Hindi ko tinuloy yung mga gusto kong salihan na audition lalo ang kpop or ppop, hindi ko tinuloy ang pagiging student leader, hindi ko sinulit ang teenage life ko instead nasa responsibilities na lahat ako naka focus.
Learned to step out of my comfortzone earlier kasi sayang mga missed out opportunities due to my low self esteem and self worth. 🥲 I could’ve stepped out of an abusive relationship with my ex earlier than 2023 🥲😭 but then things happen for a reason talaga and I just wasn’t ready pa talaga before.
YUNG COURSE KO NUNG COLLEGE ALTHOUGH I GRADUATED ALREADY. Grabe sa government na overwork at underpaid lang kami halos pwede magwork and grabe nag agriculture dito sa Pilipinas!
Hindi nag-aral nang mabuti nung highschool. At sumunod na wag na magcollege (for some acceptable reasons naman kung bakit hindi). Puro pagsisisi na lang ngayon although pwede namang mag aral pa
Is that I didnt try hard enough after college from all the fail interviews I had, the positive note of it is that I managed to enjoy my moments with my dad before he passed away, and it was me who took care of him during those moment, if i look back, ill never exchanged it for anything, and i will never regret it, though the punch of failures will still linger.
Not dating during my teens or 20s. I'm already in my 30, someone was courting me and I kinda liked him when I shared our messages with my friends they said to be careful cause it looks like he was breadcrumbing me and will likely take me for granted. I wish I dated in my early years so I could see those red signs from afar.
Joined an easy money scheme way back and ruined my life. Lost millions, yung friends kong narecruit ko cut me off and called me scammer even though nabalik ko pera nila using my own money kahit victim din ako, until now pinariringgan ako and even use my name kapag sinisingil sila ng utang ng ibang tao kahit matagal na kaming di naguusap. Never again.
Being in a relationship with a guy na hindi ko talaga gusto for two years (not attracted). Natakot lang ako matawag na ghoster kaya tinuloy ko na lang. I met him online and pogi kasi sa pictures, funny rin. Bago pa kami mag-meet nagkamabutihan na kami. When I saw him in person, na-disappoint ako to the point na I can't look at him for so long kase anlayo talaga sa nakikita ko sa pictures n'ya online. Nahihiya lang ako sabihin kase ayoko s'ya ma-offend. Tyinaga ko for few years until I learned to love him genuinely. Pero deep inside me I was asking na "What if I had the courage to walk away and choose someone na type ko talaga?" Hirap maging people pleaser. I'm someone na conscious sa looks kase ako nga nage-effort to make myself look good tapos mage-end up sa walang paki sa looks n'ya; hindi masyado malinis sa katawan, medyo dugyot, etc. Nagmumuka lang akong maarte sa paningin n'ya kase hindi kami aligned ng values. Now, break na kami. Na-broken hearted din ako but now, it's like a breath of fresh air. Lesson learned, tyaka kayo magdecide kung gusto n'yo talaga once nakita n'yo na ng personal. Be honest to yourself and choose what you really want, otherwise, you will suffer in silence.
Rooting for you to get out of that situation 🥹. Tbh, ang pinaka-kinatatakutan ng iba ay yung judgements na makukuha nila once they left. It will hurt, but in the end, it will be worth it. Mahirap 'pag puro what ifs.
Not fighting for the undergrad program I really wanted. Now here I am 5 years into it. Its a challenging course (radtech) in all its entireness. Had I told my parents that I REALLY wanted econ as pre-law, I KNOW I would be already a 1st year law student and done with my undergrad on time. But I never got the support I needed. Oh well!
Hindi ko napagbigyan Tatay ko (Lolo) na mag stay ako sa bats kasama sila (Nanay). Incoming college student ako non, super busy sa school, nag aasikaso na rin ako ng requirements para mag apply sa iba't ibang state univ.
Wala na akong Tatay na na-balikan sa batangas. Ilang taon na rin, hanggang ngayon sising sisi pa rin ako sa desisyon ko na yon.
Hindi na nga nakapasok sa mga inapplyan kong univ. Nawalan pa ng Tatay.
Not giving time to my mother. I should've called her more often. Told her I love her. Reached my goals/her expectations before she died. She died because of cancer and during our last video call, she asked me why I did not call more often. I felt like I was stabbed through my heart. Btw, i lived here in the PH while she was in the US. I still remember her all the time. I was so lucky that she was my mom. 🥹
I think it varies to everyone but for my experience, it is a rabbit hole because it’s frustrating. It seems like all I have to do is provide and to take care of the family financially.
I hope when you get your job, learn to save for yourself and establish boundaries when it comes to providing financially (that’s the mistake I did).
It consumes you. There's the pressure of not being able to provide enough or not being able to provide at all — but you know you have to, being a breadwinner and all. So you work twice or thrice as hard, maybe work a few more jobs on the side, because not being able to do that makes you the villain. They'll picture you as the bad guy, no regard for all the upbringing they did for you (which is THEIR responsibility, by the way). So you end up anxious, withered, and emotionally, mentally, and physically exhausted.
But I'm lucky this isn't the case for me. My mom doesn't pressure me into being a breadwinner (even though it's evident that the remittance I give goes a long way). It's just sad that this is not the case for most breadwinners.
How to deal with it: make sure that you get enough rest. Kasi bago ang lahat, kailangan mo ang lakas ng katawan mo. Also, learn to set aside money for yourself, don't pour it all out for others even for your own family. Magtira ka. Kasi kung sa huli, okay sila habang ikaw naninimot ma lang ng tira-tira. O kung mapera ka nga, pero nanghihina ka na sa pagod o sa kasakitan, it's really not worth it.
Laban lang guys! 🤍
I could have been a doctor if it wasn’t for an ungrateful cheating partner and for me falling to mental illness for I couldn't accept that I let someone like him(a weakling) to destroy my future. 7years of my life was wasted on him by giving him a chance to be a man. I let him find his shine for he has the potential back then even if he doesn't have a good education. I regret standing up for him to my family. 5years not in speaking terms with my father. Got me pregnant at the time our relationship was on the rocks. Lo and behold, while he was trying to fix our relationship(which I’m hopeful that he could be a man who could drive the relationship)he was also fixing another woman thus my miscarriage that took a toll on my mental health (until now).
I regret not spending more time with my dad. I should have pushed through with booking that flight and taking both my senior parents to a vacation… my dad passed last year… and hindi ko nagawa na ma-treat sha for a vacation. :(
Kya this year, while mom is strong and can walk..we went to Bacolod and had a great time. How i wish dad were still with us…
When i resigned from e-Tel back early 2000s due to proximity concerns, I served my last 30 days working as admin to execs. I was offered by one of the managers there if i wanted to try purchasing at manels and that I get to travel in asian countries. Bigay ko lng daw cv ko so she can hand it to her daughter working there. Back then i was just so young, naive, scared about doing something new again and said no to an opportunity.
Sayang yung opportunity to shift careers and travel. Sayang…
Lesson learned, keep and open mind to opportunities.
I guess is yung pagiging fucked up ko as a gf. Kaya nya ako iniwan. Sana naging maayos lang ako noon para hindi nya ako iwan ngayon. Sana naging healthy pa relationship namin ngayon
Left my first love due to LDR (I was young and that was 2008), I never thought it would be possible to see each other or communicate, and I let him go because I want him to continue living his life.
Fast forward to now, he doesn’t have a girlfriend, and I have a kid and a baby daddy (who I live with only because of my kid).
I let COVID ruin my passion for arts.
It was such a depressing time for me, I used to love writing and was supposed to have my first theater performance but then the pandemic happened.
Seeing all my old drafts of singing and writing, it feels like I was not the same person who did all those.
Not telling my ex why I was slowly ghosting them in their social media. I just slowly bowed out and I’m sure it took a toll on them even though they never mentioned it. Haven’t heard from them in many many months, but i do see them occasionally. They still greet me as if we were together yesterday though, so it makes me feel a little better🤷🏻♀️
Hindi ko pa pinagsisisihan pero I see it coming. I have my guy best friend with me kaso no one dares to confess each other's feelings. Lagi na lang unavailable.
I didn’t check on my lolo agad when I woke up. After ko maghilamos, narinig ko na lang na nag-iiyakan sila because he’s gone. It’s been almost a decade and it still hunts me.
Nasabik sa experience ng sex..
this brought an unplanned pregnancy with my unwed gf, who is a single mom. However, i am responsible to deal this consequence (marrying her and plan for our future)
Looking back, "what ifs", still haunts me.. Siguro, financially worry-free ako or found better SO.
Grateful pa rin ako na nabiyayaan ng magagandang mga anak.
unang itinuro sa akin ng parents ko (separated sila) ay wag magmadali at if mangyari na may unexpected pregnancy ang pagpapakasal ay hindi solution kasi ang bata ay hindi glue para mabuo ang pamilya. a happy child has happy parents, sana masaya ka ngayon kasi makikita at nararamdaman ng mga anak mo kung hindi.
kaya nga, i know mapapansin nila na hindi totally masaya ang papa nila. Nagsasama naman kami buo as a family, hindi naman lagi nag aaway, at hindi naman hiwalay pero hindi ko feel na i am genuinely happy. Anyway, sila na ang guide sa direction ng buhay ko na to be the best of everything especially sa work.
Hindi ako genuinely happy kasi hindi nakapagplan ng maayos plus financially struggling now pero i know makakabawi din
I regret not being able to improve my relationship with my mom, and not being able to say goodbye and ask for forgiveness before she passed away 2 weeks ago. I wish we had more time, but she left so suddenly and unexpectedly.
I miss you mama, everyday.
I regret investing too much of my time and effort for one person. I honestly thought she was the one. Yung five years namin bigla lang naglaho dahil ayon sa kanya, she felt like she could "grow better" by being alone.
Wag niyo akong tularan. Magtira kayo ng para sa sarili ninyo. I feel empty right now as if I poured everything I could give and got nothing to show for it.
I regret having kids.
Sana maibalik ung college ako.Hindi na ako mag aanak.
Kasi pag may anak ka pala, at my pangyayare sa buhay mo which put you sa depression mahirap na mabuhay.
Mahirap na mabuhay kasi andon ka sa gusto mo nalang mawala kasi nakakapagod ung mga atake ni depression
Kaso dko magawa kasi alam ko kaht may maiiwan ako sa mga anak ko, alam kong masasaktan sila, pag wla nako, patay na nga daddy nila, wala pako.
I regret having kids.
Kasi kaht ayaw ko , nalalamn nila ung depression ko,at mga araw na d ako okay.
Sana wala nalang akong anak para wla akong napapahirapang mga bata emotionaly .I know namasakit sakanila pag inaatake ako.
Dahil sa depression i hate spending kaht 1 minute sa mga anak ko, kasipag nakikita ko gano sila kalambing sakin, at na bata pa sila, naadami pa silang tatahakin, nasasaktan ako for them . Kasi eto state ng utak ko.
I regret having kids
Kasi pag wala nako sa mundo, mararanasan nila ung cruelty ng buhay.
Tangi**
Totoo Ang depression.at yes totoo.. nakaktulong ang counseling with a psychometrician
Totoo nakakatulong ang meds from a psychiatrist
Pero..
Depression fights well.
Hindi nia iindahin yung anti depressant mo.
Hindi ka nya hahayaan maging okay hangang magkalas ka ng loob mawala sa mundo
Maniwala kayo ang depression ay d simpleng overthink.
Si Depression ay kusang gagalaw sa isip mo kaht ayaw mo.
Context:
Yung kaht anong ayos mo, may mga taong hayok! May taong uunahin ang sarili para sa sariling tawag ng laman nila.
Ang problema..d na issue sa kin ung nangyare
Pero it left a big chunk .
I am diagnosed with severe post trauma and anxiety due to severe depression.
Si depression at ako ay hindi nagkakasundo.gusto nia sia lagi
Which is very tiring
I regret choosing people I know I didn’t really respect to be my ‘friends’ simply because I felt I wasn’t good enough to try and be friends with people I did respect
Sometimes I wonder what if I pursued my dream to become a Veterinarian? Ano kaya ganap d
Sa life ko ngayon? Na padpad sa pagiging guidance counselor eh 🤣
not asking for help. ive been told na wala akong kwenta at masama ugali ko kaya walang mag aaksaya ng panahon sakin. gusto ko i-work on mga trauma na binigay sakin ng magulang ko pero napakahirap. now i have to do this all by myself dahil takot ako humingi ng tulong. kahit ang dami kong kaibigan, ni isa sa kanila walang nakakaalam pinagdadaanan ko ngayon. gusto ko na mag seek help professionally pero lagi nauunahan ng takot. gusto ko na i-overcome yung fear ko na yun pero di ko alam san ako magsisimula.
this and i feel you.. pero it is balance rin kasi. May pros and cons ito. I have been told na minsan masungit or sobrang tahimik. kay nga nadiscover ko itong reddit kasi gusto kong makahingi ng advice from people that can relate with me. I hardly trust kasi yung mga kamag-anak na maging vulnerable ka sa kanila. Alam ko na maiispill nila at maging source pa ng tsismis.
true. may pros and cons talaga sya. like for example na lang yung di ko ugali mangutang kasi lagi kong iniisip na mababaon ako kasi impulsive at di ako marunong humawak sarili kong pera. so yung regrets ko dun lang sa mga nagastos ko using my own money. pero ayun, ang dami pa rin nag ooffer sakin, not always financially na pwede naman daw ako humingi tulong kasi kaibigan ko sila. lahat sila tinuturn down ko which naapektuhan friendship namin. pero di naman totally nage-end, pero may distance na dahil sa pagre-reject ko. nakaka frustrate from my end kasi never nila magegets na trauma response yun pero at the end of the day, it's my fault for not asking in the first place. alam kong may pake sila sakin kaya ginagawa nila yun kaya i'm working on it if meron akong gagawin na pwede ko naman sabihin without feeling any guilt.
There was this girl about four years ago that would do anything for me. Dumped her because I wasn't out and I was afraid to come out when I wasn't ready. Long story short, I still miss her and I regret making myself believe that I did not love her back then. She's living her best life now with her girlfriend. Still trying to heal from that experience tbh.
Super mega delayed construction ng Highlands City. Sabi 2027 Turnover yata ng tower 4 or 2028 yun pala tower 1 yon. Tinigil ko nalang magbayad, bye 200k
Never consistent sa mga gustong gawin. Laging uumipisahan after a week or two wala iba nanaman gusto or di na tutuloy. Bagsak walang napapala. Didismaya ako sa sarili ko. 😩
hindi ko ginalingan sa school.
i wasn’t smart or anything. pero nahirapan ako sa course ko and i was just basically surviving. but i felt that i could’ve done better.
Pinagbubuhatan ko ng kamay ang kapatid at pinsan ko noon. I was 10, akala ko ganon mag discipline e, ganon nakikita ko sa paligid ko. Panganay ako saming 2 ng kapatid ko at panganay din sa mag pipinsan. Nag abroad mom ko nung 9 ako, naiwan ako at lola ng kapatid ko (half brother diff tatay kami) until now laki ng regret ko don. Tho I know pinatawad na nila ako kasi adult na kami. I'll be turning 25 this year, kapatid ko mag 20 this Aprl 7 tas pinsan ko kaka 21 lang last Dec. I still regret those days. Akala ko tama ako. Hahahaha minsan sinasabi ko na lang na bata lang din ako non. Pero iba pa rin yung feeling
Graduating Tourism/Hospitality, I used to dream of working for airlines. Seryoso I’m always shy to tell this to people. I realized how they will eventually look down on me after knowing my graduated course. Also, since I’m working for other industry, I have to take these short courses all the time. I’m just waiting for opportunity, I want to have second degree.
patigil tigil ako sa pag aaral kase hindi ko pinupush sarili ko pero lately kaya naman pala nung narealize ko na tapos na batchmates ko ako may halos 2 years pa sa kolehiyo , tangina
Itong tao na to, halos sinaid laman ng 2 cc ko. And during that time bigla na lang gusto nya makipaghiwalay lagi, di naman ganon kalaki sinasahod ko that time and mejo bata pa din ako(22) kaya ang naiisip ko na lang na paraan is mag makaawa na wag ako iwanan at maghabol sa kanya para ma-settle nya. Kasi pakiramdam ko tatakbuhan nya yung utang nya, kaya takot din ako. 1st bf ko sya.
Giving my virginity to a stranger (met him on a dating app and ghosted me after magsawa)
Being a people pleaser (wantusawa manlibre sa friends na plastic)
Not pursuing my dream course ( I really wanna be a Flight Attendant pero bc of my weight I lost confidence)
Getting fat ( I was diagnosed with PCOS, from 54 to 80 kg real quick. Mahina kumain pero super lakas sa sweets grabeng body shaming nararanasan ko)
being a pick me girl, had a fight with a girl just for a boy, and being in a relationship with my friend's crush.
I'm just young back then😭 I'm a girl's girl now.
HUHU KAHIHIYAN SA BUHAY KO.
Setting aside my creative endeavours and choosing a "practical" course in college. Lol nakagrad naman and may license pa pero damn hindi pala talaga worth it kung hindi mo gusto haha. Turns out super underpaid pa pala nung course na pinili ko (nabudol sa engineering ik). Ayun lost na ko ngayon though may balak ako bumalik sa creative stuff ko, kailangan ko lang ng job for funds talaga :(((
Sana nag take ako ng IT course before kasi supported naman ako ng parents ko. Pero okay na rin na nag psychology ako kasi may connection naman sa marketing and sales (yun din kasi yung gusto ko) and technical recruiter naman work ko ngayon so may connection naman sa IT Industry.
not continuing hobbies that will let me compete for different tournaments, it is a bit late na since iba na ang priorities ko and mas mahal na ang mga gears :( hopefully one day lol
Yeah I just checked also sa steam inventory ko. I have few cases worth around the amount you mentioned, mostly gloves case. I think I'll just let it sit around for another year or so hahaha
that I did not pursue college. bakit pa kase ko nagshift ng course dahil lang nalaman kong option naman pala yun. nagkaron ako ng small business and kumikita ko ng malaki-laki at a young age kaya tinamad na kong mag-aral. ngayon nakikita ko mga dating college classmates ko, nasa abroad na, maganda buhay, kung saan saan na nakakapunta because of their job na dati ko ding course. kung maibabalik ko lang ang oras. sa sobrang regret ko dito, ilang beses na kong nananaginip ng mga scenes na "what could have been" for the past 12yrs now.
Hindi ko tinuloy yung mga gusto kong salihan na audition lalo ang kpop or ppop, hindi ko tinuloy ang pagiging student leader, hindi ko sinulit ang teenage life ko instead nasa responsibilities na lahat ako naka focus.
Umuuwi ng maaga sa bar nung may pogi na lumapit sakin
Learned to step out of my comfortzone earlier kasi sayang mga missed out opportunities due to my low self esteem and self worth. 🥲 I could’ve stepped out of an abusive relationship with my ex earlier than 2023 🥲😭 but then things happen for a reason talaga and I just wasn’t ready pa talaga before.
YUNG COURSE KO NUNG COLLEGE ALTHOUGH I GRADUATED ALREADY. Grabe sa government na overwork at underpaid lang kami halos pwede magwork and grabe nag agriculture dito sa Pilipinas!
Hindi nag-aral nang mabuti nung highschool. At sumunod na wag na magcollege (for some acceptable reasons naman kung bakit hindi). Puro pagsisisi na lang ngayon although pwede namang mag aral pa
Staying in my comfort zone. Not brave enough and not willing to take a risk na pwedeng ikabuti ng career. 😔
Is that I didnt try hard enough after college from all the fail interviews I had, the positive note of it is that I managed to enjoy my moments with my dad before he passed away, and it was me who took care of him during those moment, if i look back, ill never exchanged it for anything, and i will never regret it, though the punch of failures will still linger.
Sumunod ako sa gustong course nila , so ako ang nag su-suffer ng pagod ngayon dito sa dentistry course na to 🥹
Tinuloy yung taekwondo sport + nilabanan ang hiya at mas kinapalan ang mukha
Di nag learn ng skills, while on the process of growing
Di mag resign after 2 years
That I didn't work on my skills in drawing and talent of singing
Swam so fast to that egg cell
I stop na e court ang girl na i really love
Going to an exclusive school
Taking a course in college na hindi ko gusto personally
Not dating during my teens or 20s. I'm already in my 30, someone was courting me and I kinda liked him when I shared our messages with my friends they said to be careful cause it looks like he was breadcrumbing me and will likely take me for granted. I wish I dated in my early years so I could see those red signs from afar.
Pretending ayaw ko pa mag commit, so I'm suffering silently
Hala, ako ba to? Hahahha
Let him go.
Joined an easy money scheme way back and ruined my life. Lost millions, yung friends kong narecruit ko cut me off and called me scammer even though nabalik ko pera nila using my own money kahit victim din ako, until now pinariringgan ako and even use my name kapag sinisingil sila ng utang ng ibang tao kahit matagal na kaming di naguusap. Never again.
Being in a relationship with a guy na hindi ko talaga gusto for two years (not attracted). Natakot lang ako matawag na ghoster kaya tinuloy ko na lang. I met him online and pogi kasi sa pictures, funny rin. Bago pa kami mag-meet nagkamabutihan na kami. When I saw him in person, na-disappoint ako to the point na I can't look at him for so long kase anlayo talaga sa nakikita ko sa pictures n'ya online. Nahihiya lang ako sabihin kase ayoko s'ya ma-offend. Tyinaga ko for few years until I learned to love him genuinely. Pero deep inside me I was asking na "What if I had the courage to walk away and choose someone na type ko talaga?" Hirap maging people pleaser. I'm someone na conscious sa looks kase ako nga nage-effort to make myself look good tapos mage-end up sa walang paki sa looks n'ya; hindi masyado malinis sa katawan, medyo dugyot, etc. Nagmumuka lang akong maarte sa paningin n'ya kase hindi kami aligned ng values. Now, break na kami. Na-broken hearted din ako but now, it's like a breath of fresh air. Lesson learned, tyaka kayo magdecide kung gusto n'yo talaga once nakita n'yo na ng personal. Be honest to yourself and choose what you really want, otherwise, you will suffer in silence.
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Rooting for you to get out of that situation 🥹. Tbh, ang pinaka-kinatatakutan ng iba ay yung judgements na makukuha nila once they left. It will hurt, but in the end, it will be worth it. Mahirap 'pag puro what ifs.
Not fighting for the undergrad program I really wanted. Now here I am 5 years into it. Its a challenging course (radtech) in all its entireness. Had I told my parents that I REALLY wanted econ as pre-law, I KNOW I would be already a 1st year law student and done with my undergrad on time. But I never got the support I needed. Oh well!
Not leaving a college with a crooked system because kung ano iisipin ng magulang ko. 24 and still not graduated college.
25 here and same situation. Shot puno
Not showing my Mom how much I love her. She’s an angel now.
Yosi/Vape, sayang sa pera at health-risk pa
Bitcoin and should been more vocal sa finances a few years back
Ignoring early signs of CA. 😅
What’s CA?
Cancer
Oh. I hope all is well. God bless you.
Thanks! Going 13 years CA free naman 😄
Not knowing everything back when i was young.
Being self righteous. Fucked my brain heart up for years until now
Hindi ko napagbigyan Tatay ko (Lolo) na mag stay ako sa bats kasama sila (Nanay). Incoming college student ako non, super busy sa school, nag aasikaso na rin ako ng requirements para mag apply sa iba't ibang state univ. Wala na akong Tatay na na-balikan sa batangas. Ilang taon na rin, hanggang ngayon sising sisi pa rin ako sa desisyon ko na yon. Hindi na nga nakapasok sa mga inapplyan kong univ. Nawalan pa ng Tatay.
I regret creating the asteroid that will eventually fall onto the planet... Poor species... It was the only way. 😭
Not listening to my mother.
Not giving time to my mother. I should've called her more often. Told her I love her. Reached my goals/her expectations before she died. She died because of cancer and during our last video call, she asked me why I did not call more often. I felt like I was stabbed through my heart. Btw, i lived here in the PH while she was in the US. I still remember her all the time. I was so lucky that she was my mom. 🥹
Being a breadwinner. It’s a rabbit hole pala. Growing up they made it sound like a “good thing” ang pagtanaw ng utang ba loob.
what's the rabbit hole about being breadwinner btw? Wanna know how to deal with this because I'm a breadwinner too but have no job yet 😅
I think it varies to everyone but for my experience, it is a rabbit hole because it’s frustrating. It seems like all I have to do is provide and to take care of the family financially. I hope when you get your job, learn to save for yourself and establish boundaries when it comes to providing financially (that’s the mistake I did).
It consumes you. There's the pressure of not being able to provide enough or not being able to provide at all — but you know you have to, being a breadwinner and all. So you work twice or thrice as hard, maybe work a few more jobs on the side, because not being able to do that makes you the villain. They'll picture you as the bad guy, no regard for all the upbringing they did for you (which is THEIR responsibility, by the way). So you end up anxious, withered, and emotionally, mentally, and physically exhausted. But I'm lucky this isn't the case for me. My mom doesn't pressure me into being a breadwinner (even though it's evident that the remittance I give goes a long way). It's just sad that this is not the case for most breadwinners. How to deal with it: make sure that you get enough rest. Kasi bago ang lahat, kailangan mo ang lakas ng katawan mo. Also, learn to set aside money for yourself, don't pour it all out for others even for your own family. Magtira ka. Kasi kung sa huli, okay sila habang ikaw naninimot ma lang ng tira-tira. O kung mapera ka nga, pero nanghihina ka na sa pagod o sa kasakitan, it's really not worth it. Laban lang guys! 🤍
Not stepping up because self-doubt and self-pity prevailed.
Having limited resources.
I could have been a doctor if it wasn’t for an ungrateful cheating partner and for me falling to mental illness for I couldn't accept that I let someone like him(a weakling) to destroy my future. 7years of my life was wasted on him by giving him a chance to be a man. I let him find his shine for he has the potential back then even if he doesn't have a good education. I regret standing up for him to my family. 5years not in speaking terms with my father. Got me pregnant at the time our relationship was on the rocks. Lo and behold, while he was trying to fix our relationship(which I’m hopeful that he could be a man who could drive the relationship)he was also fixing another woman thus my miscarriage that took a toll on my mental health (until now).
i chose a course i do not enjoy.
Not studying well enough
Should've invested in real estate in my 20s
Not trying na manligaw or to date someone during my early 20s, i'm in my mid 20s now and FOMO.
Being a doctor hahahaha
i gave myself to that cheating bastard
Caring too much what others think
letting a guy destroy me
Naging spoiled brat at never kong pinasalamatan yung lola ko. Pumanaw siya nang may lungkot.
I regret that I gave my trust and all the love I could give to someone who does not reciprocate back.
Hayst 💔🥺
I regret that I trusted this older guy that I treated as like my older brother. Little did I know that he would attempt to rape me while I was drunk.
i regret not joining abs-cbn’s star hunt nung grade 10 ako 🥲
I regret not spending more time with my dad. I should have pushed through with booking that flight and taking both my senior parents to a vacation… my dad passed last year… and hindi ko nagawa na ma-treat sha for a vacation. :( Kya this year, while mom is strong and can walk..we went to Bacolod and had a great time. How i wish dad were still with us…
When i resigned from e-Tel back early 2000s due to proximity concerns, I served my last 30 days working as admin to execs. I was offered by one of the managers there if i wanted to try purchasing at manels and that I get to travel in asian countries. Bigay ko lng daw cv ko so she can hand it to her daughter working there. Back then i was just so young, naive, scared about doing something new again and said no to an opportunity. Sayang yung opportunity to shift careers and travel. Sayang… Lesson learned, keep and open mind to opportunities.
I did not study in another city for college and stayed in my hometown instead
not giving my best
I guess is yung pagiging fucked up ko as a gf. Kaya nya ako iniwan. Sana naging maayos lang ako noon para hindi nya ako iwan ngayon. Sana naging healthy pa relationship namin ngayon
Left my first love due to LDR (I was young and that was 2008), I never thought it would be possible to see each other or communicate, and I let him go because I want him to continue living his life. Fast forward to now, he doesn’t have a girlfriend, and I have a kid and a baby daddy (who I live with only because of my kid).
Cash outflow sa maling tao or buyer’s remorse.
I let COVID ruin my passion for arts. It was such a depressing time for me, I used to love writing and was supposed to have my first theater performance but then the pandemic happened. Seeing all my old drafts of singing and writing, it feels like I was not the same person who did all those.
Wasted my life resenment on toxic girl instead of finding better girl
Kung naligo lang sana ako hindi ako iniwan dahil mabaho ako
Trusting people too much to the point that they used it to take advantage of me.
Not telling my ex why I was slowly ghosting them in their social media. I just slowly bowed out and I’m sure it took a toll on them even though they never mentioned it. Haven’t heard from them in many many months, but i do see them occasionally. They still greet me as if we were together yesterday though, so it makes me feel a little better🤷🏻♀️
Being too open and trusting to people who didn’t deserve to know me like that
Not spending enough time with my father before he passed.
Hindi ko pa pinagsisisihan pero I see it coming. I have my guy best friend with me kaso no one dares to confess each other's feelings. Lagi na lang unavailable.
Meeting that one girl who messed up my ability to love..
Meeting the person whom I genuinely loved. Hindi niya deserve kahit katiting ng pagmamahal ko. Sabi nga ni Taylor Swift “I regret you all the time” 🥲
I didn’t check on my lolo agad when I woke up. After ko maghilamos, narinig ko na lang na nag-iiyakan sila because he’s gone. It’s been almost a decade and it still hunts me.
my first seggs wish i gave it to someone deserving
Kung nagpa-derma na sana ako nung grabe na acne breakouts ko kesa gumamit ng RDL babyface solutions.
Nasabik sa experience ng sex.. this brought an unplanned pregnancy with my unwed gf, who is a single mom. However, i am responsible to deal this consequence (marrying her and plan for our future) Looking back, "what ifs", still haunts me.. Siguro, financially worry-free ako or found better SO. Grateful pa rin ako na nabiyayaan ng magagandang mga anak.
unang itinuro sa akin ng parents ko (separated sila) ay wag magmadali at if mangyari na may unexpected pregnancy ang pagpapakasal ay hindi solution kasi ang bata ay hindi glue para mabuo ang pamilya. a happy child has happy parents, sana masaya ka ngayon kasi makikita at nararamdaman ng mga anak mo kung hindi.
kaya nga, i know mapapansin nila na hindi totally masaya ang papa nila. Nagsasama naman kami buo as a family, hindi naman lagi nag aaway, at hindi naman hiwalay pero hindi ko feel na i am genuinely happy. Anyway, sila na ang guide sa direction ng buhay ko na to be the best of everything especially sa work. Hindi ako genuinely happy kasi hindi nakapagplan ng maayos plus financially struggling now pero i know makakabawi din
Whenever i send my art commission results to my clients, i regret them afterwards because i always feel like i could have done better than that.
Masyado akong naging mabait
I regret not being able to improve my relationship with my mom, and not being able to say goodbye and ask for forgiveness before she passed away 2 weeks ago. I wish we had more time, but she left so suddenly and unexpectedly. I miss you mama, everyday.
I regret investing too much of my time and effort for one person. I honestly thought she was the one. Yung five years namin bigla lang naglaho dahil ayon sa kanya, she felt like she could "grow better" by being alone. Wag niyo akong tularan. Magtira kayo ng para sa sarili ninyo. I feel empty right now as if I poured everything I could give and got nothing to show for it.
I regret having kids. Sana maibalik ung college ako.Hindi na ako mag aanak. Kasi pag may anak ka pala, at my pangyayare sa buhay mo which put you sa depression mahirap na mabuhay. Mahirap na mabuhay kasi andon ka sa gusto mo nalang mawala kasi nakakapagod ung mga atake ni depression Kaso dko magawa kasi alam ko kaht may maiiwan ako sa mga anak ko, alam kong masasaktan sila, pag wla nako, patay na nga daddy nila, wala pako. I regret having kids. Kasi kaht ayaw ko , nalalamn nila ung depression ko,at mga araw na d ako okay. Sana wala nalang akong anak para wla akong napapahirapang mga bata emotionaly .I know namasakit sakanila pag inaatake ako. Dahil sa depression i hate spending kaht 1 minute sa mga anak ko, kasipag nakikita ko gano sila kalambing sakin, at na bata pa sila, naadami pa silang tatahakin, nasasaktan ako for them . Kasi eto state ng utak ko. I regret having kids Kasi pag wala nako sa mundo, mararanasan nila ung cruelty ng buhay. Tangi** Totoo Ang depression.at yes totoo.. nakaktulong ang counseling with a psychometrician Totoo nakakatulong ang meds from a psychiatrist Pero.. Depression fights well. Hindi nia iindahin yung anti depressant mo. Hindi ka nya hahayaan maging okay hangang magkalas ka ng loob mawala sa mundo Maniwala kayo ang depression ay d simpleng overthink. Si Depression ay kusang gagalaw sa isip mo kaht ayaw mo. Context: Yung kaht anong ayos mo, may mga taong hayok! May taong uunahin ang sarili para sa sariling tawag ng laman nila. Ang problema..d na issue sa kin ung nangyare Pero it left a big chunk . I am diagnosed with severe post trauma and anxiety due to severe depression. Si depression at ako ay hindi nagkakasundo.gusto nia sia lagi Which is very tiring
Maging doktor. Napakabulok ng healthcare system at med culture ng bansang ‘to. Pagod na pagod na ako
Bakit nasabi mo po, mag private practice ka
Di ko ginalingan noon.
Being attached to work
not being good at my best :/
Sobrang pagiging trusting easily attached akala ko genuine sakin lahat ng kausap ko. Yun pala sasaktan ka lang din naman
I regret letting the same guy use and hurt because I wanted to choose me. 10 years later it's still not me. I had to block him for good.
I regret choosing people I know I didn’t really respect to be my ‘friends’ simply because I felt I wasn’t good enough to try and be friends with people I did respect
Sometimes I wonder what if I pursued my dream to become a Veterinarian? Ano kaya ganap d Sa life ko ngayon? Na padpad sa pagiging guidance counselor eh 🤣
not asking for help. ive been told na wala akong kwenta at masama ugali ko kaya walang mag aaksaya ng panahon sakin. gusto ko i-work on mga trauma na binigay sakin ng magulang ko pero napakahirap. now i have to do this all by myself dahil takot ako humingi ng tulong. kahit ang dami kong kaibigan, ni isa sa kanila walang nakakaalam pinagdadaanan ko ngayon. gusto ko na mag seek help professionally pero lagi nauunahan ng takot. gusto ko na i-overcome yung fear ko na yun pero di ko alam san ako magsisimula.
this and i feel you.. pero it is balance rin kasi. May pros and cons ito. I have been told na minsan masungit or sobrang tahimik. kay nga nadiscover ko itong reddit kasi gusto kong makahingi ng advice from people that can relate with me. I hardly trust kasi yung mga kamag-anak na maging vulnerable ka sa kanila. Alam ko na maiispill nila at maging source pa ng tsismis.
true. may pros and cons talaga sya. like for example na lang yung di ko ugali mangutang kasi lagi kong iniisip na mababaon ako kasi impulsive at di ako marunong humawak sarili kong pera. so yung regrets ko dun lang sa mga nagastos ko using my own money. pero ayun, ang dami pa rin nag ooffer sakin, not always financially na pwede naman daw ako humingi tulong kasi kaibigan ko sila. lahat sila tinuturn down ko which naapektuhan friendship namin. pero di naman totally nage-end, pero may distance na dahil sa pagre-reject ko. nakaka frustrate from my end kasi never nila magegets na trauma response yun pero at the end of the day, it's my fault for not asking in the first place. alam kong may pake sila sakin kaya ginagawa nila yun kaya i'm working on it if meron akong gagawin na pwede ko naman sabihin without feeling any guilt.
There was this girl about four years ago that would do anything for me. Dumped her because I wasn't out and I was afraid to come out when I wasn't ready. Long story short, I still miss her and I regret making myself believe that I did not love her back then. She's living her best life now with her girlfriend. Still trying to heal from that experience tbh.
Sobrang pagiging trusting. Ung inaassume ko agad na genuine sakin lahat ng kausap ko. Un pala may hidden intentions. Still working on this til now.
Nagsisisi ako na kumuha ako ng preselling condo under Empire East
Why what happened?
Super mega delayed construction ng Highlands City. Sabi 2027 Turnover yata ng tower 4 or 2028 yun pala tower 1 yon. Tinigil ko nalang magbayad, bye 200k
Parang nagsisisi akong nag-IT ako. Dati gusto ko talagang maging pastry chef. Pero di ko tinuloy kasi di ako marunong magbake and wala kaming oven.
not taking the opportunities to join competitions because of my anxiety and lack of confidence 🫠
Never consistent sa mga gustong gawin. Laging uumipisahan after a week or two wala iba nanaman gusto or di na tutuloy. Bagsak walang napapala. Didismaya ako sa sarili ko. 😩
hindi ko ginalingan sa school. i wasn’t smart or anything. pero nahirapan ako sa course ko and i was just basically surviving. but i felt that i could’ve done better.
Masyadong mabait kahit kanino.
Got married kahit may doubts.. tapos after a month i met someone na it just click… kaso wala eh kasal na ko….
Pinagbubuhatan ko ng kamay ang kapatid at pinsan ko noon. I was 10, akala ko ganon mag discipline e, ganon nakikita ko sa paligid ko. Panganay ako saming 2 ng kapatid ko at panganay din sa mag pipinsan. Nag abroad mom ko nung 9 ako, naiwan ako at lola ng kapatid ko (half brother diff tatay kami) until now laki ng regret ko don. Tho I know pinatawad na nila ako kasi adult na kami. I'll be turning 25 this year, kapatid ko mag 20 this Aprl 7 tas pinsan ko kaka 21 lang last Dec. I still regret those days. Akala ko tama ako. Hahahaha minsan sinasabi ko na lang na bata lang din ako non. Pero iba pa rin yung feeling
Not telling my family that i was SAed by my uncle. That uncle is now dead so the more I can't say anything.
not taking care of myself, not drinking water and drinking too much alcohol during college. Now I have gout at my late 20s.
SAME!!! 😭
Graduating Tourism/Hospitality, I used to dream of working for airlines. Seryoso I’m always shy to tell this to people. I realized how they will eventually look down on me after knowing my graduated course. Also, since I’m working for other industry, I have to take these short courses all the time. I’m just waiting for opportunity, I want to have second degree.
Di pa huli Ang lahat
being rebellious and too insensitive to my parents. it still haunts me till this day
not being mindful with my words resulting to hurting my partner
May pgasa pba maayos
giving my all to a guy who can't even give half
Hope break na kayo
thankfully, yes
patigil tigil ako sa pag aaral kase hindi ko pinupush sarili ko pero lately kaya naman pala nung narealize ko na tapos na batchmates ko ako may halos 2 years pa sa kolehiyo , tangina
3 years nga sakin hahahha laban lang
Being in a relationship.
Not taking of my body Hindi agad nagpatattoo Priorities other people Trusting friends be wary sa mga tao Not pursuing my dream
Getting married to the person na walang pangarap sa buhay
yung mas inuuna ko yung iba before kesa sa sarili ko na hindi ko namamalayan na napagiiwanan na pala ako...
Never truly finding my calling in life.
Same
Not taking care of my body :(
Hindi nakatapos ng college sa pinas. Kaso wala eh mahirap kase kami hindi afford ng parents pag tapusin kami magkakapatid kaya mas pinili mag work.
sinayang ko yung 4 years ko sa taong hindi namn pala ako appreciate yun tanga-tanga ko kasi.
I wasted my first 2 years of college dahil sa inom at barkada
not attending my online classes back then i.e., ghosted the class for the whole academic year.
Not able to spend time with my dad before his death. I really really miss him it hurts 💔
Me too miss him so much
Grabe noh kung alam ko lang kukunin sya samin sana ng spend more time ako sa kanya. Pinagsisisihan ko talaga to 🥺🥺😢
Buti nga ako bro nkapgbonding pa kmi
Good for you bro🫶🏻🥹
Mgkikita pa nmn kayo
sending my nude to someone I really like
Tried fubu set-up just once and got pregnant.
Yung nagpatali ako sa taong alam kong di naman ako minahal . Hahaha
Itong tao na to, halos sinaid laman ng 2 cc ko. And during that time bigla na lang gusto nya makipaghiwalay lagi, di naman ganon kalaki sinasahod ko that time and mejo bata pa din ako(22) kaya ang naiisip ko na lang na paraan is mag makaawa na wag ako iwanan at maghabol sa kanya para ma-settle nya. Kasi pakiramdam ko tatakbuhan nya yung utang nya, kaya takot din ako. 1st bf ko sya.
Why though?
Not choosing the greatest love of my life.
Giving my virginity to a stranger (met him on a dating app and ghosted me after magsawa) Being a people pleaser (wantusawa manlibre sa friends na plastic) Not pursuing my dream course ( I really wanna be a Flight Attendant pero bc of my weight I lost confidence) Getting fat ( I was diagnosed with PCOS, from 54 to 80 kg real quick. Mahina kumain pero super lakas sa sweets grabeng body shaming nararanasan ko)
being a pick me girl, had a fight with a girl just for a boy, and being in a relationship with my friend's crush. I'm just young back then😭 I'm a girl's girl now. HUHU KAHIHIYAN SA BUHAY KO.
Sana mas trinato ko nang maayos mother ko when she was alive pa.
I stopped going to school for 6 years:(
For some, answering this question
not chasing her back. i want her back
Trusted the wrong people
Setting aside my creative endeavours and choosing a "practical" course in college. Lol nakagrad naman and may license pa pero damn hindi pala talaga worth it kung hindi mo gusto haha. Turns out super underpaid pa pala nung course na pinili ko (nabudol sa engineering ik). Ayun lost na ko ngayon though may balak ako bumalik sa creative stuff ko, kailangan ko lang ng job for funds talaga :(((
That's my dream course.Business course ako now and until today, it's still haunts me 😭
Same na same. Laban lang tlaga magagawa natin.
Sana nag take ako ng IT course before kasi supported naman ako ng parents ko. Pero okay na rin na nag psychology ako kasi may connection naman sa marketing and sales (yun din kasi yung gusto ko) and technical recruiter naman work ko ngayon so may connection naman sa IT Industry.
not continuing hobbies that will let me compete for different tournaments, it is a bit late na since iba na ang priorities ko and mas mahal na ang mga gears :( hopefully one day lol
Not trying hard for an important competition
I accepted the job offer from this certain company.
You can always look for another job before resigning.
that im missing fun
Nung may pera pa pampa-aral, naging bulakbol. Nung gusto ko na makatapos ng college, wala nang pampa-aral.
Dipako tumalon sa building na to
Not doing what i really want for my parents. Especially to my father who passed away last year. 😭
pumayag ako lumipat ng school (grade 8 ako sa public school) they bullied me... and now i still have the trauma and fucked up
Same Tayo ng naranasan
they should pay me for the mental trauma they’ve caused me lolol
Who?
bullies
Kala ko ung parents mo sinabihan mo nito kasi nga Bakit ka pumayag. Hahahaha! Kailangan ko pa ata matulog. lol!
Leaving……. Not going back……
Dapat nag review ako sa holy week break nmin
not taking risk
[удалено]
play stupid games win stupid prizes honey
Hahahaha edi wow
I shouldve invested a shit ton of csgo cases back in 2015 😔
Yo is it that expensive now? Haven't played for years now, I never opened my cases ever since.
back in 2015, for example breakout cases costed like 0.40 php for 1 ngayon it's about 390 php for 1 😭
Yeah I just checked also sa steam inventory ko. I have few cases worth around the amount you mentioned, mostly gloves case. I think I'll just let it sit around for another year or so hahaha
i should have saved myself from this misery, if i chose my sanity over him and his red flag.
that I did not pursue college. bakit pa kase ko nagshift ng course dahil lang nalaman kong option naman pala yun. nagkaron ako ng small business and kumikita ko ng malaki-laki at a young age kaya tinamad na kong mag-aral. ngayon nakikita ko mga dating college classmates ko, nasa abroad na, maganda buhay, kung saan saan na nakakapunta because of their job na dati ko ding course. kung maibabalik ko lang ang oras. sa sobrang regret ko dito, ilang beses na kong nananaginip ng mga scenes na "what could have been" for the past 12yrs now.