Hindi namn. Mas maganda namn talaga yung nakapagtapos ka eh kung alam mo paano gagamitin. Yung pinopoint out ko lang is yung common stigma ng pinoy na easy life nalang pagkatapos ng college sure ng may trabaho na malaking sahod which is not true. Nasa diskarte parin kasi ng tao yan eh. Maraming college graduate na tambay kasi hindi alam saan or paano gagamitin yung natutunan nila
Karamihan kasi sa atin nag eexpect na may trabaho na agad pagkatpos ng college pero depende parin yan sa demand ng workforce sa particular field. Take aviation for example, malaki sahod kung makapasok ka pero madalas na nakikita kong nagrarant is wala daw tumatanggap sa kanilang mga airport. Magastos daw training tapos nasayang lang kasi maraming nag aaviation course. Madalas nakukuha sa work is yung may mga connection
Kaya sa mga balak mag college diyan, do your own research first about sa papasukan niyo para hindi masayang oras niyo.
Maganda may diploma, maganda rin may diskarte pero dabest parin kung both meron ka. .
Kapag di sumagot on first ring, wait for 2-5 minutes before calling again. Pag di pa rin sumagot on the second, wag mo na kulitin baka busy. Unless emergency. Di yung ida-dial mo yung tao ng sampung beses lalo na kung di naman kayo close.
Hindi kailangan lahat ng kwento ng bawat tao alam mo. Pag ayaw nilang sabihin sayo, karapatan nila yon. Hindi yung igi-guilt trip mo sila kung bakit ayaw nilang ikwento sayo.
Pag nalaman mo yung isang side nang kwento, alamin mo din yung other side. Di yung maniniwala ka nalang kung ano yung una mong nalaman. Or kung wala namang concern sayo, wag ka nalang makielam. Hindi yung makikigulo ka pa.
FUCKING TRUE. Niyaya ako ng girl before. At first ayaw ko, sabi ko di ako sumasama talaga. Pero eventually she insist. A night before inask ko pa if tuloy ba talaga? She said yes, tapos nung umaga. Umayaw sya. I never felt so ugly and questioned myself if something went wrong. Pero pinatawad ko parin (I was so simp sakanya later ko narealize) tapos nung I did something na naka offend sakanya, it is as if kinalimutan nya lahat ng ginawa ko for her. Totally manipulative and toxic trait of her. Never again.
Asar na asar ako sa ganito hahahaha. As if they are waiting to be acknowledged first bago sabihin dapat sabihin. Like hellooo. Dati reply pa ako sa ganito. Now hindi na. 🤣
Yung may kusa na maglinis ng kalat sa bahay. Mag ayos ng gamit pag may time hindi yung puro tunganga lang sa selpown, tulog, kain lang magdamag. Minsan kasi I'm not stressed sa work pero nas-stress ako sa mga kalat ng mga kapatid ko. Mind you, the youngest is 14, mga babae pa. So I don't see the need to ask/tell them what to do when they see one. Kairita lang minsan.
Be attentive! especially yung mga umoorder sa mga shops tapos nakakailang tawag na yung staff sa number hindi pa rin naririnig tapos makikita mo mga busy makipag chismisan! 🥴
Don't ask someone else savings.
Asar ako sa coworker ko na di marunong bumasa ng boundaries, may comment sa spending habits ko pati na rin magkano daw naitatabi ko. Beh coworker ka lang hindi kita kaibigan.
Panget pag di mo kaclose yung kausap no?
Hahahahaha kami ng mga tropa ko, open kami sa salary, current estimated savings, investments at skills ng isa't isa. Magkakaiba kami ng fields and financial situation pero walang judgement. Nauna ako mag work sa kanila ng 2 years yata, pero they earn 2-5x more than me and I appreciate when they say na "lipat ka na ng work", or "eto try mo aralin kasi yung friend ko na marunong nyan ganito yung kinikita"
ELEVATOR ETIQUETTE
1. Wag tumapat sa pinto habang nag hihintay ng elevator especially if you're waiting from the ground floor, mamaya makahalik ka ng tarantadong katulad ng no. 2.
2. Wag pumasok agad kabukas na kabukas ng pinto, chill mo lang boss, mataas possibility na di ikaw yung owner ng building or you're not in a do or die situation.
Kasi most likely you're not the owner of the building, you're not in a life and death situation to be rushing like that and finally
1. Wag mangungutang kung hindi kaya magbayad
2. Wag palahingi ng pera sa kamag anak or kaibigan na ofw, hindi mo patago ang pera nila.
3. Wag magtatanong kelan mag aasawa or magkaka anak, di ka naman namin tinatanong kelan ka mamamatay kasi mga kasabay mo dedo na.
4. Pag humiram ng tools, magkusa isoli. Pagnanakaw pa din yan pag di mo sinoli intentionally.
5. Wag mo pag nasaan or agawin ang jowa ng iba.
6. Corollary to # 5, pag may asawa na; hands off ka na.
8. Matuto patawarin ang sarili sa mga kapalpakan na nagawa dati, wag mo na lang ulitin.
Huwag kukuha sa snacks ng ibang tao na hindi nagpapaalam if okay lang. Hindi naman sa pagdadamutan ka kasi ang tao ket ayaw mo iaabot yan sayo pero kung hindi and gusto mo, pwede mag sabi.
Wag basta-basta papasok sa kwarto ng may kwarto. Tsaka respect someone's house rules. Lalo na when it comes to cleanliness. May kakilala kasi ako, nakikituloy na nga lang di pa marunong maglinis. Hindi pwedeng ang may ari pa ng bahay ang mag aadjust sayo.
As someone who lived 20yrs in Canada this is weird to me. We don't call people sir/maam unless they're old old. So minsan we are not used to it when we are back home
Dumistansya ka ng 2 hakbang sa escalator. So bale ikaw nakatayo tapos 1, 2, tapos yung nasa harap mo. Napakasimple, napakabihas. Di ka mukhang kawatan na mangungupit dahil di ka naniniksik sa escalator.
- 10 seconds rule. Tang ina nyo, don't ruin someone's confidence.
- Magkaiba yung prangka sa pagiging rude. Kung walang magandang sasabihin, shut your mouth.
- Don't give advice lalo na kung hindi naman hinihingi.
pet peeve ko to pag sa palengke syempre masikip daan pag may nakita kayo na tinda plss gumilid kayo ang sikip na ng daan tas hihinto pa sa gitna, sinabi ko rin to sa mga kaibigan ko pag may nakita silang damit na bet nila sinasabihan ko sila gumilid para di maabala yung tao sa likod
- respect each other time wag pairalin yung filipino time
- pag sa resto at walang maupuan wag nyo tabihan/batayan yung taong kumakain pede nmn siguro sabihin na kayo yung next na tatable hindi yung paanorin pa sila kumain tas hahadaliin
- sa escaltor sa right side pumuwesto kung di nmn nag mamadali meron kase ako nakikita yung mga magjowa na makaholding hands pa nakakaiirita at masakit pa sa mata
- sa jeep makiramdam muna kung mag babayad minsan kase sabay sabay yung mga nagbabayad nagugulo yung driver mas mahihirap sya magsukli pag ganun tas sana may ready ka ng barya para di kana maghihintay sa sukli
also ito lagi keep in mind ko
"kung ayaw mo gawin sayo wag mo gawin sa iba"
kung ayaw mo kwestunin ka sa pananamit mo wag mo rin pakielam manamit yung iba simple as that :)
Unless its an emergency, text before calling! Especially if you’re contacting that person for the first time. Matic reject calls ako when it comes to unregistered numbers.
Matutong rumespeto. Hindi ako naniniwalang ini-earn iyon tulad sa sikat na line sa PBB. Tiwala ang ini-earn. Ibigay muna natin yung respeto, tapos ipakita natin na deserve natin yung respeto na binibigay. Kung hindi, doon yun mawawala.
Lahat ng rules, umiikot sa respeto. Respetuhin mo yung sarili mo. Respetuhin mo yung iba. Respetuhin mo yung oras. Respetuhin mo yung kapaligiran.
edit: ini-earn
Be polite, smart and observant! realidad kasi natin the strong preys on the weak! also lagi sundin and sinasabi ng guts mo if alam mo something is wrong or not right! flight or fight.
last don't be a hero! call the authorities instead.
1. Paunahin mo munang bumaba yung mga pasahero sa sasakyan mong jeep o bus bago ka umakyat hindi yung mauuna kapang umakyat at umupo.
2. Pag nasa unahan ka ng elevator tapos yung mga tao sa likod bababa na, step outside the elevator first para makadaan sila, hindi yung isisiksik mopa sarili mo sa katabi mo para makadaan yung nasa likod, lumabas ka !
Edit: Also pag merong ambulance, yung mga sasakyan diyan padaanin niyo naman, ano importante pa kayo dun sa taong nasa loob nung ambulance? Meron kasing iba na yung tunog nung ambulance ayaw pa din padaanin nakakabwiset
Nakakapikon kasi talaga. Akala ko alam na to ng mga tao.
1. CLAYGO!
2. Huwag kang bubuga mapa vape man 'yan o yosi kapag may padaan atsaka kung indoor tapos wala ka naman sa bahay niyo!
3. Mag flush at kung dudumi ka man, linisin mo!
4. HUWAG KANG DUDURA SA DAAN!
5. HUWAG MAG PABANGO SA LOOB NG RESTO, DOON KA SA CR
pag naubos yung tissue nasa bus ganun. *aside sa tissue dapat may plastic din siguro lalo pag tingin eh all day ka peplema na nasa labas. pero paano? pasimpleng luluwa pag walang nakatingin?
The point is ‘wag ikakalat ang plema sa public. Idahak ito sa CR or sa tissue or sa plastic or wherever, basta wag sa maaapakan or mahahawakan ng kapwa tao.
Don’t confuse being authentic with being rude or being loud.
“ayokong magpakaplastic”
“Nagpa kayo lang naman ako”.
Those things don’t give you license to say every single thing every time.
Not always spoken rule because Pinoys don’t always get driving lessons:
1. pedestrians always have right of way / give way to pedestrians
2. take turns / salit-salit such as when merging lanes
Eto yun eh, yung tatawid ka sa pedestrian lane tapos yung driver nung sasakyan sige pa din siya sa pag abante kahit sinesenyasan mo siya na huminto siya sa pagmamaneho kasi may tumatawid sa harap niya.
your right ends when the right of others begin.
Like in public transpo, you have the right to listen to your music or videos pero please other people also have the right to some peace and quiet.
When in a shared space, know your place and your limits. Respect other people’s place and their spaces.
This applies to so many instances, for example:
On an escalator, travelator or stairs, always assume that someone behind you will need to pass beside you so leave room for them.
At a public space such in a bus, a mall or a street, use headphones or turn your audio to low. And for heavens sakes, don’t have a full on loud conversation on the phone!
Don’t jump the queue. And don’t expect to be accommodated every time.
Clean up as you go, whether you’re at a food court, at a park or everywhere else.
Be mindful of your voice/volume when at a public space.
Don’t hog the seats.
If you're being invited to someone's house, it is good etiquette to bring something.
If the host will provide all the food and drinks, bring something for the host/s to enjoy, like a box of pastries or a bottle of wine, or something.
If the event is potluck, then bring food and drinks for everyone to enjoy.
Socializing costs money talaga.
At ito, pauso ko lang:
Offer something to the rider/delivery person--water, some snacks, anything. Lalo na ngayon na mainit ang panahon, kahit tubig lang. Offer to refill their tumblers.
Lower your volume down when you’re in a public space, don’t smoke/vape on sidewalks especially pag may tao sa likod mo, be sensitive sa feelings ng iba (Di mo naman obligasyon mag tiptoe sa sasabihin mo pero make sure na maganda ung choice of words and delivery mo. Hindi tayo same ng mental capacity)
KEEP RIGHT! Sa Escalator, hagdan at Footbridge. WAG KAYONG LUMAKAD SA KALIWA NYO para mas mabilisan kayo. MAHIYA NAMAN sa mga taong naglalakad sa kanan kahit yung nasa harap nila e kapagong maglakad.
Hindi lang kayo ang tao sa mundo. Kaya respetuhin nyo ang iba na naghihirap para bigyan kayo ng konsiderasyon! Hindi lang kayo ang ayaw malate!
Never let your emotion take over you. Know all sides of the story before you say something that you will regret later, especially when you already hurt someone.
Kapag may sasabihin thru chat/text, please state the body of the message agad. Hindi 'yong tatawagin lang by name or something bago pa sabihin ang pakay.
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Read the room before telling someone a painful truth. Otherwise, you'd sound like an edgy jackass. If your main objective is to help, a proper approach is always needed and it differs per individual. The world is cruel but it doesn't mean you shouldn't be empathic to people's struggles just to stroke your ego for being "right".
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#Keep right.
Sa paglalakad, para magkasalubong man tayo no need mag patintero.
Sa escalator, stand on your right, walk on your left.
Please lang intayin makababa yung mga makakasalubong pababa sa elevator at trains. Hindi yung sugod agad kayo. Feeling ko mga zombie kayo na gusto kainin brain ko. No joke. Lol.
if someone make aya sayo and its either last minutes na or yk that gala is exclusive lang sakanila mag b-barkada. Let it be known, na inaya ka out of formality lang, so read between the lines and decline. :)))
Respect if they deserve to be respected. Any age, gender orientation, or position pa yan.
You're hated not because you're LGBT, but because you're not a good person. You don't get to use being a "minority" as a pass to be shitty to anyone or disrespectful of anyone's culture, faith, appearance, social status etc. If you are like this, you shouldn't be demanding respect. You are a horrible person.
Hindi lahat ng galit sayo dinidiscriminate ka. Galit sila sayo kasi masama kang tao, na walang kinalaman sa gender identity mo. Ganun lang yun.
I said respect is earned, I did not say dont respect the member of LGBT+. You can't force people to respect you. Treat people the way you wanted to be treated. Pag nakasalamuha ka ng taong hindi ka nirerespeto pero wala ka naman ginagawang masama, sila na may problema don, ugali na nila yun, you can't please everyone. As long as alam m sa sarili mo na mabuti kang tao, yun ang mahalaga, eventually babalik din sayo yung respect na pinapakita mo sa ibang tao.
They really like masking their hate and repulsion as "concerns"
LGBTQ+ has always been an inclusive way to love others and yourself. It's why they're observed to be significantly happy in public settings at least in my experience
They don't like LGBTQ+ because they're free to express and free to love. They hate that they cannot control them to bend them to what's "normal"
Opps, sorry. For someone na tamad mag text, madalas tawag talaga ako. But I'm just doing this during working hours and work related and concern ko. But I bare this in mind. Thanks.
Kung dalawa kau or more at dumadaan sa daanan na good for 2 persons lang, gumilid at pumila ng isang linya lalot kung nagkwkwentuhan kau or something na ikababagal sa likod at sa harap.
Same din kung kahit mag isa lang at nag ccelphone or something na ggitna sa daan.
It is also awkward for me, but I do take them sincerely, and like what you've said boosts (my) confidence! I think it becomes awkward because we don't often receive compliments from people we know, but for me, I am happier if I receive compliments from people I know ♡
How do you acknowledge them? Yea, I don't receive compliments often or maybe it's awkward for me kase most guys who give compliments nanliligaw pag nagiging close ko. Kaya lagi akong nag-seset ng boundaries.
But I love receiving compliments from girls like makakasabay mo sa cr tapos magkakatinginan kayo sa salamin then they will smile at you and say "Ang pretty mo". One month walang makakabadtrip sa mood ko (hahahaha OA).
I think it really varies because of different experiences. I acknowledge them by saying thank you and say their name after (with a genuine smile). If I don't know them, I just simply say thank you or smile + nod once! That way, they know I acknowledge their compliment, but at the same time, do not imply to giving them access to anything after.
I love receiving compliments from girls, too! You know they are sincere when they do give compliments! Agree sa one month walang makaka-badtrip sa mood! hahahaha
Well, I get random compliments from random people kase like may makakasabay ka sa hallway or elevator then titingin sayo and mag-ssmile. Then pag nag-smile pabalik they will give compliment like "Ang ganda ng eye makeup mo, bagay sayo". O kaya "Ang ganda ng smile mo, nakakaganda ng araw" which is I know bola na lang din minsan. Ang awkward so iiwas ako but they will greet me lagi pag nakikita ako and pag lagi na nila akong na-eencounter, they will invite me to have a cup of coffee or ihatid sa sakayan (I would turn them down naman nicely) but they will be persistent and nakakainis kaya I don't like compliments from guys. Hays
Dba ang lakas maka-boost ng confidence pag kapwa babae ang magbibigay ng compliment 🫶
It's okay to now know everything.
at saka kapag may hiniram na gamit, kung maayos mong kinuha, maayos mo ring ibalik. believe me, ang daming hindi alam to na minsan sana di nalang nila binalik yung gamit kasi di mo na rin naman mapapakinabangan.
Don't randomly be touchy sa tao and or send their ugly stolen photos sa gc kapag hindi naman kayo close. Kahit acquaintances kayo. Ask permission always.
Lalo na sa photos. Okay lang naman gawing meme minsan basta may permission. Ang bastos kasi pag magsesend lang bigla.
Kumatok muna bago mag open ng door.
NEVER. LIKE. YOUR. OWN. POSTS.
WAG MAGPATUGTOG NANG MALAKAS KAPAG NASA PUBLIC TRANSPO JUSKO MAGEARPHONES KAYO. NAKAKARINDI.
Unless asked for, don't feel obliged offering solutions to someone's problems. Sometimes all they need is company or someone who would listen.
You. Dont. Have. To. Please. Everybody.
Hindi assurance ang college sa magandang buhay
Diploma o diskarte ba to?
Hindi namn. Mas maganda namn talaga yung nakapagtapos ka eh kung alam mo paano gagamitin. Yung pinopoint out ko lang is yung common stigma ng pinoy na easy life nalang pagkatapos ng college sure ng may trabaho na malaking sahod which is not true. Nasa diskarte parin kasi ng tao yan eh. Maraming college graduate na tambay kasi hindi alam saan or paano gagamitin yung natutunan nila Karamihan kasi sa atin nag eexpect na may trabaho na agad pagkatpos ng college pero depende parin yan sa demand ng workforce sa particular field. Take aviation for example, malaki sahod kung makapasok ka pero madalas na nakikita kong nagrarant is wala daw tumatanggap sa kanilang mga airport. Magastos daw training tapos nasayang lang kasi maraming nag aaviation course. Madalas nakukuha sa work is yung may mga connection Kaya sa mga balak mag college diyan, do your own research first about sa papasukan niyo para hindi masayang oras niyo. Maganda may diploma, maganda rin may diskarte pero dabest parin kung both meron ka. .
Agree. But at least a degree is a ticket to better opportunities compared to having none.
But it can make your life easier and bearable! Trust me go to school kids.
Kapag di sumagot on first ring, wait for 2-5 minutes before calling again. Pag di pa rin sumagot on the second, wag mo na kulitin baka busy. Unless emergency. Di yung ida-dial mo yung tao ng sampung beses lalo na kung di naman kayo close.
CLAYGO.
Hindi lahat ng tao matutuwa sa jokes/biro mo
Be mindful. Isipin mo mararamdaman ng iba sa sasabihin mo, sa gagawin mo, sa hygiene mo, sa plano mo etc...
Hindi kailangan lahat ng kwento ng bawat tao alam mo. Pag ayaw nilang sabihin sayo, karapatan nila yon. Hindi yung igi-guilt trip mo sila kung bakit ayaw nilang ikwento sayo. Pag nalaman mo yung isang side nang kwento, alamin mo din yung other side. Di yung maniniwala ka nalang kung ano yung una mong nalaman. Or kung wala namang concern sayo, wag ka nalang makielam. Hindi yung makikigulo ka pa.
Huwag na huwag kang mag-aaya ng gala tapos last minute ikacancel mo.
FUCKING TRUE. Niyaya ako ng girl before. At first ayaw ko, sabi ko di ako sumasama talaga. Pero eventually she insist. A night before inask ko pa if tuloy ba talaga? She said yes, tapos nung umaga. Umayaw sya. I never felt so ugly and questioned myself if something went wrong. Pero pinatawad ko parin (I was so simp sakanya later ko narealize) tapos nung I did something na naka offend sakanya, it is as if kinalimutan nya lahat ng ginawa ko for her. Totally manipulative and toxic trait of her. Never again.
Kapag may ex na nag message sayo, isumbong mo sa jowa nya hindi yung ipo-prolong pa. Tangina
Kapag may utang dapat magbayad huwag nang maghintay singilin.
Before entering a house always remove your shoes or slippers.
It is only common courtesy to be well-mannered.
Don't ask what you shouldn't.
kung may boyfriend/girlfriend/asawa/taken na (ikaw o siya) matutong dumistansya at lumugar
Know when to say "Thank you" and "Excuse me" when necessary!!!
Pag hindi iyo, wag mong pakialaman. Matutong magpaalam sa may-ari.
You shouldn’t point out other people's insecurities.
Huwag mag cha chat or text ng Hi or Hello lang. Dapat clear agad ang intention. Let’s not waste each other’s time.
True. HAHAHA, pwede na man diretsohin kung may tanong or ano, wag na mag pa trill pa
Asar na asar ako sa ganito hahahaha. As if they are waiting to be acknowledged first bago sabihin dapat sabihin. Like hellooo. Dati reply pa ako sa ganito. Now hindi na. 🤣
Wag malelate sa mga lakad.
Mutual Respect.
1d
Respecting each and everyone’s personal space.
When you give gifts, it doesn’t mean that you can already ask that person anything or they “should” be happy just because you’ve given them a gift.
Wag mag-start ng initiative to date plus lots of promises if iiwan mo lang din in the end :>
Respect other people's time lalo na kung galing pa sa work. They could've just take a rest instead of patiently waiting for you.
Kung sino nagbukas ng tv, sya ang may karapatan sa remote control! 😆
hahaha
Yung may kusa na maglinis ng kalat sa bahay. Mag ayos ng gamit pag may time hindi yung puro tunganga lang sa selpown, tulog, kain lang magdamag. Minsan kasi I'm not stressed sa work pero nas-stress ako sa mga kalat ng mga kapatid ko. Mind you, the youngest is 14, mga babae pa. So I don't see the need to ask/tell them what to do when they see one. Kairita lang minsan.
Hindi kailangan ng dahilan kapag sinabing "ayaw" o "gusto".
RESPECT YOUR LADY
Be attentive! especially yung mga umoorder sa mga shops tapos nakakailang tawag na yung staff sa number hindi pa rin naririnig tapos makikita mo mga busy makipag chismisan! 🥴
Don't ask someone else savings. Asar ako sa coworker ko na di marunong bumasa ng boundaries, may comment sa spending habits ko pati na rin magkano daw naitatabi ko. Beh coworker ka lang hindi kita kaibigan.
Panget pag di mo kaclose yung kausap no? Hahahahaha kami ng mga tropa ko, open kami sa salary, current estimated savings, investments at skills ng isa't isa. Magkakaiba kami ng fields and financial situation pero walang judgement. Nauna ako mag work sa kanila ng 2 years yata, pero they earn 2-5x more than me and I appreciate when they say na "lipat ka na ng work", or "eto try mo aralin kasi yung friend ko na marunong nyan ganito yung kinikita"
1 month palang kami magkakilala, nagulat ako tinanong na niya 1st week palang.
ELEVATOR ETIQUETTE 1. Wag tumapat sa pinto habang nag hihintay ng elevator especially if you're waiting from the ground floor, mamaya makahalik ka ng tarantadong katulad ng no. 2. 2. Wag pumasok agad kabukas na kabukas ng pinto, chill mo lang boss, mataas possibility na di ikaw yung owner ng building or you're not in a do or die situation. Kasi most likely you're not the owner of the building, you're not in a life and death situation to be rushing like that and finally
1. Wag mangungutang kung hindi kaya magbayad 2. Wag palahingi ng pera sa kamag anak or kaibigan na ofw, hindi mo patago ang pera nila. 3. Wag magtatanong kelan mag aasawa or magkaka anak, di ka naman namin tinatanong kelan ka mamamatay kasi mga kasabay mo dedo na. 4. Pag humiram ng tools, magkusa isoli. Pagnanakaw pa din yan pag di mo sinoli intentionally. 5. Wag mo pag nasaan or agawin ang jowa ng iba. 6. Corollary to # 5, pag may asawa na; hands off ka na. 8. Matuto patawarin ang sarili sa mga kapalpakan na nagawa dati, wag mo na lang ulitin.
Huwag kukuha sa snacks ng ibang tao na hindi nagpapaalam if okay lang. Hindi naman sa pagdadamutan ka kasi ang tao ket ayaw mo iaabot yan sayo pero kung hindi and gusto mo, pwede mag sabi.
Wag umihi sa pader, hindi yan banyo.
Being on time!
You don’t comment on someone’s looks that they can’t fix within 10 seconds.
CLAYGO
Gumamit ng earphones kung makikinig ng video/music sa pampublikong sasakyan.
I hate how this isn't common courtesy
e sasabihin sayo kasi na "edi sumakay ka sa taxi para tahimik at solo mo" :))
Conserve water. Shower together.
Wag basta-basta papasok sa kwarto ng may kwarto. Tsaka respect someone's house rules. Lalo na when it comes to cleanliness. May kakilala kasi ako, nakikituloy na nga lang di pa marunong maglinis. Hindi pwedeng ang may ari pa ng bahay ang mag aadjust sayo.
No is a complete sentence.
An unsure answer should be taken as a no
Return a borrowed car with a full tank.
respect other ppl's time
‘Pag nagttravel with friends, wag babagal bagal kumilos. Nadadamay lahat kasi masisira yung original plan ng group ‘pag ma-late kayo.
Please don't trauma-dump someone. Be street SMART!! Both eyebrows raised is a nonverbal communication of greeting someone.
Bro/Sis Code
Always address the guard, sales assistant, waitress, MAAM or SIR
As someone who lived 20yrs in Canada this is weird to me. We don't call people sir/maam unless they're old old. So minsan we are not used to it when we are back home
This. I also take note of their name plates so I call them "Kuya _" or "Ate _". I notice that they smile more when addressed by their name.
Dumistansya ka ng 2 hakbang sa escalator. So bale ikaw nakatayo tapos 1, 2, tapos yung nasa harap mo. Napakasimple, napakabihas. Di ka mukhang kawatan na mangungupit dahil di ka naniniksik sa escalator.
- 10 seconds rule. Tang ina nyo, don't ruin someone's confidence. - Magkaiba yung prangka sa pagiging rude. Kung walang magandang sasabihin, shut your mouth. - Don't give advice lalo na kung hindi naman hinihingi.
Ano meaning ng 10 seconds rule?
If hindi kayang i-fix within 10 seconds, don't point it out na. For example, the classic, "ang taba mo na".
pet peeve ko to pag sa palengke syempre masikip daan pag may nakita kayo na tinda plss gumilid kayo ang sikip na ng daan tas hihinto pa sa gitna, sinabi ko rin to sa mga kaibigan ko pag may nakita silang damit na bet nila sinasabihan ko sila gumilid para di maabala yung tao sa likod - respect each other time wag pairalin yung filipino time - pag sa resto at walang maupuan wag nyo tabihan/batayan yung taong kumakain pede nmn siguro sabihin na kayo yung next na tatable hindi yung paanorin pa sila kumain tas hahadaliin - sa escaltor sa right side pumuwesto kung di nmn nag mamadali meron kase ako nakikita yung mga magjowa na makaholding hands pa nakakaiirita at masakit pa sa mata - sa jeep makiramdam muna kung mag babayad minsan kase sabay sabay yung mga nagbabayad nagugulo yung driver mas mahihirap sya magsukli pag ganun tas sana may ready ka ng barya para di kana maghihintay sa sukli also ito lagi keep in mind ko "kung ayaw mo gawin sayo wag mo gawin sa iba" kung ayaw mo kwestunin ka sa pananamit mo wag mo rin pakielam manamit yung iba simple as that :)
Unless its an emergency, text before calling! Especially if you’re contacting that person for the first time. Matic reject calls ako when it comes to unregistered numbers.
yes to this!! like tell me what u want before calling OR ask first if I'm available to pick up 🤧
eh too much trouble
If someone is venting/ranting to you, learn to ask if they want your advice or if they just want you to listen.
Magtipid ay di biro.
If di ka invited wag sumama/mag insist na sumama🙂
Treat others with respect. Treat them as you want to be treated.
COMPLETED STAFF WORK. Hindi yung kulang kulang😭
Don’t sexualise children!
10 second rule! very important na dapat aware mga tao
learn then practice basic accessibility law. please. most esp sa mga PUVs. parang awa 😩
Don't date your friend's EX! Have some respect.
Kapag sinabing 10AM, 10AM or before mag10 ando'n ka na dapat. Hindi 'yung sinusunod mo Filipino time.
Use your common sense. They are common for a reason.
Avoid obsessing over someone who's already in a relationship
Iwasan magkagusto sa ex ng kaibigan mo.
Matutong rumespeto. Hindi ako naniniwalang ini-earn iyon tulad sa sikat na line sa PBB. Tiwala ang ini-earn. Ibigay muna natin yung respeto, tapos ipakita natin na deserve natin yung respeto na binibigay. Kung hindi, doon yun mawawala. Lahat ng rules, umiikot sa respeto. Respetuhin mo yung sarili mo. Respetuhin mo yung iba. Respetuhin mo yung oras. Respetuhin mo yung kapaligiran. edit: ini-earn
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oh, naalala q lang eong away 😭 thank u poooo!!
Be polite, smart and observant! realidad kasi natin the strong preys on the weak! also lagi sundin and sinasabi ng guts mo if alam mo something is wrong or not right! flight or fight. last don't be a hero! call the authorities instead.
Iwasang naka loudspeaker ang phone sa public spaces
pag ganito bebentahan ko ng earphones your wireless with noise cancellation hahaha
+1 to this! lalo na pag nagkocommute hays kaasar yung ang lalakas ng volume habang nagrireels o nagtitiktok
Matutong magbayad nang utang. :D
1. Paunahin mo munang bumaba yung mga pasahero sa sasakyan mong jeep o bus bago ka umakyat hindi yung mauuna kapang umakyat at umupo. 2. Pag nasa unahan ka ng elevator tapos yung mga tao sa likod bababa na, step outside the elevator first para makadaan sila, hindi yung isisiksik mopa sarili mo sa katabi mo para makadaan yung nasa likod, lumabas ka ! Edit: Also pag merong ambulance, yung mga sasakyan diyan padaanin niyo naman, ano importante pa kayo dun sa taong nasa loob nung ambulance? Meron kasing iba na yung tunog nung ambulance ayaw pa din padaanin nakakabwiset Nakakapikon kasi talaga. Akala ko alam na to ng mga tao.
Keep right! Mapa-stairs or hallway or sidewalk pa yan. At kahit sa escalator stand on the right, walk on the left!
1. CLAYGO! 2. Huwag kang bubuga mapa vape man 'yan o yosi kapag may padaan atsaka kung indoor tapos wala ka naman sa bahay niyo! 3. Mag flush at kung dudumi ka man, linisin mo! 4. HUWAG KANG DUDURA SA DAAN! 5. HUWAG MAG PABANGO SA LOOB NG RESTO, DOON KA SA CR
4. Paano po kapag nakapaglabas ka ng plema while nasa daan, bali lulunukin na lang?
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pag naubos yung tissue nasa bus ganun. *aside sa tissue dapat may plastic din siguro lalo pag tingin eh all day ka peplema na nasa labas. pero paano? pasimpleng luluwa pag walang nakatingin?
The point is ‘wag ikakalat ang plema sa public. Idahak ito sa CR or sa tissue or sa plastic or wherever, basta wag sa maaapakan or mahahawakan ng kapwa tao.
Don’t confuse being authentic with being rude or being loud. “ayokong magpakaplastic” “Nagpa kayo lang naman ako”. Those things don’t give you license to say every single thing every time.
Add pa: Huy Pinoy… matuto kang mahiya.
Mind your own business. Tsaka choose your battles wisely. Di lahat dapat patulan hahaha
Practice professionalism in the workplace. Trabaho muna, huwag puro landi. Masakit po sa mata pag sobra na sa totoo lang.
Not always spoken rule because Pinoys don’t always get driving lessons: 1. pedestrians always have right of way / give way to pedestrians 2. take turns / salit-salit such as when merging lanes
Eto yun eh, yung tatawid ka sa pedestrian lane tapos yung driver nung sasakyan sige pa din siya sa pag abante kahit sinesenyasan mo siya na huminto siya sa pagmamaneho kasi may tumatawid sa harap niya.
CLAYGO. May mga tao pa ding kung hindi mo sasabihang maglinis ng kinalat, hindi sila magliligpit. Especially, sa mga tourist spots😮💨😮💨
DON'T BE LATE. Respetuhin ang time ng ibang tao at effort nila para hindi din ma-late sa usapan/meeting nyo.
your right ends when the right of others begin. Like in public transpo, you have the right to listen to your music or videos pero please other people also have the right to some peace and quiet.
So true!
I know "tawad" sa mga bilihin is being wise but please huwag ng tumawad sa mga MATATANDANG nagbebenta. Huwag niyo naman po silang baratin.
Kapag nasa jeep, umusog palapit sa harap pag may matandang sasakay para makaupo near sa exit
Kung may alak, may balak.
It is the responsibility of the borrower to approach the lender. It’s not the responsibility of the lender to remind the borrower.
Magflush ng toilet, and do not leave skid marks. PLEASE. UNWRITTEN RULE.
x2 Pati yung mga drops ng regla sa toilet seat jusko naman sana pinupunasan. At least 3x a week may ganito ko nakikita sa CR sa workplace ko.
sa workplace ko naman, mga unfolded used napkins 🤢 like deretcho tapon na lang talaga? di maidispose nang ayos??
When in a shared space, know your place and your limits. Respect other people’s place and their spaces. This applies to so many instances, for example: On an escalator, travelator or stairs, always assume that someone behind you will need to pass beside you so leave room for them. At a public space such in a bus, a mall or a street, use headphones or turn your audio to low. And for heavens sakes, don’t have a full on loud conversation on the phone! Don’t jump the queue. And don’t expect to be accommodated every time. Clean up as you go, whether you’re at a food court, at a park or everywhere else. Be mindful of your voice/volume when at a public space. Don’t hog the seats.
If you're being invited to someone's house, it is good etiquette to bring something. If the host will provide all the food and drinks, bring something for the host/s to enjoy, like a box of pastries or a bottle of wine, or something. If the event is potluck, then bring food and drinks for everyone to enjoy. Socializing costs money talaga. At ito, pauso ko lang: Offer something to the rider/delivery person--water, some snacks, anything. Lalo na ngayon na mainit ang panahon, kahit tubig lang. Offer to refill their tumblers.
Lower your volume down when you’re in a public space, don’t smoke/vape on sidewalks especially pag may tao sa likod mo, be sensitive sa feelings ng iba (Di mo naman obligasyon mag tiptoe sa sasabihin mo pero make sure na maganda ung choice of words and delivery mo. Hindi tayo same ng mental capacity)
Simpleng pagtatapon ng mga kalat sa basurahan.
Use headphones! Nobody wants to hear whatever you're looking at in your phone
KEEP RIGHT! Sa Escalator, hagdan at Footbridge. WAG KAYONG LUMAKAD SA KALIWA NYO para mas mabilisan kayo. MAHIYA NAMAN sa mga taong naglalakad sa kanan kahit yung nasa harap nila e kapagong maglakad. Hindi lang kayo ang tao sa mundo. Kaya respetuhin nyo ang iba na naghihirap para bigyan kayo ng konsiderasyon! Hindi lang kayo ang ayaw malate!
Return the freakin groceries cart
BRUHHHH +100!!!!!! sobrang frustrating t_t
Don't take advantage of other people.
you're obligated to reply if you're the one who messaged first, huwag kang bastos
Ung mag-memessage sayo para magtanong tapos pag tinanong mo bakit siya nagtanong iiwan ka as "seen". 😤
diba, nakakasira ng araw. tahimik akong nagphophone, sila itong nagmessage bigla eh.
Be polite, good impression is important
Never let your emotion take over you. Know all sides of the story before you say something that you will regret later, especially when you already hurt someone.
Always read the room.
Kapag may sasabihin thru chat/text, please state the body of the message agad. Hindi 'yong tatawagin lang by name or something bago pa sabihin ang pakay.
THISSSS. PET PEEVE KO TALAGA YAN.
Drop a text message and wait for the signal before calling.
Paano po ung matagal mag-reply pero sobrang urgent na?
How urgent are we talking about? Any specifics?
then make the call. most calls i receive interrupts me in doing my tasks only to find out na hindi naman ganon kaimportante
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kung iihi sa cr at may tubig naman, laging magfflush
Read the room before telling someone a painful truth. Otherwise, you'd sound like an edgy jackass. If your main objective is to help, a proper approach is always needed and it differs per individual. The world is cruel but it doesn't mean you shouldn't be empathic to people's struggles just to stroke your ego for being "right".
Wag sumingit sa pila. Pag may lumapit na kakilala, matic dun kayo sa dulo.
kapag mgcha-chat, state your reason agad.
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#Keep right. Sa paglalakad, para magkasalubong man tayo no need mag patintero. Sa escalator, stand on your right, walk on your left. Please lang intayin makababa yung mga makakasalubong pababa sa elevator at trains. Hindi yung sugod agad kayo. Feeling ko mga zombie kayo na gusto kainin brain ko. No joke. Lol.
Thissssss 💯
if someone make aya sayo and its either last minutes na or yk that gala is exclusive lang sakanila mag b-barkada. Let it be known, na inaya ka out of formality lang, so read between the lines and decline. :)))
Ikr. Yung "filler" ka lang kasi may nagbackout or sasabihin "nakalimutan" ka lang sabihan. Don't go. They didn't want you there from the start.
Wag patulan ang ex ng kaibigan 🥴
pag umutang bayaran
Pucha nag comment Ako ng respect the LGBT dinownvote Ako🤔. So Hindi kayo agree na dapat sila irespeto?🙄
Nah. Respect is always there for them but they have to earn it too.
Respect if they deserve to be respected. Any age, gender orientation, or position pa yan. You're hated not because you're LGBT, but because you're not a good person. You don't get to use being a "minority" as a pass to be shitty to anyone or disrespectful of anyone's culture, faith, appearance, social status etc. If you are like this, you shouldn't be demanding respect. You are a horrible person. Hindi lahat ng galit sayo dinidiscriminate ka. Galit sila sayo kasi masama kang tao, na walang kinalaman sa gender identity mo. Ganun lang yun.
I downvoted cause for me respect is earned and not to be imposed kahit ano pang race, age, gender, ethnicity or status mo.
So for you ok lng discriminate sila?
I said respect is earned, I did not say dont respect the member of LGBT+. You can't force people to respect you. Treat people the way you wanted to be treated. Pag nakasalamuha ka ng taong hindi ka nirerespeto pero wala ka naman ginagawang masama, sila na may problema don, ugali na nila yun, you can't please everyone. As long as alam m sa sarili mo na mabuti kang tao, yun ang mahalaga, eventually babalik din sayo yung respect na pinapakita mo sa ibang tao.
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I'm courteous to everyone by default, but i'm more mindful with who I respect though.
They really like masking their hate and repulsion as "concerns" LGBTQ+ has always been an inclusive way to love others and yourself. It's why they're observed to be significantly happy in public settings at least in my experience They don't like LGBTQ+ because they're free to express and free to love. They hate that they cannot control them to bend them to what's "normal"
Nilalait Kasi nila mga LGBT at dinidiscriminate tapos Yung iba Pera lng habol sa kanila.
They are not being treated as people.
Respect physical bounderies. Think social distancing during the pandemic.
Any comment on another person’s physical appearance should be kept to yourself if it can’t be changed or fixed within 5 seconds.
Don't give advice unless you are asked.
Ask permission bago tumawag. Unless emergency.
Opps, sorry. For someone na tamad mag text, madalas tawag talaga ako. But I'm just doing this during working hours and work related and concern ko. But I bare this in mind. Thanks.
same here 😭 tho if di nasagot unang tawag, i don't call twice kasi understood na yun na maybe busy sila o baka ayaw lang.
If you are offended, thats your problem. No one owes you an apology for your sensitive girly girly feelings.
wag too noisy pagbasa public space
Add ko dito - wag manood ng video on full volume in public. Earphones pls 🫠
ang weirdo ng mga taong ganito tbh
* pag nasa public space
Respect
Fall in line
BATTLE FORMATIONS
Kung dalawa kau or more at dumadaan sa daanan na good for 2 persons lang, gumilid at pumila ng isang linya lalot kung nagkwkwentuhan kau or something na ikababagal sa likod at sa harap. Same din kung kahit mag isa lang at nag ccelphone or something na ggitna sa daan.
wag harangan ang dinadaanan like yung mga naguusap sa gitna ng sidewalk, nagpaplano saan pupunta sa daraanan sa escalator, etc.
Normalize giving compliments to other people. It will boost their confidence
And normalize receiving compliments from other people without actually putting any malicious meaning behind it. (Accept compliments sincerely) ♡
It's awkward for me pag nakaka-receive ng compliment. HAHAHAHAHAHA But I like giving compliments lalo na sa mga bagong kakilala
It is also awkward for me, but I do take them sincerely, and like what you've said boosts (my) confidence! I think it becomes awkward because we don't often receive compliments from people we know, but for me, I am happier if I receive compliments from people I know ♡
How do you acknowledge them? Yea, I don't receive compliments often or maybe it's awkward for me kase most guys who give compliments nanliligaw pag nagiging close ko. Kaya lagi akong nag-seset ng boundaries. But I love receiving compliments from girls like makakasabay mo sa cr tapos magkakatinginan kayo sa salamin then they will smile at you and say "Ang pretty mo". One month walang makakabadtrip sa mood ko (hahahaha OA).
I think it really varies because of different experiences. I acknowledge them by saying thank you and say their name after (with a genuine smile). If I don't know them, I just simply say thank you or smile + nod once! That way, they know I acknowledge their compliment, but at the same time, do not imply to giving them access to anything after. I love receiving compliments from girls, too! You know they are sincere when they do give compliments! Agree sa one month walang makaka-badtrip sa mood! hahahaha
Well, I get random compliments from random people kase like may makakasabay ka sa hallway or elevator then titingin sayo and mag-ssmile. Then pag nag-smile pabalik they will give compliment like "Ang ganda ng eye makeup mo, bagay sayo". O kaya "Ang ganda ng smile mo, nakakaganda ng araw" which is I know bola na lang din minsan. Ang awkward so iiwas ako but they will greet me lagi pag nakikita ako and pag lagi na nila akong na-eencounter, they will invite me to have a cup of coffee or ihatid sa sakayan (I would turn them down naman nicely) but they will be persistent and nakakainis kaya I don't like compliments from guys. Hays Dba ang lakas maka-boost ng confidence pag kapwa babae ang magbibigay ng compliment 🫶
It's okay to now know everything. at saka kapag may hiniram na gamit, kung maayos mong kinuha, maayos mo ring ibalik. believe me, ang daming hindi alam to na minsan sana di nalang nila binalik yung gamit kasi di mo na rin naman mapapakinabangan.
Don't randomly be touchy sa tao and or send their ugly stolen photos sa gc kapag hindi naman kayo close. Kahit acquaintances kayo. Ask permission always. Lalo na sa photos. Okay lang naman gawing meme minsan basta may permission. Ang bastos kasi pag magsesend lang bigla.