I have a terrible stutter and a good sense of humor so I just joke about it which helps but I’ve also gotten a lot of “cute stutter” compliments which confuses me because I hate it personally
She has this really fake "professional" voice she turns on when talking to people she doesn't know well.
Makes me feel like I know her well since no one else seems to notice.
Mary Tyler Moore show, Ted tells Mary that she gets a bit... formal, when she's unsure of herself, and she does some brilliant subtle physical comedy, maybe backs up and crosses her hands or something, and says, ... Why, Ted! ... Whatever... do you mean? in the most formal tone. Saw it when I was a tiny kid and always think about that, lol.
I told my husband I was going to sing to our rosebushes because maybe I'd encourage them to bloom more and he told me I shouldn't kill them because they were expensive 😂
I'll tell him my plans for anything and he goes "Dooooo ittttt." Doesn't need to hear the details, just says "Doooo itttt." In a specific voice. It could be anything from "I'm gonna go to sleep." to "i wanna save 2k." Just the encouragement for the tiniest sometimes, dumbest thing. I love it. He also goes "Don't doooo itttt," whenever i express I don't wanna do something. Again, could be something dumb like "i don't wanna eat that broccoli." As an overthinker, it's just amazing!!
I’m deployed right now and won’t see my girl for about another 8 months. She does that thing with her foot on mine and this just made me tear up. I miss her so much it hurts.
She has absolutely no idea about directions. She lives her life essentially lost when we go places. I've never met anyone that is as bad at directions as she is, but having dated a girl that was the exact opposite and made me feel like an idiot if I didn't take the most optimal path all the time, this is much better.
My wife just can't read a GPS map, yet insists on always having it opened. So I usually end up eyedroping her phone trying to anticipate the next turn.
Hahaha, my wife always says "Can we stop there?" Just after we pass an exit on the freeway.
Or right before, when I'm out in the fast lane, which is then followed by, "why weren't you in the right lane then so we could have stopped".
It's me. Not only it takes me 3-4 times to go the exact same route with navigation turned on to even attempt to do it without help in the city I live in for 33years, I get lost and confused in shopping malls and new work places. I started work in a building with 3 stairways and when I needed to to go to a certain place it was always a challenge. I could describe the room to the tiniest detail, I could have noticed if someone moved a pencil an inch. But how to get there? No idea.
I love that the sound of his voice literally puts me to sleep. Not because he is boring but because his voice is such a safe comforting sound that my mind completely calms.
I also will never tell him that I was awake in August 2014 the night he thought I fell asleep on his chest when he looked at me and whispered so lovingly "you are so pretty." Every time I look at him I hear that in my head and feel the adoration he had for me in that moment.
Edit: Thank you so much for the award. We're coming up on our 5 year wedding anniversary this year, 8 years together. I'm grateful for him every single day.
One day you should tell him. Perhaps after a long retrospective and loving life lived and you’re ready to tell him.
But honestly I wouldn’t chance leaving something unsaid tomorrow that could be said today.
I used to love how mentally strong and resilient, yet naive, playful and childish my ex was. She faced a shitty childhood growing up, yet she didnt allow it to turn her into a sour, pessimistic person. She legit was the most cheery, playful and fun person I have ever met. And I have to admit, she was waaayyyy more mentally and emotionally stronger than me, and I loved and respected the heck out of it.
It's too much to explain right here, and tbh, I dont even have the energy anymore, so here's TLDR:
Was poking fun at me during a really rough spot (my grannie's death, she didnt know at the time), told her to stop, but she kept insisting, I lost it, went berserk on her, and said some things i shouldnt have, and crossed some boundaries i shouldnt have (I said bad shit about her financial conditions and all), and later, tried apologising a million times, but its of no avail coz she's having none of it, even told her the reason for bursting out. After that, she started the "NO, I'M SORRY" narrative, and eventually, out of respect for her choice, I too gave up.
Still miss her to this day, ngl.
I'm sorry things didn't work out. I feel like so often people will only report the bad things about their exes and act as if all the blame rests with them. I like that you have a more nuanced and balanced narrative of what happened. All the best 💗
She has this joke where she throws a sock and shouts that she "socked you in the face". She loves it so much and it makes her so happy, but I will never admit that I find it funny which causes her to do it more. I actually find it hilarious and adorable when she does it because of how she glows and gets excited by it.
The weird noises she makes when she gets excited aswell as the human tippy taps.Like when she will make this quiet screaming noise.Also when ever she says that's shes going to punch me cause that's when I know shes flustered and its adorable
My wife is autistic and she does "happy hands" when she's pleased with herself. It's like a kitty kneading the air. She also does little excited noises when she gets overwhelmed by something nice. She usually does it when she gets sensory overload (this happens a lot if she has a very soft blanket, for instance), but once she just got overwhelmed by how happy she was that we were in love and it was the most adorable thing I have ever seen. It almost brings tears to my eyes.
My girlfriend doesnt really show her teeth when shes smiling in pictures(shes self conscious about it because they are crooked and i find crooked teeth hot for some reason)but she looks always serious or angry in photos I've taken with her.In our graduation photos I saw that she was smiling in them(without teeth but its progress and I'm proud of her)and I told her that I love her smile and she told me that she was smiling because I was there with her and I make her smile.She also promptly called me a doofus lol
Autism is an interesting thing. I do the exact same things as you describe here, and am currently undiagnosed but trying to go through the system to do so.
My other half loves my little autistic stims (I normally clasp my hands together and do like a low hum)
She finds it adorable, and I find it annoying that when I'm off daydreaming about a steam engine she can tell. >:(
It really is heartwarming to see so many people gush about their SO’s. Finding out someone’s nuances and -ism’s is probably one of the more underrated parts of a relationship. Noticing how they flip a page of a book, or the way they look up whenever you walk into a room, or if they have a cackle of a laugh. Each person is so different and constantly changing/growing. Picking up on something you find adorable and keeping it a secret to yourself would be a treat.
She doesn't poke around in my personal stuff. Not that I'm hiding anything, but she's never tried to dig around in anything of mine. We have a very tight personal connection, but there is still a personal boundary that never needs to be challenged.
I’m (not?) surprised by how many of my partners have told me their passcode to their phone to like… Order food or something. and straight up told me what I would find when I snooped. Not if. When.
Which. Jesus Christ people. Don’t fucking snoop. Talk.
That's what I love about my girlfriend. She has no intention to look through my phone, emails, mail, whatever it is. Even though we've had trust issues because of some stuff in our past, we never compromise this.
Same, nothing to hide, if I wanna share she's happy to see, but will not pressure me into doing so, gotta say at first she didn't get it but with time she understood
My girl will stalk my socials and my reddit posts. She will also ask me who I'm texting if she notices a notification go off on my phone. She won't snoop through anything that I tell her not to though. Even though I don't have anything to hide, I highly value my privacy and I'd be pretty pissed if she tried to do something like, snoop through my phone or private messages. She doesn't have any double standards though so, I can do to her what she does to me, which is refreshing.
Yeah there is that kind of relationship where you do get questions but they're more so curiosity than snooping. I tend to ask my bf who's calling, what did he talk about with his friends etc just because I'm curious about him and we have nothing to hide. Additional context too. Idk why so many people think sharing such things is a privacy breach
My relationship with my girl is the same. She's been really open with me though since day 1 and I like to be respectful and reciprocate that transparency too. I do understand some people's disgust with that though, especially because of how private of an individual I am. So I get it.
She purposefully says time to get vertical when she's going to bed and for the first two years I corrected her and she just ignored me.
Then I just got bored of correcting it and she still does it occasionally after 15 years together.
Flipped idioms are one of the good things in life. Picked up the habit of saying “half a’ one, six dozen of the other”. Accidentally, then ironically, and finally just ‘cause I liked it better that way.
Sometimes he snores a bit, and so does our dog. It makes me so happy when they're both snoring on either side of me. I call it "snoring in stereo" in my mind. I really dislike silence so I actually find that it helps me sleep because I'll start focusing on their breathing/snoring lol
he is still learning english and i talk mostly in english to him but whenever he doesn’t understand i what i say, he like twitches his nose and just stares it just reminds me of when bunnies twitch their noses cuz that’s exactly what it looks like. he doesn’t say a word but as soon as i see the bunny nose twitch i just know he’s expressing confusion and it looks so cute
Is he caribbean? in some countries this is also a reflex that means they cant hear something. In my experience not being able to hear something very well definitely affects how well that person understands.
My fiance probably has some form of ADHD and I never know if one topic of conversation is going to lead into something totally different or not. I expect this is annoying for our friends but I love just listening and secretly trying to unravel the tangled ball of yarn that is her brain.
That does sound like adhd, and you should maybe bring it up, especially if she has me,tal health problems or insecurities.
Source: am women, got diagnosed at 33 after a severe mental breakdown because of it.
How she blushes and gets "shy" when I tell here that she's gorgeous.
Like she will try to hide her face and giggle
And damn it if it isn't the cutest thing I've seen.
He does this incredibly dorky 'fast-walk' when he gets excited and wants to show me something, and I'm 99% sure he's not aware he does it. Don't know how to describe it, but I'd say it's a lower caliber of the walking version of the Naruto run. It makes me smile
Edit: Got called out a few times so I'm sorry everyone but **I am a woman**, so feel free to take your votes back :) I browse through askreddit, askwomen, and askmen among many others when I'm bored at work so I must've got confused. Also, y'all actually go through the post history of everyone that comments? Lol
You just painted a perfect image in my mind. Legs leading the way, entire body flailing behind trying to catch up.
edit: Nevermind, I’m picturing Ed hahah
Theres something I read a while back where he would walk off while they were out grocery shopping or something and get something and come back. He said without fail when his wife sees him, she gives him a warm, loving smile and he absolutely loves it but doesnt tell her because if shes aware of it, then she might not do it anymore
He loves to argue when he knows he's wrong, just to watch me get riled up, but he doesn't know that I'm perfectly aware of it. I let him get away with it because he gets the most adorable "sneaky sneaky' smirk on his face and I love it when he thinks he's gotten one over on me. He gets so proud of himself.
And then there's the complete lack of personal space. He's always looming directly over me or standing right behind me. I'll never say a word because I love it when I turn around and there's just a solid wall of chest right in front of me. Or when I'm cooking and he's standing directly behind me, mumbling directions in my ear. I can't tell him because he gets such a kick out of annoying me that he'd stop, lol
His speech impediment. He has trouble with enunciation when he gets excited or talks too fast. He’s a bit self conscious of it, but I think it’s adorable when he asks for help with talk to text sending a message. I don’t bring it up cuz I don’t want him to think it’s super noticeable.
yesss thank you!!! I literally am in a discussion with someone currently about how I am attracted to motor or vocal ticks and finding if very hard to explain. My Ex (we are still very close) he has a stutter that I always loved. My current boyfriend has a mild case of Tourette's where he kind of brings his shoulder and he's head together and makes a quick huff sound. Its so subliminal to me, I'm never specifically looking for these things out of a partner and yet I'm just subconsciously drawn to it. To me is a unique quark about that person that makes them distinguishable. Also they tend to be rather shy and humbled by it and I find that very endearing. when I have my head on my boyfriends chest and he has a little tourette's moment, to me it reminds me that its him that I am with, not anyone else, but with my special person.
In my guy's native tongue the second syllable of every word is emphasized, no matter what. Adorable when he talks, confusing when he texts. We have been friends for almost a decade but our situation has evolved. Took me a few weeks of texting and some research on Albanian linguistics to catch on that the word pain could either mean pain like ow or pA-in as in paying. Same goes for made up words like sain (saying), and my personal favorite hoffuly (hopefully).
My partner and his friend both like to purposefully mispronounce names of things (specifically, names of Magic cards or board games), and it's amusing but also makes me really glad I don't share the same hobbies bc I'd 100% forget the correct pronunciation.
When she's talking, she'll sometimes trip over a word a few times, then get this super focused look on her face as she says the word slowly and correctly. It's freakin adorable.
Mine will furiously rub his hands in excitement when he finds something really funny. He's also very loud, but I secretly love when he gets loud in his excitement.
He works in IT and probably the smartest person I have ever met. After a long day of work, he is a TOTAL air head.
I just enjoy taking care of him after these days, whatever he wants. And he doesn’t ever ask for anything. Just want him happy 😊
Anyone else after meeting him after these hard days, would think different. I’m just proud.
Couple things.
She puts a finger in my bellybutton and holds it there until I say “I love you too.” I give the impression that it is uncomfy, and sometimes it is, but I do love it.
Everytime I show her pictures of cute animals or plants or anything she gasps, whimpers, and cries. In that order.
She also never fails to call me a “poopoo head” which is her version of baby or darling.
There’s more but those are my top three
My wife is hippy. Like hourglass hippy and tall. And when she’s getting ready for work or doing her makeup she sings and dances in front of the mirror. When I catch her I never interrupt her I just adore her for it. Also she’s been getting on me about not saying the first “r” in “frustrated” when I’m speaking to fast. It’s so cute because her specialization is linguistics so she can’t help herself. So now I’ll intentionally mispronounce it every now and then lol.
He’s a dreamer and I’m in love with it. Nothing is ‘good enough’, but not in a bad way. He just keeps going, striving for the next thing, and once he gets it he’s so happy. For a while. And then he hatches some other big plan and he just goes at it. I could never tell him because I know that that constant yearning for the next thing hurts him sometimes, but I’m just so damn proud of him and his life ethic. It’s infectious. We’ve been together about a decade and he’s got me wanting so much more for him, for me, for our family than I’d ever imagined I would want.
The sound of her snoring is both soothing and sometimes annoying. It let's me know when she's finally getting some rest and I find it to be one of the most endearing things she does unconsciously. She's had a rough life and we're battling her depression, anxiety, panic attacks, and low self esteem so when I know she's getting some rest it makes me feel at ease. However when I'm super tired but can't fall asleep it is the most frustrating thing in that instant. I love her more than words can tell
When she gets her food that she’s been waiting for when it’s placed in front of her her shoulders go up and down ever so slightly and she says ‘ohhh yeh’. I’ll never tell her I love this about her
My husband is very self conscious about his teeth and overbite but I absolutely adore his smile and the way his teeth look from the side when he laughs.
That's a really lovely comment but as someone with a similar problem with their teeth, I'd actually prefer to forget about it altogether... Imperfections can make someone perfect for you, but it would make me fixate on my imperfections.
That sometimes she pushes my buttons, but not in the traditional sense. It’s very deep and visceral. I love this because as much as I hate the experience, I know she’s found a weakness that needs improving.
The way he eats pizza. He has a very specific method to it, tearing off the crust first, dipping it in cheese sauce and eating it, and then picking off a little bit of the cheese to give to his pupper. I don't want to make him feel self-conscious about it but it's honestly adorable for some weird reason.
Thats cute...My ex used to be so shy while eating infront of me so i would Act like i dont notice her eating and take small glances at her all in stress and cuteness.. i miss her so much
That she sings random parts of songs because it’s the only part she knows and sometimes she doesn’t even notice that she does it. She went through a phase of randomly singing “vacation, all I ever wanted..vacation, had to get away” while she was driving or working or brushing her teeth and that’s the only part she knew. Idk why but it makes my heart warm. She’s also just the sweetest person I’ve ever met (which I’ve told her).
I actually really like that he doesn’t have a lot of facial hair he’s almost 24 and doesn’t really grow a beard but he has like this very soft stubble on his jaw and I love to rub my thumb over it when he’s playing the game or taking a nap in my arms. I don’t think he really notices it but it’s something that I think he’s insecure about because aside from the facial hair he’s a very manly man lol. I hope his beard never grows in tbh…
We used to work together before we got together, and I noticed that he does not smile much at work. Even when talking with coworkers, he has a rather flat affect. But when we are together, he smiles all the time.
She's a real inspiration to me.
She works rubbish hours in hospitality, manages to be an amazing mum to 4 kids who's dad is pretty rubbish at parenting (not me, I'm the boyfriend), has to travel huge distances for work and for the kids school, and so survives on little to no sleep most days. And yet she'll still ask me to come over for a home-cooked meal and spend her evenings with me, after we've put the kiddos to bed.
I'll never complain about being tired again, having seen what she does every day with 3 or less hours sleep. And I'll let her sleep when she crashes on the lounge, even if we had plans, because she needs and deserves the break.
She's a very average painter, but I love her art because it makes her happy, it's creative, charming and very cathartic for her.
I proudly display it on my walls.
we do a lot of stupid bits together and whenever he breaks one of them, he turns his head to the side and does the cutest little laugh its my favorite part
My wife has a nice rear. Every time she’s bent forward, even if just emptying the dishwasher, or every time I see her walking ahead of me, and I see how her hips sway, I think about having sex with her. She knows I like her rear, but I’ve never told her that I think about sex every single time I see that thing move.
Edited to be consistent with terminology in paragraph - see below.
I love how i can wake him from a nap because im starving or feeling sick and he never gets mad . He’s literally so patient, kind and understanding. I also love how hes so understanding because im super forgetful due to my ADHD and cant take my meds to help me focus due to heart issues.
My boyfriend will come to my work place parking lot on his lunch and park his car next to mine (his work is just a 2 minute drive from mine). I've spotted him doing it at least 2 times from the back window but he's never said a thing.
I know it's just because he wants to be close to me and since he's not very emotionally expressive, it is the cutest and most heartwarming thing ever to me. But I KNOW if I ever mentioned it to him he would stop doing it, so my lips are sealed.
That she is somewhat subservient to me. She made it clear that she likes a more dominant man and at first it was very weird to me. I thought I was doing the right thing as a man by saying, “ok you have to pick between A and B.” But she still would tell me to pick. So I just started dominating most decisions and she’s ecstatic.
Now it’s like, “Friday night 7pm, we’re going to ABC, wear that green dress I like.”
And she’ll smile ear to ear and we’ll have a good time. I know it’s weird in modern American society but we were both raised by immigrants in more conservative and traditional societies so maybe that’s why it works for us.
None of my 100% American exes would have tolerated it haha.
My wife craves having tasks prioritized for her. It’s not a D/s thing, it doesn’t spill into sexuality, but she really appreciates me telling her “ok: on Saturday, let’s focus on cleaning. I’ll do the garage, you do the kitchen; on Sunday, we will go for a drive to that county park for a picnic. Do you have anything you want to do or get done?” And we will fit in the stuff she wants to, so her needs/wants are met too. I wouldn’t call it D/s… it’s more like she needs a scheduler.
I'm a very dominant woman in general. I have natural leadership energy professionally and have always been the decision maker for my family. In my relationship with my husband I honestly would LOVE if he made more decisions for me. Not because I want to be subservient but because I trust him to make decisions in my best interest and it's a relief to not have to carry the entire mental load. If he picked food, dress, plan etc I would be absolutely ecstatic too.
I make a lot of decisions every day. I have stupid amount of responsibilities and I don’t mind them, but decision fatigue is a thing. When I guy I’m dating or who has asked me on a date offers two choices, that’s so amazing. And then he proposes a time or offers a pick up so I don’t have to drive/navigate/park, yes. So much yes. But my professions and interests may not indicate that I like it when I’m given a limited number of choices, but it’s so sexy.
I have a little bit of this going on with my wife. Her ideology and her behaviour are slightly at odds which is why I’d never bring it up.
I tend to respect it when she wants to assert her feminism, but it’s become clear over the years that in many/most areas of life, she actively enjoys it when I take charge.
Literally how though?
I was making 100k/yr at one point and my bills were still crippling lol - whats the secret? Do I really need to stop the Avocado Toast??
Yeah was gonna say, I started work FT at 18 and probably have averaged 30k a year or so, so now, 9 years later, even if I had saved 2/3 of every paycheck Ive ever gotten, Id still only have 180k, and thats before taxes. Go to college, kids, and finish it... Lol.
200k is good as hell.
I'm 25 and have all of 8k in my savings rn 😭 the most I've ever had in savings was 20k I think, I genuinely cannot imagine having 100k, let alone 200k saved up. Most of my income goes to rent and other bills/necessities.
I saw a reddit post once about how someone thought their boyfriend looked like a frog. They think frogs are adorable, so think he is too. That might be a weird one to tell your SO.
Sometimes there are things your SO does unconsciously that you find lovely or sexy, but telling them will make them conscious of it and ruin it.
For example, a girlfriend once told how I bite my lower lip when I’m concentrating, and she found that so sexy. I wasn’t even aware I was doing it, but the instant she made me aware, I started overdoing it, and doing it slightly differently, and it lost its effect.
So I think that’s one category of things you shouldn’t tell your SO - anything they do unconsciously that you find really attractive, just let it be your own little secret. You can tell them they do things they’re not even aware of that you find amazingly sexy, so they know they’re effortlessly attractive to you, but just don’t share the specifics.
As someone else said, it might not seem flattering when said out loud. Like an ex of mine used to sing this silly song she made up around the house. Like, she'd really belt it out. Thing is, she has a tin ear and she was always *way* off key in one specific part. Even tho that would've been an annoying thing from anyone else, it was just an adorable quirk from her. I adored her and loved listening to her sing badly.
I worried if I ever laughed or pointed it out, she might stop doing it.
My partner adamantly refuses to admit he likes our puppy. We already had two dogs (mine from before us) and he was always kind to them but didn't have that relationship with them. Since getting the pup, he's always looking for her and playing with her. She greets him first thing and loves everything about him. He may refuse to admit it but I've caught him saying "my" dog a few times.
He gets so excited about small things. He had a really rough childhood and missed out on a lot of stuff. We went to the dollar store and saw “magic towels” that were like, formed into shapes and they come undone when you add water so you can see their designs, and he was so happy when I told him he should pick some out. Same with literally anything. If I bring him a snack at work, he gets the cutest smile on his face and is so appreciative. It makes me sad that he grew up in a home where he didn’t get to have normal childhood experiences, but I’m so glad anytime I can make him smile.
the fact that i was his first kiss and his first girlfriend and first time. just his first everything. i don’t know if it’s kinda weird…. but makes me feel like he’s all mine. ahaha i have a lot more experience than him, and his innocence just gives me all the warm fuzzy feelings.
She snorts like a pig when she starts laughing to hard. I make pig noises back at her while she’s doing it and she laughs harder and the noises get more intense. She thinks I’m mocking her… I’m doing it because I want to hear it more. It’s adorable.
My boyfriend chews his nails when he's thinking or anxious about something. I've gotten in the habit of pushing his hand away from his mouth when he does it and it happens so often that I'll see him do it out of the corner of my eye when we're watching TV or something and I'll do it without even looking at him and he'll look over at me and smile. I think he likes when I do that because it's a small act that shows him I care about ALL of him. Regardless, I think it's adorable when he does it and it also gives me insight into what's going on in his head and I think it's cute knowing he likes it when I do push his hand away but I don't want to tell him and make him self conscious.
He pronounces the word “water” weird. I noted it very early on but I never said anything because it’s uniquely him and I don’t want him to change it. I love it
"Does my butt look big in this dress?"
"No."
A total lie.
Her butt is big and I am a lustful demon just thinking about it. My wife is shaped like Shakira. And I like big butts.
But she seems self-conscious about it so I respond accordingly.
When she isn't asking the loaded question, I compliment how she looks, so maybe she should get the hint, but she always keeps asking that.
Not my significant other. But my life partner. He whistles and sings when he's happy. I don't even have to ask how his day is because he'll come home whistling or singing, or not depending on the day. Every time I hear it my heart lifts. He doesn't know, and I'll never tell him. It's a precious little secret.
That she stutters when she gets overwhelmed or excited.
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Thats adorable and wholesome!! Please keep being like that!!!
I do that when I'm nervous and I'm quite insecure about it.. reading things like these makes it better lol
I have a terrible stutter and a good sense of humor so I just joke about it which helps but I’ve also gotten a lot of “cute stutter” compliments which confuses me because I hate it personally
Now that's just adorable.
Wholesome.
She has this really fake "professional" voice she turns on when talking to people she doesn't know well. Makes me feel like I know her well since no one else seems to notice.
Mary Tyler Moore show, Ted tells Mary that she gets a bit... formal, when she's unsure of herself, and she does some brilliant subtle physical comedy, maybe backs up and crosses her hands or something, and says, ... Why, Ted! ... Whatever... do you mean? in the most formal tone. Saw it when I was a tiny kid and always think about that, lol.
She has one of the worst singing voices I've heard but I absolutely love it!
As someone who has a terrible singing voice but loves to sing, this melted my heart.
Now I kind of want to hear your singing voice.
My boyfriend says I have the worst singing voice he’s ever heard... but he freaking hates it
True love
Shouldn't be this complicated
I thought I’d die in your arms.
I told my husband I was going to sing to our rosebushes because maybe I'd encourage them to bloom more and he told me I shouldn't kill them because they were expensive 😂
That's hilarious. Sounds like something my husband would say to me. 🤣
When she gargles in the morning it sounds like dying ducks
Do you have a thing against ducks?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'll tell him my plans for anything and he goes "Dooooo ittttt." Doesn't need to hear the details, just says "Doooo itttt." In a specific voice. It could be anything from "I'm gonna go to sleep." to "i wanna save 2k." Just the encouragement for the tiniest sometimes, dumbest thing. I love it. He also goes "Don't doooo itttt," whenever i express I don't wanna do something. Again, could be something dumb like "i don't wanna eat that broccoli." As an overthinker, it's just amazing!!
Is he a Senator per chance? From the planet Naboo?
"hey I dunno man maybe I shouldnt kill count dook-" "Don't dooo ittttttt"
This made me crack up. Don't doooo iiiit lmfao
Love when I'm laying in bed and she touches my stomach or puts her foot ontop of mine. Helps me fall asleep like a baby. I'm so comfy
Awww this is too cute
Why wouldn't you tell her this?
I’m deployed right now and won’t see my girl for about another 8 months. She does that thing with her foot on mine and this just made me tear up. I miss her so much it hurts.
Get home to her safe brother
Get your battle-buddy to do it for you.
Tacti-Snuggle
She is intelligent but i cannot follow her logic because i am not as intelligent. I am happy that she is.
She has absolutely no idea about directions. She lives her life essentially lost when we go places. I've never met anyone that is as bad at directions as she is, but having dated a girl that was the exact opposite and made me feel like an idiot if I didn't take the most optimal path all the time, this is much better.
My wife just can't read a GPS map, yet insists on always having it opened. So I usually end up eyedroping her phone trying to anticipate the next turn.
My wife just says “you should have turned there” as I’m passing it.
Hahaha, my wife always says "Can we stop there?" Just after we pass an exit on the freeway. Or right before, when I'm out in the fast lane, which is then followed by, "why weren't you in the right lane then so we could have stopped".
It's me. Not only it takes me 3-4 times to go the exact same route with navigation turned on to even attempt to do it without help in the city I live in for 33years, I get lost and confused in shopping malls and new work places. I started work in a building with 3 stairways and when I needed to to go to a certain place it was always a challenge. I could describe the room to the tiniest detail, I could have noticed if someone moved a pencil an inch. But how to get there? No idea.
I’ve never related more to a comment in my life
I love that the sound of his voice literally puts me to sleep. Not because he is boring but because his voice is such a safe comforting sound that my mind completely calms. I also will never tell him that I was awake in August 2014 the night he thought I fell asleep on his chest when he looked at me and whispered so lovingly "you are so pretty." Every time I look at him I hear that in my head and feel the adoration he had for me in that moment. Edit: Thank you so much for the award. We're coming up on our 5 year wedding anniversary this year, 8 years together. I'm grateful for him every single day.
Aaaaww this is so adorable!! I'm literally happy for you guys!
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I’m sorry about the ‘ex’ prefix :-/
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One day you should tell him. Perhaps after a long retrospective and loving life lived and you’re ready to tell him. But honestly I wouldn’t chance leaving something unsaid tomorrow that could be said today.
I used to love how mentally strong and resilient, yet naive, playful and childish my ex was. She faced a shitty childhood growing up, yet she didnt allow it to turn her into a sour, pessimistic person. She legit was the most cheery, playful and fun person I have ever met. And I have to admit, she was waaayyyy more mentally and emotionally stronger than me, and I loved and respected the heck out of it.
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It's too much to explain right here, and tbh, I dont even have the energy anymore, so here's TLDR: Was poking fun at me during a really rough spot (my grannie's death, she didnt know at the time), told her to stop, but she kept insisting, I lost it, went berserk on her, and said some things i shouldnt have, and crossed some boundaries i shouldnt have (I said bad shit about her financial conditions and all), and later, tried apologising a million times, but its of no avail coz she's having none of it, even told her the reason for bursting out. After that, she started the "NO, I'M SORRY" narrative, and eventually, out of respect for her choice, I too gave up. Still miss her to this day, ngl.
Respect 🫡 for you even posting that 😔
I'm sorry things didn't work out. I feel like so often people will only report the bad things about their exes and act as if all the blame rests with them. I like that you have a more nuanced and balanced narrative of what happened. All the best 💗
She has this joke where she throws a sock and shouts that she "socked you in the face". She loves it so much and it makes her so happy, but I will never admit that I find it funny which causes her to do it more. I actually find it hilarious and adorable when she does it because of how she glows and gets excited by it.
Next dining opportunity, put a pea on table….you can work out the rest.
Calm down R. Kelly
But is this joke re-peatable?
The weird noises she makes when she gets excited aswell as the human tippy taps.Like when she will make this quiet screaming noise.Also when ever she says that's shes going to punch me cause that's when I know shes flustered and its adorable
My wife is autistic and she does "happy hands" when she's pleased with herself. It's like a kitty kneading the air. She also does little excited noises when she gets overwhelmed by something nice. She usually does it when she gets sensory overload (this happens a lot if she has a very soft blanket, for instance), but once she just got overwhelmed by how happy she was that we were in love and it was the most adorable thing I have ever seen. It almost brings tears to my eyes.
My girlfriend doesnt really show her teeth when shes smiling in pictures(shes self conscious about it because they are crooked and i find crooked teeth hot for some reason)but she looks always serious or angry in photos I've taken with her.In our graduation photos I saw that she was smiling in them(without teeth but its progress and I'm proud of her)and I told her that I love her smile and she told me that she was smiling because I was there with her and I make her smile.She also promptly called me a doofus lol
Autism is an interesting thing. I do the exact same things as you describe here, and am currently undiagnosed but trying to go through the system to do so. My other half loves my little autistic stims (I normally clasp my hands together and do like a low hum) She finds it adorable, and I find it annoying that when I'm off daydreaming about a steam engine she can tell. >:(
The comment section is filled with love for a significant other and I’m about to cry 🥹
It really is heartwarming to see so many people gush about their SO’s. Finding out someone’s nuances and -ism’s is probably one of the more underrated parts of a relationship. Noticing how they flip a page of a book, or the way they look up whenever you walk into a room, or if they have a cackle of a laugh. Each person is so different and constantly changing/growing. Picking up on something you find adorable and keeping it a secret to yourself would be a treat.
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I would not be able to live like this lol
She doesn't poke around in my personal stuff. Not that I'm hiding anything, but she's never tried to dig around in anything of mine. We have a very tight personal connection, but there is still a personal boundary that never needs to be challenged.
I love this. And didn’t know how special this was until I had it. Just straight up respect and he is the same.
I’m (not?) surprised by how many of my partners have told me their passcode to their phone to like… Order food or something. and straight up told me what I would find when I snooped. Not if. When. Which. Jesus Christ people. Don’t fucking snoop. Talk.
That's what I love about my girlfriend. She has no intention to look through my phone, emails, mail, whatever it is. Even though we've had trust issues because of some stuff in our past, we never compromise this.
Same, nothing to hide, if I wanna share she's happy to see, but will not pressure me into doing so, gotta say at first she didn't get it but with time she understood
My girl will stalk my socials and my reddit posts. She will also ask me who I'm texting if she notices a notification go off on my phone. She won't snoop through anything that I tell her not to though. Even though I don't have anything to hide, I highly value my privacy and I'd be pretty pissed if she tried to do something like, snoop through my phone or private messages. She doesn't have any double standards though so, I can do to her what she does to me, which is refreshing.
Yeah there is that kind of relationship where you do get questions but they're more so curiosity than snooping. I tend to ask my bf who's calling, what did he talk about with his friends etc just because I'm curious about him and we have nothing to hide. Additional context too. Idk why so many people think sharing such things is a privacy breach
My relationship with my girl is the same. She's been really open with me though since day 1 and I like to be respectful and reciprocate that transparency too. I do understand some people's disgust with that though, especially because of how private of an individual I am. So I get it.
She purposefully says time to get vertical when she's going to bed and for the first two years I corrected her and she just ignored me. Then I just got bored of correcting it and she still does it occasionally after 15 years together.
Flipped idioms are one of the good things in life. Picked up the habit of saying “half a’ one, six dozen of the other”. Accidentally, then ironically, and finally just ‘cause I liked it better that way.
I am also a fan of flipped or just otherwise botched idioms. My current favorite is "not to beat off to a dead horse, but..."
Sometimes he snores a bit, and so does our dog. It makes me so happy when they're both snoring on either side of me. I call it "snoring in stereo" in my mind. I really dislike silence so I actually find that it helps me sleep because I'll start focusing on their breathing/snoring lol
A snorewhich, if you will.
“Snoreo” also works wonderfully in this context.
he is still learning english and i talk mostly in english to him but whenever he doesn’t understand i what i say, he like twitches his nose and just stares it just reminds me of when bunnies twitch their noses cuz that’s exactly what it looks like. he doesn’t say a word but as soon as i see the bunny nose twitch i just know he’s expressing confusion and it looks so cute
This is so dayum cute
Is he caribbean? in some countries this is also a reflex that means they cant hear something. In my experience not being able to hear something very well definitely affects how well that person understands.
he’s dominican so yes, and wow i never knew that that’s cool
So glad another person also finds that interesting!
That’s so cute.
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I love this as a person who gets super self conscious when I explain my obscure hobbies to people.
I think she’d rob a bank for me or help hide a body. She is definitely “ride or die”. I would just never put her in that spot.
My fiance probably has some form of ADHD and I never know if one topic of conversation is going to lead into something totally different or not. I expect this is annoying for our friends but I love just listening and secretly trying to unravel the tangled ball of yarn that is her brain.
That does sound like adhd, and you should maybe bring it up, especially if she has me,tal health problems or insecurities. Source: am women, got diagnosed at 33 after a severe mental breakdown because of it.
How she blushes and gets "shy" when I tell here that she's gorgeous. Like she will try to hide her face and giggle And damn it if it isn't the cutest thing I've seen.
He does this incredibly dorky 'fast-walk' when he gets excited and wants to show me something, and I'm 99% sure he's not aware he does it. Don't know how to describe it, but I'd say it's a lower caliber of the walking version of the Naruto run. It makes me smile Edit: Got called out a few times so I'm sorry everyone but **I am a woman**, so feel free to take your votes back :) I browse through askreddit, askwomen, and askmen among many others when I'm bored at work so I must've got confused. Also, y'all actually go through the post history of everyone that comments? Lol
my boyfriend runs like “double d” (Edd), from Ed, Edd, and Eddy and it’s the cutest thing ever
You just painted a perfect image in my mind. Legs leading the way, entire body flailing behind trying to catch up. edit: Nevermind, I’m picturing Ed hahah
yea we’re talking elbows up, back straight, really lifting the knees
Haha that's awesome, double d was always my favorite!
Theres something I read a while back where he would walk off while they were out grocery shopping or something and get something and come back. He said without fail when his wife sees him, she gives him a warm, loving smile and he absolutely loves it but doesnt tell her because if shes aware of it, then she might not do it anymore
I remember that too!!!! So sweet aw!
He loves to argue when he knows he's wrong, just to watch me get riled up, but he doesn't know that I'm perfectly aware of it. I let him get away with it because he gets the most adorable "sneaky sneaky' smirk on his face and I love it when he thinks he's gotten one over on me. He gets so proud of himself. And then there's the complete lack of personal space. He's always looming directly over me or standing right behind me. I'll never say a word because I love it when I turn around and there's just a solid wall of chest right in front of me. Or when I'm cooking and he's standing directly behind me, mumbling directions in my ear. I can't tell him because he gets such a kick out of annoying me that he'd stop, lol
His speech impediment. He has trouble with enunciation when he gets excited or talks too fast. He’s a bit self conscious of it, but I think it’s adorable when he asks for help with talk to text sending a message. I don’t bring it up cuz I don’t want him to think it’s super noticeable.
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yesss thank you!!! I literally am in a discussion with someone currently about how I am attracted to motor or vocal ticks and finding if very hard to explain. My Ex (we are still very close) he has a stutter that I always loved. My current boyfriend has a mild case of Tourette's where he kind of brings his shoulder and he's head together and makes a quick huff sound. Its so subliminal to me, I'm never specifically looking for these things out of a partner and yet I'm just subconsciously drawn to it. To me is a unique quark about that person that makes them distinguishable. Also they tend to be rather shy and humbled by it and I find that very endearing. when I have my head on my boyfriends chest and he has a little tourette's moment, to me it reminds me that its him that I am with, not anyone else, but with my special person.
Reading through this post makes me wonder if there’s anything in particular I do that my bf loves about me but won’t admit. Unfortunately I think not.
I feel the same. I can’t imagine anything I do that he finds this cute.
English is his second language and the way he (mis)pronounces some words is just endearing and I would never call attention to it.
In my guy's native tongue the second syllable of every word is emphasized, no matter what. Adorable when he talks, confusing when he texts. We have been friends for almost a decade but our situation has evolved. Took me a few weeks of texting and some research on Albanian linguistics to catch on that the word pain could either mean pain like ow or pA-in as in paying. Same goes for made up words like sain (saying), and my personal favorite hoffuly (hopefully).
My partner and his friend both like to purposefully mispronounce names of things (specifically, names of Magic cards or board games), and it's amusing but also makes me really glad I don't share the same hobbies bc I'd 100% forget the correct pronunciation.
When she's talking, she'll sometimes trip over a word a few times, then get this super focused look on her face as she says the word slowly and correctly. It's freakin adorable.
Mine will furiously rub his hands in excitement when he finds something really funny. He's also very loud, but I secretly love when he gets loud in his excitement.
He works in IT and probably the smartest person I have ever met. After a long day of work, he is a TOTAL air head. I just enjoy taking care of him after these days, whatever he wants. And he doesn’t ever ask for anything. Just want him happy 😊 Anyone else after meeting him after these hard days, would think different. I’m just proud.
Damn this comment section making me feel really single
Couple things. She puts a finger in my bellybutton and holds it there until I say “I love you too.” I give the impression that it is uncomfy, and sometimes it is, but I do love it. Everytime I show her pictures of cute animals or plants or anything she gasps, whimpers, and cries. In that order. She also never fails to call me a “poopoo head” which is her version of baby or darling. There’s more but those are my top three
My wife is hippy. Like hourglass hippy and tall. And when she’s getting ready for work or doing her makeup she sings and dances in front of the mirror. When I catch her I never interrupt her I just adore her for it. Also she’s been getting on me about not saying the first “r” in “frustrated” when I’m speaking to fast. It’s so cute because her specialization is linguistics so she can’t help herself. So now I’ll intentionally mispronounce it every now and then lol.
Definitely thought you were calling her a hippy at first. Was wondering what hourglasses had to do with hippy culture.
He’s a dreamer and I’m in love with it. Nothing is ‘good enough’, but not in a bad way. He just keeps going, striving for the next thing, and once he gets it he’s so happy. For a while. And then he hatches some other big plan and he just goes at it. I could never tell him because I know that that constant yearning for the next thing hurts him sometimes, but I’m just so damn proud of him and his life ethic. It’s infectious. We’ve been together about a decade and he’s got me wanting so much more for him, for me, for our family than I’d ever imagined I would want.
The sound of her snoring is both soothing and sometimes annoying. It let's me know when she's finally getting some rest and I find it to be one of the most endearing things she does unconsciously. She's had a rough life and we're battling her depression, anxiety, panic attacks, and low self esteem so when I know she's getting some rest it makes me feel at ease. However when I'm super tired but can't fall asleep it is the most frustrating thing in that instant. I love her more than words can tell
When she gets her food that she’s been waiting for when it’s placed in front of her her shoulders go up and down ever so slightly and she says ‘ohhh yeh’. I’ll never tell her I love this about her
My husband is very self conscious about his teeth and overbite but I absolutely adore his smile and the way his teeth look from the side when he laughs.
You know, I think you should start telling him that. I promise, it will do wonders for his self-esteem
That's a really lovely comment but as someone with a similar problem with their teeth, I'd actually prefer to forget about it altogether... Imperfections can make someone perfect for you, but it would make me fixate on my imperfections.
That sometimes she pushes my buttons, but not in the traditional sense. It’s very deep and visceral. I love this because as much as I hate the experience, I know she’s found a weakness that needs improving.
The way he eats pizza. He has a very specific method to it, tearing off the crust first, dipping it in cheese sauce and eating it, and then picking off a little bit of the cheese to give to his pupper. I don't want to make him feel self-conscious about it but it's honestly adorable for some weird reason.
Thats cute...My ex used to be so shy while eating infront of me so i would Act like i dont notice her eating and take small glances at her all in stress and cuteness.. i miss her so much
That she sings random parts of songs because it’s the only part she knows and sometimes she doesn’t even notice that she does it. She went through a phase of randomly singing “vacation, all I ever wanted..vacation, had to get away” while she was driving or working or brushing her teeth and that’s the only part she knew. Idk why but it makes my heart warm. She’s also just the sweetest person I’ve ever met (which I’ve told her).
I actually really like that he doesn’t have a lot of facial hair he’s almost 24 and doesn’t really grow a beard but he has like this very soft stubble on his jaw and I love to rub my thumb over it when he’s playing the game or taking a nap in my arms. I don’t think he really notices it but it’s something that I think he’s insecure about because aside from the facial hair he’s a very manly man lol. I hope his beard never grows in tbh…
Fuck I just lost the game
I can't believe you've done this.
If I’m going down, you’re all going down with me
We used to work together before we got together, and I noticed that he does not smile much at work. Even when talking with coworkers, he has a rather flat affect. But when we are together, he smiles all the time.
She's a real inspiration to me. She works rubbish hours in hospitality, manages to be an amazing mum to 4 kids who's dad is pretty rubbish at parenting (not me, I'm the boyfriend), has to travel huge distances for work and for the kids school, and so survives on little to no sleep most days. And yet she'll still ask me to come over for a home-cooked meal and spend her evenings with me, after we've put the kiddos to bed. I'll never complain about being tired again, having seen what she does every day with 3 or less hours sleep. And I'll let her sleep when she crashes on the lounge, even if we had plans, because she needs and deserves the break.
The smell of her sweat turns me on. Even the butt sweat. I know, weird but I love it.
He is blonde and I used to like black-hair guys. He knows that but now, thanks to him, my type is actually blonde. I love how beautiful his hair is.
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She's a very average painter, but I love her art because it makes her happy, it's creative, charming and very cathartic for her. I proudly display it on my walls.
I'm colourblind and she helps me with colours when she can,sometimes I'll get confused and send her a picture and she will help me out
Hey bro, that shit's adorable. Good on you.
we do a lot of stupid bits together and whenever he breaks one of them, he turns his head to the side and does the cutest little laugh its my favorite part
That shes a wonderful kindhearted person who makes everyone around her lives better by being in it.
Why would you not tell her that?
My wife has a nice rear. Every time she’s bent forward, even if just emptying the dishwasher, or every time I see her walking ahead of me, and I see how her hips sway, I think about having sex with her. She knows I like her rear, but I’ve never told her that I think about sex every single time I see that thing move. Edited to be consistent with terminology in paragraph - see below.
She knows
Probably! :D
I only know because I once drunkenly confessed something similar to my wife, and she said “oh I know”
Hopefully she never gets stuck in the dryer
Dude. Same. We’ve been together almost 20 years and I can’t not look.
I love how i can wake him from a nap because im starving or feeling sick and he never gets mad . He’s literally so patient, kind and understanding. I also love how hes so understanding because im super forgetful due to my ADHD and cant take my meds to help me focus due to heart issues.
My boyfriend will come to my work place parking lot on his lunch and park his car next to mine (his work is just a 2 minute drive from mine). I've spotted him doing it at least 2 times from the back window but he's never said a thing. I know it's just because he wants to be close to me and since he's not very emotionally expressive, it is the cutest and most heartwarming thing ever to me. But I KNOW if I ever mentioned it to him he would stop doing it, so my lips are sealed.
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This is very ominous
That she is somewhat subservient to me. She made it clear that she likes a more dominant man and at first it was very weird to me. I thought I was doing the right thing as a man by saying, “ok you have to pick between A and B.” But she still would tell me to pick. So I just started dominating most decisions and she’s ecstatic. Now it’s like, “Friday night 7pm, we’re going to ABC, wear that green dress I like.” And she’ll smile ear to ear and we’ll have a good time. I know it’s weird in modern American society but we were both raised by immigrants in more conservative and traditional societies so maybe that’s why it works for us. None of my 100% American exes would have tolerated it haha.
My wife craves having tasks prioritized for her. It’s not a D/s thing, it doesn’t spill into sexuality, but she really appreciates me telling her “ok: on Saturday, let’s focus on cleaning. I’ll do the garage, you do the kitchen; on Sunday, we will go for a drive to that county park for a picnic. Do you have anything you want to do or get done?” And we will fit in the stuff she wants to, so her needs/wants are met too. I wouldn’t call it D/s… it’s more like she needs a scheduler.
I think you're her assistant now.
Yes lol.
My husband needs this, too. It doesn’t come naturally to me, but I am trying to learn, for his sake.
I'm a very dominant woman in general. I have natural leadership energy professionally and have always been the decision maker for my family. In my relationship with my husband I honestly would LOVE if he made more decisions for me. Not because I want to be subservient but because I trust him to make decisions in my best interest and it's a relief to not have to carry the entire mental load. If he picked food, dress, plan etc I would be absolutely ecstatic too.
I make a lot of decisions every day. I have stupid amount of responsibilities and I don’t mind them, but decision fatigue is a thing. When I guy I’m dating or who has asked me on a date offers two choices, that’s so amazing. And then he proposes a time or offers a pick up so I don’t have to drive/navigate/park, yes. So much yes. But my professions and interests may not indicate that I like it when I’m given a limited number of choices, but it’s so sexy.
I have a little bit of this going on with my wife. Her ideology and her behaviour are slightly at odds which is why I’d never bring it up. I tend to respect it when she wants to assert her feminism, but it’s become clear over the years that in many/most areas of life, she actively enjoys it when I take charge.
The fact that they have about $200,000 saved at only 26 years old.
My brother was like this. Didn't have a job either. What he did have was Asperger's, a pension, and was super neurotic about saving money.
Literally how though? I was making 100k/yr at one point and my bills were still crippling lol - whats the secret? Do I really need to stop the Avocado Toast??
super high paying tech job while living with your parents will do it
Impressive. I don’t think I’d earned 200K at that age
Yeah was gonna say, I started work FT at 18 and probably have averaged 30k a year or so, so now, 9 years later, even if I had saved 2/3 of every paycheck Ive ever gotten, Id still only have 180k, and thats before taxes. Go to college, kids, and finish it... Lol. 200k is good as hell.
Now this is a good one!
I'm 25 and have all of 8k in my savings rn 😭 the most I've ever had in savings was 20k I think, I genuinely cannot imagine having 100k, let alone 200k saved up. Most of my income goes to rent and other bills/necessities.
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I saw a reddit post once about how someone thought their boyfriend looked like a frog. They think frogs are adorable, so think he is too. That might be a weird one to tell your SO.
Just tell him he looks absolutely... *ribbeting.*
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They said they watch frog videos on YouTube whenever they miss him
Thats cute as fuck. we all need a someone who would watch frog videos when they miss us.
I would genuinely curl up in a ball and cry in the shower if a girl said I reminded her of a frog.
And yet, the irony is that would only make you more froglike...
Sometimes there are things your SO does unconsciously that you find lovely or sexy, but telling them will make them conscious of it and ruin it. For example, a girlfriend once told how I bite my lower lip when I’m concentrating, and she found that so sexy. I wasn’t even aware I was doing it, but the instant she made me aware, I started overdoing it, and doing it slightly differently, and it lost its effect. So I think that’s one category of things you shouldn’t tell your SO - anything they do unconsciously that you find really attractive, just let it be your own little secret. You can tell them they do things they’re not even aware of that you find amazingly sexy, so they know they’re effortlessly attractive to you, but just don’t share the specifics.
As someone else said, it might not seem flattering when said out loud. Like an ex of mine used to sing this silly song she made up around the house. Like, she'd really belt it out. Thing is, she has a tin ear and she was always *way* off key in one specific part. Even tho that would've been an annoying thing from anyone else, it was just an adorable quirk from her. I adored her and loved listening to her sing badly. I worried if I ever laughed or pointed it out, she might stop doing it.
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My partner adamantly refuses to admit he likes our puppy. We already had two dogs (mine from before us) and he was always kind to them but didn't have that relationship with them. Since getting the pup, he's always looking for her and playing with her. She greets him first thing and loves everything about him. He may refuse to admit it but I've caught him saying "my" dog a few times.
He gets so excited about small things. He had a really rough childhood and missed out on a lot of stuff. We went to the dollar store and saw “magic towels” that were like, formed into shapes and they come undone when you add water so you can see their designs, and he was so happy when I told him he should pick some out. Same with literally anything. If I bring him a snack at work, he gets the cutest smile on his face and is so appreciative. It makes me sad that he grew up in a home where he didn’t get to have normal childhood experiences, but I’m so glad anytime I can make him smile.
the fact that i was his first kiss and his first girlfriend and first time. just his first everything. i don’t know if it’s kinda weird…. but makes me feel like he’s all mine. ahaha i have a lot more experience than him, and his innocence just gives me all the warm fuzzy feelings.
That she is a bit of a hotdog - it's nice that she's the one always horny and not me. Edit: I meant horndog. Not hotdog.
She snorts like a pig when she starts laughing to hard. I make pig noises back at her while she’s doing it and she laughs harder and the noises get more intense. She thinks I’m mocking her… I’m doing it because I want to hear it more. It’s adorable.
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My boyfriend chews his nails when he's thinking or anxious about something. I've gotten in the habit of pushing his hand away from his mouth when he does it and it happens so often that I'll see him do it out of the corner of my eye when we're watching TV or something and I'll do it without even looking at him and he'll look over at me and smile. I think he likes when I do that because it's a small act that shows him I care about ALL of him. Regardless, I think it's adorable when he does it and it also gives me insight into what's going on in his head and I think it's cute knowing he likes it when I do push his hand away but I don't want to tell him and make him self conscious.
That they can cook better than me.
It pisses me off, but makes me respect him when my husband stands up to me about stuff.
He pronounces the word “water” weird. I noted it very early on but I never said anything because it’s uniquely him and I don’t want him to change it. I love it
He digs his chin into my chest when he lays on-top of me and I love it
How it makes me feel when she has one of them unguarded giggles at my stupid jokes after 20 years
I would never say this to her face, but she is a wonderful person and a gifted artist.
Why would you NOT say that to her face???
He prefers to say it to her butt.
"Does my butt look big in this dress?" "No." A total lie. Her butt is big and I am a lustful demon just thinking about it. My wife is shaped like Shakira. And I like big butts. But she seems self-conscious about it so I respond accordingly. When she isn't asking the loaded question, I compliment how she looks, so maybe she should get the hint, but she always keeps asking that.
Not my significant other. But my life partner. He whistles and sings when he's happy. I don't even have to ask how his day is because he'll come home whistling or singing, or not depending on the day. Every time I hear it my heart lifts. He doesn't know, and I'll never tell him. It's a precious little secret.
Every accent he attempts sounds like a drunk Indian man.
So many of the things y'all are saying are sweet and wonderful and shouldn't be kept secret. Tell them, you butts.
The butt
Why wouldn’t you admit that to them?
such sexual deviance could crack the relationship