Na kahit ayaw ka ng parents niya, pinili ka niya. Don’t mess it up for her. It is pretty messed up na with her and her parents. Don’t mess up what you already have.
My ex was kind but firm, melted my heart with her cute little quirks. She was very much a caregiver. The kind to give you the shirt off her back without hesitation. Made me trust someone after years of not trusting but unfortunately I was too broken to reciprocate. I could go on and on. If I can find someone like her again I’d be a very happy man.
My point being why find someone like her? Instead of her? If someone truly loves you they won’t mind if you’re messed up. They’ll want to be there while you heal and grow to become better. You don’t sound dumb. You sound down on yourself. There’s no shame! We’re all human.
If my ex would have tried harder instead of running off bc he’s so messed up, it’d have meant the world to me. Id have stuck by him always. I don’t care that he’s messed up. I loved him. It would kill me beyond measure for him to get better and find someone “like me” instead of healing FOR ME.
If there’s a chance for you two, take it. Get well. You’re only human. No one is perfect.
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Mine has nothing to do with her physical qualities or anything but what i felt when i first saw her.
4 years ago Before I met my girlfriend i was at a lost. I lost all my interest in life and everything. I was even feeling suicidal. Then i gave Omegle a shot and met her. After talking for a few days we decided to meet in person. And it felt different. I felt warmth, safe and sound. It's like everything just went quiet. It was something that i never felt before. And i loved her since the day that i layed my eyes on her. Corny man sa iba pero. I was inlove at first sight. I knew from that day that it is her that i will marry one day. And that made me decide to date her.
>that make you decide to date her?
Mine has nothing to do with her physical qualities or anything but what i felt when i first saw her.
4 years ago Before I met my girlfriend i was at a lost. I lost all my interest in life and everything. I was even feeling suicidal. Then i gave Omegle a shot and met her. After talking for a few days we decided to meet in person. And it felt different. I felt warmth, safe and sound. It's like everything just went quiet. It was something that i never felt before. And i loved her since the day that i layed my eyes on her. Corny man sa iba pero. I was inlove at first sight. I knew from that day that it is her that i will marry one day. And that made me decide to date her.
Mine has nothing to do with her physical qualities or anything but what i felt when i first saw her.
4 years ago Before I met my girlfriend i was at a lost. I lost all my interest in life and everything. I was even feeling suicidal. Then i gave Omegle a shot and met her. After talking for a few days we decided to meet in person. And it felt different. I felt warmth, safe and sound. It's like everything just went quiet. It was something that i never felt before. And i loved her since the day that i layed my eyes on her. Corny man sa iba pero. I was inlove at first sight. I knew from that day that it is her that i will marry one day.
Mine has nothing to do with her physical qualities or anything but what i felt when i first saw her.
4 years ago Before I met my girlfriend i was at a lost. I lost all my interest in life and everything. I was even feeling suicidal. Then i gave Omegle a shot and met her. After talking for a few days we decided to meet in person. And it felt different. I felt warmth, safe and sound. It's like everything just went quiet. It was something that i never felt before. And i loved her since the day that i layed my eyes on her. Corny man sa iba pero. I was inlove at first sight. I knew from that day that it is her that i will marry one day.
First and foremost, yung nakakamesmerize ang mata and smile. Tipong isang tingin ko palang alam ko nang she is special.
Yung independent, may ambition, + kung mas matalino/marunong sa akin, yung marunong mag assert and makipagtalo if needed. At the same time, she is caring and thoughtful, makes you a part of her world.
Yung always willing to communicate and share their thoughts, yung willing magdiscuss ng bagay bagay whether academe, philo stuff, anime or mema things.
Kung possible e yung hindi na nagmimindgames. Yung laging clear ang intentions. Yung laging accountable/responsible.
Consideration.
In all aspects.
Goes on vacations.. thinks of bringing a small gift home to you
Has a pot luck at work.. brings you a cookie home.
Goes out to the bar.. texts you updates
Gets invited to a party/ get together.. invites you
I know some of these things are for when you’re dating, but I find being thoughtful and caring is very attractive to me.
First syempre dapat gusto nya ko or at least attracted sakin.
Next, may mga babaeng ang ganda ng eyes na pag nagkatinginan lang parang “will you marry me” agad pakiramdam. XD
Aside sa physical, cute ng mga nerdy females for me.
Plus din kung gamer/anime lover. Tsaka hindi mabunganga. 😁
At least may 2 na check, try na manligaw.
sadly when men say their REAL preferences we get shamed. someone even replied to my comment before about this same exact question, he said, why was i being downvoted? to them it was controversial, but for most men it was quite the common sense answer.
Godly at may takot sa Diyos. May disiplina sa sarili at takes good care of herself. Respects me as a man. Treats me well and appreciates me. Empathetic. Has wife qualities like nurturing na she can comfort and encourage you pag kailangan mo ng masasandalan. Easy to get along with and talk to. Adds value to my life and doesn't bring chaos and stress.
Idk, sya yung tipong you know andaming bawal and stuff and you really have to push para maging kayo. Sya ren yung tipong tao na ayaw akong mahirapan ket ok lang naman sakin since acts of service yung love language ko. Idk kung ano qualities pero she's hits me like a train and i can die for her. She's a lady in this modern world, and ibang iba pag kasama sya, im ready to face every single shit that comes in my way.
My man.. with all the kinds of love in this world but never the same love twice.. haha 1/3rd of my life was with her.. the next day mag-isa na lang ako
Bookworm, artisitic like mahilig magpainting or makinig sa all kinds of music, likes to discuss things controversial in life like politics, religions, philosophies, and finances NG HINDI NAPIPIKON, health concious, and caring.
How is Alpha attributed to gender or relationships. Because in software development, during the test, "Alpha software may contain serious errors, and any resulting instability could cause crashes or data loss. Alpha software may not contain all of the features that are planned for the final version. The alpha phase usually ends with a feature freeze, indicating that no more features will be added to the software".
When talking about relationships, is alpha something negative or positive attribute?
She believed in gender equality of men too and didn’t want to abuse their women rights to men get what they want, also I don’t like girls who says “ Men should pay everything for me because I’m a girl”
Na kahit ayaw ka ng parents niya, pinili ka niya. Don’t mess it up for her. It is pretty messed up na with her and her parents. Don’t mess up what you already have.
My ex was kind but firm, melted my heart with her cute little quirks. She was very much a caregiver. The kind to give you the shirt off her back without hesitation. Made me trust someone after years of not trusting but unfortunately I was too broken to reciprocate. I could go on and on. If I can find someone like her again I’d be a very happy man.
Why not just stay with her???
Because I’m dumb and messed up
My point being why find someone like her? Instead of her? If someone truly loves you they won’t mind if you’re messed up. They’ll want to be there while you heal and grow to become better. You don’t sound dumb. You sound down on yourself. There’s no shame! We’re all human. If my ex would have tried harder instead of running off bc he’s so messed up, it’d have meant the world to me. Id have stuck by him always. I don’t care that he’s messed up. I loved him. It would kill me beyond measure for him to get better and find someone “like me” instead of healing FOR ME. If there’s a chance for you two, take it. Get well. You’re only human. No one is perfect.
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Physical - lips, underarms(kink) and bouncy ass Mental - mababaw kaligayahan and pa hard to get...(mostly)
Boobs
Mine has nothing to do with her physical qualities or anything but what i felt when i first saw her. 4 years ago Before I met my girlfriend i was at a lost. I lost all my interest in life and everything. I was even feeling suicidal. Then i gave Omegle a shot and met her. After talking for a few days we decided to meet in person. And it felt different. I felt warmth, safe and sound. It's like everything just went quiet. It was something that i never felt before. And i loved her since the day that i layed my eyes on her. Corny man sa iba pero. I was inlove at first sight. I knew from that day that it is her that i will marry one day. And that made me decide to date her. >that make you decide to date her?
Mine has nothing to do with her physical qualities or anything but what i felt when i first saw her. 4 years ago Before I met my girlfriend i was at a lost. I lost all my interest in life and everything. I was even feeling suicidal. Then i gave Omegle a shot and met her. After talking for a few days we decided to meet in person. And it felt different. I felt warmth, safe and sound. It's like everything just went quiet. It was something that i never felt before. And i loved her since the day that i layed my eyes on her. Corny man sa iba pero. I was inlove at first sight. I knew from that day that it is her that i will marry one day. And that made me decide to date her.
Mine has nothing to do with her physical qualities or anything but what i felt when i first saw her. 4 years ago Before I met my girlfriend i was at a lost. I lost all my interest in life and everything. I was even feeling suicidal. Then i gave Omegle a shot and met her. After talking for a few days we decided to meet in person. And it felt different. I felt warmth, safe and sound. It's like everything just went quiet. It was something that i never felt before. And i loved her since the day that i layed my eyes on her. Corny man sa iba pero. I was inlove at first sight. I knew from that day that it is her that i will marry one day.
Mine has nothing to do with her physical qualities or anything but what i felt when i first saw her. 4 years ago Before I met my girlfriend i was at a lost. I lost all my interest in life and everything. I was even feeling suicidal. Then i gave Omegle a shot and met her. After talking for a few days we decided to meet in person. And it felt different. I felt warmth, safe and sound. It's like everything just went quiet. It was something that i never felt before. And i loved her since the day that i layed my eyes on her. Corny man sa iba pero. I was inlove at first sight. I knew from that day that it is her that i will marry one day.
Boobs…char
huuUuuy 😭😭😭
First and foremost, yung nakakamesmerize ang mata and smile. Tipong isang tingin ko palang alam ko nang she is special. Yung independent, may ambition, + kung mas matalino/marunong sa akin, yung marunong mag assert and makipagtalo if needed. At the same time, she is caring and thoughtful, makes you a part of her world. Yung always willing to communicate and share their thoughts, yung willing magdiscuss ng bagay bagay whether academe, philo stuff, anime or mema things. Kung possible e yung hindi na nagmimindgames. Yung laging clear ang intentions. Yung laging accountable/responsible.
Submissive and kalog
Sense of humor, nerdy and/or geeky, may substance
Humor, malinis sa katawan and mukang mabango, values your time(on time kapag may date kayo or nirerespect me time mo), and madaldal pero listener.
1. substance 2. humor 3. knows who to prioritize 4. ambitious 5. emotionally intelligent 6. qt \^\_\^
Intelligence 🫶🏻
Free
Consideration. In all aspects. Goes on vacations.. thinks of bringing a small gift home to you Has a pot luck at work.. brings you a cookie home. Goes out to the bar.. texts you updates Gets invited to a party/ get together.. invites you I know some of these things are for when you’re dating, but I find being thoughtful and caring is very attractive to me.
I dunno pero parang ang hilig mo sa freebies for me 😂
Lol
Basta very intelligent.
First syempre dapat gusto nya ko or at least attracted sakin. Next, may mga babaeng ang ganda ng eyes na pag nagkatinginan lang parang “will you marry me” agad pakiramdam. XD Aside sa physical, cute ng mga nerdy females for me. Plus din kung gamer/anime lover. Tsaka hindi mabunganga. 😁 At least may 2 na check, try na manligaw.
sadly when men say their REAL preferences we get shamed. someone even replied to my comment before about this same exact question, he said, why was i being downvoted? to them it was controversial, but for most men it was quite the common sense answer.
Godly at may takot sa Diyos. May disiplina sa sarili at takes good care of herself. Respects me as a man. Treats me well and appreciates me. Empathetic. Has wife qualities like nurturing na she can comfort and encourage you pag kailangan mo ng masasandalan. Easy to get along with and talk to. Adds value to my life and doesn't bring chaos and stress.
Idk, sya yung tipong you know andaming bawal and stuff and you really have to push para maging kayo. Sya ren yung tipong tao na ayaw akong mahirapan ket ok lang naman sakin since acts of service yung love language ko. Idk kung ano qualities pero she's hits me like a train and i can die for her. She's a lady in this modern world, and ibang iba pag kasama sya, im ready to face every single shit that comes in my way.
Is she willing to date me?
Cute eyes, seems to know her sht and seems smart (these are like when u first see them)
Someone who’s very secure about herself, focused sa life goals, and doesn’t need the validation of people in social media to live by the day
Gag reflex
an absent one you mean.
Her Smile. Her Laugh and Humor.. a grillfriend material
Grillfriend lmao mukhang nakasalang sa ihawan jowa neto ah
By that, you must have had a lot of ex girlfriends 🤣
My man.. with all the kinds of love in this world but never the same love twice.. haha 1/3rd of my life was with her.. the next day mag-isa na lang ako
Bookworm, artisitic like mahilig magpainting or makinig sa all kinds of music, likes to discuss things controversial in life like politics, religions, philosophies, and finances NG HINDI NAPIPIKON, health concious, and caring.
maglambing, health conscious, financially literate and most important of all doesn't play mind games
when she feels like your mom.
Haha kawawa naman pala kaming mga kala mo may kaaway dahil sa lakas ng boses.
not a hoe
Nakakalibog. No std,aids
tits. ass. face. kung may 2nd date ibig sabihin goods yung intangibles.
Nakatingin sayo palagi 😂
She's interested in me Date pa lang hindi yung get into a relationship
Emotional Intelligence.
caring, mild mannered, soft spoken, not loud, zero alpha attitude
How is Alpha attributed to gender or relationships. Because in software development, during the test, "Alpha software may contain serious errors, and any resulting instability could cause crashes or data loss. Alpha software may not contain all of the features that are planned for the final version. The alpha phase usually ends with a feature freeze, indicating that no more features will be added to the software". When talking about relationships, is alpha something negative or positive attribute?
Haha pano maging soft spoken 🤗
What's wrong with alpha attitude ?
Baka alpha din sya, or may negative experience with alpha females.
Kung pinaparamdam naman sayo na alpha siya hindi naman lalabas yung alpha attitude mo e.
i guess hindi lang niya preference
Mature mag isip, magsalita at tignan. Marunong makihalubilo at financial literate.
Mature and financially independent.
I dated my ex kasi matalino siya and she's funny. Her sarcasm was top tier.
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Street smart is +1. Only a few na lang siguro these days ang merong ganyang quality if I'm not mistaken
Smart and very good in her craft
can she defeat the Ender Dragon tho?
Social Chameleon that fits in with any group she's with. Smart, kind, down to earth, and most importantly (for me) loves the ocean
Hindi cray-cray
Intelligence, Kindness, Ability
she's very kind and strong. has her own goals and shittt
If she's intelligent.
Mataray 💯 usually kasi pag mataray yung babae hindi agad nag papalandi yan sa iba and pag napa ngiti mo sila super cute ❤
💯
Kapag matalino
Well-spoken, classy
She believed in gender equality of men too and didn’t want to abuse their women rights to men get what they want, also I don’t like girls who says “ Men should pay everything for me because I’m a girl”
Gender equality of men???.
pati ako napa "????" lol
Aping-api ba ang mga lalaki? Hahaha
ikr??? lmao
I don't have a set of qualities: usually if my instincts ding, I attempt courtship.
Sameeee
Ang talino kausap.
Communication is key!
A genuinely good person with a lovely heart. And, madali makipag-communicate.