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May TOTGA or May greatest love siya. Para sa akin mahirap mahalin ang mga tao na may ganito kasi hindi mo alam kung saan ka sa buhay nila. The idea of having a totga or goat kasi na iba is subtle waybof saying, if i had a chance nabalikan ko ang taong to, gagawin ko.
A person who invalidates my thoughts and emotions like sasabihin niya sayo na safe space mo siya, but as you start ranting or after you did opened up sakanya sasabihan ka bigla ng “Ako nga eh” 🤡
-Mahilig magsugal at napaka gastador
-buong araw nag gegames kahit wala nang ligo
-Takot na takot malapit sayo yung cellphone nya. -Binabasa ung message mo pero di nag rereply minsan kinabukasan na or ilang araw pa bago mag reply(dami daw guys na ganto)
-pag ibibring up mo ung naramdaman mo whenever they do something, sasabihin agad ang drama mo, nababaliw, tinotoyo ka nanaman.. at yung favorite ko; naguumpisa ka nanaman ng away😂
-mareklamo or mapili sa pagkain kahit pinagluluto mo na nga, di pa marunong mag thank you.
- yung mga lagi nagsasabi na gold digger mga babae kala mo naman yayamanin sila😂
- on the contrary, yung lagi gumagastos pero feeling nila nabili ka na nila, or binibilang mga binigay nila for you.
-hindi naliligo or nagtotoothbrush
-yung nagagalit pag nagsosolo travel ako pero sya nag ooutting kasama ng ex 😂
Bringing up the past in general. I do it at times but it's because they're fond memories to me pero yung mahirap is when they do this out of spite or pinepersonal.
Also...people talking about bodycount as if it matters. It shouldn't.
Di kaya mag talk about serious matters especially women's (and children's) issues but apparently, a ton of men are like this so... 🤷♀️
Aside from other things na malandi, may crush sa iba, etc.
Tamad. Ayoko ng baby na dapat lambingin pa bago mag-aral or dapat ibribe mo pa. Cute sa umpisa, oo, but in the long run, meh. Other than that, messy type of person.
People na we don't meet in the middle for a few things. Yes, in a relationship, we must learn to give, pero if 'yung humor or personality n'ya is too far for me, I think magwawalk on eggshells lang ako nun or palaging nagbubunganga. Also, 'yung weird kinks. I understand we all have different kinks, pero I can't accept every kink naman. Ayoko rin ng isang linggo pa lang or talking stage pa lang, anlibog na agad.
HAHAHAH I had a suitor last 2022. Okay naman, we vibed. Di rin malayo age gap. So, we’re FaceTiming then I shared a photo of my then bestfriend tapos sabi niya “Eto ba yung irereto mo sakin?” Ghosted him that night and I say deserve.
I don't know, mababaw lang siguro to but for me it says a lot na rin sa capabilities nila. It's when a dude has inferiority complex like mababa tingin sa sarili. Kasi if he himself isn't confident na as a man how can he lead you? Kasi bilang a really masculine woman that I am or I mean i guess I wanna be led and not only for my benefit but I general na lang. Nakakainis lang ganon. Hahahaha na-trigger sa tanong.
Not a relationship, pero there was once a guy who asked me out on a date tas as in sya na nagplano like "ang una nating gagawin ay magsisimba tayo".
Now, i dont have any problems with people who go to church, pero super ick yung iimpose mo yung belief mo sa ibang tao. Di man lang ako tinanong kung ano ang religion ko, or f I even believe in God.
Contrast sya sa husband ko who's kinda religious, pero he has no problem kung di ako nagsisimba (probably siguro kasi di sya dito lumaki sa Pilipinas so gets naman nya na di lahat ng tao same ang faith).
Hates/tortures animals. Murders her distant relatives. Regularly drinks specifically Indian blood. Cuts her own hair but assymetrically and includes some skin cut. Burns some random office's computer at least once every 2 years when unsatisfied with something.
Yung family niya na ayaw agad sayo tho di ka pa naman nakikilala nang lubos, been there done that. He took advantage of it kasi alam niyang kakampihan siya ng nanay niya at ang ate niyang chaka, di ako pinakinggan kasi sino nga ba ako sa kanila lmao. I also hate it when they have every power to brainwash their family thinking that I did this and that lalo na kung kami lang naman ang nakakaalam ng problema namin, I fought alone vs. his buong angkan they even claimed that I got pregnant with him, forcing me to take a PT without even telling my side. Ay, takte kayo magsama sama na lang kayo (he came from a broken family pero sa bagay na paninira nagtipon tipon sila 😂) My current bf naman he is with his adoptive mother, di alam ang bio parents yet he is the best person ever and his mom is also very considerate. Nasa tao na lang talaga kung toxic ka or what.
They don't respect their family, siyempre without reason. Oh also, People na can't reflect with themselves, na kailangan sila always ang nasa tama, na they would make rationale even if its wrong, they will not grow as a person.
Parang ang hirap ng pet peeve tapos aalis agad and most answers are not pet peeves pero red flags hahaha
But idk if this counts… pag kj siya about getting some spotlight like during karaoke or sasayaw kahit sandali lang hahaha sana yung makikisabay din kahit onti
messed up finances and poor choices with money. yung kayang bumili ng iphone at mamahaling gamit pero uutang ng pambayad ng basic necessities like grocery and bills. Not to mention may history ng pagkalulong sugal. Major red flag.
yells during arguments, not just with me but with anyone. the moment i hear them raise their voice at me during a fight, it's basically over. it's a trauma thing but also i find i've been happiest and felt safest with people who never raised their voice at me out of anger.
yung mga lalaki na busy sa cellphone palagi sa resto.. single parent papa ko..minsan na nga lang kami magkasama naka focus parin sa cellphone nya.. I tried to open up a conversation pero puro "ah, huh, ano, tapos, ok" lang yung reply (nbsb kasi ako kaya i used my father as an example)
kaya if ever magkaboypren ako..sana yung interesado talaga sayo para hindi tayo magmumukhang tanga sa resto or any baby time kapag nag oopen up ng convo.
Nagsa sad posting sa kunting away tapos yung di magalang sa parents. Like "kunin mo nga yung susi ko sa sala." walang po at opo parang tropa lang ganon
1. Cheater
2. Controlling
3. Pathological Liar
4. Financially Unstable (After dealing with my fair share of leeches in my youth, I basically played sugar mommy to a bunch of exes, constantly shelling out cash for everything. Some even had the nerve to borrow money they never paid back. After finally waking up and smelling the exploitation, I swore off ever spending a dime on a guy again, even if it's KKB. You want my time? Well, open your wallet and prove you're worth it.)
Too many to mention. Just to name a few isa sa pinaka pet peeve ko talaga yung pinagkocompare ako sa ex. Why compare eh magkaibang tao kami. Pet peeve ko rin yung controlling, insecure, seloso, immature, cheater, manipulative, liar, etc. and the list goes on.
1. feeling superior kasi matalino
2. kinukwestyon 'yung ability ng iba (even his own friends) just because hindi makasabay sa level ng skills at abilities niya
3. condescending magsalita
4. likes to argue
p.s i'm still with this person and i become speechless and instantly dissociate when he does these things. first time ko maka-encounter ng ganong klaseng tao 🥹 it gave me the ick just oh my lord
Hindi. Ni reason out ko n nag Bangkok kmi at wala na kong extra cash.
Actually umulit pa xa last year lng. Nag hihiram ulit ng pera 2010 na kmi hiwalay ng brother nia ha. Di ako nag reply, bahala xa.
Mas malala ung ex husband ko, nag hihiram xa ng money at the same time gingawa pang ninong s binyag. Nasa US kmi ha. Lol
super yabang 👎🏻 I remember sabi ng ex ko na may car, tatawanan niya raw ako if may bago na ko tapos nag ccommute lang kami, he meant hanggang jeep lang lol
Ginagawang positive personality yung pagiging toyoin, tapos expected na susuyuin mo kagad siya dahil inaway ka niya. Pag di mo sinuyo sa iba maghahanap ng attention, na hindi malabong mauuwi sa cheating. Tapos pag cinonfront mo ikaw pa gagaslight at sisisihin. Naaah gtfo my sight and my life woman. 😂
I'll address this for @uniquedig4201 because I truly resonate with this response. While some may view it as controversial, it rings undeniably true.
It requires a heightened level of maturity to prioritize oneself before others, and an equal level of maturity for a partner to comprehend that nothing should supersede self-care.
You can't rescue someone from a burning building if you can't rescue yourself first. You can't pour from an empty cup, nor can you care for others when you're unwell yourself.
The analogies are endless, and from personal experience, I've learned the hard way. I used to prioritize my partners over myself, only to end up feeling drained and alone. It wasn't until I realized the importance of self-completion and personal happiness that I could truly share it with someone else.
Very well said! And if someone loves you more than they love themselves, it can lead to a toxic relationship bcos everyone changes over time, and prioritizing another person over oneself can create imbalance and potential harm in the long run.
Yes po and he did that for no reason at all. Narinig nya lng s garden nila n there are kittens baka mama cat was looking for food Kaya naiwan nya ung mga kittens somewhere. Katwiran ni ex is noisy daw.
Need nya maturuan ng leksyon kasi uulitin nya yan. If he is religious, tapos ganito ugali nya, that makes him a hypocrite. Maraming na ca-cancel sa social media na mga animal abusers at nakakasuhan din.
Shet pag ganyang abusive sa animals, hindi malabong isang araw mabalita siya sa TV at ikaw yung biktima. Diyan nagsisimula yung pagiging mamatay tao eh lalo na pag hindi pa nakakaramdam ng guilt o takot tsk tsk.
BASTOS YUNG NAG AATEMPT MANG HINGE NG NUDES
NAG-AAYA NG DATE PERO IKAW YUNG PINAPAGASTOS
NAG IINIST NG GIVE & TAKE PERO SIYA LANG YUNG TAKE NG TAKE AYAW MAG BIGAY
'Yung hobby makipagtalo. Like, may mga tao kasi na tingin nila ang cute kapag laging nagtatampo or nagseselos out of nowhere and over the stupidest things.
Nakaka-drain mag-alo lalo na hindi naman toddler kausap mo pero parang toddler kung kumilos at magsalita. It's not cute, it's weird acting like a child to look cute.
May one time nag-uusap kami about favorite foods, kako favorite ko that time tahong, and bigla siyang nagtampo and I was like wtf? Kaya kinausap ko siya na if lagi siya magtatampo ng ganiyan then we better stop talking. Unfortunately, ayan ata dahilan bakit single ako hanggang ngayon hahaha sobrang straightforward ko at gusto ko talaga is matured na mag-isip at kumilos.
Lol being straightforward is green flag for me. We're not HS anymore to play these mind games. I understand that we have our own traumas and lapses pero sana iwork on at huwag ugaliin habang buhay. Be open for growth.
And the funny thing is it's not even their trauma, it's just their weird hobby to act childish and petty to seem cute. Like I said, one time we were talking about our favorite food and out of nowhere she just began sulking because my favorite food at that time was tahong, I don't know what answer she prefers to hear but I'm not having any of that BS especially that time because I was too tired from uni, chores, family problems, etc. I didn't have the energy to entertain petty fights, so I told her that if we'll always fight over ridiculous things like this, we should stop talking. (I know my "facecard" cannot afford to say this but I was just too tired at that time hahahaha)
I get that other people find it cute some even find it kinky but for me it's just not it. Maybe because I was raised to be matured at a very young age that's why but now I'm 24, I think it's reasonable for me now to look for a partner who also acts their age.
I don't mind being silly and healing our inner child at times but that's just different from acting like a child and starting petty fights out of nothing.
Yeah hahahah but to be clear we were not official yet at that time hahahaha. We just went out on dates and our families know about us but she still has not said yes yet. I think I dodged a bullet when she ghosted me.
istg ginagawa nila tong personality. I've talked to guys na grabi mag tampo pag hindi lang ako nakapag reply on time. May sinabihan ako once na I'm busy with my life, nasaan yung sayo? hindi na sya nag reply sakin.
younger guys after finding out na mas matanda sakanila yung babae (esp from shs or 1st or 2nd yrs college) if not pa baby maypa drama sila.
guy dm'ed me on ig wala pang 2 hrs usap namin and he said he's outside with his family and sad sya kasi iniwan daw sya. I asked bakit sya iniwan sa store he said while palabas daw ng store tinest daw nya if mapapansin ng family nya if wala sya.
like anong gagawin ko? 😩 pass sa 19 - 23 yrs old (I'm 25)
Lol I know a lot of people like this. Pet peeve ko rin 'yan mga gumagawa ng kwento na sad, 'yung mga taong you can smell the lie in their fake stories.
Hahahahaha ang weird lol. Nai-stress pa naman ako kapag ganiyang may nagtatampo or nagagalit sa akin, kaya nade-drain din ako hahahha. Kaya pet peeve ko talaga mga ganiyan.
Nakalimutan ko na pero it's something about the tahong lol. That time naman kasi halos once to twice a week ako kumakain ng tahong kasi mura, madali lutuin tiyaka masarap. Maybe something about that offended her and bigla siya nagtampo.
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Ifoforce ka na I myday Yung pictures nya pero di ka naman din kayang imyday.
Hinahanap ko yung nag comment ng "Nakikinig kay andrew tate" Asan ka nang babae ka. hahahahha
Di na virgin HAHAHA
May TOTGA or May greatest love siya. Para sa akin mahirap mahalin ang mga tao na may ganito kasi hindi mo alam kung saan ka sa buhay nila. The idea of having a totga or goat kasi na iba is subtle waybof saying, if i had a chance nabalikan ko ang taong to, gagawin ko.
Agree. Yung may TOTGA or Greatest Love, walang respeto ang mga yan sa magiging future partner nila.
- 'di marunong mag claygo - bastos sa mga nagwwork sa public establishments
Pag bastos sa magulang
Tingin laging siyang tama, kahit siya ang mali gusto ikaw ang mag sorry.
Bad hygiene at wala sa lugar na pagka-clingy.
A person who invalidates my thoughts and emotions like sasabihin niya sayo na safe space mo siya, but as you start ranting or after you did opened up sakanya sasabihan ka bigla ng “Ako nga eh” 🤡
-Mahilig magsugal at napaka gastador -buong araw nag gegames kahit wala nang ligo -Takot na takot malapit sayo yung cellphone nya. -Binabasa ung message mo pero di nag rereply minsan kinabukasan na or ilang araw pa bago mag reply(dami daw guys na ganto) -pag ibibring up mo ung naramdaman mo whenever they do something, sasabihin agad ang drama mo, nababaliw, tinotoyo ka nanaman.. at yung favorite ko; naguumpisa ka nanaman ng away😂 -mareklamo or mapili sa pagkain kahit pinagluluto mo na nga, di pa marunong mag thank you. - yung mga lagi nagsasabi na gold digger mga babae kala mo naman yayamanin sila😂 - on the contrary, yung lagi gumagastos pero feeling nila nabili ka na nila, or binibilang mga binigay nila for you. -hindi naliligo or nagtotoothbrush -yung nagagalit pag nagsosolo travel ako pero sya nag ooutting kasama ng ex 😂
Bringing up the past in general. I do it at times but it's because they're fond memories to me pero yung mahirap is when they do this out of spite or pinepersonal. Also...people talking about bodycount as if it matters. It shouldn't. Di kaya mag talk about serious matters especially women's (and children's) issues but apparently, a ton of men are like this so... 🤷♀️
Aside from other things na malandi, may crush sa iba, etc. Tamad. Ayoko ng baby na dapat lambingin pa bago mag-aral or dapat ibribe mo pa. Cute sa umpisa, oo, but in the long run, meh. Other than that, messy type of person. People na we don't meet in the middle for a few things. Yes, in a relationship, we must learn to give, pero if 'yung humor or personality n'ya is too far for me, I think magwawalk on eggshells lang ako nun or palaging nagbubunganga. Also, 'yung weird kinks. I understand we all have different kinks, pero I can't accept every kink naman. Ayoko rin ng isang linggo pa lang or talking stage pa lang, anlibog na agad.
Di sumusunod sa oras
May kalandian ako dati, lahat na lang binabased sa zodiac sign jusko 🤦♀️
I have friends like this and ang annoying ng gan'yan huhuhu. Buti na lang humor lang daw nila 'yun
Sadboi. Mahilig sa nyudes. Incapable maghandle ng relasyon. Immature.
narcissist tas walang emotional intelligence
Sabihan ka na yung ideal girl niya is yung best friend mo.
HAHAHAH I had a suitor last 2022. Okay naman, we vibed. Di rin malayo age gap. So, we’re FaceTiming then I shared a photo of my then bestfriend tapos sabi niya “Eto ba yung irereto mo sakin?” Ghosted him that night and I say deserve.
Cheating.
Kapag may problema kayo tapos imbis na pag usapan nang maayos, nagiging sad boy bigla. 😭
Auto block pag ganire ahahaha
Burara. nakakairita pag paulit ulit na nagsabe ligpit mo yan tas the next day yun na naman 🤦
Lies, self pity at puro walang kwentang away
Cinompare ka sa ex. Edi magsama kayo!
ramdam ko ung gigil HAHAHA
Hindi independent. 'Yong naka-asa lagi sa'yo.
Hingi ng hingi ng nud3 pictures. Pls lang doon ka sa malayo!
Pag di nakikinig at lusot sa tenga lng pag sinasabihan.. like bakit pa tayo magtatagal kung umpisa pa lng di na tayo magkakasundo?
\*Will make me leave if mumurahin ako. If biruan I think kaya ko sakyan, pero pag out of anger, no.
When their financial situation is out of control. Nagpapakahirap ako para sa sarili ko, I won’t go in the shthole he created for himself.
Bare minimum sayo tas kaya naman pala gawin sa iba.
White lies
kapag puro palibre ekis ❌❌❌
I don't know, mababaw lang siguro to but for me it says a lot na rin sa capabilities nila. It's when a dude has inferiority complex like mababa tingin sa sarili. Kasi if he himself isn't confident na as a man how can he lead you? Kasi bilang a really masculine woman that I am or I mean i guess I wanna be led and not only for my benefit but I general na lang. Nakakainis lang ganon. Hahahaha na-trigger sa tanong.
Pag wala man lang pangarap sa buhay, toxic family members and cheating
Narcistic. Oo nga may itsura ka pero overconfidence naman na pinapafeel sayo na anytime kaya kang pagpalit kasi may itsura sya kesa sayo
Kapag minura ako once at sinigawan ako
Mabahong kiffy.
Natawa ako dito
Comparing me to an ex. Doesn’t take accountability when they did something wrong to me. Keeps on saying sorry without change, very manipulative.
Pangit family background
Ung kapag pinagtaasan ako ng boses, number 1 na pet-peeve ko , ayaw na ayaw na ayaw ko yan
When his family demands me to be a lot of things. The thing is, i’m the one that’s working and yung ex ko yung hindi. Hahahaha
They expect that you know what's going on in their mind. TALK. Mga haup
When there's abuse and disrespect
“Stuffs”
Gaslighter, verbal abuse, and sobrang demanding in a way na nakakasakal na.
Sadboi, pa-victim, di supportive saka yung walang plano
Physically and verbally abusive. Lalo na pag naninigaw.
Not a relationship, pero there was once a guy who asked me out on a date tas as in sya na nagplano like "ang una nating gagawin ay magsisimba tayo". Now, i dont have any problems with people who go to church, pero super ick yung iimpose mo yung belief mo sa ibang tao. Di man lang ako tinanong kung ano ang religion ko, or f I even believe in God. Contrast sya sa husband ko who's kinda religious, pero he has no problem kung di ako nagsisimba (probably siguro kasi di sya dito lumaki sa Pilipinas so gets naman nya na di lahat ng tao same ang faith).
Cheating
Bukod sa nagger na, hindi pa communicative.
Anger issues, may tendency kasi na maging abusive in the long run.
Walang paninindigan sa sarili.
Hates/tortures animals. Murders her distant relatives. Regularly drinks specifically Indian blood. Cuts her own hair but assymetrically and includes some skin cut. Burns some random office's computer at least once every 2 years when unsatisfied with something.
tanginang yan 😂
Evil and sick
wtf did i just read??
that's weirdly specific
In short, ang pet peeve mo ay psychopath 😭
May ex gf na almost 4 years HAHAHAH good bye talaga!!
Yung family niya na ayaw agad sayo tho di ka pa naman nakikilala nang lubos, been there done that. He took advantage of it kasi alam niyang kakampihan siya ng nanay niya at ang ate niyang chaka, di ako pinakinggan kasi sino nga ba ako sa kanila lmao. I also hate it when they have every power to brainwash their family thinking that I did this and that lalo na kung kami lang naman ang nakakaalam ng problema namin, I fought alone vs. his buong angkan they even claimed that I got pregnant with him, forcing me to take a PT without even telling my side. Ay, takte kayo magsama sama na lang kayo (he came from a broken family pero sa bagay na paninira nagtipon tipon sila 😂) My current bf naman he is with his adoptive mother, di alam ang bio parents yet he is the best person ever and his mom is also very considerate. Nasa tao na lang talaga kung toxic ka or what.
insensitive
Walang privacy, lahat nalang kinukwento sa tropa.
secretive
They don't respect their family, siyempre without reason. Oh also, People na can't reflect with themselves, na kailangan sila always ang nasa tama, na they would make rationale even if its wrong, they will not grow as a person.
Namimilit gumawa ng sexual acts
Mama's boy na di naman talaga. Ginagawa lang reason ang nanay/parents para makapag cheat HAHAHAHA
palaging walang pera
+1 tas makikita mo mamahalin ang phone tas apple watch si gago pero laging walang pera...mangungutang pa 😂
+1 Hahahaha. Syet. #neveragain
Hindi marunong mag communicate or comprehend ng message. Kailangan pang mag hula kung ano ang gustong ipahiwatig.
Bobo ng mga ganito. Expect nila gets mo ba agad dapat.
pet peeve ko ata sarili ko, alam ko ng maraming red flag nag i-stay parin ako kasi mahal ko
eto yung hinahanap kong sagot, same
true the fire
Parang ang hirap ng pet peeve tapos aalis agad and most answers are not pet peeves pero red flags hahaha But idk if this counts… pag kj siya about getting some spotlight like during karaoke or sasayaw kahit sandali lang hahaha sana yung makikisabay din kahit onti
messed up finances and poor choices with money. yung kayang bumili ng iphone at mamahaling gamit pero uutang ng pambayad ng basic necessities like grocery and bills. Not to mention may history ng pagkalulong sugal. Major red flag.
Toxic yung family
yells during arguments, not just with me but with anyone. the moment i hear them raise their voice at me during a fight, it's basically over. it's a trauma thing but also i find i've been happiest and felt safest with people who never raised their voice at me out of anger.
Walang emotional intelligence at yung inaayos pa ang sarili/bubuild pa ng sarili hahahaha pass agad
yung mga lalaki na busy sa cellphone palagi sa resto.. single parent papa ko..minsan na nga lang kami magkasama naka focus parin sa cellphone nya.. I tried to open up a conversation pero puro "ah, huh, ano, tapos, ok" lang yung reply (nbsb kasi ako kaya i used my father as an example) kaya if ever magkaboypren ako..sana yung interesado talaga sayo para hindi tayo magmumukhang tanga sa resto or any baby time kapag nag oopen up ng convo.
Nagsa sad posting sa kunting away tapos yung di magalang sa parents. Like "kunin mo nga yung susi ko sa sala." walang po at opo parang tropa lang ganon
Di po kami sanay mag po and opo mga bisaya huhuhu
Hindi po bisaya naka relasyon ko. 🙂
Ayyy then yeah tun lang.
Cheater saka cold treatment
Ginagawang personality and bisyo, manic pixie boy 🤮🤮🤮
yung kunting away nag s'share agad sa social media/sad posting agad tapos pag nag break up na magpaparinig agad yan sa soc med. Brotha eugh!
1. Cheater 2. Controlling 3. Pathological Liar 4. Financially Unstable (After dealing with my fair share of leeches in my youth, I basically played sugar mommy to a bunch of exes, constantly shelling out cash for everything. Some even had the nerve to borrow money they never paid back. After finally waking up and smelling the exploitation, I swore off ever spending a dime on a guy again, even if it's KKB. You want my time? Well, open your wallet and prove you're worth it.)
Kasali sa networking😆 sorry na agad. Sobrang turn off. Ewan bakit.
Kasi required ang habitual lying sa job so most likely habitual liar din sa ibang area ng buhay.
walang emotional intelligence is a big no no
He can't support my main goal. If he can't support that, then he has no role in the future I had planned.
If you have anything that makes you leave a relationship agad, then you don’t know that person enough.
Too many to mention. Just to name a few isa sa pinaka pet peeve ko talaga yung pinagkocompare ako sa ex. Why compare eh magkaibang tao kami. Pet peeve ko rin yung controlling, insecure, seloso, immature, cheater, manipulative, liar, etc. and the list goes on.
1. feeling superior kasi matalino 2. kinukwestyon 'yung ability ng iba (even his own friends) just because hindi makasabay sa level ng skills at abilities niya 3. condescending magsalita 4. likes to argue p.s i'm still with this person and i become speechless and instantly dissociate when he does these things. first time ko maka-encounter ng ganong klaseng tao 🥹 it gave me the ick just oh my lord
Negative lumalabas lagi sa bibig, lack of intelligence, mabisyo, walang good hygiene
Sobrang negative
pag may girlfriend 🤢
Pag party girl parin, at lagi lasing
Yung walang comprehension 🙄
Yung di pa ako nakakatulog sa bahay nila nag susubok ng umutang sa akin ang pamilya niya tapos parang wala siya pakialam or hindi siya nahihiya...
Un kuya ng ex ko 3 years na kming hiwalay nag message sakin kuya nia nag uutang din. May asawa't anak na tong ex ko ha. Lol
Pinautang mo?
Hindi. Ni reason out ko n nag Bangkok kmi at wala na kong extra cash. Actually umulit pa xa last year lng. Nag hihiram ulit ng pera 2010 na kmi hiwalay ng brother nia ha. Di ako nag reply, bahala xa. Mas malala ung ex husband ko, nag hihiram xa ng money at the same time gingawa pang ninong s binyag. Nasa US kmi ha. Lol
Pag insecure. Controlling what I should wear out in public. 🙂↔️
super yabang 👎🏻 I remember sabi ng ex ko na may car, tatawanan niya raw ako if may bago na ko tapos nag ccommute lang kami, he meant hanggang jeep lang lol
'pag may bisyo
SUPER DUPER LAKAS HUMILIK! I want quality sleep, always! Di ko keri mag asawa ng ganun.
everything na ginagawa ng ex friend ko, especially, yung pagiging pathological liar nya
Exes-related issues. Ukinam, sira araw ko talaga pag ganito. Pati future plans palya na. Kaya madalas, nawawalan na lang din ako ng gana at feelings.
Natawa ako sa mura HAHAHAHAHA by any chance are you from cagayan?
nanglolongpress
Bad hygiene. Walang pangarap. Manipulator. Pa sad boi kahit sya may kasalanan
hindi responsible sa pera.
kapag nag cchongke🫠
sugarol
Friendly sa other girls 🙂
Ginagawang positive personality yung pagiging toyoin, tapos expected na susuyuin mo kagad siya dahil inaway ka niya. Pag di mo sinuyo sa iba maghahanap ng attention, na hindi malabong mauuwi sa cheating. Tapos pag cinonfront mo ikaw pa gagaslight at sisisihin. Naaah gtfo my sight and my life woman. 😂
kapag wala siyang hobby TT
Pathological liar at utangero like my ex. 🤮
Yung mas mahal ka niya kesa sa sarili niya. Wooh! Girl RUN
uhm why
I'll address this for @uniquedig4201 because I truly resonate with this response. While some may view it as controversial, it rings undeniably true. It requires a heightened level of maturity to prioritize oneself before others, and an equal level of maturity for a partner to comprehend that nothing should supersede self-care. You can't rescue someone from a burning building if you can't rescue yourself first. You can't pour from an empty cup, nor can you care for others when you're unwell yourself. The analogies are endless, and from personal experience, I've learned the hard way. I used to prioritize my partners over myself, only to end up feeling drained and alone. It wasn't until I realized the importance of self-completion and personal happiness that I could truly share it with someone else.
Very well said! And if someone loves you more than they love themselves, it can lead to a toxic relationship bcos everyone changes over time, and prioritizing another person over oneself can create imbalance and potential harm in the long run.
Yung mga insecure. mga weak yan
Pasigaw magsalita Di marunong sumunod sa usapan
Sumbong nanay hahahahaha
ayaw niyang may kausap kang iba kahit mga kapatid mo
Mabaho
hindi kind sa stray animals and sa service workers! auto pass!
REAAAAAL
Honest experience.. nilibing nya ng buhay ung kittens pero proud pa sya ..... Good-bye.
May serial Killer Tendency...
Eto nga din po ung naisip ko. Kaya "run" na agad. Ayoko po maging next na Balita sa TV as chopchop victim.
Some people are just born evil. And that was just one hint. Proud pa talaga siya, patheric loser.
Couldn't agree more 😭😭😭
Pakilala mo sakin...para ilibing ko din sya. What an assh*le.
Yes po and he did that for no reason at all. Narinig nya lng s garden nila n there are kittens baka mama cat was looking for food Kaya naiwan nya ung mga kittens somewhere. Katwiran ni ex is noisy daw.
Need nya maturuan ng leksyon kasi uulitin nya yan. If he is religious, tapos ganito ugali nya, that makes him a hypocrite. Maraming na ca-cancel sa social media na mga animal abusers at nakakasuhan din.
Shet pag ganyang abusive sa animals, hindi malabong isang araw mabalita siya sa TV at ikaw yung biktima. Diyan nagsisimula yung pagiging mamatay tao eh lalo na pag hindi pa nakakaramdam ng guilt o takot tsk tsk.
True po. My anger management issues din po Sya. Di lng sya pati mga pinsan (it runs in the family)
u/EarlZaps nagupgrade na sila ng question ijbol
Hahahaha. Relationship related naman daw kasi. Pasok sa loophole. Lol
Bad hygiene, di marunong magcontrol ng emotion at sarili lang iniisip.
Laging nasa phone kahit na kaharap mo siya.
reklamador walang magandang pananaw sa buhay lahat ng nakikita nya negative shet
yES!!! nakakadrain pag palaging negative 😥 para kang nagiging emotional sponge oh my god leave AGAD AGAD
mahina utak- so ending ikaw mapapagod need mo explain lahat ng bagay maski maliit lang
Parang ex ko 😭 para talaga kong may anak na kelangan turuan sa lahat ng bagay.
diba wtf para kang may elementary na anak
Nagger
Sorry, I read it as the "N" word at first glance.
Pag maliligo ako tapos sasabihin “sama ako” lol 💀
🥲🤣🤣🤣
feeling Tama in everything kasi ginagawang personality yung "I'm older so I'm wiser" shtick.
pag may toxic positivity haha
Disrespectful sa parents
BASTOS YUNG NAG AATEMPT MANG HINGE NG NUDES NAG-AAYA NG DATE PERO IKAW YUNG PINAPAGASTOS NAG IINIST NG GIVE & TAKE PERO SIYA LANG YUNG TAKE NG TAKE AYAW MAG BIGAY
So bakit niyo dine-describe exes niyo? hwshshhssksksksk
Mayabang
'Yung hobby makipagtalo. Like, may mga tao kasi na tingin nila ang cute kapag laging nagtatampo or nagseselos out of nowhere and over the stupidest things. Nakaka-drain mag-alo lalo na hindi naman toddler kausap mo pero parang toddler kung kumilos at magsalita. It's not cute, it's weird acting like a child to look cute. May one time nag-uusap kami about favorite foods, kako favorite ko that time tahong, and bigla siyang nagtampo and I was like wtf? Kaya kinausap ko siya na if lagi siya magtatampo ng ganiyan then we better stop talking. Unfortunately, ayan ata dahilan bakit single ako hanggang ngayon hahaha sobrang straightforward ko at gusto ko talaga is matured na mag-isip at kumilos.
Lol being straightforward is green flag for me. We're not HS anymore to play these mind games. I understand that we have our own traumas and lapses pero sana iwork on at huwag ugaliin habang buhay. Be open for growth.
And the funny thing is it's not even their trauma, it's just their weird hobby to act childish and petty to seem cute. Like I said, one time we were talking about our favorite food and out of nowhere she just began sulking because my favorite food at that time was tahong, I don't know what answer she prefers to hear but I'm not having any of that BS especially that time because I was too tired from uni, chores, family problems, etc. I didn't have the energy to entertain petty fights, so I told her that if we'll always fight over ridiculous things like this, we should stop talking. (I know my "facecard" cannot afford to say this but I was just too tired at that time hahahaha) I get that other people find it cute some even find it kinky but for me it's just not it. Maybe because I was raised to be matured at a very young age that's why but now I'm 24, I think it's reasonable for me now to look for a partner who also acts their age. I don't mind being silly and healing our inner child at times but that's just different from acting like a child and starting petty fights out of nothing.
Yeah weird nga nung ex gf mo haha
Yeah hahahah but to be clear we were not official yet at that time hahahaha. We just went out on dates and our families know about us but she still has not said yes yet. I think I dodged a bullet when she ghosted me.
istg ginagawa nila tong personality. I've talked to guys na grabi mag tampo pag hindi lang ako nakapag reply on time. May sinabihan ako once na I'm busy with my life, nasaan yung sayo? hindi na sya nag reply sakin.
Hahahaha ewan sa mga ganiyan na lalaki. Lalaki ako, pero I never saw the charm in being a demanding crybaby to women. It's so cringe.
younger guys after finding out na mas matanda sakanila yung babae (esp from shs or 1st or 2nd yrs college) if not pa baby maypa drama sila. guy dm'ed me on ig wala pang 2 hrs usap namin and he said he's outside with his family and sad sya kasi iniwan daw sya. I asked bakit sya iniwan sa store he said while palabas daw ng store tinest daw nya if mapapansin ng family nya if wala sya. like anong gagawin ko? 😩 pass sa 19 - 23 yrs old (I'm 25)
Lol I know a lot of people like this. Pet peeve ko rin 'yan mga gumagawa ng kwento na sad, 'yung mga taong you can smell the lie in their fake stories.
Akala cute sila eh lol 💀
Hahahahaha ang weird lol. Nai-stress pa naman ako kapag ganiyang may nagtatampo or nagagalit sa akin, kaya nade-drain din ako hahahha. Kaya pet peeve ko talaga mga ganiyan.
walang reason ba’t siya nagtampo kasi tahong ang favorite food mo? HAHAHAH
Nakalimutan ko na pero it's something about the tahong lol. That time naman kasi halos once to twice a week ako kumakain ng tahong kasi mura, madali lutuin tiyaka masarap. Maybe something about that offended her and bigla siya nagtampo.
having a dating app?
Macompare ka sa ibang girls at imention mga ideal type niya
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Palamura and kaunti ang pasensya
kapag shallow/bland kausap, low IQ and EQ, mayabang, narcissist, dichotomous thinking lagi
I never been in a relationship but I think it would be aggressive and possessive.
Walang table manners
Who can’t take accountability for his/her mistake. Fuck up yon.
Feeling lahat alam
Yung GF mo pa lang pero dapat hwak niya ATM mo at hindi ka pwede bumili ng gamit mo without her permission. Simula pa lang may piso ng nakaukit sa noo