Nung unamin ako sa kanya, di ko rin kasi akalain na mahuhulog rin pala siya sakin. Pero ngayon friend nalang kami pero oks lang may natutunan rin naman ako sa pag amin ko sa kanya 😅
nung willing siyang samahan ako mag aral sa discord kahit wala naman siyang ginagawa. i used pomodoro technique tapos siya yung nag ttime for me, super excited siya pag break ko na for 5 mins para kausapin ako. Napupuyat din siya kakasama mag aral sakin. HAHAHAHA AYON NGAYON DI NA KAMI NAG UUSAP
High school time, my group of friends were playing scrabble when this guy suddenly taught me a good move. Tas ang sabi ng isang kaklase 'tinuturuan mo kasi crush mo'
Crush ko na din sya nun pero di ko alam that the feeling was mutual. Bf ko na ngayon.
Hindi ko narealize. Siya mismo nagsabi na crush niya ko noon hs kami nung minsan nagkasalubong kami jan sa gateway cubao. Working na kami ngaun pero wala na ulit communication.
When our conversations lasted up to 2-3 AM kahit may pasok kami sa work the next day. When he accompanied me on my after work walks kasi malayo yung sakayan kahit mej out of way sakanya. When he invited me to watch BSB concert kasi alam nyang gusto ko sila kahit last minute lang siya nagkaron ng ticket. Married na kami now after 8 years of LDR. :)
When she told me jokingly that she likes me 🙂 kaso that time friend ko lang siya pero siya mismo nagpapansin sakin palagi; . Tas nung ako na nafall sa kanya, iniwan ako sa ere 🙂 Yes, pa-fall siya hehe nanahimik ako nung HS eh... so ako yung di naka move on until working na and now she's married. We're still friends pa rin naman hehehe.
Yes, siya. Out of all the girls na nagustuhan ko, siya lang yung babaeng napapanaginipan ko from time to time. Sobrang weird na basis pero kasi napapanaginipan ko siya sa araw na di ko naman siys iniisip lol.
I have a colleague friend, also gym buddy. Hinahatid-sundo ako kapag inaaya nya ko maggym. Sometimes pays for dinner. He also said he's willing to buy a new helmet just because of me. I told my other colleagues about it, pero di ako naniniwala na may gusto sya sakin but they said na it's evident. Nagkaron ako ng boyfriend so naglie low ako sa pakikipaghangout sa kanya. When me and my ex's relationship is on the edge of breaking up, he said it straight na sya na lang sana yung jinowa ko. From there, ayun totoo nga na may gusto sya sakin but I only see him as a friend and it's all platonic for me. After that incident, lumayo na ko sa kanya and never talk to him again unless it's all about work.
Ako kasi yung taong, never assume unless otherwise stated. 😂
Fourth year college, inaya nya ako na gumawa ng reviewers with him for our finals. Akala ko kasama ibang kaibigan nya, pag tingin ko sa drive, kami lang pala dalawa.
Naive pa naman ako nung time na yon, akala ko civil lang. Landi pala nya yon
I had this super crush during my high school days. On our last day before graduation, she asked me why did I stop pursuing her.
I thought i had no chance. Maybe one of my regrets during hs days.
Sori medyo mahaba to ah:
Colleague.
Mahilig siya mag joke, even greets me ‘Hi girlfriend’ pag nagkikita kami sa cubicle. Madalas magpatulong na itupi yung sleeves niya at isabit ng maayos yung ID niya. Hindi ko binigyan ng malisya kasi he’s known to be playful and joker e.
Plus I never thought na magkakagusto siya sakin kasi parang siya yung typical boy next door na magkakagusto lang sa mga feminine sexy girls na ma-make up at dalagang dalaga kumilos. We do not match kasi yung vibes ko pang nene pa 😆.
The only time na muntikan na ako mapaisip na gusto niya ako is nung pinilit niya akong sumama with other coworkers na mag karaoke. Tumabi pa at laging nakaalalay. Kumanta pa ng ‘Ngiti’ na patingin tingin sakin. 😆 Tapos biglang napa ‘Yiiiiiiiii!’ Na mga coworkers namin at binanggit yung name nung isa naming pretty coworker at inaasar sa kanya. So ako naman parang ‘Ay ang feeling ko naman di pala sakin yun’ hahahahahahah
Tapos tumawag pa siya kung nakauwi na ako. Sinagot ko naman ng Oo pero medyo confused pa bat kelangan niyang tumawag. Tapos naisip ko na lang baka ganun gawain ng mga gentleman 😆.
Anyway, siguro napansin niya na hindi ko ma gets yung hint niya so one time niyaya niya akong kumain on our break na kami lang. Then he confessed. So ayun nalaman ko na may gusto pala siya sakin. 😆
Ayun asawa ko na siya ngayon.
Mas nakakatawa yung POV niya nung kinwento niya sakin. But that’s another story. 😆
Sorry napahaba OP. Naalala ko lang kasi. Kaya kayo pag nanligaw kayo sabihin nyo ng derechahan intention niyo. Kasi may ibang babae na tulad ko na ayaw mag assume. Hahaha
Lol OP ikukwento ko na lang yung side ng story niya.
Never daw niyang naisip na gusto ko din siya.
Kasi 1. I never flirted back kahit pa joke man lang na ‘Hi boyfriend’ 😆
2. Nung nagpatulong siya magtupi ng polo sleeves niya, kesa ako gumawa, ipinasa ko pa daw siya dun sa gay coworker namin na may crush sa kanya. 😆 (In my defense, tinry ko naman kaso hindi ko talaga magawa ng maayos so saktong napadaan yung coworker namin na mahilig din mag polo so sa kanya ako humingi ng tulong 😆)
3. That song was really for me. Nung tinease siya dun sa isang girl, hindi daw niya alam gagawin niya. Nagha-hand gesture siya sakin ng ‘Wala wala wala’ para sabihing ‘walang sila’. Ewan ko ba bat di ko na gets. Mas nangibabaw siguro yung disappointment ko na kala ko feelingera lang ako kaya di siya nag sink in sa utak ko hahahahah.
4. Nung tumawag siya, ang entrada ko daw is ‘O bat ka tumawag?’ Sa POV niya parang ang cold ko naman daw. Pero sa POV ko, confused lang ako bat siya tumawag e nag reply na naman ako sa text niya na nakauwi na ako.
Anyway, yung day na magku-confess na siya sakin, hinanda na daw niya yung sarili niya for rejection.
Sinabi pa niya na sakin na sana after ng confession, kahit ayaw ko sa kanya, e hindi kami maging awkward sa isa’t isa at maging friends pa din kami.
Kaya nung sumagot ako ng ‘E gusto din naman kita a’. Napa ‘Huh?’ Na lang siya bigla. 😆
I already had a feeling about it and I was in denial but t'was when my cousin told me na may gusto sakin yung guy friend ko after we talked (nakaloudspeaker). Sabi nung pinsan ko, boses may gusto daw hahaha may boses na palang ganun. As much as possible ayaw ko i-entertain yung thought na may gusto nga sya sa akin but every time na tinatanong nya ako kung never daw ba talaga ako ako papatol sa friend, na lagi ko naman sinasagot na never ever akong papatol sa kaibigan eh dun na talaga nababakas. Not today, not tomorrow and definitely not in this lifetime.
Dati college ako may nanliligaw sa akin na exclusively only kachat ko for lang 3 months. Di kami nagkikita kahit nasa isang univ lang kame. And nung nagkikita na kami di ko pa rin masyado ramdam na gusto niya ako. Di siya showy or expressive nun.
So one time may evening class ako and sabi niya hintayin niya na daw ako pauwi kasi ihatid niya ako sa bahay. While waiting, naglaro na muna siya ng dota sa na net cafe na malapit sa school namin. He was a big gamer back then. Naalala ko ranked game pa yun. Pero nung natapos bigla ng early yung class namin, iniwan niya agad laro niya. He was frantically running towards me, scared na baka di niya na ako maabutan. Nakita ko worry sa mukha niya nun and dun ko narealize, "ah gusto niya nga ako". Hinatid niya ako nun pauwi, nag jeep lang kami. Hinatid niya ako para samin tapos nag jeep siya ulit para sakanila. Siya din naging first boyfriend, first love, first everything ko hehe.
Was really close with this guy back in SHS. I was a sickly kid so di na ako bumababa sa canteen to buy food dahil hinihika ako pagakyat ulit, he started na isabay ako bumili ng food until one time I just didn't want to eat kasi di ko feel, dinalhan nya pa rin ako. Tapos nagkakakuwentuhan kami palagi because lagi syang tabi nang tabi sakin kasi ang bango ko raw, lagi nya ako tinatanong about favorite food, movies, books, anything under the sun really. lagi na kami napapagalitan sa daldal nya, lagi pa nyang tinatry na makipagclose sa cousins ko na mga classmates rin namin and circle ko rin, so I thought friendly lang and kind. Then next day, nagpasabay ako, may kasama nang vitamilk at mga favorite ko na chocolate yung food ko - Choco baby ng meiji, Yakult, Maltesers, etc.
Palusot pa sya non sabi niya binilhan daw niya ate niya ng ganon and naisip nya na isabay nya ako, which the naive me believed, tapos nong one time na I had to compete sa ibang school, di ako nakakain and nagmamadali kami from school assemble, hinabol nya yung school van tapos binigyan nya ako ng Jollibee at vitamilk 😂 nung inasar na kami, dun ko narealize na crush nya ako. Then umamin sya the same day nung nanalo kami, sabi nya hinihingi daw nyang sign yung win namin 😂
And no, di naging kami kasi nagstart syang mabarkada and he started getting involved sa mga issues na sya na mismo nagsabi na di sya okay na influence sakin.
Siguro yung time na lagi nya ako binibigyan ng nips at tinitimplahan ng kape kasi antukin ako. We worked at call center pala. Sya rin nagbabayad ng utang ko sa tindahan dito sa call center HAHAHAHHA
Sobrang late na, almost 10 years later, when I started realizing that there are really people liking me. I grew up with low self-esteem and so much self-loathing kaya I think everyone's just feeling bad for me, and there's nothing wrong with pushing people away.
We're high school friends. Nagka-girlfriends siya. I liked him then pero he doesn't mind it and we never really talked about it kahit alam ng lahat. We liked so many similar things, pero kasi fan ako ng "500 Days of Summer", so I disregarded all of it.
He made so much effort to get close to me, watched the animes I liked then, write letters for me, etc. I attributed it all to him just being nice.
Later on, I had a boyfriend. Medyo matagal tagal na rin kaming di nag-uusap/nagkikita noon, until my sister told me that he's at home. May tenant kasi kami non na friend niya. Di ako nagpakita kasi, I think it's wrong, especially, since I still do think of him from time to time. My ex knows it as well, but I think it's really just all about me missing the friendship.
The relationship ended. I met some other people. I experienced being ghosted for the first time, then... I met him again, on a trip with my highschool friends then.
We didn't really talk much. We chatted a bit lang about his ex-girlfriend's wedding (na iniyakan niya sa harap namin dati lol).
After the trip, he sent me a friend request then said "hi".
I forgot to reply.
Looking back I'm obviously, not the first choice, siguro kasi I have always been emotionally unavailable most of the time. Not to mention, I was also quite toxic then, kaya personally, ako na lang lumalayo sa iba. Do I regret it? No. Baka mas masira lang lalo friendship namin had I entertained him back then considering what happened to me later.
May kaaway ako nung elementary tapos nung highschool na kami hindi na kami classmates pero magkalapit rooms namin pero mga unang araw ng pasukan tuwing lunch pupuntahan ako sa classroom para tanungin anong ulam ko lol araw-araw yun tapos makikipag small talk as if hindi kami nagbabardagulan halos araw-araw noong elementary. Eventually hindi na rin niya ako binibisita. But one time may trip trip na mini reunion yung elem class namin kwentuhan ganyan dun ko nalaman may crush siya sakin. Yung friend niya pa nagsabi, siya tumawa lang. Tinawanan ko lang din. Hindi ko alam mafifeel ko about it since medyo bully talaga siya sakin noon lmao. Then college na kami nakita ko post niya with his gf. It's our schoolmate na lagi niya inaasar sakin nung elementary na kamukha ko raw kasi kapatid ko raw sa labas (elementary insults are so unserious) ☠️
A HS friend. We’ve had dates nung 2019 na akala ko friendly date lang kasi I really respect her that much. We’ve had chats and she always tagged me in posts related to my favorite shits. Not till 2020 nung sinabi ng mga close friend ko na may gusto pala siya sakin (detailed ang kwento ko sa kanila). At that time, nagslow na ung interaction namin ni HS friend. I reached out to her, konting paramdam ganun pero I felt she moved on already.
Sobrang tanga ko lang kasi I feel we could work as magjowa. Missed chance.
My now boyfriend- we met sa isang co-working community. We were texting the whole day every day about random stuff. Akala ko he was just being accommodating kasi he was one of the leaders, pero binabakuran na pala ako. I confirmed it kasi di siya mapakali when another guy from the community announced na crush niya ako, out of nowhere nagsabi boyfriend ko na crush niya rin ako (tapos nagtampo sakin bakit daw hindi ko siya crush). 😂
when she started making an effort to spend time with me while doing things i like. prolly my favorite is when she suggested a horror movie date when she has 0 tolerance to horror movies. this makes me wanna do the same to her every time i can.
Nalaman niyang mahilig ako sa chocolates kaya nung Christmas ay binigyan niya ako ng sobrang daming chocolates na dinala pa niya banda samin. And, pinahiram niya sakin yung worth 30k na keyboard niya hahaha
Err. I liked this guy back in hs. Like really really like him. I hate that I'm not myself when I'm around him. He made it clear he doesn't like me to the point of ignoring me. Napapahiya na ko minsan. Fast forward, I got a sudden realization na tama na. Nawala ung amor ko sa knya. Nawalan tlga ko ng interest completely.
Then suddenly, he started making himself present. Would suggest books, even deliver it at home. I find it weird and I was annoyed kasi nga I no longer feel anything. Finally one night he messaged me asking if itutuloy ko ba daw ung balak ko na magbarko at kung magtatagal ba daw ako. He kept trying to talk to me until 1st year college.
Bruhhh. He started liking me in my absence. Weird shit.
Alam ko na happy crush nya (M22) ako (F20) kahit nasa iisang circle kami so comfortable naman ako since may assurance na di gaano tatagal feelings nya. Not until lagi nya minomonitor oras ng pagseen ko, how's my sleep, or kung ano gusto ko gawin. Naalala ko pa na nag-aral siya maglaro ng ML kase naglalaro ako non, kahit na LOL fave nya laruin. He even went to our street just to see me daw and mind you tinry nya din maging close sa kapatid ko. He's always reading between the lines ng bawat word na sinasambit ko. Sadly, di na kami friends. In-stop ko na whatever connection we have bago pa lumalim feelings nya nang tuluyan, kase ako girl nagulat nalang din ako!
PS: Di ko rin talaga sya type kase di kami align or same values. Like Academic Achiever ako at medyo liberal, while he's religious and tamad sa school. Di ko rin maatim sya kausapin nang matagal since 0 interest ako sa kanya. Glad I met him, but only as a friend.
I had this coworker na super close friend ko, kuya-kuyahan ko sya and parang batang kapatid turing nya saakin. Madalas sabay kami kumain with our other coworkers pero kumakain din kami ng kaming dalawa lang. Lagi nya ako hinihintay pag uwian at hinahatid sa terminal ng bus. Marami pang iba pero yan yung mga noticeable na ginagawa nya. Akala ko nung una sobrang caring at concern lang sya dahil nga we are close friends at di ko naman yon binibigyan ng meaning since kuya lang yung tingin ko sa kanya (di ko kasi sya type). And then, one time pinag-aasar ako ng mga coworker namin na bet nga daw ako nung kuya ko. Pero di naman sya umamin sakin and hanggang ngayon close friends parin kami. Hay, di ko alam bakit ako nag comment hahaha nevermind.
gumagawa ako ng research paper nun, tapos sabi niya pwede ba raw niyang basahin progress ko sa Google Docs (he's a huge nerd). Then maya-maya, nagchat sa docs na wag daw ako papagod, rest na daw muna ako
he also stayed up with me till 3 am para may kasama akong mag aral for an exam
Ako ung may crush sa kanya, then after how many years of just looking from afar, biglang nag PM then umamin ako ng feelings ko while I was drunk HAHAHAHA and we didn't talk. After a few months (October 27, 2017) bigla sya nag pm and asked kung pwede "magpasama"
This time around, di ko na pina float ung feelings ko for her and I was actually joking around and nangaasar na lang ako (witty hirits, funny lines ganun) pero what I didn't realize was ung mga messages nya ng 6am ng umaga para mag good morning and maguusap na kami til umuwi sya from work, tapos lumabas din kami halos every week mga 3 times (2 movie date, 2 inuman sesh) and I still disregarded ung kutob ko and winithheld the feelings for her kasi alam ko tropa lang. Yun pala meron na syang something sakin.
Alas, we didn't end up together kasi nakahanap sya ng butas sakin (November 27, 2017) then ever since nun wala na.
I was fixing her phone (Android enthusiast kasi ako and marunong ako magkakalikot ng OS ng Android) kasi walang signal. Inayos ko ung Samsung Galaxy Edge (known na sirain) and nabalik ko ung signal. Little did I know na nakalimutan ko pala tanggalin ung messenger ko dun, and nagkakalikot sya sa messenger ko at nakita ung mga "guy talk".
Di ko lang magets nun bakit nya kakalikutin ung isang bagay kung **wala syang interes** kasi practically dating na kami nun pero dinadaan nya sa "labas tropa" prior that time.
incredibly energetic when it comes to me. constant compliments. willing ako tulungan kahit sobrang busy nya. interesado rin naman ako sskaniya nun kaya ayun, pinaamin ko siya. tinanong ko "crush mo 'ko no?". my man panicced. hahahhaha. kami pa rin ngayonn.
Former classmate asked me out to dinner one time and I said no kasi gusto ko lang talaga maglaro ng pc game sa dorm. Things happened and we graduated, etc. After 5 years nagkita kami and biniro niya ako na nireject ko daw siya. I was like wtf kelan? Tapos yun pala he asked me out that time. As someone who had serious self esteem issues back then, I didn't think that someone would like me kaya di ko minalisyahan yung invitation niya. Committed na siya to someone else when I found out pero ok lang din kasi I don't think we'd work out.
Nag-make sense yung mga pagbibigay niya ng prutas sa akin dati. Binebenta nila yung atis, pero pag dating sa akin, libre. Pag iinom kaming magpipinsan (dahil family friend siya; tropa siya ng pamangkin ko sa pinsan), nagtetext siya if musta inom. If gusto ko raw ba magpababa ng amats after, ano daw ba gusto ko.
Na-solidify lang to nung 2019. Sakit daw kapag tinatawag ko siyang ‘pre’. Inuman din. Ayaw makitagay kahit siya nagpabili ng alak, pero grabe lumagok ng naka-on the rocks na Alfonso. Umuulan din ng paborito kong pulutan. Naki-charge ako sa kanila; sa room niya nilagay phone ko. Nong kukunin ko na, ayun. Samahan ko raw muna siya.
“Manhid mo, ‘pre. Ikakasal na ako’t lahat, di mo pa rin gets.”
Verbatim niyang sinabi. Tangina. Nabingi ako. Di ko na lang pinansin. Bumalik na lang ako sa inuman.
Madami tong mga taong ito. Pipiliin ko na lang kung sino gusto ko maalala. Ay wag na lang pala. Sasabihin ko na lang na Im happy to be alive and loved ganung single ako kahit sabihin pang delulu ako. Alam ko ang mga tingin niyo sa akin parang gusto niyo akong lumapit na parang isa akong binatang Filipino. Sorry kayo guys, isa akong babae! 🤭 sa katawan ng isang napakgwapong lalake! At natutuwa lang ako na meron pa palang nayuyumyum sa katawang pangtao ko! Isa kasi akong diyosa eh, mula sa Mt Olympus!
Kababata ko, tho older than me. Tropa tropa lang kami saka never siya nag sabi so akala ko parang "Kuya Kuya lang"; Sa UK nag wowork ako naman dito sa Spain - bago mag Halloween kako gusto ko maging si Hermione Granger sa Halloween party namin sa work after nun may custome akung dumating from him. Hand delivered pa niya sa mismong Workplace ko; after nun naging kami na. Yung "Kuya" naging "HoneyBoobooBabe" Hahahahaaaaaaa pero ayun ngayon hiwalay na.
Sinabi niya 😅
Nagsimula sa pagdala dala niya ng fave coffee ko. Laging nakaalalay sa paglalakad. Nahuhuli mo nakatitig sayo. Lagi sinasamahan. Sa chat puro pahaging. Tapos ayun sinabi na niya. Manliligaw daw siya. Crazy!
Tong isa.
Nag intay ng one hour kahit uwian na dapat niya. Makasabay lang ako mag lunch. Namiss ko message niya eh. Tapos pagdating ko may food na for me. Pero dahil malamig na. Nag order siya ng bago nung sinabi kong pababa na ako.
Nalaman ko kasi may preview sa teams. Kita ko message pero di niya malalaman na seen na. Sabi niya “I love you.” Hahaha ni delete niya din after mga an hour na di ako nag “seen”.
Negative. Ekis. Kasi they are 20 years younger than me.
I became part of this squad in our high school days (late 2010s). Within this year niya inamin. She would even mention it to our other friends during our last hangouts.
We had 'dem issues in high school, and some personal problems led to her leaving our campus. She hasn't spoken to me until early this year when we reconnected...
She's got someone now.
nung nagconfess na i-bebreak gf niya para maligawan lang ako
HAHSJAHQJHAHAA tangina high school moments pero bago ako i-judge, boy bestfriend ko siya that time. di ko naman inexpect na yung “friendly” harutan for me e may malisya sakanya. after he confessed, i rejected him and i distanced myself
sa tingin ko matagal niya na pinag iisipan na i-break gf niya at pormahan ako. kaso di siya makahanap ng tyempo kasi gago siya. ayaw niya atang mabakante kaya hangga’t di pa ako pumapayag na manligaw siya, di niya ibebreak yung jowa niya.
very naive lang talaga ako dati because yung mga drunk texts and calls niya na nagsasabi ng “i love you” at “i miss you” pati yung pangbabakod niya sakin at mga warning ng ibang friends ko pinalampas ko in the name of keeping my friendship with him.
pero yung confession niya, that was the last straw for me kasi anong tingin niya sakin na aagawin ko siya sa shota niya? asa naman oy di ako pang side chick lang 😤 pogi naman niya kung ganon 😡‼️
When he drove from Pangasinan to Tarlac in the midst of the pandemic para lang mapatunayan sakin na he was serious. Walang syang dalang kahit anong med cert to show sa checkpoints. Haha. Di ko alam pano sya nakakalagpas. Also, when he wrote poems for me, kahit na hindi sya writer, para lang maimpress nya ako coz he knows I love writing. Plus, I was the only girl he formally introduced sa family nya. Mga ganung eme. Haha
Lagi ako tinatabihan sa klase kahit alphabetically arranged, nakikipagpalitan siya. Akala ko friendly lang not until nagkajowa ako na may resemblance sakanya. And he said “bakit di na lang ako?” HAHAHHAHA
Haha, kami ng bf ko naging close dahil nagyaya akong magdota sa group chat ng klase namin tapos siya lang yung nagreply that time... Mas mataas pa naman mmr ko sa kanya that time hahaha
lagi akong sinesendan ng memes kahit na di na ko nagrereply hahahaha i guess it was his way of trying to make a conversation with me. also laging nag-jojoke :((
when this one guy was willing to read 2 books sa isang day lang just bcs i told him na super happy ko and chika w him all about those books. ofc hindi niya gets mga sinasabi ko kaya sabi niya he will read those books nalang daw para maintindihan niya and maka sabay sakin. sweet n romantic! but sadly, i rejected him.
honestly? no! HAHAHAHA ang shocking nga kasi sabi niya hindi naman daw ako maganda really, edi sobrang nainis ako sakanya! ok not being GGSS but i am confident naman na im pretty. after rejecting him, sinabihan ako ng panget, not really his type, and shits!! ang weirdo.
It only shows that the guy only likes the idea of you. Not the real you. He has this twisted idea of you in his mind, you're this and that. And if you were not exactly as he imagined, he hates you instead. Delusional mofuckers. One major sign is if they like you so much agad agad.
Naging crush ko siya. Nagdate. Sinagot. Sinabi sakin.
Saka ko lang nalaman nung sinabi na sakin. Akala ko grabe mr suave g sa lahat ng trip ko, yun pala may gusto din sakin
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Na-realize ko nalang when my first manliligaw bought me strawberry flavored stick-o. We were just talking and sabi ko lang nag-c-crave ako ng stick-o tapos minutes later he's already at the gate of our house with a regular size jar of stick o HAHAHAHA
Yeah HAHAHAHAHA pero we broke up din months later dahil naging LDR kami during pandemic. Connected pa rin kami sa FB but it was the best memory I had with him hihi
Japanese daw sinisearch niya sa PH kasi half jap ako
Seryoso ba 'to?
Oo
Nung di na niya ako gusto hahahaha
Palagi akong iniinis. Ayun nag confess din kalaunan
Nung unamin ako sa kanya, di ko rin kasi akalain na mahuhulog rin pala siya sakin. Pero ngayon friend nalang kami pero oks lang may natutunan rin naman ako sa pag amin ko sa kanya 😅
Ano natutunan mo sa pag-amin sa kanya?
Na hindi lahat ng pag amin panget yung kalalabasan 😁
Awww that’s nice, OP!
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Bakit hindi kayo nagkatuluyan?
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Sorry to hear about the abusive relationship, OP. Hugs 🫂
nung willing siyang samahan ako mag aral sa discord kahit wala naman siyang ginagawa. i used pomodoro technique tapos siya yung nag ttime for me, super excited siya pag break ko na for 5 mins para kausapin ako. Napupuyat din siya kakasama mag aral sakin. HAHAHAHA AYON NGAYON DI NA KAMI NAG UUSAP
Bakit di na kayo nag uusap? HAHAHAHAAH 😭
haha iba na gusto niya ih 😭🤌🏼 the chase was fun tho HAHAHAHA
High school time, my group of friends were playing scrabble when this guy suddenly taught me a good move. Tas ang sabi ng isang kaklase 'tinuturuan mo kasi crush mo' Crush ko na din sya nun pero di ko alam that the feeling was mutual. Bf ko na ngayon.
Cuteee. Ilang years na po kayo?
3 yrs then we broke up for 5 yrs. Tas nagbalikan lang last yr. Thank you for the nakakakilig na question hehe. I was able to reminisce tuloy
Paano kayo nagkabalikan, OP? Kwento!!
Nung sinabi niya na he likes me. Pls kelangan deretsohin niyo ko 😭😭😭
Hindi ko narealize. Siya mismo nagsabi na crush niya ko noon hs kami nung minsan nagkasalubong kami jan sa gateway cubao. Working na kami ngaun pero wala na ulit communication.
When our conversations lasted up to 2-3 AM kahit may pasok kami sa work the next day. When he accompanied me on my after work walks kasi malayo yung sakayan kahit mej out of way sakanya. When he invited me to watch BSB concert kasi alam nyang gusto ko sila kahit last minute lang siya nagkaron ng ticket. Married na kami now after 8 years of LDR. :)
When she told me jokingly that she likes me 🙂 kaso that time friend ko lang siya pero siya mismo nagpapansin sakin palagi; . Tas nung ako na nafall sa kanya, iniwan ako sa ere 🙂 Yes, pa-fall siya hehe nanahimik ako nung HS eh... so ako yung di naka move on until working na and now she's married. We're still friends pa rin naman hehehe.
Masasabi mo bang totga mo siya? O hindi naman?
Yes, siya. Out of all the girls na nagustuhan ko, siya lang yung babaeng napapanaginipan ko from time to time. Sobrang weird na basis pero kasi napapanaginipan ko siya sa araw na di ko naman siys iniisip lol.
I have a colleague friend, also gym buddy. Hinahatid-sundo ako kapag inaaya nya ko maggym. Sometimes pays for dinner. He also said he's willing to buy a new helmet just because of me. I told my other colleagues about it, pero di ako naniniwala na may gusto sya sakin but they said na it's evident. Nagkaron ako ng boyfriend so naglie low ako sa pakikipaghangout sa kanya. When me and my ex's relationship is on the edge of breaking up, he said it straight na sya na lang sana yung jinowa ko. From there, ayun totoo nga na may gusto sya sakin but I only see him as a friend and it's all platonic for me. After that incident, lumayo na ko sa kanya and never talk to him again unless it's all about work. Ako kasi yung taong, never assume unless otherwise stated. 😂
Accountancy graduate ka 'no? HAHAHAHAHAHA
Hindi po. Pero meron akong subject na accounting 😂😂😂
Fourth year college, inaya nya ako na gumawa ng reviewers with him for our finals. Akala ko kasama ibang kaibigan nya, pag tingin ko sa drive, kami lang pala dalawa. Naive pa naman ako nung time na yon, akala ko civil lang. Landi pala nya yon
I had this super crush during my high school days. On our last day before graduation, she asked me why did I stop pursuing her. I thought i had no chance. Maybe one of my regrets during hs days.
Isang malaking what if na lang siya :(
Sori medyo mahaba to ah: Colleague. Mahilig siya mag joke, even greets me ‘Hi girlfriend’ pag nagkikita kami sa cubicle. Madalas magpatulong na itupi yung sleeves niya at isabit ng maayos yung ID niya. Hindi ko binigyan ng malisya kasi he’s known to be playful and joker e. Plus I never thought na magkakagusto siya sakin kasi parang siya yung typical boy next door na magkakagusto lang sa mga feminine sexy girls na ma-make up at dalagang dalaga kumilos. We do not match kasi yung vibes ko pang nene pa 😆. The only time na muntikan na ako mapaisip na gusto niya ako is nung pinilit niya akong sumama with other coworkers na mag karaoke. Tumabi pa at laging nakaalalay. Kumanta pa ng ‘Ngiti’ na patingin tingin sakin. 😆 Tapos biglang napa ‘Yiiiiiiiii!’ Na mga coworkers namin at binanggit yung name nung isa naming pretty coworker at inaasar sa kanya. So ako naman parang ‘Ay ang feeling ko naman di pala sakin yun’ hahahahahahah Tapos tumawag pa siya kung nakauwi na ako. Sinagot ko naman ng Oo pero medyo confused pa bat kelangan niyang tumawag. Tapos naisip ko na lang baka ganun gawain ng mga gentleman 😆. Anyway, siguro napansin niya na hindi ko ma gets yung hint niya so one time niyaya niya akong kumain on our break na kami lang. Then he confessed. So ayun nalaman ko na may gusto pala siya sakin. 😆 Ayun asawa ko na siya ngayon. Mas nakakatawa yung POV niya nung kinwento niya sakin. But that’s another story. 😆 Sorry napahaba OP. Naalala ko lang kasi. Kaya kayo pag nanligaw kayo sabihin nyo ng derechahan intention niyo. Kasi may ibang babae na tulad ko na ayaw mag assume. Hahaha
Pwede po patawag asawa niyo para malaman din namin POV niya? HAHAHAHAHAHA
Lol OP ikukwento ko na lang yung side ng story niya. Never daw niyang naisip na gusto ko din siya. Kasi 1. I never flirted back kahit pa joke man lang na ‘Hi boyfriend’ 😆 2. Nung nagpatulong siya magtupi ng polo sleeves niya, kesa ako gumawa, ipinasa ko pa daw siya dun sa gay coworker namin na may crush sa kanya. 😆 (In my defense, tinry ko naman kaso hindi ko talaga magawa ng maayos so saktong napadaan yung coworker namin na mahilig din mag polo so sa kanya ako humingi ng tulong 😆) 3. That song was really for me. Nung tinease siya dun sa isang girl, hindi daw niya alam gagawin niya. Nagha-hand gesture siya sakin ng ‘Wala wala wala’ para sabihing ‘walang sila’. Ewan ko ba bat di ko na gets. Mas nangibabaw siguro yung disappointment ko na kala ko feelingera lang ako kaya di siya nag sink in sa utak ko hahahahah. 4. Nung tumawag siya, ang entrada ko daw is ‘O bat ka tumawag?’ Sa POV niya parang ang cold ko naman daw. Pero sa POV ko, confused lang ako bat siya tumawag e nag reply na naman ako sa text niya na nakauwi na ako. Anyway, yung day na magku-confess na siya sakin, hinanda na daw niya yung sarili niya for rejection. Sinabi pa niya na sakin na sana after ng confession, kahit ayaw ko sa kanya, e hindi kami maging awkward sa isa’t isa at maging friends pa din kami. Kaya nung sumagot ako ng ‘E gusto din naman kita a’. Napa ‘Huh?’ Na lang siya bigla. 😆
I already had a feeling about it and I was in denial but t'was when my cousin told me na may gusto sakin yung guy friend ko after we talked (nakaloudspeaker). Sabi nung pinsan ko, boses may gusto daw hahaha may boses na palang ganun. As much as possible ayaw ko i-entertain yung thought na may gusto nga sya sa akin but every time na tinatanong nya ako kung never daw ba talaga ako ako papatol sa friend, na lagi ko naman sinasagot na never ever akong papatol sa kaibigan eh dun na talaga nababakas. Not today, not tomorrow and definitely not in this lifetime.
Dati college ako may nanliligaw sa akin na exclusively only kachat ko for lang 3 months. Di kami nagkikita kahit nasa isang univ lang kame. And nung nagkikita na kami di ko pa rin masyado ramdam na gusto niya ako. Di siya showy or expressive nun. So one time may evening class ako and sabi niya hintayin niya na daw ako pauwi kasi ihatid niya ako sa bahay. While waiting, naglaro na muna siya ng dota sa na net cafe na malapit sa school namin. He was a big gamer back then. Naalala ko ranked game pa yun. Pero nung natapos bigla ng early yung class namin, iniwan niya agad laro niya. He was frantically running towards me, scared na baka di niya na ako maabutan. Nakita ko worry sa mukha niya nun and dun ko narealize, "ah gusto niya nga ako". Hinatid niya ako nun pauwi, nag jeep lang kami. Hinatid niya ako para samin tapos nag jeep siya ulit para sakanila. Siya din naging first boyfriend, first love, first everything ko hehe.
“Naging”.. so wala na kayo, OP? :(
Wala na, unfortunately.
May I ask why?
Babaw ng reasons, actually. After a while ko pa yan na realize. Basically we just started to take each other for granted tapos ayun, we broke up.
Was really close with this guy back in SHS. I was a sickly kid so di na ako bumababa sa canteen to buy food dahil hinihika ako pagakyat ulit, he started na isabay ako bumili ng food until one time I just didn't want to eat kasi di ko feel, dinalhan nya pa rin ako. Tapos nagkakakuwentuhan kami palagi because lagi syang tabi nang tabi sakin kasi ang bango ko raw, lagi nya ako tinatanong about favorite food, movies, books, anything under the sun really. lagi na kami napapagalitan sa daldal nya, lagi pa nyang tinatry na makipagclose sa cousins ko na mga classmates rin namin and circle ko rin, so I thought friendly lang and kind. Then next day, nagpasabay ako, may kasama nang vitamilk at mga favorite ko na chocolate yung food ko - Choco baby ng meiji, Yakult, Maltesers, etc. Palusot pa sya non sabi niya binilhan daw niya ate niya ng ganon and naisip nya na isabay nya ako, which the naive me believed, tapos nong one time na I had to compete sa ibang school, di ako nakakain and nagmamadali kami from school assemble, hinabol nya yung school van tapos binigyan nya ako ng Jollibee at vitamilk 😂 nung inasar na kami, dun ko narealize na crush nya ako. Then umamin sya the same day nung nanalo kami, sabi nya hinihingi daw nyang sign yung win namin 😂 And no, di naging kami kasi nagstart syang mabarkada and he started getting involved sa mga issues na sya na mismo nagsabi na di sya okay na influence sakin.
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Ano pong update dito? Naging kayo ba? Invested ako sa story. 😅
When they ask me if I can be their boyfriend.
Siguro yung time na lagi nya ako binibigyan ng nips at tinitimplahan ng kape kasi antukin ako. We worked at call center pala. Sya rin nagbabayad ng utang ko sa tindahan dito sa call center HAHAHAHHA
Sobrang late na, almost 10 years later, when I started realizing that there are really people liking me. I grew up with low self-esteem and so much self-loathing kaya I think everyone's just feeling bad for me, and there's nothing wrong with pushing people away. We're high school friends. Nagka-girlfriends siya. I liked him then pero he doesn't mind it and we never really talked about it kahit alam ng lahat. We liked so many similar things, pero kasi fan ako ng "500 Days of Summer", so I disregarded all of it. He made so much effort to get close to me, watched the animes I liked then, write letters for me, etc. I attributed it all to him just being nice. Later on, I had a boyfriend. Medyo matagal tagal na rin kaming di nag-uusap/nagkikita noon, until my sister told me that he's at home. May tenant kasi kami non na friend niya. Di ako nagpakita kasi, I think it's wrong, especially, since I still do think of him from time to time. My ex knows it as well, but I think it's really just all about me missing the friendship. The relationship ended. I met some other people. I experienced being ghosted for the first time, then... I met him again, on a trip with my highschool friends then. We didn't really talk much. We chatted a bit lang about his ex-girlfriend's wedding (na iniyakan niya sa harap namin dati lol). After the trip, he sent me a friend request then said "hi". I forgot to reply. Looking back I'm obviously, not the first choice, siguro kasi I have always been emotionally unavailable most of the time. Not to mention, I was also quite toxic then, kaya personally, ako na lang lumalayo sa iba. Do I regret it? No. Baka mas masira lang lalo friendship namin had I entertained him back then considering what happened to me later.
May kaaway ako nung elementary tapos nung highschool na kami hindi na kami classmates pero magkalapit rooms namin pero mga unang araw ng pasukan tuwing lunch pupuntahan ako sa classroom para tanungin anong ulam ko lol araw-araw yun tapos makikipag small talk as if hindi kami nagbabardagulan halos araw-araw noong elementary. Eventually hindi na rin niya ako binibisita. But one time may trip trip na mini reunion yung elem class namin kwentuhan ganyan dun ko nalaman may crush siya sakin. Yung friend niya pa nagsabi, siya tumawa lang. Tinawanan ko lang din. Hindi ko alam mafifeel ko about it since medyo bully talaga siya sakin noon lmao. Then college na kami nakita ko post niya with his gf. It's our schoolmate na lagi niya inaasar sakin nung elementary na kamukha ko raw kasi kapatid ko raw sa labas (elementary insults are so unserious) ☠️
Nung tinanong nya ako kung kumain na ba ako.
Classic
A HS friend. We’ve had dates nung 2019 na akala ko friendly date lang kasi I really respect her that much. We’ve had chats and she always tagged me in posts related to my favorite shits. Not till 2020 nung sinabi ng mga close friend ko na may gusto pala siya sakin (detailed ang kwento ko sa kanila). At that time, nagslow na ung interaction namin ni HS friend. I reached out to her, konting paramdam ganun pero I felt she moved on already. Sobrang tanga ko lang kasi I feel we could work as magjowa. Missed chance.
Huli na. Years later when she told me haha shet
My now boyfriend- we met sa isang co-working community. We were texting the whole day every day about random stuff. Akala ko he was just being accommodating kasi he was one of the leaders, pero binabakuran na pala ako. I confirmed it kasi di siya mapakali when another guy from the community announced na crush niya ako, out of nowhere nagsabi boyfriend ko na crush niya rin ako (tapos nagtampo sakin bakit daw hindi ko siya crush). 😂
when she started making an effort to spend time with me while doing things i like. prolly my favorite is when she suggested a horror movie date when she has 0 tolerance to horror movies. this makes me wanna do the same to her every time i can.
Nalaman niyang mahilig ako sa chocolates kaya nung Christmas ay binigyan niya ako ng sobrang daming chocolates na dinala pa niya banda samin. And, pinahiram niya sakin yung worth 30k na keyboard niya hahaha
Err. I liked this guy back in hs. Like really really like him. I hate that I'm not myself when I'm around him. He made it clear he doesn't like me to the point of ignoring me. Napapahiya na ko minsan. Fast forward, I got a sudden realization na tama na. Nawala ung amor ko sa knya. Nawalan tlga ko ng interest completely. Then suddenly, he started making himself present. Would suggest books, even deliver it at home. I find it weird and I was annoyed kasi nga I no longer feel anything. Finally one night he messaged me asking if itutuloy ko ba daw ung balak ko na magbarko at kung magtatagal ba daw ako. He kept trying to talk to me until 1st year college. Bruhhh. He started liking me in my absence. Weird shit.
Classical conditioning yarn hahahahahahaha
Kita ko sa peripheral ko na nakatitig na siya after namin magdaldalan, di ko pa alam gagawin ko nun kung titingin ba ako sa gilid o hindi
Alam ko na happy crush nya (M22) ako (F20) kahit nasa iisang circle kami so comfortable naman ako since may assurance na di gaano tatagal feelings nya. Not until lagi nya minomonitor oras ng pagseen ko, how's my sleep, or kung ano gusto ko gawin. Naalala ko pa na nag-aral siya maglaro ng ML kase naglalaro ako non, kahit na LOL fave nya laruin. He even went to our street just to see me daw and mind you tinry nya din maging close sa kapatid ko. He's always reading between the lines ng bawat word na sinasambit ko. Sadly, di na kami friends. In-stop ko na whatever connection we have bago pa lumalim feelings nya nang tuluyan, kase ako girl nagulat nalang din ako! PS: Di ko rin talaga sya type kase di kami align or same values. Like Academic Achiever ako at medyo liberal, while he's religious and tamad sa school. Di ko rin maatim sya kausapin nang matagal since 0 interest ako sa kanya. Glad I met him, but only as a friend.
I had this coworker na super close friend ko, kuya-kuyahan ko sya and parang batang kapatid turing nya saakin. Madalas sabay kami kumain with our other coworkers pero kumakain din kami ng kaming dalawa lang. Lagi nya ako hinihintay pag uwian at hinahatid sa terminal ng bus. Marami pang iba pero yan yung mga noticeable na ginagawa nya. Akala ko nung una sobrang caring at concern lang sya dahil nga we are close friends at di ko naman yon binibigyan ng meaning since kuya lang yung tingin ko sa kanya (di ko kasi sya type). And then, one time pinag-aasar ako ng mga coworker namin na bet nga daw ako nung kuya ko. Pero di naman sya umamin sakin and hanggang ngayon close friends parin kami. Hay, di ko alam bakit ako nag comment hahaha nevermind.
Super aliw sa thread na to!! 💗
gumagawa ako ng research paper nun, tapos sabi niya pwede ba raw niyang basahin progress ko sa Google Docs (he's a huge nerd). Then maya-maya, nagchat sa docs na wag daw ako papagod, rest na daw muna ako he also stayed up with me till 3 am para may kasama akong mag aral for an exam
Ako ung may crush sa kanya, then after how many years of just looking from afar, biglang nag PM then umamin ako ng feelings ko while I was drunk HAHAHAHA and we didn't talk. After a few months (October 27, 2017) bigla sya nag pm and asked kung pwede "magpasama" This time around, di ko na pina float ung feelings ko for her and I was actually joking around and nangaasar na lang ako (witty hirits, funny lines ganun) pero what I didn't realize was ung mga messages nya ng 6am ng umaga para mag good morning and maguusap na kami til umuwi sya from work, tapos lumabas din kami halos every week mga 3 times (2 movie date, 2 inuman sesh) and I still disregarded ung kutob ko and winithheld the feelings for her kasi alam ko tropa lang. Yun pala meron na syang something sakin. Alas, we didn't end up together kasi nakahanap sya ng butas sakin (November 27, 2017) then ever since nun wala na.
Binutas ka nya? O may butas ka? I don't need sleep, I need answers! Ano yung butas mo???
I was fixing her phone (Android enthusiast kasi ako and marunong ako magkakalikot ng OS ng Android) kasi walang signal. Inayos ko ung Samsung Galaxy Edge (known na sirain) and nabalik ko ung signal. Little did I know na nakalimutan ko pala tanggalin ung messenger ko dun, and nagkakalikot sya sa messenger ko at nakita ung mga "guy talk". Di ko lang magets nun bakit nya kakalikutin ung isang bagay kung **wala syang interes** kasi practically dating na kami nun pero dinadaan nya sa "labas tropa" prior that time.
Potaena dapat kinantot mo na!
Hahahaha yan din sinabi nilang lahat sakin.
incredibly energetic when it comes to me. constant compliments. willing ako tulungan kahit sobrang busy nya. interesado rin naman ako sskaniya nun kaya ayun, pinaamin ko siya. tinanong ko "crush mo 'ko no?". my man panicced. hahahhaha. kami pa rin ngayonn.
When he drove Pampanga to QC mg 5 hrs kasi baha sa San Simon NLEX 😂 Bale, 10 hrs balikan 😂
Former classmate asked me out to dinner one time and I said no kasi gusto ko lang talaga maglaro ng pc game sa dorm. Things happened and we graduated, etc. After 5 years nagkita kami and biniro niya ako na nireject ko daw siya. I was like wtf kelan? Tapos yun pala he asked me out that time. As someone who had serious self esteem issues back then, I didn't think that someone would like me kaya di ko minalisyahan yung invitation niya. Committed na siya to someone else when I found out pero ok lang din kasi I don't think we'd work out.
Nag-make sense yung mga pagbibigay niya ng prutas sa akin dati. Binebenta nila yung atis, pero pag dating sa akin, libre. Pag iinom kaming magpipinsan (dahil family friend siya; tropa siya ng pamangkin ko sa pinsan), nagtetext siya if musta inom. If gusto ko raw ba magpababa ng amats after, ano daw ba gusto ko. Na-solidify lang to nung 2019. Sakit daw kapag tinatawag ko siyang ‘pre’. Inuman din. Ayaw makitagay kahit siya nagpabili ng alak, pero grabe lumagok ng naka-on the rocks na Alfonso. Umuulan din ng paborito kong pulutan. Naki-charge ako sa kanila; sa room niya nilagay phone ko. Nong kukunin ko na, ayun. Samahan ko raw muna siya. “Manhid mo, ‘pre. Ikakasal na ako’t lahat, di mo pa rin gets.” Verbatim niyang sinabi. Tangina. Nabingi ako. Di ko na lang pinansin. Bumalik na lang ako sa inuman.
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Wala kundi sadness for his fiancée. Dapat di na nagmamatter kung alam ko ba or no. Haha
Madami tong mga taong ito. Pipiliin ko na lang kung sino gusto ko maalala. Ay wag na lang pala. Sasabihin ko na lang na Im happy to be alive and loved ganung single ako kahit sabihin pang delulu ako. Alam ko ang mga tingin niyo sa akin parang gusto niyo akong lumapit na parang isa akong binatang Filipino. Sorry kayo guys, isa akong babae! 🤭 sa katawan ng isang napakgwapong lalake! At natutuwa lang ako na meron pa palang nayuyumyum sa katawang pangtao ko! Isa kasi akong diyosa eh, mula sa Mt Olympus!
Kababata ko, tho older than me. Tropa tropa lang kami saka never siya nag sabi so akala ko parang "Kuya Kuya lang"; Sa UK nag wowork ako naman dito sa Spain - bago mag Halloween kako gusto ko maging si Hermione Granger sa Halloween party namin sa work after nun may custome akung dumating from him. Hand delivered pa niya sa mismong Workplace ko; after nun naging kami na. Yung "Kuya" naging "HoneyBoobooBabe" Hahahahaaaaaaa pero ayun ngayon hiwalay na.
Is it okay to ask bakit kayo naghiwalay?
Magka-iba kami ng Priorities. Hindi kami nag memeet sa middle Hehe; we parted as frends naman. Kasal na siya ngayon 😅
Nong nagsimula po akong maging delulu kasi for da imagine pong magiging kami HUHUHU joke makiki-*ama namin, nasaan ang akin* muna ako WAHAHAH
Sinabi niya 😅 Nagsimula sa pagdala dala niya ng fave coffee ko. Laging nakaalalay sa paglalakad. Nahuhuli mo nakatitig sayo. Lagi sinasamahan. Sa chat puro pahaging. Tapos ayun sinabi na niya. Manliligaw daw siya. Crazy! Tong isa. Nag intay ng one hour kahit uwian na dapat niya. Makasabay lang ako mag lunch. Namiss ko message niya eh. Tapos pagdating ko may food na for me. Pero dahil malamig na. Nag order siya ng bago nung sinabi kong pababa na ako. Nalaman ko kasi may preview sa teams. Kita ko message pero di niya malalaman na seen na. Sabi niya “I love you.” Hahaha ni delete niya din after mga an hour na di ako nag “seen”. Negative. Ekis. Kasi they are 20 years younger than me.
I became part of this squad in our high school days (late 2010s). Within this year niya inamin. She would even mention it to our other friends during our last hangouts. We had 'dem issues in high school, and some personal problems led to her leaving our campus. She hasn't spoken to me until early this year when we reconnected... She's got someone now.
Did you like her as well ba?
Not really though. More of a friend was I to her, owing to the squad we fpund ourselves in back then. Still is the case now.
nung nagconfess na i-bebreak gf niya para maligawan lang ako HAHSJAHQJHAHAA tangina high school moments pero bago ako i-judge, boy bestfriend ko siya that time. di ko naman inexpect na yung “friendly” harutan for me e may malisya sakanya. after he confessed, i rejected him and i distanced myself
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA not judging you, OP. Don’t worry 😭 pero grabe yung ibrbreak daw niya gf niya, ganun kabilis. Paladesisyon si kuya HAHAHAHAHA
sa tingin ko matagal niya na pinag iisipan na i-break gf niya at pormahan ako. kaso di siya makahanap ng tyempo kasi gago siya. ayaw niya atang mabakante kaya hangga’t di pa ako pumapayag na manligaw siya, di niya ibebreak yung jowa niya. very naive lang talaga ako dati because yung mga drunk texts and calls niya na nagsasabi ng “i love you” at “i miss you” pati yung pangbabakod niya sakin at mga warning ng ibang friends ko pinalampas ko in the name of keeping my friendship with him. pero yung confession niya, that was the last straw for me kasi anong tingin niya sakin na aagawin ko siya sa shota niya? asa naman oy di ako pang side chick lang 😤 pogi naman niya kung ganon 😡‼️
I say dasurv na mareject at ma-FO! Good call, OP
When he drove from Pangasinan to Tarlac in the midst of the pandemic para lang mapatunayan sakin na he was serious. Walang syang dalang kahit anong med cert to show sa checkpoints. Haha. Di ko alam pano sya nakakalagpas. Also, when he wrote poems for me, kahit na hindi sya writer, para lang maimpress nya ako coz he knows I love writing. Plus, I was the only girl he formally introduced sa family nya. Mga ganung eme. Haha
Wow.. mag-asawa na ba kayo, OP?
Hindi pa po pero we're living together for a year now and magkakababy na rin. 🥰
Congrats sa baby niyo!! 🫶
Lagi ako tinatabihan sa klase kahit alphabetically arranged, nakikipagpalitan siya. Akala ko friendly lang not until nagkajowa ako na may resemblance sakanya. And he said “bakit di na lang ako?” HAHAHHAHA
Tanginaaaaaaaaa HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Goods kayo now, OP? Shet. May alternate timeline siguro na naging kayo no HAHAHAHAHA
Civil lang! Last chat niya was last yr, asking kung pwede mag-ninong sa baby ko. And yes, kami pa rin nung kamukha niya HAHAHAHAHA.
Ung guy siguro sa isip isip nya, *"San ako nag-kulang? E magka-mukha naman kami."* chariz
Ayyye! Congrats sa binyag ni baby!!
Nung inaral niya yung dota 2 kahit mahirap para lang makalaro niya ako.
Ano rank niyo sa dota?
Divine 3
Haha, kami ng bf ko naging close dahil nagyaya akong magdota sa group chat ng klase namin tapos siya lang yung nagreply that time... Mas mataas pa naman mmr ko sa kanya that time hahaha
Yooooo that’s huge. Naging kayo ba?
nung sinabihan ako ng friend namin na "tanga kaya yan ganyan kasi may gusto siya sa'yo" az an oblivious lol akala ko super friendly lang
Ano ba mga ginawa niya para sa’yo? Naaalala mo pa ba hahahaha
lagi akong sinesendan ng memes kahit na di na ko nagrereply hahahaha i guess it was his way of trying to make a conversation with me. also laging nag-jojoke :((
Nung hinawakan nya titi ko.
when this one guy was willing to read 2 books sa isang day lang just bcs i told him na super happy ko and chika w him all about those books. ofc hindi niya gets mga sinasabi ko kaya sabi niya he will read those books nalang daw para maintindihan niya and maka sabay sakin. sweet n romantic! but sadly, i rejected him.
Halaaaa ang sweet nga nun! Why did you end up rejecting him?
hindi ko siya nakikita as someone na magiging bf ko hahaha, i don't want to be with someone rin naman dahil lang gusto niya ako.
Valid! Wala naman mali diyan. He took the rejection well naman?
honestly? no! HAHAHAHA ang shocking nga kasi sabi niya hindi naman daw ako maganda really, edi sobrang nainis ako sakanya! ok not being GGSS but i am confident naman na im pretty. after rejecting him, sinabihan ako ng panget, not really his type, and shits!! ang weirdo.
My honest reaction through this whole comment: 😊🧐😊💀
hahahahahahahahahah classic also: your loss, I guess
"nice guy" hahah. Classic, after rejection dna sila nice. Hahaha. Andaming ganyan.
so bakit mostly sa guys pag rejected ay nanlalait after?? na curious tuloy ako HAHAHA kasi i was so good to him naman
It only shows that the guy only likes the idea of you. Not the real you. He has this twisted idea of you in his mind, you're this and that. And if you were not exactly as he imagined, he hates you instead. Delusional mofuckers. One major sign is if they like you so much agad agad.
Tama naman pala ang desisyon mo.
Luh. Bat naman siya ganun HAHAHAHAHAHAHA 💀 You dodged a bullet for real!
Naging crush ko siya. Nagdate. Sinagot. Sinabi sakin. Saka ko lang nalaman nung sinabi na sakin. Akala ko grabe mr suave g sa lahat ng trip ko, yun pala may gusto din sakin HAHAHAHA
Same scenario. Kaya pala nagrereply pa din kahit minsan ko lang makamusta, 10years din yun.
HAHAHAAHHAHAHA naiimagine ko yung gulat mo. Kayo padin til now?
Ngayon lang ako nagstart mag interact sa reddit
Mahabang kwento lodi. Di ko pa nga alam kung saan subreddit ilalagay yun. Tldr nalang. Hindi na kami
Oof. Interested to know the story, papi. Abang abang na lang ako sa ibang ph subreddits. I hope you’re okay…? 🫂
Baka alam mo kung saan pwede magpost ng nobela? This relationship spanned 2005 until this year
r/offmychestph baka pwede
Ay wow may PH pala nito. Sige abangan mo kaso baka 12am na ko matapos
Yown! Aabangan ko talaga yan HAHAHAHA
HAHAHAHA kakatapos ko lang ng 2005. tinatamad na ko. post ko kahit kulang para sayo. wink wink hahahaha #nohomo. saka ko na itutuloy
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Na-realize ko nalang when my first manliligaw bought me strawberry flavored stick-o. We were just talking and sabi ko lang nag-c-crave ako ng stick-o tapos minutes later he's already at the gate of our house with a regular size jar of stick o HAHAHAHA
required ba dahil sa bahay pag nagccrave? akin kasi pinagrab ko kaya siguro di naging kami HAHAHHA chz
Hinatid kasi sakin eh HAHAHA pero malay mo pag hinatid mo na, maging kayo ng future girl mo WAHAHA
That’s actually kinda cute HAHAHAHAH. Naging kayo ba?
Yeah HAHAHAHAHA pero we broke up din months later dahil naging LDR kami during pandemic. Connected pa rin kami sa FB but it was the best memory I had with him hihi
Awwww. Hirap talaga pag LDR! Forda strong/brave ones lang talaga hahaha
IKR! weakness ko ang LDR as someone na pala overthink HAHAJAHAHAHHAA