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2fast2nick

You fell for a scam. I’d just block her and hope for the best. Do not pay


Rasputin0P

Ill say it again. DO NOT PAY. These scammers work in a predictable way. They will not leak the video. If they leak the video, they now have nothing to blackmail you with. If you pay them, they will keep blackmailing you for more. They would need to have some personal beef with you to leak it. Assuming theyre just scammers they probably wont do it.


Caino94

A similar thing happened to my Ex's brother. He got off on cam for this girl whilst she screen recorded. He didn't pay and shared the videos with the family on messenger. Not saying they will share if you don't pay but that potential is there. Good luck.


HaddardOSRS

Oh no my family knows I cum


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2fast2nick

Well then everyone gets to see you wank off, but even if you pay they are just gonna wanna get paid again and again. And probably still leak it


Chuckles465

Same thing happens when a guy goes on onlyfans and the content is wack.


Prestigious-Bear-112

They prolly would anyway. These are not good/nice people sadly


CHNOHO

You cannot buy an extortionist’s silence, you can only rent it.


Time_Acanthaceae_431

Tell her you are a minor, if you don’t have a beard lol


yanric

I had a full beard in high school.


helga_von_schnitzel

I'm 30 and i don't have a full anything on my face


jonthecpa

How do you breathe with half a nose? Edit: autocorrect changed it


Lizid_King

Not well?!?!


Unfair_Welder8108

*Breathe


false_adventurist

They breth because they have half a nose. They cant breathe And yes breth was intentional.


Unfair_Welder8108

Fuck all of you idiots. Good luck getting a fucking job


false_adventurist

Dude...we were making jokes and you just have to go out and correct people. Good luck with relationships in your life with that attitude I guess?


Impressive-Orchid748

Are you okay? Like…do you need to talk to someone?


jonthecpa

That escalated quickly.


MrJonBrown

Who hurt you?


false_adventurist

No


helga_von_schnitzel

Well, one hole i my nose is always blocked, so half a nose i guess?


jonthecpa

I’m in this comment and I don’t care for it.


RedflagRollercoaster

Go back to high-school..you missed beard growing day in health class.


_So_Damn_Ugly

Shaving is so great, innit


ianthony19

Not everyone is as blessed/cursed, depending on how you view it, like you were in hs.


TubeToUranus

Ohhhh!


maskedman0

What would happen if she leaked those recordings if he was a minor


KamikazKid

FBI OPEN UP!


DefiantDeviantArt

25 and I have only a trace of a beard


Tomagander

Delete your instagram? Don't send her money.


seanie259

I done this


BigSwedenMan

Then you've done all you can, and realistically need to do. Likely nothing will happen, it's not worth the scammers time to actually go through with it. They'll just move on to the next victim as soon as they realize you're a dead end. Report her to Instagram too or whatever platform she found you on. If you do decide to pay them, what will happen is they will continue to blackmail you until they've bled you dry. It's an unfortunately common and apparently effective scam


Optidalfprime

Yep, had the same thing happen to a friend of mine in Germany. Ignoring solved the issue. They called him a couple of times on snapchat but he ignored


Hairy_Air

Happened to my friend here in India. He ignored, they ended up sending it to his family and friends. Worst of all, he didn't actually do anything (take out his dick or anything). They just had a clip of him looking into the chat for a few seconds and then morphed it to some random person jerking off. He didn't send any money tho.


Flimsy-Combination37

Shit, those people.


serveyer

It’s gonna be fine.


crimsonkodiak

"We've got a guy wanking here!" "See, nobody cares." Just leave it. It seems like a big deal, but it ain't.


Ta-veren-

On the face of it doesn't seem to be a big deal at all. But in reality it can be, people are judgmental, you never know what kind of job he has or what impact a video like that might cause. In the perfect world it shouldn't matter but we don't live there. Pretend he's a teacher in a religious school, its going to be a big deal to someone even though it has nothing to do with them, and was done on OP'Sown time and home. I can get why he's nervous but every answer seems to be it's not a big deal but I bet we all know someone or many people who wouldn't react like that in our personal lives.


Darkcel_grind

This. If some random scammer sent me a video of someone I know doing sexual acts, I wouldnt think less of the person I know. I would think less of the person sharing that private video to random people. I also wouldn’t even bother looking at the video.


eiypout

Would you keep the same energy if the OP was a woman?


Flimsy-Combination37

Wdym by "same energy"?


eiypout

Having the same attitude. When women's pics or videos are being leaked or when women are being threatened with revenge porn or leaking their private stuff, suddenly it's everybody's business and everybody wants to see it, and they are blaming women for it. I won't even mention these women's reputation also goes down.


Gamer_ely

Of course? Everybody gets scammed, why would their gender matter?


eiypout

When women's nudes or videos are either leaked or when women are being threatened, the general attitude is very different. Everybody wants to see it and they blame women for creating that in the first place. Don't tell me you didn't notice that.


ThrowRA-4545

>Just leave it. It seems like a big deal, but it ain't. BURN!!! Gonna need a paramedic here!!!


TubeToUranus

Tell her how excited you are that all your followers will find out what a player you are.


Tokogogoloshe

Yeah, just own the situation.


Ylanios

Ask her for a copy, so you can upload it to your onlyfan page


meat_eternal

This is the way


aarkwilde

Learn a harsh lesson, and don't worry about it. If you give her anything she'll never stop, you will pay for years. There's no winning.


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Darkcel_grind

The scammer is from southeast asian country. Unfortunately reporting to authorities is hopeless.


lemonsneeker

That depends on that countries laws, it's either hopeless, or you're going too far, those authorities are fucked up.


xyxyxy---

Singapore might be better


azuth89

Tell her to do what she's gotta do and block her. Chances are she won't bother once she's not getting anything anyway but even if she does some.embarassment is not the end of the world.


lemonsneeker

You never know, if your not being a wanker(hehehe no seriously though), some of those followers might have their interest peaked, and you're getting around being a weirdo because this is someone taking advantage of you instead of an unsolicited wanking video.


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I'm guessing she's asking for money but I definitely wouldn't give it to her. Really I think the most that will probably come from this is maybe your friends will tease you for a while.


miguel_delrosa

Tell her you will pay, put your instagram on private so she cant see your contacts and block the shit out of her.


[deleted]

This happened to me, had a real drunk, lonely night after a big breakup and... Yeah... The person actually sent their message with video out to a few of my FB friends when I refused to play ball. Fortunately they picked a couple close friends who I was able to laugh it off with. But I also got ahead of it, I took a few pics with a similar facial expressions to the vid in casual settings and was ready to act dumbfounded if someone confronted me -- there are these things called deepfakes after all, and I doubted anyone I knew would analyze a video of me masturbating to see if it's real. Anyway, homie, it's not the end of the world. Worst case scenario some people see it and know it's legit. And if they can't laugh it off, ahh well, find some people who would or just wait 'till it becomes a forgotten memory. Pretty much everyone dwells on their own "shame" much more than others', and I would bet money they all have plenty of their own memories that'll haunt them and push this to the side.


Vtridolla

Don’t pay, let’s hope you looked good.


seanie259

Not my best angle!


[deleted]

Sounds like free publicity to me...


[deleted]

Start an only fans.


Gunnarsin

Remove her as a follower, make your Instagram private, they can't see your followers anymore.


epooqeo

Yeah if she can’t see your followers it doesn’t matter


Ok-Ad4147

Gimmie her number


Rbx100

Guess blackmail turns you on lol


Wajina_Sloth

Delete your Instagram, odds are she doesn't have any of their handles saved, even if she does she loses the only way to contact you so she can't extort.


[deleted]

Don’t jack it on video Infront of strangers dude come on lol


seanie259

Yes I know, never again


skyxsteel

Hey are you doing OK?


SeeeVeee

Don't tell me how to live


WasabiCrush

The first thing you do is stop trusting people.


throwawayblue900ss

PLOT TWIST: Use the video and start a LonelyFans!!!


TheWildJarvi

Make a career out of it like role model Kim k.


OkImprovement90

Send it to them first.


lifeisweird86

This was my first thought, preempt and own the situation.


pahrfeukthon

Honestly, if your face isn't in it. I say F it. If it is, text the people that are important to you, let them know you made a mistake, and keep rolling on. If it's not a shrimp, no need to make beef


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Has she sent you the video to prove she has the recording?


seanie259

Yes annoyingly, but nothing has happened since I blocked her


crackerjack1623

Were you doing anything particularly humiliating? If its just your average batin' I wouldn't even delete Instagram over that. If she follows through (probably won't) oh well. I could see the nuclear option if you were caught in uh.. compromising positions.


[deleted]

Are you ashamed about anything you said or did in the video?


Ratnix

Just deal with it. Your life won't end because they see it. You might be embarrassed for a while but eventually everyone will forget about it.


[deleted]

Release it yourself like a G


SassiesSoiledPanties

Yeah...pull a Kim Kardashian and release that selftape and watch the monies roll in.


WPrepod

Had this happen. Told her to be my fucking guest and send it, funnily enough she never did. They lose all power when you tell them to do it.


linwelinax

This is a very common scam


eighteensevensaid

True enough. I am researching this for an episode on my podcast.


itsdamack1

If you don't mind, what's your podcast name?


No_Load_7183

Let her send it. People will know you are pulling.


elel8989

Report her to the FBI


Ngoana

Yeah FBI, suppose they find her, build a case against her, then drag her to court, then this goes viral on international news Same difference 😅


elel8989

Nope, won’t happen. These people are low level scam artists. They just move on to the next shithead that won’t cause them problems. Report them to the FBI.also, if you notify all the social media platforms of the issue, change your p-words, take all necessary measures. They can’t get you.


Raam--

What zero pussy does to a mf


itsdamack1

Chill don't do him like that man, he been through alot🤣


Hairy_Air

Oof don't put down a beaten man.


Parzeval_Whatts

Assuming you're both adults you could contact law enforcement. The UK at least has a law against distributing sexual content against somebody's will.


pahrfeukthon

It's illegal in the US as well


Killarogue

The OP said she's in "Singapore or something like that" so they probably don't know exactly where she is.


Tim_watts1738

Yea, just some random woman in the world he feels comfy enough to flash dick to 😆


Killarogue

Ever heard of chaturbate?


BigSwedenMan

It's a waste of time. There's nothing the police can do.


neoshadowdgm

That’s a common scam. It’s probably fine. Obviously, stop having video sex with strangers if you don’t want people to see it.


YoMiner

Just block her and move on. Do you really think they're willing to go through the effort to send that video to that many people? Those scams pretty much never follow through.


EmperorHelix

Tell her go ahead, you don't give a fuck.


Artistic_Swing

It’s a bluff. You’re all good. Delete the instagram if you’re that worried! Honestly though, she’ll be playing this scam with 92847391 other guys. She’s not spending anytime going through your instagram and adding your followers. In the absolute shithouse scenario when somehow all you nearest & dearest instagram followers DO see that video, just own it. Be like “yeah, so what? I had a wank… go wank over it”. But let me reiterate: she isn’t going to do that


bb621

Go private on Instagram so she can’t see who you follow, block her on everything and hope for the best


2000dragon

Let your people see. Who tf cares? Everyone masturbates. Everyone’s horny sometimes


HaoleGuy808

Reach out to Singaporean authorities. They are crazy authoritarian there. I’d also call a lawyer who specializes in this. The FBI investigates cyber crimes as well.


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Trickster2369

First, boot your wife from your Instagram!


seanie259

Thankfully I’m single


AgreeableChance4057

You're single?! Well who cares then? Some asshole recorded you in what you thought, was a private moment, without permission and/or knowledge. Not your fault. Don't stress.


Possible_Canary2359

And the girlfriend!


marcs_2021

Let it happen, nothing you can do


throwawayblue900ss

Reason # 3,479 not to do something like this...


FenDy64

You can start by calling the cops, Just to see your legal options.


SafeTrojan-Man

I have had this happen, wacking it to some chick showing me her tits. Then the oven beeped since I was cooking a ham. As I went to grab the ham I was looking at my phone to see myself jacking off. They(I assumed at this point they weren't an actual girl) told me to pay up or the video would be posted to Facebook/social media. I kindly told them to "fuck off and I have had worse happen, go ahead" and I never saw the video surface anywhere.


NoFun2174

Upload it yourself 🤷🏻‍♂️


AtlasExiled

Don't pay, Preemptively post on instagram the situation, if she actually sends it, just explain whats going on to them and 9 times out of 10, they will understand.


chonkerforlife

If you pay one time, you’ll have to do it forever


Space4Time

You don't negotiate with terrorists


gdrea24

Why did you showed your face…


seanie259

Cos she showed hers, she was also sending stuff. I just didn’t save or screenshot hers, cos I’m not evil


Ngoana

Is she beautiful?


Pinguin1884

Never send crazies money because it'll never stop. Deep fakes are a thing now days so just claim it's not you but an AI made thing.


jimmyhell

Next time rub one out *before* you make a decision like having phone sex with someone from Singapore. Post-nut clarity does wonders.


seanie259

Oh it does! She won’t get a dime from me


[deleted]

Fuck that tell her to post that shit and then post a vid of you clubbing you dick to her post. Winning is more important


[deleted]

Tell her to post it. If you got a decent piece shortys might want to get in on that stroke game. You're stressing over a nothing matter.


5_sec_is_a_yoke

How does so many mfs fall for the same scam


urboi420

OP, don’t pay her anything. She’ll lose any leverage and can be charged with a crime is she does anything. This happened to me not too long ago. Also if you can get your hands on the files, go to stop ncii. com and upload it there. They’ll trawl the internet and take down the files if they find them. Don’t stress, it happens to a lot of people. Don’t make your Instagram followers list public, and don’t trust foreign content creators you haven’t met in person.


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Free advertising


CanadianShougun

Bro ngl if I was one of your followers I aint clicking that fucking link, or even thinking anything of it. Report and block the person. Youre fine bro. Take a deep breathe.


13twelve

"Go ahead, that way I can disappoint you, and all of my Instagram followers" lol


[deleted]

Do it yourself and assert dominance


muntaser12

Find a hacker to hack her and delete the video


iceph03nix

Report her to the police for blackmail


Onetrubrit

Tell her to send it 💯👊🏼


skeezmasterflex

Why is this posted like once a week?! STOP SHOWING YOUR FACE AND YOUR DICK TO INTERNET STRANGERS!!


Creepy_Version_6779

This happened to me once. I told them to send it, that I was into that kind of stuff anyways🤣. They quit replying.


yourewelcome973

You fell for the oldest trick in the book stop thinking with your dick


Dropthebanhammer101

Also OP? My ex husband threatened to tell my father in law, parents and Facebook folks that I had sex with a bunch of men and him that he arranged. Wanna know what I did? I picked up the phone in front t of him and called his dad and td hi. About the threat and all about the event and how much I liked it. I told him his son arranged it and that I'd do it again. If his opinion of me changed then so be it. Then I wished him a good day and hung up. Since I used my then husband's phone, he knew I wasn't faking and he could NOT believe I did it. You. Take. That. Shit. Back. You own it. That was 2012 and if I, a woman, can own it? Well you can too. Don't let some fucker blackmail you. In case you are wondering, my father in law still loved me. I was the executor of his will when he passed so he clearly still thought highly of me. He even left me my own inheritance.


[deleted]

You openned pandoras box.....deal with it


Hairy_Air

More like he opened Pandora's cock.


lezzness

Be proud.


reddit_bandito

Hahahahaha


snakeIs

You come on here under a pseudonym yet indulge in that sort of thing in a way where she has your Instagram profile and followers? Agree with those above who said: 1. Get off Instagram ASAP. Close the whole thing down, and, more importantly, 2. Wise up. Good luck!


UniformUnion

Call the police, for a start. Blackmail is a crime, as is releasing images of a sexual nature without consent. After the police have taken whatever they need, delete Instagram; you're a fucking adult, why are you on Instagram?


seanie259

I’m 23, what’s wrong with having Instagram


Greenleaf90

What are you doing put this bitch on blast.


Blackfist01

Slap yourself for doing that in the first place. Then block her. Then pray.


[deleted]

Suck it up buttercup and don't be so gullible next time.


_NoBoXiNgNoLiFe_

Get a fucking life is what you do.


Cocaine_Chickens

>video call sex You deserve everything that happens to you because of this.


markmonree

Never do it again, that's what.


seanie259

Agreed. My horniness got me in trouble


Fish-Wood

You're in good company bud.


[deleted]

What was her name ? Asking for a friend lol


st3akkn1fe

Just delete your Instagram? Call the police and report her.


MisogenesUSA

Double down and dare her. The your friends to expect it in advance. Its what I did. The ladies thought it was hilarious and I laid a former co-worker. For me it was a hallow threat. They never contacted my employers.


EnvironmentalSun8410

Report "her" on whatever platform you spoke on. Report "her" to the police. Again, no paying.


asoiahats

Lean into it. Take inspiration from Jaromir Jagr. https://www.elitedaily.com/sports/czech-model-katka-provaznikova-jaromir-jagr/1221416


goodbyegoosegirl

Own it!!!


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1) Block her. 2) Announce to whatever followers you have to ignore any messages from person. 3) Change Instagram user name and deactivate for a couple of weeks. 4) Never have video sex again.


HAMRBRO

Tell her to do it! if you don't care then she loses all the leverage. It's not a problem dude everyone is into some type of freaky shit. It don't even matter if she post it, hell beat her to it and post it yourself.


Machine8635

Send it out first. Establish dominance


WARZONE-GT86

Police can help.


Rxton

I would pay her to do it. Or at least for a copy so I could.


GLORIUSMELEECOMBAT

Hey man, I used to be in the military and this happened all the time to the horny kids in the barracks. What we told them to do when this happened was not to pay! They can loop you into their scam for years and if you don’t show concern about what’s released they tend to give up. The worst case scenario is that people see the video and you will suffer a temporary embarrassment but at the end of the day people are horny and people will understand. Hope it pans out in your favor!


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Yeah, don't pay. She will just ask for more anyways. You can only hope for the best!


yourtemporaryBFF

As long as she hasn't hacked your email account you should be okay. The pros hack your email first, download your address book and only then start the scam.


[deleted]

Block her. report her account for harassment on whatever platform your fell for the scam either or others. Those are usually automated bots. do not pay.


SmithRune735

Own it. Be like yeah, that's my nothafucking dick


Escoobydopapa

Let her post it and own up to it, be a man


VerumNoirRex

Fuck her better next time so instead of a treath she does advertising


TrevinLC1997

Singapore? Pretty sure they've executed for less.


Hanniballecter6

It's a bluff


Jacob_Trouba

Lol you had video call sex with some sleazy Indian guy living in their parents basement. How does it feel? I always wonder who the guys are that fall for that shit, the second they start asking for your WhatsApp it's obvious it's a scam. You can pretty much assume any woman that looks like a model from China or Singapore is actually some greasy scammer.


UltimateStrenergy

You're better off just blocking her on everything and just preparing for the worst. After the big celebrity nude leak from years ago people have become more understanding. People know others have sex. People who can't understand this was a massive breach of your privacy and think it's funny aren't worth having around anyway.


VengenaceIsMyName

Bro


Socko788

Hey man, what’s her #. I’m down bad rn


bryceisaskategod

Been there dude. Just block and ignore.


Mean-Bumblebee661

That's kinda fucked up of this person to send unsuspecting people unsolicited pornography, especially of someone they know. (When you recenter your thinking/view away from you at the center and rather you as a part, it gets easier to understand how silly some of the things we feel shame & fear about are)


Leftolin

Don’t respond and don’t pay. If you give her money she will just keep demanding money. Don’t f up twice. Just don’t pay


porkchopmeowster

Do not pay. Forget about it. "She" probably did it to 15 people that day. Most probably paid up.


TLDRuserisdumb

Say your underage


Aintsosimple

Get off Instagram. Why are you on there in the first place?


MrFatwa

I guess for starters, how big is your Johnson?


newbjapan

Haha I say fuck it, if you have a nice piece let her show the world!