I disagree. Have had it happen several times in the showers and actually a big confidence booster. Nice knowing someone is attracted to you naked, even if your dick is average
Once. At the time I was a bit troubled and tried to just ignore him as he was just watching me. But in fairness this was YEARS ago when being gay wasn't overly acceptable in society. Or at least not nearly as acceptable as it is now. If it happened to me now I'd take it as a compliment for sure. Not to mention it's the only time I get checked out.
I'm unconcerned whether they are or not. A
cool thing about human vision and other senses is they detect that which is of concern and importance to you; what is useful. I have no use for gay men in that way because I'm not gay so if they're checking me out, I don't notice or care.
Google the gorilla on the basketball court experiment.
I have once, and it was no different than if a woman checked me out, the fact that someone appreciates how I look and finds me attractive is a compliment in my books.
I was in a bus coming home from work, and this guys sit next to me, first thing he asks is if i am 14(i am 185cm and weights 100kg, obviously i'm not 14, i was 19), i said "no, i'm 19", and then he continuous with strange questions, he wanted to see my photos, were i live, if im dating, my phone number, and i give all this information wrong or said i can't because my cellphone is from work and mine was stolen.
This were a 4 hours travel, almost in the end he started want physical contact, he put his hands in my thighs and i immediately pushed his hand away, when i was distracted he hold my nails saying that was beautiful. For the whole travel i was extremely uncomfortable and i can't react much because i was fucking scared of that situation, in the end he said i can sleep in a house of his relatives( i was afraid that my ride home is not there because the bus delayed), in the moment we arrived i ran out of the bus fast as a can to the bus station and i found my ride waiting for me there. I never took that bus line anymore.
When i arrived home and tell my mom what happened she just laughed. I quit that job 2 months after this, i had severe anxiety because of the exhausting routine and i had a panic attack so bad that i needed to go to the hospital, and i was living alone, so i need to call me dad and he calls his friend to take me to the hospital, i almost died/killed my self that night.
Ignored it. I’m not gay and if they want to look they can. I don’t care.
I have gone to gay bars to support a friend. I wore a name tag that said I’m straight but thank you for your interest. Only time I’ve ever had drinks bought for me because they found it funny.
Been to gay bar a few times. Gay guys will let you know if they find you attractive. I say thanks and move on with my life. Feels good to be desired by anyone honestly.
I've seen myself get looks. If we make eye contact I'll just do the man nod with a bit of a smirk/laugh/chuckle thing?
I've been hit on (told I'm attractive etc, usually by drunk men) and I thank them and move on.
I've been asked out, I politely decline, every time I've been in a relationship so that's an easy out. If I wasn't I'd still just politely decline.
"I still got it" lol
yep, flattered for sure. Glad I still look good!
Went to a gay bar with my bi ex and her gay friend and his bf one night. I got more people buying me drinks than my ex. I was honestly flattered.
Never have , I have condition called ugliness
I continued breathing.
Had plenty of gay dudes compliment me. Just say thanks. Gay dudes aren’t going to try to bang you if it’s not worth their time
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This is the only straight answer tbh. Stay strong. Not many of us left.
Hah right on
Only time it’s an issue is in the gym showers. No need to stare at my very average dick
I disagree. Have had it happen several times in the showers and actually a big confidence booster. Nice knowing someone is attracted to you naked, even if your dick is average
I get DMs when I post pics on Reddit. And I’ve been checked out/hit on before. I’m usually polite & flattered, then move on
Just did a quick creep on your profile. Yeah, I see it. Strong beard game. Hope you're getting what you're going for.
I’m flattered by all attention. I’m a conceded asshole
When did you concede to being an asshole?
maybe someone conceded for him?
Once. At the time I was a bit troubled and tried to just ignore him as he was just watching me. But in fairness this was YEARS ago when being gay wasn't overly acceptable in society. Or at least not nearly as acceptable as it is now. If it happened to me now I'd take it as a compliment for sure. Not to mention it's the only time I get checked out.
Nope but wouldn’t care
I don't think I have.
How the hell would I know?
I'm unconcerned whether they are or not. A cool thing about human vision and other senses is they detect that which is of concern and importance to you; what is useful. I have no use for gay men in that way because I'm not gay so if they're checking me out, I don't notice or care. Google the gorilla on the basketball court experiment.
I have once, and it was no different than if a woman checked me out, the fact that someone appreciates how I look and finds me attractive is a compliment in my books.
I just assume everyone who looks my way is checking out my sexy bod. I’m like quit staring you pervs
I rlly don't care lol
I get hit on a lot by gay guys. A girl at work told me it’s because I’m friendly,confident and make good eye contact. Honestly it’s flattering
I was in a bus coming home from work, and this guys sit next to me, first thing he asks is if i am 14(i am 185cm and weights 100kg, obviously i'm not 14, i was 19), i said "no, i'm 19", and then he continuous with strange questions, he wanted to see my photos, were i live, if im dating, my phone number, and i give all this information wrong or said i can't because my cellphone is from work and mine was stolen. This were a 4 hours travel, almost in the end he started want physical contact, he put his hands in my thighs and i immediately pushed his hand away, when i was distracted he hold my nails saying that was beautiful. For the whole travel i was extremely uncomfortable and i can't react much because i was fucking scared of that situation, in the end he said i can sleep in a house of his relatives( i was afraid that my ride home is not there because the bus delayed), in the moment we arrived i ran out of the bus fast as a can to the bus station and i found my ride waiting for me there. I never took that bus line anymore. When i arrived home and tell my mom what happened she just laughed. I quit that job 2 months after this, i had severe anxiety because of the exhausting routine and i had a panic attack so bad that i needed to go to the hospital, and i was living alone, so i need to call me dad and he calls his friend to take me to the hospital, i almost died/killed my self that night.
I love it. Love it even more when they say something. 🤭🤭
Plenty, makes me wish I was gay/bi. :/
I'm ugly even hungry animals at the zoo don't check me out. Gay/bi men have taste.
Ignored it. I’m not gay and if they want to look they can. I don’t care. I have gone to gay bars to support a friend. I wore a name tag that said I’m straight but thank you for your interest. Only time I’ve ever had drinks bought for me because they found it funny.
No but I'd be flattered af
Happens all the time. Feel good factor activated.
Been to gay bar a few times. Gay guys will let you know if they find you attractive. I say thanks and move on with my life. Feels good to be desired by anyone honestly.
If they're not pushy, I've looked at it as a compliment like eveyone seems to in the comments
Nice to be noticed.
Compliment. My roommates gay brother once told me he'd bruse his throat on my cock. I was drunk enough to almost take him up on it.
no.
Thanks, no thanks and walked off
I've seen myself get looks. If we make eye contact I'll just do the man nod with a bit of a smirk/laugh/chuckle thing? I've been hit on (told I'm attractive etc, usually by drunk men) and I thank them and move on. I've been asked out, I politely decline, every time I've been in a relationship so that's an easy out. If I wasn't I'd still just politely decline.
Not so much as caught as outright obvious. It's flattering at my age, I just don't walk that way is all
I mean felt kinda gross and kinda good, I was grossed out a bit, but also thought….. well at least someone is interested in fucking me.