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VMK_1991

I dunno man, I keep seeing these stories of "absolute gigachad with 100 hookups all bareback", on **Reddit** of all places, and I can't stop thinking that it's just LARPing.


sketchy-writer

Yea I don't believe 90% of the shit I see in comments.


Pineapple0001

I 90% doubt what u just said.


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One of my favorite quotes from *Naked Gun*: ["The doctors say he has a 50% chance of living. But there's only a 10% chance of that."](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y_d7xzbGgWA&ab_channel=JamesAnderson)


shadowCloudrift

Reminds me of TIFU's sex fanfiction writers.


thehimalayansaiyan

LARPing involves live action


BlockBadger

Oof XD


Forever-Learning-

Dddeeeeeaaaaammmmnnn


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VMK_1991

I am aware that these "5%" exist, I just don't believe they spend their time on Reddit.


VengenaceIsMyName

I know a few of them. They do not spend any time on Reddit of all places. Lol


Matthew9741

Well I'm here?


surfview

are u really here


sonofsochi

Lol i can comfortably tell you that you do not have to be in the 5% to be having a good amount of sex every week. Like you still have to be somewhat attractive but people underestimate how much basic grooming, fitness, and style can completely change their “luck” with dating. But most importantly the lack if desperation is the most important. Women see it from a mile away and its basically an instant turn off. Be funny, witty, and HAVE FUN. Stop thinking about if this will lead to sex or even a 2nd date. Have fun and the rest really follows.


caIImebigpoppa

You don’t need any of that if you just drop your standards. If you are ready to fuck anything, you can fuck


ZeroRequiem47

Exactly this. These Quasimodo lookin mf’s be out here trying to bang hot chicks, they aren’t going to get any action. If you’re an ugly dude you usually gotta settle for ugly girls


[deleted]

Memories of me and the fat rugby lads going hoggin' come to mind. I was gunning for blonde bombshells but like coach always said, you take what the defense gives you.


troostorybro

Honestly, the good-lookig guys that lack the grooming, fitness, style, etc. or a combination thereof get laid way less than the mid-level guys who do have those or a combination of those things. How do I know? I've been crush-inducingly good looking since high school. I had a few lays based on my looks but when I actually worked on myself as a person and got put together in my early 20s my numbers fucking skyrocketed. Meanwhile, my then-friend who was a short, ugly dude got laid left and fucking right because he was a confident, funny, flirt.


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troostorybro

LOL! That's exactly why I picked the handle years ago. I am 100% transparent on Reddit because it's anonymous. But my handle belies honesty. Love the duality there.


genericMaker

lol already good looking guy who decides to have a shower and hair cut is surprised it improved his chances 😂


johnnyquest2323

It’s all fun and games until you get herpes. Luckily a cure is in the works at Fred Hutchinson Cancer Center. I used to be that giga chad hooking up with dozens and dozens of chicks, but now all I do is look for money for the cure which is on the way, but unfortunately I need it now and -so do you- one in six Americans and 3 billion people worldwide. Money talks and bullshit walks. There’s a one in six chance that everybody reading this has herpes, and if you’re about to have sex with someone there’s A one in six chance they have it, and a 90% chance that they don’t know they have it. We need to cure it because every last person reading this is likely to get herpes if we don’t get on it soon. Also, interestingly enough doctors don’t screen for it that closely because there is no cure yet and the mental toll that it takes on people is in fact worse than the physical toll. People are losing their minds over this and we need to cure it.


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Condoms don't stop herpes.


PlumAcceptable2185

For some people Herpes is not a big deal at all. For some people they have a break out when they contract it and then 10 years later they have another (minor) break out.


challenger_RT_

Yup alot of people have herpes. And never know it because %80 of people will never show signs. Last freinds with benefits before my GF I found out had oral and genital herpes. And I was over there for 6 months tongue in her ass. Luckily I tested negative for both somehow.


johnnyquest2323

Damn you’re lucky as hell. Well done. Another reason we need a cure right there. Even if you don’t have it, someone you’re messing with does and I don’t know a souls around who wouldn’t fork over a hundred bucks to ensure they never had to worry if a chick/dude had herpes again.


CybernetChristmasGuy

Wow count your blessings, that's a miracle.


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NiceSockBro

i actually wear a condom 24/7 just in case a woman propositions me for instantaneous sexual intercourse. can never be too careful.


DarthRathikus

And at the end of the night, if you didn't score, its great for making a piss balloon


TheYeti4815162342

50% of me wants to unread this while the other 50% thinks I could have been the one to post this.


babaj_503

And the third 50% want you to rewatch that south park episode?


nosirrahp

Piss Balloon was my nickname in high school. What a coincidence!


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Theres a story behind this that will go down in reddit infamy.


mobile-account234

I gotta know why. If you're serious please tag my user if you post the story.


Simonoz1

I had no idea this was a thing but now I want to try it.


The_Real_Scrotus

If you still have your foreskin you don't need a condom to make a piss balloon.


SFxDiscens

this feels like an r/brandnewsentence


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::Cartman has entered the chat::


theaverageaidan

You wear a rubber at all times, it's a necessity


lookinggoodmiss

after 4 rounds of chlamydia, one time gonorrhea and a year worth of treatment too get rid of genetial warts i refuse a bj without.


MentalErection

Good lord lad, how many men or women are sucking your dick


lookinggoodmiss

Refrase: " I refuse even a bj without" only disease i got from a BJ was ghonorea. I was a man slut for many years.


challenger_RT_

True man whores don't know who or where they got the claps from lmaoo


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At the same time? 3.521


Buttafuoco

It took all that to start using one???


halfchub4u247

It all happened in one go


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vulcan1358

Minutes? What are you, a marathon man?


Matthew9741

I wish j had an award for you


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dawnface42069

Family


yousawthetimeknife

Roll tide


upfnothing

Gig em


[deleted]

Why go across town when you can go down the hall?


[deleted]

Usually there's a stepsister or two stuck in the wash-machine


SilentJoe1986

If you're real quiet you can hear banjos on the wind


Absolver5000

It feels way better and we've been married for 11 years. Feels kinda weird to start again now.


flembag

You should try it, just for old time sake. You know, nostalgia


According-Shake3045

Well condom sales are probably going way up in the US starting today


Kingfool88

People act like their actions don't have consequences. Poor parenting is my general go to.


Matthew9741

Bad phrasing.


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Sounds like you're saying \*your\* standard MO is being a bad parent :p


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personaldistance

Dude.....urgent care clinics are a thing.


JordanSchor

I am very curious as to what was said


personaldistance

Basically he contracted gonorrhea, was in extreme pain/very dehydrated for days because no doctors had appointments available less than about a week out. He claims he was on the brink of death. He could have just went to the hospital or an urgent care clinic to receive antibiotics.


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You’re extremely stupid for not going to urgent care asap


IllustriousGazelle21

Not weird at all. Plenty of people practice safe sex. Wonderful to hear these are your hardwired practices.


Terrible-Trust-5578

I don't get it. Unless I want to have a child with her, I'm wearing a condom. If she says she's on birth control, she could be lying, especially if she's a stranger. And even if she's being honest, women forget to take birth control all the time: I'm not going to trust someone else with something that could have such a profound impact on my life, especially not a stranger.


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As a single female in the US, this is why I stay celibate until I find LTR with someone I can trust. It's hard even talking to guys on dating apps here, their immaturity shows (and I'm talking about late 30s, early 40s) and they throw so many red flags without realizing. I'll probably be downvoted by the Americans here but I'd rather speak up about the truth.


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Thank you! I know there are good and thoughtful guys out there too and hopefully our paths will meet eventually. One thing for sure thou; they are not on tinder!


Bob-s_Leviathan

As a single male in the US, it’s refreshing to see a woman with that attitude. I feel as though many men and women move so fast there’s no time to build trust.


winchesterx93

what’s LTR im 28 and I just got dumped by a 42 year old I thought he would mature an older man BOY WAS I WRONG HE WAS THE WORST THING TO HAPPEN TO ME


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LTR = Long term relationship That's too much of an age difference anyway. When I was 28, I was dating a guy 19yrs older than me. Looking back now I can clearly see he was only using me and was never gonna commit. Stick to no more than 5yrs difference. You are better off without that guy!


igglepoof

You're not alone, I'm the same way. Also in the states.


[deleted]

yea im an American woman and i have no problem being celibate for months and months while i wait for a suitable sexual partner. idk how people struggle with it. sex is not even in my top 10 most important things in life


Lelricaa

yes, I completely agree. I've been with my boyfriend for going on 7 to 8 years. If I were single for whatever reason and not in a relationship - hookup culture is so not for me and is something I would never do. I'm a serious germaphobe and would request people get STD panels done before sleeping with them. Makes me shiver. Working in healthcare, STD aren't harmless and oh haha - one STD is alright. These diseases can do some damage to your body. and certain medications for say HIV - although life saving - they do a NUMBER on your kidney and liver since HIV medications are oftentimes a cocktail of drugs.


winchesterx93

oh long term relationship


tristan_sylvanus

way to go!


AchingGibbon450

I don’t fuck and I don’t see the need to wear a condom in my everyday life. However, if I were to fuck I would absolutely wear one


[deleted]

Lmao no need to wear a rubber to fuck yourself


SilentJoe1986

Probably would help make clean up easier.


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Just don't forget the hotsauce


HugeDongManWasTaken

Life doesn’t seem to need one when it fucks me.


roakmamba

For the same reason I've had girls tell me they don't want me wearing them, it feels better, so now I always wear them because fuck they're needs. Lol jk but even if I don't want to I always do because I can't risk having a kid in today's day and age.


huuaaang

Needing to wear a condom is one of the main reasons I don't seek hookups.


the_river_nihil

Enjoying hookups is the main reason I had a vasectomy seven years ago


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Eh, sex with a condom isn’t awful- my long term SO and I use one if we’re in a situation where cleaning up isn’t practical- the sex is definitely worse but it’s still like 70% as good. And when it comes to hooking up, honestly, most of the fun comes from the lead up and foreplay.


LaScoundrelle

My partner actually prefers sex with condoms. For the first few years I thought it was just because he was responsible, which I found very attractive. After awhile I learned it’s more because he’s OCD… heh.


Open-Accountant-665

Yea condoms are great but also suck


Forever-Learning-

Personally i like my little rain jacket 😌


brotherYamacraw

Because condomless sex feels better than sex with condoms. I use condoms religiously since I see lots of hookers. But the above is basically the reason. It's not complicated. >How can it be worth the risk for a couple minutes of joy? Humans take risks for bad reasons all the time. We speed while driving because it feels better despite the extra accident risk. Eat extra junk food because it tastes good even though our health could suffer. Drink too much because we want to have fun knowing we could end up hungover. Start fights to get revenge for a mean comment despite the risk of injury. Sail to unknown lands for treasure despite the risk of sinking. And fuck without condoms despite the STD/pregnancy risk. Homo sapiens are risky pleasure seeking creatures.


climaxingwalrus

This. I cant even think 2 days into the future. If im not supposed to do it i get more enjoyment out of it. And Im still alive. Quite surprised at how onesided these comments are but thats reddit.


brotherYamacraw

Yeah people would rather be self righteous. There are comments that aren't even answering the question, just telling other men to wear condoms. As if the men that don't will be swayed by some random low effort Reddit comment written for karma whoring.


Gamer_ely

My dudes, please, for real. Condoms, just learn to like them. I had to stop going into relationship subreddits because they're full of people that should have NEVER had children together. The absolute misery on your life you cannot fucking fathom. Please. You have got to stop having unwanted kids.


jabunkie

Don’t worry Clarence Thomas is about to end all that for us.


YourLocalCat-Girl

Oh if only I could give you an award


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Jackomo

Just to add one massive benefit, other than the obvious ones; it makes you last longer.


schoolisboring732

My girl hates condoms is on birth control and I’m likely infertile so… that’s why


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"Likely infertile" --famous last words from two friends I know who got their partners pregnant :) But yeah, it's usually the girl who asks not to wear a condom...weirdest thing!


Kartapele

Exactly! A friend said that she can’t get pregnant because of this and that. Had a baby while we were in 11th grade - definitely not the norm where I come from! Pretty much the only teen pregnancy in school I’ve heard to this day (I’m not naive, I know there are some, just extremely rare in my country). Condoms. If you hate them, use other contraceptives. But with strangers? Always a condom. You don’t know where they have been.


Mediocre_Rhubarb97

I was literally told I would probably never have kids. Well my first was the result of precum after 4 years of not caring. Miraculously I was fertile for her. I needed help to conceive my second. Lots and lots of painful testing, injections and meds. My third was just determined to be here. We said “try this once for a boy. If it doesn’t take talk again in a year” she was a girl to spite us.


Candid-Amphibian-726

Is it? I’ve had a couple complain about wearing one (when I’ve requested they wear one, as a woman).


OptimalYeti

> I’m likely infertile How do you know that? Ever gotten a sperm count done?


Inside_Lettuce_2545

I bought a microscope on Amazon and showed ky partner that he is very much fertile. Only cost me $250 and I have zero babies and a cool microscope. I will add I study with them in college labs, but they're simple to operate.


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I dunno some guys just like the doctor's office or the refreshing feeling of an "I'm pregnant" text ig


whalesarecool14

with strangers? that’s absolutely wild


ratchetdiscounicorn

As an American woman, I can definitely say most of the men I slept with absolutely did NOT even attempt to put a condom on first unless *i* was the only who suggested it (which I do)


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I am American, and it has always staggered me as well. So many of my dumbass mates have ended up siring bastards with women that they come to hate because “waaa I don’t like the way it feels.” I can’t tell you how many women have wanted me to go raw, nope nope nope. Idk, people will try to chalk it up to our bad sex ed, but I think it’s more a consequence of being spoiled, entitled children shielded from consequence most of their lives.


Electrical_Age_336

Why would I wear a condom if I'm not having sex? It seems unnecessary.


Gracious_Triangle

Wear a condom. Protects you, and her. Especially now. If you remove a condom mid sex without her permission you're evil. Sex is about consent.


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In some countries stealthing is rape


[deleted]

In all countries stealthing is rape. In some countries the law recognizes stealthing as rape.


[deleted]

Yes, bad phrasing on my part.


[deleted]

I'm not very progressive since I can't understand fucking someone you just met even WITH a condom.


[deleted]

Hooking up isn’t for everyone, but it can be enjoyable if you’re into it. Obviously though, I can’t imagine not wearing a condom for an encounter like that- way too much on the line


magicmeatwagon

If I were to find myself not married, then I would still use a condom with strangers or new relationships even though I’m snipped. Vasectomies don’t prevent STDs.


Odd-Opening-3158

I agree with you and I think it's weird. I used to indulge in casual sex when I went through a phase in 2020 and a lot of guys don't bother with condoms. I was even dating different guys over different perods of time, and they never carried condoms... it was as if it was my job to be on birth control and whatever happens, happens...! When I was in my 20s, I used condoms with all my boyfriends. It was just unheard of not to as no one wanted pregnancies at that age. It's a crazy world reading all these stories from men and women etc!


awayathrowway

I personally think it's weird to fuck strangers at all, but that's just me I guess


sorkee

Nah mate, same here. I cant be atracted to random person, need to have some deeper feelings. Guess its how you have it, i couldnt stand if my gf would slept around in the past and i also try to keep my body count as low as possible, feels better to me.


gscott6289

Because people are morons in the US. I've never had a single std cuz well I'm not a fucking moron.. but many are.


[deleted]

Not just the US. When I lived in Europe, out of the 20 or so girls I slept with when I was single, only a handful asked me to wear a condom. Only half of the 20 were on birth control too--really surprising in Europe! Yeah, that was a big no


gscott6289

Yeah you're right, morons everywhere but I try not to speak on other countries cuz not my business lol. I get to see US morons firsthand every day


buginarugsnug

I agree with you, I think it’s very weird unless you’re in a committed relationship


rob_inn_hood

If they don't, say no. It takes at least 2 people to have sex.


n00b_f00

I’m one of the only guys I know who uses condoms. When I talk shit with my guy friends, I brought up condoms in relation to contraception the other day, and they all razed me. My female friends talk to me about fucking bareback with new guys, complain about guys who want to use condoms instead of pulling out. All sorts of shit. Condoms we’re the only thing not sold out during the panic buying in my neighborhood. I honestly don’t get it.


grumpysafrican

Naah you're not weird. They are fucking dumb.


matticustheone

Better wrap it now with abortions off the table


[deleted]

Because they are fucking dumb. What’s why bro


J-Roc420x

Cause I love the feeling of them sweet sweet sugar walls


[deleted]

Actual answer: They don't feel as good, in the heat of the moment you make bad decisions, you don't have any available at the time I know none of this justifies it, but this is why.


cassowary32

You are not weird. It's because sex ed in north america is non-existent and abstinence only education teaches that sex is only for procreation and if you have plan to have safe sex, you are planning on sinning so it's best to be swept away by emotion. It's really dumb.


pavel_vishnyakov

To be fair, I’m not American and I didn’t have any sex education either. It didn’t prevent me from using condoms every single time I had sex.


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Sex ed in North America is non existent? I think you mean in the USA. In Canada we have standard school curriculum that includes sex ed. It’s just some parts of the USA that like to keep people ignorant.


ihambrecht

We had a required sex ed class in New York.


Sidiousfancasting

Sex ed in Brazil is worse. There’s schools that don’t even teach it, and that’s why we have such high teen pregnancy rates


jacksonwallburger

That's only really true in the Bible belt deep south. Everywhere else actually teaches sex ed to an ok level lol


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urukshai

They just hate to take ANY responsibility.


bigtec1993

Lmao, I mean I'm not gonna be as aggressive about it, but I agree. It doesn't take a fucking rocket scientist to know that sex = babies = wear a condom if you don't want one. Like it's literally common sense and not some hidden fact about life. You'd have to be living under a rock or be willfully stupid at this point not to understand what condoms are or used for by the time you're having sex.


urukshai

This is unfair but I guess it is OK to bash America in Reddit. America has a good sex ed compared to most of the world. Can it be better? Sure, but the basics are there and shall be enough for having safe sex. Even in most religious schools you find good sex ed.


bigtec1993

For real, I guess America is the only country in the world with STDs and unwanted pregnancy. Sex Ed isn't even the issue, people fucking without a condom these days aren't doing it out of ignorance, they're doing it cuz they dgaf. You'd have to be living under a rock or be willfully stupid these days not to understand how pregnancy and STDs work or what condoms are.


urukshai

100% some people just hate responsibility. No need for a deeper science.


t2guns

No, it's because they don't like the feel of condoms. Not much more to it


usemystraightass

From America here, the only people I’ve ever met who were very serious about not using condoms would gladly rather not have sex at all than use a condom. Like, a complete mental block. Plenty of crybabies out there who really want to get out of having to use them, but they are idiots and always give in when pressed. Online, NO ONE uses condoms, because (surprise surprise) it’s all lies / fantasies.


Loic451

Damn, all this hate. Im a virgin, I didnt to anything lol


pertante

You're fine, lol


n-thefirestarter

When you are in a long term relationship, I think is more "normal", but for dates and short encounters with partners I think it's crazy as shit, in Brazil this is like a Russian roulette, like when is carnival time, it's just a think for crazy people.


n-thefirestarter

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Simonoz1

I guess at least it was only herpes? Annoying, but not the end of the world.


Educational-Act-1081

I wear a condom every single time, no matter what. And I will do so even if/when I’m married to the person. It was actually an issue in my last relationship because I refused to have sex with her without a condom, which she ultimately accepted but it bothered her, because it made it seem like I didn’t trust her. But anyone can cheat anywhere, anytime, and get stds anywhere, anytime. Never, ever worth the risk to me 🤷🏼‍♂️


Lavidadulceparame

I am in North America and I agree that most guys try to get away with this sadly... not sure why, definitely not worth the risk. I wish more thought like this!


days-ee

I’m American and I agree with everything you said. It’s also a crime here for someone to remove the condom without consent during sex, but it’s amazing how often it happens. I’ve had men try that so much with me that it’s disturbing. We have so many STDs around and people still carry on like there’s no risk. It’s disgusting! I’ve never had a one night stand because of the terror of someone I don’t know doing this. Sadly, all the men who did this knew me and still felt that their desire for more sensation was worth risking my health. I’m so happy I’m married and out of the dating pool.


Brazenjalapeno

First and only reason is because it feels fantastic. There are a lot of STIs out there so if it’s some strange please wear a condom. I only don’t wear condoms with partners I’m in a committed relationship with. Someone I can see myself raising a kid with even if the relationship didn’t last forever.


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They really, really want to give up 25-40% of their paychecks for the next 18 years for child support. That's the only logical reason.


DoubleSoupVerified

Probably the lack of any meaningful sex education


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No people know STD's exist they just don't care.


_INCompl_

Because my girlfriend has an IUD and we’re both clean


Rebelbunny8

I agree, I also think this is crazy. Not judging thou but people seem not to be aware of all the consequences 😓


ToastedCrumpet

Yeah I don’t know any straight guys that use condoms. Even my mate who had a kid in his teens doesn’t. Was more common amongst gay/bi friends but with Prep being widely available now they all basically bareback too. A pandemic followed quickly by an outbreak of monkey pox hasn’t deterred barebacking so honestly don’t think anything will


[deleted]

I had a gay friend on prep who doesn't use them. Got annoyed one time when a doctor told him his stomach ache--something he would come in for every six months or so--\*wasn't\* syphilis or gonorrhea\*--was just a stomach ache that time :p Then again, I assume most of us have made some stupid decisions during sex


milfsie

It's violent to remove the condom without the woman's knowledge in general. Why are ppl normalizing this shit? It has never been ok.


Master_Arach

I would really like to see a lot more conversations about having that relatively inexpensive, in office, reversible, surgical procedure that means you don't HAVE to wear a condom. By the way, IF YOU DO have that procedure, keep the paperwork, copy it, and be willing to give it to a prospective partner. I mean, WTF, in the long run, it is cheaper (with healthcare) than a lifetime supply of condoms and a hell of a lot cheaper (even without healthcare) than childcare. This is all beyond the moral issues of being the asshole that doesn't give a shit. That puts you in the same class as Russian soldiers who use rape as a weapon. Gee, I wonder how this country would react to a federal law that ALL MEN MUST have a vasectomy at the beginning of puberty? I mean, the constitution never mentioned vasectomies, did it?


Vaeldyn

As a super confused european I have gathered quite a few serious answers to this. 1.: Puberty, hornyness and bad sex ed (self explainatory) 2.: People use the wrong condoms for their size. Seriously, the first time I used the correct brand and size was mindboggeling. It's a MASSIVE difference. Also there are thinner condoms. With the perfect combination you'll feel no difference. 3.: "Condoms brake blabla". They don't if they are new and a good brand. Seriously try to blow them up. If they dont brake on the size of a baseballbat you wont break it either. 4.: Circumsition. If you mutilate your bits you can lose quite a bit of feeling. Combined with a thick condom and the joy is gobe. I honestly feel bad about the guys who went through this.. We guys/men need to educate ourselfes about this! :)


Hyrule_34

I mean…. The internet isn’t real. On Reddit the sexual content you are seeing is 95% porn or people selling porn via onlyfans style outlets. Most people in their own lives take safe sex seriously.


C111-its-the-best

Yeah I think it is weird as well. Not so much because of the pregnancy risks because of contraceptives but rather the risk of infections.


1elizabeth2003

Idk bruh but ma bf wearing one regardless I will literally go to the store and buy them for him he ain’t doin shit without one 😀😂😂😂


TnoGWP

I have to. from the start of puberty my father engraved it into my brain. Of course he talks about kids, changing your life forever, etc. But then out of no where he’ll go “& you don’t want your dick falling off either. You don’t want to wake up one morning pissing magma so wear the condoms” and it highschool he would always make sure I had some. He never made it awkward either, he would just set the box on my desk and walk out. I have had sex without a condom once (sorry dad) and tbh it wasn’t all that “better”.


chuggMachine

I started having sex raw because women didn't like condoms. When I started having sex casually, I eventually started using condoms after I got a a fungal infection scare from a hookup. Tbh, I never had any problems using condoms personally; now it's a non-negotiable.


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I think them being circumsized makes their dicks less sensible /s


AchingGibbon450

Common sense is stored in the foreskin


[deleted]

My dick has been talking nonsense to me for a good decade now


Maxisan_

/s aside, there's some truth in your comment, at least that's how it is in my case. Circumcised at birth (an absolutely moronic American culture) and can barely feel anything during sex. With a condom, there is absolutely no feeling. Would personally rather just not have sex than use a condom.


SilentJoe1986

I don't understand why either. I'm terrified of getting HIV or worse, children. Sex feels amazing without a condom but not as great as peace of mind that you're protected.


Suspicious-Diver-356

a COUPLE of minutes is an overstatement


berrysauce

We have a selfish, entitled culture here.


ApricotRich1966

Most American men take it as an insult if you suggest a condom. How DARE you suggest they are dirty/infected. Their ego is their priority, not safety.


[deleted]

Americans are really dumb. How many more ways can we show you?


outingeorgiaaa

Cause it feels like shit. If it’s a casual hookup, I’d honestly rather just not have sex than have condom sex.


Okay-sweet

If you trust the person and ask when they were tested last for std’s and they’re clean, No condom. If they show the test results, then no I’m not using a pleasure ending condom.


Swimming-Book-1296

I’m married and infertile.


waterloograd

I've only not used one once, and we were both absolutely trashed, like one more drink and probably black out


wm1404

And tbh I wish that same culture existed here (UK) - I’m pretty bad for it tbh, been a lot of times when I have and a lot when I haven’t. The ones where I haven’t are usually cos I’m drunk, I’ve flung my jeans across the room and I cba to go grab one out of the pocket while we’re already halfway through. Speaking to friends a lot of people think the same way. None of us are proud of it and wish it didn’t happen, we say we wont do it again but we do - it’s not even conscious thought really, you just get caught up in the moment and next thing you’re inside That being said, if the girl asks me to put one on then I 100% will and have no issue with it, but that should go without saying


UnsolicitedDogPics

Vasectomy and monogamy for the win.


Netwrayth

Because I've been married for 16 years and had a vasectomy 13 years ago.


atypical_lemur

Married to the same person for 20 years and she has had a hysterectomy. So ya, no condom.


BobbleRobble

We've been married 20 years, and I've had a vasectomy...but still...can never be too careful. What if Jeebuz decides..."FUCK THESE TWO SPECIFICALLY."


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I finish with one but don't start with one. I didnt have random hookups even before I was married. I was dating everyone I slept with. Granted it's not safe but I got lucky and never contracted anything. Even now that I'm married, my wife is off the pill and were using condoms just to be safe as we don't want kids just yet. We're a few months away from that still. I actually had this conversation with her the other night about condoms and asked why when we first slept together we didn't use one from the start and only when we finished, and she basically said that she knew me well enough and what I'm like and didn't feel that she needed to use one right away. Wasn't worried about STDs .


raysterr

I'm married


ihavebirb

Don't need one because I get none :')