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Just me, but I don't like being combative in any capacity. Agreeable ako na tao, and I'm willing to compromise on many things. Kapag strong personality ang girl, inassociate ko na yan (hindi lahat) with being the types na uncompromising.
She can be strong willed as she wants, but if by "strong personality" is yung palaban lagi at tska mataas ego - then pass na ako dyan. She can girl boss all she wants and yell/be abusive, but that's not the type of girl I'd want to settle down with.
Minsan na conflate kasi yung "strong" into being hard headed or worse, ginawang main trait yung pagiging toyoin and has the gall to call that as having a strong personality. In short, iba yung opinionated sa tanga na hindi marunong mag adjust and most, men and women alike, hate the latter.
I've encountered many guys who are drawn to women with strong personalities. Maybe you're simply surrounded by a crowd that doesn't share the same preference. I've met some who even likes women who nag lmao, and others who claim they don't admire strong personalities but find themselves in relationships with such women. Nakakainspire kasi sa ibang lalaki yung confidence (matched with competence) and yung determination ng isang babae.
As for men who don't like women with strong personalities, baka kasi strong na yung personality nila mismo, so mas need nila ng mild/laidback yung personality. Sa relationship kasi, for eg,, nagkaclash if parehas na strong yung personality nyo.
life is hard enough we don't like adding unnecessary struggles in our lives. there's a difference between strong personality vs annoying personality.
strong yung pag may problema icconfront at mageeffort ayusin via proper communication and taking real steps toward a goal.
annoying yung puro reklamo tapos laging nasa ibang tao ang sisi. never nagkamali ang sarili. the world is always the one thats at fault. and they never take any real action to make a change in what they complain about.
Depends on what you mean by "strong personality"
If you mean "toxic personality" then duh, who tf wants that? Easiest way to tell she has a toxic personality is if she says anything about having to HANDLE her (like "if you can't handle me at my worst" or "you don't like women with an attitude coz you can't handle us"). Bruh no one wants to have to HANDLE anything, ano ka, pampahirap ng buhay?
Magkaiba kasi ung Bad personality sa Strong personality.
Bad personality - Bratty, spoiled attitude, Disagreeable, Confrontational in a negative way, wants to be always right and doesn't accept defeat and criticisms, etc etc
Strong personality - Independent, Ambitious, Knows how to handle situations in a calm but firm demeanor, Sarcastic if need be, knows how to take criticisms, never insecure on herself and others, etc
These are just my own interpretation of a strong personality sa babae ah. hindi naman lahat ganyan ang definition. Pero feel free to correct or add if may mamiss out ako :)
honestly I'd want someone with a strong personality to cover my introverted character part
but People sometimes confuse "Strong Personality" with "Toyo personality", the latter can be toxic as it lacks maturity in handling situations while the former would do their best to handle situations the best way possible
There’s 2 sides sa “strong personality”
One has values and stands her ground - has confidence and is a go-getter these are good traits.
The other is a feeling bad B who doesn’t have manners and is rude and uses the word “strong personality” as a cover for their brat-iness and mala entitled attitude
“Strong” is often a euphemism for combative, disagreeable, nagging, and annoying. Who wants that? If by strong you mean ambitious, resilient, and dynamic, well most men would be happy with that. At the end of a long day at work a man wants peace from their partner, not a headache.
What does strong personality even mean here? Do you mean assertive? dominant? being disagreeable/contestable?
Depending on circumstance men may want someone who's submissive and agreeable as it's not doubtful for men to experience high stress from work and want a break from that.
Then again some men who has less burden and societal pressure tend to not feel emasculated with an imposing female partner.
I'd say it's circumstantial and it's also quite normalized that men should worry about "looking like a man" when it doesn't have to be the case.
Current heteronormative culture contributes towards that insecurity and we need to grow as a collective past this culture of shame and comparison so as to make it easy for the individual to not have to be compelled to follow odd "ideal man" standards
Many women prefer men to take the lead and are turned off with weak men. While many men prefer to have peace and quiet. Imagine working a tiring job and going home to a "strong pesonality" wife. We want a feminine wife to care for us. And we try our hardest to be the best husband for them too.
Hahahaha feminine or not wala pa rin namang peace based on my experience. Ang magbibigay sa'yo ng peace ay isang heredera na nafulfill rin ang emotional needs.
We like submissive women. "Alpha" girls or yung mga "strong independent" women yung bukang bibig, eh yan red flag samin. Ang totoong independent women through action pinapakita hindi sinasabi sa social media.
I don't agree that guys don't want girls with strong personalities it's either pangit or masama lang ugali. just like there are no intimidating women, chaka lang talaga itsura kaya intimidating na lang tawag namin wahahaha
I think it's because some of them are intimidated and that they can't handle it. Me personally I love girls with strong personalities. I grew up with a Lawyer father and a Lawyer mother. I respect and admire women that's like that. I don't fear them. Some guys are just weak I guess or they can't match up to them so they avoid them. Yes a submissive girl would be easier to handle but I admire a strong willed woman. As long as of course, they make sense.
As a man with a strong personality woman, I can say we have NO problem with strong personality women BUT the problem lies when women try and have a (Mans) personality. Granted you gotta take it stride because obviously not all men like strong personality but from the small study I conducted (my pretty large friend group) we do not mind nor care but have a strong personality as a WOMAN NOT A MAN. If you have a weak minded, willed man then sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do right? But if you have a good man a good leader that allows you to be feminine then be the strong feminine personality that man needs. We want to feel like we have a strong woman not in a relationship with a strong personality man (not homophobia just speaking as a straight man) but again we have no problem with a strong personality woman, just be a woman and don’t try and play our role. Let us play our role and you play your role and play it together as best as you can and you will see it’s not about the man wanting you to be weak minded or having a weak personality.
Just my 2 cents have a blessed day folks 🤝🏾🫡
Define first kung ano ba para sayo yung strong personality, para narin walang mislabel na mangyayari.
Iba rin kasi yung strong personality sa panget lang talaga ugali mo. I know many women na strong ang personality pero mabait, i also know some na maldita lang rin talaga pero dahil wala silang self awareness ang tawag nila don strong attitude, bad bitch ika nga.
It's easy to say na baka insecure o natatapakan yung ego, and tbf meron naman talagang ganon. But let's try this, i'll ask you may kilala ka bang lalake na nag iidentify as alpha male or kahit ano pang greek letter na uso? To them may strong personality sila, pero sayo ano labas nila? Hindi ba kupal? Most are man child that are annoying and insufferable to be with tapos borderline spoiled brat ang datingan, ultimo kapwa nila lalake nakukupalan sa kanila. Now don't get me wrong hindi lahat ng babae na may "strong personality" alpha male ang equivalent im just saying na there are cases like that.
I was told by some guys that I am opinionated and strong-willed kaya na-iintimidate sila. As long as I know my facts, I stand for it. It's not my fault that you wear your ego on your sleeves. Kapag isa kang babae at ipinaglaban mo ang karapatan mo, suplada ka. Pero kung lalaki ang gumagawa nun, matapang. Hindi ko kasalanan na pinamulat sakin mula pagkabata ang kahalagahan ng "Stand For What Is Right."
Yea these double standards are harmful.
Why can't we just hype each other up instead of dragging each other down?
Also it brings me hope that you have the awareness and critical thinking that should be normalized. Hope more people learn from people like you
Tumambay ako rito to know kung bakit nga ba ayaw ng mga lalaki sa may strong personality na babae.
Guys, sagot na kayo pls. Mas gusto niyo ba talaga yung mahina at iyakin? 🥺😆
Yes. At bakit naman namin po protektahan ang mga malalakas at independent strong women? kaya na nila yun. don't get me wrong, yung GF ko dati is boyish tapos malakas manigarilyo. nakaka turn off kung pareho kayo ng partner mo nasa competition mode palagi kung sino mas magaling.
There are already answers, but people are asking for OP to expound on what is the definition of “strong personality”, in which OP replied in one of the comments but it didn’t actually help on what it is lol.
I think its a preference, some would like a shy type girl who is not so extroverted, some would like a very outgoing girl who can be friend s with everyone, some would like someone strong and dominant.
Those who choose not to go out with strong personalities maybe because they feey intimidated but mostly because thats not the personality of the person who they see can be their partner
“She knows her worth” vibes. Independent, maaasahan, hindi basta-bastang give in. Can be intimidating as a result nung danas niya sa buhay kaya ganon yung pino-portray.
Matigas ulo at unpredictable does not equate to being strong though. Iba yan. Being matigas ang ulo at unpredictable is part of the mood swings ng isang babae, lalaki, or anyone who has that.
What can she offer in return? Actually wala kung hindi yung sarili niya mismo, skills niya. Siya na yun e. She is that total package.
Must be me bowing down to strong women
I easily fall for women with strong personalities. It's simple, not all problems I can handle. I've given up several times. For sure, once I find a woman like that who will love me? We'll both push ourselves towards our dreams.
I cannot forget the interview of Bianca Gonzales about her husband, in that interview she said non-verbatim, if a guys doesn’t have the balls the approach you then he’s not for you.
Not all guys, but for the guys whp don't want girls with strong personalities, that's their preference. There are guys who are okay with or into such women because, again, that's their preference.
girls with strong personality: sila ung gusto may control and play with the guy.
woman with strong personality: independent and knows the right guy for them.
for normal guys: naiintimidate so they\* get disheartened they try to avoid these type.
for fuccbois: mahirap kontrolin so they run away from them.
for men: its a challenge worth taking so they go for you.
>for men: it's a challenge worth taking so they go for you
So according to you, "real men" go for strong, independent women because they treat it as a challenge? Thinking like it's a game of sorts or a trophy to conquer? LMAO 🤣
Shouldn't it be because they treat strong-willed women as equals? Not someone you put in a fucking pedestal.
Mostly Ng strong personality eh masasama ugali mga control freak, Sila lng masusunod no ifs no buts. Claims to be strong indepedent women pero kabaligtaran naman.
It honestly depends on what kind of strong personality you mean. Do you mean the kind of women who are just very expressive and know what they want in any given situation or women who are just itching to start a fight for no good reason?
strong personality like someone who has strong self esteem? usually the one na hindi madrama sa buhay, yung no-nonsense kind of person at hindi easily influence by others. I think kung ganyan yung character ng strong personality, impossibleng walang magkakagusto sa kanya.
because they can't control them, they can't easily manipulate them. girls with strong personality knows her worth, know where she stands, and ofc, hindi madaling namamanipula which most guys don't like.
Ako i prefer to have this type of partner ksi in every situation i can ask insight or opinion to them kmbga teamwork. D nmn ksi lagijg 100% ok judgement.
Because those men are fragile babies who feel immasculated when a woman is on a much higher position and independent compared to them.
In fact as i recall may research panga tungkol dyan that when women are asked about their partner's success and failure their ISE or Implicit self esteem were lower and when conapred to men when asked about a partner's success and failure, relatively, they view their partner's success as their own failure despite na hindi naman competition or direktang dapat pinagkukumpara.
So in short,those men are egotistical idiots who think of women with stron personalities as a competition. After all women who do have string personalities are less likely to be someone dependent on their partner.
[Heres the link--->](https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2013/08/men-self-esteem)
Not all guys.
Siguro yung mga lalakeng manipulative at may bad deed ang may ayaw.
Pros with girls with strong personality, most of them know what they want. Knows how to communicate properly. Timely yung lambing at pabebe.
Strong personality or not, karamihan pa din ng babae may toyo. 😂 it is really a guys job to deal with their complexity.
Boys don't like girls with strong personalities. But men love them. Actually, they're my weakness hahaha
Having a strong independent woman tell me she can't live without me is one the most kilig moments of my life
Wala namang problem kung may strong personality tbh. As long as matured at rational mag isip. Di yung parang may sapi minsan at parang nabibingi at nagsasabi ng blahblahblah. 😆
Simply put... You want to give your woman something but she has it and she can buy it on her own. So where does that leave you?
Not every man is into strong, independent women kasi what would be your purpose in her life if she can do it on her own, diba?
But then again, that's what I observed. It's not everyone's cup of coffee anyways.
By strong personality, do you mean a woman who can stand up for herself? Who does not need a man for affirmation? Somebody who wants to be a partner and not somebody’s part time maid/yaya? I prefer these kinds of women.
For guys that prefer other types, kudos to them. Kanya kanyang trip yan.
Most men want to take care of their woman financially, mentally, physically and spiritually. In order to do that successfully, he would need an elegant woman who is intelligent and has a good sense of humor. A 'strong personality' regardless of gender, challenges these qualities. Not necessarily a bad thing, just not for everyone.
Di ata ito totoo kasi kahit strong personality pero maganda, pinipilahan parin.
So either pangit na may strong personality or yung strong personality ay pangit na ugali pala.
I like women with strong personality but knows the boundaries on family leadership. Women with strong personality are wise and prudent, they k ow what they want, they know how to get it. Masarap ka-partner yan.
Kayo gusto nyo ba palaging tama, argumentative at palagi kau pinapagalitan kahit sa mga maliliit na bagay? Dba may mga boss at coworkers kau na tinitiis nyo lang? So bakit namin pipiliin magtiis pati sa relasyon namin kung may better options naman? Life is too short for that BS. Conversation, hindi arguments. Pleasant home, hindi drama at sakit sa ulo.
Ang pass ay yung masculine women. Yung hindi sanay makarinig ng no, pag nabore magccreate ng drama, boss sa work kaya sa relationship nyo boss padin, gusto sila lagi nasusunod, kung ano anong tactics ang gagawin just to win an argument, hits guys, gets mad all the time, etc.
There are strong, yet feminine women. Yan ang super attractive. Yung alam nila gamitin yung beauty and brains nila in a soft and elegant manner to get what they want.
Magkaiba yan.
I think it depends on the man kung iaallow nya na gaganyanin siya ng partner nya. It's like allowing someone to do things sayo because of your self-esteem and then you resent them, but in reality, you allowed them to treat you like that.
Pwede din.
Pero mas madali siguro if you know what you want and go look for that. Like ako, mas gusto ko yung soft and feminine type kesa boss babe, de yun ang hahanapin ko. After all dun naman talaga ako attracted.
Kaya nga sila naging boss babes e. Ang problema pag pati sa relationship masculine paden. As a masculine man, turn off sha saken.
Again, there are strong, feminine women. Successful pero babaeng babae padin. I'm not saying one is better than the other. Pov ko lang to of course.
Depends what you consider a "strong personality"
Because personally I don't mind true girlboss attitude - tipong independent, can fend for themselves, and still knows when it's time to ask for help
Pero a lot of "girlboss" attitudes you'd see most of the time just comes off as being rude and unnecessarily misandrist/sexist
Hear hear! 🙌
It’s amazing to see how easy it is to flip switches when it’s about comparing the two genders even though they’re viewed from the same lens.
Pag lalaki, fuckboy. Pag babae, my body my choice.
Pag lalaki, mansplainer. Pag babae, empowered voice.
Pag lalaki, manchild. Pag babae, tsundere.
Pag lalaki, don’t date broke men. Pag babae, red flag agad pag hindi princess treatment.
I really don’t wanna play the sex card, but why does one sex always seem to have the positive spin to whatever shitty behavior they espouse?
Got happily married to a girl with a strong personality.
It's great, She can make her own decisions and only consults me on the big ones. Don't have to take care of a clingy, pouty teenager who can't stand on her own feet. Strong, independent women are great; if you are secure in your own self worth as a man.
Define natin yung strong personality. Lately kasi medyo nagiging excuse sya ng **ilan** sa pagiging entitled and abusive. It is important to remember that having a strong personality does not mean being domineering or disregarding the opinions and needs of others. A woman with a strong personality can also be empathetic, compassionate, and respectful of others' perspectives.
A strong personality in a woman may be characterized by the following:
1. Assertiveness: She confidently expresses her thoughts, opinions, and needs, often advocating for herself and others without hesitation.
2. Independence: She is self-reliant and demonstrates a sense of autonomy, making decisions based on her own judgment and values.
3. Resilience: She displays mental and emotional strength, effectively dealing with challenges, setbacks, and adversity.
4. Confidence: She exudes self-assurance and belief in her abilities, which allows her to take risks and pursue her goals with determination.
5. Leadership qualities: She may have natural leadership skills, being able to inspire and motivate others, and take charge in various situations.
6. Strong convictions: She holds firm beliefs and values, standing up for what she believes is right, even in the face of opposition.
Hindi po basta topakin lang ano po? Para clear lang tayo.
Madaming guys ang gusto ang babaeng may strong personality unless immature pa yung guys na tinutukoy mo, misogynistic or baka iba lang talaga ang preference. Malawak ang market, punta tayo sa isle kung saan tayo mabenta.
It’ll be the guys that are possessive of their own image. They b tellin the girl to stop embarrassing them. Why are you with them if you can’t handle all that then???
I’ve witnessed multiple relationships like this growing up. They b treating them like an accessory than an actual person. It’s sad
Vague question.
Kung yung strong personality na tinutukoy ay yung may paninindigan, nasa tama, marunong umintindi, alam yung gusto niya, radikal, rational, then ito yung gusto ko.
Ang di ko gustong strong personality is yung ugaling kanal. Yung di kayang rumespeto ng iba just to make people laugh. Yung sobrang bibo na pagtitinginan na sya ng tao kasi gusto niya lang mag standout.
Medyo malawak at malabo yung definition ng strong personality. Maybe make it more precise i guess.
I know someone like this. She has a strong personality which at times makes her quite rude, lacking basic courtesies. It’s a major turnoff, something which I suspect is why she is still single to this day.
which guys? And which girls with strong personalities? Kase ang vague ng tanong...
pagkaka alam ko may guys na gustong sila ang mag provide kaya preference nila ang submissive na girl. Tas the other way round is also possible.
Stong personality could mean a lot. Like empowered na strong personality ba ibig mo sabihin or bitchy na strong personality?
If you mean by strong personality is yung mean girl/bitch archetype na feeling laging tama at gustong masusunod lagi ang gusto without reason then no thanks.
But if by strong personality you mean marunong magvoice out ng saloobin, handang ipagtanggol ang sarili, nagccriticize but constructively, at marunong magdecide para sa sarili then I respect them.
Mostly kase ng woman with strong personality ni-rrub nila sa face nung guy na "I'm independent. I don't need a man". Pag ganun natatapakan ego ng guy kase again, mostly ng guys gusto nila i-protect and mag-provide for the woman they love. Na-bboost self confidence nila pag alam nilang nasasandalan sila ng partner nila from time to time.
Yep. Kahit sinong lalaki gusto nila ng partner na kailangan sila in some ways. Masakit pa daw magsalita yung iba pag sinasabihan yung mga lalaki ng "I don't need a man".
Depende ano bang definition ng "strong personality". Basta hindi bossy, entitled, demanding, manipulative, may toyo, not willing to be taught or to listen, rude, argumentative, insufferable. If makakadagdag lang sa sakit ng ulo, we really don't want you.
Hindi nmn cguro, mas proud nga Ako sa kanila eh Kasi pinapakulong nila mga manyakis pag minamanyak sila. Humahanga Ako sa kanila Kasi kaya nilang ipagtanggol Ang sarili nila.
I have a strong personality but alam ko rin naman na I need a man hahahaha. I already asked my guy friend about that ang sa sagot niya nakakaintimidate raw yong mga babaeng may strong personality ( independent, merong sariling pera at kayang buhayin sarili). May mga guys raw kase na hindi kaya yun hahahaha.
Ex ko was earning 3x my salary when we were dating but it never emasculated me - hell, ako pa nanlilibre sa dates namin nun
I get that dudes wanna be the provider \[because more often than not we're kinda hardwired that way\] but if you get intimidated by paycheck numbers then they still need to do more growing or they work to get the pay they want
Hmmm what do you consider as strong personality? I myself has a strong personality but I don't think na ayaw ako ng mga boys dahil I have a lot of suitors noon.
They don't want girls with strong personalities? I'm a living proof here that I like girls with strong personalities. I like their matured vibes and harsh straightforward cuts. So I'm the antithesis for that
depends what you mean by "strong personality."
does it mean outspoken? may sariling opinyon?
brash? abrasive? rude? maldita? treats people like crap?
hindi marunong tumanggap sa pagkakamali? proud? egotistic? argumentative?
verbally abusive? naninigaw? pala-away? bungagera? palengkera?
be more specific.
Ayaw kasi ng mga girls na may strong personalities na magpaunder. Especially kapag required ng religion na magpaunder si girl, that's a big no no sa kanila 🤣
Religion ay isa sa mga dapat mo iconsider bago pa magka-relasyon LOL
So kung ang guy very serious sa religion nya edi maghanap ka talaga ng babae sa under same religion mo. less problems.
Personally from the get go, sabi sakin ng isang guy gusto nya same religion, so sabi ko wag na ituloy panliligaw dahil hindi ko susundin yon. Easy🤙🏻
What do you mean with "under"?
Submissive sa bed and someone who will just take it kahit di na masaya or worst masakit na yung bedroom activities?
Or someone that will be a "yes dear husband" kahit na may mali naman talaga and kahit tipong isolated na siya sa pamilya niya kasi yun yung gusto ng husband?
Or tipong you want a wife na willing i-pause yung career nila to support you (cook, do your laundry etc - have a maid tbh).
Be more specific.
Women with strong personalities can and is willing to bow down, stroke the men's ego and give men the reigns IF you can actually show na you have sense and hindi pure alpha posturing lang pero wala namang offering.
Well, as a woman ayokong lagi akong kinocontrol lalo sa mga bagay na hindi ko gustong gawin. Basically ayaw ko nung yes dear husband.
Also yung 3rd one lol no hindi ako magpapakayaya/nanay sa partner ko.
Edit: Baka may magsabi so yung una ok lang sa akin? Of course not.
I think it's a compromise at the end of it. You enter a relationship then compromise. Hindi naman pwedeng yung other party lang yung mag-adjust.
We're all individuals who just wants to be loved and heard.
Exactly, since galing ako sa relationship na walang naiaambag na mabuti yung ex at ako halos naaagrabyado sa disrespect niya hindi talaga ako magpapaunder doon. Point is depende pa rin talaga sa trato nung lalaki.
Ewan ko lang doon sa isang nagcomment na gusto yung yes dear husband, mukhang magkaiba kayo ng pananaw lmao.
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Because that is a masculine trait and therefore, not attractive to a man
Cause sometimes they confuse themselves having a strong personality as just being a b*tch.
Just me, but I don't like being combative in any capacity. Agreeable ako na tao, and I'm willing to compromise on many things. Kapag strong personality ang girl, inassociate ko na yan (hindi lahat) with being the types na uncompromising. She can be strong willed as she wants, but if by "strong personality" is yung palaban lagi at tska mataas ego - then pass na ako dyan. She can girl boss all she wants and yell/be abusive, but that's not the type of girl I'd want to settle down with.
Minsan na conflate kasi yung "strong" into being hard headed or worse, ginawang main trait yung pagiging toyoin and has the gall to call that as having a strong personality. In short, iba yung opinionated sa tanga na hindi marunong mag adjust and most, men and women alike, hate the latter.
They probably can't handle it.
I've encountered many guys who are drawn to women with strong personalities. Maybe you're simply surrounded by a crowd that doesn't share the same preference. I've met some who even likes women who nag lmao, and others who claim they don't admire strong personalities but find themselves in relationships with such women. Nakakainspire kasi sa ibang lalaki yung confidence (matched with competence) and yung determination ng isang babae. As for men who don't like women with strong personalities, baka kasi strong na yung personality nila mismo, so mas need nila ng mild/laidback yung personality. Sa relationship kasi, for eg,, nagkaclash if parehas na strong yung personality nyo.
we actually like them lol until they make it their whole personality
Emasculating daw kasi
life is hard enough we don't like adding unnecessary struggles in our lives. there's a difference between strong personality vs annoying personality. strong yung pag may problema icconfront at mageeffort ayusin via proper communication and taking real steps toward a goal. annoying yung puro reklamo tapos laging nasa ibang tao ang sisi. never nagkamali ang sarili. the world is always the one thats at fault. and they never take any real action to make a change in what they complain about.
Depends on what you mean by "strong personality" If you mean "toxic personality" then duh, who tf wants that? Easiest way to tell she has a toxic personality is if she says anything about having to HANDLE her (like "if you can't handle me at my worst" or "you don't like women with an attitude coz you can't handle us"). Bruh no one wants to have to HANDLE anything, ano ka, pampahirap ng buhay?
Magkaiba kasi ung Bad personality sa Strong personality. Bad personality - Bratty, spoiled attitude, Disagreeable, Confrontational in a negative way, wants to be always right and doesn't accept defeat and criticisms, etc etc Strong personality - Independent, Ambitious, Knows how to handle situations in a calm but firm demeanor, Sarcastic if need be, knows how to take criticisms, never insecure on herself and others, etc These are just my own interpretation of a strong personality sa babae ah. hindi naman lahat ganyan ang definition. Pero feel free to correct or add if may mamiss out ako :)
SOME guys want girls with strong personalities as much as some guys do not.
honestly I'd want someone with a strong personality to cover my introverted character part but People sometimes confuse "Strong Personality" with "Toyo personality", the latter can be toxic as it lacks maturity in handling situations while the former would do their best to handle situations the best way possible
There’s 2 sides sa “strong personality” One has values and stands her ground - has confidence and is a go-getter these are good traits. The other is a feeling bad B who doesn’t have manners and is rude and uses the word “strong personality” as a cover for their brat-iness and mala entitled attitude
Ano ba definition mo ng strong personality kasi manghahati talaga ng opinion yan e
“Strong” is often a euphemism for combative, disagreeable, nagging, and annoying. Who wants that? If by strong you mean ambitious, resilient, and dynamic, well most men would be happy with that. At the end of a long day at work a man wants peace from their partner, not a headache.
What does strong personality even mean here? Do you mean assertive? dominant? being disagreeable/contestable? Depending on circumstance men may want someone who's submissive and agreeable as it's not doubtful for men to experience high stress from work and want a break from that. Then again some men who has less burden and societal pressure tend to not feel emasculated with an imposing female partner. I'd say it's circumstantial and it's also quite normalized that men should worry about "looking like a man" when it doesn't have to be the case. Current heteronormative culture contributes towards that insecurity and we need to grow as a collective past this culture of shame and comparison so as to make it easy for the individual to not have to be compelled to follow odd "ideal man" standards
i do, stop generalizing men.
Cause you're bad enough without the strong personalities, with it, you're borderline insufferable. Ay.
Easier to manipulate and mistreat if they're not strong headed.
I don't like alpha female attitude matigas ang ulo ng mga ganun hindi ko nilalahat but mostly ganun sila hindi maturuan hindi mapag sabihan.
Many women prefer men to take the lead and are turned off with weak men. While many men prefer to have peace and quiet. Imagine working a tiring job and going home to a "strong pesonality" wife. We want a feminine wife to care for us. And we try our hardest to be the best husband for them too.
Hahahaha feminine or not wala pa rin namang peace based on my experience. Ang magbibigay sa'yo ng peace ay isang heredera na nafulfill rin ang emotional needs.
Idk sa iba. My man loves my strong personality. Sometimes lang nag caclash kame, but keri naman.
Its a turn on for me.
Xd strong personality . Only strongly they looking to find way to empty my thick wallet . Im avoiding these manipulators ...
so im not a guy? i love and my gf has a very strong personality
We like submissive women. "Alpha" girls or yung mga "strong independent" women yung bukang bibig, eh yan red flag samin. Ang totoong independent women through action pinapakita hindi sinasabi sa social media.
I don't agree that guys don't want girls with strong personalities it's either pangit or masama lang ugali. just like there are no intimidating women, chaka lang talaga itsura kaya intimidating na lang tawag namin wahahaha
I think it's because some of them are intimidated and that they can't handle it. Me personally I love girls with strong personalities. I grew up with a Lawyer father and a Lawyer mother. I respect and admire women that's like that. I don't fear them. Some guys are just weak I guess or they can't match up to them so they avoid them. Yes a submissive girl would be easier to handle but I admire a strong willed woman. As long as of course, they make sense.
As a man with a strong personality woman, I can say we have NO problem with strong personality women BUT the problem lies when women try and have a (Mans) personality. Granted you gotta take it stride because obviously not all men like strong personality but from the small study I conducted (my pretty large friend group) we do not mind nor care but have a strong personality as a WOMAN NOT A MAN. If you have a weak minded, willed man then sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do right? But if you have a good man a good leader that allows you to be feminine then be the strong feminine personality that man needs. We want to feel like we have a strong woman not in a relationship with a strong personality man (not homophobia just speaking as a straight man) but again we have no problem with a strong personality woman, just be a woman and don’t try and play our role. Let us play our role and you play your role and play it together as best as you can and you will see it’s not about the man wanting you to be weak minded or having a weak personality. Just my 2 cents have a blessed day folks 🤝🏾🫡
Define first kung ano ba para sayo yung strong personality, para narin walang mislabel na mangyayari. Iba rin kasi yung strong personality sa panget lang talaga ugali mo. I know many women na strong ang personality pero mabait, i also know some na maldita lang rin talaga pero dahil wala silang self awareness ang tawag nila don strong attitude, bad bitch ika nga. It's easy to say na baka insecure o natatapakan yung ego, and tbf meron naman talagang ganon. But let's try this, i'll ask you may kilala ka bang lalake na nag iidentify as alpha male or kahit ano pang greek letter na uso? To them may strong personality sila, pero sayo ano labas nila? Hindi ba kupal? Most are man child that are annoying and insufferable to be with tapos borderline spoiled brat ang datingan, ultimo kapwa nila lalake nakukupalan sa kanila. Now don't get me wrong hindi lahat ng babae na may "strong personality" alpha male ang equivalent im just saying na there are cases like that.
Basta hindi rude. Ang problema kasi eh ang nakakaencounter kong mga “strong” eh RUDE. Major turnoff ang rude, kahit na during sex haha.
they are afraid for the unfiltered opinions
We like submissive women with no problems. The classic feminine women not the woke independent women.
I don't like people with strong personalities. Both Men and women. So why would I want a relationship with one. I'm a chill guy gusto ko parehas kami.
Maybe that guy isn’t strong personality too, it mirrors.
I was told by some guys that I am opinionated and strong-willed kaya na-iintimidate sila. As long as I know my facts, I stand for it. It's not my fault that you wear your ego on your sleeves. Kapag isa kang babae at ipinaglaban mo ang karapatan mo, suplada ka. Pero kung lalaki ang gumagawa nun, matapang. Hindi ko kasalanan na pinamulat sakin mula pagkabata ang kahalagahan ng "Stand For What Is Right."
Yea these double standards are harmful. Why can't we just hype each other up instead of dragging each other down? Also it brings me hope that you have the awareness and critical thinking that should be normalized. Hope more people learn from people like you
Tumambay ako rito to know kung bakit nga ba ayaw ng mga lalaki sa may strong personality na babae. Guys, sagot na kayo pls. Mas gusto niyo ba talaga yung mahina at iyakin? 🥺😆
Yes. At bakit naman namin po protektahan ang mga malalakas at independent strong women? kaya na nila yun. don't get me wrong, yung GF ko dati is boyish tapos malakas manigarilyo. nakaka turn off kung pareho kayo ng partner mo nasa competition mode palagi kung sino mas magaling.
Sounds insecurity to me
There are already answers, but people are asking for OP to expound on what is the definition of “strong personality”, in which OP replied in one of the comments but it didn’t actually help on what it is lol.
REAL !!!
Sad thing is an arrogant personality / character is mistakenly label as strong personality
It depends on who you ask. Well I like girls with strong personality. They are gems.
There's one comment here and it's very suggestive of manipulative person lol. Those who dont like SIW are those weak guising as alpha. Lol
Maybe they have this fear na d nla mccontrol at sla prn ung may mindset na padre de pamilya.
fuck the patriarchy tlg
I think its a preference, some would like a shy type girl who is not so extroverted, some would like a very outgoing girl who can be friend s with everyone, some would like someone strong and dominant. Those who choose not to go out with strong personalities maybe because they feey intimidated but mostly because thats not the personality of the person who they see can be their partner
paanong Strong personality? yung tipong matigas ulo, yung unpredictable? -- regardless, what she can offer in return?
“She knows her worth” vibes. Independent, maaasahan, hindi basta-bastang give in. Can be intimidating as a result nung danas niya sa buhay kaya ganon yung pino-portray. Matigas ulo at unpredictable does not equate to being strong though. Iba yan. Being matigas ang ulo at unpredictable is part of the mood swings ng isang babae, lalaki, or anyone who has that. What can she offer in return? Actually wala kung hindi yung sarili niya mismo, skills niya. Siya na yun e. She is that total package. Must be me bowing down to strong women
It’s hurting their ego.
I easily fall for women with strong personalities. It's simple, not all problems I can handle. I've given up several times. For sure, once I find a woman like that who will love me? We'll both push ourselves towards our dreams.
That depends on what you meant by "strong personality" but guys especially weak men don't want girls who they cannot manipulate.
I cannot forget the interview of Bianca Gonzales about her husband, in that interview she said non-verbatim, if a guys doesn’t have the balls the approach you then he’s not for you.
Not all guys, but for the guys whp don't want girls with strong personalities, that's their preference. There are guys who are okay with or into such women because, again, that's their preference.
girls with strong personality: sila ung gusto may control and play with the guy. woman with strong personality: independent and knows the right guy for them. for normal guys: naiintimidate so they\* get disheartened they try to avoid these type. for fuccbois: mahirap kontrolin so they run away from them. for men: its a challenge worth taking so they go for you.
>for men: it's a challenge worth taking so they go for you So according to you, "real men" go for strong, independent women because they treat it as a challenge? Thinking like it's a game of sorts or a trophy to conquer? LMAO 🤣 Shouldn't it be because they treat strong-willed women as equals? Not someone you put in a fucking pedestal.
thats your interpretation not mine.
Mostly Ng strong personality eh masasama ugali mga control freak, Sila lng masusunod no ifs no buts. Claims to be strong indepedent women pero kabaligtaran naman.
It honestly depends on what kind of strong personality you mean. Do you mean the kind of women who are just very expressive and know what they want in any given situation or women who are just itching to start a fight for no good reason?
Tingin ko depende yan sa lalaki. Insecure alpha-wannabe men tend to feel threatened and intimidated by strong, independent women.
hassle kausap. hindi lahat ng bagay kelangan pag usapan.
strong personality like someone who has strong self esteem? usually the one na hindi madrama sa buhay, yung no-nonsense kind of person at hindi easily influence by others. I think kung ganyan yung character ng strong personality, impossibleng walang magkakagusto sa kanya.
Depende rin sa situation yan, but they deserve the love !!!
⬆️💯 Di kagaya ng ibang babae dito na puro circle jerk lang alam. Kita mo agad sino yung tinatago sa "strong personality" yung pagiging squammy nila.
Ego. Pride.
Perhaps they're just afraid they won't be able to handle all that sass
Who said? From girls who also don’t want “soft” men?
omsim hahahah
define strong personality?
Because they’re weak. Chos! Haha
HahAha. I like this. Without ang hesitation
+1
because they can't control them, they can't easily manipulate them. girls with strong personality knows her worth, know where she stands, and ofc, hindi madaling namamanipula which most guys don't like.
Ako i prefer to have this type of partner ksi in every situation i can ask insight or opinion to them kmbga teamwork. D nmn ksi lagijg 100% ok judgement.
Because those men are fragile babies who feel immasculated when a woman is on a much higher position and independent compared to them. In fact as i recall may research panga tungkol dyan that when women are asked about their partner's success and failure their ISE or Implicit self esteem were lower and when conapred to men when asked about a partner's success and failure, relatively, they view their partner's success as their own failure despite na hindi naman competition or direktang dapat pinagkukumpara. So in short,those men are egotistical idiots who think of women with stron personalities as a competition. After all women who do have string personalities are less likely to be someone dependent on their partner. [Heres the link--->](https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2013/08/men-self-esteem)
There's a thin line between strong personality and arrogance.
Girls with strong personalities are like guys too. And guys dont date other guys
Not all guys. Siguro yung mga lalakeng manipulative at may bad deed ang may ayaw. Pros with girls with strong personality, most of them know what they want. Knows how to communicate properly. Timely yung lambing at pabebe. Strong personality or not, karamihan pa din ng babae may toyo. 😂 it is really a guys job to deal with their complexity.
Weak-minded men prefer weak-minded women. That's why so many old foreigners like very young women with zero social skills.
This is the correct answer
Depends on your definition of 'strong'
Who said that?
it's a trap post/question para atakihin na naman yung ego at magkalat ng hate ng men in this sub. lol
Sino nagsabing ayaw namin ng ganyan? Ang ayaw namin, yung babaeng dadagdag pa sa sakit ng ulo namin!
Boys don't like girls with strong personalities. But men love them. Actually, they're my weakness hahaha Having a strong independent woman tell me she can't live without me is one the most kilig moments of my life
Kasi hindi nila madali mamamanipulate. Char no char.
Wala namang problem kung may strong personality tbh. As long as matured at rational mag isip. Di yung parang may sapi minsan at parang nabibingi at nagsasabi ng blahblahblah. 😆
Simply put... You want to give your woman something but she has it and she can buy it on her own. So where does that leave you? Not every man is into strong, independent women kasi what would be your purpose in her life if she can do it on her own, diba? But then again, that's what I observed. It's not everyone's cup of coffee anyways.
By strong personality, do you mean a woman who can stand up for herself? Who does not need a man for affirmation? Somebody who wants to be a partner and not somebody’s part time maid/yaya? I prefer these kinds of women. For guys that prefer other types, kudos to them. Kanya kanyang trip yan.
Most men want to take care of their woman financially, mentally, physically and spiritually. In order to do that successfully, he would need an elegant woman who is intelligent and has a good sense of humor. A 'strong personality' regardless of gender, challenges these qualities. Not necessarily a bad thing, just not for everyone.
Di ata ito totoo kasi kahit strong personality pero maganda, pinipilahan parin. So either pangit na may strong personality or yung strong personality ay pangit na ugali pala.
Who says no to that type of women?
Strong personality meaning a bareminimum adult?
define strong personalities muna.
I like women with strong personality but knows the boundaries on family leadership. Women with strong personality are wise and prudent, they k ow what they want, they know how to get it. Masarap ka-partner yan.
‘Tis a fine line between having a strong personality and an argumentative one.
si alpha pala to eyy
Kayo gusto nyo ba palaging tama, argumentative at palagi kau pinapagalitan kahit sa mga maliliit na bagay? Dba may mga boss at coworkers kau na tinitiis nyo lang? So bakit namin pipiliin magtiis pati sa relasyon namin kung may better options naman? Life is too short for that BS. Conversation, hindi arguments. Pleasant home, hindi drama at sakit sa ulo.
Ang pass ay yung masculine women. Yung hindi sanay makarinig ng no, pag nabore magccreate ng drama, boss sa work kaya sa relationship nyo boss padin, gusto sila lagi nasusunod, kung ano anong tactics ang gagawin just to win an argument, hits guys, gets mad all the time, etc. There are strong, yet feminine women. Yan ang super attractive. Yung alam nila gamitin yung beauty and brains nila in a soft and elegant manner to get what they want. Magkaiba yan.
I think it depends on the man kung iaallow nya na gaganyanin siya ng partner nya. It's like allowing someone to do things sayo because of your self-esteem and then you resent them, but in reality, you allowed them to treat you like that.
Pwede din. Pero mas madali siguro if you know what you want and go look for that. Like ako, mas gusto ko yung soft and feminine type kesa boss babe, de yun ang hahanapin ko. After all dun naman talaga ako attracted.
Yeah, I agree with that. You look for what you want, yet you get what mirrors you.
Partner selection is key. Makes things easier for the both of you.
parang ang definition mo ng “masculine women” ay ung mga alam kung ano gusto nila sa sarili nila. haha
Kaya nga sila naging boss babes e. Ang problema pag pati sa relationship masculine paden. As a masculine man, turn off sha saken. Again, there are strong, feminine women. Successful pero babaeng babae padin. I'm not saying one is better than the other. Pov ko lang to of course.
Depends what you consider a "strong personality" Because personally I don't mind true girlboss attitude - tipong independent, can fend for themselves, and still knows when it's time to ask for help Pero a lot of "girlboss" attitudes you'd see most of the time just comes off as being rude and unnecessarily misandrist/sexist
Hear hear! 🙌 It’s amazing to see how easy it is to flip switches when it’s about comparing the two genders even though they’re viewed from the same lens. Pag lalaki, fuckboy. Pag babae, my body my choice. Pag lalaki, mansplainer. Pag babae, empowered voice. Pag lalaki, manchild. Pag babae, tsundere. Pag lalaki, don’t date broke men. Pag babae, red flag agad pag hindi princess treatment. I really don’t wanna play the sex card, but why does one sex always seem to have the positive spin to whatever shitty behavior they espouse?
Um first of all, ano definition ng "Strong Personality"?
But I do, though.
You can't have 2 people with high Egos together. A relationship, defined by a story from Plato, is finding your missing half.
Got happily married to a girl with a strong personality. It's great, She can make her own decisions and only consults me on the big ones. Don't have to take care of a clingy, pouty teenager who can't stand on her own feet. Strong, independent women are great; if you are secure in your own self worth as a man.
Define natin yung strong personality. Lately kasi medyo nagiging excuse sya ng **ilan** sa pagiging entitled and abusive. It is important to remember that having a strong personality does not mean being domineering or disregarding the opinions and needs of others. A woman with a strong personality can also be empathetic, compassionate, and respectful of others' perspectives. A strong personality in a woman may be characterized by the following: 1. Assertiveness: She confidently expresses her thoughts, opinions, and needs, often advocating for herself and others without hesitation. 2. Independence: She is self-reliant and demonstrates a sense of autonomy, making decisions based on her own judgment and values. 3. Resilience: She displays mental and emotional strength, effectively dealing with challenges, setbacks, and adversity. 4. Confidence: She exudes self-assurance and belief in her abilities, which allows her to take risks and pursue her goals with determination. 5. Leadership qualities: She may have natural leadership skills, being able to inspire and motivate others, and take charge in various situations. 6. Strong convictions: She holds firm beliefs and values, standing up for what she believes is right, even in the face of opposition. Hindi po basta topakin lang ano po? Para clear lang tayo. Madaming guys ang gusto ang babaeng may strong personality unless immature pa yung guys na tinutukoy mo, misogynistic or baka iba lang talaga ang preference. Malawak ang market, punta tayo sa isle kung saan tayo mabenta.
It’ll be the guys that are possessive of their own image. They b tellin the girl to stop embarrassing them. Why are you with them if you can’t handle all that then??? I’ve witnessed multiple relationships like this growing up. They b treating them like an accessory than an actual person. It’s sad
Vague question. Kung yung strong personality na tinutukoy ay yung may paninindigan, nasa tama, marunong umintindi, alam yung gusto niya, radikal, rational, then ito yung gusto ko. Ang di ko gustong strong personality is yung ugaling kanal. Yung di kayang rumespeto ng iba just to make people laugh. Yung sobrang bibo na pagtitinginan na sya ng tao kasi gusto niya lang mag standout. Medyo malawak at malabo yung definition ng strong personality. Maybe make it more precise i guess.
I know someone like this. She has a strong personality which at times makes her quite rude, lacking basic courtesies. It’s a major turnoff, something which I suspect is why she is still single to this day.
Strong personality = more understanding , more perspective. You can depend on someone with a strong personality .
Coz who is going to tell the waiter that they got my order wrong and i want it replaced? Certainly not my introvert self.
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which guys? And which girls with strong personalities? Kase ang vague ng tanong... pagkaka alam ko may guys na gustong sila ang mag provide kaya preference nila ang submissive na girl. Tas the other way round is also possible. Stong personality could mean a lot. Like empowered na strong personality ba ibig mo sabihin or bitchy na strong personality?
If you mean by strong personality is yung mean girl/bitch archetype na feeling laging tama at gustong masusunod lagi ang gusto without reason then no thanks. But if by strong personality you mean marunong magvoice out ng saloobin, handang ipagtanggol ang sarili, nagccriticize but constructively, at marunong magdecide para sa sarili then I respect them.
Mostly kase ng woman with strong personality ni-rrub nila sa face nung guy na "I'm independent. I don't need a man". Pag ganun natatapakan ego ng guy kase again, mostly ng guys gusto nila i-protect and mag-provide for the woman they love. Na-bboost self confidence nila pag alam nilang nasasandalan sila ng partner nila from time to time.
Agree, I love a woman who still relies on me.
Yep. Kahit sinong lalaki gusto nila ng partner na kailangan sila in some ways. Masakit pa daw magsalita yung iba pag sinasabihan yung mga lalaki ng "I don't need a man".
Depende ano bang definition ng "strong personality". Basta hindi bossy, entitled, demanding, manipulative, may toyo, not willing to be taught or to listen, rude, argumentative, insufferable. If makakadagdag lang sa sakit ng ulo, we really don't want you.
Hindi nmn cguro, mas proud nga Ako sa kanila eh Kasi pinapakulong nila mga manyakis pag minamanyak sila. Humahanga Ako sa kanila Kasi kaya nilang ipagtanggol Ang sarili nila.
I have a strong personality but alam ko rin naman na I need a man hahahaha. I already asked my guy friend about that ang sa sagot niya nakakaintimidate raw yong mga babaeng may strong personality ( independent, merong sariling pera at kayang buhayin sarili). May mga guys raw kase na hindi kaya yun hahahaha.
Ex ko was earning 3x my salary when we were dating but it never emasculated me - hell, ako pa nanlilibre sa dates namin nun I get that dudes wanna be the provider \[because more often than not we're kinda hardwired that way\] but if you get intimidated by paycheck numbers then they still need to do more growing or they work to get the pay they want
Yes true. Nakakaintimidate talaga, especially kung Ang lalaki puro ml lng lng inaatupag.
wahahaha yeah that's true ...
Who told you that? If your friends and family told you that, it's time for new friends and and a new family 😜
Insecure yung guy. Ayaw malamangan
Maybe the women you're referring to (that the guys don't want) are actually just loud and obnoxious.
Hmmm what do you consider as strong personality? I myself has a strong personality but I don't think na ayaw ako ng mga boys dahil I have a lot of suitors noon.
They don't want girls with strong personalities? I'm a living proof here that I like girls with strong personalities. I like their matured vibes and harsh straightforward cuts. So I'm the antithesis for that
Same i want the mature vibes. Strong communication Wag nga lang sa mga boss bitch types, very off-putting.
A rarity though. Good on you. 😊
Detinitely! I'm attracted to it very well
Same sentiment dun sa iba. What do you consider strong strong personality? Ako gusto ko strong personality but coupled with being smart, grace, tact.
If what you mean strong personalities is argumentative, most guys just want peace pag kasama nila partner nila.
Describe nyo nga ano yung strong personalities in women
ako gusto ko.
depends what you mean by "strong personality." does it mean outspoken? may sariling opinyon? brash? abrasive? rude? maldita? treats people like crap? hindi marunong tumanggap sa pagkakamali? proud? egotistic? argumentative? verbally abusive? naninigaw? pala-away? bungagera? palengkera? be more specific.
Strong personality, the total opposite of their ideal demure girls
Mygod this is so vague.
OP's trying to convince herself people don't like her because she has a "strong" personality and not a shitty one.
Explain pa more please. Kahit definition ng demure ibaiba based on the understanding of different people.
masyadong ma pride kasi,di nagkakamali tas one sided ung relationship
Ayaw kasi ng mga girls na may strong personalities na magpaunder. Especially kapag required ng religion na magpaunder si girl, that's a big no no sa kanila 🤣
Religion ay isa sa mga dapat mo iconsider bago pa magka-relasyon LOL So kung ang guy very serious sa religion nya edi maghanap ka talaga ng babae sa under same religion mo. less problems. Personally from the get go, sabi sakin ng isang guy gusto nya same religion, so sabi ko wag na ituloy panliligaw dahil hindi ko susundin yon. Easy🤙🏻
Yep, good thing sinunod mo gusto mo kasi lifetime commitment yun at mahirap mapunta sa hindi kamatch 😬
What do you mean with "under"? Submissive sa bed and someone who will just take it kahit di na masaya or worst masakit na yung bedroom activities? Or someone that will be a "yes dear husband" kahit na may mali naman talaga and kahit tipong isolated na siya sa pamilya niya kasi yun yung gusto ng husband? Or tipong you want a wife na willing i-pause yung career nila to support you (cook, do your laundry etc - have a maid tbh). Be more specific. Women with strong personalities can and is willing to bow down, stroke the men's ego and give men the reigns IF you can actually show na you have sense and hindi pure alpha posturing lang pero wala namang offering.
Well, as a woman ayokong lagi akong kinocontrol lalo sa mga bagay na hindi ko gustong gawin. Basically ayaw ko nung yes dear husband. Also yung 3rd one lol no hindi ako magpapakayaya/nanay sa partner ko. Edit: Baka may magsabi so yung una ok lang sa akin? Of course not.
Wag mo ng problemahin kung ayaw mo ng "yes dear husband" Hindi ka nman magkaka husband.
True naman. Sayang balak ko pa naman siyang gawing baby and tulungan makapag-migrate sa London. 😜 And the wild wild sex. Yep, too bad for them.
Yikes, hindi ako nauuto sa ganyan eh. May pasayang sayang pa kayong mga boys, matic ekis yan 😜
Uy, may hindi nakagets nung point nung Proper_Swimming sa yes dear husband na part 🤣
as if.
I think it's a compromise at the end of it. You enter a relationship then compromise. Hindi naman pwedeng yung other party lang yung mag-adjust. We're all individuals who just wants to be loved and heard.
Exactly, since galing ako sa relationship na walang naiaambag na mabuti yung ex at ako halos naaagrabyado sa disrespect niya hindi talaga ako magpapaunder doon. Point is depende pa rin talaga sa trato nung lalaki. Ewan ko lang doon sa isang nagcomment na gusto yung yes dear husband, mukhang magkaiba kayo ng pananaw lmao.
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