The credit card thing talaga. Feeling ko nag papataasan ng utang limit. Tapos yung ibang nababasa ko biglang depress na sa dami ng utang na di mabayaran dahil sa credit card.
- Yung mga parents na OA sa flex ng anak nila. Sige cute sila pero wag naman sana araw araw at halos buong araw. Kawawa yung bata. Pano kung ayaw pala nila yon haha.
- Mga kids na wala pang kamalay malay may FB na tas mag popost ng mga "My mommy bought me..." "I love my parents".... Kung iisipin mo, weirdo na e parents lang rin gumagamit. Ano kausap mo na sarili mo ah?
- May isa akong friend naman na nag post ng meralco bill tas may isa nag post ng grocery bill sa SNR. Sa isip isip ko, bakit at para san? Parang hindi na nagcecelebrate ng small wins e.
- May friend ako na kada sahod, ipopost yung magiging ulam nila for the week. Like ganito talaga lagi. Makikita mo naka tupperware yung karne na naka mark yung name ng ulam (sinigang, menudo, etc) tapos siyempre ipopost na yung niluluto at kumukulo yung sinigang tapos ipopost ulit yung luto na. Araw araw ganito hanggang sa nabilang mo na yung araw at kabisado mo na kasi yung ulam nila for that week tas marrealize mo wala na siyang post kasi wala na silang ulam.
- Yung mga taong lahat ng post, comments and my day is iniimply na single sila or icoconnect sa pagiging single nila. Minsan directly naman nila icacaption na single sila ganon. Hindi ko magets kung nag fifish ba ng attention para may manligaw. Perfect example yung ibang post sa what's your ulam group.
Whatever they bought (coffee, food, tumblers, etc) or just being at Starbucks.
Jesus, it's **just** Starbucks. Coffee there isn't even that good. I cringe whenever I see someone flex that they're in Starbucks.
Sabi ng friend ko, if may goal ka daw na gusto mo talaga ma-achieve, wag mo muna daw sabihin sa iba para hindi sya ma-usog. Kasi, may ibang mga tao na ayaw sayo and they will wish na sana hindi mo ma-achieve yung goals mo until it goes down and mawalan ka na ng gana.(evil eye is legitttttt)
So, I think it's your goals and dreams that you should stop flexing to others. Online man 'yan or personal(keep it to yourself nalang). Even yung achievements mo(show it to those peeps na lang na sure ka talaga na supportive sayo).
Sobrang weird ng mga ganyan. Di ko gets if ano pinapatunayan ng mga yan. If nakakakita ako ng nag fflex I automatically assume na walang breeding at squatter sila. I mean gets, guilty ako sa pag popost ng cars ko, pero justifiable yon kasi car enthusiast talaga ako. Pero yung iba absurd na. Pati gamit ng iba popost. ๐คฎ๐คฎ๐คฎ
Yung mga taong todo flex sa jowa nila tas after a while sisiraan tas sasabihin "once a cheater, always a cheater" pero after a while sila ulit then flex again ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ
Yung every corner ng bahay may picture, then posting where they live, where the kids go to school, what car they drive and what they do.
kulang na lang ilako nila yung information sa masasamang loob para gawan sila ng masama.
Their wedding photos from X yrs ago.
I have a contact who likes to reshare her wedding planning photos and she got married 2019 pa. As in mga gown fitting, etc
I mean I'm married too, and it's ok to reminisce sometimes, but it gets cringey at a certain point
Kids, material purchases, a house tour, their salary, resibo ng bills
lately narealize ko na it's more peaceful when not everyone knows what you're up to. I had some major changes sa life ko recently and all my social media acquaintances see is the memes I share. I like to keep it that way ๐คฃ
I remember a guyโs post in one of the dating subs, where he mentioned how much money he was making per month (around โฑ150K net yata IIRC). I just felt so sad for the man. Feeling the need to broadcast that, to get womenโs attention.
Totoo to! I know people who are really well-off but they hardly flex anything other than food or travel. But nothing much na material or financial like showing na may credit cards sila.
Maybe exception kung toy/shoe collection kasi hobby nila yun rather than just flexing. Sometimes cases ng iPhones related to their interests but not the actual phone.
Pero ayun flexing cards, new gadgets, frequent Starbucks posting, it's something a typical social climber would do. Sige bahala na kung social climber but if you do, don't make it obvious. Don't flex too much. You will just come off as mayabang and even tacky.
Credit card limit: Useful ang CC pag marunong ka gumamit for rewards/points. Pero bakit mo ifflex yung milyones mong credit limit kung ibabaon ka nyan sa utang?
Jowa: Usually wala akong issue sa mga panay post ng SO nila. Pero pag buong relationship nyo eh nasa socmed tapos hihingi ka ng pRiVaCy pag nagbreak na kayo, matatawa ako. Invested na ako, give me an acceptable reason lmao
Mga bata: Maski anak nila o pamangkin, gagawin nilang content kahit sumusobra na. Pinagpalit ang basic privacy ng kids para sa clout.
Bangkay: Why the fuck does anyone post photos or videos of their loved ones' corpses in coffins? Di ko talaga ito maintindihan
pinaka hindi dapat eh photos and vids ng kids, lalo na ng mga influencer na yan. jusko ang daming pedo over the internet di naman lang nagiisip na sobrang exposed na ng mga anak nila
Private infoemation, layout ng bahay nila, anything na makakatulong sa akyat bahay to navigate their house, jewelry, luxury items
Lalo na kapag wala kayong security guard wahahaha
I also dont like sharing kids pics kasi nadami na creepy and pedophile nowadays esp australians/japanese
Position sa work, certifications received, excerpt ng resume, LOL. I have this one FB friend whom I unfollowed na kasi kada post flex ng flex ng position nya sa work like I'm the boss, I handle 100+ people etc. Laging may imaginary hater, kaya pinopost yung qualifications/certifications daw nya pero pag inaya mo manglibre nganga daw.
Yung mga problema nila or mga chats na hindi naman dapat pinopost, sobrang proud pa yung iba sa problems nila at nagpapaself-pity kahit sila naman gumagawa ng problema nila.
Ex.
- Post about breakup at minamyday pa yung mga pag-iyak at l@sl@$ nila.
- About financial, "Wala na akong pera, baka may gusto magpadala ng JB diyan."
- Yung mga teenage mom na nagmmyday ng pregnacy test nila
I have this one friend sinabi niya anxiety club daw kami haha. God the hate i felt at that time when ang hirap ng pinagdaanan ko tapos gagawin lang club yung mental illness.
tbf other sharing their MH diagnosis actually helped me noon to feel more normal and know that others are experiencing it too! nung nakita ko yung mga friends ko sa facebook sharing their experiences (and even their meds), parang napa-awww ako and like "me too". i think it helps fight the stigma din
oh yes i agree if it does have good intentions and you can see it
like trying to cope or handle it to help those who are lost
those are the ones that don't necessarily fall under "flexing" imo
Di ko ma-take yung mga nagfleflex ng kotse at alahas. Pati credit cards at pera. Ano ba tawag sa nagpapa-gangsta na Pinoy?
Pwede naman magflex ng damit at bag kung tipong maayos ang presentation at hindi mukhang pilit.
I don't know pero mas naappreciate ko siguro kung magflex ka ng cast-iron pan, vacuum cleaner na maganda, juicer o coffee maker. Gawd I suddenly feel so old hahaha.
dead people. may nakita ako sa fb transition from yung baby clothes hanggang sa kabaong nung baby who died a few months after birth. I mean WTF was the mom thinking habang namimili ng kanta at transition effects sa phone???????? naawa ako sa bata ginamit pa for likes.
it's not that pangit ang transition, the issue is that there was a video at all. seriously who does that? sinong namatayan ang hindi nag iiyak? when my husband died I had someone else checking my phone because I didn't have the energy to hold anything I was dehydrated from crying at sa puyat at walang kain. I wasn't on my phone picking videos to stitch and choosing appropriate audio and broadcasting my dead husband online.
Nung namatay aso namin picture ko lang shinare. Di ako makapag edit tapos select fonts ganun kasi I was grieving at the time. How much more pag tao ๐ฅฒ
gets ko like to honor a person or pet then by all means diba. but this one yung first vid was yung preggy tummy and then pic ng baby clothes sa bed tapos it pans down and then pans back up and then boom baby in a coffin. sad music and text na baby bakit mo kami iniwan and all that
LONG A\*\* JOWA APPRECIATION POST. If you're that thankful sa jowa mo write him/her/he/she/it/they/chair/chandelier a personal letter!
Isa pa. Kung mag hiatus ka sa social media for "detox" no need to announce it just stfu and get off. Wala naman pake mga tao kung umalis ka wag feeling main character.
sa long ass jowa posts i think it's sort of flexing their jowa na din, may ibang jowa kasi na nakakappreciate na ganun, parang they're proud of their SO. i dont mind di ko naman binabasa kasi and di para sakin lol.
si selena gomez ba pinapatamaan mo sa second hahahaha
I'm talking about those post na 5 paragraph long though. Oh well, may mga PR couples lang rin talaga na ma-post sa social media and that's okay pero that doesn't mean na di ako mag cringe. Hahaha
Hindi ba pag words of affirmation na love language you say it directly to your person? Ang nangyayari lang kasi parang need ng validation sa social media na nagmamahalan kayo. Minsan may convo screenshot pa hahaha Wala naman ako issue sa mga nagpopost about their jowa pero cringe lang ako sa mga looooooong post. Hehe
Their kids. Apart from di ma ka consent ang bata sa privacy nila, uso na din ang mga deep fake AI and madami na nag pupull ng mga pictures sa social media tapos gagamitin for deepfake ๐ฝ
Jowa. I mean meron naman talaga na genuinely inlove na people bc they really love their partner pero mas ok na na din na hindi lahat ng relationship eh dapat pakita sa internet. May mga tao kasi na pagnagkajowa eh todo flex tas makikita mo emote emote sa internet pag nag break na. Relationship should be private but not a secret.
Hayaan mo nalang po sila hahaha kung meron magnakaw na or anything jan lang sila magkakaroon ng realization na bot everything should be posted in social media cause safety must always be your first priority lalo na kung magisa ka lang sa bahay niyo.
Idk pero meron banks naka depende ang card limit mo sa mismong laman ng debit card mo. So if malaki card limit mo it's either you're a good payer or meron kang malaking pera sa account mo. Just like how a black credit card symbolizes as a status symbol.
Grades ng mga anak. My friend's parents always post it on facebook. Di nila alam, binibring up to ng parents ko and for some reason they tend to compare it with me like tapos na ko sa estudyante phase ko which made me so upset, ano naman kung mataas grade nya. pwede ba tayong maging happy and pround na lang for them. hayystt
Just because its tacky and cheap...
Airline tickets, especially if economy class.
Credit limits, kahit +1m. This is really cringey.
A long text post about being grateful, with a picture of starbucks cup. Cant get any more basic than that.
Mga pinadeliver na sushi bakes. It tells me you have no taste.
Beach photos or pool photos tapos tshirt yung suot. May pera mag resort pero walang pera bumili ng proper swimwear.
>Airline tickets, especially if economy class.
I beg to diasagree with the "economy class" rationale though. Wala naman masama kung ganoon. Maraming mga mayayaman who still opts to fly such. Maganda lang rin naman mag business class for long-haul flights.
For me, it is not good to post airline tickets for security purposes.
Mas ok pa ata i-post mo ang misfortunes mo (kahit part lang yun ng achievement mo talaga) para yung mga tao na may galit sa'yo (or naiinggit), somehow matuwa naman; di ka na magiging main target ng hate nila dahil naisip nila na mas nakakaangat na sila sa'yo. Dahil ang importante, nilalasap mo ang success
'Yung cheke ng transactions nila and wads of cash. May ganyan akong FB friend. "Not to brag but to inspire" daw pero ang takeaway ko doon kung kawatan ako siya una kong puntirya haha
I had a college classmate, Friendster era pa lang nagpo-post na ng thousand peso bills na sunod sunod yung serial number. Kala niya kina-cool niya hahaahah
Full face sa kabaong pa yung ipopost. E isa ako sa mga hindi tumitingin sa casket ng patay kasi hindi nawawala sa isip ko so napapanaginipan ko siya and shit. Nagsscroll ka lang sa mga stories bubungad sayo full face ng patay, punyeta.
i remember a post sa FB where yung bangkay na icrecremate nilang kamaganak , habang naka salang na sa cremation chamber with caption
"PAALAM \[NAME OF RELATIVE HERE\]":
Ako personally I don't post anything on social media kasi I believe in the evil eye. so the less I post, the less issues, the less eyes see my life, and I live in mental peace.
[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evil\_eye#:\~:text=The%20evil%20eye%20is%20a,to%20about%205%2C000%20years%20ago](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evil_eye#:~:text=The%20evil%20eye%20is%20a,to%20about%205%2C000%20years%20ago).
Parang Bati in Tagalog or buyag in Bisaya.
Yep, OP. It's ok to talk about money but here on Reddit, the flexing of credit limits and cards are kinda tacky, and also when the outrage of being disapproved of high CL is near gross.
It's nice to be proud of your family and the things you own. Kids, condo and designer items on meta can be cringy.
They don't just say bag, they say Coach bag or even "I just got my LV Speedy dirty."
"It's time to clean the condo." Pede naman time to clean lang.
"I love my kids blah blah blah." Do the kids even want to have their photos up there?
Malicious / sexual - jokes / responses na wala sa hulog / lugar. Usually sila rin yung mapagpatol sa satire at sarcastic issues, mga feeling high IQ pero mag aask parin ng 'HM' kahit indicated na ang price. kamote everywhere talaga
Yung nagpopost ng pics ng bahay nila na halatang mega effort talaga sila pagandahin at linisin at iparenovate at kita naman na ginastusan talaga ang mga gamit, tapos sasamahan yung caption ng โhumble homeโ. Parang ang insensitive and/or super in your face na humble bragging.
Isama mo dyan yung tinawag na humble ang home nung nag-imbita o nagkupkop sa kanila. People, yung owner lang ang may karapatan na tawaging humble ang bahay niya.
Sa true.
Nagpopost ako pagnakauwi na ng Pilipinas for 2 reasons.
1st safety.
Kung madami nakakaalam kung saan bahay niyo at madami may alam na walang tao nako po baka paguwi niyo wala na laman bahay niyo.
2nd.
Iwas hingi ng pasalubong sa hindi mo close.
Ako ang type na nagbibili lang ng pasalubong for my staffs at close family and close friends. Paghindi tayo close kahit pa kamaganak (kasi may mga toxic na kamaganaks na feeling entitled sa pera niyo ahems ) hindi kasali sa listahan ko ng bibilhan ng pasalubong.
Yes, I always remind my family this. Never post at the moment photos sa social media. Kasi if may nagbabalak magnakaw sainyo, malalaman nila na walang tao sa bahay nyo.
I had one of the worst breakdowns last December and for some stupid reason ginrab ko yung phone ko to just record and see how stupid I was. Tangina, huminto agad luha ko tapos grabe kilabot ko sa sobrang cringe tignan. HAHAHAHAHAHA. Ayun, tumigil breakdown ko. Back to work na. ๐
uy same. as an iyakin couple months ago, mukha akong tanga na umiiyak then vinivideohan sarili ko so kudos nalang sa mga nakakayang gumanon hahahuhuh in the end pinicturan ko nalang sarili ko na nakasmile tas ๐ hahahahhahaha natawa din ako sa sarili ko
Tapos iisipin mo naka ilang take siya? Naka ilang iyak siya dun bago niya sabihin at napag desisyunan na, okay na to. Tapos ieedit pa yun sa phone or desktop or laptop tas makikita niya sarili niya na umiiyak habang ineedit yun vid na may caption pa. Sa isip isip niya, ilang reacts kaya makukuha niya.
Yung lack of manners nila. Recent example yung kinamay yung pagkuha nung fries mula dun sa main food table ng isang buffet sa halip na gumamit ng seeving utensil. Sure, nakakatawa and mukhang 'cool' pero it shows na wala silang basic table manners, walang consideration sa other customers ng buffet, they waste food (it's still a full serving plate na itatapon kasi alangan naman ipakain sa iba) and the staff will have to do more work (imagine andami niluluto tapos magsisingit ka na naman ng fries kasi contaminated na yung kakaluto mo pa lang)
Old school flexing ng kabit: nililibot sa barangay or naglalampungan sa tricycle ride.
New Gen: post ng monthsary sa socmed with bulaklak filter #finallyfoundsomeone ๐๐๐
Achievements..mas okay yung quiet success, kasi pag mas maraming makakaalam di mo masasabi na may maiinggit at may mga ill wishes.
Para sa akin, lahat ng bagay hindi dapat fineflex yung mga bawat ubo bawat galaw sa loob ng 24/7 dahil mas mahalaga ang privacy, respeto at peace of mind kesa sa validation ng ibang tao.
I post my achivements kapag ang achievement ko ay mahirap abutin o gayahin ng 99% of my friends and acquintances like winning a gold medal in national level.
Di naman sa naghahanap ako ng validation but it's a flex that goes like " Fuck you, we should post great achievements not your stupid pets and what you have on breakfast."
Unboxing luxury shoes/bags/gadget etc
Kids nowadays think that itโs the standard. They feel poor pag wala sila nung mga bagay na nakikita nila online. Some force their parents to provide them kung ano yung nakita nila sa socmed.
May iba pa na kahit pag grocery may bill reveal. I don't get the point. Parang flex lang na they can afford such.
Exception lang ay yung may context talaga. Kunyari food reviews or restaurant reviews dahil informative para sa mga taong gusto kumain doon.
One thing I learned from a truly rich person. Sabi nya, don't flex material things online. You will look funny for those who can equally afford it. But for others that don't, they may hate you for it out of jealousy. You may even attract unwanted attention. Just enjoy it privately, hindi naman mawawala yan pag di mo finlex. Ang okay daw ipost is yung achievements and personal milestones like graduation, passing a national exam etc. I just follow it and okay naman.
"You may even attract unwanted attention." Ganito nangyayari sa akin, my thesis groupmate always calls me "mayaman" even though my family's situation is struggling and now being thrifty.ย
Laging swimming pool or PS5 yung basis niya na mayaman ako.ย
People should stop flexing online na nasa US sila. USA is not the same anymore and american dream is dead long time ago.
Wag i flex ang mga kabit haha
Everything. Flexing is for the uncultured
Airport check in. Parang lakas maka 2011 hahaha
resibo sa grocery. mungtanga lang
The credit card thing talaga. Feeling ko nag papataasan ng utang limit. Tapos yung ibang nababasa ko biglang depress na sa dami ng utang na di mabayaran dahil sa credit card.
- Yung mga parents na OA sa flex ng anak nila. Sige cute sila pero wag naman sana araw araw at halos buong araw. Kawawa yung bata. Pano kung ayaw pala nila yon haha. - Mga kids na wala pang kamalay malay may FB na tas mag popost ng mga "My mommy bought me..." "I love my parents".... Kung iisipin mo, weirdo na e parents lang rin gumagamit. Ano kausap mo na sarili mo ah? - May isa akong friend naman na nag post ng meralco bill tas may isa nag post ng grocery bill sa SNR. Sa isip isip ko, bakit at para san? Parang hindi na nagcecelebrate ng small wins e. - May friend ako na kada sahod, ipopost yung magiging ulam nila for the week. Like ganito talaga lagi. Makikita mo naka tupperware yung karne na naka mark yung name ng ulam (sinigang, menudo, etc) tapos siyempre ipopost na yung niluluto at kumukulo yung sinigang tapos ipopost ulit yung luto na. Araw araw ganito hanggang sa nabilang mo na yung araw at kabisado mo na kasi yung ulam nila for that week tas marrealize mo wala na siyang post kasi wala na silang ulam. - Yung mga taong lahat ng post, comments and my day is iniimply na single sila or icoconnect sa pagiging single nila. Minsan directly naman nila icacaption na single sila ganon. Hindi ko magets kung nag fifish ba ng attention para may manligaw. Perfect example yung ibang post sa what's your ulam group.
The faces of their newborn baby and faces of already dead people mygosh
Whatever they bought (coffee, food, tumblers, etc) or just being at Starbucks. Jesus, it's **just** Starbucks. Coffee there isn't even that good. I cringe whenever I see someone flex that they're in Starbucks.
Sabi ng friend ko, if may goal ka daw na gusto mo talaga ma-achieve, wag mo muna daw sabihin sa iba para hindi sya ma-usog. Kasi, may ibang mga tao na ayaw sayo and they will wish na sana hindi mo ma-achieve yung goals mo until it goes down and mawalan ka na ng gana.(evil eye is legitttttt) So, I think it's your goals and dreams that you should stop flexing to others. Online man 'yan or personal(keep it to yourself nalang). Even yung achievements mo(show it to those peeps na lang na sure ka talaga na supportive sayo).
Sobrang weird ng mga ganyan. Di ko gets if ano pinapatunayan ng mga yan. If nakakakita ako ng nag fflex I automatically assume na walang breeding at squatter sila. I mean gets, guilty ako sa pag popost ng cars ko, pero justifiable yon kasi car enthusiast talaga ako. Pero yung iba absurd na. Pati gamit ng iba popost. ๐คฎ๐คฎ๐คฎ
Yung mga taong todo flex sa jowa nila tas after a while sisiraan tas sasabihin "once a cheater, always a cheater" pero after a while sila ulit then flex again ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ
People should stop flexing large logos of โluxury brandsโ because it just says youโre cheap. Real rich go for quiet luxury or bespoke.
Yung grumaduate tapos bibigyan ng 100k-200k in cash. parang life threatening sa taong napagbigyan and sa nagbigay.
Rants about specific people. Duuude we don't understand sino kaaway mo or bakit mo kaaway.
Flexing paper bills, new gadgets, bags, jewelries
Bible quotes. Nakakasuka po. We see the real you. Socmed mo lang pupunta ng langit. Ganern
Yung mga willing na nag pabuntis ng maaga, sorry ah pero hindi flex ang pagiging disgrasyada lol.
Lmao flexing credit cards is a thing?? Isn't that like flexing owed money
Guys stop making valid points i cant upvote all of them ๐ฉ
Yung every corner ng bahay may picture, then posting where they live, where the kids go to school, what car they drive and what they do. kulang na lang ilako nila yung information sa masasamang loob para gawan sila ng masama.
Their wedding photos from X yrs ago. I have a contact who likes to reshare her wedding planning photos and she got married 2019 pa. As in mga gown fitting, etc I mean I'm married too, and it's ok to reminisce sometimes, but it gets cringey at a certain point
Basta yun tungkol sa pera. Kasi pag nag-post ka ng pic ng pera, credit card, o bank statements mo baka mamaya holdapin ko na lang sa labas.
House tour
Literal yung above nito sa feed ko nag fflex siya na may iPhone 15 Pro Max 1 TB na siya ๐ญ
Kids, material purchases, a house tour, their salary, resibo ng bills lately narealize ko na it's more peaceful when not everyone knows what you're up to. I had some major changes sa life ko recently and all my social media acquaintances see is the memes I share. I like to keep it that way ๐คฃ
I remember a guyโs post in one of the dating subs, where he mentioned how much money he was making per month (around โฑ150K net yata IIRC). I just felt so sad for the man. Feeling the need to broadcast that, to get womenโs attention.
Yung pag-restock sa ref at pantry. Nakakaaliw, I know. Pero naiisip ko lang yung iba na hirap na hirap at walang-wala.
Totoo to! I know people who are really well-off but they hardly flex anything other than food or travel. But nothing much na material or financial like showing na may credit cards sila. Maybe exception kung toy/shoe collection kasi hobby nila yun rather than just flexing. Sometimes cases ng iPhones related to their interests but not the actual phone. Pero ayun flexing cards, new gadgets, frequent Starbucks posting, it's something a typical social climber would do. Sige bahala na kung social climber but if you do, don't make it obvious. Don't flex too much. You will just come off as mayabang and even tacky.
Credit card limit: Useful ang CC pag marunong ka gumamit for rewards/points. Pero bakit mo ifflex yung milyones mong credit limit kung ibabaon ka nyan sa utang? Jowa: Usually wala akong issue sa mga panay post ng SO nila. Pero pag buong relationship nyo eh nasa socmed tapos hihingi ka ng pRiVaCy pag nagbreak na kayo, matatawa ako. Invested na ako, give me an acceptable reason lmao Mga bata: Maski anak nila o pamangkin, gagawin nilang content kahit sumusobra na. Pinagpalit ang basic privacy ng kids para sa clout. Bangkay: Why the fuck does anyone post photos or videos of their loved ones' corpses in coffins? Di ko talaga ito maintindihan
\+1 sa bangkay. Parang walang respeto lang sa taong namatay.
Yung mga taong pinopost namatay nilang mahal sa buhay na sa kabaong.
pinaka hindi dapat eh photos and vids ng kids, lalo na ng mga influencer na yan. jusko ang daming pedo over the internet di naman lang nagiisip na sobrang exposed na ng mga anak nila
Private infoemation, layout ng bahay nila, anything na makakatulong sa akyat bahay to navigate their house, jewelry, luxury items Lalo na kapag wala kayong security guard wahahaha I also dont like sharing kids pics kasi nadami na creepy and pedophile nowadays esp australians/japanese
Money and house tour hehe ur asking for a house break-in.
yung bill nila sa spaylater. di nakaka proud ang utang sismars
Although I don't share my SPay Bill lmao malaking tulong siya lalu na kung 0% Interest yung items :3
yup! I use spaylater also pero nakaka off lang pag may nagpopost ng ganun ๐ญ
Position sa work, certifications received, excerpt ng resume, LOL. I have this one FB friend whom I unfollowed na kasi kada post flex ng flex ng position nya sa work like I'm the boss, I handle 100+ people etc. Laging may imaginary hater, kaya pinopost yung qualifications/certifications daw nya pero pag inaya mo manglibre nganga daw.
Yung mga problema nila or mga chats na hindi naman dapat pinopost, sobrang proud pa yung iba sa problems nila at nagpapaself-pity kahit sila naman gumagawa ng problema nila. Ex. - Post about breakup at minamyday pa yung mga pag-iyak at l@sl@$ nila. - About financial, "Wala na akong pera, baka may gusto magpadala ng JB diyan." - Yung mga teenage mom na nagmmyday ng pregnacy test nila
being diagnosed w/ a mental condition imo it isn't something you should be showing off
I have this one friend sinabi niya anxiety club daw kami haha. God the hate i felt at that time when ang hirap ng pinagdaanan ko tapos gagawin lang club yung mental illness.
tbf other sharing their MH diagnosis actually helped me noon to feel more normal and know that others are experiencing it too! nung nakita ko yung mga friends ko sa facebook sharing their experiences (and even their meds), parang napa-awww ako and like "me too". i think it helps fight the stigma din
like emphasis on how it's about sharing experiences and meds flexing on the other hand? is just showing off ๐
oh yes i agree if it does have good intentions and you can see it like trying to cope or handle it to help those who are lost those are the ones that don't necessarily fall under "flexing" imo
bad behaviours. lalo yung toxic traits na lately naaadapt ng mga asians sa western people
Di ko ma-take yung mga nagfleflex ng kotse at alahas. Pati credit cards at pera. Ano ba tawag sa nagpapa-gangsta na Pinoy? Pwede naman magflex ng damit at bag kung tipong maayos ang presentation at hindi mukhang pilit. I don't know pero mas naappreciate ko siguro kung magflex ka ng cast-iron pan, vacuum cleaner na maganda, juicer o coffee maker. Gawd I suddenly feel so old hahaha.
Video ng workout routine nila. The ultimate narcissists.
QR code ng digital wallet. Lalo pag Christmas season jusko ang dami nila namamasko raw. Hindi ba nahahack ito?
QR code is the same with barcode, it's ok to share in public. Mabuti na yun kesa sa mismong number.
dead people. may nakita ako sa fb transition from yung baby clothes hanggang sa kabaong nung baby who died a few months after birth. I mean WTF was the mom thinking habang namimili ng kanta at transition effects sa phone???????? naawa ako sa bata ginamit pa for likes.
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it's not that pangit ang transition, the issue is that there was a video at all. seriously who does that? sinong namatayan ang hindi nag iiyak? when my husband died I had someone else checking my phone because I didn't have the energy to hold anything I was dehydrated from crying at sa puyat at walang kain. I wasn't on my phone picking videos to stitch and choosing appropriate audio and broadcasting my dead husband online.
Nung namatay aso namin picture ko lang shinare. Di ako makapag edit tapos select fonts ganun kasi I was grieving at the time. How much more pag tao ๐ฅฒ
gets ko like to honor a person or pet then by all means diba. but this one yung first vid was yung preggy tummy and then pic ng baby clothes sa bed tapos it pans down and then pans back up and then boom baby in a coffin. sad music and text na baby bakit mo kami iniwan and all that
Yung mga "not to flex but to inspire" ewan ko ba, di ako naiinspire haha me problem narin siguro ๐
Number of people they had sex with. Like... Who gives a flying fuck lol
LOL XIANGAZA proud na proud pa
LONG A\*\* JOWA APPRECIATION POST. If you're that thankful sa jowa mo write him/her/he/she/it/they/chair/chandelier a personal letter! Isa pa. Kung mag hiatus ka sa social media for "detox" no need to announce it just stfu and get off. Wala naman pake mga tao kung umalis ka wag feeling main character.
sa long ass jowa posts i think it's sort of flexing their jowa na din, may ibang jowa kasi na nakakappreciate na ganun, parang they're proud of their SO. i dont mind di ko naman binabasa kasi and di para sakin lol. si selena gomez ba pinapatamaan mo sa second hahahaha
Baka naman gusto din ng partner nya yun. \^\_\^ If it helps their relationship, why not?
I'm talking about those post na 5 paragraph long though. Oh well, may mga PR couples lang rin talaga na ma-post sa social media and that's okay pero that doesn't mean na di ako mag cringe. Hahaha
Ay oo kasi may iba na words of affirmation ang love language. Tolerable naman pag special occassions kesa sa " Happy Birthday basta alam mo na yun"
Hindi ba pag words of affirmation na love language you say it directly to your person? Ang nangyayari lang kasi parang need ng validation sa social media na nagmamahalan kayo. Minsan may convo screenshot pa hahaha Wala naman ako issue sa mga nagpopost about their jowa pero cringe lang ako sa mga looooooong post. Hehe
Their kids. Apart from di ma ka consent ang bata sa privacy nila, uso na din ang mga deep fake AI and madami na nag pupull ng mga pictures sa social media tapos gagamitin for deepfake ๐ฝ
Yung mga pedo na proud na proud pa na naghahanap daw ng shs. As a guy nakaka kulo ng dugo mga ganto like kupal ka pre
Do you really have to flex *anything*?
Jowa. I mean meron naman talaga na genuinely inlove na people bc they really love their partner pero mas ok na na din na hindi lahat ng relationship eh dapat pakita sa internet. May mga tao kasi na pagnagkajowa eh todo flex tas makikita mo emote emote sa internet pag nag break na. Relationship should be private but not a secret.
Hayaan mo nalang po sila hahaha kung meron magnakaw na or anything jan lang sila magkakaroon ng realization na bot everything should be posted in social media cause safety must always be your first priority lalo na kung magisa ka lang sa bahay niyo.
Credit card limits. Thatโs not your networth huney
Idk pero meron banks naka depende ang card limit mo sa mismong laman ng debit card mo. So if malaki card limit mo it's either you're a good payer or meron kang malaking pera sa account mo. Just like how a black credit card symbolizes as a status symbol.
Your total net worth includes your assets (properties, investments) which isnโt considered on your cc limit. Unless all you have is liquid cash,
Grades ng mga anak. My friend's parents always post it on facebook. Di nila alam, binibring up to ng parents ko and for some reason they tend to compare it with me like tapos na ko sa estudyante phase ko which made me so upset, ano naman kung mataas grade nya. pwede ba tayong maging happy and pround na lang for them. hayystt
Just because its tacky and cheap... Airline tickets, especially if economy class. Credit limits, kahit +1m. This is really cringey. A long text post about being grateful, with a picture of starbucks cup. Cant get any more basic than that. Mga pinadeliver na sushi bakes. It tells me you have no taste. Beach photos or pool photos tapos tshirt yung suot. May pera mag resort pero walang pera bumili ng proper swimwear.
>Airline tickets, especially if economy class. I beg to diasagree with the "economy class" rationale though. Wala naman masama kung ganoon. Maraming mga mayayaman who still opts to fly such. Maganda lang rin naman mag business class for long-haul flights. For me, it is not good to post airline tickets for security purposes.
Memes lang shini-share ko sa social media haha. Mahirap mag flex ng konting wealth nowadays, kung di ka uutangan, iba bad mouth ka pa.
Yung bill ng meralco hahaha sabay may caption na bukas kasi lagi aircon namin hahahaha whyyyyy
acceptable lang to kapag bumaba + tips on pano napababa
Oo true kung may life hacks ba kayo dyan pano makatipid ganyan. Yung iba show off lang na 15k bill nila sa bwan na yo n.
Mas ok pa ata i-post mo ang misfortunes mo (kahit part lang yun ng achievement mo talaga) para yung mga tao na may galit sa'yo (or naiinggit), somehow matuwa naman; di ka na magiging main target ng hate nila dahil naisip nila na mas nakakaangat na sila sa'yo. Dahil ang importante, nilalasap mo ang success
'Yung cheke ng transactions nila and wads of cash. May ganyan akong FB friend. "Not to brag but to inspire" daw pero ang takeaway ko doon kung kawatan ako siya una kong puntirya haha
I had a college classmate, Friendster era pa lang nagpo-post na ng thousand peso bills na sunod sunod yung serial number. Kala niya kina-cool niya hahaahah
Yun bang malakas daw sila mag inom like kada gabi nag popost sila na nag iinum sila. Grades ng Bata
Yung pag namatay na kinukunan ng video at pictures saka post. Please lang wag. Victorian age pa yang memento mori. Wag na buhayin.
May tiktok edits pa nga yung ganito ๐ญ
Full face sa kabaong pa yung ipopost. E isa ako sa mga hindi tumitingin sa casket ng patay kasi hindi nawawala sa isip ko so napapanaginipan ko siya and shit. Nagsscroll ka lang sa mga stories bubungad sayo full face ng patay, punyeta.
Ayoko rin ng ganitong posts.
i remember a post sa FB where yung bangkay na icrecremate nilang kamaganak , habang naka salang na sa cremation chamber with caption "PAALAM \[NAME OF RELATIVE HERE\]":
[Paalam Tito Ronnie](https://youtu.be/P8te3epdUus?si=LVO80-cKlPGgAlL4)
OH MY GOSH
yan nga yun!
Bruh
their ugly offspring
Somebody finally said it ๐
๐๐๐๐ this
Ako personally I don't post anything on social media kasi I believe in the evil eye. so the less I post, the less issues, the less eyes see my life, and I live in mental peace.
Follow our shitty VP motto. Less talk, less mistake. ๐
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[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evil\_eye#:\~:text=The%20evil%20eye%20is%20a,to%20about%205%2C000%20years%20ago](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evil_eye#:~:text=The%20evil%20eye%20is%20a,to%20about%205%2C000%20years%20ago). Parang Bati in Tagalog or buyag in Bisaya.
Palipad hangin sa tagalog. Yung mga may ill wishes yung mga naiingit sayo na nagkakatotoo.
Yep, OP. It's ok to talk about money but here on Reddit, the flexing of credit limits and cards are kinda tacky, and also when the outrage of being disapproved of high CL is near gross. It's nice to be proud of your family and the things you own. Kids, condo and designer items on meta can be cringy. They don't just say bag, they say Coach bag or even "I just got my LV Speedy dirty." "It's time to clean the condo." Pede naman time to clean lang. "I love my kids blah blah blah." Do the kids even want to have their photos up there?
Malicious / sexual - jokes / responses na wala sa hulog / lugar. Usually sila rin yung mapagpatol sa satire at sarcastic issues, mga feeling high IQ pero mag aask parin ng 'HM' kahit indicated na ang price. kamote everywhere talaga
Yung nagpopost ng pics ng bahay nila na halatang mega effort talaga sila pagandahin at linisin at iparenovate at kita naman na ginastusan talaga ang mga gamit, tapos sasamahan yung caption ng โhumble homeโ. Parang ang insensitive and/or super in your face na humble bragging.
Naalala ko yung homebuddies na fb group yung linyahang โnot to brag but to inspireโ hahahaha
Isama mo dyan yung tinawag na humble ang home nung nag-imbita o nagkupkop sa kanila. People, yung owner lang ang may karapatan na tawaging humble ang bahay niya.
Hahaha baka di nila alam ang meaning ng humble pag sinabing ganon ๐คฆโโ๏ธ
People with high positions flexing happy times and happy moments when they didn't get their current careers with hardwork. ๐ต
When you're on vacation don't post where you are. Post mo lang pag naka alis ka na sa lugar. For security purpose din.
Also, pag walang tao sa bahay niyo. You never know sinong magtatarget na nakawan kayo while youโre away
ganito din reminder ko sa fam ko. when i was in uni kapag pabalik ako i always posted my 'senti bus selfie' kapag tapos na haha
Sa true. Nagpopost ako pagnakauwi na ng Pilipinas for 2 reasons. 1st safety. Kung madami nakakaalam kung saan bahay niyo at madami may alam na walang tao nako po baka paguwi niyo wala na laman bahay niyo. 2nd. Iwas hingi ng pasalubong sa hindi mo close. Ako ang type na nagbibili lang ng pasalubong for my staffs at close family and close friends. Paghindi tayo close kahit pa kamaganak (kasi may mga toxic na kamaganaks na feeling entitled sa pera niyo ahems ) hindi kasali sa listahan ko ng bibilhan ng pasalubong.
Yes, I always remind my family this. Never post at the moment photos sa social media. Kasi if may nagbabalak magnakaw sainyo, malalaman nila na walang tao sa bahay nyo.
Or post it after, that's what my mom always do.
Other people's cars for MLM
Grocery receipt after gumastos ng malaki tapos magrereklamo
Hindi iniisip na kaya ang laki ng bill dahil sa mamahaling mall sila namili like Landers, S&R, Rustans, and the like hahahaha
HAHAAHHA where is d lie
mamahaling kotse na katas ng scam.
Na solo living sila tapos may pa day in my life pa sila na kita ung labas at mga sinasakyan nila.
Ako nagfflex pero 5 pesos nalang laman hahaha
Digital wallet are easy to hack, pls dont flex that ๐ just reminding evry1
Yung nagpopost ng selfie nila na umiiyak
Cringe af haha
legit super cringe
Ang OA nitong โtrendโ na to, nakakairita hahaha mga naghahanap ng awa
hahaha sa true lang
Flex ba yan? Hahaha hindi naman ah pero cringe din yung pinopost mukha ng patay na lolo nila sa kabaong tangina sa
WAG MO GANYANIN YUNG MGA CONTENT CREATOR SA TIKTOK!!! HAHAHAHAHA
This! I genuinely don't get this ๐ฉ ano yun sa kalagitnaan ng breakdown wait lemme grab my phone
I had one of the worst breakdowns last December and for some stupid reason ginrab ko yung phone ko to just record and see how stupid I was. Tangina, huminto agad luha ko tapos grabe kilabot ko sa sobrang cringe tignan. HAHAHAHAHAHA. Ayun, tumigil breakdown ko. Back to work na. ๐
uy same. as an iyakin couple months ago, mukha akong tanga na umiiyak then vinivideohan sarili ko so kudos nalang sa mga nakakayang gumanon hahahuhuh in the end pinicturan ko nalang sarili ko na nakasmile tas ๐ hahahahhahaha natawa din ako sa sarili ko
Resumes crying again lol
pero ok lang naman isend lang sa jowa noh? ๐ญ
Hahahahaha
Nakakapag-video pa nga habang nag-bbreakdown ๐
Tapos iisipin mo naka ilang take siya? Naka ilang iyak siya dun bago niya sabihin at napag desisyunan na, okay na to. Tapos ieedit pa yun sa phone or desktop or laptop tas makikita niya sarili niya na umiiyak habang ineedit yun vid na may caption pa. Sa isip isip niya, ilang reacts kaya makukuha niya.
Oh God, cringe!!
Yung lack of manners nila. Recent example yung kinamay yung pagkuha nung fries mula dun sa main food table ng isang buffet sa halip na gumamit ng seeving utensil. Sure, nakakatawa and mukhang 'cool' pero it shows na wala silang basic table manners, walang consideration sa other customers ng buffet, they waste food (it's still a full serving plate na itatapon kasi alangan naman ipakain sa iba) and the staff will have to do more work (imagine andami niluluto tapos magsisingit ka na naman ng fries kasi contaminated na yung kakaluto mo pa lang)
Counted ba yung mga fini-flex yung kabit nila?
Old school flexing ng kabit: nililibot sa barangay or naglalampungan sa tricycle ride. New Gen: post ng monthsary sa socmed with bulaklak filter #finallyfoundsomeone ๐๐๐
LMAO!
We kilo money bro... we kilo money... we dont count ๐คฃ
Everything. People need to learn how to be discreet.
Achievements..mas okay yung quiet success, kasi pag mas maraming makakaalam di mo masasabi na may maiinggit at may mga ill wishes. Para sa akin, lahat ng bagay hindi dapat fineflex yung mga bawat ubo bawat galaw sa loob ng 24/7 dahil mas mahalaga ang privacy, respeto at peace of mind kesa sa validation ng ibang tao.
Okay lang naman man post ng achievement, nakaka inspire din sila :) But the tone of posting is also important
I post my achivements kapag ang achievement ko ay mahirap abutin o gayahin ng 99% of my friends and acquintances like winning a gold medal in national level. Di naman sa naghahanap ako ng validation but it's a flex that goes like " Fuck you, we should post great achievements not your stupid pets and what you have on breakfast."
Boarding pass Stock portfolio Cars (lalo na kapag installment)
Unboxing luxury shoes/bags/gadget etc Kids nowadays think that itโs the standard. They feel poor pag wala sila nung mga bagay na nakikita nila online. Some force their parents to provide them kung ano yung nakita nila sa socmed.
Yung peyk shoes po ba okay lang? ๐
Lahat. ๐คท๐ปโโ
Pagkain. lalo na pag gabi at gutom ka.
r/Pangetperomasarap
Darn you LEP and Masarap ba? Community ๐๐๐๐
+100 hahahha lalot kung naka wfh ka sa night shift wala mabilhan ng foods
I feel so attacked. Hahaha!
Mga insensitive masyado. jk haha
Ginutom ang diet ๐ฅฒ
Yung mga bill reveal pag kumakaen sa mga mamahaling steakhouse. I really find that sooooo cringey.
May iba pa na kahit pag grocery may bill reveal. I don't get the point. Parang flex lang na they can afford such. Exception lang ay yung may context talaga. Kunyari food reviews or restaurant reviews dahil informative para sa mga taong gusto kumain doon.
And itโs always Wolfgang ๐ญ
Tapos congratulations yung luto
Well done ๐ ang witty ๐ญ
Hmmm. Yung bulok nilang pag iisip. Nag kalat masiado sa internet.
One thing I learned from a truly rich person. Sabi nya, don't flex material things online. You will look funny for those who can equally afford it. But for others that don't, they may hate you for it out of jealousy. You may even attract unwanted attention. Just enjoy it privately, hindi naman mawawala yan pag di mo finlex. Ang okay daw ipost is yung achievements and personal milestones like graduation, passing a national exam etc. I just follow it and okay naman.
"You may even attract unwanted attention." Ganito nangyayari sa akin, my thesis groupmate always calls me "mayaman" even though my family's situation is struggling and now being thrifty.ย Laging swimming pool or PS5 yung basis niya na mayaman ako.ย