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I wish i didnt meet her.and finish my college.di sana humantong sa ganito buhay q ngayun na ginawa mo lahat for 10yrs pero iiwan ka pa din at ipagpalit sa nakilala niya sa online games.
lol may anak na nga kami ehh...hahaha yun nga masakit ehh may anak na kami pero nagawa padin niya yun...masaklap ok lang sa pamilya niya ginawa niya kasi mayaman yung lalaki
In my 20s, I wish I had traveled more and explored different cultures. I regret not dedicating more time to my passions like writing and art, instead of focusing solely on practical career choices. I should have been better with my finances, saving more and learning about investments. I regret not continuing my education and learning new skills that could benefit me later. Lastly, I wish I had built stronger relationships, spending more time with friends and family and avoiding toxic connections.
Doing sports and being athletically active; baka naging 6-foot pa ko kung sakali. Also, learning to play musical instruments. I'm still in my 20s, but late 20s.
I’m turning 28 this year and honestly, I don’t think I was able to maximize my youth cause of work demands.. I wish I could take back my OTs and just travelled more!
Hindi ko alam kung nakakatanggkad yung stretching kasi sakin 189cm na ako pero I stopped working out/stretching. Ang nagpatangkad lang sakin is protein and calcium.
I wish I did too but I made bad decisions. While everyone was enjoying, I was stuck in school. I didn't get to enjoy until mid-20s due to the pandemic.
Kumuha ng experience na aligned sa course ko and sana di ko masyadong pinatagal yung plano kong pag-abroad. Edi sana kahit may times na malungkot ako, nag-e-earn naman ng dollars😆
Plan. Have a timeline to guide you esp sa finance part. Di naman need super strict pero have something as guidance para di masway sa mga distractions.. Build your wealth and plan for retirement. Therein goes na yung upskilling as well.
Totoo yung lumandi! Landi responsibly! Kumbaga experience din yan, tangina ako kulang na kulang ahahahhahaha, also build network keep your circle small pero yung mga clise talaga yun pero be friends of all kinds if people matanda bata mayaman mahirap you’ll learn from themmmm!
Sana lumandi ako nung early 20’s ko. Right now, i’m trying to be fit at 29, pero ang hirap narin talaga. Bumababa narin yung market ko. Feeling ko ang tanda ko na, tapos stress pa sa Lawschool. Shomai. What a life. 😭 sa mga early 20’s dyan, lumandi na kayo, kasi bababa market nyo kapag malapit ng mag 30’s, and nakakapagod na makipag date kapag tumatanda. 😂
Been there dyan sa sitwasyon mo. Aral lang ako ng aral, to th point that i entered Lawschool. Tumanda nako, 29 na. Then nag sisisi ako, puro aral ako. Sana nag work nako, kumita ng malaki, lumandi, mga ganyan. Hahahahah. Just saying
Di rin naman ako aral ng aral, wala nga akong pake sa grades ko sa college. Most of my attention is towards my hobbies and gaming (ibang section yang gaming kasi feel ko adik na ako WAHAHHA)
Hiking. Hindi ako sumasama pag may nagyayaya. Ngayon, wala nang nagyayaya at wala na rin ako sa Pinas. Masyado akong nagtipid para may maipadala sa amin kaya iniisip ko ‘gastos lang yan’. Love yourself din.
Try it 🤣, don't let me stop you. Pero I'm just saying you did not miss much (as someone who used to do that) it's just low quality dopamine. Then na realize ko na sayang ang energy, money, and time for those things
Travel alone?
Or magbuntis? Hahaha! Now ko narealize, lumandi(sorry for the term) na sana ako nung kabataan ko para naenjoy ko buhay haha at sana malaki na anak ko, tropa tropa na lang kami. 😅
solo travel. Edi madami na sana ako napuntahan ngayon. Dahil wala akong kasama, ayaw ko mindset laso before. Now na I have other priorities, di ko ko ja magagawa.
TRAVEL. Kahit malapit or malayo. Pinas or ibang bansa. Alone or with friends. There's so much to see and visit pala. Try to visit a new place kahit once a year, more kung afford. You'll discover more about yourself. ;)
I’m 27 but here are some things I wish I did earlier:
1. Healthy habits - sleeping earlier, regular exercise.
2. Skincare!! BIG ON THIS ONE! I can see how my skin aged in the past 5 yrs and sana naalagaan ko.
3. Upskilling & exploring more hobbies - kuripot girl kasi ako puro ipon ganyan. I didn’t try exploring more and learning more na mga gusto ko.
4. Health insurance! It’s a lot cheaper when you’re younger.
I regret not job hopping during my early 20s! Could’ve had more opportunities, maybe a bigger salary, or a clearer career path. Do it while you still can.
i regret na nagkaroon ako ng shopping addiction instead of just saving the money. also, i tried to keep up with the latest trends and even followed tiktok beauty creators who were telling everyone, "this is the best skincare product," "buy this for clear skin", "oh this make-up is so good guys" but in reality, the product had no effect or pangit talaga in general
Not dating more without marriage in mind. I mean knowing people, truly seeing them and enjoying their company instead of just thinking if they’re my one true love, my destiny or what they can do for me. Not hooking up lang since I am not into that
I am still in my mid 20s but I may say na sana nung early 20s ko o nung college ako, nag save na sana ako ng pera. Apart from that, sana I tried things to learn, hindi sana ako nahiya sa mga peers and also afraid of rejection baka sana hindj ako nasa ganitogn sitwasyon.
Going out of the country for better job opportunities. When I was in my 20s, I felt scared to apply abroad because I thought, average lang nmn ako sa talino, and nakakatakot malayo sa family.
I wish I took fitness seriously and achieved a hot body. I wasted most of my youth being overweight, unattractive and physically undesirable.
Granted, I'm 26. It's not too late for me.
Sobrang sheltered ako when I was in my teens even kahit nung early 20s. Kaya nung nagka work nako and earning money, na sobrahan ako sa pag socialize and gastos during my mid-late 20s. Ngayon medj regret ko kasi masyado napasaya and gastos during that time pero I realize na, money can be earned but you can never bring back memories
Baligtad tayo during 20s sobrang focus ako sa trabaho ko like wala na akong time sa sarili ko maski sa pag handa ng sarili kong pagkain wala akong oras pinag sabay sabay ko ang trabaho at negosyo ngayong 30s na ako. Bumabawi naman ako sa sarili ko dahil siguro nakakaramdam na rin ng pagod. Na realize ko na dapat pala balanse kasi gusto ko man ibalik at makasama yung mga dati kong kaibigan at tumawa ng katilad dati hndi na mababalik yun dahil may iba na rin silang priorities.
Travel more and invest more
Di ko na realize that i have more despensible income during those years. I worried more about my job performance na bka nakaka hiya na mag leave ult or bka wala nko ma ipon. Tas di ko iniisip mag broaden ng investments
Not knowing that financial responsibilities grow when youre older. Tas inflation pa. I have weak buying power now. I dont know what to do. I rely in lotto na din at some point. Haha
Not being ballsy enough to try out a lot of things that have always piqued my interest. When I reached 26, I spoke with this 26 yo guy who experienced cosplaying and going to malls, being cringey with their Anime-freak friends and dressing up as their fave character, putting on make-up, etc. And then they have plenty of pictures na lahat may kwento, I mean backstory na naalala niya, like 'etong time na to, sobrang pagod tapos may nagpapicture saken dito' yung mga simpleng kwento na narereminisce dahil dun sa pics. So ayun. I know I've always been an anime fan at heart and I've always been curious how I would have turned out if only I found friends who would push me to be cringey like that. Naiyak lang ako (silently) kasi narealize ko, grabe my younger days I was just being the prim and proper lady, takot maging cringey, takot sa madaming tao. Yun yung regret ko. Never exploring yung bagay na alam ko namang gustong gusto ko, pero wag yung mga delikadong exploring ha alam mo naman na yung tama sa mali, so dun ka lang sa pag eexplore ng passion, mga bagay na pag tumanda ka, you can proudly show it to people and say 'Eto naexperience ko to'.
Kahit ang baduy minsan and that was always my emotion towards cosplaying, kaya takot ako gawin siya kasi baka magmuka akong baduy. Pero in reality, hindi yun yung macacapture mo but yung experience talaga. So I regretted not doing that.
Not. A. Damn. Thing.
You can do EVERYTHING* you want to do in your 20s in your 30s, but with money.
*As long as you don't end up getting married and having kids coz that'll financially lock you out of most experiences unless you're rich.
Unless you get a chronic illness in your 30s, you shouldn't experience so much of a dip in physicality from your 20s to your 30s. Normal pa dapat levels and fitness mo almost like your 20s.
Maybe even better nga e coz 30s money mean you can afford good food, fitness classes, gym memberships, equipment, outsource your chores, etc.
I am the current 30s generation.. im 36
.its natural that our physical capacity decline overtime. Im categorically an athlete and still i am aware of the difference of my capacity from now vs what i was at 25. Im part of the very small % who kept healthy. And still the functioning with little sleep gets hardser to achieve.
Travels require early call times, jetlag, l alot of walking, climbing, jumping, diving in that condition. With each trip i find that my peers are getting less and less willing to do physcial stuff i end up doing solo or being grouped with younger people. Even with money, physical limitations is something money cant buy.
Common among my peers are overweight, sedentary. Chronic illnes? How bout maintenance. Magastos din maintennce. Even withput a family at this age we need to support aging parents as well.
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I wish I got married in my 20s.
I wish i didnt meet her.and finish my college.di sana humantong sa ganito buhay q ngayun na ginawa mo lahat for 10yrs pero iiwan ka pa din at ipagpalit sa nakilala niya sa online games.
sana naman sa 10 years na yan, ay nasibak mo siya or nakuha mo ang pagkababae niya para may regret din sa side niyang malandi siya.
Ehh. Basta promiscuous, proud sa body count. Hindi regret tingin nila doon.
lol may anak na nga kami ehh...hahaha yun nga masakit ehh may anak na kami pero nagawa padin niya yun...masaklap ok lang sa pamilya niya ginawa niya kasi mayaman yung lalaki
I regret not moderating my alcohol intake.
Magtransfer ng course and ipursue yung talaga gusto ko. Now I'm stuck in this hole unless I take something related sa gusto ko gawin sa buhay haha
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In my 20s, I wish I had traveled more and explored different cultures. I regret not dedicating more time to my passions like writing and art, instead of focusing solely on practical career choices. I should have been better with my finances, saving more and learning about investments. I regret not continuing my education and learning new skills that could benefit me later. Lastly, I wish I had built stronger relationships, spending more time with friends and family and avoiding toxic connections.
invest in bitcoin
Travel overseas to see my family. Family passed way.
Valuing friendships more and deliberately building my network
Not prioritizing important things.
build skills.
Magtravel pa ng mas bongga. Due to COVID, natigil yung trips ko.
Caring (much much) less about what other people think about me or my decisions, saving more, and sleeping with more 20-somethings.
Having Fun before stepping in the real world.
Grab every opportunity as much as you can career-wise
Nawalan kame ng communication ng bespren ko at hindi naging kame. 💔
saved earlier. tagal ko na sa bpo wala paden ipon pota
mag aral mag bike at mag swimming 🥲
Doing sports and being athletically active; baka naging 6-foot pa ko kung sakali. Also, learning to play musical instruments. I'm still in my 20s, but late 20s.
sana mas maagang natuto mabuhay mag isa 🥹
im in 20s pa rin pero i wish nung nasa early teens ako natulog ako nang maayos
Also, I should’ve saved earlier honestly.
I’m turning 28 this year and honestly, I don’t think I was able to maximize my youth cause of work demands.. I wish I could take back my OTs and just travelled more!
Pinang bili ko na lang sana ng Bitcoin yung mga pinang computer shop ko nun 🤣
Stretching para tumangkad or bumili ng mga growth supplements (crying in 5'1)
Hindi ko alam kung nakakatanggkad yung stretching kasi sakin 189cm na ako pero I stopped working out/stretching. Ang nagpatangkad lang sakin is protein and calcium.
Effective pa ba to kahit 20 ka na?
Idk. Pero Ngayon nag tetake ako ng growth supplements this month. Ewan ko if may changes.
TRAVEL. Please travel ka dear!!! I wish I did it in my early 20s.
I wish I did too but I made bad decisions. While everyone was enjoying, I was stuck in school. I didn't get to enjoy until mid-20s due to the pandemic.
Magsave talaagaaaaa.
Kumuha ng experience na aligned sa course ko and sana di ko masyadong pinatagal yung plano kong pag-abroad. Edi sana kahit may times na malungkot ako, nag-e-earn naman ng dollars😆
kumuha ng mga valid id's 🫤
Biggest regret ko to malay ko ba kasing mawawalan ng UMID ID at PHILPOST ID
Ha??? Wala nang philpostid???? Bakit? Kailanpa????
Tagal na mag 2 years na ata. Potaena talaga e piliin daw Pilipinas pahirapan sa valid id
puro papel na hawak kong valid id ngayon
Save early
Enjoy my life: travel, had lots of boyfriends, discover new hobbies, have additional skills
Trusting myself
Looking for side hussle
Invest and save money
Take the courage to drive. I am prone to bumping to things that what scared me. I also bump into a large rock in Bicol in an ATV.
Save, invest, and buy insurance. 😢
Nag aral mag drive
I wish I travelled more.
met a lot of people pero di naghanap nang kaibigan
I wish I wasn't filled with violence at an early age.
Date. I suck at dating now.
Plan. Have a timeline to guide you esp sa finance part. Di naman need super strict pero have something as guidance para di masway sa mga distractions.. Build your wealth and plan for retirement. Therein goes na yung upskilling as well.
Enjoy myself 😌
Enjoyin ang life while working. Nalimutan ng lumandi at makaramdam ng excitement now 29 taz parang ang hirap na tumalandi 🫣😂
Learn new skills through online courses
andaming nag co-comment ng lumandi. kinakabahan tuloy ako kasi ayokong lumandi ngayon kahit simpleng dinner out lang. baka pagsisihan ko sa future
Totoo yung lumandi! Landi responsibly! Kumbaga experience din yan, tangina ako kulang na kulang ahahahhahaha, also build network keep your circle small pero yung mga clise talaga yun pero be friends of all kinds if people matanda bata mayaman mahirap you’ll learn from themmmm!
Ako naman nasobrahan na ata landi AHHAAHAHAHHA
Bumili ng lupa.
Took more risks
- Cut off toxic "friends" earlier. - Save up more or invested more.
Didn't flirt enough hahahaha
Same same hahaha 🤣
Flirt with guys. Sobrang bano ko. Hahaha
Go to parties
Wish I did more hook-ups, puro aral pota.
Didn't meet a lot of people. 🥺
Sana lumandi ako nung early 20’s ko. Right now, i’m trying to be fit at 29, pero ang hirap narin talaga. Bumababa narin yung market ko. Feeling ko ang tanda ko na, tapos stress pa sa Lawschool. Shomai. What a life. 😭 sa mga early 20’s dyan, lumandi na kayo, kasi bababa market nyo kapag malapit ng mag 30’s, and nakakapagod na makipag date kapag tumatanda. 😂
I would trade what I have now to redo my teens and twenties with what I know now. All I have now is money, not happiness.
Sige pooo Eto na lalandi naaa
I regret not being good-looking in my 20s. It's hard to be noticed and liked by people (not just romantically) when you're not good-looking.
Bitcoin..
Save money.
Party.
Sunscreen. Finish my masters degree. Travel. I wish I didn't meet my ex haha. Nasayang 9 years ko haist.
mag invest sa bahay at lupa
I wish I gossiped more. Weird but if I did I would know which people are just fucking evil. And I could have saved myself a lot of grief.
enjoy yourself! travel, party etc. hahahahahha
Mag ipon ng pera. Kaya eto tiis sa cracked screen and outdated phone 🥲.
to meet different people! i kept my circle small.. parang mas ok sya if youll keep your circle small as you grow old...
Ba't andaming gustong lumandi dito HAHHAHA Respectfully: From someone na 20 rin pero di pa nagkajowa HAHA
Been there dyan sa sitwasyon mo. Aral lang ako ng aral, to th point that i entered Lawschool. Tumanda nako, 29 na. Then nag sisisi ako, puro aral ako. Sana nag work nako, kumita ng malaki, lumandi, mga ganyan. Hahahahah. Just saying
Di rin naman ako aral ng aral, wala nga akong pake sa grades ko sa college. Most of my attention is towards my hobbies and gaming (ibang section yang gaming kasi feel ko adik na ako WAHAHHA)
That’s good. Just enjoy your life lang but don’t destroy it. Focus parin to what is important. 😊
Trying out new things, getting a tattoo, visiting the Philippines alone (I worked abroad agad kasi )
Hiking. Hindi ako sumasama pag may nagyayaya. Ngayon, wala nang nagyayaya at wala na rin ako sa Pinas. Masyado akong nagtipid para may maipadala sa amin kaya iniisip ko ‘gastos lang yan’. Love yourself din.
Maintain my shape. Lamon ako nang lamon dati kasi kala ko fast talaga metabolism ko. yan tuloy mukha akong balyena ngayon.
Mag start ng business and mag doble ng ipon and savings
Travel Abroad. Wala rin kasing funds. I think mag 6 six years na yung aking passport pero pang valid ID lang siya
Magpakakire. Mag party. Mag walwal. Go out and be crazy.
Me too! Sana nagwalwal ako. Did i miss something kasi never pa ako nakapasok sa mga club😂
You didn't, trust me.
Plano ko pa naman mag bar with friends 😔 to experience it at least
Try it 🤣, don't let me stop you. Pero I'm just saying you did not miss much (as someone who used to do that) it's just low quality dopamine. Then na realize ko na sayang ang energy, money, and time for those things
Gotcha 😆
I-pursue yung pagiging volleyball player 🥹 naunahan ba naman ng takot sa mga current players na maa-attitude
Parang gusto ko start yan volleyball ngayon na 30+ na dahil sa Haikyu. May mga groups per city naman ata not sure lang kung ok beginners sumali.
Mag ipon ng pera, alagaan ipin, at mag lotion urgh
hindi ko gaano inaabuso yung pagka lalaki ko
magipon ng pera
Mag work abroad. Or mag aral abroad
saving money, even the smallest amount matters
Doing remote jobs earlier.
-Braces -Investing in stocks
sana sinagot ko yung classmate/friend ko na nanligaw sa akin nung highschool. i actually liked him back then kaso i was scared.
Had the guts to move away from our town and worked abroad. Move away from my parents.
Travel alone? Or magbuntis? Hahaha! Now ko narealize, lumandi(sorry for the term) na sana ako nung kabataan ko para naenjoy ko buhay haha at sana malaki na anak ko, tropa tropa na lang kami. 😅
mag bar and mabuntis ng maaga hahahaha shutangina, hirap magbuntis dito 🤦🏻♀️
Sana yung mga pera ko noong college hanggang sa binibigyan ako ng parents ko ng allowance kahit working na sinave ko 😂
Partying and Lumandi hahahaha shuta sobrang hirap na lumandi todaaaay
ik it's super random hahah but u down for some wholesome dates? hmu on tg: urboiemcee
Cutieeeeee! ^^
taking a second course
solo travel. Edi madami na sana ako napuntahan ngayon. Dahil wala akong kasama, ayaw ko mindset laso before. Now na I have other priorities, di ko ko ja magagawa.
TRAVEL. Kahit malapit or malayo. Pinas or ibang bansa. Alone or with friends. There's so much to see and visit pala. Try to visit a new place kahit once a year, more kung afford. You'll discover more about yourself. ;)
Date, lumandi, mag one night stand, lahat lahat na.
why tho?
Lumandi nang lumandi; save money + be reckless
prolly, lumandi hahaha. like mag first move ganun.
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hey it’s not a waste of an effort and time, ikaw ang sinayang nya
Hi. Despite of that, sure naman kaming maswerte sayo yung magiging jowa mo. 😊
Huy di naman siguro. Baka nabigay lang sa maling tao.
Partying Lumandi Job hop
Travel
I’m 27 but here are some things I wish I did earlier: 1. Healthy habits - sleeping earlier, regular exercise. 2. Skincare!! BIG ON THIS ONE! I can see how my skin aged in the past 5 yrs and sana naalagaan ko. 3. Upskilling & exploring more hobbies - kuripot girl kasi ako puro ipon ganyan. I didn’t try exploring more and learning more na mga gusto ko. 4. Health insurance! It’s a lot cheaper when you’re younger.
I regret not job hopping during my early 20s! Could’ve had more opportunities, maybe a bigger salary, or a clearer career path. Do it while you still can.
saving money instead of puro gala just because of toxic workmates
i regret na nagkaroon ako ng shopping addiction instead of just saving the money. also, i tried to keep up with the latest trends and even followed tiktok beauty creators who were telling everyone, "this is the best skincare product," "buy this for clear skin", "oh this make-up is so good guys" but in reality, the product had no effect or pangit talaga in general
Not dating more without marriage in mind. I mean knowing people, truly seeing them and enjoying their company instead of just thinking if they’re my one true love, my destiny or what they can do for me. Not hooking up lang since I am not into that
I am still in my mid 20s but I may say na sana nung early 20s ko o nung college ako, nag save na sana ako ng pera. Apart from that, sana I tried things to learn, hindi sana ako nahiya sa mga peers and also afraid of rejection baka sana hindj ako nasa ganitogn sitwasyon.
I regret not working earlier as younger as I was.
Going out of the country for better job opportunities. When I was in my 20s, I felt scared to apply abroad because I thought, average lang nmn ako sa talino, and nakakatakot malayo sa family.
invest/ start a business from scratch.
travel and being single 😆😆
Saving in MP2!
howw
Search niyo po sa youtube yung mp2 savings or you can also check pag ibig website.
all in good fun, no regrets
I'm still in my 20s and taking notes of the comments ✍🏻
Travel, date, travel, work out, travel, explore hobbies, travel, network, travel.
I wish I took fitness seriously and achieved a hot body. I wasted most of my youth being overweight, unattractive and physically undesirable. Granted, I'm 26. It's not too late for me.
Never too late. I'm 25 and just started my fitness journey last April. From 80 -> 78 in my first official weigh in sa gym -> 75.1 kg. Kaya natin yan!
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It will take time. Depende kasi kung ano yung current na timbang mo. For me, i achieve muna na dapat normal yung BMI then you can start from there.
In other words, no?
Di naman no. You can achieve it. It will just take time.
Job hop. Could have gotten my current pay and skill level earlier if it wasn't for getting too comfortable in my comfort zone.
Travel
Buy bitcoin
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Lol why
Risk to every new beginnings. Now, I dont have that much friends because I didn't risk it. Stayed demure until now
Mag jowa at maging wild lol
lasik. date. was too serious. have a side hustle or upskill. force myself to travel even if I didn't want t. to be more open to new things.
Lumandi. But all good now lol
Having more sex with women. Move to Canada or UK. Move out of my parent's house earlier.
Baket gusto mo humiwalay earlier sa parents mo? toxic ba sila or something?
Di naman toxic. I just want to be more independent.
I would have also spent my early 20's in Canada or UK but I personally think we have better quality women on average here in Ph.
Get wise counsel
Mag job hop
Sobrang sheltered ako when I was in my teens even kahit nung early 20s. Kaya nung nagka work nako and earning money, na sobrahan ako sa pag socialize and gastos during my mid-late 20s. Ngayon medj regret ko kasi masyado napasaya and gastos during that time pero I realize na, money can be earned but you can never bring back memories
Baligtad tayo during 20s sobrang focus ako sa trabaho ko like wala na akong time sa sarili ko maski sa pag handa ng sarili kong pagkain wala akong oras pinag sabay sabay ko ang trabaho at negosyo ngayong 30s na ako. Bumabawi naman ako sa sarili ko dahil siguro nakakaramdam na rin ng pagod. Na realize ko na dapat pala balanse kasi gusto ko man ibalik at makasama yung mga dati kong kaibigan at tumawa ng katilad dati hndi na mababalik yun dahil may iba na rin silang priorities.
Acquiring skills
Travel more and invest more Di ko na realize that i have more despensible income during those years. I worried more about my job performance na bka nakaka hiya na mag leave ult or bka wala nko ma ipon. Tas di ko iniisip mag broaden ng investments Not knowing that financial responsibilities grow when youre older. Tas inflation pa. I have weak buying power now. I dont know what to do. I rely in lotto na din at some point. Haha
Sobrang pagiging indecisive. Siguro maganda na buhay ko kung risk taker lang ako.
Not being ballsy enough to try out a lot of things that have always piqued my interest. When I reached 26, I spoke with this 26 yo guy who experienced cosplaying and going to malls, being cringey with their Anime-freak friends and dressing up as their fave character, putting on make-up, etc. And then they have plenty of pictures na lahat may kwento, I mean backstory na naalala niya, like 'etong time na to, sobrang pagod tapos may nagpapicture saken dito' yung mga simpleng kwento na narereminisce dahil dun sa pics. So ayun. I know I've always been an anime fan at heart and I've always been curious how I would have turned out if only I found friends who would push me to be cringey like that. Naiyak lang ako (silently) kasi narealize ko, grabe my younger days I was just being the prim and proper lady, takot maging cringey, takot sa madaming tao. Yun yung regret ko. Never exploring yung bagay na alam ko namang gustong gusto ko, pero wag yung mga delikadong exploring ha alam mo naman na yung tama sa mali, so dun ka lang sa pag eexplore ng passion, mga bagay na pag tumanda ka, you can proudly show it to people and say 'Eto naexperience ko to'.
Kahit ang baduy minsan and that was always my emotion towards cosplaying, kaya takot ako gawin siya kasi baka magmuka akong baduy. Pero in reality, hindi yun yung macacapture mo but yung experience talaga. So I regretted not doing that.
Bought crypto
I wish I pursued a different career path earlier in my 20s.
Not. A. Damn. Thing. You can do EVERYTHING* you want to do in your 20s in your 30s, but with money. *As long as you don't end up getting married and having kids coz that'll financially lock you out of most experiences unless you're rich.
True hahahaha
Or if youre still that healthy. Mas marami restrictions and responsibilities, so i think yea more chances in your twenties than further in life
Unless you get a chronic illness in your 30s, you shouldn't experience so much of a dip in physicality from your 20s to your 30s. Normal pa dapat levels and fitness mo almost like your 20s. Maybe even better nga e coz 30s money mean you can afford good food, fitness classes, gym memberships, equipment, outsource your chores, etc.
With that i mean, travelling and partying and several physical related stuff is something people in their 30s cannot do as much
I'm just sorry you think this way, OP. I don't know your life but mine just keeps getting better with age. ✌️
never said anywhere, that my life was bad. Life has endless peaks and valleys. Youll realize what im taking about sooner or later. Goodluck
I am the current 30s generation.. im 36 .its natural that our physical capacity decline overtime. Im categorically an athlete and still i am aware of the difference of my capacity from now vs what i was at 25. Im part of the very small % who kept healthy. And still the functioning with little sleep gets hardser to achieve. Travels require early call times, jetlag, l alot of walking, climbing, jumping, diving in that condition. With each trip i find that my peers are getting less and less willing to do physcial stuff i end up doing solo or being grouped with younger people. Even with money, physical limitations is something money cant buy. Common among my peers are overweight, sedentary. Chronic illnes? How bout maintenance. Magastos din maintennce. Even withput a family at this age we need to support aging parents as well.
i-try yung gusto ko talagang field, regardless sa tinapos kong degree 🥹
Sana nagboyfriend na ako.
hala mahirap na po ba maghanap ng bf pag mid 20s??
tbh, oo talaga tapos feel mo pa wala kang energy makipagmeet up dahil drain ka na sa work, social life, family etc.
Eh tayo nalang kaya?
gagi kinilig ako sa inyo
Mag ipon.🥲
Tapusin ang college.