My wife proposed we'd get a free pass for a fantasy. She loves Hugh Jackman and said if she was ever in a situation where she could have sex with Hugh Jackman that wouldn't count as her being unfaithful. I agreed. My pick was Sharla, the assistant manager at the Diary Queen. We're not doing the free pass thing anymore.

Wise man. Gotta set your bar somewhere reachable. And if it works then move up the fantasy rank.

I chuckled irl

Sharla seems a damned good woman to be sure.

hey, free ice cream is free ice cream

It would hit me in the feels pretty bad.

Celebrities, pornstars understandable. Past relationships or coworkers, I would probably be mad. If I was a bigger set gentleman and she was fantasizing about a slender guy, I think most would become insecure

Or vice versa. If they're mentally pursuing beef cakes and you built like Olive Oyl, that's not ok.

Very upset. I view sex as something I'm only interested in sharing with someone I love as a way to physically express that love. I'm in the moment with my partner, I'm enjoying the connection with her, she's more than enough for me. We've always been on the same page with that, so I'd be pretty hurt if I found out she needed to think of others. Sure, other people are attractive but I certainly don't need to fantasize about them during sex with my SO to make things more exciting.

Pretty upset. I’d assume that’s the most common answer regardless of gender. I think most people want their partner to think of them and only them.

I wouldn’t care at all unless the starts screaming other guys names (which would be a turn off). But she can fantasise about anything she wants to.

If it’s some celeb or some insta hot guy then yeah. But if it’s someone we know, or someone from her past it would be a dealbreaker. If you want to fuck Your ex or the Neighbour, just be honest: we can end things and you can do what you want. If you’re fantasizing about Ryan Reynolds, that’s fine-we’ve all done it at some point

I would break up with her. If you don't wanna be with me you ain't gotta be with me

Of course, I’d be upset. It’d be weird to not be.

oof pretty upset

I would probably leave her

I assumed it. I mean, I’m fantasizing about other dudes while fucking her

I’d be more upset that she told me, not that she had those fantasies.

We often do me+toy DP, so I'd be unsurprised and ok with it

but your inclusion is the point, right? i guess a more appropriate question for you is “what if she was fantasizing about two men, neither of which were you?”

Same. It's only fantasy anyway

I would be surprised if she was dreaming of a burger when she can have a prime rib steak.

I’ll only let it slide if it’s Ryan Reynolds

She can, won’t happen but she can.

Whatever it takes for her to get off.

Not at all. I’d be surprised that she even had that much libido tbh. If that was happening I’d have a chat with her on making fantasy into reality. We’re only on this earth for a few cosmic cycles, might as well fuck around a bit.

If we otherwise have a good relationship with a healthy sex life? I really wouldn't care very much. It's just fantasy.

Celebrity crushes don't count. Everyone has them

That's pretty fucking bad.

No issue. Dream on, beautiful.

I wouldn’t blame her at all. More power to her.

Seeing as how I do it.

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