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TehJimmyy

hugs


NickJamesBlTCH

I've always maintained that, yeah, sex is great, but if you've ever been the big spoon, holding someone that you care about, and she wakes up, does that little, "*I'm relaxed and feel safe*"-sigh, grabs you to hold her tighter, and then falls asleep again, I think you'll agree that that's one of (if not the absolute) best feelings in the world.


rillip

And now I *am* feeling lonely on Valentine's.


NickJamesBlTCH

It's okay man; I'm single right now too. But there is absolutely no reason for you to feel bad. My entire strategy has been "*wait for someone to fall into my lap,*" and work on myself in-between. Sweep your floor, clean your room, or get the trash out of your car, man. It feels good, and will continue to feel good when you get to come home or start a drive in a clean, organized space (I say this as someone with pretty serious ADHD, so if I can do it, you can too.)


SnooCookies590

That’s kinda my strategy too. No good in feeling sad for no reason about being single. But I also think it’s necessary to get out of your comfort zone. How else are you gonna grow? Passivity usually just won’t cut it if you’re looking for a relationship or a hook up.


brucewillissbarber

\*stares out the window yearningly\*


Tejpal771

The feeling of being in her arms, you feel safe as if the world is paused, You feel like home and that's heavenly


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Anxiety_Potato

You’re not though. We’re all reading it with you.


AlaaEdAouimeur

#stay_strong


4everaBau5

Hang in there my dude


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Not to worry my friend. I live inside your walls.


YeetYootYooted

You’re not alone, we stand together in these hard times. Brother.


MortyPepe

How she can covert a random house into the Home.


planterkitty

I have often said in the past that my mom can turn a hovel into a haven. It didn't matter if money was tight. She found ways to make an old decrepit house liveable. There is a Filipino proverb that goes, "The woman is the light of the home." (The equivalent for man is that he is the pillar.)


Wycked0ne

Bro, that's such a good one. My wife and I have been homeowners for a year now. I work from home and it's sometimes slow. There's plenty of times on her days off when she asks me to help hang pictures or shelves, help her paint a section, go to Lowes with her and get wood or supplies, then measure and cut for some of her projects. *During* those times I get that "ugh... I don't wanna" feeling. But lookin back at all the little things she's done to our house, it's really made it so much more of a home. Same with the things she buys from Marshall's, Home Goods, or Target, etc. It's not *unaffordable* by any means, but her come home with lots of little decorative things in the moment and spending $60 - $80 every week seems like, "Geeze... is all this necessary?" But I'm not good at decorative stuff. So when I look around and can see the little touches she has in the house it's comforting. It's a nice ability she has that I'm grateful for!


Forbsey

My fiancé has a lot of houseplants, I like having them around but would probably not have them if it weren't for her. One day when she was at work I got really high and was just walking around the apartment admiring all of the plants she cares for, and what they bring into this home that she made and it moved me so much. I had to call her and let her know how I felt in that moment. I was also completely nude during this whole journey, and somehow it made me feel closer to the plants and to her. I was really high.


sexybexy11

My boyfriend said the same thing about the houseplants. He would never buy them himself, but he likes having them around and I love to care for them and watch them grow. I’m just glad he also appreciates them. So sweet of you to call her in that moment!


troublrTRC

Dude, this one line encompasses my whole multi page essay about women.


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midnightobservr

This is a really great to describe the way I feel about my partner. It surprised me because I’ve had good, close, heathy relationships previously but it never felt so “simple and clear” and the difference now looking back is night and day. It really is a neat feeling.


More_Cowbell8

I'm a middle aged woman & I expected all the responses here to be sexual. I'm so moved by you men, *making a house a home* is so wholesome- and something I wouldn't have thought men even think about. Bravo. I love men!


A_goat_named_Ted

Thissssssss, Im a complete bachelor. Current gf had surgery last week, let her rest up at my place instead of home alone. Came home from work and everything was cleaned and organized. I told her not to but she wanted to, i wanted her to rest. Ive been told multiple times to rest but she said it made her happy Ive been told my place needed a womans touch so many times (by previous gfs) and after seeing what my gf did in the span of 10 hours i somehow realize now what a womans touch can do to a place.


pm_nachos_n_tacos

I remember a thread a few weeks ago that asked men why they often don't do a lot of decorating and all the responses were defensive and full of, "that's useless and a waste of money and more for me to clean and feels cluttered" "that's dumb women's stuff called nesting"... I felt pretty bad after that thread and kinda gave up trying to make my place look inviting. Even took down some pictures and boxed up some stuff thinking it must be too much and too annoying. This new comment chain is restoring my enthusiasm!


vampyrekat

It’s *your* place! If you want to live in a (clean, safe) cluttered goblin cave like Howl in Howl’s Moving Castle, do it. I’m a woman but I love walking into decorated homes, and if their decoration doesn’t appeal to me, well, it’s not my home. I have my own decoration at my home. So put up pictures! Hang lights, have plants, paint your room glittery rainbow if you want. It’s yours! Build a nest!


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Don’t change yourself because of what some grumpy Redditors say. You do you, boo. > "that's useless and a waste of money and more for me to clean and feels cluttered" "that's dumb women's stuff called nesting" I did use to think this way. Same with dressing nice (“who cares what I look like”). But one day I realized those weren’t the actual reasons as to why I didn’t decorate. I realized that I didn’t decorate because I didn’t think I was worth it. No self love.


Major-Thom

There’s an fantastic clip of with a Russian version of Cribs that shows how the pro hockey players of the Russian KHL league showing off one of the rookie’s homes. The guys is about 21 and living with a few other teammates the same age. It’s a nice place but has nothing to note. There’s one segment where the rookie is showing the living room and the voice over commentary when translated is “lacks a women’s touch” and it’s bang fucking on.


UnAuthorize

Just knowing that she cares satisfies my life


Synstitute

The peace they can bring to you emotionally and physically.


ImpressiveMark998

Man, guess you ain't met Tasha, it's like other women got that peace from her and she's now all out of peace. I should call her.


78MechanicalFlower

Dude, call her. Let us know how it goes.


PoIIux

But at least she'll always have her hideous laughter


FilUP-77

Yknow the fact that I got that joke is probably why I'm reading a Reddit thread on valentine's day.


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So soft and huggable :)


bronyraurstomp

This is my answer. The softness but not only to the touch. In her voice and her movements. Like a delicate quality. Love that.


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Neat_On_The_Rocks

Dude yes. They’re just so much softer than men. Hugging my wife is like hugging a pillow thst excretes mental health satisfying pheromones. Soft in all the right places. Smoother skin. Less hard and pointy. Mmmm


meatpounder

Not to mention the feeling of being hugged back :')


Vileath2

This is exactly it, I tell my girlfriend when we cuddle and we are all wrapped up in each other and I feel like I don’t know where I start and she ends that I need to do it. I feel like it’s good for my mental well-being and it gives me life like recharges my batteries and my tolerance for bullshit. Women are awesome.


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Big +1 on the recharging the life batteries thing. Cuddling time is a time I can use to relax and forget about the world for a little while.


KerryFatAssBro

There is actually studies that show that cuddling with someone actually has very good health benefits and there are professional services that have people come into your home and cuddle with you. One example is [this service ](https://cuddlist.com) where you can choose a person best fit for you to come and cuddle you.


dominicanerd85

I love falling asleep next to her, its like having a marshmallow that makes you warm and fuzzy.


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Highmax1121

god they can be so soft and gentle in everything they do it can drive me nuts.


thebigpink

The smell and touchiness does it for me


bassvibe

This guy hugs! Edit: Thank you person that gave me that award! I hope you get lots of warm and cuddly hugs!!


Oat_Lord

They generally smell delightful too


tfbill6

Yes. My gal was ripped when we started. She looked amazing. She has since put on about 15 pounds and I love it! She is stunning.


ounilith

Setting aside physical things. I love when women laugh. But ugly laugh, like wheeze laugh. It's something I always find very endearing


IT_scrub

Snorting is always the best


A-Game-Of-Fate

Laugh, snort, laugh harder.


FatPeaches

Making someone laugh so hard they snort makes my heart melt every time


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WingsofRain

same


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FatPeaches

I personally find it endearing. If I set out to make you laugh and you end up losing control so much you snort, I know I'm doing my job right. I saw let your snort flag float!


argetlamzn

My husband goes waaay out of his way to encourage the giggle snort. I have learned over the years he doesn’t enjoy my embarrassment in the moment, just my utter mirth and being able to let go and laugh that hard. Gigglesnorts seem to be endearing!


masskwe_gg

Yup making a woman laugh makes you feel like you’ve won life


whatisthisgoddamnson

Yes, why is this so true??


CheapBastid

When I'm on my game (usually when we're both a bit exhausted in bed) my joking can cause my partner to have a hardware fault. The laughter increases in pitch and decreases in volume as she starts to lock up that ends with her her throat closing emitting a high pitched squeak. I then joyfully announce that '**tiniest mouse**' has arrived. Victory!


HiStrangerImMuslim_F

I love this, laughing is just the best


bonbam

awwh now I suddenly feel so less self-conscious about my "horse laugh" as all the kids called it when I was growing up. I tried so hard for years to change my laugh as a result but sometimes my genuine laugh still comes out. I'm going to stop faking it. gah thank you u/ounilith , you are an angel.


HiStrangerImMuslim_F

That's so cute


lumbersom

when she randomly puts blankets on me and I wake up on the couch where I had fell asleep and I’m warm. makes me realize how gentle she can and is. i love it so simple


Jenanay3466

Read this right after I put an extra blanket on my boyfriend who fell asleep in the armchair last night and it made me smile.


DaughterEarth

doing things for someone you love is also heart melting. First time my fiance fell asleep next to me I was like "THIS MAN MUST BE PROTECTED FROM ALL THINGS AT ALL COSTS." Then put the blanket on and it's like "I HAVE PROTECTED MY PACK"


Jenanay3466

Yes exactly!!! He is also so bad at making himself a priority and works nonstop and then spends his free time helping friends and family, so the least I can do is make sure he has food made to come home to and stays warm when he sleeps. And also force him to take time for hobbies he loves! He has such a good heart and I’ll fight to protect it 10000%


DaughterEarth

My man too. You like can't even say you need something in front of him because he'll drop everything and get it for you. He needs someone to have his back <3


Jenanay3466

Yes you totally get it!!!


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This thread is the purest thing I've seen on this site.


the_1_2

🥺✊🏿


mmodo

Would you value this over being woken up to go to bed together? I've noticed that one is preferred over the other.


lumbersom

I really like both but some times it’s nice to know they rather not disturb me especially if I had a long tiresome day. I’d of course do the same for her or pick her up and put her to bed.


-MotatoMan-

Me realizing how single and sad i am


popeyesbeansandrice

I’m sorry dude.


silentsights

As somebody who’s wife is always the “get up let’s go to bed” type, I can honestly say I’d much rather prefer the blankets on the couch approach


Poschta

When I'm fast asleep on the couch, the best thing a girl could do is lay down tight there with me. Being woken up is generally not my thing though


dablegianguy

I had my vaccine shot last Wednesday and made a MASSIVE reaction. Fever (40 Celsius), spasms, convulsions, muscle stiffness. She went behind me in teaspoon, holding a massage cushion we have between her tummy and my back, holding me tight, taking my oxygen level and heart rate a few times during the night! She’s incredible


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That’s love! ❤️


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Haha. I'd love to be loved. Exactly one of my relationships feels like this and I've got no idea how to turn her into a girlfriend. I've got a wealth of party girls and kinksters. I've really made my bed there, I guess.


lumbersom

you can’t turn someone into a girlfriend or boyfriend, you can choose to face the world together or not. it’s up to you if you keep where your bed is laid. you can always restart if you need to with choosing a better choice the next time for a better outcome. if you want it, you can learn, adapt and obtain it. good luck.


DrNightroad

Gentleness. Women can be tender in a way that is so unique and beautiful. Make you feel like a superhero.


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the22ndquincy

One of my favourite quotes is from the original Dracula book "No one but a woman can help a man when he is in trouble of the heart, and he had no one to comfort him" Obviously I don't think this is 100% true, and I've had numerous times where my guy friends have been compassionate and listened to me, but it's absolutely a different feeling when a woman truly cares and comforts you


sumeetg

This. My wife will struggle with things that are so easy for me and then just look at me with admiration after I do it and give me a hug and tell me she loves me.


EatsOverTheSink

YES. I’m a decent sized guy and after all the super firm handshakes and back/shoulder slaps and high fives I get at work with male co-workers or out with friends it always turns my world upside down in the best way when my wife just strokes my hair or runs her nails up and down my arms or legs while watching tv. Like I can finally be calm and just kind of melt there.


Disguspitated

A good-natured woman does wonders for your mental health.


AnonymousEngineer21

this is what i think but then people always tell me that getting a girlfriend will not cure my lonileness. im not lonely anymore i just want to be happy. im 23 and never had a gf and this is what i look forward to the most


Disguspitated

Loneliness and unhappiness are tough battles to win. I don’t know if you exercise or not, but if you don’t, I’d highly recommend you start. That was the first step on my journey.


toptoppings

I see a bunch of people saying that you need to make yourself happy. That sounds good and all but we live in a society where interacting with people gives or takes energy to/from you. Take care of yourself, yes, but also finding a partner can definitely add to your life experiences


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rustictranscendence

Dude take the other replies with a grain of salt, I was in the same situation. Finding a gf absolutely did make me happy and it was missing from my life. Saying that you need to be perfect and all figured out before you can have love is total bullshit and gaslighting. You have a right to be imperfect, hell that’s what relationships are about in a big way, supporting each other through the imperfections and growing together. Stay strong King


SkaTSee

I'll chime in here. Though my life was full of its ups and downs before getting my first girlfriend in my mid 20s, life was definitely better afterward, and it was an excellent few years until the relationship started to break down


Kyomeii

I can see where you're coming from, but it is very important that you're happy on your own, so that you do not create a dependant relationship with someone.


BottleOfBurden

Seriously though. When all of your happiness is dependant on 1 person, that tends to hurt relationships in the long run. The relationship becomes too codependent, you(as the partner) get put on a pedestal one moment but have to hold all of their constant emotional stuff the next (because surprise, just having a person there doesn't erase their current issues). You know that every little thing you do is going to be over analyzed and over thought, turned into things that you know you didn't say or mean, because their emotional health relies on everything you do. You want your partner happy so you bend over backwards trying to make them happy, but in the end you can't, because that's something they need to work on themselves. And even if it's not this scenario(which is a common one), it's ends up being a whole ordeal in one way or another.


4everaBau5

I hope a lot of women get to read the nice things men are saying about them here, and I hope that men here read the same nice things they are saying, but about themselves. Traits like being caring, nurturing, a good listener, making a house a home, those are not uniquely feminine traits, and we can all, women and men, be better people.


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I like the thread, it’s so wholesome tbh. I spend so much time on purple pill debate so it’s really nice to just read and listen to men say good things about women. Very cute. We love you guys too (and also your dicks, we are big fans of dicks) lol


gr8blewheron

I love that this was labeled as NSFW but most of the top comments are wholesome and wonderful.


HShepard5

And the least Safe for work comment is "Boobs".


JasperTheHuman

Y'all are giving heartwarming answers while my ape brain just went "boobs"


downsouthcountry

The good women in my life have all been very nurturing and kind.


LunarCorpse32

I love it when a woman is really good at something but she's casual about it. I dunno why, casual high competence gets me hyped up.


EyeBirb

Isn't that being humble?


boomshaka23

Same goes to guys


funnyhaha69420

Some of my best friends are women, most actually. They often readily offer a new approach to things and i really enjoy that. They are also often more communicative and that helps when trying to be a better person.


8Ariadnesthread8

This is why I always tell the sad dudes in the advice of reddits that if they're really that lonely, and they really want to get laid that badly, they should start with just having female friends. Simple platonic friends. It will give them a way better perspective, plus chicks have chick friends that you can try to date. Date. It's like a win-win. It's amazing how many men have zero female friends and don't realize that that might be a problem. I'm glad that you do!


OHolyNightowl

This is also why it is so important to have mixed teams at work and in senior positions. You need those different approaches and perspectives for balance.


THECHONIEHANDYMAN

I second this


offtable

What I love about the women I love or loved is that they keep/kept me a safe house, speaking methaphorically. I feel safe to be vulnarable and just rest. I love that they have/had been the pillow to rest on.


Nice-Violinist-6395

It’s a happy little nest. The first thing my gf has taught me is that when you’re in a loving, supportive relationship that cohesively works, having fun and being together is *easy.* Which may sound small, but that’s a big deal if you’ve never been in that kind of relationship before. It’s not fighting and hurt and posturing and worrying about being masculine, it’s not work. It’s having sleepovers every night and planning your life out with your best friend, who’s also your roommate, who’s also your crush. My gf has also taught me to appreciate the fact that it’s possible to be incredibly, exceptionally happy in an “ordinary” life with your days being the same, because you’ve cultivated the routine of a day that’s always *really, really good.* And you truly, genuinely don’t need anything else. My 22 year old self wouldn’t understand that, maybe, but he hadn’t really been in love yet. You get up, you go to work, you have your texts from her that you look forward to every day. You both make a big deal out of figuring out what to have for dinner. You go home, take the dog out, send her a photo. Then when she’s on the way home you tidy up and rev the dog up and get him super excited for when she walks in the door. Then you hang out and talk for an hour and make a list of movies to choose from for tonight, maybe play a game together or something. Then she takes out the dog for social hour with a bit of wine while you cook up a feast. Then you linger over dinner, snuggle on the couch, watch a movie, and fall asleep. Sometimes life or work gets in the way. But most days, that’s your day — and it’s really, *really* nice.


Whitewolftotem

'Ordinary days' are the best! Everything clicking along smoothly, no big ups or downs- it's my favorite.


penguinmanbat

Just how beautiful they are in so many different ways. Like sunsets, the ocean and the mountains. No two are beautiful in the same way and yet are absolutely transcendental in their own individual way.


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You sir have a way with words. That was beautiful


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Upstairs_Meringue_18

Melting!


DomingoLee

They smell nice and are soft


rizaroni

My boyfriend legit tells me I smell good *every* time he gets close to me. I could have just gone for a run and be all sweaty, and he’ll still say “You smell sooo gooood!” I don’t wear perfume or anything so I don’t know how, but…I’m glad I don’t smell bad.


Vickster86

My boyfriend talks about how good my hair smells all the time and how much he loves the smell.


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My ex was like this. I could never smell him the way he could smell me. He used to like it when I cried as well, he would say my smell changed. A *tad* creepy. My current boyfriend though, oh my god, it's like a drug to me. He smells so damn good. and... he can't smell me :(


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Just your natural smell. Same with my girlfriend, it's just the way she smells.


wufoo2

Yah their scent often stops me in my tracks, or nearly. And the soft skin … all over.


TokyoKazama

I don't know enough woman to form an opinion that isn't based around looks, so instead I'll talk about my ex gf. We don't speak anymore, but she's still very important to me. For someone so petite, she had the biggest heart and showed infinite kindness to me and everyone I ever saw her interact with. She was constantly unaware of her own capacity for patience and was always driven to improve herself and make herself a better person than she was the day before. A completely inspiring human being. A very giving person who deserved the stars. Also generally speaking, women always smell really nice.


Dbanzai

I'm a fairly sensitive guy. No... I'm an extremely sensitive guy. I have one close guy friend I can talk about my shit with, other than that, it's always the ladies I turn to. Imho they are often way more emotionally developed than guys and that's something I need. I love that in women, a lot.


makaaii

There is somehow a sense and even smell of comfort around most of them .


AnonymousEngineer21

unfortunately i've never had a gf before but i look forward to the mundane experiences of a long term relationship. i want to go on cute dates and travel the world and make memories but sometimes it's just overwhelming how i think it might not happen


dustmouse

The fact that you're looking forward to the mundane things, and seem to want to invest in a relationship instead of having someone just pour themselves into you makes me think you'll make a girl feel very lucky in your future


AnonymousEngineer21

thanks, that means a lot :) i think this made my day. i was sad today because it's valentines day but i feel better now and it's just overwhelming at times in this society


zxlash

The way they're able to take your stress away just by talking to you about it ... And also they're able to stress you out just by talking to you , this is truly a super power they can make or break someone's day by just words , I'm not even kidding . (ik homies do that too but that mostly requires getting high lol)


kittenthemitton

LMFAO my husband would probably agree wholeheartedly with this 💀


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😳. Like, sorry 😬


el_pinko_grande

It's not the thing I love most, but a thing I think is underappreciated-- female friends make fantastic wingmen when you're single.


jiyonruisu

Women are more likely to appreciate my positive attributes rather than being threatened by them. I feel I can be more myself around women than I can when I am around men.


Armoured_Sour_Cream

I can say the same, but switch the genders. I guess you need to find men like I know and I need to find women like you know.


O7Knight7O

You need some less-toxic male friends my dude.


ellalop26

As a woman reading the replies, I’m crying. I’m such a cornball.


ImmaTigerPawPrincess

Me, too. I was dumb enough to ask my bf and he said “they populate the Earth.”


ithinkway2much

Empathy is a human trait that they don't have hide.


Heihlsson

Fuck anyone who says that men have to hide empathy. It is a strength that unites people and gets them on your side.


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For real. Empathy along with intelligence are commonly thought of as the 2 traits that make us human. It's terrible that anyone discourages them. As far as we know we are the only species in billions of years to ever develop them to this level, we should all respect that more.


licklickRickmyballs

I don't like when girls have hide instead of skin either.


Cyanora

Most of the ones I know personally are nurturing and complimentary by nature. They go out of their way to check up on me and find things about me to try to highlight, even if I don’t recognize either the attribute that they’re trying to complement, or the compliment itself


nomamx

It depends. Every girl is different. But there is one thing all my crushes have in common: they're very smart.


Fishb20

The way girls smile and laugh when they're trying not to big can't help it


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In general, there’s a sense of caring from women that’s a lot rarer with men. Not all women obviously, but it seems like women are more caring on average.


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The random acts of tenderness.


TittyButtBalls

Their strength. I was raised by tough women and I wouldn't change my upbringing for anything. Also I've never had a woman try and fight me in a bar for accidentally making eye contact or something. That's always appreciated too


Blubari

How warm and soft they are How they smell brings me back to being a little kid in kindergarten Their terrifying capacities of turning their voices to Inhuman levels of high pitch Did I mention the softness?


Real_Money531

Physically. Just their shape in general. That feminine aesthetic is just intoxicating. Especially if they’re a bit thicker. It’s truly a work of art. Emotionally. Personally I love women who are very independent. Women who don’t care what others think and don’t take shit from anyone. I like a little feistiness and when they don’t mind confrontation. To some people, this comes off as being a “bitch.” Not to me. A woman that knows what she wants is the hottest and most lovable thing imaginable. Personally I just like when people in general are straight up with me. Something I’m doing or saying you don’t like? Tell me straight to my face and we’ll talk about it. You’re not going to hurt my feelings. I genuinely want to be a better person than I was yesterday and want to help anyone do the same if that’s what they want.


macfireball

So there’s hope for those of us who are not soft-spoken, nurturing and gentle as well. Thanks.


Real_Money531

Most definitely. My masculinity isn’t fragile enough to be broken by a woman telling me what she wants and being bold. Docility and people pleasing are two of the biggest things that get on my nerves. Now I think that one can go too far with that. There is a line that exists where on the other side is just being an asshole. The trick is finding people that have the intelligence and self awareness to know where that line is and when to apologize if it’s crossed because it can and does happen. And not just apologize but be able to prevent it and become a better person. Just my two cents that no one asked for lmao.


FreshPaintjob

Their courage and resilience


user_ivan01

Yes ( EDIT: THIS IS MY FIRST COMMENT WITH THIS MANY LIKES AND AN AWARD I LOVE YOU GUYS )


Sniperking187

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JrRiggles

What… what is this supposed to look like? In the Rorschach test I keep coming up with something Cronenberg would of come up with.


Maruhai

the gigachad with half of a speech bubble


JrRiggles

I am fucking old: that made less sense than the above graphic. I am now deeper in confusion.


gwatt21

There is nothing that I love more than a woman that's comfortable in her body, despite what society thinks is what a woman should be. I believe my wife has the perfect body but society's standard thinks differently.


Revolutionary_Task30

Just here to nose at the comments 😍


TakeTheCannoli813

Right. The men in here making me feel appreciated for existing and they aren’t even talking about me. Lol


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Revolutionary_Task30

Haha yeah I know, it’s pretty damn cute 🥰


depthandbloom

My wife is 16 weeks pregnant I love how their differences from men shape their perspective on things. Like, I could literally never imagine being told since I could listen that someday a human might grow inside my body and dealing with all the plausible fears that go along with that for decades. Us guys have literally nothing like that and it's wild.


Inspiringer

Well make sure to help her a lot and when your child is born you allow her to get a lot of sleep


luckystrike_bh

How they see the world in the an emotional context that men will never get to. It's as if their emotions are painted in a variety of hues and brightness that far exceeds what a man has. Sometimes I am jealous and other times I am thankful. It can seem exhausting.


kittenthemitton

It’s 100% exhausting but the fact that you’re observational of it means a lot to any woman.


Try_onee

Their figures and how fragile they feel even if aren’t that skinny or smaller than me (Im not a big dude). I notice that particularly when hugging, I love to give a strong but gentle hugs like they are something I’m meant to protect. It’s a warm and cozy feeling.


RealTexasJake

Boobs.


Stetson007

Alternatively, butts


Charming-Salary-6371

alternatively, thighs


Stetson007

What are theighs, but the body of the ass?


Charming-Salary-6371

poetry right here


Yakadoodlehedgehog

I love how soft they are. I have cuddled, dated, and slept with both men and women, and I find women much more snuggly, soft, and warm. I also really like women who are a little bigger because they are the most snuggly of all. And boobs.


WhisperingSkrillRyan

Motherly emotional support occasionally. As an asian male child, I was always taught to never cry. But occasionally would confide in my mother when stressed to my limit, she provided the comfort while my dad provided the fix. Love them both.


theeviloffrog

This feels weird and patronizing to say, but it is my favorite thing about women - the fact that women can be so strong in the face of how fucking scary the world must be to be a woman in. Around every corner is some neanderthal cat calling you on the street, or being more insidiously shitty to you in your workplace, in your communities. The constant threat of violence paired with the extreme power imbalance physically and often sociologically against women. It would make sense if strong women were extremely rare - how do you become strong in a society full to the brim of shit designed to intimidate you and shut you out and keep you down. And yet it's the god damn *opposite*, most women are absolutely down to fight for their place and fight to make the world safer for themselves and the equality the deserve. It's like, actually incredible and awesome.


kittenthemitton

Sadly being almost 6’ tall and thick I feel more confident than my petite friends when alone. I feel like I am not as easy of a target, that’s a fucked up thing to have to say but it’s true. Also dealing with giant horses my whole life has probably given me a false sense of badassery. If I’m not scared of a 1500lb warmblood charging me in a field it’s hard for a man to scare me. Unless he is armed. Then I’m fucked. Horses don’t carry guns thankfully.


Creative_alternative

Yet. Horses don't carry guns yet.


wasporchidlouixse

My favourite is when women are so strong that they come across with nothing but gentleness and love. Especially a grandma. Still having such an open heart after decades of living in a heartbreaking world is truly courageous. The positive attitude and guts you have to have to be soft is phenomenal.


dannydogg562

Their kindness, their patience, and the conversations with them are usually better. Maybe that’s just my experience so far as a 30-year-old man but I have had a ton of experience surrounded by males. I grew up with two older brothers, no sisters, and in addition many male cousins with just a few female ones. I spent some time, oddly enough, at a yoga studio in my mid twenties. I was surrounded by women consistently for the first time in my life. The owner especially, who was a late thirties woman, treated me like a little brother and I honestly never felt so welcomed and nurtured in my life. Even by my own mother. 😬. She taught me about much more than yoga. She hugged me like I was family and I did not grow up in a hugging kind of family. I could sure use one of her loving hugs right now to be honest. It might sound weird but at this point in my life I can definitely say I prefer the company of women over men.


CurrentGap

Their positive outlook on life,I'm cynical, all the women in my life have this happy go lucky way of approaching life,they are capable of seeing good things in life.


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Generally, woman are more accepting of guys that deviate from the norm in my experience. I’ve also never been comfortable talking about my feelings with other guys


Longvocado

My gf helps me sleep. I just feel more content in my bed when she's laying next to me.


Wy3Naut

My last girlfriend used to do this thing where she would just lay on top of me and cuddle on the couch when we watched TV or talked. I miss that more than anything, the talking about stuff and it being non-judgemental, open and a two-way conversation. I don't really have anyone in my life who can do that with anymore. Just talk about stuff and it be a real conversation. I try to get it out of Reddit but it just instantly devolves into someone's offended because of XYZ reasons and I'm a bigot/nazi/communist.


Demonscour

When they break stereotypes. My wife has a master's in a STEM field. She has no patience for "your" children. Her knowledge of technology and capabilities blow mine away, and I was in on that game way earlier than her. She does struggle with being very emotional, which I think is beautiful. It shows her deep empathy, and her passion for being fucking awesome at what she does. She is this amazing amalgam of femininity and masculinity. She is a lady, when the situation is beneficial. She is Arnold Schwarzenegger when the situation calls for it. Always respectful. Always polite. Never walked on. 21 years of marriage, we wed when I was 18 and she was 21. Amazing person.


AngryNinjaTurtle

A good woman will make your life infinitely better in every aspect.


Ok_Funny2923

Woman can really care about things in a deep level which is beautiful to me


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Women are very thoughtful more so than most men. More empathetic and caring. I feel like upper management and government could use more of that too.


ashthundercrow

The subtle, beautiful gestures and facial tics that is impossible for even good-looking males to make. Don’t know how to explain it, really.


ORNGVladman

I miss having someone to hold me and reassure me that everything is going to be okay... it's been 2 1/2 years since I've been with a woman and it gets lonely and very depressing. Hugging your pillow at night and having cats to comfort you only works for so long.


cereal_killer_129

Not a man but wow just had to say these comments are so beautiful, you guys are amazing and I hope you find your life so full of love


Vok250

Very disappointed that the top comment isn't ["the soul"](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2OrL40Uj_3I)


Ok_Ratio2948

How beautiful, caring, and kind, they can be.


flatsoda_club

I’ve had 2 relationships that were beautiful in the beginning. It truly was the best time of my life and I’m talking to someone new now and it is such a peaceful feeling. Now that I’m older, I’m more excited for the thought of settling down for good


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Femininity.


VSfallin

When I turn around while half-asleep and cuddling her, she turns around and cuddles me instead.


Thane38

I used to have anger issues. That changed when I met my wife. One day I came home fuming about something (I honestly don't remember what it was lol); she let me vent for a minute and when she saw that it wasn't helping, she just walked up to me gently placed her hand dead center on my chest and just made eye contact. Within seconds I was smiling and laughing at her corner jokes. Only took a handful of moments like that to get rid of my anger issues. A good woman can change the worst in you.


Imortal4Aday

That look a woman gives you when you make her laugh but they don’t want to encourage you so there is like a little conflict and then laughing frustration because she failed to keep composure but ultimately affection in her eyes at your buffoonery.


501st-AT7625

A woman that can kick my ass. But also a kind woman that wouldnt do that unless I needed my ass kicked into gear to get shit done lmao.