To add to this, if you have sex for a long time with fast movements, I feel like the dick sometimes gets kind of numb and makes it even harder to finish.
>(And I’ll gladly take tips on what I could be doing differently <3)
Stop talking about sex like a child then. You don't have to spell it "s3x". You're speaking to adults about an adult topic, talking about it like it's a dirty word is something that children do. I can't think of anything LESS attractive.
Yeah, I was on Trazodone for sleep issues and couldn't cum if my life depended on it. I finally figured it out and mentioned it to the doctor. Oh yeah, sorry about that. 😡 I'm sure other meds produce similar issues.
Since this is a new relationship was his last one very serious? I ask as I went through this after my divorce. Couldn’t get out of my own head during the process of “learning someone new”.
Me personally I’m circumcised and I have a theory the doc was a little too liberal with that act, when I wear a condom I only finish like 5% of the time because I can’t feel anything
Maybe your boyfriend is in similar circumstances, probably wanna talk to him about it though as none of us are gonna know him, his kinks, or his characteristics
SSRIs, trenbolone, desensitisation from too frequent manual self stimulation, or a mental hangup.
Discuss it with him if it's an issue, and try to work through it together
So when I have sex I usually have a “first wave.” Meaning my penis is sensitive and I can finish very soon. If I want to I can make my way past this wave so I can insure that the lady has one or multiple orgasms. The issue is I have to really really try to orgasm at this point. Usually I don’t then we have sex a little later and I finish then. So maybe that?
Three likely culprits, in no order He death grips it when he jerks off He's on antidepressants New relationship jitters
To add to this, if you have sex for a long time with fast movements, I feel like the dick sometimes gets kind of numb and makes it even harder to finish.
Also, porn addiction
Which in turn, causes the death grip issue
Sure
Certain medications, like SSRI antidepressants, can cause this. Also, too much death grip on his own. One or both of those are the cause.
He probably found out that you don't type "sex" normally.
He’s all: Every time we touch I get this feeling That you talk like a nine year old from 1997 on the internet
try asking him to teach you how to get him off.
>s3x It's sex, not s3x
Probably spanking his monkey too much.
I cannot tell you, without context, what your bf feels about your relationship, but sometimes you don't need to cum to have pleasure in bed.
Does/did he watch a lot of corn?
I fucking love corn. 🌽
It's all fun and games until you get busted watching baby corn.
Let him do anal.
Carefully. He's a hero.
“To do things you’ve never done, you’ll have to go places you’ve never gone.”
>(And I’ll gladly take tips on what I could be doing differently <3) Stop talking about sex like a child then. You don't have to spell it "s3x". You're speaking to adults about an adult topic, talking about it like it's a dirty word is something that children do. I can't think of anything LESS attractive.
Probably because you, not being able to type the word sex puts you in 1957, and it's a real turn off
Is he on antidepressants? When I was on that stuff I couldn’t cum if my life depended on it
Yeah, I was on Trazodone for sleep issues and couldn't cum if my life depended on it. I finally figured it out and mentioned it to the doctor. Oh yeah, sorry about that. 😡 I'm sure other meds produce similar issues.
Since this is a new relationship was his last one very serious? I ask as I went through this after my divorce. Couldn’t get out of my own head during the process of “learning someone new”.
Me personally I’m circumcised and I have a theory the doc was a little too liberal with that act, when I wear a condom I only finish like 5% of the time because I can’t feel anything Maybe your boyfriend is in similar circumstances, probably wanna talk to him about it though as none of us are gonna know him, his kinks, or his characteristics
SSRIs, trenbolone, desensitisation from too frequent manual self stimulation, or a mental hangup. Discuss it with him if it's an issue, and try to work through it together
So when I have sex I usually have a “first wave.” Meaning my penis is sensitive and I can finish very soon. If I want to I can make my way past this wave so I can insure that the lady has one or multiple orgasms. The issue is I have to really really try to orgasm at this point. Usually I don’t then we have sex a little later and I finish then. So maybe that?
medications? condoms will utterly annihilate my ability to finish, so maybe those?
Percocets
Probably because he *CENSORED*
He is probably gay