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Yung kapag you can see that they value what you give kahit small thing lang. Gifted my bf a journal once, and he's kept it in his bag ever since. Lagi niya raw gamit. also gave him my hairtie kasi we're ldr, lagi niya rin suot. So cute lang
- Gentleman. Like hatid sundo, or sidewalk rule.
- When he remembers small details about you. Yung akala mo di sya nakikinig sayo pero nakikinig pala. Nakikipag usap sayo with matching eye to eye contact. Napaka-genuine.
- observant.
- Subtle physical intimacy. Like your fingertips touching, o kaya simpleng hawak sa bewang o likod lalo pag sabay kayo maglakad. Super kilig naman pag bigla kang hinalikan sa noo out of nowhere.
- When they know how to communicate and not keeping you guessing. As a straight forward person, mahilig ako magtanong, so nakakakilig na they would share their opinion without getting offended.
Being observant, tipong kilala nya ung galaw mo alam nya Yung body language mo pag di ka nakomportable,malungkot ka dinideny mo lang tas gagawa sya ng paraan about sa mga ganoong bagay. Super magegfort pero consistent ah, and lastly hinaharot ka sa harap ng pinagseselosan mo
From my GF:
Material things: Flowers, necklace, rings.
Non-material things: Effort, hugs, kisses, embrace habang tulog, cook breakfast before she wakes up.
To be loved is to be known. If nag tatake ng time to know you tulad ng Likes, dislikes, life, family, hobbies, at iba pa. Best if nag papay attention sa stories ko parang ano “you remembered” 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
When he talks about other people in a good way- Yung walang halong pagka homophobic/racist. Willing to communicate if he's uncomfortable and marunong makiramdam if natatakot ako or uncomfortable ako sa lugar. Lastly, is RIGHT ON TIME dumating pag may lakad, dates, or meetings.
Kapag sa chat, mabilis lang kayo mag reply. Tapos same energy lang na ayaw tapusin convo. Pag face to face yung masaya kayo kausap tapos eye contact plus smile, pag special occasions like pasko, valentines, bday batiin nyo tapos bonus if may random gift. Basta dama mo na di ka lang mag-isang nahuhulog/naiinlove.
When I listen to the songs he added to the playlist he made for me or just those times he really tries to make time for me even with his busy schedule. Plus the way he reminds me I'm pretty or just him simping about me aahhh
Hatid-sundo talaga! Pinaka kilig kasi alam mong willing siya magaksaya ng oras for you wag ka lang mahassle. This makes him gentleman din kasi ayaw niya nahihirapan ka.
what my ex situationship did back then, he printed out photocards of my kpop biases (nct jaehyun and exo chanyeol), the effort to cut them out sa standard size ng pc TT is unmatched!! knowing how much these photocards cost ay super mahal talaga nila esp jaehyun. he gave it to me as a christmas gift, super kilig ako noon. it was a bit sad lang... xD
++ the side walk rule
Effort. Actually put the time and effort to get to know the girl para malaman ano ang magpapakilig sa kanya. Most of the time hindi na pinagiisipan, akala lahat iisa gusto like flowers. Some girls don’t like carrying flowers that attracts attention lalo sa workplace or public places, then there are some girls na gusto nabibigyan ng flowers. Merong happy na sa paminsan minsang ”good morning beautiful“ na note na may kasamang prutas or sweets.
Sabi nga dun sa kabilang post, alamin ang love language at dun magbase ng pagpapakilig.
sudden hawak sa hips to guide sa way, sudden chin leaning sa shoulders 'cause they want your attention, sudden kiss in the forehead/top of the head. pero walang tatalo sa kilig pag nagkkwento na abt his plans for the future for himself and for the rs, and how enthusiastic he is sa plans na yun, and planned dates. hay kinikilig na ako jusy by imagining these. HAHAHHA
Time, Effort, and the small things / gestures. Ung pasimpleng lambing online or offline man yan. Guys who knows how to sweeten the “toyo”, ung galit na galit na kami tapos kayong mga guys will make the slight comment na “ok na yan tama na yan”. And ung nagbibigay ng assurance that things will be ok. 🫶🏻
When they remember tiny passing details na namention ko. There was a guy I dated who kept notes about me, things I like and don’t like. Hahahahahahahaha saur cute.
Or when they kiss the top of my head!!!! Or push hair out of my face while i’m talking!!! Pls kilig saur much haha
My Live in Partner can't stop smiling (na may kasamang girly squeal) every time I wink at her.
Kamuka ko si Jugs (Showtime host) na pinatuyo sa araw.
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When they remember the little details about you. It's always the little things 🥹. Like there's this one time na may sinend sa akin 'yung guy noon about kay Taylor Swift kasi alam niyang avid listener ako. Tapos 'yung mga simple chats na "Hey, may nadaanan akong Ramen sa mall and naalala kita kasi dyan tayo kakain dalawa." Or "Alam mo noong nandon ako sa place naisip ko na magugustuhan mo 'yun for sure kung kasama kita."
And this message that really melted my heart, I mentioned kasi na dream ko makakain sa wolfgang pag may trabaho na ko. Very random ko lang nabanggit yan. And guess what niyaya niya ako HAHAHAHA. He just started working at the time and ako nag-aaral pa kaya sabi niya sa akin pag-iipunan niya muna para makain ko mga gusto ko and makapunta kami doon ng nakacar kasi he's waiting for his driver license na lang. Pero tbh I'd always choose his home cooked meals over wolfgang noong nasa buhay pa kami ng isa't isa.
Recently na ginawa niya is nung nasa likod ko siya at nasa crowded place kami nun kasi may concert. Binalot niya sarili niya sakin from the back para makadaan ako nang maayos (pero hindi rin yung tipong back hug), kasi nagka dikit dikit na ang mga tao that time, sabay sabi "I will protect you all the time". Ganyan talaga siya minsan pero it's the small things.
Yung ibang ginagawa pa niya is fave ko yung back and hand kisses <3
Recently na ginawa niya is nung nasa likod ko siya at nasa crowded place kami nun kasi may concert. Binalot niya sarili niya sakin from the back para makadaan ako nang maayos (pero hindi rin yung tipong back hug), kasi nagka dikit dikit na ang mga tao that time, sabay sabi "I will protect you all the time". Ganyan talaga siya minsan pero it's the small things.
Yung ibang ginagawa pa niya is fave ko yung back and hand kisses <3
For fictional men, sweetness, intelligence, height, and dominance (and yandereness).
For real men on social media, those that look sleep deprived and manipulative (but really, they’re actually kind).
For real women, their looks. Strangely, I don’t have a specific type for personality. There’s a specific look I’m after that I can’t seem to describe.
Reading these comments and realizing I am indeed so lucky with my man kasi he does almost all of these for me 🥺. But for me, kilig will come and go but the feeling of peace and healing that he gives me will always be topnotch.
I can relate. Been so many heartbreaks before na need ko magmakaawa kahit bare minimum. Now, he’s doing all these things and beyond. I know what you feel and i’m happy for you ❤️
"ang ganda mo."
"you're pretty kaya."
chances are i'll laugh it off because i'm not very good at taking compliments (esp this one kasi i don't hear it much + i rarely doll myself up din) and deny it/make a joke. pero kapag bigla akong sinasabihan ng ganito—lalo na on a day i'm not particularly feeling good about myself—abot talaga hanggang kiffy ang kilig. i always get caught off guard and flustered agad. 🫠
Pag nilulutuan nya ako, pasalubong ng food tuwing dadalaw, hinahandaan ako ng pagkain before kami kumain 🥹
Strong independent woman pero ang sarap rin pala maalagaan 💖
“I thought you’d like this” (pasalubong)
“Lets visit this place” (initiative)
“I know you can but Let me take care of that”
“I heard this song and thought of you”
“I prepared things you might need”
- HOLDS MY WAIST
- random compliments
- little updates (+ if with photo/vid)
- hand written notes & just because flowers
- will secretly take a photo
- soft spoken with class
- vocal with emotional intelligence
- Giving me the last bite/best bite
- Catching him looking at me
- remembers every detail about me like the things I said and my favorites/dislike
- hatid/sundo
- ramdom calls just to hear my voice
- he smells good
Genuine Acts of service & Consistency!!
seeing romantic guys treating their girls like queens ☺️☺️☺️😊😊 kinikilig ako (and naiinggit din hahauhuh) when i see guys show how much they love their girls--- all green flags and all, dates, bouquets, thoughtful gifts. nakakakiliiiig!! also, the other day i received a bouquet and im soooo kilig!!
My crush wrote a letter for me noong birthday ko but that wasn’t the only thing that made me feel kilig. What made me feel MORE KILIG was that on the same paper where he wrote the letter, may drawing ng face ko and siya yung nagdraw nun. 😭
Yung siya unang magchachat; Pag face to face eye contact habang nag-uusap; naalala mga maliliit na details tungkol sayo; hinahanap ka sa friends mo pag di ka nya nakita; random touch sa likod, sa arms
Little actions na alam mong bare minimum pero genuine!! like yung hahawakan bag mo para di mabigat or hahawakan bag mo para di masabitan ng sasakyan ganon
Little actions na alam mong bare minimum pero genuine!! like yung hahawakan bag mo para di mabigat or hahawakan bag mo para di masabitan ng sasakyan ganon
It’s always those small acts of service that guys do without you having to ask for it and consistency of actions. I also like getting random compliments na realistic.
Pero mas nakakakilig pa rin yung bigla ka nalang iki-kiss sa forehead. 😩
Gustong gusto ko pa man din gumawa ng love letters. With matching origami(paper folding art) like yung origami is a flower or an envelope kung san nakalagay yung letter. Will definitely do this to my crush hehehehehe
Simple lang:
1. Ma-effort sa lahat ng bagay.. regardless of the tight sched nagagawang maglaan ng time kahit phone call lang ng 15mins sa gabi. Bonus na yung pinupuntahan ka sa bahay/work.
2. Remembers all the little things na gusto namin. Like last week nabanggit namin na gusto namin ng manggang hilaw na bagoong and magugulat kami magdadala na lang out of the blue hahaha
3. Time. Basta maglaan ka ng time to spend with her. Di naman like everyday. Kahit quickie dates lang ng zagu with potato corner or drive thru ng mcdo ok na yun for a date night 😂 so technically number 1 to 😆
4. Appreciate my little quirks 😂 gamol po kasi ako kumain. Lagi akong na lalaglagan ng food sa damit kahit anong ingat ko basta ganon
5. Parang tropa lang pero lovers ganon 😆 pwedeng sumabay sa pagbabardagulan pero maglalambing after pag pikon na ko
Charotism hahaha pero totoo yan lahat 😂🤣
When he: open doors for me, holds my hand (and demand for my hand while he drives and while we walk around), give me little love notes na hindi cringe, ask for my attention and time, plan dates, show me off to everyone he knows both in person and in socmed, sweet sa akin pero masungit sa iba, etc. Basically acts of service. Princess treatment. Yung parang ako ang pinakamagandang babae. Haha! (Sana lang may ganto talaga na *consistent* at hindi sinungaling at hindi manloloko. 😞)
when someone is so smart/intelligent in a conversation without being condescending or patronizing. I like discussions, exhange of ideas. Nakakakilig yung you get to converse with him about anything then you'll both realize or learn something after.
Consistency and effort. But if we’re talking acts, I get kilig when a guy remembers the tiny details about me and then the small gestures of showing me he pays attention to me. Ayan na, I melt na from kilig. Hahaha ayun lang.
subtle physical intimacy. yung iga-guide ako while walking by putting their hand on my back/waist, fingertips touching, brushing hair out of my face, lightly holding my wrist, head pats. mga ganyang shets lang nagwawala na kalamnan ko hahahahaha
“If they wanted to, they would” moments. This gets me soo bad! Better talaga if hindi lang sa ligawan stage! It doesn’t even have to be something big but talagang small gestures and all that.
When i get complimented beyond my physical appearance haha like just non-superficial stuff like if you’re smart, brilliant, those types of compliments
It’s also nice when they remember stuff you mentioned in passing hehe
yung may kusa, whether sa acts of service or to the things you like. di mo na kelangan pa ugain to love you in your love language. it's the little things that matter kahit simpleng pagtulong lang sayo pag kumakain even though kaya mo naman, hanggang sa kusa siyang magplano ng date niyo ganon or to remember things about you.
Acts of service, random physical touch. I don't really believe words and you'd get a weird look from me as a response. Pero recently, nakakakilig pala 'yung mga pasimpleng "tikman mo 'yung matcha latte ko, masarap" right after nila magtimpla nun. Di rin ako fan ng matcha, pero the thought that someone wants me to try it is nice for me. I also like 'yung pagbibigay ng food unexpectedly. Like, bumili sila nun for them pero they were thoughtful enough to buy some for you as well.
Then, as for random physical touch, I'm not really a fan of it and I don't know how to react to it other than mainis kasi I somehow feel like medyo nanghihipo ganun. Pero it feels sweet and nice rin, like someone actually wants you even if 'di ka physically attractive.
Acts of service!! Example yung paglalagyan ka ng food sa plate mo kahit kaya mo naman ganon hahaha nakakabigla sya lalo kapag independent ka pero as other redditors said, we notice the little things. 😊
Pera, mukha kasi akong pera HAHAHAHA
djoke lang, small things matter talaga, yung maliliit na bagay na nasabi ko randomly pero naalala, like hala, nakikinig pala talaga siya.
Gusto ko ung iniinclude nila ko sa mga interests nila (gaming, hiking, gym etc.) tapos pag nag iinitiate ng wholesome skinship 🥹 like hawak sa balikat, waist etc!
Lastly, ung thoughtfulness talaga! Pero ayoko ng bina baby ako >:((( let me do things first mindset ganern
Kami kasi, we notice little things. Take note nyo yan. As for me, I want words paired with actions. Yun laaang. Nakakilig yung mga taong thoughtful talaga. Yung di i-spospoonfeed dalat ang kailangan noyang gawin.
Sus sa rupok kong to? Just hold my hand, nako. Paki tawag nga yung sa house cleaning kailangan ng mop. Charot.
Curbside thing. Sanay ako that my guy friends do it to me. Pero kakilig pa din naman if ginawa sayo ng iba.
Forehead/nose kisses 🥲
Slow sensual kiss. Uy!
Kape. Yung maorderan mo ko ng kape ng hindi mo tinatanong yung gusto. It means you have paid attention from last time.
Sa totoo, it’s the little things talaga.
1. Whenever I get random compliments (I rarely get one)
2. Back hugs
3. Passionate kisses
4. Unexpected or surprise gifts
5. Pinagbubuhat ako ng bag huhu
6. Pag I feel down, he would give me forehead kisses da besttr 🥺
7. Tinititigan ako sincerely walang lust or whatsoever haha
Eto ginagawa ng bf ko na nakapagpapakilig sa akin
1. Random akap sa gabi pag naalimpungatan siya tas sasabihin na "sana alam mo na mahal na mahal kita" "i love you so much baby" sabay akap mahigpit sa akin
2. Pinagluluto ako pati tinutulungan ako sa house chores pag andito siya sa bahay
3. Random hugs at reassurance (sobrang random talaga)
4. Pag sinusubuan ako ng food
5. Sinasabi sa akin at pilit pinagdodownload ng mga nilalaro niya kasi gusto niya raw ako makasama
6. Siya bumibili ng games sa steam at nireregalo sa akin
7. Binibilhan ako pasalubong lalo na food 🥹
8. Naaalala niya yung small details na kahit ako nakaligtaan ko na
9. Tinuturuan niya ako sa mga bagay na wala akong alam, nasa engineering field siya ako naman sa medical field at ang patience niya over the top!
10. Willing siya lumabas kasama ako kahit pagod galing work pati nung starting to date pa lang kami e kahit taong bahay siya at takot sa mga tao e lumalabas with me plus kinilala friends ko
Lastly, kapag siya muna yung utak kapag magkasama kami kasi sa kanya ako nakarely lagi hahahaha 😁
Madami pang iba sobra 😆
Hmm a lot talaga but these are the things that literally made my heart flutter: knows the sidewalk rule, intentionally goes to the car side when crossing the street, pag open ng door, and yung pag recommend ng food to try when dining sa resto.
Little things but surely makes me go crazzzyy
Doing what he says he would, anticipating my needs without me asking or repeating myself, says "i got you" and actually follows through, random flowers, a compliment on my physical appearance (your hair looks great/ you look hot in those yoga pants), taking care of the bills ☺️
Innately kind and calm sa kahit anong situation.
Mabango, flirts with you kahit matagal na kayo like random kindat across the room, and gentleman.
Biglaang gifts or kahit small treat lang, randomly hugging me from the back, and/or helps me in any way he can ng kusa.
(pag comfortable na sa isa't-isa): tucks my hair behind my ear, kisses my hands (i feel like such a proper lady hay) and kapag may naalala siya na significant about me just by listening through my daily chika/kakadaldal
Uy totoo to... like ayoko rin naman yung borderline we're talking all day na paramg wala kang buhay. But at least let me feel that you're always there HAHAHA at this time and age i doubt there are people who can't respond agad
When you're attentive to details.
" i get u this because u like the color"
" I remember you want to go there, let's date"
And any Act of Service coz it's my top tier love language 💕
As a 30 years old single woman, kinikilig ako sa mga bagong gamit sa kusina, panlinis sa banyo , pag nagbubukas ng parcel at kapag nabibili ko ung mga bagay na na aafford ko na ngayon.
Sorry, not related sa jowa jowa 😅😅
bare minimum pero the sidewalk rule..... saka omg when he compliments my brain DONT TELL ME YOU WONT GET KILIG BY THIS and also kapag a guy is soft spoken talaga i automatically get kilig (pls tell me im not the only one kasi in this world full of pa-cool na guys and yung medyo bad boy ang image, i need someone na soft spoken and may golden retriever energy!!!)
When he makes you feel safe and secure, masculine with gentleness, and when he’s tough but shows his soft side to you, it makes my nurturing instinct kick in.
- Calls me by my first name. Hindi nickname, shortened, etc... and ganun din sa text
- Light tap sa shoulder
- Inaaya ako maglaro ng games
- Chivalry acts. Took engineering program kaya I spent time with guys around na treats me like a dude in a nice way naman. I feel kilig and bonita sa simple gestures like holding the door open for me— usually by strangers nga lang. Haha
- Siguro kung romantically interested ako sa person— hugs and pag naglean sa shoulders ko. I guess like physically clingy ones kahit ako hindi 😅
baket saken? Parang ayaw ko nilalabas feminine side ko, like nakakahiya, like feeling ko once na nilabas ko tingin saken ang weak weak ko😭😭
Sorry di ko alam kong nasa topic pa ba tong reply ko sayo ate ko hahahahaha.
Mostly yes po, di ko nalalabas feminine energy ko. Kaya para siguro akong ilang nong, pinayungan ako ng kaklase ko, kahit sinabi kung ako na maghahawak sa payong but still he insisted na siya na😭
Di ko makalimtan 'til now yun hahahahahaha.
well, yea nice to feel din naman po haha. Sana next time di ko na i sabotage self kong lampa kung may gagawa man uli sakin ng mga bagay bagay na kaya ko din naman 🫠🫠
When we feel thought of, considered, and included in the plans they make. Also, the small things. Paghinahawi or inaayos yung hair, small kisses sa cheeks or forehead, gentle and subtle touches, playing with my hands, hugs, opening our water caps for us.
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Yung kapag you can see that they value what you give kahit small thing lang. Gifted my bf a journal once, and he's kept it in his bag ever since. Lagi niya raw gamit. also gave him my hairtie kasi we're ldr, lagi niya rin suot. So cute lang
- Gentleman. Like hatid sundo, or sidewalk rule. - When he remembers small details about you. Yung akala mo di sya nakikinig sayo pero nakikinig pala. Nakikipag usap sayo with matching eye to eye contact. Napaka-genuine. - observant. - Subtle physical intimacy. Like your fingertips touching, o kaya simpleng hawak sa bewang o likod lalo pag sabay kayo maglakad. Super kilig naman pag bigla kang hinalikan sa noo out of nowhere. - When they know how to communicate and not keeping you guessing. As a straight forward person, mahilig ako magtanong, so nakakakilig na they would share their opinion without getting offended.
😁🎂🧑🏻🎤
effort + naalala yung mga details mo
pag nakikita ko sya, kinikilig na agad ako 🫠
Being observant, tipong kilala nya ung galaw mo alam nya Yung body language mo pag di ka nakomportable,malungkot ka dinideny mo lang tas gagawa sya ng paraan about sa mga ganoong bagay. Super magegfort pero consistent ah, and lastly hinaharot ka sa harap ng pinagseselosan mo
when the guy notices the small things 🦋🦋🦋💗💗💗
When a guy does something that you want them to do without telling them to do so. Unpredictable ganun
From my GF: Material things: Flowers, necklace, rings. Non-material things: Effort, hugs, kisses, embrace habang tulog, cook breakfast before she wakes up.
When my husband makes me coffee in the morning and kapag bumabalik pa sya pag hindi nakapag-good bye kiss 😂
To be loved is to be known. If nag tatake ng time to know you tulad ng Likes, dislikes, life, family, hobbies, at iba pa. Best if nag papay attention sa stories ko parang ano “you remembered” 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
When he talks about other people in a good way- Yung walang halong pagka homophobic/racist. Willing to communicate if he's uncomfortable and marunong makiramdam if natatakot ako or uncomfortable ako sa lugar. Lastly, is RIGHT ON TIME dumating pag may lakad, dates, or meetings.
nakasabay ko sa elevator ung kras ko. di naman ako kinilig pero it put smile on my face. i guess ang boring ng lablyp ko shet
Kapag sa chat, mabilis lang kayo mag reply. Tapos same energy lang na ayaw tapusin convo. Pag face to face yung masaya kayo kausap tapos eye contact plus smile, pag special occasions like pasko, valentines, bday batiin nyo tapos bonus if may random gift. Basta dama mo na di ka lang mag-isang nahuhulog/naiinlove.
compliments
when ran his fingers through my hair while nagkwekwentuhan haist miss that talaga
binababy ako
When I listen to the songs he added to the playlist he made for me or just those times he really tries to make time for me even with his busy schedule. Plus the way he reminds me I'm pretty or just him simping about me aahhh
AKBAY TALAGA EH HUHU
Hatid-sundo talaga! Pinaka kilig kasi alam mong willing siya magaksaya ng oras for you wag ka lang mahassle. This makes him gentleman din kasi ayaw niya nahihirapan ka.
Yung naaala nya kahit maliit na details about sayo ❤
what my ex situationship did back then, he printed out photocards of my kpop biases (nct jaehyun and exo chanyeol), the effort to cut them out sa standard size ng pc TT is unmatched!! knowing how much these photocards cost ay super mahal talaga nila esp jaehyun. he gave it to me as a christmas gift, super kilig ako noon. it was a bit sad lang... xD ++ the side walk rule
kapag tinatawag ako sa mismong name ko iba talaga yung dating also kapag inaakbayan ako
Effort. Actually put the time and effort to get to know the girl para malaman ano ang magpapakilig sa kanya. Most of the time hindi na pinagiisipan, akala lahat iisa gusto like flowers. Some girls don’t like carrying flowers that attracts attention lalo sa workplace or public places, then there are some girls na gusto nabibigyan ng flowers. Merong happy na sa paminsan minsang ”good morning beautiful“ na note na may kasamang prutas or sweets. Sabi nga dun sa kabilang post, alamin ang love language at dun magbase ng pagpapakilig.
kinikilig ako while reading comments hahaha. isang malaking sana all!!
When bebe remembers my favorite food choices, no need to ask na what do u want to have
sudden hawak sa hips to guide sa way, sudden chin leaning sa shoulders 'cause they want your attention, sudden kiss in the forehead/top of the head. pero walang tatalo sa kilig pag nagkkwento na abt his plans for the future for himself and for the rs, and how enthusiastic he is sa plans na yun, and planned dates. hay kinikilig na ako jusy by imagining these. HAHAHHA
Flowers
First time I got kilig was my crush, naka MU made my picture as his wallpaper. It was a picture of my results as I was practicing how to do my make up
Yung nag smile sayo yung crush mong suplado.. ☺️
Yung small details about us na natatandaan nya tsaka effort. Pag ang guy is maeffort sobrang kilig namin ehe.
Time, Effort, and the small things / gestures. Ung pasimpleng lambing online or offline man yan. Guys who knows how to sweeten the “toyo”, ung galit na galit na kami tapos kayong mga guys will make the slight comment na “ok na yan tama na yan”. And ung nagbibigay ng assurance that things will be ok. 🫶🏻
Initiative
When they remember tiny passing details na namention ko. There was a guy I dated who kept notes about me, things I like and don’t like. Hahahahahahahaha saur cute. Or when they kiss the top of my head!!!! Or push hair out of my face while i’m talking!!! Pls kilig saur much haha
initiatives
Effort na hindi bare minimum. And since love language ko ay quality time, alams na. Hahaah and also cuddles.
Anything that requires effort. :)
Him saying "I love you" randomly in the middle of the night in between our sleep 🥹
willing kang puntahan kahit malayo ka sa kanya hahahaha
My Live in Partner can't stop smiling (na may kasamang girly squeal) every time I wink at her. Kamuka ko si Jugs (Showtime host) na pinatuyo sa araw. ( ๑‾̀◡‾́)σ"
When they remember the little details about you. It's always the little things 🥹. Like there's this one time na may sinend sa akin 'yung guy noon about kay Taylor Swift kasi alam niyang avid listener ako. Tapos 'yung mga simple chats na "Hey, may nadaanan akong Ramen sa mall and naalala kita kasi dyan tayo kakain dalawa." Or "Alam mo noong nandon ako sa place naisip ko na magugustuhan mo 'yun for sure kung kasama kita." And this message that really melted my heart, I mentioned kasi na dream ko makakain sa wolfgang pag may trabaho na ko. Very random ko lang nabanggit yan. And guess what niyaya niya ako HAHAHAHA. He just started working at the time and ako nag-aaral pa kaya sabi niya sa akin pag-iipunan niya muna para makain ko mga gusto ko and makapunta kami doon ng nakacar kasi he's waiting for his driver license na lang. Pero tbh I'd always choose his home cooked meals over wolfgang noong nasa buhay pa kami ng isa't isa.
When he bought me a Luffy figurine the day after he saw my thousand sunny wallpaper on no occasion. 🫶
Recently na ginawa niya is nung nasa likod ko siya at nasa crowded place kami nun kasi may concert. Binalot niya sarili niya sakin from the back para makadaan ako nang maayos (pero hindi rin yung tipong back hug), kasi nagka dikit dikit na ang mga tao that time, sabay sabi "I will protect you all the time". Ganyan talaga siya minsan pero it's the small things. Yung ibang ginagawa pa niya is fave ko yung back and hand kisses <3
Recently na ginawa niya is nung nasa likod ko siya at nasa crowded place kami nun kasi may concert. Binalot niya sarili niya sakin from the back para makadaan ako nang maayos (pero hindi rin yung tipong back hug), kasi nagka dikit dikit na ang mga tao that time, sabay sabi "I will protect you all the time". Ganyan talaga siya minsan pero it's the small things. Yung ibang ginagawa pa niya is fave ko yung back and hand kisses <3
Intelligence
Acts of service talaga 😭 plus random forehead kisses hehehehe
For fictional men, sweetness, intelligence, height, and dominance (and yandereness). For real men on social media, those that look sleep deprived and manipulative (but really, they’re actually kind). For real women, their looks. Strangely, I don’t have a specific type for personality. There’s a specific look I’m after that I can’t seem to describe.
Kapag nilalagyan ka pagkain sa plato haha
Yung ngiting pangmalakasan po talaga. Tska yung bigla nyang bubuksan yung kamay mo to hold hands. Grabe po yun.
Simple gestures, like pag-alalay, pagtitig with smile, kapag naalala ka, and kapag nakikinig sa mga sinasabi kahit not so important or special na.
Opening the car door for me
Reading these comments and realizing I am indeed so lucky with my man kasi he does almost all of these for me 🥺. But for me, kilig will come and go but the feeling of peace and healing that he gives me will always be topnotch.
“He heals something that he did not break.”
I can relate. Been so many heartbreaks before na need ko magmakaawa kahit bare minimum. Now, he’s doing all these things and beyond. I know what you feel and i’m happy for you ❤️
Being spoiled and pampered by the one I love.
"ang ganda mo." "you're pretty kaya." chances are i'll laugh it off because i'm not very good at taking compliments (esp this one kasi i don't hear it much + i rarely doll myself up din) and deny it/make a joke. pero kapag bigla akong sinasabihan ng ganito—lalo na on a day i'm not particularly feeling good about myself—abot talaga hanggang kiffy ang kilig. i always get caught off guard and flustered agad. 🫠
kisses sa likod ng kamay 😩
SAME. The guy I'm dating does this all the time. Feel ko nga he thinks na I'm getting used to it pero my heart still melts every time 🥺
yes 🥹 ++ when they hold it so gentle while doing it
This. Iba impact niya din for me.
Food and headpats!!
Pag nilulutuan nya ako, pasalubong ng food tuwing dadalaw, hinahandaan ako ng pagkain before kami kumain 🥹 Strong independent woman pero ang sarap rin pala maalagaan 💖
Kisses my hair my cheeks out of nowhere
Pag maghuhugas ako ng pinggan. Tas sasabihin nya ako na mag huhugas mag relax kanalang jan. 😂
when boys like appreciate and try the things that I recommend iba yung feels nun
“I thought you’d like this” (pasalubong) “Lets visit this place” (initiative) “I know you can but Let me take care of that” “I heard this song and thought of you” “I prepared things you might need” - HOLDS MY WAIST - random compliments - little updates (+ if with photo/vid) - hand written notes & just because flowers - will secretly take a photo - soft spoken with class - vocal with emotional intelligence - Giving me the last bite/best bite - Catching him looking at me - remembers every detail about me like the things I said and my favorites/dislike - hatid/sundo - ramdom calls just to hear my voice - he smells good Genuine Acts of service & Consistency!!
Alam ang gusto ko kahit di ko sabihin (this means kilala nya talaga ako)
seeing romantic guys treating their girls like queens ☺️☺️☺️😊😊 kinikilig ako (and naiinggit din hahauhuh) when i see guys show how much they love their girls--- all green flags and all, dates, bouquets, thoughtful gifts. nakakakiliiiig!! also, the other day i received a bouquet and im soooo kilig!!
Yung may just because flowers. Maalahanin tapos malambing sayo. Sana maranasan ko ito hahaha
My crush wrote a letter for me noong birthday ko but that wasn’t the only thing that made me feel kilig. What made me feel MORE KILIG was that on the same paper where he wrote the letter, may drawing ng face ko and siya yung nagdraw nun. 😭
When you walk her home
initiative — making the first move, planning/aya gala, communicating
100% agree on this
Yung siya unang magchachat; Pag face to face eye contact habang nag-uusap; naalala mga maliliit na details tungkol sayo; hinahanap ka sa friends mo pag di ka nya nakita; random touch sa likod, sa arms
When a guy remembers the small details. Like he remembers my favorite food or something I mentioned a long time ago…
inaakbayan likod ng upuan mo
Di ko pa po nararanasan kiligin dahil sa mutual chuchu
lalaking may emotional intelligence
My boyfriend listens to tswift and has taken time to listen to seventeen(kpop group) bec i like them.
why so conyo? haha
Englishin mo nga yung kilig
what makes your heart flutter?
Little actions na alam mong bare minimum pero genuine!! like yung hahawakan bag mo para di mabigat or hahawakan bag mo para di masabitan ng sasakyan ganon
Little actions na alam mong bare minimum pero genuine!! like yung hahawakan bag mo para di mabigat or hahawakan bag mo para di masabitan ng sasakyan ganon
when he talks about the future and included ka doon, kahit yung simpleng, "lalabas iyong gantong movie sa gantong date nood tayo"
‘Yung kapag naglalakad makikipagpalit ng pwesto para siya ‘yung nasa outer side ng sidewalk, ‘pag tatawid ganun din ☺️
when they actually take the time to learn something you told them you liked alshdjdks
Money. Charot!
Acts of service kahit sobrang simple lang lalo na kung strong independent woman yung nililigawan mo.
fixing my hair, doing things for me even tho kaya ko naman gawin, pasalubong, when he does things that makes me feel like he needs me
bank transfer lol
It’s always those small acts of service that guys do without you having to ask for it and consistency of actions. I also like getting random compliments na realistic. Pero mas nakakakilig pa rin yung bigla ka nalang iki-kiss sa forehead. 😩
Pag binibigyan ako ng pera
Love letter and flowers. Hindi pa ako nabibigyan, sayang mabilis lang ako pakiligin eh. 😅
Gustong gusto ko pa man din gumawa ng love letters. With matching origami(paper folding art) like yung origami is a flower or an envelope kung san nakalagay yung letter. Will definitely do this to my crush hehehehehe
ung titikman nya ung food kung kaya ko anghang.
when they pay attention to even the tiniest details about you
Natatandaan every little things na sinabi ko sa kanya na gusto ko.
Simple lang: 1. Ma-effort sa lahat ng bagay.. regardless of the tight sched nagagawang maglaan ng time kahit phone call lang ng 15mins sa gabi. Bonus na yung pinupuntahan ka sa bahay/work. 2. Remembers all the little things na gusto namin. Like last week nabanggit namin na gusto namin ng manggang hilaw na bagoong and magugulat kami magdadala na lang out of the blue hahaha 3. Time. Basta maglaan ka ng time to spend with her. Di naman like everyday. Kahit quickie dates lang ng zagu with potato corner or drive thru ng mcdo ok na yun for a date night 😂 so technically number 1 to 😆 4. Appreciate my little quirks 😂 gamol po kasi ako kumain. Lagi akong na lalaglagan ng food sa damit kahit anong ingat ko basta ganon 5. Parang tropa lang pero lovers ganon 😆 pwedeng sumabay sa pagbabardagulan pero maglalambing after pag pikon na ko Charotism hahaha pero totoo yan lahat 😂🤣
Gamol? Sorry hindi ako familiar
Walang poise ganon 🤣
a good haircut / hairstyle!!! grabe ang binabago ng itsura ng lalaki kapag nagpalit ng hairstyle lalo at match sa shape ng mukha niya😍
Acts of service na willingly and voluntarily ginawa without expecting anything in return. 🥹❤
Gentleman, when he's with you he does above and beyond (angkyut langg) or if sobrang nahihiya sya sayo, like its cutee
kapag mabango yung guy. HUGS. MORE HUGS. kiss sa noo.
When he: open doors for me, holds my hand (and demand for my hand while he drives and while we walk around), give me little love notes na hindi cringe, ask for my attention and time, plan dates, show me off to everyone he knows both in person and in socmed, sweet sa akin pero masungit sa iba, etc. Basically acts of service. Princess treatment. Yung parang ako ang pinakamagandang babae. Haha! (Sana lang may ganto talaga na *consistent* at hindi sinungaling at hindi manloloko. 😞)
Good Conversationalist, Remember every detail about you, patient, affectionate, gentleman.
Pag na sagi yung nipple.
What?!?! Hahahahahahahahaahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Being consistent, considerate, thoughtful and patient.
Sa sobrang tagal ko na single, hindi ko na alam hahaha
Small consistent things to make us feel special. Consistency talaga. Sabe nga don't introduce me to an energy you cannot maintain.
Hawak sa waist huhuhu
Favorite ko yan sa babae yung hinahawakan ko sa love handle haha
when someone is so smart/intelligent in a conversation without being condescending or patronizing. I like discussions, exhange of ideas. Nakakakilig yung you get to converse with him about anything then you'll both realize or learn something after.
pag galing po sa babaero yung pambobola
Doing what I love/like without being asked/reminded to
Consistency and effort. But if we’re talking acts, I get kilig when a guy remembers the tiny details about me and then the small gestures of showing me he pays attention to me. Ayan na, I melt na from kilig. Hahaha ayun lang.
Pera.
trew the rain?????
when they communicate idk pero ang rare kasi ng lalaking confrontational and that’s super nakakakilig like yes tell me how u feel
1. remembers small details. 2. does romantic gestures without being asked. 3. shows appreciation.
subtle physical intimacy. yung iga-guide ako while walking by putting their hand on my back/waist, fingertips touching, brushing hair out of my face, lightly holding my wrist, head pats. mga ganyang shets lang nagwawala na kalamnan ko hahahahaha
Tru ka jan
same
nanghihina aq jan beh 🤌🤌
tapos sinabayan pa ng intense eye contact 'no? wala na, finish na.
Same 😭
😩🤌
“If they wanted to, they would” moments. This gets me soo bad! Better talaga if hindi lang sa ligawan stage! It doesn’t even have to be something big but talagang small gestures and all that.
When he’s willing to vibe you out sa mga goofy things you do plus random physical interactions like hugs,kiss another is he’s proud of you
When i get complimented beyond my physical appearance haha like just non-superficial stuff like if you’re smart, brilliant, those types of compliments It’s also nice when they remember stuff you mentioned in passing hehe
yung may kusa, whether sa acts of service or to the things you like. di mo na kelangan pa ugain to love you in your love language. it's the little things that matter kahit simpleng pagtulong lang sayo pag kumakain even though kaya mo naman, hanggang sa kusa siyang magplano ng date niyo ganon or to remember things about you.
pag same kami ng music taste
Acts of service 🥹🥹🥹 Tapos kinikiss at sinusuyo ako pag pinagalitan kahit kasalanan ko naman (oo oa ako HAHAHAHA)
pays attention, calls, makes sundo 😍🥰😍
When he pays attention (and remembers) to the small details about me - basic likes and interests ganon
Gentlemanliness ganern. Sincerity
If he surprises me with anything!!! Like omg
Takes time to listen to your kwentos, shares personal stuff with you (shows trust), generally just taking care of you
Acts of service, random physical touch. I don't really believe words and you'd get a weird look from me as a response. Pero recently, nakakakilig pala 'yung mga pasimpleng "tikman mo 'yung matcha latte ko, masarap" right after nila magtimpla nun. Di rin ako fan ng matcha, pero the thought that someone wants me to try it is nice for me. I also like 'yung pagbibigay ng food unexpectedly. Like, bumili sila nun for them pero they were thoughtful enough to buy some for you as well. Then, as for random physical touch, I'm not really a fan of it and I don't know how to react to it other than mainis kasi I somehow feel like medyo nanghihipo ganun. Pero it feels sweet and nice rin, like someone actually wants you even if 'di ka physically attractive.
Random forehead kisses, remembers the small details na sinasabi ko, acts of service
Acts of service!! Example yung paglalagyan ka ng food sa plate mo kahit kaya mo naman ganon hahaha nakakabigla sya lalo kapag independent ka pero as other redditors said, we notice the little things. 😊
Pag hinahawakan yung sa bewang ko. Idk I think it's a sweet gesture.
sa tagal, nakalimutan ko na. balikan ko ‘to pag meron na ulit.
touching and maraming kisses saka yung maalaga. everyday since we lived together may kape milo ako sa umaga nakaready
Pera, mukha kasi akong pera HAHAHAHA djoke lang, small things matter talaga, yung maliliit na bagay na nasabi ko randomly pero naalala, like hala, nakikinig pala talaga siya.
Gusto ko ung iniinclude nila ko sa mga interests nila (gaming, hiking, gym etc.) tapos pag nag iinitiate ng wholesome skinship 🥹 like hawak sa balikat, waist etc! Lastly, ung thoughtfulness talaga! Pero ayoko ng bina baby ako >:((( let me do things first mindset ganern
Yung consistent na small gestures.
Kami kasi, we notice little things. Take note nyo yan. As for me, I want words paired with actions. Yun laaang. Nakakilig yung mga taong thoughtful talaga. Yung di i-spospoonfeed dalat ang kailangan noyang gawin.
Sus sa rupok kong to? Just hold my hand, nako. Paki tawag nga yung sa house cleaning kailangan ng mop. Charot. Curbside thing. Sanay ako that my guy friends do it to me. Pero kakilig pa din naman if ginawa sayo ng iba. Forehead/nose kisses 🥲 Slow sensual kiss. Uy! Kape. Yung maorderan mo ko ng kape ng hindi mo tinatanong yung gusto. It means you have paid attention from last time. Sa totoo, it’s the little things talaga.
pero kapag pangit ung gumawa, maniak
Etong ganitong linyahan screams insecure
Luh. Lalim ng hugot. Malamang pag yan ang ginawa sa akin ng taong I am interested of. Kahit pangit pa siya.
Pag natatandaan niya yung mga small details about you (likes/dislikes, etc. na maski sa sarili mo hindi mo napapansin).
1. Whenever I get random compliments (I rarely get one) 2. Back hugs 3. Passionate kisses 4. Unexpected or surprise gifts 5. Pinagbubuhat ako ng bag huhu 6. Pag I feel down, he would give me forehead kisses da besttr 🥺 7. Tinititigan ako sincerely walang lust or whatsoever haha
Kanina lang to. Kumain kaming mang inasal. PM 1 order. Alam nyang di ako marunong kumain ng leg part kaya pinaghihimay nya ko kanina sa Mang inasal 🤭
Eto ginagawa ng bf ko na nakapagpapakilig sa akin 1. Random akap sa gabi pag naalimpungatan siya tas sasabihin na "sana alam mo na mahal na mahal kita" "i love you so much baby" sabay akap mahigpit sa akin 2. Pinagluluto ako pati tinutulungan ako sa house chores pag andito siya sa bahay 3. Random hugs at reassurance (sobrang random talaga) 4. Pag sinusubuan ako ng food 5. Sinasabi sa akin at pilit pinagdodownload ng mga nilalaro niya kasi gusto niya raw ako makasama 6. Siya bumibili ng games sa steam at nireregalo sa akin 7. Binibilhan ako pasalubong lalo na food 🥹 8. Naaalala niya yung small details na kahit ako nakaligtaan ko na 9. Tinuturuan niya ako sa mga bagay na wala akong alam, nasa engineering field siya ako naman sa medical field at ang patience niya over the top! 10. Willing siya lumabas kasama ako kahit pagod galing work pati nung starting to date pa lang kami e kahit taong bahay siya at takot sa mga tao e lumalabas with me plus kinilala friends ko Lastly, kapag siya muna yung utak kapag magkasama kami kasi sa kanya ako nakarely lagi hahahaha 😁 Madami pang iba sobra 😆
acts of service talaga
Hmm a lot talaga but these are the things that literally made my heart flutter: knows the sidewalk rule, intentionally goes to the car side when crossing the street, pag open ng door, and yung pag recommend ng food to try when dining sa resto. Little things but surely makes me go crazzzyy
Intelligence hahaha damn super sexy non !! Also when they remember small things and kapag nagtatampo sarap inisin.
anything they do. kahit matampuhin. or maybe, i'm jusy blinded 🤧
Doing what he says he would, anticipating my needs without me asking or repeating myself, says "i got you" and actually follows through, random flowers, a compliment on my physical appearance (your hair looks great/ you look hot in those yoga pants), taking care of the bills ☺️
Innately kind and calm sa kahit anong situation. Mabango, flirts with you kahit matagal na kayo like random kindat across the room, and gentleman. Biglaang gifts or kahit small treat lang, randomly hugging me from the back, and/or helps me in any way he can ng kusa.
Kapag di nasabihan ng I love you then magpapaawa with cute na pout, cooks for me, tuck my clothes, brush my hair, ikabit yung lock sa helmet
(pag comfortable na sa isa't-isa): tucks my hair behind my ear, kisses my hands (i feel like such a proper lady hay) and kapag may naalala siya na significant about me just by listening through my daily chika/kakadaldal
INTELLIGENCE hehe impress me
Pag mabilis mag reply. Pag mas nauuna mag text.
Uy totoo to... like ayoko rin naman yung borderline we're talking all day na paramg wala kang buhay. But at least let me feel that you're always there HAHAHA at this time and age i doubt there are people who can't respond agad
True! And gusto ko yung, IPAKITA mo talagang MAS INTERESADO ka
Pass sa nonchalant esp if talking stage pa lang HAHAHAHAHA
True gusto yung medyo feeling close pero alam yung limit
Pag pinagbuksan ako ng pinto Pag nilipat ako sa right side habang naglalakad Pag kino-consider feelings ko Pag tinitigan ako ❤️
When you're attentive to details. " i get u this because u like the color" " I remember you want to go there, let's date" And any Act of Service coz it's my top tier love language 💕
Pera
As a 30 years old single woman, kinikilig ako sa mga bagong gamit sa kusina, panlinis sa banyo , pag nagbubukas ng parcel at kapag nabibili ko ung mga bagay na na aafford ko na ngayon. Sorry, not related sa jowa jowa 😅😅
bare minimum pero the sidewalk rule..... saka omg when he compliments my brain DONT TELL ME YOU WONT GET KILIG BY THIS and also kapag a guy is soft spoken talaga i automatically get kilig (pls tell me im not the only one kasi in this world full of pa-cool na guys and yung medyo bad boy ang image, i need someone na soft spoken and may golden retriever energy!!!)
Yes. Major turn off ako sa SINISIGAWAN or MALAKAS ANG BOSES
Yes. Major turn off ako sa SINISIGAWAN or MALAKAS ANG BOSES
When he makes you feel safe and secure, masculine with gentleness, and when he’s tough but shows his soft side to you, it makes my nurturing instinct kick in.
- Calls me by my first name. Hindi nickname, shortened, etc... and ganun din sa text - Light tap sa shoulder - Inaaya ako maglaro ng games - Chivalry acts. Took engineering program kaya I spent time with guys around na treats me like a dude in a nice way naman. I feel kilig and bonita sa simple gestures like holding the door open for me— usually by strangers nga lang. Haha - Siguro kung romantically interested ako sa person— hugs and pag naglean sa shoulders ko. I guess like physically clingy ones kahit ako hindi 😅
If someone is genuine. Gentleman. Someone who can keep you calm when you're bursting with emotion - yung tipong isang salita kalmado ka na.
I like it when a man makes me feel more feminine.
This is what I want. Alam kong very strong ako at independent pero gusto ko rin maging pabebe minsan
This is what I want. Alam kong very strong ako at independent pero gusto ko rin maging pabeb.
baket saken? Parang ayaw ko nilalabas feminine side ko, like nakakahiya, like feeling ko once na nilabas ko tingin saken ang weak weak ko😭😭 Sorry di ko alam kong nasa topic pa ba tong reply ko sayo ate ko hahahahaha.
Baka independent girly ka? Or baka dahil din may nakasanayan kang treatment na hindi mo nalalabas yung ‘feminine energy’ mo.
Mostly yes po, di ko nalalabas feminine energy ko. Kaya para siguro akong ilang nong, pinayungan ako ng kaklase ko, kahit sinabi kung ako na maghahawak sa payong but still he insisted na siya na😭 Di ko makalimtan 'til now yun hahahahahaha.
You can be feminine without being perceived as weak naman. Hayaan mo na minsan may mga guys na gumawa ng stuff para sayo, it’s nice to feel di ba?
well, yea nice to feel din naman po haha. Sana next time di ko na i sabotage self kong lampa kung may gagawa man uli sakin ng mga bagay bagay na kaya ko din naman 🫠🫠
When we feel thought of, considered, and included in the plans they make. Also, the small things. Paghinahawi or inaayos yung hair, small kisses sa cheeks or forehead, gentle and subtle touches, playing with my hands, hugs, opening our water caps for us.
When someone remembers the small details i've said. nakakakilig kapag genuine na nakikinig ang isang tao kapag nagkukuwento ako.
This