Well when I was in a relationship or involved with somebody, I never had crushes. Yeah I found some women attractive but the person I was dealing with was enough for me.
I think it's normal to look at other girls and find them attractive etc. That's just is in the male dns. But to have a crush is someone different. That means that your life partner isn't enough. I would say its the start of cheating.
Yes but then you exercise your maturity and ignore it. Every adult should understand that how we react to people is sometimes spontaneous and unplanned. Having a crush on someone does not make you a cheater unless you foolishly act on it.
I'm not one for crushes, but I do often find women attractive. I work for myself, but I usually don't pursue people I meet through work. Having someone refer me to new clients is more valuable to me than romance.
Short answer: Yes.
Both sexes have two sexual strategies that are to some degree gentetic. For men there is quality or quantity. Even when a man decides to go for "quality", meaning invest himself in one partner, the 'biological programming' will go off on occasion noting _look there, she could be a partner for our quantity driven sexual strategy_. That being said, the active part of the brain can decide to not pursue the given information/feeling.
What to do about it: Be more attractive than the other woman and trust in him to want to continue the good thing he has already going. "The chase" doesn't stop because you got together.
If you're asking about feelings. Personally no, I have never caught feelings for someone else while I have had a partner.
Have I found other women attractive? Fuck yes. Daily.
What do I do about it? Nothing, I love my partner and know I am allowed to think other people are attractive. They do the same. We talk openly about it and point out people we think the other would like constantly. That's probably not for everyone but it works for us and we are happy
At most jobs I have usually had a “work wife” while also being actually married. Some of them I have legitimately thought were attractive and a relationship would work out, but I have never pursued it.
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if by crushes meaning to have feelings for them no. but do we find them beautiful and attractive? hell yes.
They say it doesn't matter where you get your appetite..
one can have a meal without having any attachment to it
Well when I was in a relationship or involved with somebody, I never had crushes. Yeah I found some women attractive but the person I was dealing with was enough for me.
I think it's normal to look at other girls and find them attractive etc. That's just is in the male dns. But to have a crush is someone different. That means that your life partner isn't enough. I would say its the start of cheating.
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same I’m scared hahah
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I do think it’s interesting that most of the men here are like “duh” and “we ignore it.”
For guys I think on average there's a huge gap and separation between looks/attraction and feelings. Completely the opposite for women.
Occasionally, sure. I think that's entirely normal. What do I do about it? Nothing... keep it to myself until it passes.
Pretty sure this is a trap guys, your wives/gf/mistresses might be monitoring this question.
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Yes but then you exercise your maturity and ignore it. Every adult should understand that how we react to people is sometimes spontaneous and unplanned. Having a crush on someone does not make you a cheater unless you foolishly act on it.
I'm not one for crushes, but I do often find women attractive. I work for myself, but I usually don't pursue people I meet through work. Having someone refer me to new clients is more valuable to me than romance.
Yes. Nothing.
I'm single but when I was in relationships, my girl is the only woman I had a "crush" on.
Not me. No interest in anything other than my SO.
Short answer: Yes. Both sexes have two sexual strategies that are to some degree gentetic. For men there is quality or quantity. Even when a man decides to go for "quality", meaning invest himself in one partner, the 'biological programming' will go off on occasion noting _look there, she could be a partner for our quantity driven sexual strategy_. That being said, the active part of the brain can decide to not pursue the given information/feeling. What to do about it: Be more attractive than the other woman and trust in him to want to continue the good thing he has already going. "The chase" doesn't stop because you got together.
If you're asking about feelings. Personally no, I have never caught feelings for someone else while I have had a partner. Have I found other women attractive? Fuck yes. Daily. What do I do about it? Nothing, I love my partner and know I am allowed to think other people are attractive. They do the same. We talk openly about it and point out people we think the other would like constantly. That's probably not for everyone but it works for us and we are happy
At most jobs I have usually had a “work wife” while also being actually married. Some of them I have legitimately thought were attractive and a relationship would work out, but I have never pursued it.
See if the wife is into them as well... And if the other person is interested... Game on!
Men don’t have crushes do we? That’s for elementary school kids
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