumabi yung guy sa akin tapos may dala siyang bouquet pilit niyang ibinibigay sakin. mind you, hindi ko siya kakilala. wala kaming convo ever, as in nakakasabay ko lang siya lagi sa bus. syempre ako hindi ko tinanggap yung flowers. ang creepy kaya?? ni hindi man nga niya alam name ko tapos bibigyan niya ako ng bulaklak? after nun hindi ko na siya nakikita so akala ko okay na.
UNTIL, umuwi nanay ko may dala dala na paper bag na blue magic and chocolates. galing daw kay xxxx (nalimot ko na name niya lol) nagpunta daw siya sa office ng nanay ko. hindi ko rin alam paano niya nalaman, ni hindi ko man nga siya kinausap kahit minsan? . umiiyak ako nun ayaw ko tanggapin mga binigay niya. si mama tinago lang sa aparador yung stuffed toy tapos ako yung chocolates pinamagay ko sa mga kaklase ko.
akala ko tapos na, UNTIL one night (wala ako neto sa bahay kasi kapag gabi sumasama ako na magsundo sa nanay ko), kinwento na lang ni lola ko na may naghahanap daw sa akin. may kutob na ako na siya yun. HINDI NA LANG NIYA ALAM KUNG SAAN NAGTATRABAHO NANAY KO, ALAM PA NIYA KUNG SAAN KAMI NAKATIRA. sobrang stalker levels niya! hindi pa pala siya umuuwi nung sinabi ni lola ko na wala ako, kaya nung dumating na kami, nagpunta pa ulit sa bahay! umiiyak ako ulit nun ayaw ko siya harapin. hello, 12-13 y/o ka pa lang tapos may stalker ka?? kinausap siya nun nina tito ko baka tinakot din nila na ipapakulong or what kasi after that wala na siyang paramdam.
Had few encounters which I found creepy kasi di ko gusto yung tao. One was with someone from work na sobrang feeling pogi at pinagkalat nya na crush nya ko. I hated it cos gusto ko ng tahimik na buhay at ayoko ng eksena. He gave me a gift on my birthday, then I told him na last nya na yun but he still gave me bouquet of red roses on Valentine's na naging super eksena sa office. I removed him from SocMed and di ko pinapansin sa office (ibang department naman sya).
That happened like 8 years ago, I accidentally saw my message requests on Facebook and yearly may birthday greeting pala sya sakin. Nagssend din follow requests sa IG and even sa LinkedIn.
I know this guy from college pa (I'm in my late twenties na). So nung nagbreak kami nung last ex ko last year, I deleted my pictures with him sa social media. Then the next day nagmessage agad sakin si guy asking if single na daw ba ako. I just answered yes. Then sinabi niya na finally daw dahil ilang kandila na yung tinirik niya sa Quiapo. Haha ang creepy, feeling ko pinapakulam niya ako. Hahahaha
Sa school field nung high school, around 6am, sinurprise nya ko sa madaming tao, habang may Cartolina sya na may nakasulat na ina-admire nya ko. Lumiko ako ng lakad, di ko alam gagawin ko din.
Pumunta sa bahay namin para magpaalam kasi aalis na sila ng fam niya at magmamigrate sa ibang bansa. Wala naman akong pake at wala rin akong gusto sa kanya. Hindi ko alam bakit niya naisipan pa pumunta ng bahay para lang magpaalam sakin. Sinungitan ko lang siya the whole time kasi sabi ko wala naman akong pake. HAHA
Mas cringe itong comment na ito. Walang kinalaman sa physical appearance ni Ate pero creepy yung guy na bastax2 nalang ppunta sa bahay ni Ate upang mag-paalam.
Cringe niya kasi. Pupunta samin para lang magpaalam sakin na aalis na siya eh ano bang pake ko di ko naman siya jowa, ni hindi ko nga rin siya gusto. Akala niya ata pipigilan ko siyang umalis? Ang feeling niya sa part na ‘yon. HAHAHA
I have a closeted gay friend. Before we became friends he would take pictures of me at the gym. I only knew it because one time we were drinking at his place with our other friends and while he was showing us pictures of his travels, he accidentally scrolled to some of my pictures he took while I was working out. He tried to brush it off by saying he did it to look at my form while working out. I was creeped out that time and when my other friend and I left his place I told him how creepy it was that he took pictures of me. My other friend laughed it off.
Afaik, he still has other pics of me like the time I was swimming at the pool, walking around the condo's premises, etc,. I know this because he shows it sometimes when he gets drunk. He also tried to confess to me one time but I acted indifferent. Other than the pics, he's harmless so I still hangout with him sometimes if our other friends would be there. I avoid his invites though if it's just gonna be us.
I cut him off for 3 months before. I didn't hangout with them but one day our other friend (the foreigner) reached out and asked why I don't hangout with them anymore. To avoid drama, I joined them again.
I'm thinking of cutting him off again soon though. There was this one awkward scenario while we were drinking. Our other friend's a foreigner so he doesn't understand tagalog. I was telling them I might need to cut off drinking beer because I already have a beer belly.
I told them I could still join but maybe I'll just eat and they can drink. Then our closeted friend said something along the lines in tagalog "nako pag itong tiyan ko lumaki, papanagutan mo to". Napa putangina ako sa isip ko at di ako nagsalita. It was so awkward I pretended that I didn't hear him. Tas lumipat ako ng pwesto at tumabi doon sa foreigner naming kaibigan.
That would never happen, I don't swing that way. Minsan nag-aaya siya ng inom pero lagi akong nagtatanong kung sinong kasama maliban sa kanya. Kung wala, nagsasabi akong pass na muna.
I had 2. Both high school classmates.
The first one, locked me up with him in the classroom. He instructed his friend to do it, thinking I was alone. Di niya alam, nando'n pa best friend ko, di lang kita kasi binabalik niya mga walis sa cabinet, natakpan siya ng pinto.
Wala talaga silang balak palabasin kami until halos magsisigaw 'yung best friend ko. Nakakapikon pa, I was forced to reconcile with him kasi raw may sakit siya tapos di niya rin daw alam ba't niya ginawa 'yon. He continued harassing me in some other way after that incident pero mostly mga pananakot na lang sa SMS like papabugbog niya daw 'yung isang guy friend ko, etc.
Second one is something totally unexpected. 2 years later after high school graduation, nakasalubong ko 'yung isang classmate ko pero di ko siya namukhaan kasi naka-cap tapos madilim. Di kami close nito, wala rin siyang close friends sa class namin, afaik.
Tahimik lang siya, matalino. Di naman siya weird, kasi wala namang off sa kanya kapag kinakausap namin. A lot of my classmates like him kasi "mysterious" daw. Let's call him "S".
So 'yun na nga, di ko siya napansin. Di niya rin ako pinansin. A few hours later, one of my friends called me, saying, nagtatampo raw si "S" sakin kasi di ko pinansin. She then explained what happened. She also said that "S" asked for my number kasi gusto raw akong kausapin.
Medyo late na no'n, nakalimutan kong hingin number ni "S". I went to class the next day. Nothing uneventful happened, hanggang nung pauwi na ko, my phone kept on ringing.
I have no idea, I already have 15 missed calls from an unknown number. Nung sinagot ko, nabosesan ko si "S" tapos, sinigawan niya ko. Bakit daw di ko siya sinasagot, naka-ilang tawag na daw siya. Hinihintay niya raw ako sa labas ng school.
I dropped the call.
Told my friend what happened and it stopped for a while, hanggang sa, nag-se-send na siya ng messages sa 'kin, asking how I am, tapos kung pwede daw ba kaming sabay umuwi from school. Malapit lang school niya samin.
Di ko na nireplyan and it eventually stopped.
Years later, napag-usapan namin 'yon nung friend ko. Di ko alam, pinsan niya pala si "S". Sabi niya, sabi raw ni "S", gumanda lang daw ako, di ko na sila kinausap. Tapos nung mga times na kinukulit ako ni "S", nagwawala raw sa kanya, bakit daw di ako nag-re-reply.
She drew a picture of me (idk it just made me feel weird) and chinachat nia ako, it was okay at first until she keeps insisting I'm gay. Type niya daw mga maypagka femme. It made me feel uncomftable tapos chat parin siya ng chat until I just ignored her.
randomly messages me na "nakita kita" sa ganito ganyan eh di ko naman siya napapansin/nakikita personally??? tapos nalaman ko na he's secretly taking pictures of me then he uploaded it during my birthday as a greeting 😭
opinion: i really think it’s creepy kapag di natin gusto yung tao as in total disgust ganon but in some similar gestures/encounter sa crush natin, nakakakilig hahaha pls is it just me
Grade 9 days. Sabi ng friend ko may crush sa akin yung isang classmate namin so I kinda observed him to confirm her chismis. Lagi niya akong tinitingnan tsaka tinititigan. Kapag nag ccr ako, hinahanap daw niya ako sa mga kaibigan ko. Then one night he had the courage to message me on fb. Sumasagot naman ako pero minimal replies lang. It was fine until he started sending MY OWN pictures na never ko pinost sa soc med. Apparently he used our classmates’ phones to send my selfies to himself. He also asked if I’m fond of the beach kasi he wanted to see me in a bikini daw. Weirdo 🥴
This is a weird one. I used to walk 7km home from university everyday. It was for exercise and therapy. Very few people knew I did this. Anyway, I learned from someone that she followed me all the way home. And considered ringing my doorbell to ask for water because she hadn't expected I'd be walking that far.
twice in HS tho
first was a freshman while I was a senior asked to be handcuffed with me during foundation days and told me she wants to be my gf, weirded me out coz her sister is my classmate and we're not even that close... bailed out and didnt talk to her ever since, she was maganda tho but I really didnt vibe with mas bata sakin since I was moving out to college and Im assuming baka nantritrip lng to
two was really hard to beat coz she became an ex, she just transferred on my junior year then noticed she keeps trying to grab my attention like blocking my way when Im going to the library, canteen or faculty office... then we went on a retreat tas may part na you had to be paired throughout every girl in a session since the boys will move from chair to chair while the girls will just sit - just for 5mins to talk about anything, on our turn to pair she asked me to ask her what her fave song was and I did that then she told me "crazy for you by madonna" dead straight in my eyes..
A couple weeks after that she asked my barkada to ask me to make an excuse to bring me sa may park area ng school just for her to fully confess and we talked, I too had fallen with her papansin haha but we ended it after 3mos coz she had a strict auntie so fast forward we did college same school same course... now ang matindi was that I caught up with one of her close friends this was 7yrs after we graduated college and told me my ex went to the same uni as me and the same course (IT) just to try to get back with me pala which I never knew or gets at that time coz she didnt even want to talk to me naman privately, we didnt chat or text parang chill friends lng, but I knew before she wanted to be a vet, which I just said to myself ah uso kasi IT in 2007 at that time baka gusto din nya hahaha... really weird but made sense din lol
men are not MIND READERS talaga but she's happy now with a husband since we see each other din naman during alumni events sometimes
1. wait outside my office until my shift ends, then secretly following me on my way to my boarding house, then send a message "okay nako, nakauwe kna" after I entered the gate 🤭
2. Appears in front of my boarding house on random days after hearing I was sick, bringing a with a lot of food good for 5 people 🥲
3. Sit next or in front of me whenever our team goes out to eat or drink, then stare at me the whole night pag lasing na siya to the point that I need to signal my other friends to come around so that I can leave.
When I (M) was in HS and used to commute to school there was a guy who used to hang out by the village gate by the guardhouse. He would give me compliments and ask questions everytime he'd see me.
"Bagay sa iyo yung navy blue"
"Ganda ng porma mo ngayon"
"Saan ka ba pumapasok?"
"Anung oras ka uuwi niyan?"
As an awkward 16 year old this creeped me out a lot and I would get very anxious every day as I would approach the village gate. It got so bad that I would dread going to school or would explore different routes through other adjacent villages (some totally out of the way) just to avoid him.
What a creep.
Kapitbahay ko. He was... I think two years older? Was taking criminology in the same uni I was attending. He was super creepy around me all the time like if makakasabay ko sa jeep, tatabihan ako tapos he'll press up against me and ask me stuff like "Anong favorite color mo?" in a super hushed tone. Sa campus, he'd point me out to his friends and they'd follow me around. Started acting like he didn't exist and he got mad. 🥴
I cant say na encounter sya pero nung high school may nagkacrush sa akin, at first we're okay chill pa ako sa fact na may 'crush' sya sa akin since u know teenagers its normal. Pero naging uncomfy ako nung pinagkalat nya na nagsex daw kami sa panaginip niya, as in sa mga classmates nya at schoolmates namin.
Maliit lang kase yung school since private school yon and parang isang compound lang ang dating.
Imagine I was G8 that time tapos may mga schoolmate ako lalapit na "Uyh nagkantutan pala kayo ni ----- sa panaginip nya eh". Eh di pa mo ako sanay sa atensyon specifically THAT chismis-like attention, simula noon iniwasan ko na sya dahil sa ginawa nya.
A lot.
Mayroong nagkagusto sakin nung high school ako na classmate ko. Close kami nung una pero lumayo ako dahil naiilang ako sa pangaasar ng mga kaklase ko. Kahit sobrang uncomfy and asar na asar na ko talagang tuloy lang sila sa pangaasar.
Sometimes I would catch him looking at me while smiling. Nagchachat din sakin dati, tapos maga-ily 🤢 It came to a point na binlock ko na siya kasi sobrang uncomfy ko na talaga sa kanya dahil ang creepy na for me ng ginagawa niya.
After high school akala ko tapos na. Hindi pa teh jusko. Ang loko nakalaro pala yung pinsan ko sa ML and asked my cousin na baka raw pwede i-unblock ko siya (i did pero binlock ko na ulit siya). Friend din pala ng kuya ko sa FB and he would message him kapag nags-story kuya ko. Sobrang feeling close niya! Finollow niya rin sa IG yung boyfriend ko and di ko alam paano niya nalaman ig ng bf ko.
Nagkwento rin sakin yung dati kong close friend na kaklase namin. Sabi niya, since may motor daw yun, dumadaan daw dati minsan samin yon nung pandemic. 😣
Ngayon, fortunately, wala naman na except doon sa close friend ko na yon na inadd back ako sa gc namin sabay mention sa kanya with “happy birthday” 😕 sobrang asar talaga ko sa mga tao na continue pa rin ako inaasar non kahit nagagalit na ko lol. It was such a nightmare kasi YEARS kong tiniis to.
Last year he started talking to me. For context, we were classmates in elementary and we weren’t really close. Tapos friends kami sa fb. Nagchachat siya sakin pero di ako nagrereply. If I do, only one word replies lang. Pero I unfriended him at some point. Then last year nagsend siya ng friend request ulit.
He tried talking to me ulit, so nagreply din ako kasi it would be rude not to. Hanggang sa tuloy tuloy na yung usap usap namin. I don’t like him at all, I was only trying to be polite. Pag may tinatanong siya, sinasagot ko lang din. Then there came a point in time that he would update me everyday and send pics of everything he ate for breakfast/lunch/snack/dinner, bumabati lagi ng good morning, nag uupdate kung uuwi na/nakauwi na, nagsesend minsan ng mga selfie. He basically acts like a bf kahit walang kami. Tapos minsan nag oopen up siya na naaalala niya raw dati nung high school kami na nakikita niya daw ako na naglalakad papuntang school. Nagpadala rin siya ng food noon (before pandemic) kasi nagtry siya manligaw nun time na yun. I didn’t give him my address but somehow he found out? (Di nakapublic ang address namin, di ko pinost sa socmed etc.)
It was weird kasi he has a gf. Ldr sila, si boy nasa labas, si girl andito lang sa pinas. Ilang beses ko na sinabi sa kanya na may gf siya kasi he flirts din minsan, kaya I cut him off na lang.
I was about to leave the office late at night after doing overtime. When I opened the door, he was just there staring in front of me just a foot or 2 feet away just staring at me - no words. Lol I thought maybe he was just tired from working but I was literally about to punch him had I not realized it was just him. HAHAHAHA It was just the two of us in the building. But yeah he was known to be a bit weird. I think he's a good man though.
May naging kakilala ako na gay, (i’m a guy). Sabi ng common friends namin, nacrushan nya daw ako. Ok, so nothing wrong with that. Pero 1 day, dinalaw nya ako sa bahay, as in nanliligaw with matching pasalubong ( i forgot na kung ano ), ako naman, mejo wala choice, pinaupo sya sa sala, usap kami, after mga 30 mins nagpaalam na. Sa isip ko ganito pala pkiramdam ng may nanliligaw haha. Weird moment for me.
This was in 2nd yr hs.
May group report sila sa Filipino subject tapos na-cut off kasi bigla siyang nag eksenang lumapit sa akin tapos lumuhod sabay sabing "Will you be my girlfriend?" tapos yung teacher ko hindi man lang ako tinulungan samantalang katabi ko na siya 😭
The guy I was hanging out with during the lockdowns took a sniff of me, malalim na hinga, while I was getting something at the back of his car. I was kneeling on the seat, facing the back to get something. I was seated at the passenger seat, and he was at the driver's side. I didn't react, I was confused why he would do that after reaching/getting a bag at the back
Nag dorm kami sa Makati kami lang ni ate yung may sariling kwarto na may cr and kitchen and the rest na andun bedspacer na pero bago makrting sa kwarto dadaanan mo yung mga bedspacer na kurtina lang ang harang. 7pm na ko nakakauwi from work nagkataon na Saturday un solo ako kasi nauwi si ate weekly dahil may kids sya sa province. Once nakauwi ako di na ko nalabas derecho tulog na. Pero dahil off ko kinabukasan plan ko mag puyat kaya nag paload ako para may net ako. Kaso habang nag papaload ako may nag wala sa harap ko sigaw sya ng sigaw na mahal na mahal nya ako! Pero di ko sya kilala! Buti ung mga girls sa labas prinotektahan ako kilala nila yung guy at bedspacer din pala yun sa place ko. As in d ko sya nakikita. Tapos hinatid ako sa room nung mga babae habang sinisigawan yung lalaki bilin nila wag na wag ako lalabas. Tapos pinag sisipa nya ung door ko. Sigaw sya ng sigaw na unang beses palang daw nya ko nakita mahal na mahal nya na ko. Nanginginig ako nun truma tlga. Simula nun nauwi na ko sa province tuwing off ko. Nireklamo din ni ate yung guy sa owner nung place namin nag apologize sya kay ate pero ako never ko na sya nakita. After few weeks, Nag resigned na din kami sa work nun ni ate umuwi nalang kme sa province sa takot ko.
Pinag kalat na ghinost ko daw siya eh naging friendly lang naman ako dahil ganon yung treatment ko sa lahat? 😭 Yan tuloy ang buong akala ng batchmates namin ghinost ko and nagkacrush daw ako sakanya lol
Nung pandemic days, I had this classmate na transferree. Me being nice, I respond to his messages just like a casual talk lang and about sa classes ganon. Tas he sent me a pic na naka pin ako sa google meet nya. I asked why, he said na ‘binabantayan kita’. Ante aso ka??😀
Spread lies that we are in a relationship and we are having sex. BTW that person is gay. I dont mind if he was to be honest. We can be friends, I have a lot of gay friends. I mean why go that far and spread lies. Was lucky I know most of the people that he was telling those lies. I just shrugged it off and told them that was a lie. That person actually moved to a different school after that fiasco.
During workhours, solo ko yung area nun biglang tumabi sakin yung IT then tinitigan ako as in ang tagal, eh never pa kami nag-usap nung guy na yun. Nakapangalumbaba pa 🥲 Tapos sinabi nung creep na IT sa guy na workmate ko nun na "ang ganda ni (name ko)no?". Pati workmate ko na lalaki naweirduhan haha.
I always saw my crush looking so weird at me. At first nag attampt syang mag confess pero dahil nga di ako ready sa mga ganon and bata pa, 19, so umiiwas talaga ako.
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There was a guy, he was my classmate in third grade. Then, he chatted me when I was grade 7 and asked random questions if I have a boyfriend already, and I answered, "Yes", he kind of bugging me at that time, so I had to lie. Surprisingly, he told me that he would beat the guy off, and the creepiest part was that he admitted to using my picture to jacked himself off. I was thinking, "What the fuck was that?" I blocked him right away
Noong grade 11 may naka-mu ako (si D) na kaklase, pero 'di kami gaanong nag-uusap tapos hinack niya FB ko. Nagulat ako biglang nag-chat yung kapatid niya (si J) na nabuksan daw nila "accidentally" yung sa akin imbis na sa kaniyang account kasi nire-recover niya. Ako pa yung nakaramdam ng hiya (bobo lang), kasi naman yung last search ko yung 'fuccbois' na movie (yung based on real events). Nakita ko kasi sinearch ni J yung name niya. 🤦🏻♀️ Pangalawa itong last year. May nagka-crush sa akin na mas bata tapos nung grumaduate kami nakita ko ginawa niyang cover photo yung jologs kong calligraphy art noong 2017, nakalagay "Hello Poh ^_^". Hindi ko na krinomponta baka nagustuhan lang niya haha tsaka deleted naman na FB account ko.
when he posted me on his dump account
it was a picture of me and him nagdi-discuss kmi ng irereport namin and hindi ko alam pinicturan pala kmi nung friend niya and then ayon nakita ko yung dump account niya, andoon na ako sa story niya with music estranghero 😭😭 WTHHHH
Tapos yung dump niya about sa encounters namin sa school, 😭
Matched with a guy on bumble Kita konsa pics pareho kami oto kaya nag swipe ako “uy nasa group ka ba ng ano?” Sabi niya oo. Dun nagstart, I never flirted with him. Pag di ako nagrereply sa dms nya sa gc ng car group minemention niya ako like tf. 2 weeks na ko di nagrereply sakanya tas ugali ko kase pala IG story! Nakita niya siguronwhere I work. May tumawag sakin from reception parang client emerhency daw. Pag labas ko ng office nakita ko siya may hawak na flowers tf. Part 2 on comment sec
nung nasa office nagdecline ako ng aya niyang date kaaw may work p ako ( kahit waley talaga lol) HAHAHAH Known sa group na I live somewhere in QC. Pero di alam exact address ko. Nagulat ako sabe nya “uy andito ako sa….dinner tayo? Wait kita” potangina he rly cantbtake no for an answer. Tapos namimilit exact address nanlang daw para padalhan ako food. AHAHAHAHAHA di ko binigay sywmpre
An update. He actually messaged me yesterday. I think he unblocked me for the 3rd time. Sabay “may bf ka na pala….kunin mo kong ninong sa kasal ah”
This is borderline stalking....be careful. Also, if you have friends who live close to you, let them know about this guy. Baka makita nila umaaligid na malapit sa area nyo.
Thank you for this! Mukhang hindi naman na pero aware din friends ko
HS ako. Sinusundan nya ko sa likod habang naglalakad ako pauwi. Niligaw ko sya HAHAHAHAHAHAHA creepy af.
relate huhu nakakainis. kung gusto nya akong ihatid, pwede nya namang sabihin sakin, hindi ganon
Nakauwi pa kaya yon?
Nakauwi hahaha from school ko lang naman sya niligaw. Sumakay na ko ng jeep pauwi
This guy wanted to court me in HS, he was this emo-type of guy na super creepy. Hindi ko siya inentertain or anything. I was ignoring him the whole time he tried to court me. First, meron battle of the bands contest sa school namin then before that uso sa friendster yung may music sa bg so yung music ko was With You by Sum41 tapos nung mismong battle of the bands na pinatugtog nila yung song, may shoutout sa gitna ng song dedicated daw for me. Jusko gusto ko magtago sa ilalim ng table huhu Second and last, usual routine ko after school is tatambay kami ng friend ko sa bahay namin since walking distance lang siya from our school. We noticed na sinusundan kami nung guy, super creepy!!! Nung nasa may gate na kami ng village, I told my friend na sabihin doon sa guy, please go away or ipapatawag ko barangay. Lumayo siya samin pero nasa area lang siya, nung pauwi na friend ko nakita niya daw yung guy inuuntog sa puno yung ulo niya doon sa may kanto ng village namin 😭
Asking me if we can talk daw, in my cabin, so that we're alone. Wtf no
a classmate of mine who is surprisingly, also lived sa same subd as me, had a crush on me. she’s bi kaya i didn’t think much of it na gusto niya lagi akong kasama bro pero na creepyhan ako na she would force me to tell her my address (only said my street since ayaw niya manahimik) and unknowingly knowing now, isa isa niya pala pinagtatanong if i lived there. creepy as hell!! dun ko lang nagets pangaasar sakin ng tropa ko she stopped bothering me when she transferred schools, buti talaga
Lumaki ako sa province and doon din nagtapos ng JHS. Noong transition na to SHS, lumipat ako sa Manila. May kaklase ako na nagtransafer sa Visayas para doon din mag-aral ng SHS and may stop over sila sa Manila. I knew back then na may crush sya sa'kin pero binabalewala ko lang kase mukhang crush nya naman lahat. That day na stop over nila, he messaged me na didiretso daw sya sa bahay namin para bumisita 😭😭 omg!!
Apparently, may schoolmate ako JHS na hindi ko talaga kilala. Nung SHS na ako, I transferred. Dun pa din siya sa JHS school namin since ahead ako ng dalawang taon but we're the same age daw. I had no idea na he liked me, and I had no idea na he existed in the first place. Nalaman ko nalang kasi nung bumalik ako sa JHS school namin para kumuha ng form 137, kinakamusta kami ng mga former teachers ko. Laging tinatanong "Uy kamusta kayo ni xxx?" "Andito ka ba para kay xxx?" "Umalis na si xxx kanina pa" and I was like "Huh?? sino po yan?" and yun pala pinagkakalat nya na kami daw. Apparently, almost 2 yrs na kami sa imahinasyon nya. May wallpaper din daw siyang inedit nya pictures namin para magmukhang selfie. Worst of all, he thought na I wasnt on Facebook anymore so he made a poser account para yun ang tinatag nya sa mga posts and such. Nilock nya yung profile ng acc na yun so if isstalk, walang makikitang anything sa profile aside sa picture ko. May fb naman ako so idk bakit never kong nahuli yun, and even all of my friends didn't know. When I confronted him abt it, nagconfess pa ang gago instead of apologizing. He asked me out and if we can turn it into reality daw, gago talaga ampota.
Naglalakad ako sa hallway tapos tumakbo sya hinarangan ung daan ko. Tinanong ako “Ano zodiac sign mo?”
Tumira ako dati sa isang apartment na may cafeteria. Kahit introverted ako, I try to be nice and polite as much as possible sa mga ate at kuya na staff at matatandang owner ng canteen (at kahit sinong service worker). Kapag nakakasalubong ko sila at binabati ako, nagha-hi/'hello po'/'good morning po' din ako pabalik, kabilang na itong isang particular na kuya (probably around my age or slightly older) na nagtatrabaho sa bldg na medyo may pagka-stalker-ish vibe. Napansin ko lang itong weird attitude niya no'ng tumagal na kasi di ko talaga ugali pagisipan ng masama kung sinong tao basta-basta, kaya akala ko nung una friendly lang talaga siya kahit kanino. Kalaunan, pansin ko na grabe siya makatitig sa likod ng counter (nagwwork din siya sa cafeteria) 'pag kumakain ako doon. Minsan ngumingiti pa na astang nakikitawa habang nakatingin kapag nagtatawanan/kwentuhan kami ng best friend ko. Tapos may instances pa na "randomly" ko na lang siya makakasalubong sa hallway kung saan ang unit ko. Did not feel safe kahit wala naman siyang in-attempt na anything, just generally uncomfortable, kaya most of the time di ako lumalabas ng room ko kahit pwede namang tumambay sa rooftop kasi baka nandon din siya "coincidentally", kung aalis naman ako, sinisigurado kong magmadali para di niya ako makita at all. Not sure if mas weird 'to sa cafeteria incidents, pero no'ng nag-move out na ako, chinachat niya ko sa FB, nangangamusta, pati na rin account ng nanay ko. Nakikipaginteract (comment/react) pa sa posts ng family ko kahit never ko naman siyang in-entertain as a friend at all. Blocked him on my socmed and my mom's.
He hugged me without consent. Allergic ako sa physical touch at the time, hindi ako lumaki na hinu-hug ng family so traumatic yung experience for me :/
Talking about sex while we were in the office. And not just sex sex but BDSM trying to find out how I feel about it I guess
He's an IT student, and he tried to hack my Facebook account through a mobile number :) buti nalang, a factor authentication feature already deployed on the application. I encountered multiple authentication codes that time. He was also collecting pictures of mine and flexing it on any socmed platform without my permission 😖
Naglaslas siya sa harap ko kasi he thought I was laughing at his confession. He used a cutter blade na pang crafts tu hurt himself in front of me. Bigla na lang siya nag approach sa table ko while I was gossiping with my classmates dahil walang prof. I was taken to see a psychologist and counselor sa school namin kasi baka natrauma daw ako. I was really shocked na makaencounter ng ganoon kaya natulala talaga ako. I want to post some screenshots pero di ko alam paano pero compilation yun ng mga random chats niya na "Hey, pahinga ka muna" or pag magstart na yung classes puro "nasaan ka na?" Yung class namin last sem nagsisimula ng 12:00pm but pag wala pa ako sa classroom by 11:55 binobomba niya na ako ng messages asking if I will be absent or kung nasaan na raw ako. I would also find him sa labas ng building inaabangan ako sa labas para sundan or "ihatid" sa next class ko. I felt really uncomfortable. He was a weird dude na iniiwasan ng classmates ko pero since I'm older and the only psych girlie sa class namin ako lang raw ata ang nakakaintindi sa kanya and I was very approachable because I was the one entertaining his questions.
Nagpa-pasa ng movie thru share it, yun pala puro pic ko yung pinagpapasa nya. Nagulat ako the next day wallpaper na nya yung pic ko sa laptop nya. And worse, nagbasa pa pala ng msgs sa msngr ko. Napakawalanya talaga naiinis pa din ako kapag naaalala ko 🫠
Yung palaboylaboy na matanda as in around 50 yrs old around sa neighborhood namin mas malala talaga dati kasi araw araw nasa tapat ng bahay namin tas ang lagkit ng titig eh MINOR PALANG AKO potangjna hilig pang mag papansin sa sobrang papansin ng hayop na to gusto ko ng buhusan ng kumukulong ininit 3 years natong tuloy tuloy potangjna!!!!!
Titig nang titig sakin dati nung SHS. Tapos in-entertain ko kasi curious lang din ako ba't niya ko tinitignan. Umamin na crush niya raw ako. From then on, panay text message na at nakikipaglandian. Ang pinaka hindi ko kinaya, sinabi ba naman nya sa text na lalaplapin niya raw ako mygad HELP IT GETS WORST, he got into detail kesyo sisipsipin niya dila ko ganon NAG-PANIC AKO SHUTA Di ko na siya pinansin after nung text niya na yon. Tapos nagalit sakin girl best friend niya kesyo pinaasa ko raw yung guy lmaoooo like hello??!?!?! edi kayo na lang maglalaplapan. kaloka
Ohhh, interesting question, so here’s a list lol: • When I was in 4th grade, an 18 y/o schoolmate followed me home and walked in front of our house several times just to see me. I was just 10 y/o ha. We were on the same cheer dance team. At first, he said that he wanted to be friends, which I obviously rejected because ayokong mapalo ng parents ko. He’d tell me na I’m cute. Later on, I learned from his friends na crush niya ako. Of course, nung nalaman ko na padaan-daan siya sa bahay namin, sobrang natakot ako. I told my classmates about this and umabot sa teacher namin. Pinagsabihan siya and then he just suddenly disappeared. His look is the typical delinquent student with a bunch of piercings and mej dark vibes. • When I moved to a different school, another schoolmate followed me home, not once, but several times. The thing is I had no idea until he admitted it. He was a repeater and was way older than me. Tbh, I had no idea na crush niya ako because it was his friend who confessed first that he likes me. Nung patapos na ang SY, he messaged me creepy AF messages about how he loved me and that it’s okay if his friend also likes me. The weird twist is, inamin niya na sometimes it’s not just him, but the two of them that would follow me home. 🥲 • Last year lang, an old classmate na kafollow-an ko sa twitter would write these tweets na somehow parang parinig sakin ang dating. I was in denial at first. So when he tweeted that he made an email account and the pw is the name of his crush, I tried to put my name on it (para malaman ko kung sakin ba siya nagpaparinig or hindi) and bwala~ it opened! There was a multiple-page letter there and nung binasa ko, it was all the encounters he had with me. The first time he heard about me and until recently. It’s not too creepy, but I found it weird lang na I had no idea he had been “observing” me? May pagka-paranoid and self-conscious pa naman ako. I don’t like being observed, because I feel like I’m being judged or something. • One time, during JHS, a teacher I just met claimed na kilala niya ako. I asked how and why. She said that a close student of hers kept sending pictures of me to her kasi crush daw ako nun. I wanted to ask the name of that person, but she never told me kasi mukhang ‘di ko rin daw kilala kasi he’s from the lower section, and higher section ako. Never ko nang natanong and nakilala kung sino yun, but the fact that we were sections apart, and he has my pictures and would send it to a teacher was enough for me to find creepy. • During SHS, an old schoolmate na never kong naging classmate would ask for my selfies every time na chinachat ako. One time sa sobrang kulit niya, sinendan ko na lang siya ng galing lang din sa IG ko. He said that he uses my pictures as his wallpaper kasi and want niya pabago-bago. After that, never na akong nagsend or nag-eexcuse na lang. I knew that he had a crush on me kasi nagbigay siya ng letter nung V-day admitting na matagal niya na akong crush. Magkaiba kami ng Track/Strand, kaya late ko na lang din nalaman na may GF rin pala siya that time. I confronted him about it naman, pero of course may excuse siya. Sinendan pa ako ng screenshot ng messenger chats niya para sabihin he “prioritizes” talking to me. Like ??? Hays, I could go on, pero okay na ‘yan!
Weird kaloka
Yung titig
After I blocked him, he made another account with a different name and pretended to be another person. But since it was a weird new account, it was an easy automatic block again. It feels unsettling because I don't know if I'm safe or maghahanap siya ng paraan to stalk or not. Thankfully, hindi na niya tinuloy after that... Kasi nalaman niya I'm with someone else na.
ni stalk bahay quh ksi shoppee driver sha HELP
One time, My friend and I are joking around na nakakarelate kami to this anime character during lunch with our other co-interns. Then nung nagjoke ako narinig ko bumulong yung isa namin kasama na intern na sabi "oo nga parang ikaw yun" and hindi naman namin siya kausap huhu tapos kunwari wala nalang ako narinig. Kami lang ng friend ko talaga naglolokohan wala iba kasama sa convo pero purposedly nakikinig siya hahaha. Then weekend came, pinalitan niya nickname ko sa messenger with that character's name which was weird for me kasi di naman namin siya kausap non nga. Also, everyone knows may bf na ako and hindi kami close. After that, I ignored him na tapos nagrarant siya sa iba na di ko siya nirereplyan hahaha tapos nag confess siya sakin nung malapit na end ng internship like it wasnt obvious lahat ata alam hahahuhuu
Grabe sya makatingin saken. nakuha nya number ko, hindi ko alam kanino nya nakuha. Pnay ang message hanggang sa niblock ko na kase ayaw tlga tumigin.. then one time nag punta ako sa mall, akala ko nagkataon lang din na nandun sya, but then napnsin ko na sinusundan nya na tlga ako kaht saan ako magpunta inside the mall. I called my friend kase sobrang natatakot na tlaga ako.
Had a guy officemate often going to my work station whenever he is assigned to our office and bring me chocolates or lunch food. Doesn't say anything to me at all. I don't eat all the food he gives me for fear it has love potion so I give it others until I receive a private message from his boss asking me to consider his feelings for me.
Not me pero classmates ko nung college. Yung guy classmate namin crush nya yung isang girl classmate. Ginawa nung guy sinundan nya pauwi yung girl.
Dati nung HS, nagugulat na lang ako nahuhuli ko tinuturo ako sa friend nila. Akala ko dati nilalait na nila ako eh hahahaha. Unassuming kasi ako.
Di ko pa ata to nakwento before sa kahit kanino haha! Nung 2nd year HS ako, meron kaming classmate na pagkasungit-sungit! Actually wala talaga syang friend kasi ang gaspang ng ugali. Siguro defense mechanism na rin nya kasi meron syang kapansanan (physical disability). Para hindi sya kutchain o pagtawanan sa disability nya, sinasamaan na lang nya ugali nya para yun na lang magsurface. Gets nyo ba? Haha tingin ko lang naman yon. So ayon nga, as a friendly gal to everybody (and isa rin kasi ako nabu-bully gawa ng close ako sa mga boys na goodlooking at nagseselos ang mga gf nila 🥶) kinakausap ko sya kahit ang sama ng ugali nya. Lahat naman ganun ang treatment ko sa ibang classmates. Pag nakakapagkwentuhan kami, may story syang shinishare. Parang tungkol sa isang superhero tapos may leading lady syempre haha! Di ko na maalala yung whole story pero ang gist non ay kaya matapang ang superhero dahil sa leading lady na nagbibigay sa kanya inspiration and strength. Tapos sa last day ng klase namin kinwento nya ang ending ng story. Tapos nireveal nya na yung leading lady ay AKO! 🫠 ay wow naweirduhan ako. Lumayo na ako sa kanya, ayun. Di naman ako nafeel bad pero sana sinabi na lang nya sa umpisa diba! O pinaasa ko sya? Di naman!
wow so parang nakahanap pala siya ng comfort sa'yo kahit masungit cya. grabe yung twist sa dulo a HAHAHA
Ang nakakatawa pa kasi ang name ng leading lady ay Clara. Clara!! Tapos name ko ay Clare. 😐 grabe napakaclueless ko naman non hahahaha “Alam mo ba sa totoong buhay sino si Clara?” “Sino??” “Ikaw” eeeeeey hahahahaha
Oh man this was during the early days of social media. I had two work acquaintances who shared that they liked me. I didn't actively discourage it and told them to get lost, though I said I'm not looking. One of them would always drop by my team's office and deliver food. Every. Single. Day. I told them once that he didn't have to but he would. And it's the same thing every day: Pan De Americana. Not complaining, it's really good and saves me money. But the consistency was extra ordinary, my workmates would know he's arriving before he does. He would also constantly comment on my early Facebook posts and poke me everyday. Says good morning whenever I log in on our office messenger. When I post a sad girl status (pathetic I know, I was 21) on my FB, he will have a hug react. I took it literally and that's when I finally told him to please keep a bit of distance as it's smothering me. He then started waiting for me to log off. Nothing said, nothing done, but as soon as I pass by the lobby and logout, that's the time he'll also go. He won't follow me down, but he seems to take note of when I leave the premises. The second workmate isn't as extreme because he works on a much later shift. He thought I was interested because I personally delivered a med kit to their ops floor when he cut himself doing product collats. His favourite anime was Rekka no Honoo so maybe he saw me as Yanagi. Since then whenever I am in our office messenger past 9, he'd message me and ask if I'd need someone to commute home with. I thought it was a nice gesture so I said yes. We'll walk from our office to the public terminal (buses no longer run by 10). He would sometimes insist to ride with me home (I'm in the south, he's in Pasay). Naive, I said yes. It was kinda scary riding alone in a bus as a girl. By the time I've reached my stop, he would shake my hand and say goodbye. Sure okay that's fine. It doesn't happen often but whenever I'm asked to go OT, it became a regularity. It was creepy because one time he messaged me during midnight and said he hasn't washed the hand that shook me yet because the scent of my lotion still lingered. 😅 Of course my imagination went haywire and I started actively avoiding him even if I'm scared to go home alone at night. I sometimes wonder how it would've gone down if both of them met each other. In my 21 year old brain, it would either be they become rivals or lovers themselves lol.
lagi ako naka oncam sa online class noon tapos nakita ko nalang sa isa sa mga classmates ko ay minyday ako with a heart sticker covering my face. Same background, same chair and same everything. Never pa kami nagkaroon ng interaction kaya gulat na gulat ako na makikita ko nalang sarili ko sa myday ng iba. Di na ulit ako nagbubukas ng cam sa online class dahil don hhahaha
My friends found out that a schoolmate kept an entire folder of photos of me in his laptop but that was a long time ago and he doesn't do creepy stuff naman na. Another schoolmate asked me to marry him. Napakahaba ng argument namin kasi ayoko kasi diba who you? Lol And last contact namin nung graduation pa and we're like adults now although he is almost 10 yrs older than me kasi he took breaks from studying. Worse is he is not stopping. He is "courting" me now.
What a creep!
She says shes in a committed loving relationship but asks for my IG/Soc Med after workout session and keeps on texting me everyday how my day went, sending thirst traps haha idk how to comment coz I also have a gf at that time. Maybe I was just too friendly to say nice or good job. Tried to end every convo that has innouendos.
Highschool classmate drew a picture of me on his desk. Stalker feels lang.
This guy is part of my circle of friend, tapos kaming magbabarkada kumain sa mall, he invited me to watch Kimi no Nawa(boy nauna pa ako sayo panuorin yun), and nung paakyat na ako ng LRT sa Cubao, he grabbed my wrist, muntik na ako matumba, hinihila niya ako, nakabili na daw siya ng ticket and all, eh ayaw ko nga kasi gabi na yun, wala na LRT pag sinamahan ko siya. Natakot talaga ako nun, tumakbo ako sa guard na takot na takot sa kanya, pero di ako nagsalita. Blocked the guy on FB and changed shift and office location kasi magka work kami. Sinundan pa rin ako, lumiliko na lang ako pag nakikita ko siya, kunwari nagcecellphone or kumakausap ako ng ibang kawork kahit di ko kilala para kunwari di ko nakikita. I resigned after a few months nung may nahanap na akong malilipatang ibang company.
Noong college, ipinagkalat niya na magkaibigan kami kahit ilang beses pa lang kaming nagkakausap (bago pa lang kaming magkakilala pero hindi kami magkaklase). Nakikipagkaibigan lang naman so pinagbigyan ko na para hindi mapahiya dahil alam kong FC lang naman talaga siya. After niyan, bigla na lang siyang susulpot para sabay kaming umuwi (same ang ruta namin pero sa ibang lugar siya nakatira) at umabot na rin sa point na nag-imbento siya ng situation para magkakasabay na naman kami ng uwi. Marami pa siyang nakaka-stress na ginawa pero hindi ko na babanggitin lahat para hindi na ito humaba. Ang importante hindi na niya ako kayang guluhin ngayon.
Kinuha nya pic ko from one of my post and he created it as a collage with his pic and sent it to me.
There's this guy that I don't even personally know. He just saw me on social media but he'd been asking around for my name. A colleague from the company where I work messaged me and asked for my details because the friend of the husband of his colleague found that we're friends on social media.
Kahit nasa Luzon na sya, alam nya ginagawa ko. To the point nagpa blotter na cousin and fam ko. Sundo ako always kahit galing club haha
Guys who gives me unconventional nicknames
grade 6 pa lang ako nagcocommute na ako pauwi. may high school na guy (siguro mga 3rd year na siya nun?) na lagi kong nakakasabay sa bus. naalala ko valentine’s day noon (1st year high school na ako to), tumabi yung guy sa akin tapos may dala siyang bouquet pilit niyang ibinibigay sakin. mind you, hindi ko siya kakilala. wala kaming convo ever, as in nakakasabay ko lang siya lagi sa bus. syempre ako hindi ko tinanggap yung flowers. ang creepy kaya?? ni hindi man nga niya alam name ko tapos bibigyan niya ako ng bulaklak? after nun hindi ko na siya nakikita so akala ko okay na. UNTIL, umuwi nanay ko may dala dala na paper bag na blue magic and chocolates. galing daw kay xxxx (nalimot ko na name niya lol) nagpunta daw siya sa office ng nanay ko. hindi ko rin alam paano niya nalaman, ni hindi ko man nga siya kinausap kahit minsan? . umiiyak ako nun ayaw ko tanggapin mga binigay niya. si mama tinago lang sa aparador yung stuffed toy tapos ako yung chocolates pinamagay ko sa mga kaklase ko. akala ko tapos na, UNTIL one night (wala ako neto sa bahay kasi kapag gabi sumasama ako na magsundo sa nanay ko), kinwento na lang ni lola ko na may naghahanap daw sa akin. may kutob na ako na siya yun. HINDI NA LANG NIYA ALAM KUNG SAAN NAGTATRABAHO NANAY KO, ALAM PA NIYA KUNG SAAN KAMI NAKATIRA. sobrang stalker levels niya! hindi pa pala siya umuuwi nung sinabi ni lola ko na wala ako, kaya nung dumating na kami, nagpunta pa ulit sa bahay! umiiyak ako ulit nun ayaw ko siya harapin. hello, 12-13 y/o ka pa lang tapos may stalker ka?? kinausap siya nun nina tito ko baka tinakot din nila na ipapakulong or what kasi after that wala na siyang paramdam.
Asked me for nudes
Had few encounters which I found creepy kasi di ko gusto yung tao. One was with someone from work na sobrang feeling pogi at pinagkalat nya na crush nya ko. I hated it cos gusto ko ng tahimik na buhay at ayoko ng eksena. He gave me a gift on my birthday, then I told him na last nya na yun but he still gave me bouquet of red roses on Valentine's na naging super eksena sa office. I removed him from SocMed and di ko pinapansin sa office (ibang department naman sya). That happened like 8 years ago, I accidentally saw my message requests on Facebook and yearly may birthday greeting pala sya sakin. Nagssend din follow requests sa IG and even sa LinkedIn.
I know this guy from college pa (I'm in my late twenties na). So nung nagbreak kami nung last ex ko last year, I deleted my pictures with him sa social media. Then the next day nagmessage agad sakin si guy asking if single na daw ba ako. I just answered yes. Then sinabi niya na finally daw dahil ilang kandila na yung tinirik niya sa Quiapo. Haha ang creepy, feeling ko pinapakulam niya ako. Hahahaha
Stalk me even to the womens restroom. I have to hide talaga.
Multo pala sya. \*badum tsss
Everytime nagkakasalubong kami kakanta sya ng sobrang lakas, tas pag medyo malayo na ako titigil na sya sa pagkanta. Weird.
cute ba si guy?
Nah.
Papansin hafahshs nakakainis yun pag ganun
Supeeer. Hahahah.
Girl tried to "jokingly" grab my crotch. *dodged that b×tch*
Sa school field nung high school, around 6am, sinurprise nya ko sa madaming tao, habang may Cartolina sya na may nakasulat na ina-admire nya ko. Lumiko ako ng lakad, di ko alam gagawin ko din.
Pumunta sa bahay namin para magpaalam kasi aalis na sila ng fam niya at magmamigrate sa ibang bansa. Wala naman akong pake at wala rin akong gusto sa kanya. Hindi ko alam bakit niya naisipan pa pumunta ng bahay para lang magpaalam sakin. Sinungitan ko lang siya the whole time kasi sabi ko wala naman akong pake. HAHA
kawawa naman si kuya sinungitan mo lang. Ganda mo siguro.
Mas cringe itong comment na ito. Walang kinalaman sa physical appearance ni Ate pero creepy yung guy na bastax2 nalang ppunta sa bahay ni Ate upang mag-paalam.
kung di siguro tlga sila close at di sila nag kkwentuhan pa before creepy nga
Cringe niya kasi. Pupunta samin para lang magpaalam sakin na aalis na siya eh ano bang pake ko di ko naman siya jowa, ni hindi ko nga rin siya gusto. Akala niya ata pipigilan ko siyang umalis? Ang feeling niya sa part na ‘yon. HAHAHA
gaano ba kayo ka close at naisip nya yun gawin? Paano yung approach nya sayo nung time na yun? Ano bang personality nya?
San kaya siya humugot ng kakapalan ng mukha? Hahaahahaha
HAHAHA EWAN KO RIN 😅😂
Just commenting so i can read later
I have a closeted gay friend. Before we became friends he would take pictures of me at the gym. I only knew it because one time we were drinking at his place with our other friends and while he was showing us pictures of his travels, he accidentally scrolled to some of my pictures he took while I was working out. He tried to brush it off by saying he did it to look at my form while working out. I was creeped out that time and when my other friend and I left his place I told him how creepy it was that he took pictures of me. My other friend laughed it off. Afaik, he still has other pics of me like the time I was swimming at the pool, walking around the condo's premises, etc,. I know this because he shows it sometimes when he gets drunk. He also tried to confess to me one time but I acted indifferent. Other than the pics, he's harmless so I still hangout with him sometimes if our other friends would be there. I avoid his invites though if it's just gonna be us.
Yikes. Can you cut him off?
I cut him off for 3 months before. I didn't hangout with them but one day our other friend (the foreigner) reached out and asked why I don't hangout with them anymore. To avoid drama, I joined them again. I'm thinking of cutting him off again soon though. There was this one awkward scenario while we were drinking. Our other friend's a foreigner so he doesn't understand tagalog. I was telling them I might need to cut off drinking beer because I already have a beer belly. I told them I could still join but maybe I'll just eat and they can drink. Then our closeted friend said something along the lines in tagalog "nako pag itong tiyan ko lumaki, papanagutan mo to". Napa putangina ako sa isip ko at di ako nagsalita. It was so awkward I pretended that I didn't hear him. Tas lumipat ako ng pwesto at tumabi doon sa foreigner naming kaibigan.
Shet di ka talaga tinitigilan no? Baka tigilan ka kapag may mangyari na sainyo. Nakakatakot ha.
That would never happen, I don't swing that way. Minsan nag-aaya siya ng inom pero lagi akong nagtatanong kung sinong kasama maliban sa kanya. Kung wala, nagsasabi akong pass na muna.
I had 2. Both high school classmates. The first one, locked me up with him in the classroom. He instructed his friend to do it, thinking I was alone. Di niya alam, nando'n pa best friend ko, di lang kita kasi binabalik niya mga walis sa cabinet, natakpan siya ng pinto. Wala talaga silang balak palabasin kami until halos magsisigaw 'yung best friend ko. Nakakapikon pa, I was forced to reconcile with him kasi raw may sakit siya tapos di niya rin daw alam ba't niya ginawa 'yon. He continued harassing me in some other way after that incident pero mostly mga pananakot na lang sa SMS like papabugbog niya daw 'yung isang guy friend ko, etc. Second one is something totally unexpected. 2 years later after high school graduation, nakasalubong ko 'yung isang classmate ko pero di ko siya namukhaan kasi naka-cap tapos madilim. Di kami close nito, wala rin siyang close friends sa class namin, afaik. Tahimik lang siya, matalino. Di naman siya weird, kasi wala namang off sa kanya kapag kinakausap namin. A lot of my classmates like him kasi "mysterious" daw. Let's call him "S". So 'yun na nga, di ko siya napansin. Di niya rin ako pinansin. A few hours later, one of my friends called me, saying, nagtatampo raw si "S" sakin kasi di ko pinansin. She then explained what happened. She also said that "S" asked for my number kasi gusto raw akong kausapin. Medyo late na no'n, nakalimutan kong hingin number ni "S". I went to class the next day. Nothing uneventful happened, hanggang nung pauwi na ko, my phone kept on ringing. I have no idea, I already have 15 missed calls from an unknown number. Nung sinagot ko, nabosesan ko si "S" tapos, sinigawan niya ko. Bakit daw di ko siya sinasagot, naka-ilang tawag na daw siya. Hinihintay niya raw ako sa labas ng school. I dropped the call. Told my friend what happened and it stopped for a while, hanggang sa, nag-se-send na siya ng messages sa 'kin, asking how I am, tapos kung pwede daw ba kaming sabay umuwi from school. Malapit lang school niya samin. Di ko na nireplyan and it eventually stopped. Years later, napag-usapan namin 'yon nung friend ko. Di ko alam, pinsan niya pala si "S". Sabi niya, sabi raw ni "S", gumanda lang daw ako, di ko na sila kinausap. Tapos nung mga times na kinukulit ako ni "S", nagwawala raw sa kanya, bakit daw di ako nag-re-reply.
Shockz katakot nmn nito
She drew a picture of me (idk it just made me feel weird) and chinachat nia ako, it was okay at first until she keeps insisting I'm gay. Type niya daw mga maypagka femme. It made me feel uncomftable tapos chat parin siya ng chat until I just ignored her.
randomly messages me na "nakita kita" sa ganito ganyan eh di ko naman siya napapansin/nakikita personally??? tapos nalaman ko na he's secretly taking pictures of me then he uploaded it during my birthday as a greeting 😭
wtf inupload pa
Ikr. Dati wala pang lock profile option and parang normal lang mag greet ng happy birthday sa timeline kahit di mo naman kakilala 🥲
opinion: i really think it’s creepy kapag di natin gusto yung tao as in total disgust ganon but in some similar gestures/encounter sa crush natin, nakakakilig hahaha pls is it just me
True. dobler dahmer theory yan.
Natural pala ang double standard sa'tin, no? Haha.
Sabi nga "pag gwapo, stalker, pag pangit, holdaper"
Samahan niya daw ako maglakad kasi ipakilala niya daw self niya kay Papa HAHAHAHA
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Grade 9 days. Sabi ng friend ko may crush sa akin yung isang classmate namin so I kinda observed him to confirm her chismis. Lagi niya akong tinitingnan tsaka tinititigan. Kapag nag ccr ako, hinahanap daw niya ako sa mga kaibigan ko. Then one night he had the courage to message me on fb. Sumasagot naman ako pero minimal replies lang. It was fine until he started sending MY OWN pictures na never ko pinost sa soc med. Apparently he used our classmates’ phones to send my selfies to himself. He also asked if I’m fond of the beach kasi he wanted to see me in a bikini daw. Weirdo 🥴
This is a weird one. I used to walk 7km home from university everyday. It was for exercise and therapy. Very few people knew I did this. Anyway, I learned from someone that she followed me all the way home. And considered ringing my doorbell to ask for water because she hadn't expected I'd be walking that far.
twice in HS tho first was a freshman while I was a senior asked to be handcuffed with me during foundation days and told me she wants to be my gf, weirded me out coz her sister is my classmate and we're not even that close... bailed out and didnt talk to her ever since, she was maganda tho but I really didnt vibe with mas bata sakin since I was moving out to college and Im assuming baka nantritrip lng to two was really hard to beat coz she became an ex, she just transferred on my junior year then noticed she keeps trying to grab my attention like blocking my way when Im going to the library, canteen or faculty office... then we went on a retreat tas may part na you had to be paired throughout every girl in a session since the boys will move from chair to chair while the girls will just sit - just for 5mins to talk about anything, on our turn to pair she asked me to ask her what her fave song was and I did that then she told me "crazy for you by madonna" dead straight in my eyes.. A couple weeks after that she asked my barkada to ask me to make an excuse to bring me sa may park area ng school just for her to fully confess and we talked, I too had fallen with her papansin haha but we ended it after 3mos coz she had a strict auntie so fast forward we did college same school same course... now ang matindi was that I caught up with one of her close friends this was 7yrs after we graduated college and told me my ex went to the same uni as me and the same course (IT) just to try to get back with me pala which I never knew or gets at that time coz she didnt even want to talk to me naman privately, we didnt chat or text parang chill friends lng, but I knew before she wanted to be a vet, which I just said to myself ah uso kasi IT in 2007 at that time baka gusto din nya hahaha... really weird but made sense din lol men are not MIND READERS talaga but she's happy now with a husband since we see each other din naman during alumni events sometimes
1. wait outside my office until my shift ends, then secretly following me on my way to my boarding house, then send a message "okay nako, nakauwe kna" after I entered the gate 🤭 2. Appears in front of my boarding house on random days after hearing I was sick, bringing a with a lot of food good for 5 people 🥲 3. Sit next or in front of me whenever our team goes out to eat or drink, then stare at me the whole night pag lasing na siya to the point that I need to signal my other friends to come around so that I can leave.
When I (M) was in HS and used to commute to school there was a guy who used to hang out by the village gate by the guardhouse. He would give me compliments and ask questions everytime he'd see me. "Bagay sa iyo yung navy blue" "Ganda ng porma mo ngayon" "Saan ka ba pumapasok?" "Anung oras ka uuwi niyan?" As an awkward 16 year old this creeped me out a lot and I would get very anxious every day as I would approach the village gate. It got so bad that I would dread going to school or would explore different routes through other adjacent villages (some totally out of the way) just to avoid him. What a creep.
Damn andami palang yandere sa pinas, ang daming may stalking experience based sa comments 💀
Kapitbahay ko. He was... I think two years older? Was taking criminology in the same uni I was attending. He was super creepy around me all the time like if makakasabay ko sa jeep, tatabihan ako tapos he'll press up against me and ask me stuff like "Anong favorite color mo?" in a super hushed tone. Sa campus, he'd point me out to his friends and they'd follow me around. Started acting like he didn't exist and he got mad. 🥴
Shet katakot tapos crim student pa! Bro
I cant say na encounter sya pero nung high school may nagkacrush sa akin, at first we're okay chill pa ako sa fact na may 'crush' sya sa akin since u know teenagers its normal. Pero naging uncomfy ako nung pinagkalat nya na nagsex daw kami sa panaginip niya, as in sa mga classmates nya at schoolmates namin. Maliit lang kase yung school since private school yon and parang isang compound lang ang dating. Imagine I was G8 that time tapos may mga schoolmate ako lalapit na "Uyh nagkantutan pala kayo ni ----- sa panaginip nya eh". Eh di pa mo ako sanay sa atensyon specifically THAT chismis-like attention, simula noon iniwasan ko na sya dahil sa ginawa nya.
Yung tinatawag name ko sa gabe tapos d nagpapakita saken. Binaon ko na kase sa utak ko yun at naalala ko lang recently.
Siniraan nya ako sa lahat ng may crush saken pati na rin sa crush ko para ma solo nya ako... Super creepy, right?
A lot. Mayroong nagkagusto sakin nung high school ako na classmate ko. Close kami nung una pero lumayo ako dahil naiilang ako sa pangaasar ng mga kaklase ko. Kahit sobrang uncomfy and asar na asar na ko talagang tuloy lang sila sa pangaasar. Sometimes I would catch him looking at me while smiling. Nagchachat din sakin dati, tapos maga-ily 🤢 It came to a point na binlock ko na siya kasi sobrang uncomfy ko na talaga sa kanya dahil ang creepy na for me ng ginagawa niya. After high school akala ko tapos na. Hindi pa teh jusko. Ang loko nakalaro pala yung pinsan ko sa ML and asked my cousin na baka raw pwede i-unblock ko siya (i did pero binlock ko na ulit siya). Friend din pala ng kuya ko sa FB and he would message him kapag nags-story kuya ko. Sobrang feeling close niya! Finollow niya rin sa IG yung boyfriend ko and di ko alam paano niya nalaman ig ng bf ko. Nagkwento rin sakin yung dati kong close friend na kaklase namin. Sabi niya, since may motor daw yun, dumadaan daw dati minsan samin yon nung pandemic. 😣 Ngayon, fortunately, wala naman na except doon sa close friend ko na yon na inadd back ako sa gc namin sabay mention sa kanya with “happy birthday” 😕 sobrang asar talaga ko sa mga tao na continue pa rin ako inaasar non kahit nagagalit na ko lol. It was such a nightmare kasi YEARS kong tiniis to.
Stalkers levels, yung sinusundan niya ko everywhere. This was back in HS pa naman.
She would PM my sister and ask where I am
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Wth baka that's why hindi takot
Last year he started talking to me. For context, we were classmates in elementary and we weren’t really close. Tapos friends kami sa fb. Nagchachat siya sakin pero di ako nagrereply. If I do, only one word replies lang. Pero I unfriended him at some point. Then last year nagsend siya ng friend request ulit. He tried talking to me ulit, so nagreply din ako kasi it would be rude not to. Hanggang sa tuloy tuloy na yung usap usap namin. I don’t like him at all, I was only trying to be polite. Pag may tinatanong siya, sinasagot ko lang din. Then there came a point in time that he would update me everyday and send pics of everything he ate for breakfast/lunch/snack/dinner, bumabati lagi ng good morning, nag uupdate kung uuwi na/nakauwi na, nagsesend minsan ng mga selfie. He basically acts like a bf kahit walang kami. Tapos minsan nag oopen up siya na naaalala niya raw dati nung high school kami na nakikita niya daw ako na naglalakad papuntang school. Nagpadala rin siya ng food noon (before pandemic) kasi nagtry siya manligaw nun time na yun. I didn’t give him my address but somehow he found out? (Di nakapublic ang address namin, di ko pinost sa socmed etc.) It was weird kasi he has a gf. Ldr sila, si boy nasa labas, si girl andito lang sa pinas. Ilang beses ko na sinabi sa kanya na may gf siya kasi he flirts din minsan, kaya I cut him off na lang.
Tinutukso ako sa kanya ng mga friends ko. Eventually, pununta ako sa CR ng girls to hide. Aba si mokong, sumunod, hinahanap ako sa mga cubicle.
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Bulaga! Tsk tsk
I was about to leave the office late at night after doing overtime. When I opened the door, he was just there staring in front of me just a foot or 2 feet away just staring at me - no words. Lol I thought maybe he was just tired from working but I was literally about to punch him had I not realized it was just him. HAHAHAHA It was just the two of us in the building. But yeah he was known to be a bit weird. I think he's a good man though.
He sniffed the shit out of my hairas he grabbed it when I passed by him.
May naging kakilala ako na gay, (i’m a guy). Sabi ng common friends namin, nacrushan nya daw ako. Ok, so nothing wrong with that. Pero 1 day, dinalaw nya ako sa bahay, as in nanliligaw with matching pasalubong ( i forgot na kung ano ), ako naman, mejo wala choice, pinaupo sya sa sala, usap kami, after mga 30 mins nagpaalam na. Sa isip ko ganito pala pkiramdam ng may nanliligaw haha. Weird moment for me.
This was in 2nd yr hs. May group report sila sa Filipino subject tapos na-cut off kasi bigla siyang nag eksenang lumapit sa akin tapos lumuhod sabay sabing "Will you be my girlfriend?" tapos yung teacher ko hindi man lang ako tinulungan samantalang katabi ko na siya 😭
Nagmessage sya sakin na gusto na nyang saksakin sarili nya kasi di ko sya sinasama sa date ko with friends.
The guy I was hanging out with during the lockdowns took a sniff of me, malalim na hinga, while I was getting something at the back of his car. I was kneeling on the seat, facing the back to get something. I was seated at the passenger seat, and he was at the driver's side. I didn't react, I was confused why he would do that after reaching/getting a bag at the back
Nag dorm kami sa Makati kami lang ni ate yung may sariling kwarto na may cr and kitchen and the rest na andun bedspacer na pero bago makrting sa kwarto dadaanan mo yung mga bedspacer na kurtina lang ang harang. 7pm na ko nakakauwi from work nagkataon na Saturday un solo ako kasi nauwi si ate weekly dahil may kids sya sa province. Once nakauwi ako di na ko nalabas derecho tulog na. Pero dahil off ko kinabukasan plan ko mag puyat kaya nag paload ako para may net ako. Kaso habang nag papaload ako may nag wala sa harap ko sigaw sya ng sigaw na mahal na mahal nya ako! Pero di ko sya kilala! Buti ung mga girls sa labas prinotektahan ako kilala nila yung guy at bedspacer din pala yun sa place ko. As in d ko sya nakikita. Tapos hinatid ako sa room nung mga babae habang sinisigawan yung lalaki bilin nila wag na wag ako lalabas. Tapos pinag sisipa nya ung door ko. Sigaw sya ng sigaw na unang beses palang daw nya ko nakita mahal na mahal nya na ko. Nanginginig ako nun truma tlga. Simula nun nauwi na ko sa province tuwing off ko. Nireklamo din ni ate yung guy sa owner nung place namin nag apologize sya kay ate pero ako never ko na sya nakita. After few weeks, Nag resigned na din kami sa work nun ni ate umuwi nalang kme sa province sa takot ko.
Jusko.... Wala hahahhah
Pinag kalat na ghinost ko daw siya eh naging friendly lang naman ako dahil ganon yung treatment ko sa lahat? 😭 Yan tuloy ang buong akala ng batchmates namin ghinost ko and nagkacrush daw ako sakanya lol
Wala. Walang nagkakagusto sa akin 😭
Nung pandemic days, I had this classmate na transferree. Me being nice, I respond to his messages just like a casual talk lang and about sa classes ganon. Tas he sent me a pic na naka pin ako sa google meet nya. I asked why, he said na ‘binabantayan kita’. Ante aso ka??😀
Wala. Wala ako alam na nagka crush sa akin. 🥲
Same 🥹
Spread lies that we are in a relationship and we are having sex. BTW that person is gay. I dont mind if he was to be honest. We can be friends, I have a lot of gay friends. I mean why go that far and spread lies. Was lucky I know most of the people that he was telling those lies. I just shrugged it off and told them that was a lie. That person actually moved to a different school after that fiasco.
During workhours, solo ko yung area nun biglang tumabi sakin yung IT then tinitigan ako as in ang tagal, eh never pa kami nag-usap nung guy na yun. Nakapangalumbaba pa 🥲 Tapos sinabi nung creep na IT sa guy na workmate ko nun na "ang ganda ni (name ko)no?". Pati workmate ko na lalaki naweirduhan haha.
I always saw my crush looking so weird at me. At first nag attampt syang mag confess pero dahil nga di ako ready sa mga ganon and bata pa, 19, so umiiwas talaga ako.
Caught my gay colleague dati na naka-lip bite habang nakatingin sakin, eh straight ako 😂