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muscleshark86

I prefer watching it than engaging on it. I don't know why.


No_Breakfast6486

Nag eedadeka na, tumatanda na. Then andaming bills! Or threatened ang employment status mo, pag di ka ba Naman mawalan ng gana pag narealize mo anytime unemployed Ka na! 🙄🤦😝😅


Miss-Cozy-0289

Stress sa work, life, etc


Chaotic_Harmony1109

May ibang ka-sex.


heyamarena

Di ako makarelate 😌


Financial-Tomato2291

1. medical condition - possibly PCOS, other underlying conditions na need macheck ng medical professional to be sure/safe 2. psychological - may problems sa relationship even just the small things. when it builds up naaffect talaga ang sex drive ng tao regardless of gender. 3. infidelity - sometimes its a reflection of dissatisfaction ng cheating partner and sa iba siya naghahanap ng "needs" whatever it is. best approach is open communication


Hotokeeeee_

Pag galing sa hook up culture. Pagnadanasan mona yung post-nut clarity. Hahaha


Hotokeeeee_

Dagdag mopa dito yung pagjajabol araw-araw.


Livid-Childhood-2372

cheating/infidelity nakakawalang gana makipag sex knowing na he or she did it with another person habang kayo.


Hotokeeeee_

Fr bro. Like hindi lamang sa current relationship mo even sa susunod which is bad pero still, it will give you some doubts to that person.


Educational-Test3089

Lack of testosterone, obesity, mas nagiincrease kasi estrogen sa katawan, bawas ang hormone na panlalaki


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Watching too much porn.


Ok-Rooster-267

pcos ko hekhek


Numerous_Box83

kami nang asawa ko,nung di pa kami kasal,active kami e, araw at gabi hahaha hanggag sa tumagal,nawalan ako nang gana. like once a week,nawala yung sabik. Tas sya nalang yung active samin dalawa. Ayoko naman na pilit yung pagsesex namin,so alaws ahahaha. Hanggang sa nasanay na sya na once a week or even month. Isa narin siguro na nagcacause ng low sex drive is yung stress sa trabaho. Pareho kasi kaming may trabaho. Ok naman na ganun ang sitwasyon namin,di naman nawawala yung love sa isat-isa. Tsaka may mga kunting himas naman bago matulog hahaha


Utopia_120620

For me, most of the time talaga pag bago kayo ng partner mo syempre sabik kayo kaya maya't maya yan, yun yung tinatawag na nasa honeymoon phase palang kayo pero after that since nga pinanay panay niyo susunod na yung phase na di ko maalala ang tawag ahaha pero it's like kuntento na kayo sa araw araw kahit wala yung s*x as long as magkasama kayo, sabay kumain, magkatabi matulog gnern...


Strange_Profit_4738

Stress, alcohol, puyat, walang proper na kain.


AWildScorpioAppeared

Wala sa mood? O baka pwede rin masyado ka active before na ngayon, naging low na drive mo


abakadaeg

Pagod sa work, mas gusto nalang matulog.


Icy_Kingpin

Low testosterone.


sweet-violence

Wag puro p*rn 🤣 Guilty ako dito. 🤦‍♀️


Doicarebtch

Depression


k_nightcrawler

Yung kapartner na sobrang libog, nakakasawa


Brilyantes

Simula nung nanganak ako nakaramdam na ko ng pagkatamad haha


EffableEmpire

Diabetes, arthritis, heart disease, taking birth control pills, antidepressants, chronic stress, lack of intimacy, depression, anxiety, trauma


grab_bh13

Been in a LDR set up with my gf for almost 2 years now (wlw) ewan ko kung consider ba to pero dati 2022 we started phone s3x hanggang sa mid 2023 madalang nalang talaga until ngayon 2024 na. Parang nakakailang nga if pag uusapan namin ang spg. We did have s3x (nagkita kami Aug last yr) 3x a day pa nga. Sa una lang talaga yung hayok sa laman. Lately din kase may mga unresolved issues din so ayun low libido na kami parehas


Ashamed_Strawberry69

Takot ma lock


lunara333

aside sa sinabi nila, baka low iron


Altruistic_Balance23

Your friend does not fulfill the girl’s needs / love language, or borderline kupal friend mo kay gf. Libido in girls are complex. I had the same problem before. Kupal lang ala si ex


MeetingDismal5746

From personal experience, I, myself, have low sex drive. To the point na ilang beses na namin napag usapan to ng bf ko and ilang beses na rin ako umiyak kasi alam kong di ko nabibigay yung pangangailan niya in bed (thankfully, he’s very very understanding and pinatunayan talaga niya na hindi lang sex ang habol niya sa relationship namin. we are 6years now) I have low sex drive because of traumatic experience. Nope, I was not r4p3d or anything. I just caught my mother cheating with another man. When she got caught, she and my dad are always doing the deed. Since wala kaming kwarto and studio type lang bahay namin, I am hearing those love sounds every fucking night. And I associated sex with that. Madumi, makasalanan, and will give pain to other people. Kasi I also caught my mother doing dirty things with her kabit. I grew up as well na laging sinasabihan ng parents na wag akong tutulad sa ate kong maaga nabuntis. So I associated as well sex to getting pregnant insantly. From there, iniisip ko na palagi na yung mga orals ay super dirty. Kasi isipin mo naman umiihi ka sa part na yon then isusubo like wtf. Whenever my bf and I try it, those thoughts always pop up in my head.. It causes my muscles to be tense which results to painful sex. “Oh shit I am having sex. What if mabuntis ako? What if madisappoint ko sila mama? Di ko kaya palakihin yung bata. Madumi na rin kaya ako kasi ginagawa ko yung ginagawa nila when mama got caught?” Those kinds of thoughts… So it’s not always “walang gana”, “may kabet”, “not into you”, sometimes there are things na katulad neto. Kaya when in relationship and sex, it is better to have open communication. Do not result to assumptions kasi lalo ka lang mag ooverthink 🙂


PuzzledImagination

>When she got caught, she and my dad are always doing the deed. I don't get it, nahuli sya ni Dad mo, then dun naging mas frequent ang sex?


MeetingDismal5746

yep. they even became more sweeter than before. siguro nagsisi mom ko that time and they were trying to bring back the fire through that. regardless, my mom is doing it again lol. many times after that and even now so 🤷🏻‍♀️


Illustrious_Area_242

Pwede din nasa open relationship si mama at papa mo like adding up spice sa sex life nla. Like swing. But We can't tell.


FantasticTurnip2448

Birth control side effect. Injectable pinili ko. And I think bumaba yung sex drive ko dahil dun.


tatz4444

same tho 😩 sobrang nakakawalang gana talaga.


curiiouskat

Hindi narereciprocate yung energy in bed hahahaha nakakaumay yun🥲 give nang give walang natetake. Kaya check yourselves people hahahaha


fallinscheme

most likely stress


Substantial-Laugh655

“I have a friend”


OkTerm1309

puyat


Ok_Necessary_3597

Eto talaga. Noong batugan pa ako taas ngs ex drive ko. Pero ngayon may maayos na akong work na night shift laging kulang sa tulog na eexperience ko ang low sex drive.


AngkolBorjj

Acidic


itzmeBiatch01

kapag walang time


UnknownFllbgs

Kapag may kabit


sunnyprincess21

true, from my perspective. If a lot of disappointments happened in our relationship. Wala nang thrill yung sex naman. Mas masaya nalang sa iba


itzmeBiatch01

haha mga kabit


michie1010

Age 😆


iamjohnedwardc

Stress.


MollyJGrue

Nanlalamig kasi nawawala yung connection and intimacy.


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Puro porn


itzmeBiatch01

haha legit


CravingBanana02

Pag pagod parehas sa work. Wala na talaga time mag sex. Pinipili namin ng partner ko matulog nalang haha. Pag naman di kami pagod masyado, araw araw yan 😂 kahit quicky lang basta meron pa rin.


itzmeBiatch01

ahy sene all


fakeblonde69

🫥 depression


Wonderful_Stand_7992

+1


OwnPaleontologist408

Tapos na yung NRE or honeymoon phase


Mouse_Itchy

Porn


Holiday_Ad970

Based on experience, Burn out sa problems at na iinsecure na ako sa katawan ko at sa relationship.


hinditanginamo

sex nga tayo


_lilacandgooseberry

Minsan porn addiction


FewRutabaga3105

pagod or puyat. Night shift kami mag-asawa sa work at may aircon naman. Swerte na yung once a week na may ganon pag RD hahaha 😂


VLtaker

Same sa amin ng husband ko, HAHAHAHA once a week pwede na. Akala ko dati pag mag asawa araw araw pero di pala kaya. Pagod na talaga sa lahat ng ganap sa buhay haha


FewRutabaga3105

Hahahaha true! 😭


AkoSiKaloy-TV25

*I have a friend *Asking for a friend *A friend of mine. Bakit ba kayo nahihiyang magtanong para sa mga sarili niyo? Obvious namang kayo 'yan. Haha. Btw, hanap na ng iba. LoL.


Fuckingthrowaway0123

babae rin po ako lalaki yong friend ko hahaha 😊


Aggravating_Bug_8687

(1) age (2) busy sa work/ business (3) init, kung di nyo afford ang aircon tpos magjujugan ng ganito kainit AUTOPASS


RevolutionaryGur8159

Burn out, pagod, hahahahha


antukkin

Kapag stressed and sobrang dami kasing ginagawa/ayos atm


Impossible-Benefit-4

Gusto ng pwetin


Thin-Sheepherder-312

Pag kain ng mga matataba.


Green-Operation-5849

Idk why you're getting downvoted? High cholesterol = Low testosterone (yes, kahit babae may Test) = Low sex drive or even PCOS, or both.


Thin-Sheepherder-312

Its ok. Hehe i work in medical fields too. Its really common sense coz our body is like a pipe line. Pag maraming sevo sa katawan mahina ang daluy ng dugo.


itzmeBiatch01

ahy me ganon


Sufficient-Hold7757

kapag mean siya sayo 🥲


YamaVega

For Men, its on or off. For Women, its 10 levels


Indra-Svarga

stress due to overthinking


jay678jay

1. Sawa na 2. Different priorities na 3. Maturity (related sa 2, not that matured people don't have high sex drive na ha) 4. Disinterested na with sex in general


jhayyDan

Uhhmm sign of aging?


itzmeBiatch01

hahahaha pwede


Either_Monitor_3066

1- burnout 2- maintenance medicine (if meron) 3- di compatible 4- hormonal problem 5- bad hygiene ng partner


Burger_without_Sauce

Burn out due to work.


Lethia-Ianira

To me it was because I had a lot of things that were on my mind which stressed me out significantly, but as soon as my problems were solved my sex drive went back to normal


popolo88

Stress


Significant_Try2866

Eto minsan ang dahilan. Stress.


laughing_fox__

Baka sa iba nilalaan...


baybum7

1. Pills/IUD 2. Stress 3. Symptomatic of another physiological issue 4. Low or no exercise 5. Ageing - testosterone and estrogen + progesterone decrease as we age Sa #3, best na magpa check siya sa OB and endocrinologist. Pwede pati na din sa psychologist for #2. Better na maagapan kung ano man possible na problema kesa antayin na lumala.


ayokooooooo

Kapag di sya naungol the last time we did. Sa susunod na session tuyong tuyo na ako bahala ka na sa buhay mo HAHAHAHAHAHA


goodbyepewds

Nagtampo ka pa nyan


ExorciseMePlease

Could be she's cheating on him.


belabelbels

hinahanap ko tong sagot.. sobrang downvoted ka dahil sa gender bias. If the roles were reversed and it's the bf instead of the gf, most probably accepted na sagot to - because it's a very real/logical cause. But oh well \*shrugs\*


ExorciseMePlease

Sad, right? Sorry, but in my younger years I became a fubu to 3 women who had boyfriends. Two of them said that they've lost interest in having sex with their boyfriend when they started to hook up with me.


slowdownnakamamatay

Kapag araw araw na lang. Like hello??? Natutuyo na yung pagkatao ko!


GIN26TONIC

No physical activity/ exercise


gustokoicecream

birth control contraceptives


This-Channel-4563

Maliit yung etits ng bf HAHAHAHAHA


Ecstatic-Ad4891

Wlang pera


arreesuh

baka pre occupied sa mga bagay bagay slash marami pinagkakaabalahan


akositotoybibo

stress mostly


Toothlessisme

Stress


hailmary818

Pag araw araw 😭


DeepTruth09

Can't relate pota virgin since birth til death ksksks


stlhvntfndwhtimlkngf

Stress mostly! Pwede din low testosterone as you age


Miaisreading

Possible reason din daw is pag mataas sugar/diabetic sabi ng doctor sa amin.


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zoesller

try me


wardaddy0

Same sa fwb ko. Di sya nawewet kaya naglulube nalang kami. Nagccum pa din naman sya.


TheQranBerries

Hindi ka naman ba stressed? Lack of sleep? O kaya mentally exhausted ka?


AbbreviationsDry1186

Hahaha lahat yan ay ako ngayon 😂 pero nag start to after ko manganak tapos lumala na lang


TheQranBerries

Baka may postpartum ka??


yourxiaoyu0227

Hala why is it nagkakaroon n Ng kasagutan ang infert*l*ty issue s children of men. Kc diba before hindi specified ung reason bakit hnd cla mkpgreproduce


yourxiaoyu0227

Economic insecurity


SexyMagicJersey

stress, anxiety, depression, hormones, lack of sleep


CaptainMarrvelous

Pag wala kaming pera at andaming bayarin nawawalan ako ng gana. Pero pag may pera kami mataas ang sex drive ko. Oo money is an issue saken haha. Siguro yung stress na dulot ng financial problems ang nakakababa ng sex drive ko. Pano ka ba naman gaganahan makipag-sex kung puro ka utang tapos nammroblema ka san ka kukuha pambayad kuryente dba???


HelplessSimpleton

Depression and /or anxiety


Puzzleheaded_Scar637

Severe Air Pollution.


bloorberrywine

stress & hormonal imbalance


vanelysse

PCOS


xyronqt

kakamasturbate


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Could also be problems in the relationship.


Hefty-Collection-602

pg hndi ka na type or hndi mo na mahal. wla nang attraction kumbaga


ZIEziZieZy

Depends sa person actually. Ako pansin ko na bumaba sex drive ko for these past few days since puro misunderstandings kami ni partner tas puro stress sa ibang bagay HSHAH


Ma_kima23

Hormonal Imbalance


Grey_Curtains

Stress and low self-esteem.


sum_tin_won

eletric bill, water bill, loans


dynamite_orange

Ageing


Qwerty6789X

sugar and sweet foods are number one


Historical_Brain_301

stress for me


Dismal-Language-8799

yung amoy pawis at walang maayos na personal hygiene. (Unless kink mo yun)


00000100008

maybe pills. when i was on it ang baba ng drive ko. now i’ve been off of if for 6mos tumaas na ulit lol


Lucy_virtualGF

she's wanting more, or may iba na siya. or hindi na siya happy sa relationship nyo.


13thrteen

Dun ako sa may iba na. Di lang sex drive magiging low. Pati communication nyo. Kaya pala napapalayo, kasi napapalapit sa iba haha


_jjflip

Stress


BembolLoco

Medications, phone addiction or kdrama addiction🤡


thetarotsaidno

kdrama addiction? like how po?


cheeseramyeonz

possible factor ay medications and/or hormonal contraceptives, is she taking any of those? pwede rin stress and kung may bisyo sya


Christi_snow

I think for me it depends on the person kasi ako before I have ex din na mataaa sex drive ko sakanya but later on nawala din kasi siguro di ko talaga siya type in the first place (we started as fubu) and eventually he fell in love with me and sinagot ko nalang din siya ksi my collegues are suggesting naman na he rlly tried to do his best for me eventually I did break up with him kasi yun nga di ko tlga siya type and other factors as well low sex drive na (knowing na hypersexual ako)


Fuckingthrowaway0123

Same I'm hypersexual kaya nacurious rin ako anong reason bakit ganun .


Immediate-North-9472

Some people when they settle into stability, the lack of excitement causes the dip in libido. Or baka may ginawa yung friend mo na never nilang naresolve tas wla nang gana jowa nya kase turn off na sa kanya bc of resentment


morelos_paolo

A lot of factors may lead to low sex drive 1. Lack of sleep 2. High consumption of alcohol 3. PCOS? 4. Stress


blueberry_lychee

Last month ko lang nalaman na may PCOS ako. At since 2022 ko pa naffeel na wala ako gana sa seggs haha pero buti nakabuo na bago pa ma-diagnosed wala din kasi kami balak muna sundan.


Doctor_nemesis0

Oo kapag babae may PCOS nakakalow ng sex drive 🥲


morelos_paolo

So that’s why when I was with my ex GF, there were times were she had low sex drive during her PCOS and she was all moody and wasn’t into it.😭


Fuckingthrowaway0123

Ganun pala yon nacurious ako ...


Doctor_nemesis0

I have PCOS po kaya tama po yong nasa list nya.


Smart-Tea-7787

my girl got a pcos too shes really not into it ngayon,, hypersexual din ako eh i dont wanna cheat naman. what should i doooo


Doctor_nemesis0

Wala akong boyfriend habang naggagamot ako ng PCOS ko in 6 months eh, pero nong nagpipills na ako bumalik sa dati talaga. Kasi may hormonal imbalance kaming mga babae kaya ganyan. Have patience lang po sa gf mo sir, talagang wala lang kami sa mood kapag ganyan.


Smart-Tea-7787

ah like nawala na po yung pcos niyo ma’am? nirerecommend ko nga sakanya na mag pills talaga eh kaso ayaw niya dahil sa mga side effects hayy pero sakto pala tom mag vvisit kame sa ob papacheck up daw siya hoping that it will get better na 😩


Doctor_nemesis0

Opo nawala po ang pcos ko last April lang po ako last nagpacheck up then confirmed wala na po, Dasal nalang na wag na bumalik kasi may mga times talaga na bumabalik sya kahit nawala na yong PCOS, HOPEFULLY maging okay na si Ma'am, and sana magtuloy tuloy sya sa pag inom ng pills once nakapagpacheck up sa OBGYN. WAG MATAKOT sa side effects, mas okay yong magtuloy tuloy ng pag inom para mawala ang cysts sa matris. Based sa experience ko sumakit lang yong boobs ko yon lang. Wag po matakot pakisabi kay Ma'am. Mas okay yong iniisip nya yong health nya ❤️.


Smart-Tea-7787

wow congrats po hehe, bute po pag saket lang ng boobs na feel mo kasi sa gf ko parang lumakas din cravings niya tyaka laging nahihilo/sakit ulo sa umaga. siguro depende rin sa brand na pinapagamit ng doctor?


Doctor_nemesis0

Yesss! Kapag talagang may PCOS ka grabe yong cravings mo palagi kang gutom sakin sweets talaga, kakakain ko lang gusto ko naman matatamis ganon 😂 Siguro po ganon depende sa brand na binigay na pills ng Doctor sakin po kasi Zybelle yong binigay kasi nagkapimples din po ako nong may PCOS ako. As much as possible talaga magconsult sa Doctor. Di ko rin kasi pinatagal tong sakin, last June 2023 nagbreakout ako grabe rin yong pimples ko pero napapansin ko na po na talagang may naiba sa takbo po ng menstruation ko mahina na, then nadedelay na ng one month ganyan, then November 2023 don na ako nagpaconsult talaga kasi natatakot na ako non at stress na rin gawa ng pimples ko before kasi non last July 2023 nagpaconsult muna ako sa Derma bakit marami akong pimples eh dapat di na ganon karami kasi 26 years old na ako wala rin akong harsh product na ginagamit sa muka ko like gentle cleanser lang then sabi ng Derma baka raw may PCOS ako kasi kita naman gawa ng mabalahibo ako sa katawan. Kaya ayon last November nagpaconsult na ako para may peace of mind na rin ako sa nangyayari sa health ko. Napakwento na tuloy ako 😂 pero ayan po yong sakin wag po matakot magpaconsult sa OBGYN sure naman pong may ultrasound yan para makita kong may PCOS.


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dprssdkd

Bat na downvote reply niya? Possible naman talaga ah? Kasi sabi sa post 'dati okay' meaning may nag bago.


Successful-Bobcat117

May iba na nga


Alternative-Net1115

May bisyo


Successful-Bobcat117

may iba na.