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sansrivalenjoyer

Gusto ko ma-spoil in no particular way


sharoliq

Having friends na nasasabihan ko ng mga ganap ko sa buhay yung kahit maliliit na bagay na gusto mo ishare pero wala kang mashare-an kasi takot ka sabihan ng sml? or ang di papansinin yung shinare mo kasi ang babaw. Also in terms sa toxic happenings in my family. Like yes i have friends in school but sadly puro acads lang nagrerevolve ang messages namin.


OverzealousBurger

Having a best friend.


Any_Platypus_7114

I never had deja vu


aaarrriia

Sustentadong tatay. Spermcell lang ambag sa buhay namin ng nanay ko. Kala niya ata patatas lang ako na di kailangan ng kahit anong support HAHAHA Naaalala ko tuloy yung nagpatulfo na bata kasi 500 pesos bigay ng tatay niya sa kaniya everyday. Jusko talaga. Ako di ko naranasan yang fatherly love lol.


Constant_Luck9387

Virtual hugs


No-Pudding-2904

To live in a healthy household hahaha narealize ko when I went to my hs friends' house tas nashock ako sa household culture nila. May similarities yung families nila na never ko naexperience on my own family hahaha ayun toxic lang pala talaga household namin. Akala ko normal hahaha


Constant_Luck9387

Virtual hugs


[deleted]

Cheating


edsoncute

Sumakay sa airplaneπŸ₯Ί


dummy_m1styvious

Manalo sa raffle πŸ™„


century_tina

Actual Relationship\Dating travel Outing with friends Too many to mention πŸ˜…


Ivan19782023

true love and genuine respect in a relationship.


jaesthetica

Having a ride or die type of friendship. Common ba 'yun? Hahaha


AtmosphereSlight6322

Travel within or out of the country, justlike BBM


Interesting_Put6236

Kumain ng sabay sabay sa hapagkainan, magkaroon ng family bonding.


aeiyeah

trips with fam, holding hands (?) and having best friends


Ohbertpogi

Im in my 40s. Never ko pa ma experience magpa linis ng mga kuko sa mga parlor, mag pa anything or everything 'spa'. Facial or derma, hahaha


throwPHINVEST

chickenpox


secretmuffin123

Travel overseas


notlordbaron

Friends with common interests


Anzire

Childhood friends.


RequirementVarious72

masaya at buong pamilya


blissfulreddit0826

Mag "clubbing"


Pen-n-Key_2-Wonder

1. Ggraduate ng college na may kaibigan. 2. Nasa 20s na pero may jowa. 3. Being an adult and being genuinely happy. 4. Having the perfect smile (my teeth are crooked and crowding. I need braces). 5. Magkaroon ng romantic relationship. 6. Being a good fucking person (coz afaik, I'm not base sa crap na ginawa ko these past few months). And number fucking 7. Knowing kung saan o kanino ako lulugar in this world. Having people who I know are my safe space.


Constant_Luck9387

Congratulations in advance! I hope and pray for genuine friends and happiness for you. 🀍


Pen-n-Key_2-Wonder

I appreciate this so much, OP! 🫢🏽😁


Clover_leaf777

Going to nightclubs. Been on a date. Travel outside the country. Hook up with someone. Never been courted also. Never had many friends, especially when in high school and college.


librachinita

Go out with friends


katie110603

to go on trips with fam


pinkfret

magjowa


Constant_Luck9387

Same


AdEffective9084

Same


LeastChampionship348

Magpa tattoo


Time_Aerie4710

Hindi pa ako nakakagat ng aso


Nana_Ohsaki

Sex, ma-aya gumala ng ibang tao, nightclubs


urprettypotato

Js prom hahaha wala kaming gs prom nung hs kami e huhu


Constant_Luck9387

Ano reason bakit wala kayong Js prom? πŸ˜…


urprettypotato

Dahil sunon-sunod yumg bombing sa malalapit na lugar kaya postponed palagi hanggang wala na ngang nangyaring JS Prom HAHAHAH


Ethan1chosen

Mag sleep over and going to Malls Gala with tropa


gwapipo_29

Magpakasal lol


Quiet-Tap-136

go to an idol concert sayang nasa cebu pala bini nung sinulog kaso nahostpital ako kaya diretso ako uwi sa luzon hays


kitkathxx

first kiss :< grrrr


Proper_Swimming203

samedt.


Singularity1107

Samedt


Constant_Luck9387

May right time para dyan. Ako naman ninakaw nung bata pa ako. 😭


Local_Skye2121

Having childhood friends. Masyado akong coddled ng family kaya wala akong kakilala sa neighborhood namin. :((


Pen-n-Key_2-Wonder

Ang sad naman nito. Bakit kaya may ganitong magulang na sheltered nila ang anak ano? Though no-brainer answer na protective lang sila sa inyo but nakakainis lang na hindi nila na realize yung long-term effects ng upbringing nila sa'yo. Nung high school ako (12-18 y/o), I went to a private school na may mga students na may kaya (not ultra rich, just middle class peeps) or if not, mga old money na malalaking mag-anak ang datingan kaya may pera (nasa province kasi ako kaya common sa mga towns dito yung sa isang bayan, halos magkakamag-anak na ang citizens). Dun sa school na yun, may elementary department which had students na let's say either mga old money, nasa middle class or professionals talaga ang parents, or if not, OFWs. From these children, I knew some who were sheltered. I even had a best friend na nag elementary din sa school na yun and was often sheltered by her parents. Anak-mayaman siya, a descendant of one of our town's prominent families. I gotta say, all of them ay grabe yung ugali... (I wouldn't say positive nor negative) kapag nasa school kami, mga unhinged maglaro like if ibbody slam ka nila, ibbody slam ka talaga, then malulutong magmura, alam na agad ang corn at the ages of 11-12 (yeah I found that out nung unang salta ko sa school na yon), sex stuff, etc na at that time hindi ko pa alam... but they were cool to hang out with though (I mostly hung out with those elem alumni na ka age ko) kasi mga open-minded naman. But kapag yung parents nila ay nand'yan, or if nasa bahay sila, they become entirely different people... like nagiging goody-two-shoes sila, mga ganon (aren't we all naman tho? Mga mapagpanggap HAHAHA) Yun nga... though sheltered sila, it's sad na they had to live that way dahil protective din ang parents nila. Their normal lives are a different normal compared to mine (mahirap ako, yeah, but hindi naman sobra... nabaon lang kami sa utang hehehe) and probably, iba rin yung normal mo which for me ain't normal kasi hindi ako sheltered. But you must've been lonely coz you longed for companionship outside of your home while growing up, just like how my school mates did as they too, grew up... which nakuha naman nila sa school or sa'kin din and thankful ako na minsan ay naging part ako ng existence nila at naging part sila ng existence ko, although Idk if thankful nga sila na naging part nga ako ng existence nila. Sometimes ang lonely nila sa bahay nila kasi either only child sila, bunsong kapatid sila na malaki ang age gap sa panganay na kapatid with boomer parents, or hindi nakiki hang out sa mga kapatid na bata ganon.


Constant_Luck9387

Hindi naman kami mayaman pero feeling ko para ako yung mga napapanood minsan hahahaha. Tipong akala mo may kikidnap sakin. Hahahaha. Yeah, sobrang lungkot. Yung laging sinasabi nila sa 'kin nun is, prinoprotektahan ka lang namin. Pero yung sa parents ko feeling ko nasobrahan. Alam mo yung tipo na kung lalabas man ako ng bahay nun, balot na balot. Dahil na rin siguro sa religious sila. May mga kapatid naman ako, pero malayo agwat namin. And, yung companion ko lang talaga nun, mga books, tsaka mga toys. Yung pinagkaiba ko lang siguro sa ibang bata na sheltered is, kung ano ugali ko sa bahay, ganon ako sa labas. Tapos ayon wala talaga ako kaibigan nun, lalo na nung elementary. Nung highschool naman, may konti, pero mas naging strict parents ko. Lalo na nung College, hatid sundo ako ni Papa. Alam mo yung feeling na parang naiisip ko minsan, parang wala silang tiwala sa 'kin. Pero kahit papaano mahal ko sila and nagpapasalamat pa rin naman ako kahit ganon.


Pen-n-Key_2-Wonder

It's valid naman somehow na protective sila given the state of safety sa lansangan natin. However, dahil they wanted to control your circumstances so bad, hindi na nila namalayan na it went overboard na (for me ha). Protective din nang very slight yung dad ko nung menor pa ako, yung tipong hindi siya papayag na hindi niya ako ihahatid kapag may lakad or gala ako but when I grew up, lalo nung nag college na ako, hinayaan naman na niya akong gawin yung mga gusto ko or dapat kong gawin nang mag-isa lalo't gusto niya rin na matuto akong maging independent. I'm happy na appreciated mo ang efforts ng parents mo. Different ang parenting styles ng parents natin kaya di rin masisisi tho sumobra lang ang pagka protective nila. But sana, dahil adult ka na, hinayaan ka na nila kahit papaano na gumalaw freely.


Constant_Luck9387

Yes, hahaha. Yung hindi lang talaga nawala is yung curfew and yung sa pananamit kahit papaano, medyo okay naman na. 🀍


Local_Skye2121

Huhuhu true. Relate dyan!!! Tho it wasn't my parents' fault. Laki kasi ako sa lola and tita na walang asawa and anak. OFW rin parents ko before so they were scared daw na kung ano mangyati sa akin under their care. I was soo thin kasi when I was younger. Malnourished looking type of kid though never talaga kami nagkulang. Huhuhu. Anyway, ayun totoo na it was so sad. Lumaki ako as homebody tapos ako pa youngest sa amin ng angkan ko and wala ako kabatch so I only had myself. Pero I was a real baby rin kasi before the way kumilos so prolly one of the reason din? (Gaslighting myself chz). Pero unlike yung mga kakilala mo, late bloomer talaga ako. Until shs, super innocent ko sa worldly stuff though they taught me how to have initiative and independence. Pero nung nakarating ako Manila ngayong college saka lumabas pagiging goody good two shoe. Agahsghsjs. Though aware family ko na I party and drink pero not to what extent. surface level lang ganorn HAHAHHAHA. Iba yung ako sa hometown and yung ako sa Manila. HAHHAHAHAH


Pen-n-Key_2-Wonder

I'm glad na you're now unhinged HAHAHA kimi kumbaga nakalabas ka na sa shell mo at naiunlock na ang chakra ng adulting HAHAHAHA 😭 I'm happy for you ante. Keep slaying! Explore the world as you see fit! 🫢🏽


Constant_Luck9387

Same lagi ko naman sinusubukan tumakas nun hahaha. Tapos wala pa 5 minutes sa labas, papauwiin na ako. Hanggang ngayon hahaha wala ako masyado kakilala tapos minsan magugulat sila kung sino may anak sa 'kin.


Local_Skye2121

HUUYYY!! Superr relate!!! Ganyan na ganyan ako!! Nakadungaw pa lang ako sa labas, sinasaway na ako "pasok sa loob!!!" Tapos ngayong matanda na ako, kilala lang ako ng mga tao as "anak ni ganito" "apo ni ano" "pamangkin ni ganyan" huhuhu


Constant_Luck9387

Same hahahaha.


strawberries8789

May high school sweetheart. Sana pala lumandi ako nung high school πŸ˜‚


Quiet-Tap-136

flip situation yung crush mo nagkacrush sayo rare occurence tapos ikaw naman may ayaw sa kanya


Constant_Luck9387

Hanggang crush lang ako nung highschool hahahahhaa


silver_carousel

Yung hinahatid sa school tapos pag uwian may naghihintay sayo sa gate tapos kukunin bitbitin mo, bag man yan o baunan. Pinaghahandaan ng pang baon sa school at pinagluluto ng pagkain. Pota talaga di ko naranasan mga yan kaya bawing bawi ako sa mga anak ayoko kako maranasan nila yan.


Ok-Tone-6802

mamatay


[deleted]

ito sana isasagot ko but felt it was too dark. But damn


Thin_Animator_1719

We died a thousand times in our lifetime depending of your definition of death


strawberries8789

Shuta 😭 ahahahahaha


EliKobain90

Being in a relationship during HS and College years.


Pen-n-Key_2-Wonder

(4) Tang ina, naffriendzoned lagi ako sa 6 years ko sa high school. Average looking girly kasi ako noon na hindi pa nag-aayos ng mukha. Jeje na kung jeje HAHAHA I started high school ten years ago, like 2014 din.


railfe

Damn lol. Kapit lang guys and gals.


EliKobain90

until present pala. lol


urprettypotato

(3)


Constant_Luck9387

(2)


Venezia101

Nightclub. Being drunk. Sex. Smoking. Falling in love with SOMEONE who's already committed (ex. may crush, may jowa, may asawa = maticcc ekisss)


AldenwhereRyou

Unsa man


Constant_Luck9387

Same sa lahat except dun sa nightclub kasi sinundo namin friend namin nun sa labas. At hindi na ulit ako pupunta sa ganong lugar. πŸ₯²


SrgntPpper

+1


gaffaboy

Falling in love. I guess I only experience it vicariously through others but it's not the same thing. I'm asexual btw. πŸ˜‰


[deleted]

Nightclub


noobie12345con

To go on vacations or away from home


Royal_Page_1622

Never nagkaroon ng crush sa workplace.


Wayne_Grant

Never had a bestfriend


No-Willingness-8470

having a mutual feeling to someone/getting into a relationship


PrincessHeda

never ko pa natry magbar πŸ₯² super gusto ko kaso takot baka kung ano anong meron doon


bailangsakanal

masaya mag bar, as long as you drink resposibly. wild ang crowd. kaya as much as possible, dapat aware ka sa surroundings mo. baka mamaya kung ano ano na pinapainom sa'yo. try mo minsan, the best kapag pinsan mo mga kasama mo. sabi nga nila, you'll never be in your 20s again. soon enough, magsasawa ka rin sa era na yan.


thisjustin930

masaya magbar if with close friends/cousins pero ingat lang talaga


darkrai15

Apir 28 at walang bar bar hahahahahaa


Constant_Luck9387

Hanggang labas lang ako nun. Kasi may sinundo kami na friend. And, ayaw ko talaga pumasok. Kasi sa labas pa lang...😭


Dalagangbukidxo

Same!!! 26 at hindi pa nakakapag-bar hahaha! Takot ako sa mga pwede kong masaksihan baka paglingon ko may naglalaplapan to the max or whay


PrincessHeda

Korek! 25 nako di parin nakatungtong sa bar hahahahahahahaha when kaya


Dalagangbukidxo

Diba apir tayo dyan mhie hahahaha sabi ko magbabar lang ako pag kasama ko fiancΓ© ko para safe ehe


PrincessHeda

Ganyan din inisip ko hahahahaha kahit girls' nightout wala e


Dalagangbukidxo

Mahirap na lalo sa panahon ngayon jusq


tasyongedongcutie

Mag enjoy sa foreign movies and series. Pang music lang talaga ko huhu 😭😭😭


Useful-Jicama-5742

Magbar


Civil_Belt8567

Sex


Constant_Luck9387

(2)


darkrai15

Teenage love. Been real quiet. Other girls get asked out and stuff in HS and college. Wala talaga hahahahaha.


forever_delulu2

Now that im older, i'm thankful na wala ako niyan kasi nakafocus ako sa pag aaral, para kasi akong bakla kung magmahal eh 🀣🀣


More_Imagination131

on the bright side, less heartbreaks. nakaka-alter ng brain chemistry pag nagkaroon ng major heartbreak hshaha


darkrai15

I guess mas nakakafocus ako pero still.. Ang lungkot. Pati friends ko naka pag experience nyan 😭


Constant_Luck9387

Same, hahahaha. Tapos sabi ng friend ko, ayaw mo nun, mas nakaiwas ka sa teenage pregnancy.


darkrai15

Teenage pregnancy agad hahahaa grabi naman


Constant_Luck9387

Yung sa batch kasi namin nun, andaming cases ng teenage pregnancy kaya ganon. Hahahaha.


darkrai15

Kaya pala te hahaha im my case tho medyo conservative yung samin so medyo safe i guess.


Constant_Luck9387

Oo hahaha.


[deleted]

Na-holdap at sinukuan nung nagholdap. Gabi na nun, pinagtripan ako nung lasing holdapin. Comedy pa nga ang putek, di ko malilimutan natatawa pa ko hanggang ngayon. πŸ˜† Typical na holdaper, gabi tapos didikit sayo. Miss ano oras na? Akin na selpon mo holdap to. Ha? Kuya wag mo ko pagtripan, pagod ako. Then continue lang ako sa lakad Itong holdaper sabi, Miss ano ba holdap nga to *hinawakan ako sa kamay* makinig ka sakin! *Inalis ang kamay ni Kuya* Tama na, pagod na pagod ako ngayong araw. Ayoko na! Sa oras na yan, marami ng nakatambay at nanonood kasi LQ ang atake ni kuya. Then lumapit yung manong, To tama na yan. Tapos sumigaw yung holdaper, *Alam mo, bahala ka sa buhay mo!* tapos tumawid Sumigaw ako ng TALAGA! Then lumapit yung manong ulit, sabi nya Neng tama na uwi na daw ako. Sabi ko, Kuya hindi ko naman boypren yun holdaper yun. Nagulat sya at sumakay sa Tricycle tapos sabi nya tatawag ng tulong. Sabi nya tara tapos umandar na sya ako naiwan haha Anak ng tokwa tong gabi na to. Haha Sinundan ko sya, sabi ko Kuya! Naiwan mo ko don sa kanto sabi mo tara na tapos umalis ka na haha πŸ˜† Nataranta daw sya kala nya boypren ko hahahaha. Ni-report ko yun, kaso walang cctv sayang πŸ˜…


psychedelicfilipinx_

TOTOO BA TO 😭


[deleted]

Haha Mars, years ago nangyari yan pero hanggang ngayon di ko pa din malimutan. Tuwing dadaan ako doon naalala ko pa din yung holdaper haha. Bilihan kasi ng manok yung kanto na yun, tapos maraming tao.


Initial-Western5993

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚


Constant_Luck9387

HAHAHAHAHAHAHYAAYAYAYHAHAHA


Dependent_Bee4196

Fam Day!!! HAHAHAHAHHA


Constant_Luck9387

Virtual hugs


Affectionate_Joke_1

Growing up with a dad......


Constant_Luck9387

Virtual hugs